He’s too busy for you!

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

4 жыл бұрын

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@tanitrarobinson7477
@tanitrarobinson7477 4 жыл бұрын
Saw this quote: Stop building up these men for the next woman while he breaks you down for the next man...
@lashondarochell7584
@lashondarochell7584 4 жыл бұрын
Sis you are absolutely right!!! I am almost in tears
@lovelyphoenix4363
@lovelyphoenix4363 4 жыл бұрын
A whole WORD🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@sharondavis2941
@sharondavis2941 4 жыл бұрын
Praise God
@2cut32handle
@2cut32handle 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing quote
@gingermalcom8331
@gingermalcom8331 3 жыл бұрын
This is sooooo tru ty for sharing
@11216mel
@11216mel 4 жыл бұрын
Men are only too busy for who they are not interested in. Anytime you notice him coming up with excuses to spend time with you, sis. do yourself a favor and walk away before you get your feelings hurt.
@Glamrocs
@Glamrocs 4 жыл бұрын
MelRose Facts
@cheekscheeks5840
@cheekscheeks5840 4 жыл бұрын
MelRose FACTS
@YoYo0204
@YoYo0204 4 жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@bootylicious0802
@bootylicious0802 4 жыл бұрын
😉
@DynamicallyDC
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
@lashondarochell7584
@lashondarochell7584 3 жыл бұрын
Nobody is busier than the man that doesn't WANT YOU!!! 😩😩😩
@katinag6064
@katinag6064 3 жыл бұрын
You said something there! Whew!
@LittleMissSunshine721
@LittleMissSunshine721 2 жыл бұрын
Okkkkkay?! 💯💯💯
@marneiamitchell1976
@marneiamitchell1976 Жыл бұрын
This is so true that it’s HILARIOUS 😂 😂😂🎉
@iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast
@iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast Жыл бұрын
Jesus
@zen_mindset1
@zen_mindset1 8 ай бұрын
That hurts 😮
@wall47291
@wall47291 4 жыл бұрын
I told one guy that since he was so busy I would be one less thing for him to worry about. Lol
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
That's right
@l.t.9659
@l.t.9659 4 жыл бұрын
Good one!!Lol!!!
@arionnajames474
@arionnajames474 4 жыл бұрын
LaKeisha Wallace aha yass Sis 😄
@whitneyhodge7422
@whitneyhodge7422 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Gfamily4
@Gfamily4 4 жыл бұрын
LaKeisha Wallace I know that’s right. Snaps fingers flips hair.
@constancereynolds3110
@constancereynolds3110 4 жыл бұрын
If that man is not consistent with his pursuit of courting me and making me a priority then I'm out . PERIOD!!!
@missj5564
@missj5564 4 жыл бұрын
If he is too busy for you is code word for he is not interested. He will make time for the one he is interested in. Do not waste your time with him.
@KrystleLaughter
@KrystleLaughter 4 жыл бұрын
A man will always make time for the woman he wants. Thanks Tony.💯
@ashleeybubbles0957
@ashleeybubbles0957 3 жыл бұрын
Yes honey!!
@britt6880
@britt6880 3 жыл бұрын
A man wants accountability. A man wants a woman that is strong and confident. When you sit around waiting on a man, believing his lies and excuses, you not getting cool points, you getting fool points!
@iriswilson7387
@iriswilson7387 4 жыл бұрын
You have said nothing but the truth young Tony. My husband works in an industry that requires him to work 10 to 12 hours a day seven days a week, and still to this day he is on that job 20 yrs later. But he made time for me. He even brought me to work with him at times. A year later he asked me to marry him, but I said no (that’s a whole other story). But point is this man made time for me and I believe was faithful to me. He is my best friend and husband. Never one time in our 20 years together have I EVER had to deal with another female. We definitely got favor with God.
@paida9322
@paida9322 4 жыл бұрын
Iris Wilson Praise God. Nice testimony.
@traquilasmith2275
@traquilasmith2275 4 жыл бұрын
That's a blessing to you both God is good thanks for sharing your story God bless you.🙏
@iriswilson7387
@iriswilson7387 4 жыл бұрын
Believe me we did not have some fairytale story, mainly because of me. I NEVER wanted to get married, but the Lord knocked me upside the head about this man🤣🤣🤣
@xtioltillz5153
@xtioltillz5153 4 жыл бұрын
You got fb? I’d love to ask you questions, my partner is seriously working the same amount of hours but I ain’t know how to cope with it. Feel like I’m losing it tbh
@firesign4297
@firesign4297 4 жыл бұрын
🙏🥰🤗👏👏👏🥰🤗🙏 God Bless You Both🙏🤗🙏🤗 Love From Brooklyn N.Y 🙏
@joiagenae
@joiagenae 4 жыл бұрын
Listen to Tony, he is telling the truth. I had a guy tell me the only person he talks to everyday is his mom and dad.. that was the last convo we had. I put on my track shoes and left. If beyonce wanted him to call everday, he would. So that was manglish for "I don't want you." We gotta recognize this early and move on ladies. A man that wants you, will make time
@coachnatishamommatish185
@coachnatishamommatish185 4 жыл бұрын
@JOIA Amen sis, Yaaasss he want will not only make time ❤Chile he will break his neck Chile. Point Blank Periyarrrd!!!👑💃🙌🙌🙌
@khocolateable
@khocolateable 4 жыл бұрын
I had a similar story ..this guy I met years ago gave me his number and when we talked on the phone for the 1st time he said "he too busy to date "🤣🤣🤣 he had 2 jobs ..after that convo I never spoke to him again
@singleparentfire2363
@singleparentfire2363 4 жыл бұрын
You are telling the truth
@laj4186
@laj4186 4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏good for you in respecting & loving yourself!!!! take a direct hint ladies they always tell us
@83ttaylor
@83ttaylor 4 жыл бұрын
Joia Nolton Had a similar experience....gave him the ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾.
@karlamitchell81
@karlamitchell81 4 жыл бұрын
If he is too busy leave him alone some things are just common sense ladies...
@vickglampshousvicky
@vickglampshousvicky 2 жыл бұрын
Factz!
@ClowneryAtItsFinest
@ClowneryAtItsFinest 4 жыл бұрын
Tony's right! My brother met a woman at Ruth Chris on my birthday. He told me a few weeks later, he wanted to marry her. She's now my sister in-law.
@alexarenee29
@alexarenee29 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so dumb... but I needed to hear this. Blocked him and moving on😎
@nickbry7357
@nickbry7357 4 жыл бұрын
Yes sis.block
@missedwards7913
@missedwards7913 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you sis, move on
@alexarenee29
@alexarenee29 4 жыл бұрын
Eternity With Christ Thank you❤️ I’m glad I didn’t neither.
@chaseback5102
@chaseback5102 4 жыл бұрын
Lex Girl!!!!! Same!!!! But it’s alright.. that last portion of this message did help me to feel better about cutting off a particular person. He is now doing this thing where he calls once every 3 weeks and let the phone ring twice. I’m getting ready to make even more changes.
@AS-br8in
@AS-br8in 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats! Best decision ever!
@kishaarnold3953
@kishaarnold3953 4 жыл бұрын
Barack makes Time for Michelle...point blank period
@trogers418
@trogers418 4 жыл бұрын
So does Harry for Megan and Russell for Ciara !
@missmarymack3457
@missmarymack3457 4 жыл бұрын
Right
@sumintrawescott6641
@sumintrawescott6641 3 жыл бұрын
I told a guy that and he got pissed!!
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
It's funny how they want to be financially ready for a relationship or marriage, but quick to be ok if you have their babies.
@Proverbs-vw2sc
@Proverbs-vw2sc 4 жыл бұрын
You said a mouthful right there!!!
@tiffanyg1419
@tiffanyg1419 4 жыл бұрын
Listen here!!!!! This statement is WHOLE sermon....ya hear 👂 me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@cherh
@cherh 4 жыл бұрын
And the sad part is women be more than happy to carry his seed 😩
@crownedmelaninqueen
@crownedmelaninqueen 4 жыл бұрын
Cher H Right like it’s some prize.
@cherh
@cherh 4 жыл бұрын
@@crownedmelaninqueen ikr! Women have to know they're the prize
@4LADYSWEET
@4LADYSWEET 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 THIS IS ALL FACTS!!! A MAN WILL NEVER EVER BE “TOO BUSY” FOR SOMEONE HE TRULY LOVES AND CHERISHES.
@jassh2610
@jassh2610 4 жыл бұрын
This was confirmation for the decision I made Monday. You too busy during quarantine? Oh this isn’t going to work out sir.
@123gollc9
@123gollc9 4 жыл бұрын
Jass H same! Talking about im gonna call you back.. then 48 hours I get a call 😭
@BeingMyoshi
@BeingMyoshi 4 жыл бұрын
Now Diddy on social media saying he shouldve married Kim but shes dead and gone. He played too long
@arawheaton
@arawheaton 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! She was the one there when he had nothing..
@sharoncobb2547
@sharoncobb2547 4 жыл бұрын
Diddy's will never learn he's too full of himself!
@kee-themaillady923
@kee-themaillady923 4 жыл бұрын
Being Myoshi YESSSS PLAYED WAY TOO LONG !
@teshaparx4802
@teshaparx4802 4 жыл бұрын
And didn't marry Cassie either, and she ended up getting married and having a baby!! A beautiful family she has now and she's happy
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 4 жыл бұрын
I don't really trust him myself. I don't think he is really into women like that myself. I think he use them for a cover.
@lynnjones7695
@lynnjones7695 4 жыл бұрын
NOTHING in the world will STOP a man from being with his wife!! Thank you Tony Gaskins...
@KrystleLaughter
@KrystleLaughter 4 жыл бұрын
"Your not earning cool points. Your earning fool points." 🤯
@officialwatchamber
@officialwatchamber 4 жыл бұрын
Krystle Laughter girllll!! He dropped a 💣 with that one!! Facts though 🔥🔥🔥
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
I've heard the excuses before. I want to be financially stable and I'm so busy. When you give them the same energy back, they start blowing up your phone and get lots of texts. They want you when you don't care. It's good to know I left each time not allowing so many months to a yr. I wasn't his wife, he wasn't my husband.
@shaneekaraybe4919
@shaneekaraybe4919 4 жыл бұрын
A man's wife should be his everything; no need for him to look outside.
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@kassinalong9483
@kassinalong9483 4 жыл бұрын
I done dodged so many bullets listening to you! 🙌🏽
@user-ri6fb4xx2n
@user-ri6fb4xx2n 9 ай бұрын
I tried sis. I dodged many...but one made contact. 💥 Now I'm trying to relearn, relisten and continue to dodge. God is using this man to save women who are willing to listen 👂
@trice1245
@trice1245 4 жыл бұрын
Tony the realest thing you ever said is that a man wants to work for everything he has including a woman. I’m seeing that that’s true!!
@iriswilson7387
@iriswilson7387 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 “you are not the one”❗️do you need me to say it in Spanish ⁉️
@whitneyhodge7422
@whitneyhodge7422 4 жыл бұрын
😊
@Berryashxo
@Berryashxo 4 жыл бұрын
Tony changed my life with all this wisdom. I was embarrassed at myself first to hear these videos, but I needed it and I knew it. After a few weeks, I began facing my reality & left a toxic 4 year relationship with a grown boy. It was hard, but I'm so blessed to have came across these vids. I know what I deserve. The comments under the vids are inspirational to me. I'm reading A Woman's Influence now & tuning into new and old vids & gaining knowledge. I'm 24 and ready for my true Blessings in love one day. Peace and happiness to Tony and the tribe 🙏🏼
@officialwatchamber
@officialwatchamber 4 жыл бұрын
Ashelyn H. Dope!! You’re lucky to have found him so young! He keeps it REAL!! Happy you were able to leave that toxic situation!! 💖
@cherh
@cherh 4 жыл бұрын
You're doing amazing! Keep going! 🌼💖
@whatsnextsis2904
@whatsnextsis2904 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss. So proud of you sis! God has used Tony to do the exact same for me! Let’s know our worth & walk in our purpose from here on out! ❤️💪🏾
@tanitrarobinson7477
@tanitrarobinson7477 4 жыл бұрын
Way to go Queen! Keep pushing forward unapologetically and relentlessly!
@mintlatte9934
@mintlatte9934 4 жыл бұрын
What a blessing for you to find this wisdom at 24. I’m 44 and would have greatly benefited from having this knowledge at that age concisely and from a black man’s perspective. Please realize you have time. No need to rush. Forever is a long time. (I’m married 15 years) 🙏🏽💞
@live.life.on.purpose
@live.life.on.purpose 4 жыл бұрын
No more "FOOL points" for me lol 🤣😂🤣
@nikkirowland
@nikkirowland 4 жыл бұрын
Dang when Tony gotta break the message down in broken Espanol 😭😂you know the level of hardheaded-ness is on another level.. Ladies lets not just watch these videos just to be watching. Take it all in and meditate on it and move forward accordingly .
@naturalcurlyhair8331
@naturalcurlyhair8331 4 жыл бұрын
When he give you an excuse or excuses. Do the same thing. Let him know Goodbye and hope for him the best not to contact you anymore. Get that out the way.
@DynamicallyDC
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
If all you're being used for is to be put on your back, and you have no essential influence in his life...then you are not his wife! 🙇🏽‍♀🙌🏾📌
@chrisparker6249
@chrisparker6249 4 жыл бұрын
During our stage of singleness, we should be working closely with God to find purpose and position. Once we establish both of these things, then we can or should move into the dating/relationship stage of life, if deemed ready. Being too busy for love is an excuse for those who aren't interested in love.
@munix9351
@munix9351 4 жыл бұрын
Why do you think they are not interested?
@chrisparker6249
@chrisparker6249 4 жыл бұрын
@@munix9351 There are or can be different variables: consumed by work and chasing the "bag", hurt one too many times, so there's a distrust there, in player/grown boy mode, and or does not understand the purpose of love.
@munix9351
@munix9351 4 жыл бұрын
@@chrisparker6249 Thank you for sharing. The 'consumed by work' is that a result of insecurities? Or thinking the bag will mask their issues and give them confidence? The second part, funny I have never thought of that. However, it makes sense now. Many men move on to the next girl even if they are made accountable and 'checked'. They don't understand to be in a real 'loving' relationship you gotta be accountable, so they move to the next girl who won't check them and makes it easy for them. I have heard many people refer to that behaviour as a 'boy mode' however it sounds more like he 'does not understand love'..what do you think? I hope to raise five boys one day, so I am really interested in learning about how MEN think. If women can understand that we can play a better active role as mothers when they are young.
@Cahluvca
@Cahluvca 4 жыл бұрын
@@munix9351 Honestly, from what my mother told me understanding men is one part but acknowledging what men go through with women and being truthful about it. I've noticed alot of comments basically are placing blame but not many take accountability to the men they constantly choose to date/marry/have kids with. We all fall short of the most high, so you will come across individuals that lie, manipulate and do you wrong. Just my opinion
@coachtee7
@coachtee7 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for co signing my brother.
@swayze2403
@swayze2403 4 жыл бұрын
Being in nursing school, this Corona virus and listening to this video is putting A LOT of things into perspective. I feel sad. 😞 Pray for me.
@crownedmelaninqueen
@crownedmelaninqueen 4 жыл бұрын
Swayze Just thinking about stuff you put up with or are putting up with hoping , praying things will change. Trying to stay focused on your love for nursing perhaps ? Praying for ya! Hang in there girlfriend ! 🙏🏾🙂
@angelicagabrieli7169
@angelicagabrieli7169 4 жыл бұрын
May OUR LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST BLESS YOU AND GIVE You COMFORT IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST! AMEN!!!
@amberfrazier4023
@amberfrazier4023 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you. We all gonna make it just stay focused and positive keep pushing
@LadyAngela678
@LadyAngela678 4 жыл бұрын
Nursing school is tough. Good luck.
@danakay4966
@danakay4966 4 жыл бұрын
Girlfriend you don't have time to be sad. You need to stay focus and busy becoming your bear self become that nurse and make a difference and the rest will fall in place
@LADYE226
@LADYE226 4 жыл бұрын
ME TO ME: “I AM NOT THE ONE, I AM NOT THE ONE.” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@liabw05
@liabw05 4 жыл бұрын
edna valcin good one sis
@Uniqu3neverway
@Uniqu3neverway 4 жыл бұрын
Who shot John and forgot to killem 😭😭😭😭😭 gets me every time
@ChanneyLove
@ChanneyLove 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, gets me every single time too 😂😂😂.
@Uniqu3neverway
@Uniqu3neverway 4 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@love7loyalty-MHA
@love7loyalty-MHA 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly 😂😂
@uniquestylist4026
@uniquestylist4026 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@joannhughes4992
@joannhughes4992 4 жыл бұрын
M2💀😅🤣
@veelove2226
@veelove2226 4 жыл бұрын
When I tell you Tony spoke the truth, we as women we must do better, we waste too much time, when we need to move forward and do the work!
@montricec8795
@montricec8795 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@thereformingbaddie6023
@thereformingbaddie6023 4 жыл бұрын
Trust the red flags and your intuition.. don’t allow anyone to make you feel small. Keep going. Follow the last thing the Holy Spirit told you once things get confusing💜
@Itchpls
@Itchpls 4 жыл бұрын
Tony ain’t lying.. I heard everything underneath the sun and moon as to why this and that. I left without notification
@crownedmelaninqueen
@crownedmelaninqueen 4 жыл бұрын
Shawn J I love that line ! “I left without notification .”
@MMHrtSol
@MMHrtSol 3 жыл бұрын
Shawn J Dag....chuckle
@coachnatishamommatish185
@coachnatishamommatish185 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies know you worth!!!
@TheFactsofLife237
@TheFactsofLife237 4 жыл бұрын
I played this video back 5 times.
@cherh
@cherh 4 жыл бұрын
😁 I'm playing it back now
@carlaneal8263
@carlaneal8263 3 жыл бұрын
Wow
@temekahoward3965
@temekahoward3965 4 жыл бұрын
You’re not getting cool points but you’re getting fool points.. lol.. Tony Gaskin is awesome!!!
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
You have look this thing in the mirror. If a man is too busy or making excuses you have to put your purse on your shoulder & go-Tony Gaskins
@TVeeTime
@TVeeTime 4 жыл бұрын
Viola Davis Meme style ✌️
@socialite8218
@socialite8218 4 жыл бұрын
Everybody isn’t going to be ready for this truth. 🙏🏾⭐️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@BUTTA408_
@BUTTA408_ 4 жыл бұрын
No man will push away, delay, or will stop a man, make you wait because a woman he feels is his wife. If you are getting any other excuse as to why y'all not getting married is because YOU ARE NOT THE ONE. GET IT THROUGH YOUR HEAD MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. IF HE THOUGHT YOU CAN BE HIS WIFE. IM NOT SITTING AROUND AND WAITING UNTIL HE DO. STRONG AND CONFIDENT WOMEN.
@TheFactsofLife237
@TheFactsofLife237 4 жыл бұрын
Wow 75% to 45%! That's when the disrespect kicks into high gear. You may as well cut your losses and keep it moving!
@aidasark3771
@aidasark3771 3 жыл бұрын
This is why the cut off game needs to be strong 😎
@ronnice8386
@ronnice8386 4 жыл бұрын
Tony this is tight but it’s right! I was one who thought I was getting cool points but was actually getting fool points (cracked me up!). I’m 6 months clean and sober (wasn’t on drugs but was addicted/trauma bonded) from an 8 year relationship that I finally figured out was no longer serving me. Glory be to God for taking the scales off my eyes!! I’m 47 and finally free and have been on this journey of self love and self discovery. Your channel is a blessing! Keep letting God use you cuz He really is!! 🙏🏾❤️
@murielgonzalez7154
@murielgonzalez7154 2 жыл бұрын
I would see my ex once a week or every other week, but I would have to ask him to make time. We would go days without talking and finally I would call him after not hearing from him over 3-4 days. He would say “I’m busy”… no one is that busy and it’s not normal.. I finally called it quit after 4 years after I seen that he was making himself available to other girls online. He had the nerve to shift the blame to me and said “no one had hurt me and how I felt was based on myself”. He was a cruel person, but shame on me for allowing this type of behavior towards me.
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
None of us are 100% of what someone is looking for-Tony Gaskins
@joblondine4618
@joblondine4618 4 жыл бұрын
You are speaking the truth Tony!!!!! I am 65 plus years old. If a man love you !!!!!!! . He will make time for you.!!!!!!!
@telesialoyd3181
@telesialoyd3181 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Mr. Gaskins, I just received A Woman’s Influence. I purchased 2 copies, 1 for my daughter and 1 for myself. Praying for a change in our lives. Thanks for all you do. Be Blessed
@simplysimone7174
@simplysimone7174 4 жыл бұрын
“You not getting cool points, you getting fool points!”🤣🤣
@yhygiam8648
@yhygiam8648 4 жыл бұрын
God is good. Thank God he is using you to share the truth. I would like to thank you because God spoke to me through this video. God bless you, Tony!!!
@giovannaramirez14
@giovannaramirez14 4 жыл бұрын
YH YGiam Same Here
@mahletalem
@mahletalem 3 жыл бұрын
YH YGiam Amen!!!!!!!!!
@zen_mindset1
@zen_mindset1 8 ай бұрын
Yes ive been here. Had a person say they weren't ready but wasn't against some "fun". Being pretty doesnt mean youll be a wife nor does holding him down and supporting him if he doesn't see you as potential...
@tatums.7472
@tatums.7472 4 жыл бұрын
The facts you speak can be a hard pill to swallow especially when you played the fool. I have made quite a few mistakes by hanging on too long before finally throwing in the towel. Talk about clarity thank you Tony!
@chanteljubilee982
@chanteljubilee982 4 жыл бұрын
Mannn it hurts to admit to the truth and knowing you been making excuses for all the red flags
@kelleydavis8551
@kelleydavis8551 4 жыл бұрын
I HEARD this loud and clear...confirmation for what I already knew deep down.
@singlemotherfoundation_
@singlemotherfoundation_ 4 жыл бұрын
no integrity no ambition no character I don’t want it .... ✌🏾
@jillianschmidt9543
@jillianschmidt9543 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched a few of Tony’s videos. My ex was extremely introverted and worked a lot but he never really made time for me. He would only hang out with me like 3 times a week because he needed time to himself. We would talk all day everyday but I felt like he put his schedule/ routine before me and he didn’t want to change it. He broke up with me recently and I am still trying to get over him but I am slowly coming to terms with it all and tony has helped a lot
@hollyc.691
@hollyc.691 2 жыл бұрын
3 times a week is quite a bit. He likely was not ready to have his time interrupted
@agnespoku4993
@agnespoku4993 4 жыл бұрын
Reporting for class!
@Glamrocs
@Glamrocs 4 жыл бұрын
agnes poku Everyday you have perfect attendance I see you ☺️
@agnespoku4993
@agnespoku4993 4 жыл бұрын
@@Glamrocs Girl, I'm not playing about getting this knowledge. As long as Tony is speaking, I'm going to be there listening. I'm on time for every live chat too. You and the other moderators were cracking me up last night especially you when you made that looks challenged comment 😂
@benjamincrooms5041
@benjamincrooms5041 4 жыл бұрын
Great video. You can’t buy character, but your character can put you in position to win. Thanks for the knowledge
@yljones74
@yljones74 4 жыл бұрын
Hard pill to swallow, but very necessary. Thank you.
@kathylofton4530
@kathylofton4530 3 жыл бұрын
No Tony, they are financially unstable. If they have no home to put you in and no means to take care of himself due to heavy debt, life circumstances, and an insufficient salary, he is not ready for a wife.
@sheiscalledvirtuous2746
@sheiscalledvirtuous2746 4 жыл бұрын
Your videos have truly blessed my life. Im learning from you what my father never taught me. He never had a father daughter conversation with me nor affirmed me and this affected my relationships. I made a lot of mistakes. When i was just a weeks away from turning 29 yrs old in February i made up my mind to love myself and respect myself because I never truly did when i thought i did. I watch your videos everyday from Jamaica and you have greatly impacted my life, even when the truth hurts. THANK YOU SO MUCH. You saved me from a 1 yr situationship and any additional pain. Thank God for you!!
@Proverbs-vw2sc
@Proverbs-vw2sc 4 жыл бұрын
I love your user name!
@sheiscalledvirtuous2746
@sheiscalledvirtuous2746 4 жыл бұрын
@@Proverbs-vw2sc Thank you. Im living by it 🙏
@liabw05
@liabw05 4 жыл бұрын
I also recommend RC Blake's "father daughter" video here on KZbin! Blessings ❤️
@traquilasmith2275
@traquilasmith2275 4 жыл бұрын
If a man not consistent not interested to many excuses and to busy he dont care about you you is not his wife. Im not wasting my time or settling for less no more it not worth. My ex's had to many excuses i heard it all and i broke up with them. 🏃 Run away and dont waste your time move on. if you are his wife he will be consistent and make real time for you no matter how busy he is. Ladies Dont settle. Pay attention to the big red flags.🚩🚩 Tony is right thank you tony for keeping it real i learned alot. God bless everyone.👏☺
@itsbecky46
@itsbecky46 4 жыл бұрын
This solidified what happened to me. He would text me every night around 11:30PM: “so sorry, swamped w work. I hope you sleep well. Goodnight.” 3rd time he did this I just texted him “seems like you’re extremely busy at work. I don’t think it’s the right time to get to know each other.” NO ONE is going to waste my time in 2020. No one is busy 24 hrs, we make time for those we want to get to know. BOY BYE 👋🏼
@CoachHC
@CoachHC 4 жыл бұрын
Tony your videos are self explanatory and this is why I never have a relationship question during live chats. Also the courses on your site Soul Ties , real love and the business courses are self explanatory as well. It does amazes me the questions that come through on a Q&A. Majority of the times women know but just looking for a pass to stay in what their in and then there is that small % who’s just clueless and whatever they saw as a child it’s acceptable. I continued to support you mostly because your coming from a biblical standpoint which I agree and it’s the truth. Be Blessed
@TiffanyFG
@TiffanyFG 4 жыл бұрын
Right. And they don't know how to do 'deductive reasoning'.
@eileendom5858
@eileendom5858 4 жыл бұрын
Lolololololo.... I am Puerto Rican and that Spanish was something else. I cant stop laughing. I admire you for trying. You keep it real, in your videos and in your book A Woman's Influence. Make It Work is next.
@KAAT2239
@KAAT2239 4 жыл бұрын
“Listen here Fool” lol 😂 TG you crack me up!!! I just walked away from a guy i thought was 85% .. I really believe he is scared but I really want a brave man 👨 no more scaredy-cats!! I knew i was doing right by walking away!! Thanks for confirming this Tony!
@Shae_3
@Shae_3 4 жыл бұрын
Nothing but truth! The “matching hypothesis” is real. This one guy wanted to text me all day long, and say he talk on the phone when he driving or cooking and would send me pics of his food.......Block & delete. Gave him two weeks to communicate and the next two weeks to see how you going to go about this after I showed you. I’m not your quarantine buddy, goodbye sir!
@helena3631
@helena3631 3 жыл бұрын
These guys want to dm all day ... or text... they will be having all these conversations with themselves and blocked...these guys want to have a emotional bond texting and talking on the phone and these dudes old as hell
@annettesolomon1347
@annettesolomon1347 4 жыл бұрын
Confirmation ✅ Truth ✅ Real ✅
@vchild
@vchild 4 жыл бұрын
Like Billy Dee Williams said. *Success is nothing without someone you love you share it with, * I'm glad you finally told us the truth about this. Because I used to believe men put love off to seek money. I used to fall for that line.
@lucilleanderson9747
@lucilleanderson9747 Жыл бұрын
Me too.
@kimberlyorum7028
@kimberlyorum7028 4 жыл бұрын
Now I see where I messed up😭😭😭
@micheboohawaii9430
@micheboohawaii9430 3 жыл бұрын
"YOU ARE NOT THE ONE" The Spanish version had me on the floor.
@jessicagarrett6543
@jessicagarrett6543 4 жыл бұрын
This man truly loves his wife, so much so you can feel it everytime he speaks on her. It's a beautiful thing and so rare
@lindybright1938
@lindybright1938 4 жыл бұрын
I’m totally good with the ads, lol, you’re worth every minute!
@pamelacarpenter9950
@pamelacarpenter9950 4 жыл бұрын
I'm learning so much wish I knew these things a long time ago 😪
@Here.there24
@Here.there24 3 жыл бұрын
i too wish i learnt these things bfo i got married 11 yrs ago 😭😭
@lynnjones7695
@lynnjones7695 4 жыл бұрын
You can’t put a DOLLAR on character!! Say it....
@whit9560
@whit9560 4 жыл бұрын
OMG,he is talking about me ! lmbo, I thank God for discernment and chose character instead- this topic is Soooooooo real
@jackiek4159
@jackiek4159 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like you're my online father spitting the truth! Thank you for this wisdom that will help many sisters avoid so much unnecessary pain from these grown boys! 💯🙏🏻
@vegigirl7440
@vegigirl7440 4 жыл бұрын
I hate it sometimes when I get those "aha" moments, watching these videos, and figure out what the guys are up to, only to realize that I've been had
@kristinakellogg1732
@kristinakellogg1732 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly me too and had BAD at that
@ZawadiBirya
@ZawadiBirya 4 жыл бұрын
LOL Tony is so extra! He actually picked a piece of lint from the floor. Thanks for another great video Brother Tony. Learning a lot!
@maiangellove8949
@maiangellove8949 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, men of your character are few and far between. Yes, he showed me who he was before the marriage. Yes, I’ve had the man with character and gave him my back😡. Young ladies listen, take notes, and then implement.
@socialite8218
@socialite8218 4 жыл бұрын
You broke this ALL the way down! ❤️
@mz.peoples4574
@mz.peoples4574 4 жыл бұрын
This actually happened to me, my ex told me repeatedly that he thinks marriage was overrated and he would never get married, we were together 1 1/2 yr. Next thing i knew he started acting distant, we broke up and 2 months later he got another woman pregnant and married her. Smh. It hurt like crazy and that happened 4 yrs ago but im not gonna lie it still bothers me. Here i am still single while he living his best life with his family. So for any woman dealing with a wishy washy man. Dont waste your time and be dumb like me. Please leave! Save yourself the heartbreak.
@mz.peoples4574
@mz.peoples4574 4 жыл бұрын
@Forgive And Live thank you for that. I really do appreciate it.
@janetday5431
@janetday5431 2 жыл бұрын
I pray that you are living your best life . you can have any thing you want . change your look often, keep them guessing,who is this woman.dont stop growing.and please don't give that loser a second thought. God bless.
@BB-hy4eo
@BB-hy4eo 2 жыл бұрын
He was most likely seeing you and her at the same time.
@Michellemybell739
@Michellemybell739 Жыл бұрын
You were not dumb at all. Peace and blessings! ❤
@alvaniquegaitor3709
@alvaniquegaitor3709 4 жыл бұрын
So that's the same thing when a guy says he wants fully find himself before another relationship
@reneejacobs8183
@reneejacobs8183 4 жыл бұрын
Alvanique Gaitor Yes.
@janieh3950
@janieh3950 4 жыл бұрын
Yes ma'am. Tell that brother ok thanks for your time. I'm a let you find you while I'm gone.
@iamabideinitastjohn1567
@iamabideinitastjohn1567 4 жыл бұрын
Janie H LOL!!! Lol 😂🏃🏽‍♀️😂😂😂🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️
@sharoncobb2547
@sharoncobb2547 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Tony! Kenny lattimore! Never too busy👍
@a1xluv
@a1xluv 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, marriage has favor on it! I wish more men understood this concept! Fornication totally blocks blessings! I wish more men loved themselves enough to know their bodies are just as sacred as women! They weren’t made to be out here doin’ and screw-in’ every woman they meet! No more than a woman every man she meets! 45, and I can still say I have a low low body count, and if my ex-husband would never cheated, and left the Lord: it would be even lower! Our bodies belong to God and we have to work hard at honoring God with our bodies, mistakes may happen once or twice: but we must NOT make sexual sin a lifestyle and think Yahweh is okay with it!
@Amazingaeriel
@Amazingaeriel 4 жыл бұрын
These videos make my spirit feel good 😊😊
@uniquestylist4026
@uniquestylist4026 4 жыл бұрын
Basically, don't be stuck like a DUCK in a TRUCK
@kellhumphrey5
@kellhumphrey5 3 жыл бұрын
“Uno y Tu no no“ 😂 👌🏾 heard you loud and clear Tony.
@montricec8795
@montricec8795 4 жыл бұрын
This is the best one that I have listened to so far! This gave me the courage to do something that I have been trying to do for a very long time. I know I have been blocking some of my blessings. I know there are two things that I must stop doing. to receive my maximum blessings, favor, grace, mercy, and protection ! "A man don't want what he doesn't need." Bless you, Tony!! Lord, bless you!! Women, we must wake up!! We are professional, educated, hard working, beautiful, independent, strong women! We know better! When you know better, you do better and I know better!!! Talking about confirmation!!!
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. He's to busy for you. Plenty of TIME for Someone else!
@jajacap9750
@jajacap9750 4 жыл бұрын
And now the table turns and I am not available❤️
@isshaik5467
@isshaik5467 4 жыл бұрын
As soon as I saw that title! I know this is about to be good
@cheekscheeks5840
@cheekscheeks5840 4 жыл бұрын
I believe you TONY and u telling the absolute TRUTH... You talking about me here but it’s ok I gained plenty of knowledge and loving me and letting go and moving on FACTS .....
@cheekscheeks5840
@cheekscheeks5840 4 жыл бұрын
Your so right I wished men would listen and know that God is everything and if you don’t have him you have nothing. Life is too short to keep playing the field when the one u really want move on that’s when reality sets in with these men when everything else has fail in their like. Until something drastic happens that’s when they want to live and settle down and that’s when that real women they dogged out has moved on that’s when they get the lesson when it’s too late . It happens all the time you better get it together men/ladies time is passing bye #FACTS
@Stormy867
@Stormy867 4 жыл бұрын
You have been such a blessing Tony
@coachnatishamommatish185
@coachnatishamommatish185 4 жыл бұрын
Don't be a test dummy!!!
@nikkirowland
@nikkirowland 4 жыл бұрын
Momma Tish1 aka quit sampling yourself!! Morning sis! Have a blessed day!
@StephaniesWorld7
@StephaniesWorld7 4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@coachnatishamommatish185
@coachnatishamommatish185 4 жыл бұрын
@@nikkirowland Sis it's the truthfulness I hear ya tho!!! You have a blessed day as well.👑💃🙌❤
@cherh
@cherh 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾😁 say that sis!!!
@MsReeDesigns
@MsReeDesigns 4 жыл бұрын
Very true message!
@MrsLC-tp8oj
@MrsLC-tp8oj 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the good advice
@sheloves3663
@sheloves3663 4 жыл бұрын
The realest video I’ve heard in a while 🙌🏽💯
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