Have Women Gone TOO FAR??? | Fennryn Reacts to the Ick List

[@axelmilan4292]

"They just want men to be miserable." Correct.

[@ALJ9000]

Misery loves company

[@ProtectorKelvin]

Accurate

[@SeraphoftheRoundTable]

They want to drag them down to their level as they themselves cannot stand to see someone else happy.

[@moroseloki1912]

Well who gave the Apple to Adam

[@moroseloki1912]

Adams dumbass was fine eating Pork

[@Drocksas]

The more I see of these trends, the more I agree with the notion that social media was a mistake.

[@Enchie]

Age and IQ limits to use social media needs to happen.

[@ViJt-oq5nq]

It's ruined so much. Not just community, but also the data collection, sale and government overreach gained from it.

[@michaelhawkes6492]

Social media was fine. Women on social media became the problem.

[@CommanderRedEXE]

​@@michaelhawkes6492 No. Social media itself IS the problem. Men have just as stupid social media trends too.

[@maozedong8370]

No... that was NEVER the problem. Ever heard of the concept of the 'village idiot?' These are the idiots that used to exist that people in the village would avoid and they used to just act crazy and no one would take them seriously. As towns got bigger, more of these idiots were able to mingle, but they still weren't taken seriously. The internet however has given these village idiots a platform to spread their idiocy and find other village idiots who WILL listen to them and then they share ideas and just annoy everyone else. Social media didn't cause these people, they always existed, it just allowed these people to find others of their kind and then bombard the internet with stupidity.

[@solusaldrain]

"Never understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other." --Al Bundy

[@asura8495]

"you can understand women or you can love them, you cant do both" -someone's grandpa

[@R.bussieres]

I understand them and i can say the quote is true. The only women in my life are my mom and my grandma. I cut off my sister cause she's a modern woman and would throw me under a bus at a moment's notice.

[@strifelife4003]

Man I wish I had something to add... oh, uhm, drunk thought. Women don't like accountability. And they paint their faces on. And make stupid ass concepts like 'icks' exist. And they... maybe i did have something to add

[@devilslayer3548]

I don’t think woman don’t understand woman

[@dragonfire2246]

@@devilslayer3548 No, they do and they hate it. Didn't you read the quote? (For reasons, this is a joke)

[@coprographia]

“A red flag is when I see a guy having a mom or a sister.” -Extremely hazardous psychopath

[@kannonfps]

she must be from a sect and she's trying to recruit new members. Can't see any other explanation.

[@Hi5TOrIC]

@@kannonfps The Only other explanation is she doesn't want a man; she wants Bruce Wayne.

[@insulttothehumanrace3807]

"I don't want a guy who has someone in his life who can call me out, or create a standard for how women should be that I clearly fall short of"

[@thebigbear4696]

@@insulttothehumanrace3807 yep, that and she wants to be the ONLY woman in the man's life. Shows a very jealous and controlling nature.

[@jeffchandler6285]

When it all put into a list like this the clearer it becomes that modern feminist need therapy.

[@kazuma7232]

I hate this reality. Everyone seems to hate us for every little thing we do.

[@SCDarkZide]

There are people who will say or do anything for recognition and attention. I think the list is a parody, they're just collecting stupid things people say. That said, I am sure most of the people in these clips have more nuanced views than could fit in 10 seconds of video.

[@kazuma7232]

@@SCDarkZide Idk man. A lot of these seemed like genuine responses.

[@SCDarkZide]

​@@kazuma7232 I don't exactly shine with dating experience so maybe I am wrong, but for me a statement about you can only be genuine if they are willing to say it to your face. People tend to behave more empathetic and genuine when they actually see you as the human you are than when they talk into a camera. Online dating and finding the right relationship partner is so confusing and shallow nowadays because people don't want to show off vulnerability and insecurity about their own (ostensibly) "bad" habits and because they want to feel like they can find someone compatible just by making up clear rules for who qualifies, when the reality is that you just have to figure out who is right for you as you go, and sometimes that means you're going to be wrong about who or what's right for you. Sharing private moments with other people can feel 1000x more real and genuine than anything you could ever do on the internet. So please, don't ever believe that people would be unable to see the good in you because of something as irrelevant and meaningless as an "ick". It only keeps you from seeing that people care a whole lot about the small good things you do.

[@dreadtrap973]

@@kazuma7232 I don't know if it will make you feel better but it isn't this bad in all places. I live in Europe and I can assure you that most woman aren't this deluded. I believe it's mostly places like the US where everything is this extreme.

[@Heresor]

This "ick" list is less something you shouldn't do as a man, but more a list of "if a girl thinks this is a dealbreaker, get rid of her"

[@blakeverdon4492]

"Celebrating his birthday" Well damn, I hope she wasn't expecting any gifts, fanfare, or cake when hers comes around, holy shit...

[@FratoiuAlex]

I think they are like drunk and dumn, but if it's a theory is that guys celebrating birthdays they mostly do in the most childish way and that's super fun, while girls are just going somewhere and drink wine. My only reason not celebrating birthdays is because I got old and my anxiety gets trigger ed of the happy birthdays bs. yeah I'm a downer and but I just don't see a point in birthdays. But you guys can have fun and be happy for living another year.

[@aerospyrosftw]

@@FratoiuAlex Fair. I mean the only reason I don't celebrate my birthday anymore is because all the friends and family I would celebrate with are all dead.

[@drinkyourtea]

@@aerospyrosftw damn my condolences. :(

[@mrosskne]

​@@aerospyrosftwI'd celebrate with you bro

[@Zarlos01]

@FratoiuAlex belive me, birthdays are more triggering here in Brazil. The birthday's song has up to three more parts and one song that everyone tries to out your crush, and if you already are in a relationship it's pushes you two for marriage. And if the family is very religious, another song...

[@Xoruam]

Whamen: "Why don't men try to talk to us anymore?!" Also whamen:

[@mrosskne]

why do men kill themselves???

[@Rocker-1234]

The one that annoys the hell out of me is when you bring it up to a woman brainwashed by modern day "equality" (superiority for women) and they try to pull the "men treat men worse than we do" line while actively treating you like lesser trash lol

[@TheFuriousMulatto]

It's funny how people deny the idea that there is rampant misandry out there and we literally have trends of men doing normal things and being shit on for it.

[@erossenpai2884]

How dare you? Men can't be victims!!!! ONLY WOMEN CAN BE VICTIMS REEEE!!!

[@HomekittyL2]

And then get called toxic misogynists for pointing any of that out

[@darkzeroprojects4245]

​@@HomekittyL2 While I personally think it gets abit overblown and isn't as massive as it's made to be Since social media tends to do that for everything, lot of time yeah. It's lot of areas yep.

[@mrosskne]

​@@darkzeroprojects4245it's far worse than you think.

[@skeetsmcgrew3282]

@@darkzeroprojects4245 I'd say misogyny is worse. Like all around. But we are talking just barely. Most young women seem to basically hate men. Like the majority for sure

[@gourmand3]

The best thing about the internet is that a lot of great ideas and important information is able to be spread around so quickly. The worst thing is that a lot of bad information and stupid ideas does as well.

[@americanpatriot70476]

Anime cat lady: acts normal Actual women: insane

[@Stronghand-yw1lk]

I thought she was a fox-girl?

[@americanpatriot70476]

@@Stronghand-yw1lk probably

[@Danny_Deleto]

Reminds me of a study that found 63% of young men are not dating and aren't interested in dating. This "ick list" trend shows every reason why.

[@LucRio448]

ye, always kinda fascinated by people being like "oh no, social media is the issue, kill it" - nah, it's not. These stupid lists existed all along, maybe not as an actually named list, and of course they were not publicly talked about, but many of these things have been just that, there just wasn't a commonly used name for it.

[@FerunaLutelou]

Uh, no actually, this shit is what men were tolerating for the last few decades while they were on the dating sceme. The reasons why men dont date are far more serious than this, the main one being the very high chance of being divorce raped.

[@w4vypl4yzz35]

I’m that 63% fr tired a few times and a few said it was a turn off that I play games online with my bros, like what? Do you want me to go out instead surrounded by strangers or something, or stay here safe and next to you?😭😐

[@JRock3091]

This exactly

[@Watcher1134]

In school we were seperated into fast learners, slow learners and disadvantaged learners. The internet has no such system and its very observable.

[@deandre6555]

Damn, who knew having siblings and/or parents was a turn off, this whole list is so goofy, i love it

[@fennryn]

some of them were simply too crazy for me to include...maybe i'll do a part 2 one day if my soul can handle it.

[@bulldowozer5858]

"Go away Mom, you're scaring the hoes"

[@secondcite3840]

​@@renmcmanus "don't talk to me unless you from the most secluded parts of africa"

[@MattHew-rq8zw]

the first one ya mentioned there, would be beyond unreasonable... and increadibly hurtful - even in todays standars or modern trends. I for one have a defined gender... and if that's an Ick, then I guess I'll carry it with me with pride. wa-wait being caucasion was an ick? Dang I know of romantic or sexual selective preferences... but it still doesn't sit well with me. Thanks for sharing about some of the insane icks people are posting online! @@renmcmanus

[@FratoiuAlex]

​@MattHew-rq8zw this reminds me of a black girl I dated that she didn't other black guys because to her they remind her of her brother and she doesn't want to feel like dating her brother. Not necessarily a red flag to me, but a bit weird of a mentality

[@whiterabbit75]

"My biggest ick is when the guy is nice." She just wants to be treated like trash. I say, "Let her."

[@EmperorSeramir]

In other words she wants to be treated like a side chick. No emotional connection, just there to be used for his own pleasure then dumped on the street immediately afterwards.

[@nephalos666]

Agreed. Treat the 304 like a 304.

[@Coach_Shiner]

She wants to be treated like an object. Let her learn the hard way

[@EeveeRealSenpai]

Must be a masochist 😂

[@Earthgrand234]

@@EeveeRealSenpai So what's popular nowadays is the idea of toxic relationships. For some reason a lot of women that you'll find in the streets like that chick will verbatim say they want toxic relationships, so they aren't bored. They literally want to fight and have drama from their relationships.

[@Tsarbben]

Protect this girl at all cost, she's one of the few

[@rantymcrant-pants9536]

"... still sane women out there" Which button do i press to doubt?

[@kazuma7232]

X

[@BlooMonkiMan]

The subscribe button

[@ImBirdBrained]

Yesn't

[@a_random_youtuber6151]

X

[@aidreinhorn1534]

Fennryn: it’s okay to cry! Me: oh no no no! I’ve seen this trap before, you won’t trick me!

[@CommanderRedEXE]

Also me: *totally letting out a few tears alone in my bedroom/gaming room where no-one can see it*

[@BurakkuHishou]

Yup, crying is ammo for future fights. Women have no honor when it comes to fights, they will low-blow you by using any insecurity and any problem you have against you

[@aidreinhorn1534]

@@CommanderRedEXE the pillows don’t judge.

[@fuffybear6865]

@@Mr._Anderpson also my cat. Went through a crying spell because I was told my “race disqualified me from dating” :) the good part: I met my current partner of 11 years a few months after that incident.

[@korvettenkapitanmetzinger8382]

@@Mr._Anderpson Yeah pretty much but I won't judge you if your friend or pet dies and i'll do my best to "stoic-ly stand between you and any cameras" given the chance - gotta look out for each other after all.

[@Exile_Sky]

Anime V-tuber girl: Exhibits Sanity. Real Woman: Exhibits Insanity. This is why people keep rejecting "real" women. There is no winning. There is only pain.

[@FratoiuAlex]

We are creatures of pain. Misery loves company.

[@Exile_Sky]

@@FratoiuAlex Too much pain breeds only contempt, and no one wants to spend time around someone they despise. Even the large rats let the little ones win sometimes, otherwise the game isn't even worth playing.

[@MetaLord395]

Vtubers are just fleshbags in anime skinsuits. Who's to say she's just as batshit crazy IRL?

[@MetaLord395]

She's probably just a dude with a voice changer.

[@SeraphoftheRoundTable]

@@Exile_Sky I feel bad for the good men and the few good women left who want happy lasting relationships. They were simply born at the wrong time.

[@matthewb5364]

To the lady who says she doesn't like men knowing how to cook: "Are you saying that's your job?!"

[@skeetsmcgrew3282]

No. She wants him to make enough money to get high class meals UberEat delievered to her every day. Even if they aren't together that night

[@VenomSeeker]

@@skeetsmcgrew3282Ew

[@matthewb5364]

@@skeetsmcgrew3282 Not only will that cost more than what I made in a month at a min wage job, it's so unhealthy and rich!

[@Keith-san3022]

Nah she probably can't cook herself

[@Stronghand-yw1lk]

😮Oooooh! 😅😅😅😅

[@karlisulmanis3810]

Never thought I'd not only watch a 12min video by a Vtuber, but fully agree with them throughout the entire video. Nice one :)

[@ShahroozSmith]

Women: I want men to be unrealistically mean, brooding, tall, who can't cook, who can't cry, who is all business, and makes no time for me. Just someone to pine over from a distant and admire from afar, but knows that he wants me. Men: ...I just want to be loved in return... *Stares at the sun setting while Guts' theme plays in the background*

[@a_random_youtuber6151]

Real.

[@thesaintsrowspartan]

I remember a time where having a waifu was considered impossible. Now, I'm living in a time where a waifu is more attainable than a woman.

[@HugeKingCobra_]

at this rate i might as well just wait a few more years and I can get a waifu. probably will be my best investment.

[@SeraphoftheRoundTable]

​@@HugeKingCobra_A waifu will never leave you, and never cheat on you. A waifu will not take advantage of you as she is not real to begin with. We as humans crave affection and romance, and it's pointless to deny it. It's certainly in a way disturbing and dystopian, but unfortunately, you are correct. Collateral damage is what I call it.

[@SeraphoftheRoundTable]

And many men are taking advantage of it as they are tired of the BS, standards, and drama of modern dating. People need an outing to put their romance and feel on and waifus do that. Hell, even I have to a certain extent till I find the right person in my life. I know what's fantasy and is reality, though.

[@brenscott5416]

Ya it's unfortunately getting out of hand

[@iamLI3]

@@SeraphoftheRoundTable yes to all that except the being real part , because our waifus are real , it's the women of these tiktoks who are the not real ones....

[@firestorm165]

"I promise you men, there are still sane women out there, we exist!" I cannot express in words how much I want to believe that

[@mrpandasian8871]

They do exist, my current girl is a nerd just like me, and we cool 👌 you might need to relocate to find a girl tho 😬

[@Iamyolomonkey-ed2gh]

There’s still hope!

[@jayzenstyle]

If that's the case of your locale, you need to change towns. Sometimes a city is too dang hopeless, you might as well move out or avoid it like the plague. Red flag women tend to flock together so once you find a green flag one, there's a high chance her friends are also sane.

[@SollomonTheWise]

They just dont exist in the west. Get your passports and travel to asia (Not japan or south korea)

[@Manny082]

If there are sane women out there, they are either taken or not looking either. Dating has become such a minefield that the next generation will be the one with net negative births.

[@aramondehasashi3324]

The meme of the black guy on a train reading "why women deserve less" makes more sense now

[@SeraphoftheRoundTable]

If you take advantage of peoples hearts and backstab them, and flat out ruin them, you deserve NOTHING IMO! I do not care who they are. I value loyalty, respect, and commitment in a relationship. Problem for every 1 good woman, there are more 20 bad ones. Same goes for good women trying to find good men.

[@denkerbosu3551]

The book itself isn't a meme either, waht's hilarious is someone would read it out there in public. More and more are realising how messed up relationships are because of the modern wha-men.

[@Earthgrand234]

The book is by Myron Gaines, of the Fresh and Fit podcast. I'm being completely serious here, if you are a man, the only book I can think of on the top of my head that would be more important to read than it is the Bible. You learn a lot about the value of being a man, as well as tips on how to navigate life and navigate with women.

[@chesterstevens8870]

It has a 4.8 rating on Amazon.

[@thunderbutt357XD]

​@@SeraphoftheRoundTable20 for every good one? Try 2000

[@Derpshadow64]

"I love how a dude having proper responses to physical trauma of some kind means they aren't manly" we don't get to feel anything or do anything. We just have to be there. That is all

[@babyvaso3855]

That sigh after the birthday clip, Fennryn broke character "sigh, guys" that's how you detect true cringing.

[@supremegodemperorpalpatine4872]

"It's a turn off if he has a mom..." So where am I supposed to have come from, a cloning tank? Mister Head, meet Mister Desk.

[@Fogolol]

You're supposed to have been brought in a basket by a seagull or some shit

[@broadkiwi6882]

The kaminoans, of course!

[@rammsteinrulz16]

No you can have a mom, you're just supposed to be on Eminem level terms with her

[@FrederikEngelmand]

@@rammsteinrulz16 exactly having a good relationship with your mom, means your mom will PROTECT you against bad women. they want to control you without fear of a protector. women understand women, and they hate eachother

[@The_One_and_Oni25]

Just like the simulations

[@weareharbinger914]

Basically women don't like it any time men have fun or don't destroy themselves to look manly or something. Every man must be an emotional rock, never having fun, never in pain, never sick, never having anything wrong at any time ever, never worrying about consequences of their actions and always be an expert in everything but also don't know how to cook. And when they find that guy, they will complain that he's emotionally unavailable or abusive or controlling or all of the above. This is why men give up. These standards are ridiculous.

[@elijahhayter3026]

Which types of women?

[@PlasmaMongoose]

@@elijahhayter3026 Plenty of women on social media like to complain about/demand things from men.

[@elijahhayter3026]

@@PlasmaMongoose yes, but which types of women? If you just generalize, then you’re disregarding the others who don’t fit into that statement. It’s the exact same thing as when some woman on social media says “men are just ___”. If you generalize about the source of your grievances, then expect people to agree, you’re not really helping to solve your problem.

[@PlasmaMongoose]

@@elijahhayter3026 All you can hope to do as a man if you are still looking for a wife is vet her extra carefully and be on the outlook for concealed red flags.

[@martinderabbie3429]

More like Paradoxical

[@legomikey]

The tongue for popcorn is the lizard brain winning over monkey brain

[@FratoiuAlex]

Same

[@thegreatbaguette1161]

You are channeling your inner Yoshi.

[@4aw50fGold]

Mlem moment

[@TheCalmPsycho]

out of all the "icks" that one made the most sense to me, I still don't hard agree with it, but I understand.

[@arker5835]

Having a mom or sister literally had me giving the same reaction lol "Is your grandma alive?" Sent my head SPINNING hahahahaha

[@unkindledsoilder8599]

"they just want men to be miserable" I have never heard a more accurate sentence in my entire life I've heard and You and very few other ladies I've met are sain every single other one has ruined and destroyed my very life and soul so seeing this video makes me smile a bit know there is just one more sane Women out there in the World keep it real Girl

[@Hermitstatus]

I don't care what she says, crying in front of anyone for a man is social suicide unless you are with family or a best male friend you trust.

[@CommanderRedEXE]

At least society IS starting to recognize how stupid this concept is. Maybe in our lifetime we can publicly cry and not be looked at as weak or useless.

[@batboy555]

Agreed

[@Christopher-eq1rn]

​@@CommanderRedEXEsociety isn't recognizing shit. Only reason it's being pushed is to get ammo against men. Until women at large have at least some degree of empathy for men, it isn't safe to be emotionally vulnerable with them. Have male friends and vent to them

[@crocidile90]

​@@CommanderRedEXE I mean if a Hollywood movie trailer (a standard one) brings you to tears..... I WILL make fun of you. If a family member or loved one dies, then have your cry, I won't judge you and will castigate anyone who criticizes you.

[@CommanderRedEXE]

@@crocidile90 Suppose the trailer thing makes sense. I mean friends do that to each other regardless.

[@ZenoDovahkiin]

>When they cry I don't know what to do. That's you being a bad partner. "I don't know how to take care of somebody so don't have any emotional needs ever, but also take care of me."

[@LucRio448]

I mean that depends on what exactly one means by that statement. I got friends who'd say they don't know what to do if someone close tot hem cries, but in reality they'll be there, hold the person, listen etc - they just don't know how to ACTIVELY make the other person feel better at that moment is what they really mean, and I'd not consider that an issue at all in those cases. And then of course there are the ones you are referring to as well...

[@Orphim]

@@LucRio448 Honestly, if someone (especially a man) is crying, the best thing you can do is not actively try anything. Be there passively and let them get it out and just quietly be a support. If they really need something, they'll reach out. If they need a shoulder to cry on and they trust you, they'll reach for you. Actively doing anything will signal that you are uncomfortable with them crying and it'll make things worse and awkward later.

[@Martyn_Wolf]

People always say "shhhh it's okay don't cry" WHY? because they can't handle their own emotions, by consequence they can't handle another persons emotions.

[@rayanderson5797]

1:20 In other words: "I must the only woman in your life." Last time I saw a red flag this big and obvious, I was in China.

[@Manlikegibbon]

It took me a second to realize the joke, I was like "the f is wrong with normal chinese women?" and then I totally forgot the flag is 95% red...

[@LordDaret]

@@Manlikegibbonironically I have heard the dating scene in China is pretty nasty too, so technically it’s a double entendre.

[@EdyAlbertoMSGT3]

@@Manlikegibbon Not me having watched a video on bussiness in china basically being "Scam or die" Maybe the red flags are as metaphorical as they are literal

[@Elsureel]

She doesn't want any women in your family who will recognize her awful behaviors and might actually warn you because they are family

[@allancoelho6905]

Last time I saw one, the Soviet Union was still around, it was a soviet flag

[@Soveliss74]

"Is there anything better than sending memes?" That's how I got my fiancé to fall for me. Just had this big, long meme war one night.

[@therealcptsmoke]

I have unlocked a new technique when eating popcorn during anime. Thank you for sharing this

[@SuperSpells]

'This is giving us such a bad rap.' Girl, this has been going on for a while, and most women are blind to the downhill spiral.

[@mrosskne]

it's just women being honest lol

[@DistractedGlobeGuy]

Florence Nightingale was right.

[@Szzega]

@@DistractedGlobeGuy about what?

[@DistractedGlobeGuy]

@@Szzega women. ☕

[@Szzega]

@@DistractedGlobeGuy women. ☕

[@Outlaw7263]

"He wants to spend time with you, what's wrong with that?" She wants to cheat and not get caught.

[@liveandlearn4445]

LMAO

[@Chokah]

She wants to berate him later. "Oh you'll spend time with your boys but not with me?"

[@MarcusConnelly-w2n]

Confession time: My biggest fear is being thought of as creepy. Half the reason I'm single is not wanting to approach women and royally screw it up. First it was "Don't be hypermasculine", then it was "nice guys are always fake". Now this list exists. Way to make a guy feel unwanted, ladies.

[@megaman37456]

Honestly I'd be able to ignore lists like these and womens "requirements" if it weren't for one rather big factor. Courts will almost ALWAYS side with women against men, especially when the accusations are false, until that changes, I'm perfectly happy being single.

[@MarcusConnelly-w2n]

@@megaman37456 Not sure happy is the word I'd use. Still got the v-card and I'm at an age where that feels like I failed at life.

[@megaman37456]

@@Mr._Anderpson It's not the mating dance, it's the state of modern society that's the problem. Women can make false allegations until the heat death of the universe to ruin your life "just because" and get away with it nearly scott free. Until THAT comes to an end men aren't willing to flip that perverbial coin.

[@MarcusConnelly-w2n]

@@Mr._Anderpson No. You are supposed to get some kind of experience before you turn 30. I missed the boat. And I've had people call me horrible things or joke about me being a wizard.

[@vergillives9890]

​@@MarcusConnelly-w2nbetter to have your v-card then get mixed in crazy for the rest of your life

[@mrperfect6982]

The slow descent into madness we see from Fen is just hilarious.

[@wadekelly-higgs4624]

Its like they want to date a robot or something. "Dont eat, dont drink, dont have fun, dont have skills, dont get hurt or sick" ... maybe what theyre really looking for is the kind of boyfriend that takes batteries.

[@kairu_aname]

Nah, that's part of the eating and drinking thing.

[@the98themperoroftheholybri33]

"what's an ick?" "When men know how to cook" Umm its my job? Who does this woman think cooks her food in a restaurant?

[@michaelammons2350]

It's a way to force men to always take her out for food which is extremely expensive over time to do. They live in a fantasy world expecting fairytale shit without the understanding of real world cost

[@bonedude756]

I bake for a living so, my thoughts exactly.

[@tsittler]

​@@michaelammons2350It's fun watching clips of their brains freezing up when told the average yearly income level of just shy of 60k after being asked and saying 200k or some other six figure plus number.

[@mrosskne]

having a job is an ick

[@mrosskne]

​@@tsittlerno, they don't freeze up. they know. women are valuable, men aren't. they can demand whatever they want, and they'll get it.

[@Frolkinator]

99% of the list is what id call "woman moments" "men under 6feet, just grow taller" If a man said told a woman about her weight, he would been called an incel.

[@habkeinename3229]

@@Blackraptor1234ye, better example wouldave been a man telling a woman to just grow bigger boobs

[@Colonel-Sigma]

⁠boobs jobs exist. Height surgery can cripple or kill you. Not saying either is a good thing to demand. But one is more effective than the other.

[@denkerbosu3551]

@@habkeinename3229 No, because that's a FAR less invasive and risky surgery. You don't really need your tatas, everyone sure as hell needs their legs.

[@Defhrone]

I call woman moments situations where she gets in her feelings and 'needs to be right' in a public setting. Example: Recently I had a back and forth with a female busdriver. We had a gridlock situation on this incredibly small and thight intersection AND there was work being done on the road. This busdriver was sitting 8 meters away from the intersection and her bus' ass was next to one of the roadworks effectively cutting off all traffic going that direction. But she felt that she had the right of way on that intersection and would not cooperate with anyone trying to fix the gridlock. All she was asked was the drive 2 or 3 meters closer to the intersection so traffic coming at her could pass the roadworks. She refused to budge and we ended up fixing the intersection without her moving another way by directing EVERYONE backwards about 10 meters so the people stuck in her oncoming lane could turn around and take a detour. After almost 15 minutes the intersection was clear and she was still standing in the exact same spot, arms crossed like a littl' toddler. I went full Ken mode, since I once worked for the same employer, I filed a complaint.

[@mayuravirus6134]

​@@habkeinename3229Eat a lot of food that contains good fat like steaks either the fat goes to your boobies or your thighs

[@Alex_reH]

If your girl wants access to your phone and email passwords it's probably because she's cheating on you and assumes you are too.

[@skeetsmcgrew3282]

Almost 100% of the time, yes. Or she was cheated on in the past and is so traumatized literally nothing will convince her you are loyal. Give her your phone password? Now she needs every social media password too. And then she needs to know where you are at all times. And then she breaks up with you anyway because she "knows you are hiding something."

[@m16dude967]

Thats when im like, okay we trade phones and emails then. The look of defeat on their faces is priceless.

[@TheBayzent]

100% and I've got far too many receipts that corroborate this.

[@sonicrebelxd6197]

I felt like I had to say this but thank u…as a man who’s small who likes to chill play games and just make others laugh and someone who has like no luck with women at all u give me hope that there r sane women out there so thank u u got urself a new sub ^^

[@dominiklehn2866]

Im so glad many of us find these cirners of the internet through wholesome reactors like you who completely disprove their point instead of on our own and possibly find ourselves agreeing because of an algorithm rabbithole

[@agmoyer8319]

That list that keeps showing up is interesting with number 49 saying "don't have earlobes" and even better number 64 says "don't eat food"

[@fennryn]

I might have to do a part 2 at some point....

[@CartoonEric]

​@fennryn At the rate that list grows you'll be making this a three-parter.

[@williansnobre]

No earlobes? Is that a racist one?

[@cjmunnee3356]

​@@williansnobre What ethnicity or race doesn't have earlobes?

[@williansnobre]

@@cjmunnee3356 Many. It seems to show up in some groups due to genetic drift and isolation. I only noticed it in asians, though. First time I noticed it was in actor Daniel Dae Kim and since then I kinda try to spot it in other people as well. To me it is a curiosity that I had never noticed, but that lady it is a huge turn off.

[@Crowbars357]

Yup, humanity is doomed. Fuck it, I’m stockpiling supplies for the inevitable collapse and becoming an electrician. Bob the local war lord will appreciate the supplies and having his beer fridge running.

[@BloodrealmX]

Electricians are not only very useful, they also get paid really well. Go for it, dude.

[@ninjatvlv6101]

Blue collar and no debt is the way these days. Why im looking to welding. Shits gonna get real.

[@Crowbars357]

@@ninjatvlv6101 I’ll help you with wiring if you Mad Max my car

[@gigglezz811]

Yay capitalism ❤

[@darkzeroprojects4245]

Lol

[@Parapsychotic89]

"when men start crying, I don't know how to act". Neither do we when women cry. Suck it up and work through it, your partner needs you!

[@PeachDragon_]

Oh dear, i love this design, the ginger hair/ice blue eyes amuse me. A fine addition to my growing collection of canine vtubers.

[@JupixCZ]

Even though I'm married for 7 years now, years ago these discoveries about women's "preferences", icks and whatnot would made me feel bewildered, upset, angry. But I've become immune, indifferent, not caring. Just enjoying my life the way I want. And I know I'll keep doing that, wife or not. Knowing that is really liberating. Just reminder, for every woman that says things like this on camera, there are couple who refused or could not be bothered. The same way that not every man is murderer or sexual offender, not every woman is delusional or b*tch. Keep your eyes open lads, there still are decent woman beings out there. They're just not the loudest ones in the room and you won't find them on Tinder.

[@Xhope94]

Welcome to the reason why lots of guys out there now have a phobia of approaching girls 'cause they might be filming and later posting it on TikTok with a title implying you're a creep :) Social Media was a mistake

[@wiker680]

These sentiments aren't because of social media, people had these same bullshit reasons for not liking people before the creation of social media

[@tomraineofmagigor3499]

The sad thing is some of those women think they're teasing. Playfully saying to a guy "you're such a creep" can be considered teasing but doing so on social media isn't such a thing can only really be teasing if it's only between the two

[@noble_wine]

Its not just social media pal.

[@EdyAlbertoMSGT3]

@@tomraineofmagigor3499 "Playfully saying to a guy "you're such a creep" can be considered teasing" The only medium i've seen that make sense is japanese manga, and it's the one i dislike, specifically for that reason.

[@Swordofswordom]

@@tomraineofmagigor3499 There's like some anime "Ufufu anata wa hentai desu 😉" trope but post-MeToo that's asking to throw hands or get someone else to take things way too far, ruining things for everyone.

[@nigen]

Good to see a v-tuber who has more humanity than the general public

[@The_One_and_Oni25]

Yeah... Society is freaking doomed and this ship is sinking fast.

[@cryovein2507]

You figured it out when you said "they aren't allowed to be happy" glad to see you are just as confused as us with this.

[@zirilan3398]

no no no, we are meant to be misreable not just not happy

[@WeeADream]

You have earned my sub by giving me hope that theres still good people in this world. made my day 😂

[@SourMnMs]

How on Earth did we get here, where women being nit picky about men is an *understatement*.

[@notthething9531]

Industrial Revolution eventually made gender roles obsolete and life more comfortable, women convinced themselves they were the only people in the world that matter due to a mix of chauvinism, narcissism and entitlement coming to the conclusion they don’t need men, men embraced women’s chauvinistic victim complex because of chivalry and therefore refuse to hold them to behavioural standards.

[@dreymak4071]

"What's your biggest turnoff?" "Guys under 6 ft" So that knocks out 85% of the world outside of northern Europe. You just went from roughly 3 billion, to under 500 million potential partners. And that's worldwide, that's not even breaking it down country by country. A woman is in for a lonely life if "under 6ft" is a dealbreaker. Besides, there's some amazing short kings out there too. Edit, apparently a "short king" needs to be at most 5.7ft. 5.7 is the AVERAGE height of men worldwide. But I do agree with the sentiment that if you as a woman can complain that a man isn't 6ft+ then don't get mad at men when they want a shorter woman than them.

[@PlasmaMongoose]

It's worse than that. for example, in the Philippines, if you see anyone who is 6 foot or more, they will be a foreigner 99% of the time as only one in four hundred Filipino men are 6'0" or more.

[@johntan4997]

Numbers game isn't her strong suit. 500 million is alot to her.

[@HamguyBacon]

less than that

[@ninjatvlv6101]

6ft is one of the standards. 6 figures, 6 inches, 6 pack. It goes on. Most dudes dont win just cause they exist.

[@MattHew-rq8zw]

yikes... yeah sounds like standards set to impossible odds for the average joe - I think that's the English equvivalent term for the usual guy in the street?@@ninjatvlv6101 I guess the rest of us, can sit back and hope we'll meet someone with more realistic standards - or more accepting terms for coutship... 'cus I for one cannot just grow 0"6 to match the 6 feet minimum standard for height. (I'm not delving into the other numbers). I guess this is just the base, for I hear they want someone who can entertain them, be obidient... yet not being too nice or routine based - yet allow her your ecconimical assets, time and attention? Either way... it's a bit much.

[@tiny_rick4448]

"If they don't share their password" Bro that's invasion of privacy

[@Dressyone223]

If a man demanded to know his girlfriends passwords he’s called controlling and abusive

[@avroarchitect1793]

Many of us are required to have it, given our jobs. Lord knows I would be in criminal trouble if I gave out my passwords.

[@starmenslayer6949]

My totally reasonable ick list: -having hobbies (you cannot run away from the relationship) -having friends (you cannot have another relationship on the side even if it's platonic) -having living family members (refer to point 1 and 2) -wanting privacy (shouldn't be a problem unless you've got things to hide) -breathing (if you can't survive in deep space you're a weakling undeserving of my time) -literally living (like it's SO overdone people have been doing it for thousands of years, get with the times old man!)

[@EdyAlbertoMSGT3]

Honestly sounds like if the grim reaper was an american girl

[@sumanoskae]

Ideal man: Kills all his friends and family, transcends the mortal plane, and becomes a space faring undead. Sis just wants a fuckin' anime villain lol

[@readyskull0083]

@@sumanoskae They want Aizen from Bleach energy

[@kingoftrashbabies]

Sounds like my ex wife

[@Flesh_Wizard]

​@@sumanoskaesounds like a living black hole lol

[@BouncingTribbles]

It's gratifying how surprised you were by this, you got a subscription.

[@Swampgator0506]

A few things on the list I understand. But most of them seem to be unreasonable excuses, that these women used to break up. They were unhappy in the relationship and looked for anything or made something up. Now they are trying to get more people to believe that it was a good reason.

[@martinderabbie3429]

And the worst part is their only Hurting themselves

[@ScrewFearMe]

they are only unhappy because the guy is "boring" meaning he isnt a toxic loser.

[@AndrewTheFrank]

I think half of it is that they have this fantasy of what the perfect man is from media. the problem is that literally no man in existence is that man. So whenever a man does something that makes himself come off as human it becomes a turn off.

[@subjer0]

Man *breathes* Girl: *New ick unlocked*

[@the98themperoroftheholybri33]

Something I learned from watching my grandparents who had been married for 60 something years, is let the little things go. If something annoys you leave it for a couple of hours and the chances are you won't care. Also never argue while hungry

[@FratoiuAlex]

Agree hangry is the worst angry

[@ivaneames4354]

Agreed. There are always going to be those little things because absolutely no-one is one hundred percent perfect. We just want someone whose good points outweigh the bad ones.

[@burnttoast26]

And never go to sleep angry with them

[@mrosskne]

why would the person who has all the power in relationships settle?

[@danielcox7629]

The hangry is real.

[@hagenisse]

Thanks Fennryn, you've singlehandedly given me hope.

[@One_Swood_Guy]

Women’s requirements for a man: 6ft+ Model Billionaire Space ship captain Vampire Can read minds Can bend at least two elements Has 8 planetary conquests under his belt Men’s requirements for women: Alive Female (optional)

[@_YouTube-User_]

Alive (optional)

[@MrFrosty850]

This is why dating in general and the world is going doooown in quality.

[@sif3398]

In this video the viewer discovers that Fenn would be a good wife

[@piotr004]

Agree. Everything Fenn said I agree with (especially that she was not afraid to say it looks like these women just can't stand any little joy in men, men are repeating exactly this for long time already). I subbed her. On the other hand (it's not against Fenn), it tells a lot about a lot of today's women-the bar is so low that even the most basic empathy for men, human decency is viewed as "a good wife". If genders were reversed, all these men would be cancelled, called misogynists, lncels, etc. There are many reports of men saying they experience empathetic conversations only with chatGPT / AI women, because "real" women can't even treat them like humans. An AI is more human to men than most of today's women. I am a 29-year-old man and I fully support creating intelligent android women, because while it is harsh, and I would always prefer a real woman, that's probably the only way women can see competition and, maybe, change.

[@jwwt4]

Agreed

[@lucaspadilha893]

She's a character created by a person who knew men could be manipulated into simping for this character. Of course this character would be a dream spouse, that's what they were designed to resemble.

[@piotr004]

@@lucaspadilha893 Okay, but there are a lot of women who have looks (both regular streamers and vtubers), a lot of fans, and they wouldn't stand for men (some are openly hating them). It's so easy for women nowadays that they don't even have to like men to have a lot of male followers. In fact, I rarely see women (both in real life and as streamers/vtubers) standing up for men. Therefore, it's nice she says it, because it's not even necessary.

[@lucaspadilha893]

@@piotr004 you have a point, women like Pokimane, for example, openly express their mysandric and gynocentric point of views and doxx their critics since they know they can get away with it. But these women and V-tubers are selling different products. Pokimane and the alike focus on inciting lust, their image is what matters, and only that. V-tubers are selling the "cute anime girl", which includes the model, the modulated voice, the created personality, and so on.

[@jweezy15able]

Existing in general is a red flag. Obviously, all you have to do is become what she's always wanted: an ATM. I know all women aren't like this, but the amount that are is concerning.

[@CaptAoife]

We're up to eight billion people. If half are women and as little as 5% are like this that is still a fuck ton of people.

[@MasqueradeMisuOriginal.]

@@CaptAoife There’s actually more men then women but your point still stands and christ did i not see the 5% normal females thats bonkers

[@notthething9531]

The normal women (to the extent they actually exist) have made themselves irrelevant to this conversation by failing to hold other women to standards and failing to adequately oppose feminism. If they can’t be bothered to stand up and be counted then I don’t see why men need to count them. Reality is the female equivalent of incels have completely monopolised the mainstream conversation around gender since it began and have taken over academia, manipulating chivalry to completely normalise outright misandry as being moral and necessary.

[@whiplash1317]

was legit waiting to hear one of these (and am genuinely surprised i didnt) breathing, laughing or showing ANY emotions

[@generalskywalker95]

This is the first of your videos ive watched and now i dont know what to think, its been a very long time since ive discovered a new channel i actually like

[@shadowicedevil]

"its okay to cry" yeah as long as your alone, or atleast not outside of your closest bro's because 99.99999999999999999% of women would use that and any other vulnerabilities you show against you at a later date

[@chriscahill1005]

You forgot alone and in your shower so you can wash away all evidence

[@CptPablonius]

The way I see it, if they have an ick, you've dodged a bullet

[@lunard8690]

many men do feel from stuff like this that nothing they do could ever be good enough and no matter what they do they will be deemed worthless for hundreds of innocuous reasons that being said it is very helpful to everyone to have someone like you looking at things from a logical and sane perspective almost everything on tiktok is rotting peoples brains and many people see the lists and they think the insanity is normal, so thank you for having a coherent mind on a final note, many men have had very bad experiences, ive been alone since my divorce, i still have a 3 inch scar on my right arm to remember my last christmas being married to my exwife by, that was 7 years ago

[@vergillives9890]

When your treated as "disposable" you function like you are

[@Swordofswordom]

Yeah, you gotta give yourself an occasional reminder Chinese TikTok is full of like nationalism, tutorials, sports montages while outside TikTok is like Subway Surfer/Skibidi Toilet on a split screen. Statistically things are worse than they ought to be but the algorithm isn't going to give you a helpful visualization of that. 😅

[@TheBayzent]

People's quality in general has declined sharply in general, it's just that women started from a way lower ledge than men, so it is a lot more noticeable. Hope you are doing well and staying safe.

[@noelanicruz1929]

I found this video via recommendation, and that you just gave me a lot of hope for sane women, I hope you’re doing well, and I hope everything is going great! I almost forgot to mention this video earned my subscription.

[@fennryn]

aww thank you!! im glad you enjoyed it!

[@NatsuJayRockNeo]

"Just grow taller, honestly." Hmm, you think it's that easy? -Master Shifu

[@shayne.7770]

"If he doesn't beat me he's not worthy"

[@ilikethecokev2]

"If he does beat me, I get all his money and throw him in jail. Either way, I win."

[@TheBayzent]

I simped for a girl like that for...way too long until I realize I could never be the abusive boyfriend she needed. Wasted years of my life following, and being an emotional tampon. I wish there were some kind of medicine that would dull out feelings completely so I wouldn't have been that stupid back then and that jaded now.

[@kazuma7232]

​@@TheBayzentPlease don't beat yourself up over this. You were viciously manipulated by a demon in the form of a woman and you were just a plaything to her. It's not your fault.

[@davidweaver4436]

I want to believe the "is your grandma still alive?" woman was joking... but I can't be sure anymore.

[@davidweaver4436]

OK I can kinda relate to the crying one. When someone starts crying, I get super uncomfortable because I just don't know what to do. Calling it an "ick" is messed up, but when she said "because I don't know what to do" I can relate a little, lol.

[@avroarchitect1793]

her entire thing was that she was searching for a man without an active female role model/ family member in his life who could point out her manipulation and abuse of him.

[@OneThingRealQuick]

The good news is that you can believe that. She was displaying a lot of signs that she was acting like she was acting for the video. (Comment for the algorithm)

[@MasqueradeMisuOriginal.]

I thinkk they got a god complex or want the man to have no reason to leave them ever

[@BeastGuyver]

I loved the "knowing how to cook ick", my mom taught me to cook when I was 5, she taught me to bake, clean, sew, knit, crochet, cross stitch, my mom did not want me to depend on a woman for anything.

[@duralumin594]

A lot of Gen-Xers learned that stuff when we were 5 because if we didn't, we'd starve naked in the woods lol.

[@the11382]

I just can't imagine not wanting your partner to be a good cook. A reasonable person would consider cooking a green flag.

[@kapitan19969838]

Don't listen to that girl. DO NOT CRY PUBLICLY! DO NOT CRY IN FRONT OF WOMEN! Only Your best pal will understand. Not Your woman

[@Keep3r1438]

Idk man the guys around me would ridicule me

[@kristofnagy1373]

@@Keep3r1438 Get new friends

[@inkySaccharine]

My wife has seen me cry many times over the last 10 years we been together. Never once has she thrown it in my face and that's because of two possible reasons. 1) she's a good person, actually loves me and isn't just there for what I can provide for her considering we got married when I was a broke ass, scruffy construction worker with a drinking problem and she was in college for her masters in Physical Therapy. The only reason her family agreed to allow our marriage was because her dad has a fetish for black culture. The first time I met him, in a thick filipino accent he said, "What's up my nigga" and later my wife told me her dad made her watch Friday and The Friday After Next when he found out she was dating a black dude. 2) She's scared I'll throw her 4'8 ass out a window because I do have anger issues and she's seen someone do that to me before and the immediate violence that ensued.

[@IIMiikexDII]

People need to find actually good people to be around. I've had the same group of friends for 18+ years and have been with my wife for 12. Can cry in front of any of them without judgement.

[@chriscahill1005]

@@Keep3r1438 good friends will still tease but understand and not bring it up later

[@ralphforbes5807]

The fucking reaction to the having a mom one 😂 I've never seen your content but the algorithm pushed it forward and this was great thank you lol

[@_Trash_Goblin]

Yeah the unfortunate side effect of social media is that every dumbass thought people have at any time is now blasted out into the world for everyone to see. Sometimes it can make it seem that some ideas are way more common than they really are, as well. "Touch grass" is unironically good advice, despite the meme.

[@wiker680]

Nah I think social media is just giving us a good representation of how common these stupid sentiments are. The world's a dumber place than we realize

[@SarenSoran]

its precisely a meme because it is good advice that is so rarely taken

[@FratoiuAlex]

I actually practiced touching grass and did this practice in my yard, parks. And it feels nice. On summer times the grass in the shades are soft and cools you down nicely and is super refreshing and your toes touch it and if your not scared of getting dirty or bugs is super fun running on grass too

[@mrosskne]

​@@FratoiuAlexbased and naturepilled

[@legoboy7107]

Problem is that then people start to absorb and adopt these dumb ideas from seeing them all over social media, and then it spreads gradually like a disease or hivemind and then the ideas really do become common when they originally weren't.

[@Trojan_Rabbit]

These same women, "why are there no good men?"

[@kyleclawson8130]

The 6’ thing apparently happens more in places where height is measured in feet. Girls don’t say the same for its equivalent in meters. I think it’s just something girls latch onto as “tall”

[@fennryn]

huh thats a good point actually!!! I never hear women saying i need a 182cm tall man here in Europe

[@Gensolink]

i guess that's what happens when you get the mess that is "guesstimate" the measurement unit

[@ZenoDovahkiin]

It's extra weird when you consider the dozenal unit conversion. They have picked 72 - not 70 - 72 inches as the nice, round number that separates tall from short. And the meme-child in me is annoyed that 69 inches is not a sexy height. Also, 6'0" in modern imperial is ~5'7.5" in French inches. A weird line to draw, huh?

[@sodathejunker]

That’s because any woman committed to the concept isn’t smart enough to calculate height in metric. Most women who say 6’ is the baseline don’t even know what 6’ looks like, they just want someone a foot taller than them… even if they’re like 5’10”

[@mrosskne]

​@@Gensolinkit's not a guesstimate.

[@jamesnewell1876]

There was one that I spotted on the list that said “don’t breathe.” Ummm… huh?!?

[@ArctheDark]

You punching the desk after a woman declaring being able to cook is an ick made me hit the subscribe button.

[@milckop2972]

the great ick list feels like the great book of grudges lol

[@toastle8005]

THAT’S GOING STRAIGHT IN THE *FFFFFFUCKING BOOK*

[@shadowicedevil]

ah looks like your now the biggest grudge for comparing the book of grudges to this bs

[@irtuxy]

That is the correct way to eat popcorn if your not sharing it with someone else

[@FratoiuAlex]

Is literally your food, you have all the right to do what ever with it

[@PALACIO254]

It's fun to pretend you're an anteater

[@Firestar-TV]

Chameleon Power :D

[@Orphim]

I recommend finding a significant other who would do that with you honestly. I kinda find it cute when I see a woman do it lol.

[@kingoftrashbabies]

It's either eat your popcorn like you are yoshi, or shovel handfuls in like you're stoking a coal furnace. There is no in between lol

[@christianlenik5307]

2:20 "Should be busy all the time" - so you can have an Affair with another one? 😂😂😂

[@Coach_Shiner]

Yahtzee!!

[@darthimperius2865]

We all need a Fennryn in our lives.

[@spokenolive6769]

Oh man, thanks for this. As a man this is such an uplifting thing to hear.

[@Arkhivez]

“Why won’t men approach us anymore?”

[@trandaiphuc5342]

So I guess now even being happy and having free time is no longer allowed according to these women.

[@hungrymusicwolf]

It never was allowed by women my friend, men just took it and said "fuck you". They'd get labels thrown at them even back in the 50s, men back then instead worked themselves to death out of the fear of the judgement of their wives (that's one reason why a lot of men committed suicide after being laid off during the great depression in the US).

[@solaris9426]

If my significant other ever made me choose between my video games and them, I'd choose my video games 100% of the time. I'd rather have a gamer for a significant other than a stick in the mud.

[@TheBayzent]

What do you mean "now"? Did you think men in cavemen times preferring to be in front of a Mammoth than with their wives in their caves was just because they enjoyed the outdoors?

[@benceklock4831]

08:39 You know it's bad when Fenn sounds like an actual fox screaming

[@yukotrey9422]

This is funny and all but the bowl!!! THE BOWL!! The spoon was going crazy when you slapped your table 🤣

[@MalusTmcraeensis]

I've only rode a real train twice in my entire life. Also, it's impossible for me not to cry about the story of Hachiko and cry after Akira toriyama passed away.

[@bchaozgamer4282]

These woman have no souls, Why you doing this to yourself Fenn?🤣😂💙🧡

[@fennryn]

i asked myself that every second while recording the video

[@hawkings22]

@@fennryn Content printer go brrrr

[@FratoiuAlex]

​@@fennrynsome of us just want to suffer one way or another

[@FerunaLutelou]

You think she has a soul lmao? It's a public persona, ofc she will play nice with majority of her audience.

[@wiresculptor5951]

"They just want me To be miserable" Well yeah actually according to every gf ive ever had 😂

[@morewi]

The train thing is her thinking you don't have money for a car. She just doesn't want to look petty, not realizing she made herself look bad

[@Chokah]

Hmm $40k for a car when I can spend like $30 a month and get a ride to wherever I usually need to go that I can't just walk to... GEE that's a hard choice.

[@Fightmema9]

dude, I felt her soul leave her body at 5:30 with that one

[@themini_b]

I hope Fenn reads these comments. The mental health of men needs to be addressed and systemic change needs to happen. That doesn't mean we need to bring down women to uplift men, all ships rise with the tide.

[@alexandercarman9128]

This is why most men would rather be single

[@liveandlearn4445]

Am i wrong... For thinking the single life is very chill? 🎵 That's just how i feel. (oowoohoohoohoo)🎵

[@Keep3r1438]

Rather be single yet constantly complain