How do ISFP women control their delusional thinking? | CSJ Responds

[@Scarecrow1410]

Even though I’m their conflict pair I agree with Chase when he says ISFPs make the world beautiful and life would suck without them.

[@MKlucas7]

The Ti demon lecture was so good. I don’t know if this applies to ISFPs, but for INFPs , their fear of entropy causes entropy and becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It helps to understand why our society is in the process of breaking down, and our fiat currency system is hurtling towards zero.

[@entropyfun]

ISFP and ENTP are like water and air - don't really mix well, can't really outpower each other, because they are different elements equivalent in force. They can be excellent collaborators though. That's my ISFP Ni insight.

[@tomatosauceandaoli]

ISFP with an ENTP brother. Definitely different elements equivalent in force. Somehow we do actually get along very well though

[@NCAviatrix]

(Another ISFP) After watching this I feel like I’ve actually done really well in life. I grew up as an only child with a single dad who was a strong extroverted thinker, and I think that really shaped a lot of my weaker functions and forced me to open my mind more. Over time I’ve forgotten about my creative pursuits to focus on making money, and now that I’ve carved my way there I’m finally able to start creating again too. On top of that, relationships have taught me how to find and have strength within myself regardless of what goes on externally, so I feel really well rounded and pretty much just happy/at peace. I can see when people aren’t taking me seriously, and I’m okay with that. When the time comes, I can take charge anyway if I have to, and that usually surprises people. A good thing to learn as an ISFP is that many people won’t have your best interest in mind, and that’s okay. Learn how to be skeptical without turning bitter. Be kind to them, let them think you’re dumb anyway. Who cares. If you want to be kind, be kind regardless. If you don’t, then don’t. Life is amazing when you can see the “darkness” in others, but you choose to continue being happy anyway.

[@miska614]

the isfp videos always make mes cry, consoled the self blame i had over time 😢and it’s just so strong a feeling to feel heard

[@aladdout9454]

omg, i think I've seen isfps now...i always assumed these were maybe isfjs. I feel super bad for naive women and how they're put down by people who pretend that they care about them...but in reality they're simply trying to change their personality and treat them as stupid.

[@Persephone44]

Completely relate to this. All of it. Masks and the drain game. Purpose jumping. All dem Ni wants. Gift giving. Hiding from Judgement. 💯 also, Si burnout + Se drain.

[@higeroman5800]

Sadly a lot of ISFPs tend to be regarded as narcissists... and while that might as well be possible, their attitude about things don't really help the situation... I love ISFPs but they're so hardheaded too

[@JungianStar25]

There are some hints of truth and thinking in a direction of the truth, but there is a lot of generalization. ENTPs and ISFPs just don't go along, not even like friends, thus it's incredibly hard for gor us to understand each other anyway

[@JungianStar25]

Had an ENTP boyfriend, because of great chemistry, but we were like the night and the day, the sun and the moon. So lucky to not hear him judging everything everyday anymore and telling how naive I am 😂 Yes, ISFPs are super naive, but we don't enjoy judging everyone around Some peace ✌️ feels much better for the likes of us.

[@dxfifa]

ISFP talking about truth is like INTP talking about complex feelings

[@jonfury23]

Guilty. I was extremely gluttonous earlier in life and still to this day it can be a struggle.

[@nickfernandez4767]

Can you do ENTP DELUSIONS NEXT?

[@marytheraspberry3145]

intp Fe inferior delusions too That would help alot

[@osamakawash9716]

I often don't believe in myself, is it an isfp problem or it maybe an intj one's?

[@CSJoseph]

Both struggle

[@machinekurbli2650]

Philosopher abuse video still coming ?

[@actionchaplain1]

Half the women in my life have been ISFPs. That's all I'll say for now.

[@lilorphani]

Yep, you really just said that! 😳🤪😂

[@slittingsoviets33]

Hahahaha the title is killing me

[@Coneman3]

ISFP are weak but demanding. It’s a difficult combination.

[@leoblogu5193]

Elaborate

[@honor9lite1337]

​@@leoblogu5193it's self explanatory.

[@leoblogu5193]

@djj347 ty

[@aoifeandginny5569]

Weak?! You callin' me weak Coneman?! I'll fite you :P Look, I have crawled my way back from the gutter several times, I mean like fingers bleeding kinda stuff, life is fascinating and horrible at the same time there is no choice other than to live it because the alternative really sucks. I think most ISFP problems at least to the amount of scope I can personally see is a self esteem problem, there is a huge difference between confidence and self esteem. I think the lack of self esteem comes from not doing anything and letting fear run your checklist, but when you challenge yourself you see, wow, I can actually do this stuff I'm capable, I'm strong. I'm aware also I'm missing something in my mind when it comes to reading between the lines, gotta know your flaws too and I have a shit ton of those.

[@BrandonWristband]

Go steal that isfp woman. she would be so much happier with you

[@CSJoseph]

I would not mind one.

[@FOXARUS]

I still think chase is a ENTJ , I know people won't agree with me but I see it so much

[@Coneman3]

As Fi dominants they often judge based on their Fi. So they can be completely wrong but they judge you based on their Fi-Ni loop. Watching too many fairytale romances probably doesn’t help lol.

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

yeah i notice isfps into romance lol

[@kingboy4554]

Why would ISTJs prefer to be asked about what they think more than what they feel about something?@C.S. Joseph

[@ipsycho8469]

Te is higher than fi in their stack

[@dxfifa]

They, as with the INTJ are delusional and think they're highly logical and not emotional. In reality their Fi defines their world, even though as TJs they are extroverted thinking judgers. The Fi defines where they feel they fit and gives the Te context on what is right to do

[@amehek]

Thank you for your videos, I truly appreciate them. You have helped me so much!

[@cacorn982]

Very true for sfps and maybe can be related to nfps. Very hard to keep long term sfp relationships. Xsfps get hurt easily and harder to be harsh with them. Even esfjs can be harsh and hurt sfps feelings , I don't see how they have long term friendships. You say sfps can be vulnerable with sfjs but can they allow thinking to them? They can start "mentally" bashing them on the head. Or treat you like a idiot sometimes.. same can be said about enfjs, estps. They can treat you like idiots. Which can cause someone just pretend to be a fool because it is expected. And I definitely have seen lots of estj x isfp couples, esfp x istjs or isfp x estj and isfp. And the jealousy thing sucks from them. I don't know how to give respect to wayfarers when they will disrespect you, out of hate/liking you. I like sfps but it can be hard to be honest with them. When you are honest it is a high possibility they might find you being mean or rude to them. I like when sfp artist create music from the heart and not about vanity. It can be very beautiful and make you feel vulnerable.

[@aladdout9454]

imo nfps are WAYYYY better at honesty and taking criticism than sfps. Look at the esfp woman chase typed on the streets, the one who went all hippie on him. She was NOT ok with him telling her the smallest flaws and kept proving his point about her caring about her reputation.

[@visible2927]

@@aladdout9454 i think u really misunderstand sfps , sfps have a bad memory as u already know , so its very hard for them to remember their flaws or even good things , as a isfp/entj myself , i can say that , and this is also why i have noticed a isfp never judges people , when i was in high school my infj/estj/esfj/enfj , would tell me not to talk with certain people who were not well dressed , dirty but i never even saw then that way , my brain doesnt even go into those things , now too , my brain doesnt really notice those things , unless i am focusing on those stuff

[@aladdout9454]

@@visible2927 thats horrible if ur friends said that, I don't relate but i have heard numerous people say this about FJ types. Yeah I have noticed that too, isfps not being judgemental atleast. Everyone has their flaws ig.

[@optimist-ri1439]

I can only speak for myself. When in high school a group of girls would shun a particular girl, and when they saw me being nice to her, they was like I shouldn't be seen with her cause it might hurt my rep. That made me want to be nice to her even more. This girl was really smart and a loner, but was nice...and needed friends. So when I hear that ISFP are judgemental, I realize that the person they are dealing with is not an ISFP, as they would like to think. I think at an early age we realize everyone has gifts & appreciate different people for their gifts, so can't remember if ive felt jealousy towards anybody(bad memory 🤷🏽a passing cloud of smoke), or maybe my FI will condemn me if there's a twing.

[@TheBittenBullet]

...and then she is eventually gaslit into believing she's the victim of an abusive "man-splainer" and becomes a radical Feminist.

[@aoifeandginny5569]

Prolly 20year olds to 25 yeah, because it's trendy.

[@Remanna123]

Hey, great video. Can you talk about zodiac signs and the 16 personalities. So I can I identify someone with their birthday which type they are lol thanks!!

[@fsycb]

What if I have a purpose and an ISFP tries to overwrite mine?

[@visible2927]

that is one thing i dont see a isfp doing , maybe its a dif type

[@fsycb]

@@visible2927 how do you know ISFPs wouldn't do that?

[@lilzonek7711]

Chase, thank you for your work helping better understand human relations. You help making my life and world around me better ❤

[@veronicachic]

what do you mean, truthful about what? I'm ISFP (i think, or maybe ISTP) and i'm pretty honest and truthful to my partner about needs and what I want

[@trungssisters6048]

You have all understand

[@Coneman3]

In my experience, ISFP are easy to upset, after which they go on the attack. Poor at logic, you are just wrong because you gave them a bad emotional experience. Seems childish to me, and highly self sabotaging.

[@almostashish]

Infj male reckon that.👍

[@entropyfun]

No, it's not just "a bad emotional experience". First of all, if you are in tune with your emotions they become like a judgment tool which you can trust. Secondly, ISFP can deconstruct things super fast to their basic value principles, in the same way Ti doms can deconstruct logical thought, and the emotional reaction comes from the place of urgency to defend the value that's being trampled.

[@entropyfun]

@djj347 Yes they can be unfair when they are not in a good place in life. But usually isfp does far more damage to them selves than they could do to others anyway.

[@Coneman3]

But their lack of T means they can get things very wrong and then judge you based on Fi. Emotions with out logic are a dangerous way to judge people. Motives get lost or confused.

[@entropyfun]

@@Coneman3 So is logic without emotions

[@Whimsydaisy]

Delusional is my middle name 😅

[@TheBittenBullet]

Someone needs to make a video of "How Feminism Has Screwed You, Based on Your Personality Type".

[@elsaramos4058]

Does this applies to isfj as well?

[@user-sx8nw2vf1l]

Can you type the personality type of celebrities please?

[@CSJoseph]

I do all the time, become a member and see: csjoseph.life/members

[@naletai]

Thank you.

[@wp5612]

You are so right. This is why I went back to the relationship with my Ti hero ex.

[@idiotslife8508]

Intp?

[@tanishqavishwakarma9151]

Can ISFP stop talking to their friends as well?

[@visible2927]

it depends on what kind of friend

[@tanishqavishwakarma9151]

@djj347 can ENTJ leave all their friends behind because of feeling betrayed by them or something like not trusting them enough?

[@flamingomingo9810]

@@tanishqavishwakarma9151that’s definitely a common trait of isfsps

[@aoifeandginny5569]

Oh yeah, massively, if they have a bad life experience, then regret it and feel that nobody wants to speak to them again.

[@Coneman3]

Brad Pitt is ISFP.

[@cynthiajuma9006]

He's an ESTJ

[@Coneman3]

Several sites have him down as ISFP. Does he look like an Executive?

[@ChrisS-xs4jw]

lol he's so obviously an ISFP... not even close to an ESTJ. Not sure where you (or CSJ) are getting this from.@@cynthiajuma9006

[@raquelreyes2011]

The beard is nicer

[@puckbucky.5545]

Are you using greenscreen ?

[@sumyatthansin9588]

Blackpink's Jennie is ISFP

[@TokyoTaisu]

I thought Rosie was and Jennie ESFJ golden pair??

[@tomatosauceandaoli]

My ISTP mother never let me stay delulu

[@honor9lite1337]

Delulu, interesting 😀

[@t-man5196]

Darn CS, for someone who resents their religious upbringing, you sure do quote a lot of scripture in your videos.

[@CSJoseph]

Yep

[@t-man5196]

@@CSJoseph feel free to elaborate as to why, or don't, your choice

[@t-man5196]

@djj347 you can, but it sure is weird

[@Coneman3]

ISFP are common too.

[@Coneman3]

And thick.

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

tend to be among popular kids in high school

[@Coneman3]

Yeah they suit the immaturity of the environment lol

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

@djj347 they dress really well, do parkour/bmx/skateboarding and influence popular culture a lot. lot of infps are popular as well but for different reasons.

[@dxfifa]

@@qasimimtiaz9668 Not really, that's ESFP. ISFP tend to be the over the top image obsessed counter culture kids who say "it's not just a phase mom" even though they literally went from emo to hippie and completely changed the music they listened to and how they talked in 2 years

[@Coneman3]

I met 2 ISFP women who had both had 4 serial LTRs. Seems they struggle with long term.

[@Coneman3]

Each one 5-7 years. I’d call that probably a medium term relationship.

[@honor9lite1337]

​@@Coneman3we've used to define an LTR as in life time span.

[@Coneman3]

Ok, well what I mean is 4 serial relationships. More than brief flings but failing to secure the long term. Suggests poor choice of partner and/or bad at relationships.

[@XerxesX.]

Who are you talking to ? who are you looking at

[@themilkmaid7953]

your mom

[@spidee530]

to us baka

[@LAKESIDE-LIVING]

You

[@XerxesX.]

@@themilkmaid7953 relax softie i didn’t mean it rudely just was curious why he looking around the cam that way

[@erinjk123]

Sing a song about it like t swift.😊

[@lilorphani]

I have to say it. Barbie !!! 🎀☺️

[@aoifeandginny5569]

We ISFPs have two faces, one is Barbie and the other is Medusa, so always be careful :P

[@user-mf3oc6mj5l]

Did you get a crush on an ISFP or something and she didn't acknowledge you?

[@CSJoseph]

Happens to me all the time. But I don’t give up. Especially because many do acknowledge me. It’s just a numbers game.

[@MadiSon-555]

Im dating an isfp delulu male

[@_PanchoVilla]

How is Margot Robbie an INTJ?

[@NathanaelNaused]

She's not

[@aladdout9454]

​@@NathanaelNausedwhat is she? dont say xxfp

[@Coneman3]

Chase gets a lot of famous celebs wrong. Check his site list and Google a few. He maybe has half of them right, 2/3 at best.

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

@@Coneman3no one’s perfect bro

[@Heanesy]

​@@Coneman3 So you think he's wrong because others say otherwise? If I misunderstand, correct me.

[@LAKESIDE-LIVING]

Helper is apparently a miss translation

[@CSJoseph]

They arent

[@TokyoTaisu]

Pregnancy is the best purpose for an ISFP woman.

[@FirstLast-cd6vv]

They can't.

[@elsaramos4058]

Does this applies to isfj as well?