How Did Phulmoni’s Death Impact Debates on Sexual Consent in India?

[@anahita_sachdev]

While editing this video, it was fascinating for me to find that these records on Phulmoni and on the state the of her body, are actually well documented that too in public domain. Every disturbing detail is mentioned, as if she was just a body, and not a person.

[@dhruvjain1429]

It is like robbing her again after her death that's too in public.

[@umajahnavi3482]

So marital rape and child marriage were linked from the very beginning. That is where consent should have become accepted aspect

[@peachlily22]

😔😔

[@shi2901]

It's still very difficult to make people understand that a female human is not just a body but first a human being. Still I see people nearby or in the family to treat women as cattle only, like giving commands, trying to dominate them whether they are old, same age or younger. The inside is out now.

[@aishwaryasingh8614]

Can you please make a video on why fake rape cases are increasing in india . I cant clear my concept there

[@shrishtimalhotra2406]

This kind of emphasis on the body of the victim/survivor of sexual violence is still so strong. Did she bleed? Were there scars? Did she fight back? If we were really fighting for a woman's right to bodily autonomy, none of this would matter. But our rage about rape is rarely about women's welfare, almost always about honour.

[@Nisha_Bhatnagar]

✅✅✅

[@bhumikaadhikari1192]

That's true. It's not just about her honor but also the impact that it leaves on their lives ( on their mental health)😔😔

[@vaishnavikatakdhond2337]

You described it in a subtle but really impacting way!

[@rajashashankgutta4334]

Then how will you prove your case in court?

[@reenashah258]

@@rajashashankgutta4334 R@pe apologists are here....

[@Shreeya.210]

Describing about her body as if it was justification for her husband . If she was alive after that incident the whole family just have shushed her and make her do the household work.

[@universeofopulence]

...so true, d-i-Ls in many households are just mere utilities and the other end of the spectrum there r feminazies..smh.

[@poojashaw3953]

But she said that she died

[@payalkundu1936]

@@poojashaw3953 and here in the comment it was also mentioned "if".

[@ShutterMurgh]

A crime against a woman/girl can be immediately brushed off from further discussion by _talking about her body,her age,her attitude,her way of dressing or her employment etc_

[@Remy4556]

And of course.....#NotAllMen ?!?!

[@Abingdontortoise]

​@@Remy4556lol they say #notallmen and call all women as gold diggers ..what a hypocrisy

[@NathanXYX.]

@@Abingdontortoise lol bunch of man haters crying

[@cruelprincess7077]

And that is the reason why Marital Rape should be illegal in India as soon as possible! It's disturbing to hear such stories which are happening even nowadays!

[@Sippingteasince]

You said correct 😭✌🏾

[@worldwidehandsome9999]

@@Sippingteasince sarcasm???

[@Sippingteasince]

@Fresh Gore my bad 😅😅😅 sorry

[@Sippingteasince]

@@worldwidehandsome9999 misread

[@boyfromthemountains]

Let me ask you 2 basic questions, who do you think are most affected by these types of things? Also who do you think will use the laws more?

[@AryaAms]

'Under developed Uterus and ovaries'- I broke into pieces💔

[@randomlyliving3323]

Same girl same

[@Sher02]

@Hootch Turner What are you even trying to say?

[@dericisama8037]

@Hootch Turner WTF

[@kairaoswal1392]

@Hootch Turner yaa dude what do you mean??

[@AryaAms]

@Hootch Turner Like me? You know me? Or are u from such a dump background to judge anyone rubbish

[@okayfineiguessilltrythat]

The same thing still happens to women who were raped. There is this intense scrutiny on what the she was wearing or what she was doing or saying to "invite" the rapist

[@nirair9650]

@@josealbert3144 why are you laughing

[@Progress234]

What had josh Albert said could anyone tell me?

[@antara.dhibar8686]

@@Progress234 Yeh exactly....I wanna know that too....Please someone do tell

[@antara.dhibar8686]

@Randomly swatching What did he say?

[@kavy1609]

Some people are like jose albert who say some offended shitt under comments and just delete there post, such a immature act with 0 percent common sense

[@bhavyjyotisharma3642]

10-12 yr old girl, she was a child and not even a teenager. And it didn't stop with her, child marriage still happens in India some 10-12 yr old children might still be facing such things and then there are ppl who support child marriage🤦🏻‍♀️

[@treasajanette7350]

True. I did my master's in social work from another state. During my field work practicum in a government hospital, l was shocked to see 14 year old girl, who is married and pregnant. The gynaecologist referred her to the social worker for MTP counselling. There were many cases like this being reported in the hospital. I was really heart broken seeing young girls like, who should be in a school studying.

[@quizudita]

@karma man *legality* has nothing to do with *Reality* On paper toh bahut si baatein ki hi jaati h.. Dowry is illegal Rape is illegal Caste based Discrimination.. Abuse/Harassment is also illegal Extramarital relationship ~is~ *was* illegal. Supreme Court has allowed/permitted extramarital relationship for *Husbands* Fir 15/08/2020 PM ne announce bhi kiya tha ki.. Marital age of females will be increased from 18 to 21 Sab bolne ki baat hoti h...

[@worldwidehandsome9999]

@Hootch Turner STFU

[@josealbert3144]

Bhavy jyoti sharma you are also a kid 👶🏻

[@riteshvashisht4605]

Yeah, to uneducated side of our country girls are still like commodities . It was reflected when cases of child marriage complaints touched decade high numbers in many states and leave alone the cases that weren't reported.

[@shreyadas8382]

It's high time, people need to start looking at women as individual beings, n not someone's someone or sexual beings!!

[@arimmm2531]

@Lazar Freak yes I agree with both of you men are accused even if they didn't did anything and girls are still treated like commodity like wtf our society boys can't cry ,if a girl wear short clothes then she is inviting rapists like seriously this need to be change

[@worldwidehandsome9999]

@Lazar Freak I'm telling you call that moron and record whatever she says and give it to police... She shouldn't enjoy her life like that.

[@AryaAms]

@Lazar Freak she deserves the fruit of her sin

[@arimmm2531]

@Lazar Freak it's soo sad to hear that people take advantage of their rights and because if these kind of girls many other girls who really gone through that did not get their justice even I am a girl 15 years old I mean they even think about their father and brother if someone will did this to them what's they are gonna do just ashamed of these kind of people girls or boys it doesn't matter hope you'll get justice , that dumb head girl will pay for her sin good luck for future

[@indexcel5099]

@Lazar Freak Jab bhi koi women issue pr baat karna chahta h tumhare jese gadhe pahle aate h apna rona rone.

[@NiaAssumptions_17]

It feels so sad hearing about this. Doesn't matter if age of consent is 18, one should get involved in a relation whenever they wish. I mean at 18 we are literally in 12th class! After that college and job. Let her get basic Knowledge to make her own Decisions!!

[@NiaAssumptions_17]

@Captain India okay its difficult to explain but the one thing is that the " GHOONGHAT " Pratha came after Mughal Invasion I guess..

[@NiaAssumptions_17]

@Captain India I guess they got married after their puberty and princesses were married through swayamvar mostly.

[@anshagrawal6289]

But if she wants to marry at 18, it's her choice

[@NiaAssumptions_17]

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน why do you always have to divert the topic. They will talk about it. You know this was about female child marriage.

[@aishwaryasingh8614]

@Randomly swatching honey please ignore them people like them are everywhere. I once saw a video of woman who was mens rights activist and I totally agreed with her arguments about mens rights but people in the comment section are crazy . they started bad mouthing feminism and stated that feminists crush mens rights and one guy rakesh kumar began bullying me for being a feminist. I mean I kept repeating that being a feminist I stand for mens rights too but he was such a brat, he kept saying nonsense.

[@gunjan3829]

It's really heartbreaking what young, innocent girls had to go through, without knowledge of menstruation, sex, the mental trauma they must have endured. It's sickening. So many untold stories and pain.

[@jooniegirl1929]

AND STILL INDIA DOESN'T HAVE LAWS AGAINST MARTIAL RAPE!!! HONESTLY I'M DONE CRYING...NOW ALL I FEEL IS COMPLETE DISGUST!!!!!!

[@jevasamy]

My heart dropped at her story

[@sanchikuda1928]

Thank you Swaddle for speaking up on this.

[@Muggle_Army]

What sort of ravenous creature that person might be, who did this to another living being... This is wrong on so many levels. She was a female, a child, a bride, a human, a living being, a person who may have been given false dreams of a well married life, only to be tortured to death.

[@worldwidehandsome9999]

@Hootch Turner she's better than you.

[@scurryfunge9581]

@Randomly swatching while child marriage was a norm in Indian society of the past, particularly in the higher castes with husbands often years older than the brides themselves, "early consummation and pregnancies" have been addressed as major dilemmas/evils of child marriage that were supposed to be discouraged and frowned upon (and subsequently became the reasons for opposition of such customs) to debates as far back as the 1800s when serious discussions arose around the rights of Indian women as opposed to those in the western world. You can refer to the views of Tilak, Ranade, Ramabai, Anandibai and many others on the same. It was a weird society, nonetheless. Phulmoni's case broke my heart.

[@tula__]

@Randomly swatching even then a husband must know what he's doing if he's a grown-up unlike her and if is something that could make it unsafe for his own bride. What a moron he must be to not know that, or I might say just sinister.

[@humoursabji4045]

😢😢

[@priyankakarwar]

I appreciated the content creators of the movie Bulbbul, it hit me differently. It has not only shown the physical torture a growing girl goes through after getting married in her single-digit age but also the mental torture. And in mid of all this torture, she has to behave in a way that should pacify the insecurities of the husband. Even to think about such incidents, make me cry out about what kinda helplessness women went through. Good job, Swaddle team.

[@tyrannasparx]

Bulbul does highlight the risks of marrying into a degenerate family. The risk will be there for marriage at any age into such family. Being a young bride can exacerbate it. However, rape and abuse is not the norm nor is a necessary outcome of young marriages. Such generalisations trivialise complex subjects and distort reality.

[@dOVERanalyst]

@@tyrannasparx My gran was married at 12. 1920s. But her father was the one to start widow remarriage in the area. Highly educated. So, he sent the son in law abroad. He got a engineering degree from London over his Masters. And came back. Meanwhile gran was taught about everything, including fluent English & stayed with parents. Only after she was 16 she was sent to in laws. Grandfather was still patient with her and let the love develop to when she can have consent. She couldn't even imagine a man wouldn't explain everything to the wife and give her time to process everything.

[@shelllockedsherlock7804]

They were practically objectifying her dead body which had went thru gruesome things and things no human, let alone a twelve year old shud experience. And people still don't want to talk about such issues because it's "wrong" and "shameful".

[@brownsugar106]

This is disheartening but the reality is if something bad is done to a women people don't blame the attacker.. Rather they try to find reasons that the women let that happen as we are superheroes and we can just prevent everything. It's always a fear to be a women... From staying inside our own homes to be on social media to go outside.. We are in danger always. How can we grow ourselves the way we want when we have so much danger every where. Specially in India where everything ends at humare sanskar aise nhi hai.. To ghr ki izzat chali gyi. 😔 Can we not just change the perception of these things?

[@reenashah258]

Absolutely. And if they won't find a reason to blame women, they'll make excuses for men like "boys will be boys" "he was drunk" etc

[@TheH7hunk]

They think it's a woman's past life karma so she's raped in this life. It's her destiny. And a woman who has accumulated good sanskars will not get raped.

[@TheH7hunk]

@@reenashah258 good boys and rapist boys are different people.

[@misaki7588]

But she was just 10-12 years old., ☹

[@nana-nd9uj]

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน copycat🐈 copying others statements.

[@ravenclaw_beater]

after this video, I read about this case in detail. As a law aspirant, it was really disturbing how the case was handled. The most disturbing part till date is that Marital Rape is still legal in India when we clearly know the status of marital rape in India. It is disturbing for both gender's victims. I was shaken to the core when I read the whole case.

[@amrisk]

The worst thing is that the judicial institutions have refused to criminalize marital rapes based on some absurd excuse that it is a sacred institution, and this cannot be brought under the purview of law. If this what a sacred institution is about, raping girls because one gets a licence to do it, marriage as an institution should be abolished altogether.

[@ic5442]

@@amrisk The courts have wisely declined to hear this issue as this has the possibility of flooding the courts with a whole litany of cases . That it will damage the institution of marriage is a genuine concern but not as much as the aforementioned cause listed. As far as marriage as an institution needs to be abolished, you ought to take your opinion to the people's Court who may well ask you to lead by example .

[@jerry1309able]

@@ic5442 So if the court is flooded by litany of cases, decline to hear it? And you call it wise? 👏👏👏

[@ic5442]

@@jerry1309able Evidently you're one of the unacclaimled genuis's of India who instead of being in public office or possibly in journalism or perhaps the academics is busy farting it out here. It's clearly the nations loss.

[@tribenisaha2999]

And after this also some people will say that Swaddle is a toxic feminist channel.

[@meghanshimustafi4451]

@karma man Amen

[@pr3t3ndgam3r5]

We need to put feminist in concentration camps so they can concentrate on something productive.

[@pikusharma4432]

@Lazar Freak dude just bcoz of one experience in your life you can't ignore the problems of rest of women in world... Just watch with open eyes without generalising women... I don't think all the men are same, but unki conditioning bchpan se Raja beta type hoti so most of them think they can do anything especially can dominate a female anyhow... I'm glad that channel like these spreading awareness and bringing out the important issues..

[@boyfromthemountains]

Because it actually is! Not all of the stuff is toxic feminist content but most is, also many ladies who comment are pseudo feminist and toxic!

[@nana-nd9uj]

Yes, If they don't like it then simply don't watch it. Easy. What's so point doing nonsense arguments here.

[@raikantopeni00]

I remember the picture of phulmoni and her husband was in my 8th grade book and I remember looking at that and thinking "She looks so young , I hope she lived a good life with her husband as he looks decent enough" And now it's really heartbreaking..

[@Wiserhobbies1234]

Same 😐😐😐😐😐😐

[@adyashajena3156]

We need to normalize the fact that marriage doesn't give any rights to the husband to abuse the wife, or force her for any action The wife also has her interest and as an individual should be respected for every likes and dislikes. When Men in India accept this.. We will find women in their right position and well respected 🙌

[@pikusharma4432]

@karma man really you know there are rare cases where a man don't take dowry, some ask some don't... like the furniture gifts jewellery all that is given to the groom is dowry, it's just that we as a society normalize this... and if cases are filing against such people then that's not fake dowry cases, And bcoz people will potentially get accused of fake cases that doesn't they should not change their sick mentality... So change mentality for good which is basic for human

[@boyfromthemountains]

@karma man found someone who can make logical argument and valid points I was here to comment the same thing, it's so easy for these ladies to put the entire blame on men, but in reality women have full rights to refuse to get married to anyone who they think will harass them or be involved into something which is not in their best interest and if still they choose to get involved with them they have more then enough power to dismiss the marriage and sue the person, yet many who use these laws are the real victims and many who get easy way out never really face consequences and still women choose to blame men!

[@adyashajena3156]

@karma man Well I don't intend to blame good men.. But India has men who abuse woman.. I just wAnted those men to change their mindset. When we live in the 2nd most populated country in the world... Its quite obvious that there will be 2 sides of a coin.. Even men suffer .. No one is denying that fact.. But since a long time woman are subject to domestic violence I just want to highlight on these issues

[@adyashajena3156]

@karma man M not blaming anyone neither men nor women.. I just put forward what I think.. Its okay if you don't feel the same. Its quite normal I won't force to agree with me. We are just viewing same things differently and yes.. If men are suffering.. Women are suffering too So.. Need not focus on any gender.. The vdo was just about a lil girl who died of excessive bleeding, thus I just commented what I felt ! M neutral towards both the gender

[@Batman6666-i5g]

They are already doing sis.. But sadly it still happens in some areas. Better too add term "some" Don't generalise.

[@misaki7588]

It's even hard to imagine how much she has go thorough this😭😭

[@Deepika-co7yu]

My grandmother was 8year old and my grandpa is nearly 25-28years old at there marriage time. Its so sad my grandmother told all the stories of how so much brutality happened with her.

[@cherrylvrs3342]

And they say India is the best..

[@garimasingh-tr3sp]

India is best it's people are not

[@garimasingh-tr3sp]

@@Malika_Kausar we will become America but without the Western privilege

[@josealbert3144]

@@Malika_Kausar Yes, I love you 😘

[@garimasingh-tr3sp]

@karma man I do

[@manishagoel885]

@Hootch Turner oof jobless troll jealous of educated people

[@Abhi-ir4vr]

Marital rape is legal in india, court not punished for this crime. Now need to change in low and provide Equality and justice for all citizens.

[@aparnarajesh]

I supported ending of child marriages and martial rape as crime

[@hhhhngg]

@Tabassum Misri islam too permits polygamy and child marriages. pretty bizzare huh?

[@aditibisht22]

Boys learn.

[@vaishnaviexo]

Ye to mere 8th class k history book m thi😦

[@snehaboro3083]

Me too

[@pragyapriyadarshini3637]

Which board ?

[@yaminivishwakarma9928]

Kon se board ki book me?

[@vaishnaviexo]

@@yaminivishwakarma9928 cbse hehe

[@vaishnaviexo]

@@pragyapriyadarshini3637 cbse

[@Mzingh]

This incident along with many other is destressing. Society never been same at any point, it's norms change with time. What this case shows that society improve their practices with time and we saw that in past and would see in furture.

[@moonbook9854]

Love ur channel it teaches us many tings that nobody will talk or tell us about👍

[@KDRAMAHOLIC364]

*Sorry for the failure of humanity. Watching this video itself was devastating 💔*

[@sanjithjoseph6906]

Let it be remembered that conservatives like Bal Gangadar Tilak fought tooth and nail against the Consent Bill that was introduced following this incident

[@anayadegani626]

Tilak believed and supported increasing the age of consent but didn't approve of the bill because he saw it as the British interfering in Indian matters

[@delphineava827]

I hope this content also provide in different languages including Hindi . So that everyone who uses internet have a clear knowledge of how much importance consent has.

[@arpitasharma9154]

sometimes i am so ashamed of belonging to such a society...

[@shwetapadwal6510]

Criminalizing marital rape is a need.

[@kavishwarmokal124]

Earlier was, but later decriminalised due to misused by so called overzealous ultra intellectual feminist.

[@RM-dh2so]

Criminalising marital rape in India is a need

[@RM-dh2so]

Only criminalising marital rape will not be enough, uneducated, insecure meninazi must learn about consent www.teachconsent.org/

[@lioness5838]

How did child marriages started and how come society accepted it? And also, I thought girl after marriage lived at her maiden home till 14-15...

[@kunalpathak9492]

Well back in the day it was normal and it was not too bad if both were of same age .

[@Nandini-cc4vb]

Marital rape is still legal in india. I’m still enraged

[@kavishwarmokal124]

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน nice judgement by shrewd judge ... 👍👍

[@kavishwarmokal124]

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน because most of the family court judges are dumb and just sit there to favour women.

[@Nandini-cc4vb]

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน find more cases like this and compare the statistics

[@Nandini-cc4vb]

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน female to male assailants’ ratio?

[@arundhati64]

So tragic.my grandma was married at 10 to a 21 year old man. She tells me she menstruated at 13 and was then sent with fanfare to her sasural. A year later she was a mother.

[@Gedankenful]

Sad..hmmm. this must change.

[@tyrannasparx]

@@Gedankenful it has changed for the most part.

[@tyrannasparx]

You tell me, in a time when most didn’t go for education (even most men were barely educated), what would be the normal age for marriage? It would be much much younger. Whenever we assess such social norms we have to put the time and geography in context. Now today when it’s more or less a norm to have basic education, marrying the children at 10 will only happen in very extreme poverty cases. Another thing is that as you pointed out that it was only after her first menses that your grandmother was sent away. This was indeed the norm back then. However in Phulmoni’s case, the irresponsibility of elders caused her untimely demise.

[@Gedankenful]

@@tyrannasparx not really. Rural areas?

[@Remy4556]

@@tyrannasparx but its only the women who has to suffer right?? She carries the baby and gives birth to it, right??? She undergoes her menses and needs proper care and hygiene, right?? She needs more emotional maturity to enter into a sexual relationship compared to a male. She has to endure greater pain during sex

[@sanchitabhattacharya1323]

Thank you so much for this information. As in internet the picture is known to everyone but the behind story is known by only few now everyone will know the story behind that picture 😊😊

[@AdityaAnand-oy3nc]

They really expected a twelve years old child to become a people pleaser 💔 this was so disturbing to watch

[@vidya3044]

It's such a sad world we live in. .we are still backward in so many areas still today women face so many challenges in their life and it's marked as but normal ye to haar ke sath hota hai. . Raise your voice against injustice. .

[@allokdallok6684]

This is one of the best channels on KZbin 🤎

[@drshohinidas4051]

There are incidents like this happening in India still. Still. It's fucking 2021. And people say we don't need feminism.

[@veryfertile2335]

This is so sad. The poor girl must have gone through such a horrible death.

[@bhavya5692]

Rest in power Phulmoni

[@Remy4556]

Nirbhaya,Unnao,Kathua,Hathras and thousands of other cases like these ...too many of them being unreported and muffled up to save the dignity of the victim at the behest of the judgemental society and ruthless patriarchy. The saddest and most brutal honest fact is that nothing much has changed in India. We still have a long...long way to go!!!!

[@pennywise6058]

This channel is soo underrated

[@anitachandra2030]

These is horrifying

[@eternalseeker90]

The case was much more complicated than that. It's true that the child's anatomy was discussed in public platforms. Taking it out of all the legal intricacies involved is not appropriate. The debate was whether the husband was responsible for her death or not. Even Tilak wrote that the child's reproductive organ was small and hence it was not the fault of her husband. Finally Age of Consent Bill was introduced and A.376 of IPC was amended.

[@priyachoudhary9896]

The harsh truth is discussing matters like this are dreaded as most people would only question and wouldn't side about criminalising marital rape. The comment section is evident of that.

[@ankitajha]

This is such a heartbreaking story

[@aradhanakumari3906]

So where are our so called society creator?????? She is not more is it not enough for them?????ek ladki kbhi kisi ldke kam ni hoti apni deshbhakti sabit karne m pta ni woh din kb aayega jb ye desh bhi apni betiyon ko liye apna pyar sabeet kr ske🙏🏻

[@kashifzainabvlogs8389]

How sad it is that she has to lost her life. And become examples for other to not to do child marriages.. The women who faced the same why they let their daughters face the same.. why dont they broke the rules.raised voices?

[@adflix424]

The husband was to be treated like a deity, worthy of her worship. When you have been indoctrinated to pedestalize all men without rationally scrutinizing their nature, it becomes impossible to speak up against the violence they cause

[@gaurisharma1129]

ALERT: We have a misogynistic fool @Pranav Vaishnave in the comment section. Plz ignore or report him

[@NoName-bm7xg]

As a mother of daughters, this was highly disturbing. I would murder anyone who talks about a child in this manner.

[@riyamate1375]

I think it's high time we as should teach the boys of our house that a women should be respect not only in the house but the women which are present out of our houses too

[@divyankbharadwaj8209]

Right mam.

[@ananyaverma9599]

The fact that marital rape is still legal in india😥😥😥

[@ananyaverma9599]

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน It really sucks doesn't it😞

[@ananyaverma9599]

@karma man agreed🙌🙌

[@ananyaverma9599]

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน yes yes ofc. Marriage rape in general shouldn't be legal.

[@Batman6666-i5g]

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน Finally you are talking with common sense here.

[@gaurisharma1129]

I wonder what will happen if Indian females stop marrying until marital rape is criminalized

[@swatisaini6447]

Oh god was the husband hanged to death or did he escaped?

[@chaitanya6738]

husband was later declared as not guilty in the rape charge because laws on rape excluded marital rape from the purview of punitive law was completely exempted.

[@swatisaini6447]

@@chaitanya6738 I should have realised this. Marital rape isn't illegal till this date. What was the chance he could be punished in 20th century? He could do whatever he wanted with her bcoz she is his property 😖😭

[@amnaasghar5683]

He killed her. Why he wasn't charged of murder.

[@tani6071]

So nothing happened to guy. I'm sure there would have been talks how the girl wasn't strong enough and the girl's mother would have been blamed for having bad genetics. And it's pretty obvious that the man married again and would have got another wife without any pains.

[@swarnaprabhabej2305]

@Ipsita Dutta Roy Even men are suffering from this thing till today. No proper laws for men who suffered crime by women in this country. And, also crime on men by women are taken as a joke in most places.

[@Y2K-2000-y]

And what year did this happened?

[@poornapoo8891]

Is this reuploaded ?

[@preetsharma5231]

Thank for information

[@sachinjha6805]

I have seen similar cases in my life 😣

[@niharikasinghsays]

Untill women are not realising the point that their fights are not the fight of men but with men, these figures will only increase. Women need to unite.

[@vishalgugnani2136]

Yes, Martial Rape should be illegal in India But my question to the creator is that how one will prove his consent in marriage because many times in this scenario men are facing the worst part of this some women are misusing this law. I think the Supreme Court should make a law on Martial rape so that no women should suffer and also innocent men. Because right now we don't kind of law for Martial rape

[@nazdalaan]

A lot a women are suffering immensely in this world.

[@adcat8473]

So disgusting and sad that she and countless other young girls have been harmed this way. So disturbing

[@samirpadhan8151]

Damn. The whole fukin system is crooked.! Unbelievable.

[@ridakhan2307]

Just 10-12yrs... Underdeveloped uterus and ovaries... The girl is just a child... JUST LET HER LIVE 😔😔😔😑

[@jevasamy]

I love this channel

[@biswadevmajhi231]

This is one of disadvantage of arranged marriage, every women should be given the right to marry the person they like.

[@TheIndemir]

Who dislikes these kind of videos ?

[@Anthrostatic]

how do you guys select a topic?

[@AnwarKhan_786]

Many though say Phulmoni was 3 (three) years old when she bled to death.😥😥

[@ananyadey9387]

What kind of a scavenger the husband was?

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

I think u mean vulture.

[@Nandini-cc4vb]

Can we just think for a second about the fact that marriage according to our law means indefinite consent to sex? What kind of logic is that? Indian law really understands sex as a duty a female spouse is agreeing to perform at the whim of the (presumably dominant male) spouse? Sounds a step shorter than sexual slavery. Also it’s so sick how they examined a child’s body like that. A child rapist got more dignity in the case than the victim herself. How backward are we really? The judges needed proof of that kind to convict a child rapist? I mean if they’re already misogynistic can’t they at least spare children from this cruelty? This whole godforsaken place makes me feel hopeless. Being born female in this country is an inherent injustice

[@Rubi87t]

Girl "PRACTICE"VIOLENCE FROM THEIR OWN HOUSE FROM THEIR OWN PERENTS...THATS THE SADEST THING ...KEEP SILENCE BECOME THEIR POWER TO RESIST ALL SITUATION

[@sumalife212]

This is why we have law ..men still cry saying indiscriminate laws

[@urvashipatel5214]

It shld not matter if the is 18 or more...i have heard men from kerela think of woman at 18 as ripe enough for marriage.. and this beyond that its a waste... oh my God in which century are we...

[@AmanExplorerBoy]

Please Share This As Much As Possible

[@faree38green]

So sad... I feel very sad

[@diveshkumarchordia1252]

This is what it means to be a hindu - person of higher consciousness and not a pervert,tharki What has been your wildest experience in Thailand? I am planning to go to Thailand alone, but I want to know about the life in Thailand, especially the night life. This question previously had details. They are now in a comment. Originally Answered: What has been your wildest experience in Thailand? Not wild but self enriching. I visited Pattaya this June. Anticipating all kinds of possibilities got me all geared up and excited! For those of you'll who might not be familiar with the place, Pattaya is known for the Walking Street. A street that offers night life at it's peak - Prostitution, Go-Go Bars (Gentleman's Club), Dance Clubs, Live Bands Performing, Sex Shows and goes without saying liquor everywhere. To give a slight background, I do drink and prefer clubbing. But never before have I visited something similar. Naturally I was all excited to experience what it would be like. When the day finally arrived, I was in awe of what I was witnessing. It was finally the evening I was longing for since so long! Taking a few strolls of the street I got into a Go-Go Bar. There I was sipping on some expensive Scotch watching beautiful Thai women dance. Something that I was eagerly looking forward to since the past few months was finally happening. However instead of enjoying the nudity charade my head was on a completely different track. Wondering what their (the dancer's) live's are like? What kind of persons they are? How did they get into this profession? What possible circumstances could have forced them to do this? Behind the act that they're putting up, there's probably a helpless person. Maybe I got emotional, maybe I was overthinking. But that's just me. I was surprised. I felt good about myself. I realised a mere conversation was what I seeked. I figured it would be more satisfying than what I initially vouched for. So there's this system where you can buy any dancer a drink and she'll accompany you while she sips on it. I did. As soon as she sat beside, she started leaning in. Coming closer. It was their job. They had to do this to make a living. I realised it soon and conveyed my intentions. I told her everything I was feeling. I told her everything I wanted to talk about. Her reaction was unexpected. She was stunned. She was taken aback. Probably because in her 4 year long career (as she happened to tell me) this was the first time someone wanted to know about her, talk to her. The first time someone showed empathy and seemed interested about her life. The first time someone didn't want sex. Her name is Moi and this is her story. She is from a village in north Thailand, and is uneducated. Her mother is no more and her father has a serious illness. She belonged to a farming family but because of monetary issues, they lost their land. The father's ilness expenditure is beyond reach. That's why she was doing what she. He is unaware of what his daughter does. She said it was difficult initially but gradually she got used to it. All she cared about was sending him money every month. Yes, she was the man of the house. Also when she was young, she dated a guy who started humiliating and insulting her for her choice of work and eventually broke off. She was teary eyed but realised it was inappropriate for the place. She controlled her emotions and concluded with a big bright smile saying, "YES this is my life". I was touched. As she was speaking there was this deep respect building up for the strength the woman has shown in life. She truly was a fighter. She then changed the topic. Enquiring about me, what I do where am I from etc. The conversation ended on a great note. She said and I quote: "You are a good man. You made my day. I will never forget you" Well that made my day! I felt so good about myself. It's that feeling of self enrichment and satisfaction you get when you've done a good deed was filled with. There was a sense of pride I was experiencing. She eventually got back to her dancing and r

[@sushiroast]

No matter what ever rights have been given to women in constitution unless the society changes its thought about women its off no use

[@aditibisht22]

And they'll say that Indian parents are God

[@dilrajsingh9259]

Worst part-it still exists(marital rape)

[@xyzspecial61]

It happens only in india. And marital rape is not a crime

[@virginiaharvey]

Child abuse and stereotypes.if you have a daughter then your friend marries them?

[@awesomevideo5525]

But child marriage is illegal in India. Girl consent age is 18 for marriage

[@puja4637]

This is shameful.. beyond humanity 😓

[@priya-xr3rr]

india won't change its the same as it was in 1940's

[@ankra12]

Why dident he marry a woman and not a child?

[@muskanaulakh4528]

Mera Bharat mahan 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@PulmaShar3525]

@karma man truly India is just a really beautiful piece of land with lot of variations in climate, temperature and landforms. The problem begins with the people who inhabitate this land, they are losing their common sense like people are losing their loved ones in this pandemic.

[@anshagrawal6289]

@@PulmaShar3525 you are one of those people

[@PulmaShar3525]

@@anshagrawal6289 I know that and i do pretty much hate myself

[@pikusharma4432]

@karma man well country is made of people and culture is made by people and most of people's mentality is toxic in india, so why can't we blame the country? What is country from your point of view?

[@muskanaulakh4528]

@karma man You are just being over dramatic, whenever we talk about country in general like in such topics, we refer to it's people and not the country. Also mera Bharat mahan is dedicated to ppl not land, I mean how can a land be mahan. They have given this name not to land but to the ppl living on it.

[@purvamtiwari7472]

This is also a topic for debate because rape doesn't mean befire marriage or whatever after marriage having physical relations with anyone without them being agreed on it is also illegal and rape it doesn't mean if its your husband he can do anything to you this is really heart breaking for mee this really illegal. ..

[@rajamohammed8683]

In this same fiery fashion swaddle should do a video about women vs women rivalry

[@adflix424]

There are very few iconic women vs women moments in history or even in contemporary society. Now compare this number with that male vs male rivalry (all battles, war crimes, riots, loots, ravaging, rape abduction and enslavement of women belonging to defeated tribes, combats, altercations) 🤣🤣

[@rajamohammed8683]

@@adflix424 yes that is surprising how easily women get away with that particular vice, no traces could be found once they're finished with their back stabbing. No man can rival such thing

[@swatimurmu3583]

Make a video on the legend Bhanwari Devi.

[@Batman6666-i5g]

Who is she?

[@flowurney]

Yes, that exactly is the problem. Child marriages huh , what the hell were people thinking. 🙄

[@sarath1812]

Watch biriyani movie, Malayalam.

[@zaid_wani]

I have been following Swaddle from a long time but not even once did I see you covering sexual violence used by the Indian state as a weapon of war in Kashmir. Sexual violence in Kashmir has been documented by HRW, UN bodies, JKCCS and even some Indian rights bodies. Kashmir has seen some harrowing cases of sexual violence committed in the 31 years of insurgency by armed forces, and ALL OF THEM are roaming free. Be it mass rape of an entire village at Kunan Poshpora, be it gang rapes of women in Saedpora (Shopian) because they happened to be relatives of active insurgents or the rape of the bride Mubeena Gani at Boniyan Tal on her wedding night. Even today during military operations, particularly CASOs, molestations of women are very rampant but rarely it gets hype because neither the media reports it nor do victims approach court because knowing court can't do shit here in valley. Just convenient activism sitting in your AC room in a metro city. It's easy talking about a girl raped some 60-70 years back and expressing your sadness. Try talking about crimes of your state and start questioning your army (which is blind worshipped by you) someday. Grow a spine

[@zaid_wani]

@Aayush Jha Calling out hypocrisy is agenda? Okay fine then. Keep doing this convenient activism and amassing followers.

[@zaid_wani]

@Aayush Jha What a shameless moron? Are rapes and sexual violence "political bullshit"? I am not asking them to speak for Kashmir's self determination . Not even demanding to talk about other Human Rights violations like killings, torture or disappearances. If they as a feminist channel won't talk about rapes then who would? How is this political?

[@zaid_wani]

@Aayush Jha I am from Indian Administered Kashmir - the world's most militarised place and a dispute pending at the UN from last 73 years.

[@adflix424]

@@zaid_wani The day your politicians will openly admit that your men aka ji-hadists (who are roaming about freely) had ra-ped Hindu women, burnt and hung their bodies, ripped unborn babies off their mothers' wombs etc during the state sponsored Hindu genocide, we might consider scrutinizing your stories

[@action16x2]

This 2 minute video is more horrible than the Conjuring movies

[@rayofhappiness9490]

And this same nation pretends women to be devi..

[@AbdulHannanAbdulMatheen]

👏😐 Damn

[@anjalipatni2580]

What about the Pedophiles across the world???