He'll Be Chasing You With THIS | Feminine Energy with Adrienne Everheart

What makes a man feel good, chase you and relish in the SLOW BURN.
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[@projectqueen610]

It seems that leaning back is like knowing who you are, loving yourself, staying in the moment, expressing more postive feeling and allowing the chase. It is not being needy, appeasing, setting side my own feelings, chasing or obsessing over. It seems that knowing what I want helps. It also seems that knowing this guy is not a need but a want, would be helpful.

[@m.n.d5949]

Well said.

[@NaturallyHERS]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@dreamyanon5151]

Project Queen love this! ( ˘ ³˘)♥

[@AZheatherrr]

Nailed it Project Queen

[@Dlovely516]

This is what i feel. And have been getting great results! I have been expressive and feminine. I get more phone calls and openness. My feelings don't seem to scare them off because I'm not pressuring... just feeling. And i like that. What if we don't get back together? I think I'm gonna let it go until i know he wants me back and is ready to move forward. I feel like now i am playing with fire. I need to get busy. I have to find a balance. I don't want to be just friends.

[@carieyounginsurance]

Envision you are both in a canoe- let him row. Continue to do this “metaphor” in your life..are you rowing? Steering? Telling him what to do? Planning? STOP- lean back and let him row. You can then decide if you want to go out on the boat with him - or leave him at the shore and let a real man lead you.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 🥰 What a lovely perspective!

[@chaniridley7862]

That’s what I’ve learnt from Rori Raye 😊

[@faithalleva9689]

@@AdrienneEverheart I have your 100 men meditation tool but I feel it would be helpful if you did a meditation with affirmations such as; I feel like a feminine energy goddess. I feel men’s eyes on me everywhere I go. I feel loved, my life is full and juicy. Can you please make one like this ? 💁‍♀️🥰♥️

[@MalenaLuna444]

I love this perspective! Ty. I have a better grasp on that now

[@annettea9158]

I lost my feminine energy from a bad marriage. I ended up having to do so much by myself I didn't realize how much of my feminine energy I had lost. I am now dating a wonderful man and I am re-learning how to be a woman again. This all came so natural when I was young. It's like I am learning how to walk again.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you, honey! 💕 Keep up the good work. This video will help you also. kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZPLcmltd610pa8

[@josephinewliu]

0:44 what is leaning back versus leaning in. Feminine energy is about the woman NOT making things happen for the relationship. you do not make Actions and Outcomes. the man takes the lead in the relationship. 5:17 masculine energy is doing, solving problems, making things happen, organizing. feminine energy is about receiving. leaning back, and being warm. say "wow, this must be ....for you", speak with how it feels and with passion. let the man be in charge and making things happen. 11:52 do not make things happen for him. do not criticize him. do not coach him, do not get him to do it your way, do not manipulate him 12:05 Q&A

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you. 🥰

[@maddipage1347]

I asked my grandmother, who had a 30 year marriage and she said there was no extra thoughts or theories back then, they married didn’t get advice and just lived! Oh how things seemed so simple back then I wish they could be that way now esp since we are busier than ever

[@AdrienneEverheart]

How sweet! I think we have unlearned a lot of the natural stuff. :-)

[@spartanman5231]

oh yes the good ol days when love was easy and whos the ones that complicated things ladies ill give you a hint its not us but ofcourse you all think it is.

[@warriorprincess5315]

Is that the Best 💪👍 ♥️

[@arlenesusanarivera7809]

So true. My mom and dad were introduced by my grandma. They say it was love at first sight and they were happily married for 16 years..my dad passed away when I was 8 and my mom never remarried. None of this talk it so complicated these days. You are correct it was more simple back then. So beautiful. It’s like the people changed

[@lynnedavis4819]

men seem to not put out any effort. when you tell them you are moving on they jump through hoops to get ahold of you

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yass Queen. You gotta really mean it though.

[@nazkhan3719]

Happens ....... after 3-4 such talks,Finally I moved on for good..... enjoyed my alone time with family friends and myself.Got an amazing man who is loving and soon will be married 😍😊

[@14kurtismiller]

Some men are in constant prep work and rush in when a woman is leaving him. Example, some men get engaged to a woman for years trying to fix his credit, increase his income and more. It won't guarantee a perfect or stable relationship, but its what men do to be secure in a relationship at the next level, going from engagement to marriage. I no longer think this way, that was when I was in my mid to late twenties. Now, as I move into dating again some day I go by my standards so that I won't delay a healthy relationship with a woman should it come about.

[@theveganfoodie4919]

'You are his sage haven at the end of the day'. Words to remember. Thank you.

[@hgt1758]

Your voice is so relaxing. You're a natural haven that you are talking about.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You’re very sweet! Thank you ❤️

[@dennesaaa]

“Feminine energy is about the woman not making actions and outcomes happen for the relationship” Wow, you completely put that in a different perspective for me. Thank you! 🤍🤍

[@dellamarie4650]

I am full of masculine energy 🤦‍♀️

[@smritirajan4992]

👍💃

[@Angel-tv5lq]

Della Marie same here 🤦🏼‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤦🏼‍♀️

[@ericabassi7728]

@Della Society insists that we must be. But you can change it around little by little. The first step is just feel your feelings fully on a regular basis and dont 'stuff them down' because they are inconvenient

[@claorenza]

I hear you 😔🙄

[@mslira5081]

😂💀me too

[@kylieking8163]

Your hair always looks good and healthy

[@robertvandyke9781]

in nutshell give him space and let him lead and be there to help him and that is all i need. i want you ideas and want you input but let me lead and plan

[@EscapeTheCommute]

This is the best relationship advice I've ever heard in my life! Thank you.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

EscapeTheCommute you are too sweet. Thank you for the kind words. 🥰

[@Manvii_speaks]

I have always looked up to women like you. Someone so sweet yet confident. I didn’t know that it was the feminine energy, i’m so glad to find your channel! Thank you for all that you do.💕

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you Manvi49! Be sure to check out my website for access to my various books and programs: bit.ly/everheart XO!

[@maryalmasilversatkins3670]

Manvi49 p

[@amydeleon3387]

I love what you said about not being able to change a man! I've known this but when my ex asked me to help him be a better person - that's when my masculine energy went into hyper drive (i really thought I was helping him like he asked) & that was the beginning of the end ... Thank you for helping me remember to embrace my feminine/natural energy!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you Amy

[@angelak8681]

It reminds me of Mary in "It's a Wonderful Life" She laid back and was in her feminine energy. My fav movie :) Maybe watch some movies with feminine energy examples, ladies.

[@PacificNWGrl]

You’re so extremely feminine and soft... truly inspiring

[@LisaGemini]

Thank you for the advice, girl! You rock. I've had to lay down boundaries when men want to have sex or talk dirty too soon. Often, they'll go on their merry way. I don't care because they are NOT the right man for me.

[@sherryfews4132]

Exactly!!!

[@simplymarilyn5295]

Adrienne you are such an inspiration! Stay soft and sweet🌹

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Marilyn Marquez thank you. Your comment made me giggle for some reason.🤣

[@emmaalvarez1794]

A man will love you for who you are. Im not a blow up doll.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Exactly!

[@kyrareneeLOA]

I love 7:11. :) "wow, this must feel so ________ for you" said softly and listening.

[@barbarawentzel6202]

You make me feel good again. Happy to be a girl .

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to help! Please keep on learning ♐️New Man Manifesto Program bit.ly/newmanmanifesto

[@beckylilly4749]

I just started watching you after my ex ghosted me for almost a year & then texted me "hey." After he ghosted me again twice, I confidently told him I was dating other people & felt so confident just standing up for myself & saying "byyyye." Usually I allow men to text me or call for months without dates. I have NEVER done that before. Tonight, I took a walk in my neighborhood & randomly had 2 men that drove by staring & waving at me! 😂 Can't WAIT to learn more, already GROWING & GLOWING! 🥰

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 This sounds so amazing. You opened your heart up to receive arrows from men. Learn more here. bit.ly/femmtools

[@Vaccinevirgin]

This is what I do because I’m more interested in seeing just how self absorbed a person is. I’ll listen, leave moments of silence, and do it from an open minded warm friendly place as much as I can. It’s fairly easy to do because most men want to sit and talk about only themselves never asking how you feel or what your thoughts are. It’s VERY rare I meet a man that isn’t self centered.....especially younger generations. Older men seem to have more reciprocation.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Observation is important! xoxo!

[@sagittariansage_2271]

Thex, True facts sister 💯. Reciprocation is so incredibly rare, especially with younger ones. It's so hard to find the right match man.

[@BRAINWHISPERER]

Motive...draws what you receive constantly. Try looking for opposite of what you say you meet...you will find the ones you seek. Look for self centered you will find them over and over.

[@santatra6663]

This is so true , and their excuse is , why don t you talk about yourself then?? Well, hello, you didn t ask .

[@Ashley-qn1py]

Shoot ... I need to lean back more and receive. I think I've been doing things backwards for years and years now. At least I feel this way currently. This was really informational! Thanks

[@angelaboice]

The cat analogy made me smile and made so much sense to me since I have a cat 😂 I often feel like I need to push for conversations or communication with men so this is so good to keep in mind. I've been talking to a guy for three months online because I've been out of the country studying abroad a week before i matched with him online. We have only talked on the phone a few times, but we message almost every day and yet I don't feel the need to push this forward. Especially since in June during our first phone call, he asked me on a date for when I get back. I've been sick a few times abroad and have been telling him how I wish he was here to take care of me. He will often reply with a comment about wanting to be there too and wanting to hold me or make me food.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Angela Boice lovely yet nothing really matters or counts until you meet and go on a date. 🥰

[@estherhmar4901]

i’ve been doing all these without realising it but it didn’t work on some of the guys that i dated, i guess they have more feminine energy

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Remember the purpose of these are “not to work” per se as much as it is to get you honest and grounded in your body. A man responding is wonderful yet plenty of men can still toss your feelings out the window. Hugs to you. Learn more about dating or relationships here bit.ly/femmtools

[@sylviadomerese352]

I am much older than you. Yet you are teaching me the things I was never told. It is making So Much of my past relationships, or attempts at relationship, make sense now. Now I get it and I am Optimistic about future interactions. That's huge. Thank you. 💛🌞

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 I am so happy to help! Learn more here bit.ly/femmtools

[@Neorpheus3000]

I am a fan. Man. How you bring clarity to dynamics is very healing and helpful also for our side. It is absolutely lovely because I feel more capable in recognizing an ideal general feel of receptivity to look for. Thank you Adrienne

[@PaleFireNat]

I’ve been binging your videos all day and you have an ability to explain these concepts in a way that a lot of the male guides just can’t. I’m finally starting to GET it. I’m in this situation and I’m trying to salvage it and not make it worse.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to help! Hugs to you! 💕

[@shannonkingston2658]

F'n amazing. Thank you!!!!!!! I've always had the masculine energy it actually messed up my marriage. I'm single now and just met a very masculine man, a Leo. I've done the work and I feel like he will bring out the lionesses in me but I need to be mindful of my energy with each interaction

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I am so happy to hear this! It takes practice. My 3 day FEMM Class beginning Saturday would help you out! www.everheartcoaching.com

[@kristenmoonrise]

"You have to choose the captain of your ship very wisely." Wow, yes we do! 🚢😉

[@leonsmith2216]

I love how you explain this in a most simplest way.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to help. www.everheartcoaching.com/freegift/

[@MatthewCoast]

Great video Adrienne!

[@divineseeds4273]

Thank you! This is so helpful.

[@ellamcroberts5065]

I am exclusive with my guy who has told me he wants me to be with him. But his ability to communicate with me is a critique session of how I say things!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Can you clarify this? How does this feel when he communicates this way?

[@anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788]

Ouch!

[@andreasouthworth7275]

Adrienne, You have a great message for everyone. I think this is applicable to friends and family relationships too.

[@rochellelinder6431]

when you have been leaning back..not calling on my lunch break anymore, I am not showing up to where he normally hangs out at, not telling him my every move of the day I am doing things that make me feel good now. Working out, putting more time in at my job. My bf is saying that he notice I am not doing any of those things I mentioned. BF says he do not like that I am not being available

[@charlotteshahverdi8267]

Adrienne you are incredible. So genuine and filled with wisdom. This was amazing- thank you!!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Charlotte Shahverdi you are so very welcome. Thank you for the kind words.

[@osoniye4209]

Thank you for making this, Adrienne! It's so hard sometimes to differentiate between leaning forward and being warm. Every video of yours adds a building block to understanding these concepts! So helpful!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

O Soniye you are so welcome. Keep learning with FEMM! bit.ly/femmtools

[@DeliciaTrini]

You're amazing Adrienne! Btw you look beautiful as always!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

DeliciaTrini Thank you that is so sweet.

[@CG-wr4no]

You know what would be helpful is a video on how we can make best use of our time while the relationship is taking a long time to unfold (lol). I've been contemplating it past couple days and I think there is something so powerful in it that I have yet to see or experience for myself. It's ironic how quick guys are in a lot of ways, but when it comes to how the relationship unfolds it takes so long. Where as women in a lot of ways take a long time except our preferred pace for the relationship to unfold. There has been talk on connecting with friends, spending time doing hobbies and things we enjoy, but that's not what I'm interested in hearing. I think there is something deeper (while we wait) that has not yet been talked about much at all. The furthest I've gotten just meditating on it is it has to do with having intimate self time- lighting a candle, being plugged into to the bliss of life, perhaps using the heart to imagine our deep pleasures and breathing through it. Something super fem. A sort of spiritual ecstacy and creating in our imagination while also being empty and out of our heads and bodies... I'd love to hear your take on it!!!!

[@CG-wr4no]

I'm working on changing my mindset from "waiting" which has a feeling of dread and feeling unseen or unmet and unfulfilled.. to "in-the-mean-time" where my connection is beyond him, it's to Life's unfoldment which both includes the relationship while simultaneously superseding it. It's a different paradigm and challenging because I've been so programmed to "wait" for him. I'm afraid I'm leaving him, but in all actuality its nourishes the relationship and draws him closer. So much trust in life takes place. Like I'm gambling with fate- I have to be okay if it creates separation and we break up (as the fear goes) and also embrace that it can actually create an even stronger bond.

[@jessicaroybal9625]

It doesn’t make sense all the things I wanted and leaned back but expressed my wants and needed during my recovery from breast cancer. He is in a rebound or a relationship he was in while we were together, has a pregnant fiancé, to find out he slept with me in December and didn’t have a clue cause of leaning back. These leaning back rules aren’t working for me. ??????? Your thoughts? Im so ready to move on...having a fiancé and a baby seem no way around rekindled with him. We live in a small town so I have to suffer the consequences of seeing him and the pregnant fiancé I can’t go anywhere with fear of running into him? I’m speechless?

[@aneva2464]

Problem is most men I meet rush to let you know they want more than coffee and way too soon, to where they give me no choice but cut them off since they don’t want to be respectfully patient take time dating to get to know each other first. I get very turned off when men just expect for you to like them right away and be intimate way too fast.

[@Vegan7]

Ask for “no reflection” glasses when you have your eye glasses done.

[@gratitude5740]

My man was feeling important at work, he would work up to 16 hours a day . But had no time for a phone call to communicate with me . To me it seemed his work was everything. He was chasing, love bombing me. With time I caught up with him when I believed his words . So when he was talking about marriage I would carry on with the idea, talking about plans and expectations. He pulled away even though he said he loves me and will always love me. Miss him so much but he is gone.

[@Karina-zg3ht]

i’m so sorry!! stay strong

[@Somethingfunny1111]

Just found you and I love your energy and this was the exact moment I needed to hear this.

[@eloiseprays]

Lean back but also provide a challenge when getting to know someone. It will drive him wild.

[@glad2bbiba]

I don't understand how one can lean back or relax then feel light and playful at the same time.

[@linal3489]

Easy. It's natural to me.

[@sherry4535]

Raindrops when you lean back you automatically become light!! Leaning back doesn’t mean switch off it means stepping into your feminine energy and letting him lead while being present as well. Let your man lead and follow through. Don’t be up tight be playful and soft (stop trying to be perfect or have the perfect answer) just be yourself.

[@glad2bbiba]

Thank you, @@sherry4535 . With your answer I found my first pitfall. It's that I'm in a state yet that "being yourself" and being playful mean having a mental sparring with someone. I guess I have to learn to be "naturally in my feelings" in conversations. What goes on your mind when you're leaning back? Do you use your brain at all or do you just let words flow? Sorry it's really a struggle for me because I grew up cogito, ergo sum. :-(

[@AdrienneEverheart]

At first letting go does feel unsettling but simply start with body postures like at the table, lean back and relax let the man lead the conversation.

[@glad2bbiba]

@@AdrienneEverheart Will do that. Thanks!

[@ShayLamere]

This one was really confusing me to follow and wrap my head around. I understand that leaning back is receiving. I do not understand how you can lean back while still expressing your needs to someone and being verbal. I’d love a part 2 if there hasn’t been one already.

[@jackline8808]

Heyy,it's been a while since your comment 😄buut, in my opinion you can express your needs but don't dictate what he should do, let him come up with a solution to meeting your needs. I think we make the mistakes of dictation like for example when you say sth like " I feel like we don't spend enough time together, maybe we can make Friday our date night.".. you expressed your need but didn't lean back and let him manage the situation, you're telling him what to do which is masculine. Instead maybe you can say" I feel like we don't spend enough time together, it would be lovely if we could change that." You have your problem statement and left the solving to him. But then again, I'm not a coach,😂 it's just my opinion.

[@bluefan651]

Adrian, these podcasts are even helpful for my relationships with my dad and my brother. OMG, I have been doing so much wrong for YEARS. Thank you

[@AdrienneEverheart]

This makes me so happy to hear! 💕 I am so happy to help! You can learn more about feminine energy with FEMM Tools bit.ly/femmtools

[@djw3707]

Adrienne this is one of my favorites of your videos!! I keep coming back.

[@crystallam7335]

I am learning so much rewatching this, thank you dearest beautiful Adrienne 😘😘😘❤️❤️🌹

[@crystallam7335]

Love your work, and love how your presence on this channel relaxes my feminine and brings me (snap!) to that feminine core during the day when I listen to you while I work

[@AdrienneEverheart]

This makes me so happy to hear! 🥰 I am so happy to help!

[@Messenger4now]

Where have you been my whole life?

[@majeedadennis2643]

I loss my love and trying to get him back. It doesn't look good right now... so thank you 😊

[@minacrichtonaie]

I am inexperience with the dating world. I find your video clips very helpful and encouraging. So much to learn?

[@mrsgeorgeezra5917]

Super insightful and inspiring Thank you Adrienne So thankful I found these teachings they truly ARE Lifechangeing x

[@DarkberryAlchemy]

I'm loving your videos!! could you possibly do a video regarding relationships in the workplace?? I need great advice like yours in my life. :)

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Be sure to join my online Coaching Community: diamondgirl.me/group Much Love To You, Adrienne

[@Chicmarr]

Adrienne this may seem like an idiotic comment/question but I’ve been dating this amazing guy for like a month. He makes time for me, he loves making me feel good, and we both give each other healthy space! One way I show appreciation and love for people is cooking for them! I am busy this week with work so I won’t see him for a couple days so I’m bringing him some delicious food because I genuinely want him to be eating good when I’m not around! I want him to be happy and enjoy things I do for him as well. Is this masculine energy bringing him food? I’m confused between feminine energy and receiving, and doing nice things for a guy. Please help!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yes. Cooking for the man and bringing him food is masculine energy. Pull your energy back. This is you doing your work for the man. Let him come towards you. Stay leaning back! Learn more here. everheartcoaching.com/femm/

[@gailwilliams7488]

How to lean back in a way you won’t send the wrong statement out

[@victoriacaropreso1506]

So many damn rules! I’m staying single! Lol

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Awww.... they aren’t rules! Once you practice being in your feminine energy, it will start to feel so natural and wonderful. It’s easy and laid-back. 💕

[@victoriacaropreso1506]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy I understand what your saying but it’s still the task of feeding their egos so they will chase us.... I dated so many different personalities throughout my life. Got married to a man who turned out to be a Narcissist and used me for a house maid and babysitter for his rotten spoiled kid. Then found out he cheated on me the whole time! 14 years wasted 😞. Then I waited 3 long years to open up my heart and got dumped on again whim I thought was safe plus I wasn’t even actually attracted to him at first until our first kiss? Turned out he was not an honest man either! Thank Goddess I never really invested too much of my person with him... just going to Travel....😆❤️🤗🙏🏻👍🏼

[@blueseptember2174]

@@victoriacaropreso1506 you need Sheraseven1

[@victoriacaropreso1506]

Blue September what? Lol

[@EvanNDoan-ry8vf]

Ikr... Id rather be single

[@Songswithgrace]

I know I should be happy but I suddenly have four men after me and at first they were all not moving with any motion and I changed my approach. I thought “well it would have been nice to just been friends atleast” and I realized that’s where all good relationships start anyway. Once I changed my mind set and had a more casual approach the messages started to flood in but it’s kind of over whelming at first

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yes it is. Remember you don’t owe anyone a thing in dating. You set the pacing 👉🏼 bit.ly/femmtools

[@sunshineeveryday9873]

So, if you're leaning back...or had been for a long time and didn't know it, but you now realize it doesn't seem to be going anywhere and you don't want to be a text buddy and he doesn't tell you anything but seems to want it to continue. Wouldnt you 1.) Ask 2.) Leave if he doesn't want to give you any clear answers? I cant get the material right now and I don't feel good about the situation because he doesn't want to tell me what he wants and I don't like feeling like I am seen as less than where I started w/ him. This is due to him not acknowledging or answering it but messaging like I never asked. I am not sure how o proceed but don't want to mess something up if I am sabotaging myself and not realizing it.

[@marinamew7313]

I think when you date this advice will work only if you are not sleeping with a guy. If you are just present and let him do whatever and gets all he needs from you (sex, attention, feminine energy) it’s going to be stuck at this stage forever (like a month long basketball game). From my experience- a combination of female and male energy in a woman is not so bad, we just have to be wise about when and what to use. We have to advocate for ourselves with men.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

We all have those berries and neutral energy. Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk

[@sagittariansage_2271]

Smiling keeping that warm soft energy.... Idk how to do that. I'm definitely more in my masculine energy... If I lean back nothing will ever happen, no dates, no initiative on his part. Nothing. I would love to be more "feminine". I'm not a lesbian and definitely into men but I have trouble being in my feminine energy around men cause I feel like I have to do everything because...well they don't or won't. Also, it is their job to get a woman open enough to open up to them. I need more guidance on being feminine... Aye😬 Thank you for the video miss👍🏽💜

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You honestly sound like every woman I encourage here including myself. Wait him out. Your boy is urgent. Girl waits a man out. Then you develop an energy or vibe as you practice more and you’ll find more and more men are drawn to you. Change and reframe what you ‘believe.’ bit.ly/femmtools

[@sagittariansage_2271]

@@AdrienneEverheart wow thank you for your response!❣️ I get it. My boi is prevalent... I've been single since 2014 I'm sick of loneliness though. And you keep saying wait... Like if I wait, I'll be 90, grey, no children or family to call my own. Im not fully understanding your advice.

[@kriitiarora2867]

What if he replies - "God bless you. All the best" after a fight ! I had texted a sorry message. PS: this is not a relationship. Just 50 days into knowing him. 7hrs long distance. Texted daily. Talked 2-3 times on phone a week. He pulled back saying he thinks he's still in love with ex (ex is married btw)

[@ThriftTea]

So wonderful, thank you so much!! God bless you 😍🥰❤🌃

[@SarahWeber]

I just stumbled into all of this and realized I have been in the masculine in our relationship for the past 6 months. Have I screwed it yup permanently? How do I go from being in the masculine to being in the feminine?

[@emacwakeup]

You're so beautiful. I'm feeling your energy. I love it. Loved the talk :)

[@rachaeleena]

Thank you for the clarity ... I was doing it all wrong 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Keep up the good work bit.ly/newmanmanifesto

[@marisapadilla8308]

I Know that I don't fit into feminine molds... Or a normal person mold. I am still pretty ish my line of work has a major toll on M. B. &, S. But I Love it it's My Lifestyle. I am a Welder/fabrication 20 years... Yes, more than ever are there more Women in this field... We have to be in masculine energy... I don't want for them to 20 years later be like... Men don't want a relationship with me because I am extremely masculine... And can't turn it off... Also my company only hires for 3rd shift 6 to 12 years, which doesn't help... ??? WHAT IS OUT THERE FOR US...????

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Notice all the reasons you are making yourself unavailable. These are perceptions and not truths, none of this need hold you back from attracting the right man for you. Feminine energy must be PRACTICED and you need to start somewhere - Look into getting "500 ways" and FEMM TOOLS: bit.ly/femmtools Start by connecting with nature, find what you feel in your body. Be masculine at work but be in your BODY aware of what you feel.

[@biankadownsanchondo3055]

If a mans love language is words of affirmation, how can you show him his kind while leaning back? I feel like being warm and and expressing to him verbally can be tough to do without stepping to a slight masculine vibe.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Bianka N. Anchondo oh there are tons of ways. 🥰Start with telling him absolutely everything that feels good to you. Anything that he remotely has anything to do with and it feels good to you. If he cleans the kitchen you can say “oh my goodness it feels so sexy to see a man in the kitchen. Feel so lovely to come home to a clean house.” That’s just a far and away out there example. 🤣I hope that helps and if you get a copy of “500 ways to talk to a man” you’ll get a ton more examples and learn how to do this for yourself every day.

[@Zelicious11]

Where can I find that book? I couldn’t find it on amazon!

[@ninanickel3103]

Why am I even watching these? I’m not going to talk to anyone ever again? Lol

[@Thevibeofalifetime444]

Nina Nickel yes you will. You just need time to heal from what broke or hurt you. The way is to self care mentally and fix your self confidence and self worth.

[@ninam.6781]

You can talk to me. I used to feel like that. 😂

[@youtoo2233]

Because deep down everybody's looking for love even if their past relationships have gone wrong

[@Glogurlify]

My bf just moved away, I was sad and feel abandoned, I didn’t tell him this, I just said I m gonna miss you. Same town farther out. I’m feeling anxious, he’s not calling or texting as much, just started a new job and now has a new home. Is it time to pull away? Towards the time he moved, I got more uptight, I didn’t want to, it just happened, He sensed it and started to get spooked I think. Now, I’m starting to imagine all kinds of scenarios.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Gloria Jean I’m So sorry this is happening. if you are bf and Gf committed, its time to revisit the terms and conditions. Being exclusive also means you being happy. ❤️

[@Glogurlify]

Thank you.

[@flodarkful]

I tryed different things u say and I say it works.U good.When I watch ur video and I see ur sweetness I become sweet too even if I had an hard day.Thx for ur advice 💖

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You are so welcome! 🥰 I am so happy to help!

[@lallo1545]

Love you so much, thanx for your lovely videos

[@yanaserdtse5375]

How do you stop his friends and family from interfering in your relationship?

[@nutech1810]

Stop telling them.

[@beigelover95]

only he can

[@HankiMaus]

Wow, just recently I stumbled across your channel and I’ve been binge-watching your videos for days now. Amazing!! You honestly inspire me to become more feminine.💓 The thing is, I might look like a lady, but I would consider my behaviors pretty masculine... I swear a lot, I have a serious road rage problem (😂... nothing illegal, but especially in the car I get furious so easily), I’m pretty moody and easy to provoke and I don’t know how to change that. I’ve been this way for so long, I’ve finally decided that this has to stop, that I wanna be so much more feminine... do you have tips for women like me? How to find my way to my feminine side/ energy? It’s just so hard to break that pattern.🙈 Much love to you and thank you.🙏🏼

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hi Maria, thanks for watching, learning and replying. This is a process. It's not as easy as me giving you a few quick tips. That's why I've developed a number of programs, ebooks, etc., to address the many issues that complicate relationships, dating, love life, marriage, etc. Maybe take a look at my FEMM program here: www.everheartcoaching.com/femmtools -- much love XO!

[@HankiMaus]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy Thank you, Adrienne! I will definitely purchase this program to really start working on my feminine side... 😊... it’s interesting, I’ve seen tons of videos with love coaches from all around the globe, but your channel is a real inspiration. Thank you for being here and for making a difference in my life and in the lives of so many other women out there!🤗

[@Diamond_InTheRuff]

@@AdrienneEverheart i can agree but whats difference with this program and the "500 ways"?

[@sylviawilliams711]

That best way to change is to pray, seek God he along can change you, you're are a good person with a good heart. Go to him daily he doesn't mine working overtime it works because God knows his children's

[@sylviawilliams711]

Also I just wanted to say, that I'm going through the process with God dealing with me as well. I love that I was chosen to be a women but I sure do know what I what , and know how to lean back so God is dealing with my heart right now because I can have a bit of a temper and put you in your place so my mouth needs help but I'm not a cussing sailor though that's not my character at all.

[@nathalie5238]

Got a question! I am applying your tools for almost 6 months, I start to see the change in man towards me. As you say, men want to make us feel good, and talking with them with warmth reinforces that. Now lately I"ve noticed some men are being kind of "familiar too soon" for me. What I mean, they clearly want a warm and intimate connection with a woman, that woman they want to be the one. They start talking about cuddling, kissing and kind of initmate stuff (not sex) after just talking for few days, not even seen each other. How comes? Could it be they do so, because they see this as making the woman feel good? Yes it feels good! Once we connected! When they start so soon feel tense and kind of fear in me..... I have the impression it will lead to sexting and I feel like shutting down, I feel like wanting to run for the hills. I followed your advise from 500 ways, setting a boundary with warmth, a feelings statement and an alternative that would make me feel good! He reacted well! Just wondering why they go in that direction soooo soon! Why do they want to talk about intimacy with somebody they do not even know? What do you think Adrienne

[@FishermansFriend-ml7xf]

You're massively over thinking this. We are visual creatures and sex isnt an intimate thing for us, it's just something we do. We dont have issues with being 'judged or slut shamed' by other women. This man is just doing what's natural where as you're trying to make it about your emotions and your reputation. We see sex as no big deal where as you see it as a contract for a future relationship.

[@libraladynior2249]

Yes I’ve nurtured him made him feel good encouraged him loved him he told me while lying his head on my lap “you make me feel so Good” but he married the female that was more beneficial to him financially it was his then Gf and her family invested in his business .... even with him now a new husband and father ... he still reaches out to me checking to make sure I’m okay he always tells me that he misses me ... so truth is for a man it’s how you make him feel that will have him fall in love with you and remember you forever

[@AdrienneEverheart]

How does all this make you feel though? He is giving you crumbs. You are a goddess! 💕

[@libraladynior2249]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy His friendship means a lot to me we were friends for years so he’s not giving me crumbs because I’m not chasing the loaf my point in this comment was about The power of how you make a man feel....It’s how you make him feel that keeps him around even if you’re not together.... I can call him right now if I needed something and he’d be there ... There’s some women out here that can’t get a man to change her tire ....yes you are correct however,I never doubted the fact that I am ...A GODDESS😊

[@jessicaroybal9625]

Remember me forever! I don’t want to be remembered forever, I’d rather the the wife that gets cheated on then the mistress who knows about the wife. It seems like he likes her like you said for the money not the way she makes him feel otherwise he would have chosen her right?????

[@katharden5806]

Men don't take the lead. The dating world today is absolutely backwards. I've leaned back for over a year with zero dates so I'm kinda tired of it. I started to be more masculine in the past 2 days asking them if they want to exchange numbers or meet and voila I have a date tonight. 🤷‍♀️

[@tamaraschmitt6184]

I sent a message to this guy I like~"Sending you Soul much Love"

[@tamaraschmitt6184]

We had one dare and it was really nice...been wanting to connect more but he hasn't been responding back to me etc...been driving me crazy so I'm leaning back and doing the best I can~Honestlt I'm about to just give up already...messed me up!!!

[@tamaraschmitt6184]

Typo~We had one date so far...he's been sick or gas company and I really just wanted more connection ~feeling really bad lately ~So I'm trying to stay positive and not get so bummed out...been really rough

[@tamaraschmitt6184]

He hasn't been available or responding to some of my messages...

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Get Femm Tools For Dating. This is too much too fast in effect leaning forward. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@Alwina578]

Thank you so much Adrienne ❤️I really loved this video

[@yanaserdtse5375]

Coach Everheart. I love your teaching so far. You mastered the art of being and teaching it so well. Thank you 🙏.

[@lolaapelt8616]

Super helpful Adrienne! I will be rewatching this and taking notes ❤️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Glad it was helpful! xoxox!

[@missmarisaferreira]

This is beautiful.., thank you for sharing!❤️❤️🥰

[@afg6605]

Extremely helpful video. Thanks a lot l learn a lot from you . 🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@H0TCHEEF0S]

Can you make a video on what you just mentioned? Getting a man out of his feminine energy. Starting small and all. there was a time where he was dry texting me and I called him out on it by joking, then he asked me “what am I supposed to say? “ When in the beginning, before all the baggage he used to triple text me. But now he seems like he won’t communicate unless I start it first. But yet he gets really bothered when I don’t respond (which he tries to hide. He minimizes his feelings when he’s bothered and represses) So I explain to him that when I leave him on “read “it’s not that I don’t want to talk to him but sometimes I don’t know how to respond when I feel like it seems as if he doesn’t want to speak. I then told him “ i like it when youd take the lead sometimes and start convos too you know. 😘 I miss that “ He told me “I get you chula” I hearted his message and haven’t replied. I’m not sure how to go from there or how to slowly put him back in his masculine energy where he used to constantly text me.

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

I am no expert. I am in the dating world myself, but decided to talk and FaceTime more. It may yield better results so you can talk and connect better. Texting is a low form of communication, and we place way too much value on it. Text lightly, and talk, FaceTime, and connect in person heavily. :)

[@magdakar4252]

I did everything wrong! Now he Can t give any more, he said!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Give him 3 months of time and sapce re: bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

[@owyana]

The part about “oh she doesn’t expect me to be a boyfriend”, that’s a red flag he is not trying to be serious. I would avoid this as a goal.

[@ireneaudreyowuor7327]

What about someone who is just quiet.never initiates conversations even when y'all together...is it okey to keep quiet too?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yes, wait him out. He who speaks first "loses".

[@carolm8507]

Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy I just found your channel and live the info. But what do you mean by “he who speaks first “loses”? Isn’t this the silent treatment?

[@robertvandyke9781]

this is awesome for women who get it or even care about the relationship this wont help any women who dont care about anything but money ;(

[@Ssookawai]

Most women seek security, not really money. Money is just a mean and I'd rather chose a regular Joe who's managing his finances well (not in debt except for a house, has funds for emergencies like the equivalent of a 6 mothns salary) than some dude who throws his money by the windows as if it were infected with some deadly virus! So security means someone who'll not cheat, who has a clear vision, who work (and not into random gigs) , takes care of himself (good figure, not unhealthy) and who can be generous with people. You should also protect yourself and do an introspection in case you attract only gold-diggers , it means that you have a pattern of behaviour that makes you miss good women and end up always with some crazy ass gals ( I'm a woman lol, and I said it haha) .

[@sophieneedsaladder]

I have A LOT of masculine energy

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Hugs to you! 💕 So many of us do! It takes time and practice to learn to be in our feminine energy. bit.ly/femmtools

[@bridgettewilson7092]

You are adorable and so informative. I want to learn more of your techniques. What resources do you suggest I read first? I’m just dating right now.

[@WisewomanProv]

What should I do? I told my long time guy friend that I started to have an attraction for him a few months ago. Around 4 weeks later he told me he has me in the friend zone. Should I put distance between us...? Every time I'm around him now my feelings get stronger. Though I enjoy his company a lot, my feelings are hurt knowing that he does no feel the same way about me. I don't want to lose the friendship but I also want to protect my heart.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You may have to give up the friendship for some time and until yu have a strong masculine man in your life. "I have always been your friend, yet I cannot be JUST friends." Right out of "500 Ways" ebook... 💌Get "500 Ways to Talk to a Man" + 2-Day Classes: EverheartCoaching.com/talk

[@rominalamberti9117]

I understand how frustrating this may seem. But just know that your soulmate is out there somewhere. It helps to write a list of the perfect guy and how you would want him to feel about you and treat you. You can write it as long and detailed as you like. You can even say in the list that if the guy for you is not your friend, that you want the universe to provide an even more attractive guy that's more in alignment with what you want. Then bless the list and send it out to the universe. Afterwards, just work on knowing you deserve love and that it's coming for you. Don't have any expectations. Set your friend aside as a maybe. But work on knowing your soulmate will arrive. Also work on self love and self esteem. If you had a friend and she was attracted to someone who didn't like her back, what would you say to that friend? Tell yourself what you would say to a friend or relative. That helps you get through it.

[@beebee32002]

What about the guys who just want to chase and play but don't want a long term future with you??

[@AdrienneEverheart]

kathy Mee this is where you have your boundary. I want to be a wife one day, I want to be married to a man & have a family. Where do you see us going?” If he says: oh I just like playing with you and having fun... then at some point you have to tell him,👉🏼 it feels wonderful to connect with you yet I want to be a wife one day and I don’t feel we are on the same page.” This is right out of “500 ways to talk to a man” e-book. bit.ly/500waysbook

[@PrettyGirlSwag000]

As a woman who has not had too much trouble attracting men, how do I keep from getting burnt out? Your video reinforces what I have already learned on the dating field, that men love the chase... but not necessarily the catch. In other words, they are wasting my time. When I set boundaries and and withdrawal from that relationship which is not going anywhere.... he will always come back. 100% of the time, to pursue me, play more games, and waste more time. I am nearing 40 now and have still never been married. Help me! I'm getting too old to be engaged in this back and forth! I'm tired.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I believe you need to learn my dating protocol to avoid time wasters : ) bit.ly/femmtools

[@ah8694]

I told him I would be here for him and that I’ve been loyal to him because he made a strange comment last time we were together can you express feelings then lean back? I think that’s probably best because I think maybe I scared him

[@sukhan9854]

I feel like my masculine keeps coming out because my man is very hesitant and not much drive for anything unless it's relaxing at home or games. He personally has trouble speaking or conversing so I keep taking the lead n get frustrated and get more masculine. I hate this 😒

[@sanaatouzani3085]

I love your Chanel and your beautiful character ❤️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you. Xoxo!

[@saumyaverma3272]

How to tame masculine energy who have been habitual of it. Like my struggle has been strong masculine energy and wounded and weak and deeply hurt feminine energy. But I deeply crave to become healed feminine yet seeing me succeeding as woman. I have failed repeatedly as a woman and having strong masculine energy it's so so so difficult to heal myself and succeeding as a woman. Hope you felt my situation. Thank you ❤️