HEARTBREAK AND EX BOYFRIENDS | Lydia Elise Millen

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[@robynsinclair3317]

Please please please do a style evolution! It would be so cool to show how your style has changed over the past 10 years or so!

[@mehliya603]

Yes please

[@kim99356]

“Pull yourself together and go and find someone better” Great advice, needed to hear that 🙏🙏

[@victorialaceyfalvo7384]

My boyfriend just broke up with me two weeks ago, I thought he was the one for me and he didn't see a future with me. I've been so distraught and heartbroken. This is what I needed so thank you for sharing

[@tannelson5983]

so sorry, same boat here, I choose to think of our breakup as, he might have been a prince...….my King is still out there!! cheers

[@Hollybryonyforder]

Try Amelia liana’s podcast! Amazing

[@victorialaceyfalvo7384]

@@Hollybryonyforder I will! Thank you!!

[@kellyhoughton3961]

I walked away from a really toxic marriage, I'm so glad to say I'm in such a happier relationship now x

[@denisef5217]

I only had my first boyfriend when I was 20. we‘re still together, going strong for 3 years. I think it really helped waiting for that long, I had already figured out who I was and who I wanted to be.

[@annabiggs2534]

I don’t want kids, never have. I knew at 3 (according to my mom) that I didn’t want kids, I was going to get a degree, and I wasn’t going to live in England. I’m 42, have a degree and have lived in Sydney for 18 years. I still get people asking me when I’m having kids, I’ve literally had people gasp in horror when I’ve said I don’t. It’s my choice, but people should be mindful that some people have issues and can’t have children. That question possibly breaks them on a daily basis.

[@hannahclarke2611]

We could be lifestyle twins! From the UK now in Sydney. First one in family to get a degree and am still iffy about kids. I love adventure too much!

[@beckybryant9891]

The same thing happened when I got married. And I have a step-daughter. But people were so incredibly rude about it. Sometimes they were so rude that I thought about saying that we had one but they are gone now. I am older now and realize that not having mutual children has made my husband and I never argue about one, be railed at and rebelled against, or worried about their choices, actions or decisions. It's been damn good.

[@twishamohin]

It's amazing how much you have changed over the years. I remember when you had black hair and knew nothing about makeup to someone who started going on trips with brands to today where you have grown and progressed so much and know so much about makeup, fashion, relationships, life etc. LOVE YOU LYDIA

[@farheenrasool1280]

It’s really nice that you’ve done a video like this! I’ve been watching you for years and it’s great to seen your growth online

[@evelinad.t.9985]

This video is my favorite i think! After my break up with my first boyfriend i realised exactly what you said. There are certain relationships that steal your sparkle, even not intentionally, change you for the worst, that when the break up takes place it feels so liberating ! I will never forget that freeing feeling! I think I felt better than ever, and trust me I cried so much.. But it was necessary for me to happen I think. I learned to appreciate and love myself. I really found myself and started to enjoy my life like for the first time.That is when i met the most amazing person! What you exsume, you attract! That;s my moto!

[@laramarchuk6655]

I love how you are very open on your channel. It’s really nice to see and that’s why I’ve been watching your channel for so long! Also I think this background for your sit downs is beautiful!

[@YanaAnaleah]

I like learning about this side of u. thanks for the video

[@lydiamillen]

I’m so glad you enjoyed it xxx

[@natashadhawan5951]

I appreciate the honesty and candidness Lydia! You have come a long way and as someone who has watched you over 4 years, I'm proud of you.

[@Maya-pe6hh]

I love this video, thank you for opening up! its so nice to see how happy you can be after being in a bad relationship, makes me more optimistic

[@_TheConstantGardener_]

Congratulations on this video and the way you are thinking. I am a bit older than you and I can safely say that it took me a while to have such a calm and composed way of thought.

[@harjotsamrax]

Honestly love you so much Lydia! Thank you for being so transparent, bubbly and aesthetically inspiring ❤️

[@puddflones]

MORE PLEASEE!! Loved this style of video!

[@bigsisterlifeadvice1787]

I absolutely love your opinion/attitude towards money in marriage. Wish more people were so level headed around this subject!

[@ciaovictoria8357]

omg sit down video! ❤️ Love your relationship with Ali, you two are so funny and kind to each other. Lots of love 💕 Vic ✨

[@oresteslateralus4650]

Sound advice, i think most people have had their hearts broken and been in relationships that were not good and toxic, but it makes the people that we are today. If anyone is going through a bad breakup, it does get better, you will love again, make the most of friends and familly get closure and you can move on. 👍

[@daliaflanders6598]

I love when you do these types of videos....I already have great respect for you however you have raised the bar once more. Thank you for sharing!!

[@lisa.michelle94]

Your personality is just so lovely and I enjoy listening to you so much! ❤️❤️

[@jessicalily8705]

I’m currently going through a break up and this has helped so much! I always felt the same as you by dealing with jealousy in all my previous relationships and I’m so happy you’ve found Ali it’s given me hope! You’re an amazing couple, Thank you Lydia 🙏🏼

[@alenagaborova3270]

Love love love this The openness, the subject, great advice and making ppl really care about themselves. Ancestors worked hard for the freedom, so live your best life, be proud and respectful to yourself 😊. Love your videos ❤️ It feels like a meditation 🧘‍♀️ You look great, healthy and happy and it is so contagious

[@kathyke]

Really enjoyed this!

[@breakfast_burrito2405]

This felt very genuine, Lydia. Love it. // On another note: I totally agree with you on the topic of asking women if they want children. I also wish people would stop telling women who don't want children that that'll change. Makes it seem like women have no own mind and are just here to make babies. Hearing this always upsets me..

[@nikkibott3878]

isabel2016 I totally agree! I have someone say this to me at least once a week and it really grates on me! x

[@jessicastunden5562]

I thought I was the only person who took several years to get over my first love. I definitely delayed my progress by keeping him in my life after we split up. Thank you for sharing this and for giving us such sage advice. ❤️ His friends hated you? I bet 15 year old Lydia was a sweetheart and I don’t understand how anyone could dislike you.

[@beckybryant9891]

My first love was a rhinestone and I thought he was a diamond. I wish I had known what I know now.

[@jessicastunden5562]

Becky Bryant ugh I know the feeling. I actually feel bad for anyone currently dating these guys.

[@leslieoviedo7823]

Thanks so much for approaching these topics in an empowering way 🖤

[@meganpatterson8400]

I have been watching your videos for years and have loved seeing your growth. You are one of the most inspiring influencers in my opinion and hearing more about your story and how you've made your dreams a reality is what I hope to achieve. Im only 20 now but hearing your opinion and advice on topics like this make you seem like an older sister or cousin. Thank you for always being so honest and open, it helps more than you may even imagine.

[@ivana389]

Yes please, more videos like this Absolutely loved it!♥

[@jacquelinemoss1911]

Oh the “first love” I was also 15 and can completely relate to your story, I too had the opportunity to get back with him years later but by then I had wised up 👋🏼😅 That is also how I knew my husband was the one, the trust was there. I have never felt jealous with him and that’s because he doesn’t make me feel that way ❤️ Wonderful hearing some of these things about you Lydia and being able to relate to many of them ☺️

[@sandrandichu83]

This is why I love you, we can actually talk or rather you can talk and I can listen and relate

[@natashaluna717]

This was a really cool video! I love how Lydia is so king and non-judgemental. I feel like there are still some people who need to watch the movie 'He's Just Not That Into You'.

[@sunshinegalkw9675]

Beauty and brains and great sensibility! She’s awesome!

[@rach5516]

When you are with the right person true love feels calm and secure. It shouldn't make you feel anxious. I wish someone told me that when I was younger.

[@shreyasengupta4032]

Hey Lydia, I have been a huge fan of yours for years. This video is to another level, hats of to you woman to talk openly about your life and general relationship advice too. You have said things so beautifully. I have always learnt so much from you. Love you and Ali.

[@yiyiweishibue5302]

Omg have to say this is the most beautiful time I've watched you in the video since I followed you. That's so inspired and encouraged. Thank you so much Lydia.

[@maaanuervin]

Yes. I needed this. Thank you!

[@arieldawson4358]

I actually loved this. Some real pearls of wisdom! X

[@RhiannonMurphy]

Hi Lydia, I LOVED this, so interesting! I’m just wondering how you would feel about doing a part two with Ali and Carrie as you all have had such different experiences yet you have all ended up together somehow. It just really intrigues me as me and my friends can often have similar experiences and I almost think we feed each other’s unhealthy habits and it’s a huge reason we all keep repeating them. I hope that makes sense. Thank you for everything you do xx

[@treeflan5682]

Wow! There's some things up in the air in my life right now that have been extremely distracting to me and with today's video you just nailed everything on the head. Thank you so much. Also, you seem very wise beyond your years. You've ever come a lot of obstacles and learn from them I salute that! You are a doll ❣️💞🥰

[@SheenorPerec]

Best video of 2020 so far, for me at least.....loved every bit of it.

[@denisewebb919]

Lydia, you are my absolute favorite person on KZbin. Here’s why...you are funny, intelligent, down to earth, humble and kind. You’re facial expressions are hysterical. And, your laugh is contagious. You are true friend, and a terrific partner to Ali. Your lifestyle is one I’ll never achieve, but it’s fun to see “that” side of life. Keep living your nest life without apologies to anyone.

[@PeerieFairy]

I've been watching all of your old videos 💕 I love to see how you have grown as a person and how you have progressed through life. X

[@lydiamillen]

I’m all about that growth, thank you lovely x

[@aurorarose2836]

Great video! It's nice to know we're not alone with past heartbreaking relationships.☺💪❤

[@jennifermichael5474]

Girl you just make my day!!

[@gumigumi7363]

Thank you for the video, I needed this! 🙏❤❤❤

[@jessicafonte1384]

Beautiful. Thank you for having the bravery to speak publicly about these subjects.

[@KarinaSwan]

I am like you when it comes to love as well, I fall truly in love and it's difficult when it doesn't work out. Yes, it does show that you are better off if it doesn't work out, this is what I have also realized with time.

[@kimhunnego5849]

I want to thank you for this video, you have no idea how much this helps all of us! Kisses from The Netherlands 😘

[@emiliaranta3858]

Best ever. So good to know & understand that most of us go through similar things. So helpful!

[@jay10533]

Fantastic video Lydia with lots of great advice and information. Yes more Q&A's would be great. Thank you for the video X

[@helenfellows3082]

Loving hearing your relationship journey. It resonates with me so much and I'm much older than you are. That first hurt really doesn't go away but you definitely learn to live with it.

[@remanilove2696]

Loved this! Perfect timing x

[@LB-fg2ph]

Remani Love 💕

[@NatalieOrr]

Lydia, so lovely to hear you talking about such an important topic. You and Ali have such a great relationship and I love that you are a model for others who might never have seen such a healthy relationship in real life. Big hug 🤗

[@ejtriance8765]

I really needed to hear the jealousy advance. My boyfriend is a very wanted man and sometimes I feel insecure. Your advice really made me see things in another way. Thank you so much!

[@marynanti]

ohh i have been sooo waiting for this video from you

[@milliondollarlady]

Great Q&A video! Enjoyed watching this :)

[@5555milly]

I very much enjoyed this!!

[@saimamasood2998]

Real life inspiration changing minds and views in a great way keep it up, love it

[@siancox5846]

Lydia your so good at explaining things . I admire your honesty . Yours and Ali’s relationship is fab .

[@aliciaryan3192]

I absolutely loved this video, loved the casual chat & rather informative. Greetings from South Africa

[@maggiez21]

Lydia, beautiful video, just what I need to hear today. Thank you so much! You are amazing! Keep up the great work:) All the best wishes for you💖

[@KellGlamourous]

Lydia😍 Love this video. I am a rather new subscriber but love your transparency. The truth is many ppl halt their potential dealing with matters of the heart. This is why it’s so important to find purpose in our own journey.... then no one can take our happiness away at will. 💕.

[@nainaritube]

I really enjoyed this video! Its nice to get to know you a bit better- considering I spend a lot of time watching you on here and instagram.. its a bit funny now that i really think about it-how much I like a person I've never met!

[@larhondamoss8116]

Thank u so much so needed 💜💜💜

[@rosierock3501]

Love this video, such good advice. On a side note to this would you please do a video on your everyday jewellery? Xx

[@Lilylikecom]

Such a good video! Felt like I got to know you a bit better too :)

[@courteneyboden9658]

I'm nineteen and me and my boyfriend of two years have just split up so this video could not have come at a better time for me. It gives me hope that I'll find my very own Ali and that my person is still out there and that I can still make an amazing life for myself. Thank you Lydia xx

[@mmww7933]

This come at a perfect time for me❤️

[@darwinour9288]

I love your videos! Can you do one where you react to your fashion evolution over the years?

[@sarahgoldsmith8238]

LYDIA I’ve just caught up on your videos and I swear your literally the kindest person ever I envy YOU . I have to meet you one day and come to London ! Your videos literally give a piece of fresh air and life . You have the best personality I just love you 🥰 and your videos thank you for what you give us !

[@pamkirby4390]

Lydia you done an awesome job of answering these questions. I am 54 and I can see that no matter the age it’s still relatively the same. Except of course for me social media wasn’t a situation to deal with. But let me say you and I were the same when it came to break ups. The part I liked the most was when you said you think you will never get over it and you feel like it’s the end of the world. But there’s something better coming and there is! And now that I’m older I’m like would I really not want to have experienced that because had I not I wouldn’t have grown. There are some people who fall in love and have never been with anyone else, but I truly think that’s rare and I have even seen friends who did and are now divorced and having lots of family issues because now you have children and grandchildren involved. KUDOS to you for speaking about this! 🙌🏻😉🧡

[@tracyjackson8976]

Thank you for this video..it made my thoughts more clearer about money...loved this one..(per usual..im a fan)

[@tshegofatson]

Your insight about asking about children.... I never thought it a big deal but your insight really shifted the way I think..... love your videos as ush 💞🔥

[@arcdanner]

Lydia, I LOVE this video so much.. I can't relate more to your relationship history and feelings as I have to this video. Happy you were an open book about everything you were saying it was lovely to learn this side of you and hear you put into words how things feel at given moments and how outcomes can be, and they really can be lovely. Love you always, cant wait for the next vid! xo

[@holajoannekennedy]

Loved hearing more about your journey 😘 some great advice xx

[@SimplyHomeWithSharon]

Thanks for sharing your journey with us, It's been nice getting to know you & Ali better.💖

[@05juicystar]

Honest and well-spoken, love it :)

[@PinkAbigail]

Oh I love this video I’m so happy you have found a good man...We have all been through things situation relationships like this!..I’m so happy I’m in a good strong positive relationship now!

[@emack__]

Loving these q&a videos Lydia 💗

[@otMAMAzaMAMA]

Dear Lydia! It is exactly your rumbling that keeps me as a hughe fan of yours! You are so naturally talanted to speak your mind and experience, thank you for that! Wish you a long and healthy happy life together with Ali! I online love you both :)

[@vickybaley7971]

Great video and advice Lydia! You always have to love yourself first and know when it is the right time to walk away because when u do that is when you meet the person truly meant for you!😊

[@emilyprg6987]

funny how i was thinking about my ex and you uploaded this :)

[@rachelfreiha]

Lydia you are and inspiration to me and you always make me want to be a better person. I love the relationship between you and Ali wish all the best for both of you in ur lives. All the love

[@lydiamillen]

Thank you so much xxx

[@rachelfreiha]

@@lydiamillen OOOOOHHH MY GOD a like and a comment you just made my day. Hoping one day I could meet you in person

[@SnookyTimberviewl]

Great talk on relationships and hearing your perspective! I could say so much on my own experiences but I’ll go a little off topic and admit my distraction with the pretty arrangement behind you, which I believe I’ve seen placed in other areas of your dressing room. Maybe do a “my relationship with flowers” next?!😉. I’d love to see a close up of that arrangement as well as one that sits on your kitchen island!

[@lindaw.5836]

I got sidetracked with the beautifully arranged things behind her too 😍😘❤️

[@liahatz]

Breakups are truly the worst but I’m a big believer also that everything is for a good reason even if you can’t see that reason at the time. Time is the only healer xxx thanks for this vid

[@Stylegirl_911]

What an amazing video. You give such great, healthy advice.

[@snehayadav2974]

God knows I needed this today thank you 😔❤️

[@MsOrchidBouquet]

Very wise words, Lydia. I really appreciate your comments on not asking people if they’re going to have children. Having gone through soul destroying infertility myself, I died inside every time someone asked me, however well intentioned. It’s unkind and nosy, and people should know that by now. Btw, I adopted my beautiful son so the story has a happy ending, but not everyone has one. Thanks for being so wise and wonderful. ❤️

[@hevc5832]

Fantastic video thanks lydia xx

[@conniegrayson2919]

Great Q&A, nice change from your usual segments.

[@natten74]

Great video Lydia! You are wise beyond your years and give great advice...You and Ali are a great team together xoxo

[@becharb]

This was good-stuff! You are sensitive and wise.

[@cecea1552]

Loved this, very informative

[@anne-mari]

Work done, what shall I do... YAYYY Lydia has uploaded a new video! 😍

[@lynnekeyes6379]

Lydia you have such a grounded attitude to relationships - you and Ali are a great partnership and that really came across x

[@Bee-qm7rd]

I feel like you gave some really good honest advice. Thank you. 🌸

[@poppyblanca5817]

Love ur honesty Lydia - great video x

[@carolinamiedeck224]

I‘ve only come around to watching this video just now (thanks to self-isolation) and I really loved it! Totally agree with you on so many points!

[@user-us6ce7me8k]

You've come such a long way.. well done! 👍