Best Marriage Advice Ever: 10 Tips for a Healthy Happy Marriage 2021

[@DialToneTP]

When you angry (emotional) its harder to listen and hear the other person. But the key is, to truly listen to your spouse, with the intent to understand them not respond to them.

[@lynngriesemer4940]

I like how they laugh about their challenges. She seems like the stronger personality and he is more laid back and accepting of her, which is great. No sense in clashing. They complement each other well!

[@TheBrightestLight5]

Instead of consuming garbage content about men hating women and women hating men and people thinking relationships and marriages are a waste of time, I’m watching content like this! Thank you! 🌸💗

[@tinameeks3926]

🥰🥰🥰

[@QUEENSHXT]

What’s crazy is my husband told me to look up how to bond with one another and I found this video ! I appreciate you guys sharing this !!!! My marriage is still new almost 2 years in January and we have good days and bad days and we so both needed this from a healthy marriage. Thank you

[@lilbabysnipe]

Love It ❣🤞🏿 Getting ready to propose to the girl of my life 💍

[@JozelleRenia]

God bless y’all! Pray pray pray & do right by her! 💕 marriage is so beautiful, however it’s not easy. It’s beautiful that you love your girl so much that you’d want to commit till death. 😇When she’s your wife continue to work hard to keep her as you were when pursuing her.🥰 premarital counseling really allowed us to open up with expectations of things we didn’t even touch just yet, I suggest it for any couple. God bless y’all, keep fighting, keep the love, peace and happiness in your home !

[@brandiebadson692]

So I'm here 3 months later😊. How did the proposal go??

[@lilbabysnipe]

@@brandiebadson692 it went good we’re 3 months into our engagement

[@lilbabysnipe]

@@JozelleRenia thanks we’re 3 months into our engagement

[@brandiebadson692]

Awesome. I wish you both peace, love and light. 💪🏿💪🏿💯🥰❤

[@linaespinoza3574]

It’s so refreshing to not have some Karen and Tom tellin me about their perfect marriage and to see a REAL couple talkin bout some REAL stuff! I really like the content and your personalities it seems like y’all are so happy and down to earth ! Love the channel

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Thank you so much Lina!

[@elizabethfernandes4370]

💯💯💯

[@joydavis6548]

"There's life after ruining your finances" I needed that.

[@tradiva]

Omg y’all are too cute. The pointers are so real. Been married almost 8 years and I definitely feel y’all on all of those points. ❤️❤️❤️

[@HerLifeSparkles]

thank you so much, Im so glad a married vet could agree!

[@gregoryblanco4429]

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[@dirtydishes2474]

My man and myself really can benefit from this reminder. We love each other more than anything but keeping in mind the daily struggles. We are learning to “adult” with one another on a daily basis! Giving each other grace is a blessing

[@PricelessPeace85]

Y'all are too cute and I absolutely loved this video! Hubby and I have been married for 17 years, and it's so refreshing to young couples promoting marriage in this day and age. You guys keep up the good work! God bless 🙏🏾

[@EstherandfamilySdaLiving]

He’s real that’s how relationships should be number 5 is my favorite

[@unapologetically_trese]

Yo sis, the way James was looking at you during the majority of this video🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love yall! Great advice! James we want more couple videos, I feel like you say all the things my husband wants to say publicly! Tina you know I love your real perspective... We need more of this in the black marriage collective!!!

[@erikauniquely]

Yes! I Agree! 👏👏

[@user-tv6bv4ot1f]

9 years today and its been rocky ah. But we watched your guys video today and we laughed and got so much out of it. Itd be awesome to be able to talk to you and get healthier advice. You guys are real and 100. Thx🙏😀

[@F.a.i.t.h.speaks]

I believe I was led here and approaching 5 years this year! 🙌🏾

[@Kassiex5]

I like him . I know it’s surfaced b/c idk them but it’s nice to see well spoken mature & knowledgeable men are out there & I like their chemistry

[@makaylaherbst8122]

"You're wife is right" I heard my soon to be husband say this before but it wasn't on rude shit He knows we're a team and I'm not his enemy thank you for the honesty beautiful couple and wish many more years 💞

[@nash718]

LORD I NEEDED THIS THANK YOU!!! Time to do some work in my marriage.

[@josephmorgan5767]

If u want help I can recommend u to some1 who helped me solved my marriage problems within 5 days

[@josephmorgan5767]

He's a spell caste 💯💯✔✔✔

[@josephmorgan5767]

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[@eleaseproductions2675]

Great video! I’ve been married to my handsome husband for 10 years but your words really hit home for me. Thanks for sharing.

[@sg5720]

Been married to my wonderful husband for 19 plus. So hard to find channels that I can relate with. This was great to see. There is successful black couples out there. Love it. 😊🙏🏽💕

[@WestIndieRay]

I love this! 🙌🏽

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Thank you so much!

[@francoisr4036]

@WestIndieRay Nice Video clip! Sorry for butting in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Taparton Saving Family Takeover (do a search on google)? It is an awesome exclusive guide for helping a troubled marriage without the hard work. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my friend after many years got amazing success with it.

[@dialoguingwithnasir2878]

Just finding this video. Thanks for taking time out to give us these tips. I pray y’all continue to grow and have many healthy years together. Thanks again. Peace & Love King & Queen!!

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Thank you so much!

[@dialoguingwithnasir2878]

@@HerLifeSparkles You’re Welcome!!

[@sg5720]

They say if you get passed your first 7 to 10’years then you good to go and most likely get it all out the system and things that used to bother you no longer do. Straight up agree with this going on 19 plus years with my hubby 👍🏽💕😉

[@nickiliciousnicky2498]

Hey guys, I really admire your marriage. Stay blessed so that you guys can continue to be a blessing to others

[@nefertitiO.95]

Just wanna say that your skin is GLOWWIINNG girl. And y’all are so cute.

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Thank you so much!

[@sh-df1bb]

"Takin years off yo life" I was rollin! Thanks for the message y'all and thanks for the love God bless y'all and keep it real

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@Sunshinethroughdarkness]

Your husband does have a way with words lol. I absolutely agree with your points, finance, can't change people, GTD.... ya'll on point.

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Thank you so much!

[@yourstrulytonya3002]

It’s great to hear this advice. I advocate for doing the extra work, research and self-examination as much as you possibly can, to make the best decision for a spouse. If you believe you in the Bible, you know Marriage is till death do you part. So, make this commitment with wisdom, knowledge, Love and joy.

[@DeidreMichelleIngram]

That moment when he’s discussing GTD and she says “Hey Mom Hey Dad” had me rollin lol 😂 I enjoyed this video as someone looking to remarry in the future ♥️ Thanks for sharing!

[@Dreamsareareality]

This is a beautiful video and I am going to share it with my client that is engaged. Thank you for your honesty and I am a new subscriber. Glad to be here!!

[@terrelladams2905]

Just gotten married this past three weeks,been together for nine years we been threw alot and we've gotten past them all it feels good being married.

[@xxkvngjayxx]

Ayeeee🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💙

[@rashidahilton1452]

I'm an old school Elder now😉, who loves you & loves the way you did this video 👏🏾💯✊🏾😘💖🎉

[@araineacutebrownnurse7315]

What a beautiful couple !!! Thank you for the video!

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Thank you so much

[@brookxz8783]

So j met this girl I like I had my first date with her yesterday its almost 4AM now I can't stop thinking about her now I find myself watching marriage tips 🤦🏽‍♂️🤣🤣🤣🌍

[@alwaysdayla]

She’s soo pretty. The people that smile the most goes through the worst I firmly believe that. But you ma’am don’t look like you’ve been through a thing in life. God bless you guys 🖤🖤

[@tinameeks3926]

Thank you so much queen

[@cdgameface]

You’re not an asshole, you’re transparent. That’s a healthy space!

[@waynethompson1115]

Came across this, good video. You guys are spot on with the advice. Will be celebrating my 25th anniversary on April Fools day,,,,no fool like an April's fool. Keep going strong peeps, you got this.

[@lakeita1958]

ABSOLUTELY LOVED IT!!! After 20+ years of marriage😍 still need these reminders. I am now subscribed and looking forward to future content. Stay blessed.

[@zipporah-darviredding2832]

This was such a great vlog! I'm a newlywed and can definitely agree with number 1 and 3 from both of you. In a marraige everything won't be perfect every day but it's definitely worth it and having a positive partnership and understanding is so important. Congrats and may y'all have many more years of love, fun, and success🌸

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Zipporah-Darvi Redding thank you so much! Wishing you many years of love and success in your marriage too!

[@tiffandscoopshow2533]

Too cute!!!! Congrats on 5 years💕 we just subscribed

[@taybandssss]

The GTD part has me on the floor 😂😂 y’all are hilarious and I love the advice you guys gave 🙌🏾 it’s always nice to see our people genuinely in love

[@slyblackchambliss6304]

yall are beautiful n matter still together or whatever ...thanks

[@MooreLikeME]

Ayyyeeeee !! I loved it. James is hilarious and a pretty balance for you I’m sure. Can’t wait for the how we met.

[@HerLifeSparkles]

MooreLikeME thank you so much boo. How we met is up next!

[@HeyyMonie]

Yall were so much fun to watch!😆 We singles need all the help we can get. Thanks for your tips and advice!

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

[@xxkvngjayxx]

Yup🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

@@xxkvngjayxx Amen

[@andresfelipemorenopalacios1115]

I really needed this tips for my relationship with my gf. We've been living together only 6 months and, even there's lots of love, it's also a struggle sometimes. Thanks!

[@AllThingsEmmaa]

Awesome!!!! This was very helpful. I'm going 2 apply some of these tips 2 my relationship

[@akeyajohnson4125]

I love seeing black people in love 😍

[@HerLifeSparkles]

We love to see it too!!

[@thelifeofleelee]

Yesss! So do I!!!

[@demetracastille8856]

Me too!

[@AN-nz6ee]

Okaaaayyyy!!! Y’all are a cute couple!! Beautiful and handsome!! Plus , I love your laugh girl

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Lol thank you!

[@alareew]

Me and my husband needed these tips!!!

[@tonyjohn3826]

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[@jefieldsimon6253]

thank you I am getting married next month so I really appreciate this

[@Frankie2TimesSTL]

I appreciate this video I'm not married but it was exciting to see some tips on it

[@cozyconfessions2182]

YES!!!! Both of our love language is physical touch! It's how we communicate! 😉❤️

[@GreekYogurtGranola]

That is one of my fav episodes of Martin too

[@Danishaa777]

Great advice ! I’m not even married or found my significant other but these tips are great to think about ! ❣️

[@xxkvngjayxx]

We will soon God got it 🙏🏽💙

[@Drfeelinu]

I really expected this be a picture perfect type of video, but y’all talked about the good AND bad. I related so much and learned a lot ❤️❤️

[@1withtheuniverse824]

LHM...this is so fun. Just forwarded it to my daughter.

[@tiawalton9177]

This was great!!!!!! Loved it!! Y’all are hilarious!!

[@HerLifeSparkles]

thank you Tia boo!

[@thelibra107]

Now THIS was hilarious and awesome !

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Thank you so much boo!

[@LeaLeaASMR]

Love this and your laugher is contagious 😂🥰

[@sipwithkey2067]

I love this color top on you 😍 you are so beautiful sis ✨💕

[@dannyoduo3125]

So inspiring and I love the way she is so happy charming both are cute couple

[@tatyanacierra1]

Yes black love doc vibes 💛😻

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Tatyana Sanders thank you ☺️

[@SincerelyBlake]

Hey girl, this was very entertaining & made some very valid points. Y'all are a beautiful couple, wishing you much more love and happiness in your union 🥰

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Sincerely Blake, thank you soooo much Blake 🖤

[@natashaancion4466]

As a newlywed thank you for sharing. Beautiful couple

[@HerLifeSparkles]

than you so much!

[@lifestyleofadecornatural9265]

Y’all are hilarious!! Great advice, great video!

[@HerLifeSparkles]

LOL Im glad you enjoyed it. Thank you!

[@deveroncrawford8536]

Thank you for sharing. This is encouraging.

[@jarhonda2702]

Yall are a beautiful couple!

[@ItzJustChele]

I simply want to say…… Thank you both!!!

[@stanmoney8470]

There definitely not always right, but yes it's not worth arguing with them to convince them , that there not! I know from experience!

[@tildeathdouspart1694]

Spot on with this top 10...ESPECIALLY with the GTD

[@erikauniquely]

Yes! I enjoyed This Video! Y'all are Hilarious😂💖 I needed to watch and Listen to this I like 4 and 5 the Most and keeping People out of your Business is definitely #1 🙏🙌👏💯💯 #GreatVideo #GreatInformation

[@HerLifeSparkles]

Glad you enjoyed! Thats the best thing we couldve ever done!

[@insureme6734]

Awesome, Thank you both

[@ishma2100]

This is what I wanted to see. Advice from a currently happy successful couple black couple. No a single man on a KZbin channel teaching other men how to be alpha males and step their game up. I want to see their results not their words.

[@jmagic528]

At #3 my husband talking about, "Turn this off." 😅 We've been married 3 years.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

This why you got to have the hard conversations early. It might not be ideal for most people but neither is marriage.

[@ashleycurtis8922]

💕💕💕 awesome advice. Beautiful couple

[@evelynmeyers901]

Black Love is like caring for plants, if you don't water them, make sure the weeds don't consume them, make sure they have sunlight or just generally just protect them they will not grow and blossom. Loving the relationship that you two have. Praying that God bless your union to withstand all the trials and tribulations. Nuff Love and Blessings always

[@HerLifeSparkles]

I couldn’t agree more. You have to water and protect of. Thank you so much!

[@tiffanyfuturemrssadler2178]

I felt her on the kids subjects! LOL frfr

[@emilyhowe3359]

After five years of marriage i found out the one thing that makes marriage difficult is financial struggle, its not like my husband and i aren’t making money it’s just we barely have time for each other and there’s no amusement or new event it’s just work and the kids and that was fine but i wanted more..then i heard of a financial advisor who basically makes money for me and right now i have close to 100grqnd with her in my portfolio. now we pay for our vacation without breaking a sweat or losing sleep

[@tonyjohn3826]

*[phone] ... this is the number of a very powerful spell caster who helped bring me my ex-husband, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has come back to me, .....* 💌❤❤...❤

[@Big_Money_Trucker]

8:50 the great compromise

[@TheStutsons]

Great video and some great tips!

[@jasminegray2590]

Loved the video!!! Please do more‼️❤️

[@HerLifeSparkles]

thank you so much, working on a few more for September!

[@iamallsmiles247]

New sub !!!!! So glad to be connected with you 😍 God bless your marriage

[@stanmoney8470]

Congratulations to you guys! I would've made five yrs! But unfortunately it didn't happen for me!

[@GrowthHut_]

Happy belated Anniversary!!

[@tonyjohn3826]

*[phone] ... this is the number of a very powerful spell caster who helped bring me my ex-husband, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has come back to me, .....* 💌❤❤...❤

[@b.rogers9169]

I've been afraid to talk to my wife about my feelings and thoughts worrying about hurting her

[@jssquaudyurkesse6691]

🔥🔥🔥 love this

[@tonyjohn3826]

*[phone] ... this is the number of a very powerful spell caster who helped bring me my ex-husband, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has come back to me, .....* 💌❤❤...❤

[@TheWellnessAbbey]

These are great tips, thank you

[@geriyoung7196]

James is hilarious 🤣

[@HerLifeSparkles]

lololol thanks

[@Naijamomlifeqmoves]

Cute couple. God bless your home

[@richwithgodslove8156]

It's ok girly we got your back 🥰

[@Platform28]

Amazing. Love your videos u 2. Good to get perspective from other couples on things. Just wanted to ask, if Mrs "Her Life Sparkles", has a sister who is single? I'm single and looking (never hurts to ask right lol)

[@RonishaTV]

Love this lol 😂😂 “ GET THE DRAWS “

[@HerLifeSparkles]

He’s wild! Lmao

[@ShaniasHappyHomestead]

Y’all are cute 😂❤️

[@toreynoora]

love this!

[@HerLifeSparkles]

thank you so much Torey!

[@tiffanyhoward467]

Great Video! Loved It!

[@HerLifeSparkles]

thanks boo!

[@Laydeemystic26]

New Subbie ❤ love yall😂

[@dwonsingletary1140]

Preach brother

[@sakiinaali7374]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love it I can agree with you sis I’m working on that as well

[@sharisummerour3089]

Great advice😊

[@HerLifeSparkles]

thank you sooooo much!

[@samriley4928]

Going thru the same my brother holding it down tho