Never Apologize For Being A Man

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[@Armendariz553]

This guy has helped me in so many ways, my girlfriend broke up with me not tp long ago, I was thinking about letting myself go until I found out about this channel, I've been so much better and improving myself more and more each day. Thank you!

[@sagemarleybaca4778]

Bro it's been the opposite for me I've been thinking about breaking up with my gf because she is a total Jess

[@backup9023]

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[@krutarth.p]

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[@diobrando3976]

@@sagemarleybaca4778 Do it.

[@alexandrejanke8278]

@@sagemarleybaca4778 do it

[@tejbruhathb9064]

Do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it

[@victor_wet_bananas]

ong 💯🙏

[@danieli.9171]

Especially.

[@JasaiCoatney]

Thx chief

[@paulie33]

this always helps

[@frylo4559]

smooch

[@Kanthide]

Hamza your on point here, i remember how i felt and what i did as a child was considered "bad" or out of control when all i really was doing was having fun with friends being a boy. But over the years me being me was beaten out of me physically and mentally by everyone around me. Being by myself for awhile and following my own lead blocking out the noise of the world has been the absolute best thing I've ever done as i find myself slowly becoming that little boy again that i lost so long ago i almost forgot about him. You only have one shot at this life, do the best you can everyday for you not for ANYONE else.

[@frostyflameff4003]

this is true for me too, to add on to when you said control, lemme just say, its their feminine, forceful, unnatural control

[@AnimeSlaps]

I swear the most dangerous part of self improvement is that you'll be attracting females that you never did, and you'll 'fall' for one. From there you slowly go back to your Jeffery ways because you're comfortable then you find that she's not interested and you wonder why.. then when she leaves you you realize how much you've fallen compared to when you first attracted her 🤷🏾‍♂️ be vigilant guys.

[@victothetop865]

These new thumbnails are some heat🔥

[@armydude1502]

New thumbnail editor needs a raise on god much better than the childish old ones

[@erickmoya1401]

I had a step-father who was a piece of shit. Drug addict, violent with my mother and with me, disgusting like a dog and so many worse things. He also had many manly parts. Sadly he was making such a job being a bad person that I ended up blocking in my life any male characteristic that would ever resemble him. I tried so hard to don't look at women sexually, to ever be aggresive to other men, etc. I have spent years healing and trying to love my own masculinity. Every man should not allow himself to give a bad example that would ever weaken masculinity in this world. We have to be able to use violence to defend and to attack, but using violence without need against innocents has weakened masculinity. Shit like "toxic masculinity" is here because of those who were not up to the strength god gave them

[@anikojonas8380]

My mum always told me that if someone wants to change you, you shouldn't let. Thank you for making this video, it's helpful for everyone, for us as well... I was always boyish during school and thinking about it as we grew up it changed me too and dropping into teenhood I started to struggle with my image, or basically anything related to myself because I was the same person as before, but for girls being pretty became important, being with the popular boys, etc and we start to become obsessed with it. It took me almost a decade after high school to accept that I'm fine on my own, I don't need validation from others and I should enjoy what I have and live my life. It feels good! So yes, thank you for making the video and wish you the best.

[@ishanchopra1618]

Society supports feminism ,submissiveness ,and dominates masculinity, we'll stay masculine not toxically but in a healthy way,Eid Mubarak ❤❤

[@STAIR_WAY14]

THAT'S NOT ENOUGH WE AS MEN NEED TO FIGHT BACK ALREADY

[@thepkturtle3276]

my girl i left because of these exact reasons is messaging me all day and i feel so bad i cannot go back to her. this is unbelievable that this video just came out, exactly what i needed to hear. thank you for doing what you do!

[@robo9466]

Yes, sometimes it is healthy to compare yourself to others, but also acknowledge that certain things are out of our control due to genetics, and comparing yourself to someone with superior genetics can give you unrealistic expectations that only demotivate you.

[@zombiekidcrazy]

You should never compare yourself period. Unless it is to study how someone is doing something so that you can mimick them, that is understandable and inspiring. Otherwise, no.

[@zankom417]

@@zombiekidcrazy did you not watch the video

[@nano6962]

Glad to join this community ! Can’t wait to become an Adonis

[@taleseylad1249]

I love your enthusiasm!!

[@pulkit6453]

Hamza Could please make a video on how to take pictures and in general how to level up you social media game. it would be really helpful for most of the Jeffreys like me who are trying to improve :)

[@sheeperman_]

my parents couldn't really care less how i act. they dont care about me. where i am, what i do and how i do. i have been put in boys-only schools because of the decisions of female femenine people who are from above. nothing i can do about it. im moving to highschool when summer break ends. ive always been yelled at and punished when trying to show and be a man. and show my musculinity. its so bad. school is so bad.

[@Abc-me2cx]

u should pump ur mom she would care after that

[@Twtgod]

A man is someone who isn't afraid of his TESTOSTERONE

[@achilles7736]

Right now I am feeling soooooooo grateful for naturally having rejected all kinds of influence of my teachers to get me to be more feminine and never having felt bad for competing with others.

[@JMTechZ]

😢 all i got from this video is commit to your mission and how many of us when thru our 20/30 ‘s were in the blind not making a mission on our life.. then we get to a point stuck with bills, bad relationships and its not our fault.. many times we are living our parents life or what generations of bad decisions.. we gotta break that chain and find ourselves no matter the age or place.. lets become more man and accountable for ourselves

[@rajinhossain5742]

I remember play fighting w my classmates at recess in 1st grade and I got suspended for it

[@Vhaken]

God damn you inspired me so hard recently to just use my exiting channel to start posting my knowledge about these kind of topics as well as fitness and nutrition as that's what I'm qualified in. Helping other young men who have been down and out, depressed and even self-harming at some points like I was transform their lives to the kind of place I feel I'm in now where I feel driven, fit, attractive, confident, focused and masculine, that's my fucking mission and god damn it fires me up.

[@MeinungMann]

I'm going to hit the gym tomorrow. Wish me luck bros. Been in gym 3 years ago for a couple of months, quit it because of feeling insecure to wear T-shirt at summer. Now I'm much more confident that I used to be.

[@Writer7396]

Hamza, Thank you for this raw truth. You have pulled me back from becoming feminine and complicent. I had relationships and I broke them because of my purpose. I thought I was bad but looking back they were holding me back. Letting them go and becoming more masculine is fulfilling me. I'm at level where I attract similer people like me. One of them alligns with my purpose. Becoming a better man than my father or ancestors could ever be. I am now leading a person that has more potential than younger me. He was influenced by Jeffreies. He was going on a downhill in life so I lent a hand. He accepted a second time and now I got the knowledges from you, Hamza. So, I WILL make him become more confident, more social and more masculine. We will grow together. I am grateful and thankful for your relentless efforts to spread the message, Hamza and Sam. Keep conquering the obstacles especially when they're difficult.

[@noahmulawin4350]

It's coming across hamza, it just takes time for all of us to get to that point where it makes complete sense

[@bhaveshpingale8803]

Sophisticated masculinity is what u need , being loud is just uncontrolled savageness , and we know , a quit man is way more dangerous than a loud one

[@RandomVex]

How about a vid about lies society tells us explicitly or implicitly

[@robertvilain1920]

I love you for walking away so that you could fulfill your purpose. Every man will second guess themselves, but it is up to us at the end of they day to follow through with the decisions we make and see that we succeed as much as we can

[@oddy1637]

Perfect timing. Someone thought they shut me down because I applied real logic and told the truth. But the truth is, now I am free and I rejected joining them ever again.

[@illhaqu777]

I used to always put up fights with my teachers and other "authorities" and let me tell you, I dont think it made me more masculine 😅 breaking rules on the daily didnt make me a better or stronger Person I dont think

[@floofygod]

It didn't make you masculine, arguing with your teachers WAS masculine. Whether or not it was healthy.

[@orion3237]

@@floofygod what about argumentative women? Are women supposed to be submissive and never argue with people or what? How is being assertive more "masculine" than "feminine" and not just an individual character trait?

[@dilon7972]

Hamza, i have a friend that is always talking about how "ugly" he is and that no one likes him and things like that, i know he's genuinely a good person inside and i like hanging out around him, but once he starts saying those things it's like he's transfering his negativity into me. He's the kind of people that eats cheeseburgers and drinks Soda while playing video games 24/7, i already tried to convince him to change his habits and become a better person, but he always mocks me for trying to help him. I know i should cut off with he, but seeing him that down bad makes me feel pity for him and i don't want to make his situation any worse I'm really confused in what to do next, so i will just leave a comment in one of your videos, hoping that someone could give me advice.

[@aarankayse160]

Except it's worse when that person is your older brother!

[@glazzery6765]

thank you

[@Oahnay14]

Fire thumbnail my dude

[@kanishkniverthi2157]

Hamza, great video. One of the most interesting points in your video was the point regarding comparison and competition. I do agree that comparison is a healthy and natural part of dealing with people, but I do want to point something out. I do believe that a distinction needs to be made between your point and my point, which I will elaborate on: I did a 1 hour long journalling session, in which I tried to dig deep into my insecurities. This is also while I'm reading the book Psycho-Cybernetics. I realized that most of my insecurities stemmed from ego, and me attaching my self-esteem to things like girls, my performance in sports (I am a Premier Level Club Cricketer in Canada and Singapore), my popularity and other things. It was through journalling in which I realized I was attaching my self esteem to competing to impress people. After realizing this, I thought much more clear, and adopted the points of Maxwell Maltz (There is no inferior/superior, there is only YOU) and Jordan Peterson (Compare yourself only to the man you were yesterday, because humans are so multi-faceted and multi-dimensional). Hence, while I really do believe that men should compete, I really do think sociaety has come up with the bs that "Don't compete with others" as people haven't realized the root of the problem; attaching your ego and self worth to specific external things. How do you feel about this? Do you think there is a difference between comepting and comparing?

[@iknowilookdumbwhenisaythis5593]

I was punished in school for liking heavy metal, action movies, combat sports, tattoos, motorcycles. All pretty natural boy-interests, if you ask me. We had to write a story as an essay, and I wrote a horror story, I got punished for that also. They forced me to go to many different psychologists, because they thought something was wrong with me, that I would grow up to be a wife-beater or violent person. Now looking back I was just a fucking boy, and I got punished for being a natural boy.

[@hansemanse1935]

Lets goooo, a New video

[@samihindi]

"Do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it" - Adonisss

[@DavidHernandez-wj4en]

They lifted up their heads for the kiss at exact same time lol. Nice vid btw

[@khajaarjaniahamed8805]

Good on you for prioritizing your purpose Hamza, whatever it is. Say what you will but it is not masculine to feel proud about causing someone to experience heartbreak for no fault of their own. Whether or not you did right by ending those relationships is beyond me, but you sure as hell could have avoided getting into them in the first place.

[@joelstephenson8017]

Wouldn't you say that you shouldn't get into a relationship until you've completed your missions? Specifically the ones you need to keep away from relationships to fulfill? Personally, I have not pursued any woman as yet because I'm not around enough of them to find one that aligns with my purpose. As for casual relationships, I am not decided on the morality of it, but I'm inclined to think they might be ok. Some guys need to either be monks or only have casual relationships with that being made crystal clear to the girl they are into.

[@jackmaks]

The thumbnail gives me bollywood vibes.

[@mrman5066]

thank you for being so active and helpful on youtube.

[@vxrtex6460]

There is something that really suprised me. Because i go to an all boys school bc my mom claims that im to focused on girls. But, that's besides the matter. Even though i go to an all boys school, there are still female teachers there, but a little. So one time, me and my friend was being to loud and a woman teacher came in and told us to be quiet. LIKE ISNT YOUR OBJECTIVE TO MAKE MEN MASCULINE. YOU LITERALLY JUST TOLD ME AND MY FRIEND TO SHUT UP.

[@nafixer]

Eid Mubarak brothers 🎉

[@zombiekidcrazy]

From personal experience, DO NOT listen to what Hamza has to say about comparison. Comparison WILL drain your energy and lower your self esteem. It will produce nothing useful. Believe me, I spend many days comparing myself to others and the only thing it has caused is pain and depression. Compare yourself against your values. Against what your ideal self is, not against your friends. I couldnt help but shake my head when he said this. It's some pretty fucked up advice.

[@zombiekidcrazy]

Forgot to make one thing clear: I am speaking about comparing yourself with the intention of belittling yourself. Not about comparing yourself to mimick someone successful while still maintaining your self esteem in tact.

[@Damesanglante]

That was so cringe...

[@TheFrontierStudio]

Absolutely incredible video

[@thescottishanimeguy9946]

15:03 can vouch for this. Today I spent 4 hours watching TV when I knew i should have been working. I felt substantially worse then when I did the hard work.

[@JasonActualization]

Never disown your male desires! -Jason

[@Andromeda15599]

Hamza stop apologising, you are not arrogant, you are speaking the truth. If that offends some jeffrey that’s their problem.

[@skifun3613]

You are giving us young men what our fathers should have given us… thank you

[@krishmahesh4148]

Stop saying “I sound arrogant” cuz you don’t, what your saying is the truth

[@RLwarr]

hamza. Bro. I have the exact same problem for more then a decade now...

[@Sankn-1]

this is so accurate before I came to a strict dogshit laws country I used to be sooooo much more manly but now I do what the law wants/ teachers/ bosses

[@Jetzt100]

The big mission for me is to become financially independent to secure the life of my family and chose to spend my time freely on becoming better to ultimately change the world to the better. Money equals freedom. With enough money I can buy a shit load of rain forest and therefore secure the lungs of the earth! Don’t touch my shit!

[@mirzamuneeb0]

8:48 but hamza if two people havent lived in the same environment they havent gone through the same shit how can u compare them like obvio a dog raised in a jungle is gonna be more wild than the one raised in a small home

[@juanpaz5124]

If you're polite you're a Jeffery now? Adonis swears at the teacher 😂

[@mhencho]

Not related to the video but can anyone suggest me some tips or methods on how to have a more masculine personality. I'm currently 16 on my summer holiday after GCSE and for most of my life in social interaction I've just always acted feminine. For a while I've been making firm progress as an individual, working on projects, getting a job, staying consistent with calisthenics and the gym as well as starting martial arts. I'm advancing in a more masculine lifestyle and have made substantial progress already. A problem that I've been trying to figure out for a few months now is gaining a masculine personality. I look 24 at 16, have a beard, imposing stature and seem masculine all until I open my mouth. My voice is high pitched but I can work around that, however my personality ESPECIALLY around women and girls, is that of a high school girl, my personality is an oxymoron to my appearance. I've been raised and conditioned by women my entire life and have never had any strong masculine role models around me often to be influenced by. I'm trying to undo the femininity and up the masculinity but the feminine personality is just subconscious and probably core to me at this point. I'm sure I can solve this overtime but any help to point me in the right direction would be MASSIVELY appreciated.

[@user-eh2eu5wb3s]

Spend more time around men (not jeffreys) This one is very important, get out of your comfort zone. Go and do things you're afraid of, or things that seems tough. Go mountain biking, try surfing, fencing, boxing, rock climbing, there's so many things you can do that are hard and will get you out of your comfort zone. And lastly, believe that you are more masculine. Hamza talked about this, but you need to believe that you're more masculine so you end up being more masculine

[@user-eh2eu5wb3s]

Good luck brother

[@mhencho]

@@user-eh2eu5wb3s greatly appreciate the tips. I’ve grown substantially in the past 2 weeks. If i feel anxious/uncomfortable about a certain thing it instantly becomes a MUST for me to conquer that fear and GET IT DONE. So far I’ve been able to tackle all my anxieties successfully. I intend to compete in amateur fights probably around next year since im 2 weeks into muay thai rn haha. But I’ll take your advice and actively start looking for another tough af challenge to take on. I don’t have any personally know predominantly masculine people and I don’t really click like that with my friend groups, however im sure as i continue going to muay thai class every week the lads there will have an influence on me as i get to know them all. I’m going to have to put some conscious effort in maintaining a masculine personality at work tho since I’m the only dude there most of the time. Thanks for the advice, very valuable

[@anwin4505]

@@mhencho hello bro I'm year 10 have u got advice for me. What would u have done.

[@mhencho]

@@anwin4505 im assuming you’re talking about GCSE crossing with self improvement. Next year will probably get stressful, i started revising properly from March 1st, 3h a day which was the same time i took Self improvement SERIOUS. Although i got good revision for paper 1s i did burn out on exam months and literally had 2 or 1 day revision sessions for paper 2 and 3s. My self improvement went out the window and i got into a fustrating mental health rut and my self improvement crashed from May until the final day of GCSE. If i had another go at approaching year 11 this is what id do, and what I recommend you to do. To reduce revision pressure start watching 1-3 GCSE revision clips a day on whichever subjects you look to improve or get good with and balance them out. Please start ASAP and at least by JANUARY. I PROMISE it will save you from HELLA pressure. GCSE will get in the way of self improvement inevitably so whenever that happens I recommend only keep two self improvement practices, ideally one being fitness. For me it was calisthenics and my craft (drawing) to improve on and also plan out a good roadmap for your self improvement as soon as GCSE ends and Summer holiday comes. This will be a test of patience and a reward of delayed gratification. My holiday started 2 weeks ago and ive fucking charged with my self improvement at my goals:Gym, Job, Socialising, Drawing, Part time job, Piano, started Muay Thai and have made insane progress already, feels like a months worth of work, i feel like a new man haha. It’s freaking amazing! So trust me bro, do the mini revision sessions asap to ease the GCSE pressure. And when the pressure inevitably comes, keep 2 self improvement practices until GCSE ends. And if my advice saves you from the potential burn out and mental health rut, you can FUCKING CHARGE with your self improvement in the summer holiday with the plans you made during the wait. Ive made so much progress straight out of a mental health rut, so the progress you would make would be IMMENSE. I wish you all the best bro. You have a bumpy road ahead next year so please consider my advice to ease it. Tough it out warrior

[@ishfaquelmiah2759]

Thank you

[@ProGamez262Archived]

This video speaks to me, except im not that feminine

[@bobmicky5385]

Opinion on Andrew Tate????

[@The_FatGeneral]

Wondering too

[@Vic-dt2fj]

Bro looking like a South Indian actor in the thumbnail 😳

[@ibrahimprove2006]

Society berates the winners and comforts the losers to the point that you feel ashamed to win. Never feel ashamed of being happy about the results of your hard work.

[@anpeditz5043]

so fuckin true bro I actually have no financial issues but I feel as I should have them .

[@dhruwin.morekar1606]

truee

[@mateo2724]

I think it’s better to grow up weak and become masculine later on than to be a natural born chad. All the natural born chads are used to getting girls and being popular so they don’t really feel the desperate need to improve, and a lot of them end up peeking in high school or college and not doing anything else with their life. But those of us who have been at the bottom know just how terrible it is and will work hard to improve ourselves and achieve the life we want.

[@gentlesavage3808]

"The wolf at the top of the hill is not as hungry as the wolf climbing the hill"

[@willd3402]

a true chad would know that he always needs improvement

[@marcwilliamsvaldez9328]

I think is just necesary the drive to be better or curiosity to experiment and be better, bc i have a "chad" friend that fits the description completely and he has not gone soft bc he knows his limits and whats capable of, he actually will start a career in politics soon

[@PB22559]

All this chad, adonis and jeffrey talk is getting a bit tiresome.

[@Gods.strongestsoldier]

@@PB22559 be adonis stay hard

[@DhammaReflections]

Men, I want you to know this masculinity or urge to compete and so on is never gone from you. It’s always inside of you, it’s just blocked and you know exactly what negative core beliefs block it.🙏🏾

[@taleseylad1249]

that explains why men are love video games video games is the only place he can compete without getting backlash

[@link1864]

@@taleseylad1249 Naah I feel like video games are more the only place you can win because you are probably a loser

[@RageForSeven]

I have to say that as a 45 yo man, it hurts me to see what you guys are going through and had to go through. When i was young, i would come home with cuts, bruises, bleeding..etc..my mother would scold me for having blood on my clothes, my dad wouldn't even bat an eyelid. There was no "boys will be boys" or "let him be a boy" talk. None of that BS. We were all like that. It wasn't an option, it wasn't even considered that boys would be anything else. My legs are full of scars from my youth. I had marbles embedded below my skin, rocks everywhere, branches slashing my face, walls "kissing" my skull, was quite friendly with 2 nurses between age 12 and 15yo!! I kicked and punched and fought with my best friends, we would challenge each other until we would puke, totally bullying the ones who failed. No kid i was with would openly complain about being bullied or things would get even worse. Safe space....go kick rocks!! There were losers and winners and you'd better be on the winners side because until you did, things weren't always peachy. I am sure every single man of my age tried shaving his face when he was 10yo, usually with his grandfather, because that was "what men did" and because mine fought in WW2 and i had to be as tough as he was! Shaving chest hair, armpit hair, leg hair, ball hair...yeah sure, if you were a girl or else you'd be called "gay". You were told "you got hair to make foam with your soap". End of!! There was no prisoner, there was no 2nd thought, there was no apologies. I know no one who was asked to apologize, either by parents or teachers, for being physical with another boy. Teachers were physical too, you knew exactly when things were about to get dicey...once in a while you didn't give a crap and you crossed that line. Same with parents. A day without a back of a hand was odd and i was well disciplined to be fair!! As soon as any of us could grow something that would have resembled a "beard", we all did it. That was our battle sign, our creed, you got beard = MAN!!! Puberty and acne only meant that we were getting closer to being men. I know no one would went to see a doctor to treat acne, water and soap was all we had. School holidays meant you had to work, public transport, or bicycle or foot. I can count on 1 hand the number of fat kids i was with in every single grade, most of us were lean and physical because, like in the animal kingdom, we knew the bigger, stronger, taller one would get the girls. Everything was a competition, i jumped (often quite frightened) from stupidly high cliffs, i swam in stupid cold water or over stupid distance, i would jump off my grandpa boat and swim back ashore, climb trees as high as i could,etc..etc..etc..and i never thought twice about it. Clothes were something you threw on so that you wouldn't go naked, nothing else. Cold, wind, rain, heat, didn't matter as long as you didn't trash your clothes cause you knew your mom would get pretty active when you were back home. We wouldn't see each other over summer holidays but as you grew older you knew you had to level up during summer because others would. Only a few of us cared about girls before we were 18yo, girls were found at university and because we knew we would have to compete with real men then, we all took real good care of being (early) men by end of highschool. We had honor and a strict code, we knew how things could quickly go south but if you were heading that direction there was only 1 option: man up, right or wrong!! A handshake was a game to see if you could crush the other guy's hand whilst looking into his soul. I remember telling a teacher when i was 18yo that she had to mind her manners and how she talked to us since some of us were legal adults. Nothing happened, she look surprised but also, weirdly, accepting. No one called my parents, i wasn't called to the directors office, none of that BS. Thinking about it i also told a teacher (same year) that he was full of crap and he wasn't teaching us but vaguely paraphrasing the textbook...same result Now i have a 10 yo son and he is being brought up that way. My wife used to challenge me about it until i told her that if that was so bad then why did she marry me since i have always been like that. Since then she has opened her eyes more and sees the danger that society is to young boys (and girls too with premature over sexualisation). Being a man was earnt, no given because you were legally of age. It you were a scrawny little piece of work at 18yo, you were never a man. Oddly, considering how much of little shits we were, people cared about us, how we grew up, how we matured (in the true sense of the word), how we became men. Society nowadays doesn't give a rat's ass. If you don't have a man as a role model in your family it is quite difficult to find your way. Remember this, when shit hits the fan, society won't care if you are an influencer, you shave your body hair, you use beauty products, your a player or anything else. They will put you in front of incoming bullets, so you might as well train yourself with incoming fists!!!

[@ArthurMarrero]

@RageForSeven thanks for sharing your experience, i can almost grab the memories in my hands. I feel how it was in your days.

[@RageForSeven]

@MillionaireMindsetTate thanks man, it must have resonated with you since you are the only one who commented!!! and i approve of your YT channel name, let's go!!!

[@FocusedBunnY]

Just wanted to say Your son is lucky to have a father like you. Mine was busy working outside the city most of my childhood the result being a man raised like a girl, Can't blame my mum though she did her best.

[@RageForSeven]

@@FocusedBunnY My father was only at home to eat and sleep, the rest like you away working. I can recall a year when i heard him but maybe saw him 10% of the time. I knew he was about, so i had to keep it "together"..still, i was a little shit!!! he picked me up by my neck once and i pissed my pants, i can picture it even now!!! My mother was heavy handed, she had to. I think my luck was that she was raised in a family of army boys, 2 brothers, a (also) mostly absent father fighting all around the world, so she had pretty strict views. As far as my son (and my daughter) is concerned, he hasn't got a choice and he doesn't really know anything else. not so long ago he spent 2 weeks with my parents, when he came back the 1st thing he told me was "now i know why you are the way you are"...didn't have to say more, i knew exactly what he meant!! 🙂 The most interesting thing is that as long as you are fair, show love and interested in your kids growth, they will understand why being soft all the time isn't the right way forward, so now he thinks he is a ninja and (tries to) jump me...he watched a couple of boxing video and thinks he "is him" to quote him. Point is, regardless how you were raised, i do believe that at some point you will realize if there is an issue and will adjust it, not only for you but also for your children. Children are the magic potion, they make you look into your soul and question who you are and what they mean to you, they will make you a better person because you owe it to them.

[@RageForSeven]

@@ArthurMarrero hey man, thakns for the comment, i only saw it today. Sorry for not replying. Yeah it was fun, i think social media killed all the fun sadly!! At least i have some great stories to tell.

[@marvinfrankson7542]

Apologies will stunt the respect you will receive, if you haven't done anything wrong. Detrimental

[@andreamura1333]

Women dont demand apologies to winner when they do something wrong...they demands them from losers for no reason, the problem is not the behaviour but your value.

[@nickp3949]

Not true at all. A few months ago, a girl that was clearly lower value than me demanded an apology for something that was a misunderstanding. She was so demanding about it, sending me paragraphs of text explaining everything. I just ghosted her. Maybe she perceived me as lower value than her? It’s possible, but I don’t really care what she thinks to be honest. I know for a fact based on the way I live my life and the standards I have set for myself that I’m higher value than she is.

[@losttofoundmen8307]

This video hits home with me. Remember growing up being told to sit down, shut up, and to be a good boy. It fucked my life up just like a lot of other guys that grew up in this generation. Us as men are important, we matter. Not from some self help shit saying "your okay the way you are" No, men are literally the building blocks or society. The feminists can comply all they won't, but if/when our society becomes so effeminate, and we're basically all women at this point, another society full of barbarian testosterone filled tyronts ain't gonna give a shit about some gender wage gap, or patriarchy. All they care about is killing our weak men, and using our woman as slaves to extinct us

[@losttofoundmen8307]

@Light Yagami zyzz will be missed

[@losttofoundmen8307]

@Light Yagami you too man. Always looking to collaborate with other kings

[@TheTrueAdonis]

Isn’t that what China is doing to USA

[@losttofoundmen8307]

@@TheTrueAdonis from what I've gathered, pretty much. And it'll most likely be more like Russia inviting the UK

[@jackcranmer4904]

I remember in highschool i started to notice the feminisation of young men but didn’t think much of it. Well a year in I started becoming more feminine and weak. However one man changed that for me, my drama teacher. He was an older guy who was swole as fuck and would tease and bully everyone who walked into his class, students teachers and anyone. And while some thought it was bad behaviour something just felt right about his way of being. His influence grew on me and I could tell I was one of his favourite students because he got me into the gym, he taught me how to get started and so much. I’ll forever be grateful to him.

[@Gods.strongestsoldier]

adonisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

[@gsainoy]

phenomenal role model

[@manzanapvp7106]

I remember I had a notebook (a personal notebook, not even related to school) filled with military and soldiers drawings which a teacher confiscated telling the whole class about it and how we should never become a soldier because it's some shit related to "toxic man traits", but here I am training and watching your videos to become a soldier, thank you hamza and it's team for the effort you make

[@BasedKashmiri06]

My teacher always waffles on about “toxic masculinity.” It’s so damn annoying.

[@SergeantAngel]

I think toxic masculinity is real but exaggerated.

[@simonnnnn1687]

@@SergeantAngel you won´t call someone toxically masculine when intruder breaks into your house and man protect 😀

[@SergeantAngel]

@@simonnnnn1687 “Protecting your family is toxic and egotistical.”

[@chiwawaeye7873]

@@SergeantAngel Nah i dont agree with this. I feel like "toxic masculinity" is attributing toxic traits to and only to masculinity. Which i disagree with when i thing of someone masculine it is someone that is strong, brave, and respectful (there are more but imma list a few). That in itself is not toxic. People use the example that the dad tells his son to not cry not express his feeling but when this happens it isnt just men. Mother, sisters, and girlfriends tell a young boy the exact same thing it not just the father that imposes that on its child that toxic trait isnt only expressible on male figures but rather everyone. So in my opinion Toxic masculinity doesn't exist but instead confused with Toxic traits. Edit: spelling

[@SergeantAngel]

@@chiwawaeye7873 That makes sense actually

[@lorenznadua4271]

Hamza is one of the best treasure I've seen in KZbin. This man truly awakened my life on how to be a true masculine man, thank you for making my life today confident and better than my past life.

[@OrestisSI]

Today, I'm grateful that I discovered Hamza. You are the reason I didn't let myself go many many times and always fought to not be my normal lazy ass self. You are the reason I'm trying to start an online business. You are the reason many young men did not take their own lives. We appreciate and we are grateful for your advice Hamza.

[@mateo2724]

Never apologize for being a man of God

[@paulie33]

amen

[@nKarje]

Being religious or beliving in a God is stupid.

[@budi6140]

@@nKarje i dont think so

[@jylobo1112]

@@nKarje Every one is an atheist until the plane starts crashing

[@bohansolo]

@Jylobo wisdom.

[@businessman1912]

This is so great. I recently spoke up to a teacher after he refused to pick up a pen someone had accidentally dropped (it was literally in front of the teacher and on the other side of the student’s table). He was quite displeased and people disagreed with the decision I took, yet they all agreed that what the teacher did is unforgivable. “You shouldn’t argue with teachers”, they say. I disagree.

[@aarankayse160]

Society trained us to be submissive. The only "safe place" men cannot be submissive without a backlash is playing video games, that's where we show our masculinity secretly. Connect the dots bro!

[@businessman1912]

@@aarankayse160 I think that, sadly enough, there’s a lot of truth in what you say.

[@CaptainFracture]

It’s not let Boys Be Boys. it’s Let Boys Be. Be yourself men and be self aware while doing it. Society has taught us to doubt ourselves from expectations to downright sexism. You don’t need to be the societal definition of being a “man” you need to be you.

[@MassachusettsTrainVideos1136]

Be yourself is terrible advice. What if you are a loser or a piece of shit asshole? Why should you be yourself? Be your best self is much better advice.

[@MassachusettsTrainVideos1136]

Be yourself is bad advice be your best self is better I am sorry if this comment is duplicated youtube put a warning up because my first comment had swears

[@CaptainFracture]

@@MassachusettsTrainVideos1136 because you can’t always be “your best self” being okay with yourself is the first step into being your best self. Stop trying to misconstrue what I’m saying. The first step with accepting ANY FLAWS is being okay with being yourself THEN you can try to be your best self.

[@ubaidbutt9709]

There's a lot I can point out. What you are saying strengthens the belief that gender is a social construct. That every man can have his own definition of what it means to be a man. Like for one guy shaving armpit hairs has no effect on his masculinity, for other it does. Be yourself means that a man can choose to be feminine, which I believe you would not be okay with since we are under the comment section of a channel that promotes machismo under disguise of "self improvement." So what is "boys being boys" or "let boys be" all about? Does that mean letting boys get into bloody brawls? We encourage men to be violent and then cry about male homicide rates. Many people justify cat calling and sexual harassment as something "men do" or "boys will be boys." So what it really means to let boys be? Whatever you gonna point out, also explain why those traits can be found only in men, esp heterosexual men, and not gays or women. I feel like the easiest way to trick men is to make them feel weak. Then you can sell them anything you want.

[@dimasskarabas]

@@ubaidbutt9709 Let's face it. Absolute most urban and suburban men do not harass women or catcall. The only ones that believe that it is male nature are village Willys. In fact, sexual harassment and/or catcalling is a show of a man's weakness. A strong man respects men AND women. A strong man can hold his sexual urges. Cat-calling and sexual harassment is what weak men, like you, do.

[@riri2719]

As a young boy myself, this is literally saving my manhood, i get the luxury of understanding this before its too late and i get to “Pass the test” i cannot explain how grateful i am to know this so young, Hamza has reawakened my masculinity and i feel like i can stand on my own two feet, i was already very masculine but was punished for it, now i am reawakening it but having more control over it.

[@gamingwithnoor158]

Yeah me too I'm 12 years old and I keep on getting punished by my teachers and some are male too and guess what? there all overweight feminine the complain about there jobs and they say if you don't go to college you will be a bum and whenever I try to use logic against them they use pathetic comebacks with no reason behind them boys and men are designed to be determined competitive and masculine.

[@ThriveUp1]

I agree with some things you say but a child swearing to a teacher is not masculine behaviour,it’s immature.

[@B1gBossMan]

We can't expect boys to be mature you said it yourself, a child.

[@Cobrawolf2024]

The truth is hamza ur awesome because without you my life would be fucked

[@OfficialZerv]

“You have to break yourself to reshape yourself. You can do that thing you’ve wanted to for years, you just haven’t sacrificed yet.”

[@acegamingclan4828]

Bro I got banned from playin soccer cause I was “too aggressive”

[@rookierocksolid8536]

I was doing pull-ups on the pull-up bar at school and we had to go inside but my friends went like:"can you reach the highest bar?" so I tried I jumped and made it so I went slowly down from the bar and noticed, one of my female teachers was calling me so I went to her. She tried to give me a DETENTION for doing PULL-UPS I even stood up for my self and wasn't even intimidated for such a silly thing which made her want to punish me more. So you know what I did? I ignored her, went to class and told myself If I get detention for doing a pull-up I won't be there to be punished.

[@londonfinklea8471]

This man is changin my life as a 15 yr😂

[@HassanPoyo]

I wish I knew about this at 15. I’m 22 and still learning.

[@londonfinklea8471]

@@HassanPoyo keep pushin my brother💪

[@HassanPoyo]

@@londonfinklea8471 likewise

[@siuuuuuu-rs8ez]

Im also 15 lol. Im so glad i found him because he was the motivation i needed

[@timotejgaming9338]

Mine to bro

[@fikrad0]

Eid Mubarak 💛 to all of you guys

[@harisjaved994]

Eid Mubarak 🌙 🇮🇳

[@arhumahmed1224]

Eid Mubarak

[@TheREALHugo4]

I don't apologize. I live with being a man of my characteristics, what i strive to become.

[@amar9792]

Mom: Eat your food its not that raw The food: (That thumbnail)

[@pranava3175]

LMFAOO

[@reformedsaber1936]

Can you talk about Andrew Tate and what your opinion on him is?

[@omar9531]

Sorry bro I love you but this is a terrible video you're littrely bragging that you broke up with a girl to go to Thailand and how they still text you and you act like you're the only one who got hurt not the poor girls that literally got heartbroken for no reason

[@felipe-uf1bg]

Speaking about school,I remember that once,in a PE class we were playing volleyball,and there was a girl who played really bad,she didn't even try to play well. I told her to at least try,she got offended and started crying,I was forced to apologize 💀

[@Goursome]

Was she playing because she wanted to? Whatever the answer is you* don't have to say anything to her, tell the teacher that she might not want to play and play with people who actually want to be good at volley

[@jugoboss2026]

Was quite a feminine guy growing up, rather emotional and really hated confrontation. But having learning about masculine and feminine energy I can say wow, I just just emotional but I was feminine, that has changed and I now find my self feeling masculine, not like 100% I still have much to do, but I have become more masculine, being stronger, more stoic etc and I feel great! Been able to control my emotions a lot more, I’m getting stronger more disciplined and I just fell great! But alas I am no where near where I want to be but I am making progress and I can fell and see it.

[@suckoneczito04h51]

That's amazing keep going and never stop

[@CykPykMyk]

Then what exactly is masculinity? being rebel just for being rebel? a thief is masculine example? a burglar? a gang member? a murderer? abuser? these are masculine examples, because logically they won't follow the rules, which will make them "weak" ? so power is in abuse? abuse is masculinity? Really? Not being a good father, not being a good human being, not being good at your job, not being ambicious, not defending weaker? Really? Hamza, where do you go, what is your vector?

[@joe_zupko]

In kindergarten I was "beat down" to be quiet and stop running around Then as I got older I actually had the opposite problem. I was real into emo stuff and got made fun of for being "gay" Can ya do anything right? haha

[@joe_zupko]

@@Goursome the problem with that advice is that I like sleeping in and eating potato chips and watching porn. That stuff is no good, so there's gotta be a better determining factor

[@hypeinsaan]

Eid Mubarak hamza 🔝

[@XDSHIROX]

He looks like south indian movie hero in the thumbnail & if cars are flying in the background .

[@foxahnaf]

33:20 Now that's what I call the hustle culture, doing everything gets you to your mission. Tbh, I agree with this, I agree that *most* of your decisions should be based on your mission but the rest can, it can be based on other things like a bit of chilling *without doing the bad habits* and rest. But no, doing and exhausting yourself to work just to get that feeling of accomplishment is just a senseless thing. I tried it and the moment I tried it, I was getting so unrestful, so much anxiety, like feeling down bad when the thing I am doing for just 5 mins wasn't deserving my purpose. Dudes, don't hate me, it's my opinion. People vary. I feel stressed out when I do that 100% things that serve my mission, whilst in your case, it might not.

[@ErenYeager-kr9gu]

I agree with you 💯.

[@foxahnaf]

@@ZeKermet I am glad that my point is actually valid (not for all people) and relatable, btw happy b'day.

[@winstonpelloski6204]

How to raise Testosterone? Take more TESTS… aka CHALLENGES. My brother in Christ, it’s in the name. TESTosterone. It’s the challenge hormone. Do more challenging things and you’ll be more masculine. You’ll eventually become stronger and more fulfilled. Don’t apologize for taking on challenges and tests. Those are the things that will help you in the grand scheme of life.

[@borginburkes1819]

I got yelled at by my teacher once cuz my voice was “too deep”.

[@DavidEjeteh]

Men are needed in today's society. As a Christian there is one thing that needs to be said, a fool is not a man. If one reads the book of provers the bible is against several of the "masculine" things you mentioned. These include swearing, argumentativeness, and pride. I thin the main idea of this video is to allow for your inner masculinity to shine. But what got unspoken about is that inner masculinity is evil by nature, the way f man may seem right in his own eyes, but Christ looks at his soul. TO be fair I am only 5 min into the video and my opinion may or may not change. Keep up the good work Hamza.

[@yeti2237]

I kept thinking a long these lines but didn't know how to put it into words. There is a lot about Hamzas message that doesn't align well with Christianity.

[@DavidEjeteh]

@@yeti2237 I would agree

[@foreverarsenaltm5708]

If there was a Christian self improvement channel i would hop on the wave. I agree with everything u said tbf but at the same time we shouldn't accept the modern world's agenda or 'standards'. You could still do what Hamza is saying but to a lesser extent. Dont use it as an excuse to constantly argue and focus on peace , dont swear or be arrogant but moderate ur actions.

[@foreverarsenaltm5708]

also, i feel like the meditation that Hamza pushes may not be acceptable in Christianity so i just read the Bible and Meditate on God's word. Just cos hamza says it, does not mean that you cannot alter it so that it is acceptable in the eyes of Christ

[@DavidEjeteh]

@@foreverarsenaltm5708 I am starting the channel right now!

[@thesocialclub02]

Why doesn’t this nigga have a million subs yet smh 🤦‍♂️

[@guilhermmmendes3766]

Hello Hamza, My name is Guilherme, I’m a fifteen year old boy from the interior of Brazil. I’m thankfull for your work and you helped me build my current mindset and purpouse, structuring my priorities. However, I gladly and sadly will stop watching your videos, I feel fulfilled and ready to keep on with my mission and many “whys” in life. But modern technology takes no place in it and I’ll stay focused on my Ethos and in God. Through blood and hard work, structured by you in part, I’ll move on, my brother. With my dedication, faith, understanding of love and humility (Also developed skills through sacrifice and competition) I’ll go, live my blessed and beautiful life. Thank you, Hamza With love, Guilherme

[@B1gBossMan]

Im motivated to see someone my age "graduating" from hamza's videos. Stay focused brother, this is a lifestyle.

[@rokko1788]

I hope Hamza see's this, you've helped me more than you know :) Do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it

[@shivambhatia3973]

He probably won't care...

[@haunted_syrup3829]

@@shivambhatia3973 Jeffrey! Just be happy for the guy, he’s working hard and he wants Hamza to know.

[@rokko1788]

@@shivambhatia3973 ok

[@rokko1788]

@@haunted_syrup3829 yes :)

[@notavailableatthemoment7623]

THANK YOU!!! In this day and age, it is so refreshing to see this perspective

[@juanpablo4831]

Am glad to say when i was younger I couldn’t help being a young kid and i would always be in trouble with the teacher because i was being a masculine child

[@sibs1119]

I’m so lucky to have found your channel