Hating yourself is not tough or manly

[@Cinestudi0]

Dude, your 11yo video about feeling lonley just got picked by the algodrithm, cool to see you are still active, your content is valuable

[@muawwiz]

+1

[@Bramptonboy2006]

Lol I just saw that video

[@africanlipplateandbonenose3223]

women hate andrew tate because he speaks the truth. women absolutely hate being held accountable.

[@reflekshun]

@@africanlipplateandbonenose3223 if women hate Andrew Tate, why learn from him how to get women to love you?

[@blackpantherandfamily4342]

​​@@reflekshun Lol I have heard adrew tate said a couple of times from other people too, not only from him. It was aldready revealed before he reveal it

[@valenschillaci1848]

Hi, i come from the video about loneliness. 2024 will be our year guys!

[@nekroticknight1802]

Just got 12 yr old video about "thevideo guy who want to know why he is lonely" in yt recommendations. It was kinda old and raw but also kinda genuine video and thought you might have stopped uploading long ago so came to this channel just to see and found out you have been uploading since last 15 yrs still with same simplicity, it's still good to see people still choose to lead simple lives in this era. Best wishes from my side. And thank you for that "lonely guy video".

[@radfoo72]

I came here after the same reccomended video.

[@ilovejaypop7380]

@@radfoo72 same

[@supercoven1392]

@@ilovejaypop7380 same

[@Molecular-Brainwaves-Translate]

I started out looking for that old "Harry Potter "You're A F@gg0t"" video and I got recommended that "lonely guy" video. I think the algorithm connects older videos together. I don't know this for sure, but I just have a feeling that it's true!

[@youtubecurious9000]

I came here from exactly that same old video!!

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

I hate myself, but it has nothing to do with being tough or manly, it's simply because I was born with horrible luck.

[@Legenda20SLO]

Most of us is just depressed. Acting tough or manly is overrated, because there's no need to impress anyone, especially not a chick that wants you to live her life.

[@JESUS..IS..GOD.]

Have time for Christ? ‭‭ ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭6:10‭-‬18 says, Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints. The bible is no old book. You have to really let Christ open your eyes; to see the world in shambles. Many people say it's a religion to lock up people in chains, and say it's a rule book.. why? Because people hate hearing the truth, it hurts their flesh, it's hurts their pride, it's exposes on what things have they done..people love this world so much, s*x, money, power, women, supercars.. things of this world. Still trying to find something that can fill that emptiness in your heart. You can't find that in this world.. only in Christ, the bible is no chains, it's a chainbreaker. Breaking your sins into pieces... Repent now, and turn back to the true Lord only.. God bless.

[@aniruddhmishra4468]

11 years ago she helped us, here she is again.. good PPL✨❤️ Edit: MOM I AM FAMOUS

[@SpectateDrake]

@@Ciupanezu1923 kzbin.info/www/bejne/jZ-oqGeclNOqhtk with that fellow human. With that.

[@rubenrebenz1000]

Saw her post 11 years ago and had to see what happened to her.

[@roygalaasen]

Between 2 weeks ago and now 11 years turned into 12 years ago.

[@esatd34]

youtube algorithm magic... suggests you 12 year old video and you come and check her channel and see shes still doing the same thing today.

[@aniruddhmishra4468]

@@esatd34 true that

[@GGun1t]

As a person that’s went through quite a lot of self loathing in my teen years and early 20s, I couldn’t agree more with you

[@sirbughunter]

Been there, done that. Never again. Life isn't about finding reasons to be sad. It's about continuing the exploration of our world.

[@Lachronix]

so does self love actully work? and if so, how tf do you begin?

[@synthwave4087]

@@Lachronix well...by showing it. Try exercising. Show u respect yourself and care for your body :)

[@jinhye4]

@@Lachronix believe positive thoughts and question negative ones with, of course, realistic moderation so you don't go to the other spectrum of delusion. You're just a dude that things happen to and you can control how you react to them

[@Lachronix]

@@jinhye4 I c. Thank you.

[@Joshdifferent]

He’s a psychopath or sociopath that has made a large following on lost people who don’t know themselves

[@daze77gaming]

what he says isnt misogynistic from what ive seen

[@migueljuarez6788]

​@@daze77gamingHe's straight up said "Women are stupid" in multiple videos. He says they're sarcastic videos, but also had truthful videos about his cam business where he says the same

[@Altair-El-Haddad]

​@@migueljuarez6788where are the lies though?

[@jugadoraaa]

The hard part of putting all this to practice is realizing what you actually do to punish yourself. I used to self-sabotage (by neglecting my academic path and personal relationships) for years and it cost me a relationship with a wonderful person. When I realized what happened, the damage was done. I profoundly regret being that person and I'm sad that I HAD to go through that amount of pain to actually realize when it all started. Thinking back, I remember having some shorts moments of lucidity when i though 'something is wrong and Ishould act now or this will hurt' and sadly I chosed to ignore those thoughs with my bad habits. If any person reads this, please do not ignore those moments because you will regret it soo much that it will take you a tremendous amount of time to forgive youself.I know it is easy to hate yourself because it lets you do bad things that migh feel good at the moment but you're actually damaging yourself in the future. side note: I like this content, weirdly i knew your channel because of your video talking in spanish. Keep this up!

[@mrchihuahuaboy4306]

It’s little too late for me there bud I’ve ruined my whole life no going back now I know happiness is out there but I’m not sure what to do been stuck in the same place for years

[@jugadoraaa]

@@mrchihuahuaboy4306 Hey man, i get this. I don't really know what happened in your life since we all have very complex problems. The only thing I can think that may tell you is: start by the smalles thing possible. if you smoke 10 times a day for example: try to do it 9 times and be completely conscious of that. if you realize you can't do that. try smoking 9 1/2 cigarrets. I know is not a lot but the thing with this practice is that eventually tou realize that you are able to do things to make your life better. Also, you have to actually think be convienced that your WANT your life to be better. Think about that, if the answer is no then it is because you still hate yourself there is no other answer...In my case, hatred towards myself came from my past.Sadly, there is absolutely nothing i can do to change what i did before. It is irrational to keep punishing youself for things you litteraly can't change. this is why this video is relevant. As I said, it is easy to hate yourself because it allows you to keep the toxic path unfortunately, things can get worse. If you don't do anything, things will get much worse and you will end up damaging not only yourself but the people who might be around you and that's when you live in hell. I hope you find a way to get out of this situation man for real, it is exhausting and not fun to feel what you feel. Things can be better, you know it.

[@johnnylew9455]

I felt this. I believe you put into words what I have been feeling for a long time. I always tell myself that the hardest part of it all is that I am smart enough to know what I am doing is wrong and the reason why but still choosing to do the wrong thing.

[@overvault]

@@jugadoraaa im so happy for you man, keep working on it

[@zanderjordaan5078]

@@mrchihuahuaboy4306 Hey man, I have been where you are, hell, to an extent, a part of me is still there. Think back to when you were a kid, the times you fell when nobody was around, back then you were able to dust yourself off, push back on your tears and keep on walking, a little bruised, but ultimately okay, you are not so far removed from that kid, and if that kid could do it, so can you and so can the future you, if you work towards improving your situation bit by bit, eventually you'll be on dry land looking over the fields of endless possibility and look back at this ocean of self doubt and malicious obstructions you have placed on your path and be able to raise your middle fingers in the air and scream "Fuck you!" at that part of yourself that thinks you deserve to be hated, you will stand victorious and at the end of your war there will be no ruins, only the paradise you have fought for in your silent battles.

[@spacemafia69]

I'm actually glad there are people like this still on the internet. Keep going, Queen.

[@mphoanderson4605]

I’m so happy I found your KZbin. Your content is genuine and heartfelt. You keep eye contact with the camera and you are an amazing speaker. The topics you speak on are real or are sometimes just for fun. I love that. I like that your videos feel unscripted, like you’re not changing your personality to make your video seem more interesting. You talk as if you are friend who wants to give advice, make us laugh, or catch us up with what is going on with you.

[@HumanOfEarth81]

She strikes me as the kind of girl who simply made a youtube account for the reasons that youtube was invented for: to share your views and opinions and feelings and life with people who may be interested. Like you said: very genuine. Seriously a gem on this platform.

[@ranjittyagi9354]

@@HumanOfEarth81 absolutely. High quality content without any bells and whistles!

[@SToad]

@@HumanOfEarth81 Exactly my thoughts! This is what youtube was about when it started, Now it's all "content creators" trying to regurgitate the same garbage daily so they can meet their ad quotas and someday become rich.

[@davids4554]

Fantastically said. Your voice is needed in todays world. Thank you.

[@Kilemy___]

I'm glad your "To the guy who wants to know why he's lonely..." video popped up in my recommended earlier this year. Thank you for your advice once again.

[@nevarezcastillooscar2339]

This woman is the inner voice we all need. She has helped me a lot and i'm sure she helped a lot of people with her videos. :)

[@evanmaldonado9799]

So true though, I can relate.

[@bibekjung7404]

LIVING BEING IS OUR RACE,MANKIND IS OUR RELIGION HINDU,MUSLIM,SIKH,CRISTAIN,THERE IS NO SEPARATE RELIGION ALMIGHTY GOD KABIR is the father of all souls that JESUS, MOHAMMAD, GURU NANAK, VEDH was telling in BIBLE, QURAN, GURU GRANTHA SAHEB Allah Kabir in Holy Quran Sharif, Surat Furkani 25, verse no. 52-59 Verse 25:52:- Fala-Tutiyal-Kafiran-ve-Jahidhum-Bihi-Jihadan-Kabiran”, it is clearly written ‘Kabiran’ We can call it ‘Kabir’ or Kabira’ or ‘ Kabiran’ or ‘Khabira’ or ‘Khabiran. It is clear this is Kabira. The translators of the Quran interpret it as "do not obey the disbelievers, and strive against them with the Qur'an a great striving". However, Prophet Muhammad’s God is saying that Oh Prophet! Do not listen to the kafir (disbelievers, who instead of worshipping one God, worship other gods-goddesses and idols etc) because those people do not consider Kabir as the Supreme God. You may remain firm on the basis of the knowledge of the Quran given by me that, Kabir only is the Supreme God, and may struggle (Do Not Fight) i.e. remain rigid for Allah Kabir. Verse 25:58: - Va tavakkal' alal'- harulliji la yamutu va sabbih' bihm'dihi va kafaa bihi bijunoobi ibadihi Khabira (Kabira) The knowledge giver of Quran Sharif is giving information about some other AllahTala, about Supreme God, Allah Kabir. He says ‘O-Prophet trust that ‘Zinda’ who met you inform as ‘Zinda Saint’, trust Him, who never dies, means HE is immortal, and praise Him; means HE is different than the knowledge giver of Quran Sharif, whom he is telling to praise; that God. He destroys the sins of His devotees. That Allahu Akbar himself says in ‘Suksham Ved’ which is GOD given, nectar-like true spiritual knowledge - Kabir GOD says ‘I took Mohammad there’. Who is complete God? Iyov 36:5 - Orthodox Jewish Bible (OJB) See, El is Kabir, and despiseth, not any; He is Kabir in ko’ach lev (strength of understanding). Translation: Supreme God is Kabir, but despises no one. He is Kabir, and firm in his purpose. In all Bible translations, the word Kabir has been translated as "Mighty" or "Great" whereas Kabir is the original name of Supreme God. Conclusion: This verse of the Bible proves that Kabir is Complete God. The one who worships God Kabir by taking initiation from the complete saint sent by him gets complete salvation. After attaining salvation that souls rest in peace in the eternal abode Satlok forever. The throne of God is in Satlok( ETERNAL PLACE) 😊😊 God Kabir met Jesus and took his soul to Satlok. On their way, God Kabir made him see his ancestors David, Moses, Abraham, etc. in the Pitra Lokas. Then God took him to Satlok PRESENT MESSENGER of ALMIGHTY GOD KABIR is SAINT RAMPALJI MAHARAJ 🙏🙏

[@malta7406]

Please keep making content, your spirit of heartfelt empathy is admirable and on a level I've rarely seen.

[@kevinagee9050]

Thank you

[@TheTruthIsGonnaHurt]

*How does she not have more subscribers!?* She has been at this for 11 years, preaching a message of hope and perseverance. Continue fighting the good fight, and regardless of the YT algorithm, know that we see you and appreciate you and others like you helping others, simply because it's the right thing to do! - Liked & Subscribed ❤🙏

[@DeltaNovum]

Authenticity paired with confrontation is very scary to a lot of people. I think it would be great if kids grew up with this kind of content honestly.

[@landoakechi9406]

This video made me realize how much I hurt myself emotionally by thinking so little of me. I do always doubt compliments and instead take insults with a self deprecating joke, but never proud of what I am good at. I have never asked out a girl, as I always assume that I would just let them down if they even would say yes. I always knew these things, but this video helped me put it all together. Hopefully I can bring myself to put myself out there, luckily I never fell prey to these scam artists

[@xtdycxtfuv9353]

Good luck, bro. I’m praying you find somebody.

[@itv5610]

You're brainwashed into thinking finding love will solve your problems.

[@kiwi_likes_you]

​@@itv5610 you just got brainwashed into reading his whole comment just to hate :D

[@DeapHere]

@@kiwi_likes_you brain

[@rambam77]

Remember as she stated in the video, love and respect yourself and then love can find you organically

[@haridaspalleeri6765]

Your videos always get recommended to me exactly when I need them. You're doing a great thing, we appreciate you.

[@erhanfindik254]

I just saw a video of yours from 13 years ago about loneliness and sadness. And it is amazing to see your most recent video after that. Thank you for the encouragement and sensible opinions on psychology. It is difficult to find actually valuable content on the internet these days.

[@RF-ww5gc]

You'll be back 10 years later and make us feel better again you're a legend!

[@TheZero696]

We dont hate ourselves because we think its manly or tough, We hate ourselves because we hate everything and everyone in general, ourselves including.

[@whatevereyewant]

I think that sitting in an uncomfortable place to grow is not the same as self loathing. I think it’s a form of self love because you are recognizing what qualities you can improve on and often growth is not comfortable. But on the other side, you feel amazing you went through the struggle and took the fear out.

[@faustsiftar7683]

I agree completely. Im an introvert with social anxiety but every time a social opportunity comes up I always go even though it makes me immensely uncomfortable. Change is uncomfortable but becoming who you want to be is worth it

[@tommieirl1]

What you're saying is David Goggins type of sh*t. Or maybe Dr. Jordan Peterson's stuff. But she's referring to Andrew Tate type of sh*t. Big, big, difference.

[@NeutralTea]

Your videos are like the Undertaker from WWE. Months or years in between, but returning at the best times with the best videos to help with good information and life skills!

[@glitcharcing]

You’re so emotionally intelligent and great at communicating clearly. There are so many comments in here that took me years to learn and things I have yet to fully learn. Thank you!

[@SquirtMac17]

12 years ago and she send us the sequel that actually matters. To think that those words ring true today just in a different format and time and with a new young crowd that NEEDS to hear this. You're inspiring to my generation :) Also I know it doesn't matter but you haven't aged a day since the last vid that we are all talking about. And you deserve that as a bonus. Cheers

[@daosof]

my failures keep me reminded that i can always do better. i try to remember that i fail so often so that i dont make the same mistakes again.

[@DesertVox]

No pain, no gain. This is a law of this earthly existence.

[@nixazizuotac]

true

[@nixazizuotac]

and more pain more gain

[@Leaf219]

More pain more misery more damage

[@Mahmoud-pv6ro]

Your video are just life changing!! It's safe to say that they participated in the butterfly effect of changing how I perceive life an relationships in a more healthy and happy way.

[@joshdudeguy2830]

You seem like you genuinely care. That's what keeps me coming back. No one really seems like they genuinely care, but you somehow have that look in your eyes even though you're looking at a camera and the tone in your voice even though you're talking to a microphone that shows you are genuine. I'm an INFJ, I pick up on these things. Thanks for being you. :)

[@Unknown_Person15]

Ur 14 years old video got recommended in my KZbin feed, loved ur every word u said, ty for it.. I needed that..

[@lordiejesus9223]

just found the "to the guy who wants to know why hes lonely and sad" and i hope you do keep putting this advice out from time to time because it is valuable life advice you should adhere to

[@TheBasilisko42]

I wish there were more people like you in this world.

[@Bharat_Maa_ki_santan]

this is maya

[@jake4476]

"Sad little men¨ says the one that pretends to care

[@Nolan45000]

I've had a crush on Ashley since I seen her video on why guys are lonely and how to overcome it years ago, I'm happy to see you back :)

[@completely_worthless_being]

Simp

[@faeeq]

God damn man how much of a loser can you be goodness gracious 😂. It’s all good bro, all you gotta do is learn how to control your mind and you’ll be fine. Everything you need to succeed in life has already been given to you since birth, you just need to understand what it is and how to use it. 👍

[@alturki928]

@ModBopBeat this is the realest thing I heard

[@piccoloatburgerking]

@@faeeq You talk a lot but say nothing, ironic and hilarious.

[@faeeq]

@ModBopBeat I mean, common sense isn’t really common anymore so I simply think to remind the masses

[@lohithkumar27]

I just saw your video posted 12 years ago and gosh that was so relatable to me and never in my entire life I have heard something that honest ! Its just so nice to see you doing well. You can be proud of what you did 12 years ago . It’s really impacting a lot of people

[@caneronwilson3399]

Just saw your video from 12 years ago just came up literally at the worst point in my life where I’ve realised this so thank you so much

[@9LIVESMODELS]

She's talking about a man's life from a woman's perspective. She's as experienced on the subject as I am on running the brittish government.

[@ryuusuk33]

Ikr She's just too kind and warm-hearted to understand it truly

[@LegalizeTheNuclearBomb]

It makes me laugh when they talk like they have men down-pat but haven't a clue of what it's actually like to be one. They like to think they've got the world figured out.

[@ryuusuk33]

@Jason Voorhees soy

[@ryuusuk33]

@Jason Voorhees nah no way

[@ryuusuk33]

@Jason Voorhees who said that

[@latusalihyasalim4872]

most of these Andrew Tate type of guys don’t hate themselves, they just hate other things around them that made them mad and disappointed. mostly women. when we were younger we always considered women to be these difficult valuable and mysterious goals that you need so much power to get. but the way most women have become, it made us so angry mad disappointed and even misogynistic towards them. for me sometimes i find myself not having any sympathy for women even if they didn’t do anything to me. this is just one example. and i think women around Andrew played a role in that.

[@vanarqwq3660]

True every women I know is cycling boyfriends every month like it's nothing the only thing I can do is put my head down and go through this hell and improve my life

[@antoinesimeon728]

"they just hate other things around them that made them mad and disappointed. mostly women." Sounds like a textbook projection of their self-loathe and worthlessness they have deep down onto others.

[@latusalihyasalim4872]

@@antoinesimeon728 i’m not defending them i’m just addressing the issue.

[@latusalihyasalim4872]

@@vanarqwq3660 so according to you, you can’t be mad at someone or disappointed because of the way they behave because it’s a sign of self-loath and worthlessness!!! where’d you get that from!?

[@vanarqwq3660]

@@latusalihyasalim4872 for that men all around the world should come together and do something about the situation, I know I am disappointed in these women but, I have come to realise money is more important, I hope one day we men will make a moment strong enough to destroy feminism, and improve the society for better, and bring the new age Renaissance.

[@brunobuss7005]

Just came here after watching your vid from 14 years ago. It is impressive how you still giving advices and caring about people.

[@fa14fighterjet]

Some of the best advice in this giant bubble of information. It’s so hard to decide what to believe, who to follow, but I think I agree with this advice. I’m probably gonna try and ditch social media to find my own path and make my own decisions. Good luck to anybody out there

[@paleohunterWHG]

You exude the wisdom of forgotten peoples of old. Your soul is old. I respect you for sharing this message with the younger men in a way that I never could.

[@X60Gamers]

I love this so much, the fact that your able to address gender without even making it about gender is so crucial, getting into the person behind the performance is just so important to me and to solving the puzzle that is this hell world.

[@derekg5563]

@CollectorOfBBWs: TL;DR: One can try to improve themselves because they love themselves, not necessarily because they hate themselves; remember when loved ones (including yourself!) will often be the most honest about your flaws, because they really want to see you improve rather than just say so and leave you off to live the harsh reality. It may well be backwards to say that one improves themselves because they hate themselves; it can actually be self-love that makes you _want to_ and _enjoy_ improving yourself. To love yourself is to treat yourself the same way that your loved ones would treat you. Well, she kind of _did_ make it about gender, particularly when she talked about the "sad little men" right at the end... people rarely use the phrase "sad little women" about women, or if they do, it's not in a derogatory way but it's actually a prompt to care for and help these women, rather than have disdain for them. She is willing to point out gender when she is bashing influencers, yet she pretends gender isn't a thing when giving out advice like "just learn to love yourself by rejecting Andrew Tate's advice." A key thing that’s being ignored there is that men being unambitious because they love themselves is met much more negatively (perhaps, but not necessarily, including the very author of this video) than women being unambitious because they love themselves "just the way they are." It's not so easy to love yourself for who you are when society either ignores or shames you for achieving so little in life as a man. She, and many other people, on one hand, tell men to love themselves, yet these very same people often perpetuate the very idea that men are not noteworthy when they are "unambitious" because this makes them "useless." They often would not want to date or even platonically hang out with these men because these men neither have any way to impress them, nor can talk about "girl stuff" with them like they can with women. These men would often want to hang out with these women even if they weren’t interested in “girl talk” or her accomplishments, because they just like to experience her humanity when she laughs and smiles, for example, but on the other hand, women often are not satisfied with merely a man laughing and smiling if it’s unaccompanied by more impressive things. Not that men (or any gender, for that matter) are inherently owed admiration, company, or attention, but the strong unwillingness to provide those things to these men makes the advice (often given by those same unwilling people) for these men to "love themselves" without any context, rather disingenuous... Imagine a bully saying "you're lame, and I am going to make fun of you for that constantly, but, I think you should still love yourself, because after all, you shouldn't care about what other people think including me." That seems insincere, doesn't it? A little bit like someone who is being very offensive, but then tacks on "no offense" to what they say for the sole purpose of shielding themselves from any backlash, rather than doing it out of genuine concern for the other person. If the bully genuinely wanted the person to love themselves regardless of what others think, they wouldn't want to make the predicament more difficult by being part of the opposition from which they want the person to feel free. Being cold to someone (perhaps out of frustration with their “self-loathing”) and then telling them to feel loved is another example - if loving yourself was just something you could do on command, then they wouldn’t have an issue in the first place, and that issue is only reinforced by being cold to them. One more example: imagine hitting someone, and then asking them not to suffer from it. In hitting them, are you being caring as long as you don’t want them to suffer from it? Sure, if there were a magic button that allowed you to hit someone without them suffering, you would almost surely press it, but if we are not so lucky to have such a thing, are you willing to sacrifice the satiation of your desire to hit them if that is the only way to keep them from suffering from that (disregarding whether or not you could get away with hitting them)? I think one big part of caring often comes down to how committed one is to providing solutions that can be accessed in the real world, rather than inaccessible and thus imperceptible hypothetical ones. With that in mind, while Andrew Tate's advice has numerous problems, I think it would be wrong to pretend that he is coming at this issue from complete irrational ignorance. He has a reasonable basis for what he thinks, even if he still gets many things wrong. He does understand that society doesn't value men who don't achieve much, and he wants to find a way to make achieving things more enticing to try to solve this problem. That, in many ways, is less idealistic than just trying to love yourself out of thin air; we're going to want a basis for loving ourselves, unless we literally hypnotize ourselves or something, so Tate at least has a concrete plan in mind for happiness, even if it has many flaws. While it's true that "always wanting more" can be (very) bad, it doesn't have to be, because for example, someone could want to keep making better and better art, not out of hatred for themselves or their own work, but for the love of art; they love their old art, but they want to improve upon it because that keeps the creative juices flowing and offers excitement about the future. That may be the very thing that keeps life exciting and captivating for them. Always wanting to achieve more (which is often required to make more money) is one thing; wanting more and more benefits, like higher and higher wealth redistribution to yourself, is more likely to have unhealthy personal side effects. At least in the former case, one is balancing pain (of working hard) with pleasure (the payoff), whereas when one just wants more benefits handed to them, they keep consuming pleasure from sources created by others, without striking a balance between consumption and creation. That keeps them constantly wanting more, but in a way that's unaccompanied by the sense of meaning and purpose one gets from putting hard work into pursuits about which they're passionate. TL;DR: You can decide to improve yourself _because_ you love yourself, not necessarily because you hate yourself. The self-love might actually be what makes you desire to and enjoy improving yourself. People who love you can be more honest with you because there is more trust, and they genuinely want you to succeed. Why shouldn’t you genuinely want you to succeed, too? To love yourself is to treat yourself the same way that your loved ones would treat you. Your loved ones want to feel the joy of seeing you solve your problems, so why shouldn’t you want to feel the joy of solving your problems, too? Tough love is often the most sincere and open kind of love, and if your loved ones do it for you, you doing it for yourself will only add to the love; they care about how you turn out because they see the meaning in it, because you are not some statistic to them but a struggling, beautiful creature with whom they connect. Loving yourself is just providing an internal source of that love, and that is indeed healthy. However, the challenge of loving yourself is that you have to simultaneously play the roles of being a lover and being loved, but if they are achieved, they can result in a healthy and beautiful symbiosis as it were.

[@IgnacioDure]

Gender exist, life or sexual market of women is easy than a men, men provide things women provide beauty and femininity, the sexual market for women is easy… the sexual market for men is hard… Because of this men live worst because doesn’t understand why is so hard get a nice women, this exist under one reason, get you im the real word… work make you better, the better you are the happy you will get , even the money work diferent for a men… she got a point but she is not cover all the situation just a generality that all we know but this doesn’t solve the problem

[@zoltan8159]

Hi! I've been deep in the self-development world and these masculine communities for a long time now and although I am already in a process of enlightement, this video has made me realise so much that hustling doesn't actually come from self-love, very much the opposite. Thank you for showing that, I needed to hear this.

[@cardreamer687]

I'm just so sad for the dislikes by the Tate fans, how cringe

[@noahflood]

This is unironically the best channel I've ever found on youtube. It reminds me of my unabashed self as a child. Nowadays I have so much comparison going on because of the internet. Keep making videos and keep staying strong, you are inspiring so many.

[@zsedcftglkjh]

The problem isn't that we hate ourselves. The problem is that we are invisible to everyone. Sure, if we offer some valuable service someone might look at us, but then it's back to being invisible when we're no longer producing. Invisible is nothingness, it's the void, it's nihilism, it's death...and when everyone treats you like this, you listen.

[@YTcanLetUsDown]

I remember this woman squeezing her belly fat when she was younger. It's crazy how the algorithm shows us it knows everything about us and no one says anything. Madness

[@BrokeTheInterweb]

they asked me to be on Oprah for that video lol I’m glad we didn’t go there

[@YTcanLetUsDown]

@@BrokeTheInterweb haha I remember thinking "gee girl you're clever but you can't see that you're pinching your hip bones lol glad you're doing well for yourself hope you hold your ego in check good luck That is to say ' I believe you will do well, if you desire to go into those positions, therefore, I hope you keep you're ego in check'.

[@baade6010]

@@YTcanLetUsDown just fyi its kinda offensive to tell someone you hope they keep their ego in check, that's insinuating you don't think they can or aren't already.

[@Tony-sj6on]

@@BrokeTheInterweb Do you counselor men?

[@RichardH.MysticJessieFan6425]

@@BrokeTheInterweb ru doing better?

[@vilmister]

Just want to say thank you for your videos. You’re a genuine, kind person with so many wise words

[@Shubham-fh3dz]

I would be lucky if able to find a companion like her

[@Infisrael]

I agree with your point even though I never considered it as tough or manly. I genuinely, wholeheartedly think to myself that I deserve the self hatred since I can't think of a single positive thing about myself that can make me gradually change my course of self reflection. I just live to live or to help people when they ask me for it. I never feel like I am living for myself. It's not that I love self hatred, it's just that I can't come in terms to accept that maybe I should love myself, sounds absurd to me, really. I doubt anyone would even read my comment but that's just my side when it comes to self loathing/hatred.

[@timmyturner7494]

Literally punishing your body makes you stronger.

[@Yoobster]

"no pain no gain" its that simple people are obviously turned off to the fact they actually have to face there fears to achieve goals thats a weak mindset.

[@bkblindside3884]

Yea who's gonna tell her that building calluses through punishment creates armor. Or the fact that scars destroy the nerves which gives you pain reduction in that area. Or the fact that tearing your muscles is what makes them grow and become harder. Or the fact that putting stress on your bones makes them denser and less prone to breakage. Building knuckle strength from one inch punching or using a wing chun dummy. Forcing yourself to hold your breathe for excruciating periods of time gives you better lung capacity and endurance. The list of things that are punishing for a beneficial gain is probably longer than can ever fit in a KZbin comment..

[@johnwest6977]

@@bkblindside3884 exactly someone that gets it 🙌

[@Patricksargentmusic]

​@@bkblindside3884While this may be true it doesn't always work that way emotionally. Mental health is real fam 🙏🏿

[@hatemongerofthetoxicbrood6561]

​@@Patricksargentmusic Your brain and body are mere extensions of each other. Judge yourself. If you cannot exist moral and to a higher standard? Remove yourself. In thst case it I'd a moral good. Live as a disciplined man against all odds or not at all. And there is no shame in refusing to exist btw. It is a courageous and mighty move. To recognize you where not given the ability to deal with this, and instead of wallowing into hedonistic disgrace you jumped out. In a game where all the rules are set against you the best play is to not play at all. That is the Stoicist view on *sewer -slide* and suffering for the sake of greater good of yourself and the society that you are duty bound to.

[@helpinwithwords2065]

thanks for coming back to youtube you dont know how much i respect u

[@mohamadsalari84]

the sad part is these guys like Andrew Tate are like idols for the young generation right now

[@xtdycxtfuv9353]

Lack of father figures. It’s so awful 😔

[@idnintel]

@@xtdycxtfuv9353 yes it is awful that people do not have fathers. However one can do worse than andrew tate that is for sure. jordan Peterson would be a better surrogate father figure I think.

[@ricksanchezsflask8794]

It's a fad. Tate won't be popular forever.

[@thespideyman100]

i saw this video in a tiktok edit and it really has helped me these last few months. i've been punishing myself for years and was only able to get outta the whole by opening myself up to love and affection. it's nice yah know?

[@deepblouxstrength]

If I could give this video a super like, I would do so without any hesitation. Thank you for speaking on this with earnesty and thoughtfulness. Prior to leaving Instagram as a quasi-influencer, I spent my time sharing my life stories and trying to show people that there is an HONEST path to happiness that does not involve self-loathing and hurting others. It often falls on deaf ears because it’s not the reality that most people can accept. You spoke on this subject PERFECTLY and I highly respect you for doing so. I’ll be saving this video to share with others as well. Thank you!! - new sub

[@elpatron6537]

I put my self outside of the comfort zone because I love my self.

[@ghostofuchiha3807]

I don't follow Tate, but as far as I know he is the opposite of someone who hates himself. How on Earth can you equate discipline to self loathing? The guy stuffing cake into his face until he feels sick hates himself. The guy who rather plays video games all day and then cries into his pillow at night hates himself. Not the disciplined guy who fasts and works out and reads books and achieves his goals. Maybe its because you are a woman, so its an outsiders perspective for you, but I do all those healthy things because I LOVE myself. When I was a teen I used to drink and smoke and eat crap and thats when I hated myself. Its self sabotage.

[@lampa680]

I'm here for this comment, as a man with a failed financial year behind my back, Tate's word made me won't quit and waste myself.

[@projectjabootskie]

Yeah I agree with you on that aspect of it.

[@Duck_Snow]

Well she is female she can only give blue pilled advice. Guys like Tate and Hamza are very red pilled simply because they are male. If you watch wheat waffles or hamza, you will simply realize that females who don't know what it's like to be a male will give blue pilled advice. Because they're feminine. And the more masculine guys or just the red pill in general will give red pilled advice like discipline and gym. They are complete polar opposites. I wouldn't say I agree with everything Tate says. But there is definitely some key things to take away. Discipline is very important but so is mental health, this is why I love watching Hamza because he puts great emphasis on mental health. Millionaires commit suicide, "Chad" commits suicide, any person who has everything but completely ignores their mental health will end up in a terrible mental spot.

[@ghostofuchiha3807]

@@Duck_Snow I dont know who any of these are, but I do know that men and women are indeed different. Polar energies. And thats good that way. I feel like too many women take this idea of "equality" too literal, but then fail miserably when its about "man things".

[@vn9574]

@@Duck_Snow Same way men cant give their opinions as truth about women. it goes both ways

[@4evertyranitar]

I'm at a point in life where I don't really cares what happens to me but try to make sure that who is around me is doing good and if they aren't, I encourage them hoping it will help. I don't think self loathing is good and I am well aware my thoughts are bad but I don't push them away. I'm not trying to commit "unalive" but I am basically "existing until I don't". Neither insults (from others) or compliments affect me. Maybe I'll change someday, maybe I won't, I'm certainly not doing anything about it because I'm dumb though. But thanks for the videos.

[@abylayalt5543]

Hi, Idk your situation so its hard to give an advice, but I suggest watching jordan peterson's videos because they gave me hope. What I learnt from him is that you have to negotiate with yourself to accept a tolerable responsibility everyday. If the responsibility is too much wothout worthy reward, then you end up bitter, but if you have no responsibility at all, then you have no purpose at all. I applied it to my life by accepting resonsibility of 2 hours of studying everyday and it was not too much to burn me out and it gave me purpose

[@folksurvival]

​@@abylayalt5543You recommended a disinfo grifter.

[@zoltan8159]

"Self-loathing disguised as self-discipline" - I love this. You opened my eyes. Thank you.

[@PieInTheSky9]

Still beautiful 11 years later

[@succesrobot]

This is woman advice for women, fellas don't take this seriously, life will slap u in the face soon enough if you are not real and honest with yourself, life is hard, life is not a bed of roses, and you have to toughen up to survive, dont listen to this bs

[@AkarshBalaji]

Here is a youtuber that didn't chase the views, didn't sell out. Yet they make quality, consistent and meaningful content for the betterment of young men and people in general. I'm a new lurker here but it's clear where their priorities lie. It's incredibly hopeful to know such creators exist, looking forward to your next thoughts

[@vivvpprof]

Yes I mean I was approached by Bill Gates the other day and he actually offered me to be the CEO of a new startup he's making but meh… I declined of course because I am so noble and anti-bad things.

[@Mejustme101]

You are just like my mom before she died of cancer when I was 6 years old back in 2014. And to this day, I still miss her.

[@avinashkumar6407]

Your progress from an young smart girl to a wise wonderful woman can be seen and felt from your videos. Your thoughts and words are true, unique and powerful. God bless you and you get all the fame and success you deserve. Maybe a great leader someday in wherever you live.

[@itv5610]

She's not remotely close to smart. She just made up a bunch of assumptions about andrew tate because she doesn't like his takes. Quite a cheap argument tbh.

[@Overqualification]

@@itv5610 Yeah this aged great.

[@piccoloatburgerking]

@@itv5610 You are the type of guy she's talking about in the video, pitiful and weak. Also guess who's in jail right now, guess hard. 😆

[@ghosthunter7258]

​@@Overqualification it's a great comment are you offended by it?? Or are u one of those npcs that believe everything u see on social media or hAvE that YaAssS qUeEn type of energy??

[@Overqualification]

@@ghosthunter7258 ironically i could be asking you the same thing. Seemingly you just reading my reply must’ve spiked your blood pressure 10 fold. Take some meds.

[@solitarycrow]

This, you are absolutely right on the dot. I think what gets underdiscussed when it comes to talking about the rise of the manosphere in recent years is that a lot of the young men involved don't actually hate women. It's more so they hate themselves. They hate themselves to the extent that they feel unworthy for genuine relationships, much less friendships. And so, they end up going through these endless online rabbit holes doing mental gymnastics to try to explain how they have ended up so lonely and feeling worthless. I think this redpill and incel stuff are just symptoms of a greater problem with the loneliness epidemic, especially at a time when life is just tough for both the average man and women. I don't think its producive or constructive as a society to just constantly demonize lonely men or women. We are all just human at the end of the day looking for genuine connections and existential meaning in the grand scheme of things.

[@solitarycrow]

@@MeansUseless Yeah, times have changed; and women have more freedom and jobs now, which I think is a positive thing and something that we shouldn't reverse. I also believe it's a good thing that the standards of relationships go beyond money now, and personality and carrying oneself are strongers factors for settling in relationships. But, I think we should all acknowledge that there is a serious larger societal problem concerning the loneliness epidemic and declining third places beyond work or school. Smartphones, fast internet, and mass entertainment are just pouring salt on the wound. Add to that, life is just tough and very busy for the average person with respect to starting relationships and family on median incomes. The problem is festering to the point where grifters(soulmate/astrology cults for women; redpill/hustler/incel for men) now realize how lucrative it is to exploit the increased societal loneliness many people are facing, especially in the last decade. I do disagree with you on society promoting and even encouraging the so called "no fault divorces"/"not settling culture", as it can negatively impact the well being of the children of these couples if they have children in the first place. And there's no doubt, the alimony system is still set up in ways that are biased towards women even as the median income of women/mothers have gone up over the past decade or two. Instead, there should be some sort of system in place whereas marriage counseling is both encouraged and readily made accessible by the community, in order to prevent marriages from turning south and to incentivize couples to work things out with one another and go through the struggle on mutual terms. This would likely, in turn, break the collective generational cycle of divorce.

[@evedotcom]

Thank you so much for this. This is exactly how I feel but I would have struggled to articulate it this succinctly. I’m really glad videos like this exist because I’ve been seriously concerned at the amount of men falling for this and putting him on a pedestal.

[@forgottenfuryan]

He gets them laid. Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and women file 80% of divorces and get custody and alimony in 90% of cases.

[@reflekshun]

@@forgottenfuryan Tate: helps his followers manipulate women to get laid. Tate's followers: hate on women for being manipulative. Dumb ass cycle. Do something else

[@forgottenfuryan]

@@reflekshun Apparently you can't read. Have someone explain my original comment to you.

[@Mistar_Jones]

Thank you for being here and doing what you do. As a guy I find it all very reassuring. Just discovering the whole channel, but this is good stuff.

[@frost.0707]

Shes still trying to make ppls lives better. Underrated channel.

[@bosanskipatriota2295]

Andrew Tate is trying the same thing yet she hates on him without giving any evidence that he hates himself lmao

[@vidyakumargv]

11 yrs ago feeling lonely ❤.One thing does not change about good people is being good..

[@Vishnu-2020]

You are like the father figure i always wanted but never had ❤ thanks alot Edit: you brought me a new perspective in my life, thanks for that too

[@stygianfug6322]

She said ignore the negative and don't focus on it yet you got yourself into the position you're in by yourself. The only one who can get you out is you and all those bad things she said to ignore you better never forget them and remember because if you lost all motivation those feelings will remind you that you came a long way so you never slip backwards. The best advice she didn't give you is that you need to work on body and mind and by that I mean you need to train both.

[@CarbideSix]

I stumbled upon your video from 12 years ago, and then I found this. I needed to hear everything you said so far. You madam have another subscriber out of me. DON’T EVER CHANGE! You have a gift, and I feel blessed by you sharing it and for that I think you.

[@bryanmoyna9715]

Nobody knows you like yourself, nobody. Dont be afraid of learning who you are and taking steps towards becoming what you really wanna be, not what someone else tells you you have to be.

[@IkramulHasanLV]

Hating oneself is the best motivation for man.

[@Devboneee]

This made me burst into tears. I’ve just come to to be able to send my harmful thoughts back and it’s been such a light in the dark tunnel. It’s a daily struggle but naming the emotion is really powerful.

[@sinbadtheprophet]

Absolutely love these kind of discussions. It’s topic like these which have inspired me to have similar discussions

[@bagelpill218]

Her advice in a nutshel: "Get a haircut and take a shower. That's how women will get attracted to you" Women will never truly understand the struggle most men have nowadays. I'm sorry. I appreciate you trying to make men feel good about themselves but in reality you yourself would reject the ideal man you described in this video.

[@xtdycxtfuv9353]

This wasn’t about attractiveness. It was about happiness and self-image.

[@christopheralcala2458]

This one right here, I knew from the start of the video when she said that, that she was just like the NPCs that are asked "what are your thoughts on Andrew Tate" and they say the most blatant BS ever cause that's how they're programmed by the system, this girl won't realize this and it goes back to the same topic of "Women trying to tell me how to be MEN" It doesn't sound right nor will it ever be. I'm not hating on the girl but she definitely has no idea what she's talking about, rather speaking out based on emotions and her feelings of how she "THINKS" it should be. Andrew Tate is the real deal.

[@ghosthunter7258]

​@@christopheralcala2458 exactly amazing comment surprised there's no npcs or wage slaves hating on you

[@christopheralcala2458]

@@ghosthunter7258 I dont usually comment but most of the people here are bots lol. Happy someone that thinks for themselves is here as well 🤝

[@ghosthunter7258]

@@christopheralcala2458 hell yea sir common sense is gone in this shitty world and we need a great remodel and that man is andrew tate and yes I do agree most of the people here are bits lmao

[@_sizzler]

That is spot on. I wish i had realized it sooner. At the time of hardships i became to treat myself as the greatest of all time and i faked till i made it. Then i began to criticize myself all the time, constantly assuming myself guilty of something in the sake of "self-improvement", as i believed. The only outcome: my life became a hell of a mess, even worse than it used to be some time ago. I was wrong. I hope someone out there reads it and learns on my mistakes. love yourself. peace

[@HriataKC]

17 years later she's still pretty

[@armankundu7007]

man she looks younger and younger by each passing year ..love ya ❤️

[@ssznajder]

Cannot imagine the amount of contempt you have to feel for your audience in order to sell them something you know is worthless. Ultimately, that comes back to self contempt. The audience is a reflection of the performer.

[@forgottenfuryan]

Briffault's law is in effect. She's unmarried and childless because traditional women benefit from feminist laws and don't lobby for change, so she's shaming us. Mr. Tate gets average men (incels) laid and thereby punishes women as a group. Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and so much more.

[@ryank2465]

@@forgottenfuryan literally what are you even talking about? hes talking about andrew tate, not her

[@forgottenfuryan]

@@ryank2465 I mentioned both

[@HybridandPixie]

LGBT women are not our counterparts on this planet but our competitors for women

[@TimberW073]

While I agree with your conclusion I think it's also largely got to do with personality, Some people are also much less affected by outside factors in general and nothing really bothers them or they genuinely don't see any problemwith how they behave because that's all they've ever been shown around them so its normal.

[@MaxRangel-gi5me]

whoever your partner is they are lucky. Thank you for your videos.Such an amazing human being.

[@phnx8476]

Btw here is a Andrew Tate quote: don’t be sad about simple things. When I wake up and see my brother is alive I am already happy. The rest is just a byproduct of your hard work and discipline. So next time ur car makes problems, remember at least you have a car. If you don’t wanna go to your job, remember at least you have a job. Enjoy life, because you have been given this gift. See, sounds like a pretty great mindset huh? So pls don’t talk shit abt people you have no real insight about

[@3rdStreetAVolitionite]

Your video from 13 years ago found me. Gotta say, I didn't expect a 13 year old video would tell me how I feel in 2023. I was 14 when that video was posted. I was a clueless, dumb, and angry teenager at the time.

[@legendgamer676]

I was bullied throughout childhood. What happens is you begin to internalise the things other people might say about you and you start to believe that what they say about you is true when in actuality the things they say about you are just them projecting their own insecurities onto you. Learn to stand up for yourself against your negative self talk. Challenge it! You got yourself this far! No one else! ❤️

[@Andtherewasguitar]

You're so wise, and you know what you know and what you don't. All rare qualities. Subscribed.

[@mostrum195]

I hope you're doing well! Wishing you all the best, your kindness radiates so brightly; I hope you're surrounded by people who love you!

[@NoHoneyMustard]

I just got the ‘To the guy who wants to know why he’s lonely and sad’ video in my feed, it’s kinda ironic and wholesome that a video about loneliness brought some of us together.

[@Its_Luuk]

Absolute queen speaking, thank you ❤

[@stuartchamberlain9398]

jacks loves me, seriously though good advice, renewing your mind is the battle ground, Im still struggling and been separated now 9 months , i,m so hurt and needed to hear this :)

[@UnityFromDiversity]

Politics is downstream from culture. Whoever controls the past controls the future. Whoever controls the present controls the past. He who controls the politic controls the present. Whoever controls the culture controls the politic(politics=downstream from culture) Whoever controls the pussy controls the culture. Blue Pill- The belief that both genders, possessing equal natures, will on average possess equal proclivities to be moral & responsible given equal qualities & quantities of invested nurture. Red Pill- The awareness that men & women, having different natures, will on average possess different proclivities to be moral & responsible given equal qualities & quantities of invested nurture, & how this effects societies, micro & macro. Masculine republics give way to feminine democracies, and feminine democracies give way to tyranny. -Aristotle The micro cycle(80 years): Hard times create strong men Strong men create good times Good times create baby boomers Baby boomers create hard times... The macro cycle(800-1200 years): Hard times create patriarchy(where rights are dependent on responsibilities, since men usually take more responsibilities than women this system is described as patriarchy) Patriarchy creates good times Good times creates feminism(equal rights independent of responsibilities) Feminism burns everything down, creating hard times... To Adam God said, "Because YOU LISTENED TO YOUR WIFE & ate from the tree about which I commanded you not to: Cursed is the ground because of you, through painful toil you will eat of it, all the days of your life." -Genesis 3:17 Man's hiearchy of needs: 1 Safety 2 Food & Water 3 Shelter & Sleep 4 Social & Sexual needs 5 Communal & self esteem needs 6 Self Actualization In every category of need in men's hierarchy, women's needs are met better in society, yet every election women vote to take more from men and give more to themselves?! Women's hiearchy of needs: 1 Equality of Opportunity 2 Equality of Outcome 3 Equality of Authority 4 Equal Authority with no Responsibility 5 All the Authority with no Responsibility for the women, with all the Responsibilities & no Authority for the man or men(especially sexual Responsibilities & Authorities). A tyrant has 100% authority with 0% responsibility. A slave has 100% responsibility with 0% authority. Today marriage, as redefined by the female democratic majority and family court system, makes the man a slave to a tyrant wife, who can divorce him at will, stealing his children, his wealth, and his human dignity. All womens natural unregulated desire is to have sex with high status bad bad boys and get innocent men to pay for the responsibility consequences(abortions, kids ect.). That's why women, no matter how meritocratic, should never vote. Women want equal rights authority to make all the decisions in their own life when the alpha f*cks opportunity is there. Its when responsibility slowly comes knocking that women want to shift responsibility back over to innocent men. Women want to sit at the poker table of the socio-sexual market place & make bets & authorize promises in the hundreds of thousands in reproductive costs when they can only actually back up a few pennies worth of responsibility. If women CAN'T take responsibility for a authorization, then they CAN'T have equal authority/rights as the guy who can. Show me a man who takes by force what he wants from women and I'll show you 100 women who vote to take by force what they want from men. Show me a grave created by patriarchy and Ill show you an entire graveyard created by feminism/communism. "Any society that negates the role of the father in the voluntarily marriage contract from decent civilization building men and replaces it with a involuntary centralized welfare state will not remain civilized for long."

[@johnmurphy9688]

You are spot on, your content is real, true and well worth listening too and sharing with young fellas of today that are clueless in most scenarios. Stay cool with your awesomeness. ❤️👍🇮🇪

[@wyattwatson9848]

I don’t talk to people anymore. I watch them interact with each other, they’re driving themselves insane trying to chase their biological desires for friends and sex. Our species is depressing and hopeless

[@forgottenfuryan]

Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows

[@snatch051]

That's why I always say humans have to become independent from nature. Natural ≠ necessarily good

[@Abdullah_muslim1]

Mabye you should go off the internet and live a traditional life. It solves a lot of people's problems

[@ricksanchezsflask8794]

I can love myself, but it's diminished when I'm constantly rejected by others and reminded of my flaws.

[@Spider-Complexion]

We glorify selling ourselves out and making money in anyway. We glorify this “hustler” mindset and it’s causing a lot of this mindset to flood peoples brains. Not much need be added, bcuz you hit the hammer on the head girl 👌🏽

[@folksurvival]

*hit the nail on the head

[@federicoramirez8177]

matrix sponsored algorithm

[@swaggitypigfig8413]

There’s a clip of Tate mentioning how his father used to abandon him and his mom, which he proudly portrays as the ideal version of a man. I’ll let you decide if that’s the kind of man you want to pay to tell you what to do - a man who lives in Romania to avoid jail.

[@bradpitt839]

He may not be that much of a good guy and he also may of not had a good father figure but at heart he is a good guy and a lot of the things he says are actually true.

[@forgottenfuryan]

Black single mother rates....single mothers raise 90% of inmates....he's one of the lucky ones. This content creator is as clueless as the rest, intentionally.

[@Schinzo__]

He’s from Romania goofball

[@morothane]

I’m glad to see you’re still posting videos as you see fit. I just wanted to say, thanks for being genuine and hitting the hard truths with confident, persistent, and positive energy. I truly hope you are doing well these days :)

[@yadiramercado2755]

I just found out about your channel and must confess how enlightened and at ease I feel right now. This is exactly what I needed right now, and I am so grateful that you exist 💯❤️🙏👍