How Are Narcissism and Shame Connected?

[@andreaboyd3942]

Yes its true, if he would just be vulnerable, everything would come with it. Its the key. But he doesn't know what vulnerable really means.

[@lwazisowazi7075]

U are making it so clear...u creating a clear picture

[@jmang5953]

Wow, self aware af. Life transforming wisdom, ty for helping others. ❤

[@MrBeard-ig5zc]

Absolutely. Thank you Ben. You are helping a lot of people. Can you interview Sam Vaknin.

[@noorasyed1698]

Pretty fascinating! Thank you!

[@pattioliver1561]

Best video you’ve shared ! Thank you!!

[@RawMotivations]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@kimgordon3695]

Confucius say "Stupid is as Stupid does

[@kirkhogan2688]

My ex female narcassist daughters actually knew she was cheating on me and knew she was toxic towards me,and covered for her,they even covered for her when she told me she had cancer,( which was a lie) I believe they were also narcassists too I found out by their mother that all her children( two daughters and her son) had cheated on their partners while I was with their mum, She never told any of them this wrong, I told the female narcassist at the end of the relationship that the apples don't fall far from the tree🤣🤣🤣 I also believe she got some of her narcassitic supply by her family! Spot on Ben with your video! 👍👍👍👍

[@cheezily]

Vulnerability for empathic people isn't like a paper cut. If it's with the right person it can actually be comforting because you're building a closer connection and understanding with them, just so long as it's reciprocated.

[@BeTheLight624]

One time when the narc asked me why did I pull away in this certain instance (trying to shift blame on me) and I started to mention something horrific he did to me, I started remember when you…., and the narc recoiled in pain like I had just stabbed him, I didn’t even say the whole thing that he actually did. Narcs can dish it out but they cannot begin to accept the truth of their actions. I was just answering his question I was not trying to make him upset.Truly, as you so well pointed out, narcs cannot handle shame, although they dump it on the target in big doses.

[@MinaDV5]

So relatable! They are completely incapable of ANY accountability!! No matter how obvious or factual.. . DenyDenyDenyyy!! Didn't happen or just exaggerated so get over it!! Orrr just flips it back ON YOU because it's YOUR fault they even DID such a thing!!🤦‍♀️ Enjoy your peace now!💕

[@johanna77777]

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[@msavandeventer690]

Great another question of mine answered! In the beginning of the relationship he did tell me a few times that he feared me leaving him! Only now does it make sense.

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[@andreaboyd3942]

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