Healing Attachment Dysregulation

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Healing Attachment Dysregulation
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[@karenmininni4962]

My dad was killed tragically in a car accident. I was 9 years old and could not attach to mom or family going through this shock. I spent the majority of my life in insecure attachment trauma until I found out I had an orphaned spirit and could heal. This video is awesome.

[@aya123444]

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@notavailable708]

Can you please make a video on how to heal and manifest a better place when a hsp is surrounded by toxic people, with no or less alone time given 🙊

[@Michelle-72]

Yes, exactly this! It is hard and absolutely exhausting. I find ACA and CoDA are both helpful. IFS, too. Thanks Candace.

[@SurroundedByClowns1926]

Intense love is infatuation/lust of the flesh and isn’t based off of biblical scriptures which case in point will lead to unhealthy relationships/friendships you’re absolutely right to some extent minus the inward mothering it’s more along the lines of fathering via The Holy Spirit keep up with the good work and reflect more on the bible and seek after The Holy Spirit blessed are those that haven’t yet seen but still believe ☺️☺️☺️

[@notdefining]

Love this thank you so much again Candance, you're the best.

[@deanmoulton8994]

Thank you beautiful Candace. I learned when I was around six years old that my family was not able to protect me. So I have had a lot of time to realize how comforting and peaceful, alone time can be. "know thyself"

[@user-cd2jl4is4k]

Respect for u..tht u doing such a meaning work on ths platform ..thnk u 💗

[@CK77460]

Hi Candace. Thanks for the video. Your videos are always helpful. I had a wound come up today that had to do with a wound from my childhood that has been repeated from time to time in my life including today when a situation came up where I was bullied online after I politely corrected someone on a date that they said incorrectly in a post and I had no one on my side, no support and I find myself defending myself even though I didn't do anything wrong actually and some people were vicious and multiple people hopped on the bandwagon. One person took joy out of thinking that she offended me. it reminded me of growing up with my sister and how she would provoke me over and over until I would finally react out of frustration and anger and then I would get into trouble for my normal reaction to her nasty behavior and then my sister would be smiling and so happy when I got into trouble. She would do this on purpose. I was gaslit by my mom and my sister saying she wasn't doing anything wrong and it was all me, I was in the wrong for reacting or for not liking her or not wanting to be around her. I never had any support in times like this when I'm being bullied and even in my adult life this type of scenario has played out in friendships and such. My sister still acts like this as an adult and I'm seen as the bad guy for not wanting any contact with her. How do I reparent myself through this? I know this wound was brought up to be healed today and probably why this video came up for me too. :) I'm not exactly sure how to reparent this part of me so if you have any tips that would be great otherwise I'll try your exercise and see what happens. Interestingly, a TED talk also came up on youtube today about "how not to take things personally". I love how the universe works sometimes.

[@untameyourflame]

Haha your timing is uncanny!!! Literally just having attachment probs with a female tf/soul connection where I feel like I am getting sucked into her whenever she connects/attaches externally with a man

[@brikachu3]

Can you please make videos on control issues ? 🙏 your videos have helped me so much.

[@aya123444]

Needed this. Exactly where I am at.

[@aya123444]

😭😭😭😭😭😭💜

[@christinagomez]

Great stuff!

[@thewishingpooltarot5425]

Thank you so much for your videos xx

[@shawnabattaglia1369]

My mom left me when I was 6 and the pain has never left me. I suffer horribly with attachment issues because of it and resonate with a lot of what you’re saying. I just don’t know what to do to calm myself when I am in the state of anxiety. Nothing has worked yet :(

[@peggygarcia1131]

Prayer 🙏🏻

[@Pippi-rippi]

This is eye-opening

[@melodywaite7423]

Thank you Candace. This is so helpful!!❤️❤️❤️

[@rachaelwillis3017]

I would enjoy if you did a live stream sometime. It brings the healing vibes up to have it happen in real time

[@rachaelwillis3017]

Thank you for all the help over these past few years. Ive found you have answers before ive even put the question into words. Life changing moments 🙏 Namaste

[@NoRegerts]

On one hand, I wanna be better and heal, on the other hand, I just wanna wait until I can find a loving relationship to prove my fear false 😂😂

[@lonlep1831]

🙏 reparent the inner child. I get the idea, but for me it is creating a new dualistic Me. With an imaginary inner attachment, that I made myself. I can use the concept, knowing that I am not it. I am ! Thats who I am. 🙏🦋💚🦋🙏

[@curiousgirl67]

Candace I know I cant be the only one who is like this but I've had a pattern throughout my life , after heartbreak I shut off sometimes for years , I make a recovery start rebuilding my life and then I would end up with another abuser , it was like it was so hard to let anyone in it was hard to let them go and every man who i allowed in to my life kind of barged their way in , I ended up being destroyed, rebuild , connect, get destroyed again , I am now at a new time of my life , my father died 18 months ago he continually came in and out of my life and abused me so now I'm entering a completely new phase of my life and imso aware never to repeat that pattern again , I cant continue spending my life in recovery,, I'm not looking for anyone right now and I'm working really hard to heal but I want to break that pattern , I don't have a mother she died when I was a teenager I'm now 54 but I'm seeing my eldest son recreating what my father started and I want to cut it off so it doesn't repeat x

[@javeriaharoon7957]

Cute dog 🐶

[@margaritav.2399]

I dont know if u read your comments but I just watched empaths and addictions video you made 4 years ago. Can you plz show me help me be my true self its cuz my children where legally kidnapped 8 yrs ago on the 8th of January and I cant take this pain I'm lost.. the day they took my children I dead im empath healer I can help others but not myself

[@wendyyoung9842]

Self and other empowerment impact life love protection healing opportunities to expand through out growth. Group of motivated - friends with high empathy guidance to learn give

[@mindy561]

Read the book Mother Hunger it’ll change your life. Also ACA meetings and fellowship changed my life. Blessings. 💖

[@wendyyoung9842]

This is for Mary this isn’t what I need

[@wendyyoung9842]

Stop shutting out down. Mothering self. Good answer. Someone said I did abortion how bad can someone sink too.

[@creativemindsonja]

If your dog could be in some of your videos it would be so good in my opinion, because dogs are so good for empaths and much more in combination with your teachings ✔️

[@wantedfreak12]

444, 888

[@soulfilledadventures8452]

It’s literally 4:44am right now 😆

[@emilyroseellis]