He didn’t want a relationship | Talks with Tony

[@CoachLove]

Unfortunately, many men spend decades wounding women. Then, when they get ready to settle down, they want a woman who isn't wounded.🤯 That don't go together.

[@movingforward2711]

So true

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Girl! Make it make sense! 🙆🏾

[@nikkyshamz2696]

In this case though, he was honest ,she went ahead to try to conquer him and it backfired...

[@MartinaKing225]

as they say, make it make sense....

[@jessicagrant9748]

Right ? Like where they do that at . You ain’t never lied 💯

[@brookebenton8192]

If he says he doesn't want a relationship, it usually means he doesn't want one with YOU!! Trust me, I learned the hard way.

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

And he might still tell you he loves you, you're the only woman for him and STILL not want a commitment. He might need time, that might be true, but you nor I should be put on hold. Life ain't a movie. Can't put pause.

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Oh, and that he will always have your back. That you can call him whenever. He loves your kid or kids. And that he even sees you as wifey and STILL not commit. So beware 😏

[@bribrigoddess9576]

This was a wordddddddddd! My sons father waited until I was 4 months pregnant to say “I don’t want to be in a committed relationship” my response was NO PROBLEM. I didn’t fuss, argue or fight him on that. He was more hurt that I didn’t chase behind him than anything else. Everytime he tries to cross that boundary HE SET I remind him that he didn’t want a relationship. Either man up and become a real man, or stay a grown boy out in them streets catching stds...

[@watermelonsavannah]

cmon sis!! 🙌🏾 well done xz

[@kristinakellogg1732]

Very well said! Keep on moving on and Live your best life

[@sbc129]

Boss

[@rickiesmith413]

@Brianna, Facts.

[@Adilah_Lite]

🔥🔥

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“That’s the number 1 thing that women do wrong is not listening to what a man telling you.” TG

[@dashafenty9969]

so true smh

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Facts

[@micheleprice9771]

So RIGHT! Yes INDEED!

[@melaniegonzalezart8506]

A man once told me he's flying by the seat of his pants. He was telling me point blank where he stood in life.

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

That part!!!

[@ysmithriley]

Sis, the first thing this man told you was "HE DID NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU! YOU DECIDED that you was gonna have him "NO MATTER WHAT" and tried to redefine Soul Tie and Bonding! Your TAKEAWAY from this should be that YOU CAN'T FORCE a man to LOVE YOU because you are doing things for him. PLEASE MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!

[@kristinakellogg1732]

Another take away is for her to love herself enough where she isn't doing all this to try and get him..keep him..have him.

[@officialwatchamber]

All these are FACTS right here!!!

[@mareelovely]

And even more than you CAN'T force a man to love you...Why would you even want to force a man to WANT you???!!! What is going on that we don't even feel worthy of a man WANTING to be with us?? How did we get here that we feel the only way we can have love is to force and manipulate and PURCHASE a man into picking us???

[@nafeesahtharpe6813]

You were warned

[@precioussimonee333]

learned this the hard way smhh i’ll never make that mistake again God gave me ears and I wasn’t even tryna use them 😂

[@Godislove818]

This is sooooo true, I did listened to Tony and now the man is on the other side confused. Ladies please listen “a man won’t change for nobody but God and himself”...

[@aneesahm4301]

Don’t ever, in your life, set out to change a man! ~ T.G. ~ A leopard don’t change its stripes!

[@BeBeautifullyYou]

Spots

[@amiragreen2577]

😆,yup ole skool sayin

[@JUSTKEEPSHININGBRIGHT]

The man told her from the start that he didn't want a relationship. Women! We need to learn that we cannot rescue or change anyone! Especially a man. We have to stop playing superhero!

[@lisaariottiart]

princess save a bro

[@micheleprice9771]

ITS HARD ,YET SO TRUE! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED!!

[@KrystleLaughter]

People are always telling us who they are. Problems arise when we refuse to believe them. I just did a video on this.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Can't be over emphasised

[@lisaariottiart]

on point

[@AyesheAlwaysLovely]

All facts, NO CAP!

[@Anderson-gr5le]

TELL US

[@yamiyascott1598]

"Never do for a man what he's not doing for you" -TG 💯

[@dashafenty9969]

THAT PART !

[@officialwatchamber]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Selah

[@lisaariottiart]

and never do for a man what he's not doing for himself

[@beefaye18]

Golden....

[@staceythorpe7938]

Absolutely! I had a FOINE college guy friend who saw that girls in our Physics class were feenin for him and one girl in particular desired a relationship with him. He openly announced that he's not the committed type. Another time in our Advanced Math class he openly said that when he's 40, he's gonna look for a nice Spanish woman to marry. When a guy openly tells you who he is, BELIEVE him.

[@yaelnadel]

Why does that sound exactly like the guy I was with from physics class in college 😳

[@staceythorpe7938]

@@yaelnadel because guys speak the same language. The college I attended many years ago is not in the USA .

[@Dallas3212]

@@staceythorpe7938 Where was it Stacey if I may ask

[@staceythorpe7938]

@@Dallas3212 🇹🇹

[@princessfam]

Never lead a man in love...let him LEAD in the love department. Always reciprocate LESS!!! Yaaaassss

[@stargoldqueen5894]

"Most men are not for "normal" relationships." Ain't that the truth.

[@viviennebaptiste]

The bitter truth

[@crystalmarcia2614]

WHEN A MAN SAY HE DOES NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP BELIEVE HIM! YOU TRYNA FORCE HIM INTO ONE IS ONLY GONNA HURT YOU IN THE LONG RUN 🤦🏾‍♀️‼️

[@amab1853]

So true. It leaves you always trying to prove yourself, and leaves you feeling broken. Once in the early stages they say they're not looking for a relationship, keep it moving

[@crystalmarcia2614]

@@amab1853 Indeed 🙌🏾

[@shutit4024]

@@amab1853 I wish all men were like this saying it upfront before letting anything happen honestly I can’t blame this guy because she still continued it would of been alittle different if they were 6 months in and he lied

[@jennaclark5516]

Don't save them they don't want to be saved. Lord have mercy

[@JermaineThomas4050]

True.

[@officialwatchamber]

🗣🗣That part!!!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Save yourself lol

[@deliteful1991]

I was singing this instead of reading it.🤣🤣🤣

[@JermaineThomas4050]

@@deliteful1991 😁😆

[@ingridfrancetravels]

🗣”Never do for a man what he’s not doing for you!”

[@tamarag9981]

Exactly 💯

[@leesmith3768]

It's too many women out here pursuing romantic relationships the same way they approached pursuing their educations and careers. They think if they approach it strategically, make goals, plan and execute then they can accomplish their goal of "winning" a man over and that is just not how it works.

[@royyalkulturefinancial6265]

Not at ALLLL. That's why I hate hearing people say relatio ships is like a business. No it isn't

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Very insightful 💯

[@pooh4025]

I felt like a teacher with a red ink pen circling all the mistakes...it all started when he said he didn't want a relationship...

[@nikkyshamz2696]

🗣🗣🗣‼️‼️

[@evezazzle5974]

😭🤣 exactly💯

[@cherh]

😂😂😂

[@aphroditanyc]

Not speaking to anyone about your bedroom or relationship other than a professional is a lesson that most people have to learn through trial and error, but that is the truth! Another great video!

[@authenticallyindigo]

I love this channel because I learn so much from tony. I kind of just went through this situation where this guy I was dating said he valued our friendship but he can’t give me a relationship right now because that’s not what he wants. So I walked away from it and I haven’t talked to him since. When a man speaks please listen and move on with your life.

[@minimalassembly7893]

Same.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

You did great 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@authenticallyindigo]

@@nikkyshamz2696 Thank you

[@victoriarossetti999]

What exactly did you say to him ??? and congrats on moving on

[@nikkyshamz2696]

@@authenticallyindigo ♥️

[@pjSoCal23]

When somebody tells you they don’t want a relationship or they are not looking for one, it’s time to go... don’t waste your time with that man. Usually it’s because they’re keeping their options open and they’re talking to multiple people/women... I would’ve said to him thanks for the information... bye-bye. Peace out!

[@Nekole1]

Exactly

[@meredithhillard5449]

So good! "Never ever change a man. If he's not ready to be who he needs to be without your reinforcement, go about your business." Thank you for your wonderful teachings. Recognizing red flags now and ending things quickly with men and asking questions and listening due to you and R.C. Blake's messages. You have been a Godsend because I can't mess around as a newly single mom and must protect my peace at all costs to provide my sons with the best life I can. Thank you.

[@fandybonsu6375]

Had to learn this the hard way too. When you know better, you do better.

[@jam1369]

Yes, listen to what the man says and does not say. Pay attention to his energy. What you want may not be what you see. ☺

[@Shanice1]

"Gone Bout Yo Business!" TG Tony is right you cannot change a Man. I learned the hard way being young and foolish. Same thing my Dad say to me. You will eventually get your feelings hurt. 🙏🏾💕

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Facts only

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Yes ma'am 👍 👏 🙌 😌

[@cherh]

okay so he was, "emotionally unstable" & told you he wasn't for "normal relationships" and you did some strange things to try to get him to change his mind. That's what I finally got from it. Bless your heart

[@nikkinanette8807]

🤦🏾‍♀️😩🤦🏾‍♀️😩

[@Glamrocs]

Exactly Bestie... 🤣 he said he doesn’t want a relationship and she was going to do anything 🙄 to convince him

[@cherh]

@@nikkinanette8807 I meeean, he told her up front she wanted to change his mind 😩🥴

[@cherh]

@@Glamrocs heyyy beauty! Ikr! She can't even be mad at him or hurt by the situation

[@Glamrocs]

@@cherh Not at all. He told the truth from the beginning. She decided she was going to put on captain save a man who don’t want me hat on and make him change his mind.

[@taraxx2150]

Just accept it when he says he doesn't want a relationship. Why stick around and give him all the benefits? Doing so will certainly not give him a reason to commit. Know your worth ladies.

[@Zoe66895]

When he put his head down after reading the email 😂!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

😅😅😅

[@royyalkulturefinancial6265]

He couldn't compose himself. I know the stuff he reads he be like what's wrong with these women.

[@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906]

It's wonderful that she is seeking feedback and the way she honestly asked for Tony's opinion. It's like men will literally tell women they do not want a serious relationship, either by their actions or their words, but women ignore the signs. Women have to take accountability for that, get out at the first sign he's not interested. A man who truly wants you will make it clear!!

[@kimmourino3051]

Ok for real, you can’t win a man thru sex, that is lust not love sis, and yes Tony you never talk intimate stuff, that’s why it’s called intimacy

[@prkzoomin6994]

The smarter you get, the less you speak

[@productofaprayingmom]

Made up: Soul Tie Biblical term: Stronghold 🙏🏾

[@HeEmpressMe]

I am hollering 🤣🤣😂😂😭😭 “he crazy 👁 oop 🤚🏾 Lord forgive me aint nobody want to say that” and the whisper in the 🎙 “you crazy.” There’s always a lesson in the message and a good laugh sometimes. Sometimes you have to laugh to not cry.

[@lissyaviles4316]

So true. .. That’s why I feel Blessed in my Island 🌴 of PuertoRico it’s the only place we’re you can truly own your Land and House and not pay taxes .. My God is good👏

[@carlyc9891]

Sounds good

[@jayp7957]

I served in active duty and now I’m a federal civilian doing my military job for years now. Infidelity and having multiple choices is VERY high! Even within the marriages. I’ve been the wife & the unknowing girlfriend to a fellow service man. Not all do it-but it’s definitely a “norm”. There’s too many opportunities (people around) and too much time available to play around. He might be already married but hiding that as well. It’s part of that “culture” so let it go Ms. Lady.

[@pjSoCal23]

@@LA-wv7gf Yes.. sorry to hear that that happened to you. That is sad.

[@ThisIzKena]

Tony!!! You gon' have to stop dat slurpin'..😂😂😂😂💀

[@brandihines2332]

LISTENING IS KEY. IT CAN BE HARD TO DO. I'VE DEFINITELY BEEN THERE BEFORE. I WISHED I DID LISTEN AND SAVED MYSELF SOME HEART BREAK. BUT YOU GROW AND USE THE EXPERIENCE TO DO BETTER. TONY IS REALLY SAVING LIVES. 🙏🏽☝🏾👏🏾

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Facts only

[@CarmenLifeCoach]

Great input and advice on this story ! The lesson once again for all of us ladies is to only trust actions that prove love and respect, because to go on and develop feelings on anything less will lead to heartbreak and disappointments. We would all like and hope a man would change for us and realize our worth, but for a man to change he has to wish good upon himself, not wear it on his forehead that he is not relationship material. When that happens, we must love ourselves more, move on and once this lesson is learnt, we will be happy because we see things and operate differently !

[@iga2226]

I am a simple girl, I see a new video from Mr. Tony Gaskins, I click like and then watch the clip with calm mind 🤍

[@liciabee6735]

Right!!

[@nikkinanette8807]

Every 👏🏾time👏🏾

[@jessicathompson7392]

yes we know its always going be a good message without a doubt

[@kellyweeks3109]

I have laugh so many times listening to Tony and his gestures...TY

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Ditto...

[@jussjess2829]

Tony ain’t tellin not one lie. I dated a man in the army for about six months. Bro told me he love me and wanted to marry me because I was the one. Brought me gifts and all that. One day he was gone with the wind, gone like the wind and I never heard from him again. Smh

[@deliteful1991]

Man’s rejection is God’s protection.

[@NutsNBerries]

He was love bombing

[@officialwatchamber]

Desperation < Confidence. Life Lessons!!!

[@karen-hernameispoetry6239]

God Bless You Tony! You hit the nail on the head with the "Special Forces" point. I met someone who was cop and all he did was play games. I gave him way too much credit he didn't deserve. I'm really enjoying and learning from your messages. Thank You!

[@FutureAttyInTheMaking]

Facts - Confirmation, Confirmation!!!! Abstinence = Total Peace Of Mind..Speak on it “die out to your flesh” - TG 🙏🏼 Stay Blessed!

[@88kimberly]

It is hard to hear the truth. But i don't meet any man that is ready for a relationship at all 😆😅and i am 32. Heartbreaking

[@apriljohnson2441]

Telll it Tony you have listen and believe what he tells you. You can’t change man period. Change comes within and with God help🙌🏾

[@CoachLove]

#2. I didn't want to edit. I had a relationship with a military guy fifteen years ago. Soon as he was overseas for a war, he accused me of cheating. Like, really?? I waited years to get in a relationship just to cheat? 🤦🏾‍♀️Broke up with him. I ain't got time for that nonsense or being scrutinized because that's what other women do or the men in the squadron do. He realized the stupidity later, but I don't do off and on.

[@beatriceruttagah6305]

Y’all better listen to Tony! 21 years in the Military he isn’t lying

[@sparklejan3]

Them military men wheew

[@TheQueenishere91]

Discipline, responsibility, integrity, character, self love, loving thy neighbor as thyself. Grown man core values

[@tanbutterfly8282]

When Tony said sf is crazy he told no lies. I knew he knew what he was talking about. I have dated several and worked with them. No ma'am no sir never again.

[@infj662]

Thx!

[@twinluvdee540]

Y’all are truly a blessing!!!! I’ve applied so much of this to my life. You are giving the game Ive never got from my dad or brother! Thank you!!!

[@denisemyers733]

Facts I needed this years ago. I apply it now tho to my life. lessons learned.

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Amen

[@yessicacuate5400]

I love this man he taught me so much man and God bless him for helping us and seeing things we don't see or don't want to see.

[@mshunter6210]

That slurpin TOOK ME OUT😭GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TONY🖤👑

[@delorismartin3537]

I just came across this and it's ironic, bc I just ghosted a guy I was seeing on and off. He finally told me he was "to busy" to be in a relationship. He didn't "know how" to be in a relationship. In a year and two months we had sex about 10 times...and went out twice and a bunch of BS in between......are last conversation he said the only way he would leave me alone is if I changed my phone number....its been 4 days so far with my new number and new found peace.

[@CarolineSharesATopic]

Oh my lol...I was military and I would not look to date someone in special forces, infantry, or in the marines. Training is to intense to remain stable.

[@infj662]

Thx!

[@kellyweeks3109]

I married 2/Marines...mistakes they did to be de-programmed

[@ginad8238]

Amen Tony! Thanking God for your father helping you to find your true calling to help us be better women and wives!🙏🏽🔥

[@nikkinanette8807]

Car salesman, attorneys, and insurance adjusters are the MOST underhanded professionals, especially the men.

[@mizzannabella]

@@LA-wv7gf What about someone in supply chain management or logistics? I really need him to make a video on the careers and what that says about a man

[@Daniii27]

You rarely ever laugh on camera so when you do, i lose it lol

[@jessicagrant9748]

Tony got us trained to the T! LOL @ about [2:00] min mark I shook my head and said “ Alright Nah you done messed around and got on yo Bikye (back)” and still lost the man . Smh .. this letter was too good LOL

[@lavenderwhiteroses8508]

I don't understand these men no more. That's why i'm single i've been single for 4 years going on 5 and it just feels all these dudes are the same. I already met one dude from last week the first thing he told me he had five kids and not only that he was sleeping around with a women who is already married. Soon as i heard that, that was a wrap asap. It just feel like men these days are only looking for one thing its either the money, the drugs, or the sex and it is just sad because ain't none of them can respect a lady none of them don't wanna do anything but be lazy and stare off to space and looking dead directly at you while you're talking and he ain't listening.

[@overthetopinflatablesparty6782]

So men don't tell us women they don't want a relationship until we 10 months 🤔 in . We need to ask these questions from day one

[@deliteful1991]

Totally agree. We can’t ask about relationships, but they can ask for sex after the first date.🧐🤨🙄

[@delorismartin3537]

The guy I was seeing changed his tune so many times. I got dizzy. When we met he wanted a relationship, in between I wanted to move out of state, he said his feelings changed for me. I didn't move, my job wouldn't allow it. Now we are here and he tells me he doesn't know how to be in a relationship, he was to busy. Mind you he also told me he wants to be in my life some way some how....I ghosted him, changed my number. I was tired.

[@Courageous_Motherhood]

Man! I've been there. This sounds like my children's father....smh... A tough road. But the truth is that they will tell you who they are up front. We've got to stop trying to "prove" and "save"... Whew, hard lesson learned. I appreciate the free game you give Tony....you are breaking chains!!💪🏾👑💪🏾

[@ThemetunesofLife]

That’s why they call it special forces, because you’re special - this line had me 🤣🤣

[@cherh]

Look, I've played this back 5 times...now what now?! 😩🥴

[@MartinaKing225]

I've always been weary of military and police men. He knows how to shoot and if he does something to you, he has people on his side who will protect him.......they're not all like that though. (my stbx did mixed martial arts and put me in choke holds when he started gettin physical - you're right T)

[@lunas2551]

Thank you for this. My dad passed away when I was young, so I don’t have him here to warn me about men. I appreciate the messages you share and your honesty

[@chloethemessenger]

Tony whenever I’m having a rough day I listen to you. You’re hilarious 😂 I need these laughs about these serious topics.

[@sonyacody6039]

Mr Tony You Are So Funny Not The Eyes And "He's Crazy " Took Me Over The Top!!! The Advise Right On Point Thank You So Much !!! Trying To Find My Way Over 60 And By Myself in This New World To Many Grown Boys!! Lol!!

[@lneal2800]

Hi! Tony you are killing it! This is a good one!Be blessed!🙏🏽

[@Iamjess819]

Tony’s words can really expand your mind!!! 🙌🏾

[@cheekscheeks5840]

I’m here y’all

[@misst72]

This was a great Talks with Tony episode!! Thank you!!!

[@tiffanymitchell-ross6902]

Good evening Coach, enjoyed this one you know how to give straight facts. God bless you and your family

[@jayday7609]

Trust me learning the hard way will cost you!!!

[@CaramelCuban]

He crazy, then all the different faces Tony ! too FUNNY!

[@tracey5215]

It’s too much games being played by some of these men. It’s sad and ridiculous on another level.

[@ccbaker3644]

EXACTLY. That's why there is alot of single women that got there stuff together..because they will not tolerate bs from a man..Js

[@Glamrocs]

That’s true but he wasn’t playing any game’s. He said his truth she tried to change his mind.

[@tracey5215]

@@Glamrocs You’re right. I was just saying that from a general perspective. I did that before, trying to change a man, and it backfire. I was pouring more into him and not receiving it back in return. When he broke my heart, God spoke to me on that, saying that I chose that man over him. I had to evaluate myself. He clearly told me that he wasn’t ready but I pushed him into a relationship anyway. I had no one to blame but myself. That was almost 16 years ago. Ever since that incident I cut off men with a quickness that’s not ready and will potentially waste my time.

[@impressiveevents247]

Today video tickled me 🤣 but was informative at the same time. I especially love the small piece of knowledge in regards to renting, buying, and property taxes. Because it is absolutely 💯 true. Home ownership was designed for banks to make money. Tip, if you want to and you can afford too. Buy land and build your home on that land. So that you own it and not the bank.

[@MomNurse37]

Love the vocabulary lessons..love it!

[@BreeziDeezi]

2:40 omg she ate it like groceries ❗️

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

I SCREAMED LAUGHING. OMG

[@LEXZAYful]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I screamed when I saw this comment 😭😭

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

@@LEXZAYful yess. Me too. I was in the car dying laughing

[@AY-tf8op]

I just died 😂😂

[@Glamrocs]

Omg

[@Gloria_All_Day]

Thank you Tony for this message you save me from a heartache.

[@nikkinanette8807]

I busted out laughing when she mentioned her gay fren 😩😭😂

[@nikkyshamz2696]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you know this

[@amiragreen2577]

There's a gay guy on Facebook that makes videos giving women advice about men and not just dl men but straight ones too🧐🤨

[@DinaStrange]

I love how Tony explains things.

[@kemiLuv]

From the bottom of my heart I wanna say thank ur Mr Tony Gaskin 😊😊

[@ladyasha7382]

I really appreciate the light drawn on this; this perspective was very insightful Tony. His profession in most cases reveals his focus and mindset.

[@onevenus6040]

You are wise beyond your years ❤

[@alunalalune8691]

That lean in when Tony said “...he crazy-“ I died 🤣🤣🤣

[@denisewilliamson4749]

Thank you Tony, I pray this young lady get the lesson from you today. He told her from the jump he don't want to be in a normal relationship. His mind set is different for a normal relationship ! She should of of listen to what he said and left him alone. 🏃 run girl! Please listen to this video several times to get it!

[@latoyaneal8436]

Tony, you and the lovely Wife are so dear to me. You two are truly one and your sons are obviously blessed by y'all and returns blessings back in their unique God-given way. I'm truly a subscriber and so grateful for your raw, straight to it approach on diminishing dark, seemingly endless issues concerning before and within marriage. Much love til Eternity

[@melaniegonzalezart8506]

I'm guilty of taking advice from a group of ghey males, woweee did I go wrong. I'm glad this Sister was honest about her situation so that we could all learn from the answer Brother Tony gives. So grateful.

[@shaunabee]

Hey Tony 🙋🏾‍♀️ Hey Blessed Tribe 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@misst72]

Hey!!!!🙋🏾‍♀️

[@Glamrocs]

Hey boo

[@officialwatchamber]

Hey QUEEN 👑

[@fabulousmdb7927]

How many times does Tony have to tell us we can't change a man? He has a whole video titled "you can't change him"

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

😂😂😂

[@veelove2226]

Come on Tony Gaskins speak on it, as a woman you never lead in love! Blessings to you and the queen🙏🏾

[@mzbattle1210]

Thanks. TG

[@reginaanderson7995]

Wow!!! So much insight and wisdom! Your channel and talks has blessed me tremendously and opened up so many new revelations! God is pleased! Your boys are blessed to have you as a father! Thank you!!!!!

[@nessparadis6948]

Pretty lady! I love your hair.

[@naydinepaul6592]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 for his "he crazy" responds You the best Tony 😂🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Keep it up Legend 😎

[@nialeilakande]

My two sons’ biological fathers did not want my pregnancies and my sons today are almost 17 and 11 and I wouldn’t never have it any other way because I am today this strong badass 💪🏾 mama thanks to my kids!!! My second son’s father married me after I gave him an ultimatum and that was my mistake…. Never again for sure. I was weak as a woman but now almost 50, I know better. My eyes are open wide and I can recognize red flags early on and I am never going to let another man abuse or disrespect me like my exes did me. I am to blame because I take full responsibility for my actions and the decisions I made back then. I had to do better and I am doing better now. ❤❤❤thanks Lord and thank you Tony! I am sharing most of your awesome videos on my channel❤❤❤

[@pksensation]

Moral of the story don't be a Captain-Save-A-'Boy

[@lilsamantha1]

😂😂😂

[@earthangel8399]

From the get go this man was a challenge to this woman. Sadly she ignored the signs. Men trained in the military or law enforcement are tough nuts to crack. A man like this is not easily charmed by women. He's either into you or he's not..and his cut off game will be next level if you don't meet his standards. So you better be strong when you deal with him...because he's going to control how close you get to him.

[@justlillian__]

Great lesson!!

[@ericad4569]

Tony, you make me laugh. Thank you for your wise words and humor.

[@tataboo100]

Tony, 🏆 you deserve an award for the reenactments you do. Lol. Great advice per usual.

[@kellyweeks3109]

Comedy Central ....😪