Her Wealthy Boyfriend Is Controlling +She's dated all the rich men in her city but they never commit

[@missjoy6685]

Why can’t these women understand that a man paying all your bills without even making you his public girlfriend means you are now a sex worker and will be treated accordingly.

[@dentreveal3820]

These women have nothing to offer but sex, keep it 100%, none of these women were raised to be a wife.

[@Kissmyass155]

EXACTLY! And this is what it comes with. They think they own you and they want you there 24/7. They are very controlling.

[@ArtLee68]

They don’t want to understand. They just don’t want to.

[@Shelto220]

@@ArtLee68 giving bad advice to create another entitled single BW

[@lolab6770]

She know she a sugar baby. She just don't want to admit it to herself. Playing sprinkle sprinkle games at the height of her prime instead of locking someone down before she turn 30.

[@ArtLee68]

Ladies, when you see a man isn’t serious about being with you just move on. You are wasting your time waiting around. Remember this ladies, if a man is 45yrs or older, making over $250,000 and single he is seeking marriage or he is playing the field. Don’t waste your time if he is not pursuing you.

[@tasintamron]

I think some women don’t care as much about how they’re being treated and more so about the title “millionaire”. Not sure if it’s guilt or they’re truly conflicted or they simply just want someone to talk to. They always find their way here. It’s interesting.

[@ArtLee68]

@@tasintamronFor some that comes with a lot. Millionaire status is not what everyone thinks it is. That type of money gives a man plenty of options.

[@Gotinks]

First girl, it's clear she is a side chick.

[@raquelsmith3725]

Bare minimum sugar baby

[@kujas]

No he just couldn’t commit to her because he’s intimidated.

[@minae9935]

@@kujas intimidated by what exactly? she’s either a side chick or a sugar baby a.k.a. Sèx worker

[@_jaishai_]

Ooop. LIFE is too precious to worry about men who aren't worried about you!

[@ArtLee68]

True!!!

[@tinawalker5335]

Ladies if a man is supporting you financially they expect all of your time

[@victorlewis7635]

I thought this was as easy to comprehend as the ABCs lol

[@Erica-cf1xb]

Yup especially if she a work wife.

[@tinawalker5335]

@@victorlewis7635 I am actually quite successful making well over 6 figures most years. However, my situationship turned into an engagement and now he pays all of my bills (almost $10k/month) and wants me available whenever he wants me. So he essentially is my job now. I have no problem but I get some women would.

[@Fabrizio7171]

@@victorlewis7635nope. Apparently you pay her bills. School, friends, family, babies, pets,work etc come first.

[@Kaiel26]

It’s a trade off

[@celestedlt]

you keep saying there’s so many fish in the sea then why are you not getting the fish!!! getting approached an getting a man taking care of all your needs are two different things!! an i don’t believe this one is taking care of all your needs either maybe we have to different meanings of taking care of all your needs.Ladies keep it real please

[@tmakjus]

Thank you Ashley! Finally said the real reason she ain't leaving him. Its that MONEY!

[@Haz2288]

So he's supposed to completely support her lifestyle, but asking her to be there when he's going through something is too much? He sounds like he genuinely cares about her too. Imagine you give your all to your partner, and when you go through a hard time they say "go talk to your therapist". Delusional 😵‍💫

[@ladawnjones1605]

Yeah she crazy. That jus shows she don't even care about him 4real. She selfish smh

[@Kissmyass155]

Yea, but people still need breaks from each other. She already said they spend everyday together.

[@twylamoses1471]

It’s a situationship and he’s controlling her with things so she doesn’t go anywhere and it’s working apparently. He knows what he’s doing. It’s a manipulation at its finest.

[@horatiogonzalez]

​@@twylamoses1471She's a grown 25 year old woman with a job. If the benefits didn't outweigh the cost, she would have left him as she typically leaves people once she sees something she doesn't like.

[@anonmon8550]

Whats delusional is trauma dumping on someone you don’t even consider you their girl friend or wife. Does he even attend to her emotional needs?

[@VirgoDluxe]

Men with money are NEVER worth the headache, your skin, and your overall wellbeing💕 If he’s not loving you right, plan your exit and GO!

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

Ya can go you don’t have to plan

[@gloriouspool14]

I absolutely adore how she GRACEFULLY & GENUINELY helps the ladies. This is what the community needs, women helping women. Hats off to you Ashley!

[@jeffphillips3460]

Ask yourself what are the men saying?.Most 39 yr old guys are looking for a wife or a play toy not a 25 year old "immature woman"who chooses margaritas over being empathetic and accessible, isn't that what she is allowing him to pay for or be tested on if he wants to marry? Pandering to these women is not helpful.

[@karinazrzu]

@@jeffphillips3460No one cares what poor males from bottom society thinks. You are seen as an illiterate thug. Only women who are on your level cares what you think.🤷🏼‍♀️🥴🥴

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

She gives bad advice

[@Mya-sui]

25 : Theres plenty of fish in the sea 30: Maybe im in the wrong city 35: Where have all the good men gone A tale old as time

[@laj4186]

Bingo!!!

[@ItsmeCR-g8j]

Hmm. It’s a situationship. She’s said he stands on business when it comes to her …she wants for nothing because he gives her everything. He’s even helping her out professionally. On the surface, him wanting her to be there while he’s dealing with something isn’t a negative..BUT they are clearly not committed to each other. So, what they get is what they get. No one is owed anything. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@tasintamron]

🎯

[@tmakjus]

It's not a situationship, he's paying for her services. Eventually he will hire someone else.

[@truettadevil]

@@tmakjus if he was paying for her services, he wouldn't be asking for her emotional support. He'd be paying a therapist for their services.

[@tmakjus]

@@truettadevil should they have conversations or should he just put something in her mouth. I think she would prefer to talk sometimes. Think about that for a minute I'm sure you would understand

[@Erica-cf1xb]

He is helping her professionally. All sugar babies get businesses with daddy and do paperwork parties. When he ready to go be with someone else...she still is a about her business with him. So he can't just leave. She strapped him down. I can't understand why men aren't seeing this common theme and continuing to play in victim Olympics.

[@prettiilexii672]

You all have every single "ship" but a boyfriend or husband.

[@laquandaplusfamilythingz2319]

If your man is down and going thru stuff what would make you even want to go out and party … Unless he is controlling beyond this ?

[@sarahjoe2457]

You're not in a relationship with these man. He's not making you his woman. He's using you and you're using him for the time being. You don't owe him anything.

[@jonnyseablue6911]

No amount of money can buy you the discernment to know what a air headed bird sounds like/acts like

[@truettadevil]

And yet, she's milking this guy. Must not be an airhead...

[@jonnyseablue6911]

@@truettadevil he’s just a bigger air head air head

[@buttagrind7659]

So she said HE takes care of all my needs/bills/pampers "treats her like a queen", helping me advance my career and we are together 24/7. So HE has a sick potentially dying family member, for sake of argument let's just say it's an immediate family member and he would like her presence and he is exploiting HER? To listen to the take away of the women Men really need to stay to themselves. Women giving Women advice seems to be the worst means for constructive resolution.

[@nextbillspencer]

Omg finally some perspective

[@caseyjakemorris]

You can’t find a lawyer in DC?! Bruh she’s not serious

[@Noir_Nouveau]

She hangs out at the clubs and is a night life pass around.

[@schokococoa575]

When she said that I knew she wasn’t dating any of the high caliber men. Georgetown is right there, wym you can’t find a lawyer💀💀

[@caseyjakemorris]

@@schokococoa575 Howard law also has a huge network if she’s looking specifically for black men. Also, for the ladies looking, Morgan state up in Baltimore has a great engineering program, anytime you see National Association of Black Engineer events. Hit them up and talk to those men. DC has a lot of competition, take the drive up to Baltimore and get an immediate advantage.

[@LadyK007]

🎯💯

[@bgurley1998]

Lol the last girl was immediately not feeling the dude who came on

[@blakemorton6274]

right 😂

[@nextbillspencer]

Life is hard 😂

[@Sasha-ws6gv]

God bless the child that has his own! I will say that all day everyday! When will these women learn!

[@Renee-pv2iz]

A man being controlling in a situationship? 🤔 Sounds silly but she seems to find it normal.

[@lennylink8772]

Not a wife, none of them. With the advice given and their established behavior, they will self sabotage the rest of her life. This show is like watching an accident happen. 😂 The blind leading the blind

[@tasintamron]

When Simone came up, I sighed deeply because I already knew what she was going to say. Nothing helpful in my opinion. There’s so much I want to say, but all I’ll say is good luck to these women.

[@McOofy]

It's side chicks who've never seen the inside of an AP classroom trying to give out wisdom. It's hilarious.

[@karinazrzu]

😂😂😂

[@feliciasjourney]

She’s dating popular dudes in night life and wondering why they’re not serious? Girl… come on! Date someone with a good salary job, someone with a good trade, or respectable business owner..

[@Mya-sui]

They are also popular lol as all women want them

[@feliciasjourney]

@@Mya-sui There is a difference between the popular radio DJ at the club and a regular degular engineer. My husband’s single friends are doing well financially, and all have great benefits, investment properties, investment portfolios, etc. and the girlies aren’t really checking for them. Because, they’re normal guys with normal jobs. I used to know a radio dj and the girls would swarm him in the club, despite not being attractive.. because, he was popular. Some Women can be weird like that.

[@pjsimpson6281]

@@Mya-suiso are you basically admitting most women go for popular men?

[@Boos_Boswell]

Ladies Lets Get Real and Heal. The problem is (I was once there) you believe you are special and in reality you are one of many wasting your lives away on men that will never make you happy. This is a responsibility that male or female only you can fulfill. Self love is real love and most don’t have it. It’s a LEARNED behavior. So many wasting their lives away by giving away time and energy that will never be regained. Wake up and learn SELF Love #letsgetrealandheal

[@nextbillspencer]

But he was already making her happy otherwise she would hav left ages ago 😊

[@Illwill_imagine]

YALLL 8:58 was needed! Love a good convo with lots of facts!

[@meloran2571]

that simone chic gave terrible advice. she told that girl she shouldn't be there for that man because he isn't there for her, when the guest specifically said the man treats her like a queen. doesnt that mean she should treat him like a king? then she goes on to say don't be his ride or die because they aren't married. I didn't realize being there for someone who lost a family member is being a ride of die. women really do keep women single, and i bet the woman giving the advice is also single or just some hidden side piece 😂

[@laurenmumphery4682]

He’s doing all of this for her but yet the little stuff he’s asking for he’s controlling wow

[@sarahjoe2457]

He needs to find a woman that never goes out. However, that doesn't exist. So he's trying to make her that woman. Not wanting your partner to go out is an unhealthy attachment. Abusers tend to start small like this.

[@tmakjus]

@@sarahjoe2457young black women come a dime a dozen nowadays. What she won't do another women will.

[@Gem-n-life]

He wants to be able to go out without bumping into her 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@tmakjus]

@@sarahjoe2457 you one of those women who throw around the word abuse to justify anything. You are definitely a black woman. smh

[@laj4186]

Why would she be breaking up again???? He treats you like a queen. He's dove absolutely NOTHING break up worthy. You people have no idea what commitment, loyalty or love are. @8:55 This is a shame.

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

Women make it complicated because of the internet

[@tmakjus]

If he paying her she gotta be whoever he want her to be or he will replace her. It's millions of young women waiting to replace her. I have four women im dealing with right now and I don't hide anything. Everybody know their role.

[@caseyjakemorris]

There’s more of her than there are of him. He shouldn’t settle either.

[@NoName-eq4fc]

Yuck.

[@tmakjus]

I bet you have multiple partners too. Its encouraged by Black women. Yall just hate when men do it.

[@Kissmyass155]

But they don’t care about you either. You should know your role too big pimpin.

[@taylorthenatural5509]

Don't be surprised when you look down and have boils on your Johnson.

[@melaninandaura9713]

It might be helpful for the girl with the man going through something to realize that when you are helping somebody to manage their emotions you’re dealing with it right along with them and you deserve a break. Maybe she could explain to him that babe yes, I am there for you as much as I can be, but this is heavy on me too and I need time away. I need to keep my life going like it’s been going you’re not the only thing aboutmy existence

[@FDouglas1895]

I don’t understand the 25 yo situation. The man holds her down financially but she can’t be there for him during a difficult time. Is he being controlling? Or did he actually need her to be there for him during a difficult time? They’ve been together for 9 months. Her going out with her sister and him not being happy with it is not an example of controlling behavior. That’s a single isolated incident. After 9 months there should be plenty of examples of controlling behavior. If he’s controlling she should leave yet she’s not because she’s getting financial benefit. I don’t think it’s a big deal for a man to expect emotional support if he’s providing for her financially. Also: at 25 yo she’s in her physical prime. She should be seeking out men to settle down with. This is her best chance right now. As women age it’s harder to get the man they want to settle down. Her situationship proves this point. He’s 38, shes 25. She’s has time but not as much time as she thinks she does. Youth and beauty is often wasted while we’re young. Look at how many college educated, women of color are single and ready to marry yet cannot find marriageable black men. Date intentionally and seek connections while you’re young.

[@twylamoses1471]

You a whole cornball

[@twylamoses1471]

He’s basically a sugar daddy that man ain’t said nothing about marrying her . They don’t even a title.

[@lolab6770]

​@@twylamoses1471I agree. As soon as she said that, I immediately thought that she's a sugar baby, but trying to act like she isn't cause she's hoping he'd propose to her or something.

[@lolab6770]

Yes. She needs to be intentional. Right now she's being foolish. You can give emotional support especially if he's providing for you. I don't hang out if my man is going through a rough time emotionally cause most likely he'd prefer to be near someone he feels close with. This is the least one could do for their partner.

[@truettadevil]

Why would a 25-year-old want to settle down with a 38-year-old man who is starting to experience erectile dysfunction when she can just deal with a man in his 20s that has stamina and a strong 🍆?

[@shawana50j70]

Why was he in bed on a mattress with no sheets 👎🏾ugh!

[@tomikacox360]

She said from the beginning it’s a situationship. There’s never a benefit to that.

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

If you want a rich man it comes with a price

[@Noir_Nouveau]

She is a complete joke she asks like a situationship is a relationship. Go find another great provider since they out there.

[@RShaun]

Woman two is meeting men at amusement parks and circuses and calling them unserious…😂😂😂

[@Gem-n-life]

I just started watching the second woman, and saw your comment 🤣🤣

[@Simeon1212]

Money doesn’t buy happiness, it keeps u comfortable & stress free about a lot of things but it sure ain’t hell going give u a warm hug at night. ❤

[@laj4186]

The things the girls call in to see if they should break up over are RIDICULOUS. Grow Up. Enjoy the experience.

[@rebeccatuck7642]

For the 2nd girl, the 29 year old, she may be giving too much of herself to the men she dates too early on in the courting stage and that's why it becomes situationships. Happens all the time lol you get involved with a guy and start treating him like a boyfriend or giving him boyfriend privileges before he earns you or before he actually says the words I WANT TO BE WITH YOU. Then you ask "what are we?" This is their chance to say "i dont want anything serious." I dont care how he acts or how he treats you, if he never verbally says that he wants to lock you down then its not a relationship. So save your energy and time for someone who actually ask you to be their girl. Also, date a few men at a time so you're not wasting time, ....and no sex before monogomy.

[@MikeHawkTuah82]

If you can't get a commitment now, @25, why do you think you'll get one at 35? Are you the person the man you want needs? I think not. If a man provides for you the way you desire, and you not complaining about that, why complain when he wants something in return? Baby girl, you are bought and paid for. This man don't care if you flee cause his money (that you enjoy) can get a woman who won't complain when he dumps his bullshit on her. Ashley summed her up right, as long as the money is flowing, she good, she ain't going nowhere. So why complain? Drizzle Drizzle.

[@XxMercuriiXx]

Do you think people at 25 will be the same when they’re 35??? Have you heard of these words: maturity, growth, life experiences… so saying because someone can’t get commitment at 25 they won’t at 35 is ignorant and asinine

[@victorlewis7635]

@@XxMercuriiXxthe rest of his statement though, whats your take on it?

[@XxMercuriiXx]

@@victorlewis7635 if the man with money the lady in the vid was talking about wants someone to pour his woes into he needs a wife/serious girlfriend. You don’t get to do that with someone you’re tricking on; that’s not what she’s there for, she’s there for a good time

[@MikeHawkTuah82]

@@XxMercuriiXx you wouldn't want your child to deal with a woman like this.

[@MikeHawkTuah82]

@@XxMercuriiXx Ashley agrees. I don't. For 10k/mo I'm getting my money's worth. Does this make me a shit person? Probably. But then again, I ain't that desperate for attention.

[@dollhouseq1530]

This is how many of these age gap relationships are. He's still doing him, and she's in his pockets ready to leave at any hiccup cause he's OLD to her. She just wants the money to keep coming. It's the unspoken trade off

[@classicwrehasha]

So we're not talking about the man in the bed. Ok fair enough [in Ashley voice] 😂

[@hawandiaye6651]

I’m in TEARSSS 😭😭😭

[@reedap3033]

Be a friend to that man & nothing more! I know he doing all that things but girl run…controlling men 🚩🚩🚩

[@jasminebaby3375]

DC girl is gorgeous and pisses me off for waisting her youthful on DJ and party guys. Like come on!!

[@marcusyoung2081]

Imagine coming on the internet and bragging about being a pass around to all of the "popular" guys in the city as if it is some kind of flex and then actually being clueless enough to believe that now someone is going to take you seriously 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Erica-cf1xb]

What's Interesting is it works for them. Men would say "she's for the streets" then get in line to spend their money.

[@marcusyoung2081]

@Erica-cf1xb I believe that some women just do not get it, all attention given, all interest shown and all money spent is not the same. For some reason, many women seem to believe that just because men give them any or all of those things that it automatically equates to the man being genuinely interested in them or actually viewing them as a viable candidate for a long-term committed relationship when in actuality that could not be farther from the truth. Do women not bother to ever give any thought to "why a man/men are interested in them" or "what type of attention is being given to them by the man/men giving them attention"??? Do these questions never cross a woman's mind? Or is it if a man shows even the slightest bit of interest, gives a little bit of attention and spends a few dollars then a woman automatically thinks that means that a man wants to be with them forever? That could be the cause of all of these illegitimate children being brought into this world but that is a discussion for another day 🤦🏾‍♂️ Lastly, I will say this, there are a lot of women nowadays who have chosen to place more value on the finances of a man than they do on the true quality and character of a man and as men we are aware of this so when we meet a woman and this becomes apparent then we simply act accordingly. If a woman is more concerned with money then she is clearly looking for a transactional situation (even if she desires to not have it labeled as that because it would make it or her feel dirty) which is not necessarily a negative thing because relationships of any kind are suppose to be mutually beneficial but what women seem to not understand about some/many/most men who have money is that money is viewed as a tool that affords us the luxury to be able to purchase what we desire. A wise man knows that things (and sometimes people ) are only worth what you are willing to pay for them. So in short, a man spending money on a woman doesn't automatically mean that he wants her forever, it simply means that at the very least it is what he felt like doing at that time because she was what he desired at that time. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Lav112s]

​@@Erica-cf1xb I blame men for this mess. Who in their right mind would sign up for this situation.

[@parnelvictor3421]

When women talk to each other its the Blind leading the blind-smh

[@malcolms3220]

14:10 If the DC industry dudes along with the international DJ's and rappers are passing you around essentially and wont commit to you, then she's probably dating out of her league. Don't really think she'd want to date a politician anyway probably too boring for her and she kind of presents herself as a party girl. They aren't gonna take her seriously either.

[@beebeeguest]

Man just lie 🤣 she doesnt owe him nothing if its just a situationship. Create a schedule full of hobbies and work on finding thw next one.

[@UpdatedView]

Ladies, please understand ratios. Sometimes paying some expenses is nothing to the men who have a ton of resources. I have a single buddy in my circle who is a lobbyist. He clears about $750k per year. Covering about $5k per month here and there is nothing. I’m married, but it’s not that big of deal for him.

[@SimplyGetPaid]

@3:59 🧐🤔 HMM, POSSIBLY PROBLEMATIC.. …THIS WORD ‘SITUATION-SHIP’ IS SOMETHING I REALLY THINK NEEDS MUCH MORE DELVING INTO…. ..WHERE IT ‘BEGINS’ AND WHERE IT ‘ENDS’.. …TOO MANY TIMES (TO ME), THESE ‘SITUATION-SHIPS’ HAVE BOUNDARIES THAT ARE SO DMN BLURRY THAT THEY SIMPLY JUST SEEM TO BE ‘ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS’..

[@JaneNoordpool]

No matter how rich a man is if he loves you, he loves you. No matter what the world thinks about you, how you look, how poor you are, how fat you are, your skin color. Man dont make puzzles about women but women make puzzles about men.

[@justlurkin]

Why not have control? If he wanted to donate to charity he could’ve found more needy people to give his money away to.

[@starahmed8360]

But it's just the standard now for people to look and ask for the sky and everything above when they are real basic. It's contradicting and ridiculous. It's almost like these people are making fun of the show. If you haven't realized, I don't think the real good looking people or well put together would be on these shows. I think Ashley as the host should screen people based on her standards ahead of time and select people only after screening them.

[@shawniecechristine260]

I’m so confused as to what there is to even leave when she not officially his woman?! She should currently be seeing other people anyway.

[@wandasantillo1678]

Practically every other woman that comes on here saying the word “like “ every five seconds. That would drive me crazy hearing that if I was seeing this person.

[@matilolo]

But like... its just how they talk like its easier to like explain things you know?

[@sherineofficial7851]

THE ONLY REASON SHE DON’T WANT LET THAT MAN GO IS BECAUSE OF THE MONEY!!! POINT BLANK PERIOD.

[@LondonLady24]

Its not making any sense which makes me think she is purposely leaving things out. He supports her financially but she cant support him whilst he is down? He is controlling but shared an example that is clearly not an example of controlling behaviour. Make that make sense? So she cant sit there and listen and give the occasional ‘you will be okay baby?’ Its giving side chick and purposely leaving things out about the situation leads to the wrong advice being given.

[@richard2461956]

Did Ashley just advise this woman who spent her entire youth getting passed around by DJs and rappers to now go find a decent godfearing hard working man to take care of her? Is this camera on me !?

[@Mya-sui]

Use your common sense! 😅

[@garygreen7104]

​@@Mya-suishe's not wife material for that caliber of professional men

[@viviancanela3427]

i feel like this girls are just looking fo money and plus she pick the wrong guys ...

[@trulyloved870]

Maybe he's trying to see if she's worth more of him. She's proving she's not there for him emotionally so he has no reason to keep her in his life. They're giving her bad advice. She should have that conversation with him. But it's clear he should move on since she's using him.

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

Women give emotional advice and very inconsistent. Ashly show doesn’t accomplish nothing.

[@shoutouttomypeoples538]

Single women keep other women single. Its not about who will we date... people date anybody. Who will we marry is the question.

[@karinazrzu]

No one wants to marry anyone who looks like a gang member 🥴🥴🤷🏼‍♀️

[@ChanelandWine]

Second girl is gorgeous, she just need to change her mindset.

[@GregGibson-et9uo]

That other young lady single. Single women keep other women single. Let her leave and test that theory out that it's plenty of fish that will take care of you lol. 25 year Olds ain't got real bills lol

[@aziaredman]

If you are questioning it, something is off leave, probably a narcissist

[@kekejefferson9219]

Pay for play. Tolerate disrespect for money. No,child.

[@laj4186]

It does seem women do want to keep other women single.

[@debwright3190]

👩🏻‍🦱if she cared for him she would have the answer . She’s already gone.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Clearbluesky771]

😂😂😂 true at least sit up

[@ItsmeCR-g8j]

2nd lady…the men are plentiful in the DMV and I’m an introvert. (Then again, I’m new here)

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

And selfish women are a no no right now

[@LizzyAnnShow]

She is delusional

[@unpopular2]

When Did She Say She Want Him To Be Her Man

[@dmac5808]

Women, do you understand that when you demand a man take care of you in exchange for your time and attention, your days are numbered? You become nothing but a transaction, and there will always be a better transaction that comes along.

[@nstar1372]

Men love a good transaction. Why are you pretending like women are the ones starting these interactions?

[@Piinkciity0923]

How can she leave a man who never asked her to be his girl????? I’m co fused (girl ya both single)

[@janitawiley9331]

Damn, she seems so selfish. He is controlling because he wishes she was available to him during a hard moment in his life and he support everything for her. Clearly she don’t care about this man, it’s just about his resources. I think it’s messed up to go on an online show to basically paint him as an emotionally dependent controlling man who needs therapy and then say but I don’t want to mess a good thing. Well it doesn’t seem like she cares for his mental health cause him seeing this could really hurt his feelings. She doesn’t want to mess up that money she is getting.

[@themoonbleu627]

That girl was giving the worst advice don’t take advice from single women. They aren’t married but how do you think you get there and be to a man what you want him to be for you it’s not all about you . We already get paid for and pampered and spoiled so you just up and leave over one thing? Weird my man is controlling too tho but I’m fully provided for he’s jealous too .smh

[@danielleb1223]

Sis stay then.

[@Blahblahblah-b2d]

Wow 😂😂normalizing giving your body for money and material things is getting out of control 😮so she knows her worth and sales her body and time !! Make it make sense !!! No she does not know her worth if she did she wouldn’t be giving her body and he can find another one that would wait until he gives her the title not just give her body for money let’s normalize that this men also know who is worth it and who is not ! 😂😂😂

[@missinfinite5360]

Tiffany! I’m in your area! Let’s link! HMU

[@ak-47intelligence75]

I think you should leave him. Trust me, when youre going to through a bad time in life, he's going to be partying hard with his friends.

[@baharaina719]

No it did not turn in to a dating moment with that hair stylist and that man from Ghana!😂 SMH! You can tell by the tone of her voice when he showed up on the screen from Ghana! Really bro??

[@themoonbleu627]

Make sure it’s no mucus on your lips 😭😭😭💀💀💀

[@marcusyoung2081]

The bitter chick in the robe is giving bad advice.

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

Yep thinking she sound smart. All these women single

[@josephjohnson1057]

I detect some selfishness on her part. I believe she’s staying because of his resources. If he’s there for her and gives her change, it’s not out of this world for him to want her ear. If you don’t want to talk with your man about his issues you don’t want him. She should leave.

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

All these women are in there selfish its disgusting and I’m teaching my son about these sad women 🤦🏾

[@pro-muffins2721]

😢Beautifully being superficial won’t get a man to keep you because you’re a toy 🧸. Hello 👋 We pay and control toys because we got the money to pay for you like the street girls.

[@pro-muffins2721]

Omg plus your an Aka I’m 06 and married - your in school getting an education and online talking about being with a man for his money 💰! This a poor example of the type of woman your supposed to be as an AKA. We not the last option we are always First of All!!! APHI❤❤❤❤

[@eli30013]

Why do older men assume the young & the restless are fall into the role of a girlfriend/wifey just because you have the money ….that’s the first mistake on his end. You want someone who wants you for you not just your money…change your MO… you need a grown woman (maturity) not a grown girl (immaturity/fickle). Clearly he wants more with her & The reality is he won’t find it with women in their 20s because in their minds they have more “time” compared to older men, trying to figure out themselves etc; … Now as far she goes…why are you wasting his time you know you don’t want him like that, you think he’s old & boring, & you don’t want to be tied down because you still have “time” you like him enough to get what you can get but you think you can get better…sis 😂 Both of yall delusional 🚩🚩🚩

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

All women want money pick the younger women.

[@jrenee34678]

Smh

[@mimisworld3378]

This is not healthy advice or a healthy dating situation 😮MESS

[@ChrissyChris10188]

I’m sorry but I don’t believe her

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

Another young woman with no father. What else is new?

[@caseyjakemorris]

I don’t want advice from someone with no curtains.

[@ashleyldalton]

Sweety I’m in a penthouse with ceiling to floor windows. So hush and move along.

[@caseyjakemorris]

@@ashleyldalton I was referring to the young woman in a bathrobe that came on. I doubt she’s qualified to tell the other young lady to not settle. This might be her time to show that man that she’s really there for him and not just a good time. This is what he’ll remember when he’s taking care of her future, when she held him down and wasn’t in the streets. But listen to the girl in a bathrobe and no curtains, end up right where she is.

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

@@caseyjakemorrisexactly

[@yanou4u]

These advices are pretty bad!!!

[@Shelto220]

25...you're at point of decline older women giving bad advice 😢

[@taylorthenatural5509]

No she is not at the point of decline at 25 years old. Who the heck is coming up with these age rules?! When I was in middle school, 35-40 was not old to many people. 25 is your prime not a point of decline.

[@Shelto220]

@taylorthenatural5509 @25 the average female has 30% of her eggs left @30 she has 10% left This young woman was just given horrible advice. Her reproductive window is closing the two older gave her terrible advice that she has time and all the other bad modern woman talking points that other women are crying on tiktok about. She was conflicted because she wanted to do the right thing. The man was in her corner 100% she knows she shouldn't have gone out with her friends when he needed her. What women don't know is that men stress test them to see if that are suitable for the long term. They advised her to get a failing grade

[@taylorthenatural5509]

@@Shelto220 That's not the only measure of a woman's youth and worth. Why do men want to reduce women to a baby factory so bad? 🤔 It's as if we can't raise children we didn't have biologically, can't be a homemaker and good wife with all the duties that come with that. It's like we start looking like emperor Palpatine past 25. You need to realize there is more to life than raising children, something you likely won't be involved in anyway regardless of if you have married someone because the labor in the home when it comes to the children is never equal. The woman always does more.

[@taylorthenatural5509]

@@Shelto220 Personally speaking, children are not in the cards for everyone and if they are, they can come later. There is always a surrogate or an orphan ready and waiting. More people need to adopt anyway, it lowers the risk of there being more maladjusted adults in the country.

[@amilllion1]

@@Shelto220And what point are you on? Grave?