How do INTJs (The Ranger) Compare to INFJs? (the Paladin) | INTJ Vs. INFJ | CS Joseph

[@wandering248]

Your whiteboard isn’t wearing a seatbelt. I’m concerned for its safety.

[@LiveLaughLove1101]

LOL

[@sophiafrytv7893]

Same

[@makemusicwithmian1668]

LOL, yes please wear seatbelt for the board, the board is lively important!

[@jaylinzero2474]

Si hero?

[@thes7450]

@@jaylinzero2474 lol

[@dumbledalfthewizard9486]

When your potential soul mate is rarer than a carnivorous unicorn.

[@NPC-kw4sb]

I read that as coronavirus unicorn lmaooo

[@NPC-kw4sb]

fuck I just realized coronavirus is an anagram for carnivorous

[@ethanh5217]

@@NPC-kw4sb holy shit

[@dumbledalfthewizard9486]

@Terminal Frost Thanks. I needed that.

[@nicolew231]

I am a carnivorous unicorn. 🦄

[@hfortenberry]

"I'm not calling them out .... but I mean, for example, Frank James" LMAO

[@new123zxc]

So is he an infp?

[@david_oliveira71]

@@new123zxc No, I wouldn't say so. To make it very short: I watched him a long while now, and watched quite many lectures by CSJ now, and personally wouldn't say so! A very high Ni-Se reverberation I get from watching him.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

@@david_oliveira71 Yes for sure. Noticed too, really wanted to look at it over time. I felt he was INFJ since the start when he was very small.

[@shuggyy]

And then he proceeds to call out everybody else. Haha

[@mamu7976]

@@new123zxc Yes he is an INFP, pretending to be an INFJ. See links below. CS Joesph 34:47 (types Frank James as INFP) kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGa7lGyonp16hZY Type Police (also thinks Frank James is not an INFJ) kzbin.info/www/bejne/aam4e3ppnNyLZ7c

[@dasai4761]

It's amazing how you can focus on explaining non stop while driving and looking around at the same time

[@BjornKuma]

At first I found you abrasive, then I heard what you were actually saying and could see the wisdom there. You're good dude, real good.

[@QuandarNl]

I'm an INFJ, and I totally get what you say and don't find you rude at all. I like how direct you are, and you seem to care a lot, and I can appreciate that. The things I pick up from your videos are incredible useful compared to other channels.

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

I'm living in the Netherlands. This man is speaking the way I'm used to. Direct, no bs and to the point. The rest of the world tends to call that RUDE xD. Love it. (INFJ, loving truth)

[@QuandarNl]

@@yvonnecampbell7036 Me2 :). Yes and I think he's probably an ESTJ which makes sense if you watch his videos. Or maybe an ENFP stuck in NE-TE. Check out his ISTP videos, he likes them. INFJ female & ESTJ males are not really compatible and he probably got hurt by INFJ's a lot too. But what he says is mostly true anyway.

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

@@QuandarNl Ah! Thanks so much, I will. By the way "INFJ female & ESTJ males are not really compatible"......... I married one. See my struggle? Yes, he's still alive........for now. xD

[@PlazDreamweaver]

Same thing. I appreciate how direct and honest he is and how he doesn't talk us up as some special unicorn. I don't want to be a special unicorn, I want to be human.

[@abby675]

My husband is an INTJ. I am an INFJ. As ridiculous as this sounds, I feel like we are constantly saving each other from ourselves.

[@tundeterez]

Same. So true!

[@Sniegel]

Mother is INFJ. Me INTJ. I think I understand what you mean.

[@sofia8574]

Please explain further

[@sofia8574]

Any examples?

[@abby675]

Sofia Hi! I just saw this ! I think Hazel Sudduth explained it perfectly. I was going to say the absolute same thing. He teaches me to be more logical, and I call him out when I feel he is being insensitive to certain situations.

[@sierrafarnum9689]

It's official. I don't have a type.

[@caffemocca8855]

You may have a type but your enneagram and other things complicate it.

[@orthopraxic]

Ghosts are INxJ

[@wanderingspirit7278]

I am facing the same issue dammit 😭😭

[@midnightgaming.9162]

exactly according to who? If its you, you're giving up on yourself.. You will feel like you found home when one of these videos digs down to your soul, pulls it out of you and shows it to you, how it works and why it is. The feeling is incredible. I felt like it gave me wings. Its really hard to describe, but trust me you'll know it.

[@T216-n3h]

Nature vs nurture makes it hard to type. Be happy you dont fit a label

[@norvirmapa1142]

INxJs need to have human relationship. Oh no! What if everyone else is either stupid or bad? Should I leave this place completely?

[@norvirmapa1142]

I hope that ENTP hasn't watched "How to Social Engineer INTJ" video.

[@Jess-yv7zc]

@@norvirmapa1142 I'm an INTP that's watched "How to Social Engineer INTJs" and I provide that info to my INTJ and I use that knowledge to stand guard over him and hopefully protect him from any nefarious people who may have ill-intent or see an opportunity to take advantage. I'd highly recommend finding healthy, evolved NTPs. You'll know them when you meet them. And you are correct...soooo many people are stupid and/or bad.

[@nellyishtari]

firstly I wouldnt say stupid or bad.... rather ignorant and naive... Yes only way is to find another place.... but not before dominating it!

[@orthopraxic]

Or ugly for some INFJs

[@usefulbobcat]

Yes you should leave by building a rocket and going to mars

[@scartdarcy]

15:42 I love it how not even the dead Isabel Myers was able to scape being called out by you on her mistakes. Nobody is safe from Ti parent, it is going to get you, dead or alive

[@CSJoseph]

all sacred cows will be slayed

[@mehdihassankhanloo5297]

@@CSJoseph Awesome!

[@grumpyschnauzer]

So funny about the Ne Nemesis paranoia on the loyalty thing. As an INFJ dating an INTJ we both ended it at the same exact time, thinking the same exact thing, quite abruptly. It was a mutual agreement in the heat of the moment. It was pretty funny. On a side note when I’ve made those swift decisions to cut people off I’ve always felt relieved and like I dropped some weight from my life. I never regret it, I don’t look back, but I think fondly of the person and what they contributed to my life. Great video! Thank you!

[@Caroline_Thedeathofa_sho-br2ut]

oh god the same(almost) situation I feel extremely stupid do I have any chance to get back to my precious infj? They mean a whole lot to me an I honestly don't think they hate me that much

[@madhere0990]

@@Caroline_Thedeathofa_sho-br2uttry and go back INTJs make a forever impression on INFJs …. If they treat us well that is …. The only time you’ve lost your chance is if someone that connects with them intellectually treats them better than you .

[@Caroline_Thedeathofa_sho-br2ut]

@@madhere0990 maybe in a few years we'll reconnect

[@jays7259]

Wow this was Very motivational, I’m an INTJ but that performance fear will literally be the death of me ! When I apply myself I always get so many compliments but nobody realizes how DRAINING it is to need everything be so perfect.

[@Scrattah]

It’s also hard to take the compliments because oftentimes a finished product is easier to troubleshoot and find more optimizations for since the prime aspects of the system are set in motion. “Thanks, but I know I should’ve done it better,” “I feel like it sucks,” or in a situation where others have higher rank or higher value to an organization “Thanks, I got lucky,”

[@jays7259]

F13RY0N5L4UGHT I agree because you know yourself and that it could’ve been Flawless. It’s always easier to fix things after everything is said and done but by that time it’s too late and you feel like everyone else is dumb for not realizing what you left out of the final product so their compliments mean nothing to you .

[@argent-wolfman90]

Oh 100%

[@bobbierenee4855]

What if you thought everything is already perfect and doesnt need to be changed or improved.

[@marc6109]

Arrogance problems? That explains the superiority complex in the mbti community

[@Lisa-uv5jb]

One thing that C.S. Joseph mentioned that is super helpful to me (INFJ) is that our Ti child function will alienate us from making friends (in another video of his). When tempted to use Ti child, be social instead! This is one of the most helpful pieces of advice given to be as an INFJ. I wanted to give a concrete example. If someone is drinking beer with CBD oil, popular here in Wisconsin, I would be tempted to say to the person "That might be fake oil, the bar is charging you for real CBD oil". Instead of getting stuck on something like this (Ti child) I would just says cheers and toast mugs! I believe this is what C.S. Joseph meant when he said this. I almost need a Ti child support group because it does alienate us if we use it too much. Thank you C.S. Joseph for this, I might actually gain more friends.

[@felixthecat2786]

Wow thanks for sharing this. I had absolutely no idea that I was doing this at all. I had an abusive, tumultuous, and traumatic child and I think that I overdeveloped my introverted intuition and introverted thinking because that was where my brain went to cope. I notice myself still doing this these days when I am feeling down or lost in my own life. It's just so easy to get sucked right into that as a way to feel better about the things that bring me down. Sometimes I literally don't want to be around people at all and would rather focus on the intellectual things that I'm interested in. I didn't know that this was handicapping me in such a way.

[@midnightgaming.9162]

right yes. go with the flow. if they are poisoning themselves, they would be to dumb to want to be saved so, you continue to let them bond and suffer together. I think the social ones have this need to be around another and maintain the glue that keeps the current group together. So ask yourself do you want to fit in or do you want to save all their lives so they live long enough to resent you for threatening the glue.. This is what is really happening when we swoop in on a group project and solve in 10 seconds what took 4 minds and four hours to still not come to a solution to. Plus, they were all just bonding about how stupid they are and using this waste of time, energy, and brain power (4 fkn heads) to chat about celebs, Taylor Swift or the new Starbucks down the block. This is not place for you, just leave them alone and go. The more you leave them behind the closer you may come to types who will appreciate you.

[@midnightgaming.9162]

The mistake was in ever thinking we need to join them, and not the other way around.

[@inlesinlet]

Uhm... This reminds me of that time when me, my ex, and a group of friends sat in a park one late summer night. A hedgehog was scurrying about in the bushes, and my ex's best friend was like: "What are you doing, hedgehog? It's nighttime, why aren't you sleeping?" I replied, in what I BELIEVED to be a helpful and sympathetic tone: "Well, hedgehogs are nocturnal, so it's quite natural that it's up and active now." My ex got real mad... I just assumed it was my autistic tendencies to not pick up on subtle jokes and take things literally that was showing through, but could Ti child be another way of looking at it?

[@redefinedliving5974]

well, take it from me who became social instead and use Fe-Se when with people. Lol. I maybe have many acquaintances that still cherish me to this day. But am I truly happy? Have I found real friends? Noooo- I'd choose the real alienation instead---that's how I'll be found by my fellow social outcasts. :D

[@MusicCrackhead]

Camp out in front of someone’s house, hell naw. Too much pride. I have however, sat in my house for 3 weeks from sure disbelief that my boyfriend at the time had broken up with me. Straight up abandoned.

[@polmak1507]

Lol stop you’re making blush, complimenting INJs so much...but seriously thanks, I like how you give brutal criticism that helps us, and at the same time talking about our strong points gives me confidence

[@CSJoseph]

keep on owning it

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

@@CSJoseph Yep, totally true ;)

[@syedmazharhasan6803]

Thanks for this awesome video once again. I am INTJ and my BFF is INFJ. We both admire each other very much, and we understand each other very well. Your channel is just a gift that just keeps on giving. Dear CS Joseph, I have a request. Please stop paying attention to all the people who give you shitty remarks. You are a great human being who deserves all the love for educating people and telling the honest truth, even if they like it or not. We know you are not biased. Let people hate you. Just do your thing 😊

[@CSJoseph]

much appreciated

[@sue2cue]

I love your style of truth and straight forwardness. As an INFJ, I appreciate people like you.

[@debiemory7940]

Very insightful. This is super helpful to me. INFJ here who grew up in a Fi-Te dominate household. My mom is an INTJ and my dad is an INFP. I think I’ve spent too much time in my child Ti disguised as Te. And I’ve held my Fe in contempt for years because the only people I encountered who had this, used it as a form of manipulation and guilt towards others. Your videos have helped me see how I’ve been mirroring my family and that my two inner functions aren’t to be scorned but embraced! Thank you.

[@EH_888]

Your claim is the INxJs, due to Ne nemesis, may have the "issue" of breaking up with others due to their personal projections of another. I predicted that one of my exes would turn out to be reckless and irresponsible and only a few years down the line did it occur. I believe that I'll continue to trust my intuition. No regrets here.

[@PG-ny4en]

When you said INTJ females are insanely rare. My heart skipped a beat. I felt that rarity. Never met another INTJ in my life. Have felt very lonely all these years - INTJ You are cool.

[@scouttrooperhh-1487]

Yes only 77 million INTJ's out there

[@adedoyinadeniyi8635]

@@scouttrooperhh-1487 the earth is pretty large buddy

[@redefinedliving5974]

they are on the internet. won't be able to see them on the wild

[@InHellITrust]

@@scouttrooperhh-1487 Sources?

[@aims_plays]

I'm an INFJ female and fiance is an INTJ male. He says that the way I understand him makes him feel naked. (It almost feels like I turn into him when he walks into the room). The way he sympathizes with me, makes me feel loved even if not fully understood.

[@jaredvaughan1665]

According to socionics INFJs benefit INTPs and INTJs benefit INFPs. Also INTPs benefit ISTJs and INFPs benefit ISFJs. That means statistically as INTPs and INFPs we benefit a bigger population than benefits us as INTJs ans INFJs are the two most rare types and ISTJs and ISFJs are the most common types!

[@dannewth8011]

What the why?

[@JungINFJ]

But if we benefit you, and then you benefit them...🤔 jk 😉

[@TrekSycho]

I have a question, who thel hell benefit us (IN'Js) ?

[@leroygordon9989]

when you say "most aesthetically pleasing" is that why people just seem to love us? i never understand why the people i love and care about put up with my crazy shit i pull..

[@DrVein]

My mother once said to me, "...you get away with it because you're beautiful." It blew my mind.

[@SpaceyFae]

Earlier I thought I fit INFJ but having since been through your basics videos, I realize INTJ fits almost scary perfect. The common theme people said about me growing up, “when you set your mind to something, you will get it come hell or high water”. Though I feel I’ve lost a bit of that.

[@trendsetter8138]

I am an INFJ and all my life I felt out of this world but after knowing the fact that I am INFJ it brought me so much comfort that other people are like me and whatever I have found blew me away its 100% correct and I wish I knew it sooner in life. Thank you MBTI

[@ethanuro8103]

I'd complain about the 40 minute rant before actually comparing the two but I loved it regardless

[@fristith7880]

Lol i guess i'm not the only one who impatient with the rant and want to go to the main point as soon as possible. I have no time to waste, better hurry up - INTJ

[@joubinha333]

Fristith that’s why I watch on 1.5 speed while cooking

[@eliseross6885]

I am INTJ female and I am 43 and have just realized how much work I need to do to love others & myself. I have been informed that I am emotionless throughout my broken relationships. I am now looking inward and realizing I am emotionally disconnected. I have so much work to do so I can leave a legacy of love and change for the future generations.

[@eliseross6885]

Hoping to be a great friend and have great friendships

[@blue-ks8zu]

12:26 put this on your merch it'd be so cute and hilarious😂 "get off the high horse get on the pony" then a cute little doodle of a pony

[@niekboy67]

I love this guy. His Ne is all over the place hahaha

[@DrVein]

Also, I like your distinction between empathy and sympathy. I don't know how someone feels, but I can imagine the impact something might have on their life.

[@CSJoseph]

thank you for noticing most people do not, i very much appreciate that

[@artisanrox]

that is a very long highway.

[@boxy_tocs2035]

Rarest types 6:05-11:00 Biased? Idk 11:30-12:24 13:16-13:18 Infj vs intj 15:12- 16:45- If your not having relationships with anyone your not going to grow 18:48-18:50-20:50 28:00 Sympathy, empaths 20:50-21:08 Ni won't let go , functions 22:16-23:15 25:00-28:12 31:05-36:10-37:48 40:00- functions 37:54-42:19 42:20-45:26 Fe parent idk 45:26-51:30- 52:37-1:00:00 No one can perform better than an IXNjs 28:12- 1:00:40-1:03:11

[@CubanLegend561]

As an INTJ, amazing!... one of my close friends is an INFJ.. so, this one's gon' be good to watch and share with em! :D thanks for this

[@leroygordon9989]

same. been waiting for this comparison for a long time.

[@SR-vf7bz]

Same here I am fortunate to have a close friend who is INFJ, every INJ needs another INJ in their life.

[@CubanLegend561]

So I finally got through all of this and made detailed timestamps and notations for my INFJ close friend 7 INTJ friend who I'm sending this video to. wow, what an amazing hour! The comparisons are more near the last 20 minutes, but the earlier 40 minutes have plenty of neat little info dumps and gems for our INJ selves... Thank you C.S. Joseph for this. It has helped me better understand myself and my friend, and will help us both to "just apply ourselves" and reach our potential! I know we're rare, but im forever thankful Ive met the INJ friends i have. Heck, i even have an INTJ female friend (rare as hell) that we both clashed and she was always socially awkward beyond belief, known her for YEARS, and it wasnt until a few months ago we figured out all her personality quirks and our clashing was cuz shes an INTJ with help of your previous seasons. - 33:00 - 100% right about preemptively ending relationships due to the "perceived pattern paranoia" fault, OMG my INTJ female friend has done this. many. times. god it's annoying. - 49:45 - the influence of others, and our burdens to keep certain people around us, WOW this was deep, i totally do mirror & stupid rubs off on me.. and have even noticed i will do that, now i know how why it happens and why im always wanting to be around intelligent friends & why i will be forgiving if they arent the most moral, where INFJs are the opposite lol, moral over smart for them. - 51:50 - the INTJ Ti & Fe issue, yes i am a walking faux pas, i hate it. and YES INFJs with their unverifiable beliefs, it has happened, and im always there to tell them they're incorrect, lol. - 56:15 - Si-Demon and our mutual indignance as a result of perceived unfair tretment. deep & lovely to see quantified and explained finally that we share it! xD lol - 58:30 - I always thought i wanted an ENFJ mate, to help push me to learn to be more E over I and F over T... while sharing N & J. but your points on us being built mutually for ENP types... is compelling. thank you for the perspective. - 1:00:38 - thanks for this minute-long call to action for us ;_; we needed to hear this :) Thank you for reading and for putting out this video. It has certainly had an impact on me and the INJs i know.

[@Jess-yv7zc]

Fact: INJs are the most aesthetically pleasing and the most attractive--YES! Fact: INJs outperform everyone else: YES! You articulated this so well: loving the flaws of an INTJ. Bc INTJs can seem so intimidating at first bc they're SO perfect, brilliant, moral, attractive etc etc etc that knowing their flaws somehow magnifies the fact that they are literally nearly perfect in every regard. My ENTP boss is married to an INFJ and they're both awesome--and so well matched. Se inferior is the absolute dopest. My INTJ is quite literally the most attractive creature I have ever laid eyes on. I'm always confused when INTJs question the experience they're giving others or their own intelligence...bc NOBODY gives a better experience than Se inferiors and Te parent is so brilliant it's unreal. I seriously can't even stand how awesome INJs are. Very nice video and nice timing with Jesus being an INFJ and all.

[@orthopraxic]

But most of em hate being themselves. Or hate the life itself

[@sofia8574]

Please help me understand Se inferior! Any examples?

[@ethir6072]

@@sofia8574 when we feel/think that we messed up, the memory of that moment keeps replaying inside our head again and again like everyday for so long, and we're kinda like living that moment again and again :( it's on autopilot mode, can't avoid thinking about it on command.

[@smallworld5769]

@@ethir6072 Does everybody not do it🙈😰l have been doing this my whole life, infj female here

[@brazenlyry4041]

Wow, as an infj dating an intj man this was an extremely accurate picture of us both - very valuable information to digest, thank you!

[@hfortenberry]

OMG, that's so true about the mathematics! I aced calculus in college but my Mom balanced her checkbook to the penny every month for her entire life! It was incredible! I never did that! She TRIED her best to get me to do it but it was just too detail-oriented for me and not an efficient use of my time. But I admired her for it. What??!! People think the INFJs are stupid? That's crazy! I totally agree with you about them having the most unadulterated form of logic of all the 16 types. They are indeed brilliant! Mom was one of THE most BRILLIANT people I have ever known. She could walk all over my Dad intellectually and he's damn smart. She was like Noam Chomsky except a bit more emotional than Noam. I guess it was the combination of her Ni hero and Ti child. She was literally almost ALWAYS right. We'd be having a discussion and then I'd be like "oh". LOL. She was just so good with getting to the essence of something, to the root of it or the crux of it. She could crystallize a point beyond what anyone thought possible. Amazing to watch! I still don't know if I've ever met anyone in person smarter than her. My ex-wife is a brilliant INFP (one of those INFPs who has reached full maturity and owns her own non-profit AND a consulting business doing amazing education reform on the national level) but it's still a tossup in my mind over which one of them is more brilliant. I think they are just brilliant equally in their own ways. It's so interesting! My Mom though, sadly never quite gave herself the credit she deserved. She never realized how smart she was even though her IQ was 136 tested back when she worked at the hospital in the 1970's. But yeah, I've known other INFJs and they are very smart too. My very first girlfriend when I was 19 was an INFJ and is also brilliant. I just love that kind of intellect.

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

As an INFJ myself I was CONVINCED I must be absolutely STUPID until I was about 30. Then an IQ test showed I had an above average Intelligence. But due to a difficult childhood I mist a lot of school and thus basic knowledge. When at school I was asked to calculate something and write down the steps, I couldn't do it but I did get my answer right. That wasn't good enough so after so many years my self esteem took a nose dive. Now, I'm glad to say I know better. My compass is my Intuition. That (and maybe Ti) also got me through a lot of IQ test questions xD.

[@hfortenberry]

@@yvonnecampbell7036 Well, you sound pretty smart to me!! I'm glad you know that now. Love and **HUGS**.

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

@@hfortenberry Thank you so much, I loved your story. Stay safe and bless you and your loved ones ;)

[@artangel23]

I still can’t tell if I’m intj or infj

[@T216-n3h]

@eedd sdsd so true. I love and hate being an infj. No one gets me but I'm finally ok with that. Only took 41 years

[@valentynabelofsky9374]

In my opinion Marina Diamandis is a fantastic example of an INTJ woman with a well developed ESFP subconscious. She is definitely a mastermind type, esp. with her knowledge of psychology, and she is really stunning with her aesthetics and her fashion sense.

[@pinklasagna8328]

She is an infj

[@pinklasagna8328]

@NoQue Q chase typed her as an infj

[@madhere0990]

Infj with well developed estp subconscious

[@Coneman3]

A masterclass of multi-tasking! You know your stuff man, hardly any stutters/erms!

[@harupiggy]

Thanks Chase! This really helped me appreciate my parents for raising me properly as an infj. They noticed that I started to mirror the kids who stole, cursed and were disrespectful. They put me in a healthier environment / school that is more people focused so now I’m in a healthy place to where I can use my Ti child to call out on people who can’t see the bigger picture of their life and give them encouragement. At the same time sometimes I really struggle to be appropriate and filter what I say. Literally called a friend “a tool” when he was explaining his situation. It made me feel horrible. Is there a way to be more aware and put a cap on these comments /ways to hit a mental pause and leave it the thought for a more appropriate time to say it?

[@CSJoseph]

just be who you are

[@kendallstorm]

You seriously cheer me up when I'm down. You bleed authenticity and I couldn't be more appreciative! You rock. Thanks for your content.

[@luisacordero1501]

I love your videos. As an INFJ truth lover who has been following you for several years now, I find you helpful whe it comes to learning about people, including myself. Thank you for all you do and your love for humanity.

[@jaredvaughan1665]

Please hurry with the social engineering of an INFP (and make it super long) as I have an INFP wife I need to better understand.

[@jaredvaughan1665]

INTP. Didn't want to say because Chase would say put it in the dumpster. My views differ from Chase on this respect.

[@filipcovran1474]

Its fascinating how you can drive with such ease and speak at the same time...

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

I found it nerve wrecking xD (INFJ).

[@itch1428]

Well if you wouldn't be posting these great videos, I wouldn't be procrastinating. Thanks a lot, Chase.

[@madisonmonroe5360]

My dad is an INTJ and I am an INFJ, and we share many qualities. I'd even say I am only 70% INFJ and 30% INTJ because of just how similar we are. I am an extreme introvert, even though most INFJ are considered "the most extroverted introverts" of MBTI, and I find my viewpoint of the world a whole lot harsher than what is expected from an INFJ (hence my INTJ-ness). On the other hand, my brother is also an INFJ (and my best friend because we understand each other), and our mom is an ESFJ, and he shares a lot of the same qualities as her. Parent-child relationships affecting MBTI sure are interesting to analyze.

[@jadececi7653]

i think "infj being the most extroverted introverts" is kind of an unexplained think. I believe that INFJ might be one of the most introverted ones instead. But people might see them as an extroverted. Because INFJ tend to help other people so while helping them they need to communicate right? They also tend to share other people's feelings too which also seems like an extroverted trait. But they dont share their *own* feelings easily at all. But i can get your point. I also see many similarities between me and my INTJ friend. But when i got deeper into this MBTI stuff i realized that we also had many differences.

[@FlawlesZMa]

wow this is how I think it is with me and my dad and mom. I get INFJ on test too and it fits me so well and my father fits INTJ. We are very similar, but still I am more close to my mom and I think she is ESFJ so maybe because of the F but if I were to ask of anything and wanted those deep long conversations about the stuff only him and me are interested in I´d go to my father. how is your mom and dads relationship? Im curious if it is similar like my parents. would be so interesting to talk to someone with the same family dynamic. I have two sisters too, dont know their exact types.

[@jennsmith3856]

I think a lot of times we don't want to admit our type, but we know what it is. We don't really want to be identified with the type we know we are. This is probably because we are so intimately aware of our own flaws. I'm not just talking about INFJs or INTJs. I'm really talking about any type - maybe some more than others. You come across as really hard on some of the types, like they have pride. But, for many of us, the truth is, we are trying to settle on the hard truth of accepting who we are.

[@Ti_Fire]

Chase: “you see what I’m saying?” Me: ....... .............. No...... *keeps listening intently*

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

LOL....

[@danielcherry4675]

I love how Chase talks at the end of this video, i feel like hes talking to me and for once legitimately felt appreciated. Thanks Chase

[@bethanybouley6679]

P.S. your INFJ son is so lucky to have you for a father, bet you he will leave the world better than he found it.

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

The white board in the car, that's hilarious.😆😅🤣

[@paul2609]

DaveSuperPowers has grown tremendously, you should watch their videos as it almost aligns to your views (on preventing mistypes). Do not watch their old original videos (dated 2012 or older) because they actually debunked their old videos and says its flawed, so they point to those old videos to set an example on how not to type people. Their 2018 videos and later are golden. You guys should definitely do some sort of cross-references and peer-reviews on your stuff. I guess a point of conflict could be that they don't deal with the whole "four sides of the mind" stuff and they explain shadow functions as something different. I was hoping if you could compare your type grid method with their methods and see if they line up.

[@ChrispyNut]

I support the request for a comparison, though appreciate that it would take a lot of time to gain sufficient understanding. I've listened to him on a few podcasts, it sounds to me like he's blending nature with 3 sides of the mind, so someone who's "shadow focused" whilst typing/reflecting then they're going to drag their "DaveSuperPowers Type" away from their "ego" type towards a "Blended Type", but that won't hold for long as circumstances change. I've not been able to research that theory due to "pay walls", but it seemed "off" to me.

[@peterwiggett8197]

Lol Dave Super Trash will always be flawed in my eyes as long as he continues to charge for a typing service. Objective my ass

[@sarahmiller8120]

I am an INTJ, and a female, read about all these personalities, took all the test, end up with the same results every time I took one, Myer Briggs was the better, more personal questions to actually pinpoint who you are and how you would handle situations, by the way, there is nothing wrong with being alone, like it that way, most of the time.

[@callieoh3079]

I think Frank James made me confused about what I'm supposed to be or really am. I need help, outside perspective because I can relate to so much but then morally deny that's my depth. I never knew myself. I am circling on INTJ, INFJ, and INFP. I've tried to change myself since I was young and now I don't know who I truly am because a lot of how I act as an adult is frustration with being misunderstood. I'm so big hearted but uncomfortable with what is correct that I overthink it. Social anxiety is my downfall. I want to be extroverted and know what to say in every situation... But I either either don't know what to say, not interested in topic and daydream, or I'm thinking about all the ways someone will perceive me or/and judge me. As the world works I honestly don't think I'm in any of the more common types of personality, because I've never met anyone who is like me and or understands me. And the world couldn't function the way it does if it was made up of 10% me. I think the ones that understand me are more sympathetic to my communication struggles or are so in tune with their own energy and self that they they find me interesting or mysterious like a puzzle for them to play with... Maybe that's why I love E Child... Well the curious and compassionately direct ones. I don't want anyone feeling sorry for me or pitying me. Please solve me. I'm watching all these videos but I'm now obsessed on digging for an answer, ignoring externally what I need to do. I need it to accept myself and I can't do that if I don't know where I fit.

[@picklebunny7684]

Whatever type you are is the same type I am because this is me 100%! But I have done a ton of research and have come to a pretty confident conclusion that I am an INFJ(Terbulent) with an enneagram 4w5 tritype 9 sx/sp. I know that’s a lot of letters and numbers, but it seems to me you are an enneagram type 4w5 or 5w4. This can further inhibit one’s social abilities. And if you look into the instincts, social is probably your “blind spot”. I do not think enneagram is “better” than MBTI, but it has really assisted me in “solving myself”. I have researched MBTI, Enneagram, and the Big 5 and they are all useful in different ways. I have also made friends online. Because I have a hard time making friends in person. I became friends with an INFP from another country online and I was on the fence as to whether I was an INFP or INFJ at the time. And I asked her “what do you think is the main difference between us?” And she said “you literally analyze EVERYTHING!” So there you have it. I do daydream a lot. But not about unicorns and rainbows and happy love scenarios. I am constantly thinking about the future and what I can do and say in potential situations. Because it takes me a long time to process before I make decisions. After all, I lead with a perceiving function. so I try to prepare myself ahead of time.

[@callieoh3079]

Heather C I only started this journey because I was trying to understand why I can relate to my daughter but she can't relate to me relating to her. Lol. This is more of a discovery for me getting through to her. But we found her type superfast. So yes I've tried a lot of things and I've over developed a lot of things and that's why I'm confused.

[@callieoh3079]

Pickle Bunny Well find me on IG or Snap or something. I would like to know more about how your mind and your friends. I'm intrigued! If you don't mind. Callieoooo for both I believe :)

[@MrGzik]

Thank you for this video that you made Chase, im definitely more of an INTJ than an INFJ which is what I had been wondering about for some time. I especially learned what I should be aware of at the last portion of this video. I respect you TPs for your pursuit of the truth. Thank you for being you!

[@langstonreece7215]

being an intj, caring about the people who walk into your life then not understanding why one day they aren't there anymore is one of the most painful things in the world.

[@Coneman3]

I'm an INFJ who is writing a book to try and solve a decades long probem in bodybuilding/exercise science. I also am working on a book about politics/philosophy/economics, which aims to throw new light on old and new problems. I'm definitely a big-picture thinker and I NEVER give up. I always think every ambition has to be grounded in ethics. I have always felt different and have a deep burning conviction to achieve worthwhile, even life-changing and world-changing ambitions. Authenticity and freedom are I think my two favourite things. I'm a vastly underestimated person who is working on totally amazing people with what I can achieve.

[@hemen6249]

Love your videos CS Joseph (INTJ here), tremendous valuable insight. I was doubtful between an INFJ & INTJ but now I can see, INTJ do not do things entirely out of personal profits but they value some moral or purpose and also want the credibility. I hate my mind, abandoning people, seeing patterns and observations and planning to take my safe side. This makes us really soloist (most of the time). And I would really adhere to that advice of not corrupting my mind, I basically do but I have a slight probability of getting sidetracked. Thanks CS Joseph 🙂 I pity on your nose😁😁

[@bethanybouley6679]

Dammit....you have ruined all other channels on jungian psychology for me...but really i am sooo grateful! i dont think you fully know what a pioneer you are in this field, with this media, the way you break it down...i think you will go down in history. AMAZING WORK. everytime i start to feel very beaten down and useless i listen to you and my head is in such a better place. eventually i will make it through all your videos, thank you again for your work and research.

[@almostashish]

Visual Difference: INTJs have more square or similar face structure, with masculine feature. They have endo-mesomorph body type ranging from large muscular frame to fat. INFJs, on the other hand have long rectangular face with feminine features, more of a V shape with less developed jawlines. They have ecto-mesomorph body type ranging from slender thin frame to fat. That's what my intuition concluded, take with a grain of salt.

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

Intjs tend to have bigger and wider nose. Infjs jawline is more longer tho.

[@TrekSycho]

Amazing

[@PsiCorps85]

Probably easist to see the difference between Fe-parent and Fe-blindspot.

[@abecadlo15]

Not always, there are INTJ's that you would never guessed are Fe blind because of their social experience and INFJ's who may seem like Fe blind because they prefer more harsh or standoffish approach in specific situations

[@Sasuke544]

@@abecadlo15 I feel that, idk if im INTJ or INFJ (pretty much sure im one of those, that's the conclusion after my investigation about functions) but i dont know how to know if I can see Fe in me...

[@AmateurEdits-u9m]

@@abecadlo15 intjs can seem like they have social awareness they don't it is just se aspirational giving the best expirience to other people but it is not about being supportive or understanding ethics

[@sethshams]

Seriously i feel very concerned about your driving videos as an infj this seems very irresponsible to me, hope you have the best driving analytical skills ever

[@NoNamedNobody692]

Anour Lucis Chase has Ne-Hero Ti-Parent and Se-Demon He's good. I promise you. Lol.

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

@@NoNamedNobody692 Good to know.

[@nmorg1616]

I’ve watched so many vids and lectures from u and others on typology and this is the first time someone’s described the importance of those select few relationships Intjs like myself cling to and place so much value on amazing insight like this is why I still find this subject so engaging

[@hawksu]

I am an INFJ my fiancé is an INTJ. He's extremely antisocial

[@yellow_jacket3260]

This trust thing that you are talking about really makes a lot of sense to me. I do believe my trust issues does stem from a point of betrayal from my brother, who decided to reveal some pretty sensitive information about me when I was little to the public domain. I think this might be what’s up with my social avoidance to others, though I think it’s improving.

[@KafkasKarma]

I suspect my best friend is an INTJ, I've somehow always felt his mistrust in other people. Since his loyality checks have always been very covert, his surroundings think he's kind of strange. It's been a funny kind of relationship between us.

[@JohnDoe-tt4fm]

I came here for a comparison of INTJ and INFJ but this is like being forced to listen to your girlfriends day at work and all the things and people that upset her... holy crap

[@jmz8210]

You know Chase, I always felt the ENTP is the outsider of the extraverts for being so misunderstood. Idk of you agree, but it just seems that way to me. I tend to gravitate to you guys because I want to listen to your ideas. It's interesting information you present, especially in an entertaining way lol. You have a mind of your own and I admire that. Keep up the great work -- a faithful INFJ subscriber

[@jenniferleigh1414]

Jonathan M Agreed. INFJ here. I married an ENTP 17 years ago and it’s never dull :)

[@CSJoseph]

much appreciated

[@Sean-wx2ht]

Despite all of the infighting and playground grudges within the MBTI community, I have to say I still enjoy your type comparisons and their accuracy. -An INTJ

[@AliSalicia]

Mr C.S. is helping me sooo much. At first, after the personality test, having been told, advised and tested as INFJ, I was only ready to notice the low percentage and I wasn’t ready to absorb the new information. I am over 40 and feel I am just seeing the iceberg below after having concentrated on others and not anything else for so long. I want to learn all of this really quickly, now being open and then get back to helping more. One of my clients had referred to how I focus on one person at a time (which looks flighty to some ) as my “mission from God” and it helped me to be a tiny bit more light-hearted which means my heart weighs 1.9million pounds instead of 2million. I want everyone to be happy. These studies and this consciousness will help the whole world! ☺️🙏

[@AliSalicia]

I still have some MTG cards! I have to go look at those now. Thanks for the Mana!

[@makisekuurisuu]

1:01:18 I still can't determine if I'm an INTJ or INFJ (I more likely lean to the INTJ side tho), but this part hits me so much. I always doubt if people care for me or they just like me out of necessity.

[@spectacularlyunqualified2391]

Think Nietzsche vs Jung and you’ll get the memo

[@vardaelentari8907]

OHH

[@hannah_marie97]

My best friend is an ENFP, and I always wondered why as an ISFP we got on like a house on fire, more than most others that I meet, but potentially being an INTJ might make this make sense. Also, I pre-empted and ended a 3 year relationship (which was heart crushing) with an INFJ because he was so low effort, but to be fair there were subtle alarm bells from the beginning which I couldn't ignore, even though he technically didn't do anything "wrong". I do however believe you can intuitively judge someone's character from their actions and values.

[@edennis8578]

I have to say that there's no such thing as pre-emptively ending a 3-year relationship that's just coasting. It means, sorry to say, that he just wasn't that into you and he would've been gone as soon as he met someone he really wanted to be with. It happens all the time. Sometimes it can be ten years and even a couple of kids down the road, but the woman always seems to be shocked when it happens.

[@ezj8262]

I will say this as an INFJ, regarding belief of the spiritual realm . . . Years ago, I met a guy in college, who told me of his spiritual experiences. I was turned off to him, and I wouldn't answer his calls. I was very curious as to why some people had such experiences, while others did not, including me. When I had privacy in my apartment, I decided to fast for a few days, and during that time, I prayed relentlessly to hear the voice of God or angels. So what I did, resulted in that door being opened, and it became an ongoing thing, but I quickly found that it became and undesired thing. For one, I have proof for myself, but on the other hand, the voices I were hearing and what I was experiencing was demonic. To open that door is not difficult, but to close that door is almost impossible, once opened. And that is the danger of it. Once you open that door, it remains open. If you humble yourself, and call on the name of Jesus (Yeshua) and ask Him to distance them, He will -- but having pride and fear is like opening the door again. I realized a couple of things. For one, God does have a hedge of protection over us. He does resist the proud. And without Him, we cannot combat or conquer spiritual problems.

[@SummeyG.]

I absolutely love your videos! I would like to suggest a INTP compared to INFJ video.

[@TheGfrata]

Easy to say go and get surrounded by good people, hard for INJs to really initiate relationships with people at all. So, loved "keep trust on good / smart people that initiate with you", as it really worked for me as an INFJ. Thanks for the good material!

[@aaronkessler2857]

Absolutely love how systematic you are. Other MBTI gurus seem more scattered. Would love to see these comparison and profile videos remade with the new knowledge you’ve acquired - they could be fantastic introductions to your podcast!

[@sarahmiller8120]

OMG, I do believe you need to go meet more INTJ, people if you can find them, not all act like you are saying, I became a cosmetologist at age 20yrs, almost became a Marine, had my work published three times and became a paralegal at age 34yrs, then married had kids, still married, and when I start something, I always finish, graduated with a 3.6 GPA, and do not care what people say about me, unless you get in my face, and do not care anymore what people do to each other, as long as they leave me out of it, because I have warned people for years about what will happen if things keep going the way they are now, no common sense.

[@scabiesandrabies]

this isn't the place for your curriculum vitae lady

[@FlawlesZMa]

@@scabiesandrabies lol too funny :D

[@werfrueherstirbt]

Well, regarding the point of leaving people: If I see a behavioral pattern that gets worse over time I still think it makes sense to end a relationship early. Time is a precious/limited resource, and I get really frustrated when I realize I wasted it (incl. emotional Investment) on someone, who turns out to be disloyal, opportunistic, etc. Also, people usually don‘t change…

[@pegahfard1196]

I love your videos! You have great knowledge and insights! They don't bore me at all, in fact I hate it when your videos are over. I enjoy them a lot. Keep it up

[@merenwen4495]

I just don't see why people would want to claim they are an INTJ when they are not. I struggled so hard and came to a point where I believed I had to be a psychopath, because of my lack of emotions and interest in other people. I was so relieved when I found out about all this.

[@susmateja]

Can someone tell me about the infj (female) + intj (man) relationship? I know it's comradery not compatibility for a romantic relationship. Surely not all comradery is equally bad for a romantic relationship. What issues could there arise (besides the "two painters" problem)?

[@bellaeastwood4292]

The Ne he has is absolutely fascinating. How he creates a bigger and bigger web of thoughts all on his own like that. As an INTJ (shocker) I do enjoy taking in all the information he gives a lot. I do find he tends to go off on a lot opinionated tangents though but I like how he quickly jumps back to the main topic.

[@19katsandcounting]

As an INFJ how do I avoid seeing the good in bad people and the bad in good people? That really gets me into bad situations.

[@silverr12310]

I like to think that nife picks up on the bad but can ignore it or toss it out as not needed for right now. I think that because of this reason, we tend to want to not see the bad in the people we want around us so we push out the bad to the point of breaking down and door slamming!

[@CSJoseph]

verify everything

[@19katsandcounting]

Thank you!

[@Kaizennit]

Its amazing Chase... for someone to understand us deeply once in a while , almost therapeutic. Great video, Thank you ! 👍 🙂

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

True..

[@shuggyy]

The majority of subscribers to C.S. Joseph are INJs. There's at least 10k here.

[@CSJoseph]

who knows

[@RyuMasterEX]

Doubt it's that high

[@rayw3332]

Next time, beforehand, write out your whiteboard backwards, like Leonardo da Vinci. Then you can give your lecture by looking in your rear view mirror.

[@EIIy]

Then mirror the image for the public to read ! Bonus points people will asks if you moved to the UK

[@lpjah8951]

It’s so cool he’s just driving around speaking off the top off his dome! Love it!

[@liviazoller7264]

I have verified my "spiritual beliefs". Just because the truth is hidden to most people, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

[@yvonnecampbell7036]

xD

[@msig206]

I’m a Female INTJ and my husband is INFJ. But I have to watch more of your videos to confirm if our types are true.

[@msig206]

Upon further research, my husband is clearly not an INFJ. I suspect he’s an ISFJ.

[@theanimelibarian7881]

Yeah your right i didn't confirm i was a intj until i pursued lots of resources videos like this people signs and so on i actually mistyped as an infj mainly because i was lying to myself but i still check to make sure im not fooling myself all the time great video series my brother is an intp that's also how i could tell the difference

[@DanLagos28]

how I love this channel it gets better every time I tell you the truth. C.S. Joseph, you´re awesome!

[@wilderheartland3920]

Thank you for the message. Infj here. My health since a child, very fragile. Fragile constitution. If I didn't have the power of spirit (what you call force of will) this receptive and sensitive body would have taken me out. This force which moves through me never sleeps. It never takes a break. I know it isn't mine or me, and that helps it play its role with less and less debilitation and more and more service to the bigger picture of assisting humanity. Even if it isn't recognized as such.

[@ShadowQuik]

This is the lecture I needed lol cause I narrowed myself down to Ni hero

[@ShadowQuik]

Kristina Kane I’m leaning slightly toward INTJ but it’s really tough to tell because I relate to some function placements of the INFJ as well. I would really need someone to interact with irl to get their opinion on it after they observe me

[@ShadowQuik]

Shahryar Shoul Yeah I wouldn’t say I go out of my way. I am however generally respectful of others which is what made me consider not being Fe trickster. In a way I’m aware of social norms but I’m usually not like “forward” in attending to people’s emotional needs, so I’m probably INTJ.

[@ShadowQuik]

Shahryar Shoul No I’m pretty confident I’m not Si dom lol I know them and they are so so different from me. I 100% relate to Ni as a function. There’s many times in my life where I infer understanding of concepts on my own without having to “learn” them. For example, inferring the rules of music without having to explicitly study music theory. I rarely use my raw memory of things as a basis for anything, instead playing off some hunches that I have in the moment. I also get bored talking to overly concrete people since the discussion is narrowly focused on unimportant details. For example STJs who default to recounting their personal experiences in some sequential manner. I always want to place things in a grander scheme, discovering universal underlying themes and archetypes of various domains. I rarely find people that share this desire, except for some of my friends who are NTPs/NFPs/NFJs.

[@archanasahitya5244]

😢 why did you just make me cry. That was great. Also, you're cute!! I just feel like I went through a process of regeneration 😢 I never knew this was what I needed to hear till I did. Thank you ❤

[@tehufn]

JUDGE FAVOURABLY. This whole trust issues thing is the one huge thing I don't relate to. It makes me question if I'm really an INTJ. I just don't expect anything from people. I had to learn it as a teen.

[@chiltthruya1935]

What as an INFJ should I do to become more productive with my work? I have 3 assignments due next week and still procrastinating and unable to properly manage my time. Thanks

[@norbert4571]

I literally just failed a class I could have easily passed because of my (Se inferior) performance anxiety.

[@Raphael0654]

As a perfectionistic INTJ poet with a long fuse, I tend to only reveal my self-perceived flaws to close friends when they're becoming too pushy & I'm hoping to repel them (it gets a former muse to-in phases-weed themselves out of my life without me having to offer confrontational or passive-aggressive affrontation). || It's sorta like playing dead to avoid further molestation. I usually feel competent to fight all my inner battles on my own; it's rare that I find someone I can open up to without it resulting in them falling in love & turning into stalkers, etc.; but I've been in their shoes, too-so I have more than mere sympathy. I'm recognizing my Si Demon, now, and that it intentionally acts crazy (out of fear, I guess-in, like, emotional survival mode) to placate those its about to abandon, so they can be left thinking, "Well, I guess he's not worth my time." || It's fine playing the foil at times, as long as it allows others to go on feeling all is as it should be (perception is key-y'get me?). -- But I want to grow as a person & surround myself with the right kinds of friends, so I hopefully never have to rely on that part of me. This video really inspired me. Thank you so much.

[@CSJoseph]

Dope... but I have to ask, bro, like are you sure you are an INTJ? Because if you avoid conflict like that, it sounds a lot like Fe inferior instead of Se inferior. Are you possibly an INTP?

[@Raphael0654]

Yeah, I think you're right (I've been looking into it over the week).

[@kurodesuuuu]

I've observed that my memory recall has improved greatly after your tip of using objects or people as totems. Thanks for pointing that out! But that doesn't work for solving the 'Use it or lose it' dilemma. I guess nothing works better than having a routine ( that is challenging)