How do you know a woman is flirting with you? | Visual Typing | CS Joseph Responds

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C.S. Joseph

C.S. Joseph

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@gergovincze8351
@gergovincze8351 4 жыл бұрын
This channel is still fucking underrated .
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
People can’t take the heat
@matthewrivera4974
@matthewrivera4974 2 жыл бұрын
Take it from like a 8 to like a 6, may be able to reach more people. Just an opinion, im still here 🤷‍♂️
@johnkirkpatrick9131
@johnkirkpatrick9131 2 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph I especially noticed that with the INFP Butthurt Comments.
@nickbrian9882
@nickbrian9882 4 жыл бұрын
“Pick-up artists hate him” ~Today CS Joseph reveals the hidden secrets of flirting~ I honestly loved this! You should definitely do more in the future!
@renatabolton2660
@renatabolton2660 4 жыл бұрын
What if one Si user is trying to flirt with another Si user? They will be forever waiting for the other one to initiate.
@Hybe123
@Hybe123 4 жыл бұрын
I find women who flirt while still in a relationship disgusting. If you're not satisfied with your relationship, end it and then flirt. Honestly, that's a huge dealbreaker for me and I see a lot of women doing just that. I have a standard to stay away from such women. God knows how many sexual opportunities I've missed doing that but my Fi child just couldn't live with it. I'd probably think about stealing another man's woman the whole time during sex xD
@ZackBR
@ZackBR 4 жыл бұрын
Another way to look at it would be to not take it personally. People usually don't flirt for the person they're flirting with, but for themselves. It makes themselves feel good. Getting some outside attention might even be beneficial for you relationship as it makes you feel more desirable. Also based on their type it might just be their nature and not actual flirting for them. Would you blame an ESFP woman for being outgoing and and engaging in fun conversation with people of all genders?
@Hybe123
@Hybe123 4 жыл бұрын
@Tommy Hass just because I have moral standards that doesn't mean I'm affiliative bro. I'm tripple pragmatic, imagine how much I laughed when I read that I'm affiliative xD The templar thing might be nurtural though, I have 2 templar brothers and a templar father. Let me rephrase my sentence from before: I'd probably think about stealing another man's woman the whole time during sex while having a limp fucking dick xD hope that sounds pragmatic enough for you xD
@Hybe123
@Hybe123 4 жыл бұрын
@@ZackBR yeah I get, not all flirting is really women wanting to have sex with me and cheating on their husbnds but them trying to boost their self confidence. I think I'm good at spotting the difference. But, I really do have experiences with both of those scenarios, innocent flirting and not so innocent. I know because I've confronted those women and verified my suspicions.
@renatabolton2660
@renatabolton2660 4 жыл бұрын
@@Hybe123 I flirt with a guy sometimes as a "pity flirt", if I see him too down the dumpster or seems depressed/sad I try to be extra nice to cheer him up. Not saying this happened to you, but it does happen. Flirt from a woman does cheer up the guy (most of the times anyway), and that's all I am doing. Being nice :)
@Hybe123
@Hybe123 4 жыл бұрын
@@renatabolton2660 Lol, I don't think I ever got a pitty flirt but I get it where you're coming from. Married women at work often flirt with me because their married life is kinda boring, but I think that's harmless, they wouldn't act on it. I got to differentiate those flirts from the "I wanna end my relationship" ones through time.
@elliottwoodhead4050
@elliottwoodhead4050 4 жыл бұрын
Also guys know that Ne users generate desirability by minimising attention to themselves. (E.g. by wearing monochrome colours) this attracts an Se user because you are giving them the opportunity to be the centre of attention and performance.
@yassimross8625
@yassimross8625 4 жыл бұрын
That makes... so, so much sense. It's almost mind-boggling how much sense that makes. I know Chase has mentioned on multiple occasions that Ne users cultivate desirability, and that they like to (and should) dress monochrome-y and "earthy", but I couldn't figure out why for the life of me. Dressing in all black, or something like that, is kind of like "advertising" to an Se user - to them you're saying, "hey, I'm a canvas, feel free to impress me with your colors!" I see how it could be intimidating or unenjoyable for an Se user to be around an Si user who's dressing like another Se user; they want you to look at them, but you're dressed like you want them to look at you. If I were an Se user, I would probably just avoid that person in terms of showing interest. I've had phases in my life where I would try to dress more... I don't know, vibrantly, and I'd always end up hating it after a very short while. People would give me compliments and now that I look back on it, it was probably fellow Si users being flirtatious or just responding and giving me that Si attention, because I came across as an Se user to them. But the attention would always feel so worthless to me, and I'd end up throwing the colorful clothes away and replacing them with blacks and dark greys. Now I realize why. Thank you for sharing this, Elliott.
@elliottwoodhead4050
@elliottwoodhead4050 4 жыл бұрын
@@yassimross8625 Your elaboration is absolutely spot on! And no problem dude : )
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
Very true. Se user and I like guys wearing plain hoodies, jeans, band tshirts, looking slightly unkempt 😅
@andreag4477
@andreag4477 4 жыл бұрын
I never enjoyed dressing up very bold because I dislike drawing too much attention to myself. I always felt weird about it tho because I thought people would see me as unfeminine. I'm glad that is not the case
@justinjbolyard
@justinjbolyard 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve always been entirely oblivious to women flirting with me, I’ve always just had friends tell me they notice and I never even have the slightest clue.
@justinjbolyard
@justinjbolyard 4 жыл бұрын
@Demos Argus Sorry to hear that ☹️ soon you will find another person who is an even better version of that girl you miss so much, and she will make you even happier than the other one did I promise. Go out there and implement what you learned from this video and use it to meet woman you will be guaranteed to meet another NTJ
@AshleyDeaton1230999
@AshleyDeaton1230999 4 жыл бұрын
I am the same way as a woman looking out for male cues. I just literally do not see it, but my Fe is dumpster fire low in my stack, so I just try to roll with the awkward punches and learn to laugh at myself.
@justinjbolyard
@justinjbolyard 4 жыл бұрын
Visual typing is so exciting, I love it
@jank2900
@jank2900 4 жыл бұрын
Irrelevant to me, no instruction how to flirt using Ti. Last time a girl showed me a photo editor app with _colors temperature_ filter she uses for selfies, so I started flirting by explaining her the theory of Plank's Black-body radiation, but before I got to the point of why most plants are green - her velocity increased exponentially in the direction antithetical to my vector of movements - so I guess flirting failed.
@artsyswarley
@artsyswarley 4 жыл бұрын
I would love a series of lectures or maybe even just a video about visual typing. I find it so fascinating and useful.
@CuddleClaw.
@CuddleClaw. 4 жыл бұрын
Oh yes. I’m Se/Ni and that’s me! And the Ne/Si is definitely my ENFP. I love all the attention he gives me. And if he were to give that attention to another female, I would understand that to mean that he doesn’t want only me and isn’t loyal to me and I would start considering other options.
@haley4011
@haley4011 4 жыл бұрын
I would love to see you type the couples on the reality show “Married at First Sight”. it would be cool to see you predict which couples stay together and which break up!
@intentionalliving5932
@intentionalliving5932 3 жыл бұрын
Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee do this!!!!!
@Carmellalovespink
@Carmellalovespink 10 ай бұрын
Omg great idea😂❤❤
@fificore
@fificore 4 жыл бұрын
*From "Eagle Hackers" to "Ecohackers". We've come a long way.*
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
Good times
@AshleyDeaton1230999
@AshleyDeaton1230999 4 жыл бұрын
I love this! It was especially cool that the core of the video was not necessarily aimed towards men or women because I struggle with this as well. I have definitely noticed how NP men give attention, but I was unsure about how my Se came into play. An ENTP I used to know would wait at crosswalks and miss the crossing just to see me and he would just light up when I would poke him out of nowhere. An INFP has come onto my radar after he cutely and so attentively watched me paint something one day. That dynamic is a lot more covert because he gets offended when I make my jokes lmao so I get a bit annoyed.
@AshleyDeaton1230999
@AshleyDeaton1230999 4 жыл бұрын
@@nightbird8348 Yes. I am an INTJ
@AshleyDeaton1230999
@AshleyDeaton1230999 4 жыл бұрын
@@nightbird8348 Haha, well I am happy you enjoyed the content of that comment. I'd be willing to entertain your theories you have if you send me a PM.
@aplethoraofme2056
@aplethoraofme2056 4 жыл бұрын
You hit the hammer on the head!Hypergamy is real. Maybe this couple is in an open relationship. Even so, the way she just innocently flirted when responding makes her feel happily ignorant about both social female and make dynamics. I want to keep analyzing her motives and her intelligence but it’s making me feel bad.
@tempest-tom9180
@tempest-tom9180 4 жыл бұрын
Great, Now i'm getting flirt coach advertisements... 😪
@elypelowski5670
@elypelowski5670 3 жыл бұрын
For real !! I just did too during this video. WTF !!
@superioropinion7116
@superioropinion7116 4 жыл бұрын
Very useful information for an INTP
@AoiNoSakura.
@AoiNoSakura. 4 жыл бұрын
I went into this thinking "not everything in life needs to have an explanation, Chase. But do tell..." Safe to say I now understood a little better why I (and why my friends) do the things I did. Felt super called out on the pickup line ngl, even in non-flirting situations I unconsciously did that to my friends lmao. Thanks for the useful insight!
@faezix2124
@faezix2124 4 жыл бұрын
I really liked this video thank you for putting this out. It was very helpful. I just think instead of using “should” for Ni users, it should be “I want to do this, lets do it together/ let’s go together” it’s less harsh and it is still a Ni-Se sentence. I feel like I’m gonna put people off if I use “should” in my sentences. It is also more comfortable for them.
@honor9lite1337
@honor9lite1337 4 жыл бұрын
"Should" is should be for Si users.
@webkelpie
@webkelpie 4 жыл бұрын
This in part explains one of your previous comments about how entps often fall foul of people of the opposite sex assuming that they are flirting with them. If the person talking to the entp is open to flirting, whether consciously or not, and the entp does not wish to negatively affect them, then just be paying attention means that the entp will LOOK like they are flirting and may not even be aware of it.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@NamedMyTaco
@NamedMyTaco 4 жыл бұрын
Chad S. Joseph is back and I love it!!!
@lmlitz72
@lmlitz72 4 жыл бұрын
Chad? Lol
@NamedMyTaco
@NamedMyTaco 4 жыл бұрын
@@lmlitz72 lol yeah he looks he is about to go to a bar, order a few bud lights, and tell people how to pick up chicks
@caymant8959
@caymant8959 4 жыл бұрын
Lolol
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
@@NamedMyTaco 😂😂
@princessonuoha79
@princessonuoha79 4 жыл бұрын
@@lmlitz72 Chad is a name used to describe male players or flirts
@cherrymarriedindiscord1404
@cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 жыл бұрын
my take on fat shaming is; if someone who has a higher power on me, and they have no concrete benefit of caring for me (a parent, a teacher, a doctor youtuber) points out that I am fat, then I should ask for advice or help to figure out how to change my physic because their point of view is most likely given with the intention of help if someone who has higher power and benefits from caring for me (a paid doctor, babysit, a bully) points out that I am fat, I aknowledge it and try to know their intention, depending on it I may ghost or proceed to change if someone with the same power as me (a friend, a brother, a stranger) points it out then my reaction should depend on how unhealthy I am, how worried they seem and how much their words affect my inferior function... I would most likely agree but begrudgingly if someone of lower power says it (homeless person, a student, an offspring) then I'll try to teach them what I call the method of "advice before you accuse" which revolves around leading me into a healthy lifestyle to show the genuine intention and connection but be careful about how they say it to others (basically making them mind the inferior functions but more so Te and Se inferior) if someone actually used fat shaming to make themeselves of higher power (like a bully) then it is time to either: a/- show them your inspirations and get over your fears to gain a tiny bit in life. Or b/- Out them on their corrubtion ... Do it your stye! I think this is a good approach and worked so far, only problem is that when I was young and a guy used to call me fat (which I didn't really mind, it was the truth and I don't care how I look) I tried to out him using my parents but they focused on making me feel better, meanwhile in my mind : " _THIS FUCKING KID IS WALKING AROUND WITH BAD MANNERS AND YOU ARE LEAVING HIM CHILL???????_ " I felt lost that no one wanted to help him realize what was right/okay and what was not, but I got over it, also learned some cool stories so yah
@neontheory1109
@neontheory1109 4 жыл бұрын
Please do a episode on emotional compatibility
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
I would love to know if emotional compatibility is just as important for friendship if not more important that the perceiving functions being compatible. I really like to be friends with Fe users regardless of perceiving functions
@sam_amar
@sam_amar 4 жыл бұрын
How the heck everytime I have a question in my head, you make a video about it answering it lmaooooooo Strong Ne vibes hahahaha
@DemiBernice
@DemiBernice 4 жыл бұрын
"Apprently English is my second language too." 😂🤣 I love it!
@erinjk123
@erinjk123 4 жыл бұрын
Someone at work was like I'm not sure if you're flirting with me. And I was like I'm just talking. 👄 😘 lol I do it without thinking about it. Or am playful.
@princessonuoha79
@princessonuoha79 4 жыл бұрын
An ENFJ guy who likes me (INFP) got upset that I started asking his ESTP friend personal questions about himself. He thought I was flirting. They both did, actually, seeing that they both have Se/Ni, and the jealousy was CRAZY. Which is doubly interesting, cuz the ENFJ said I should get to know the ESTP 🤦‍♀️ And now they have me pegged as a girl who has all these boyfriends. And all I could think is - I wish!
@intentionalliving5932
@intentionalliving5932 3 жыл бұрын
Fuckin hell! I discovered you yesterday, and boy am i on a ride with you. Im an infp, learning and listening. But damn. You are so freaking fast. How the heck! Also i never know if you are being sarcastic sometimes or actually mean the things you say. Its kinda fun. Thanks for all this information. The way you are is very refreshing. Take care
@intentionalliving5932
@intentionalliving5932 3 жыл бұрын
But also, you are terrifying to me hahaha
@Neph1944
@Neph1944 3 жыл бұрын
Finally.... An introverted version of myself
@nicholasedmunds5975
@nicholasedmunds5975 4 жыл бұрын
The mother, wife ... (roles) is almost exactly what Barack Obama's Twitter says (husband, dad, President, I think).
@nicholasedmunds5975
@nicholasedmunds5975 4 жыл бұрын
True
@user-oe7vx1nb5r
@user-oe7vx1nb5r 3 жыл бұрын
Hi! I read in the comments how Se users seek attention dressing colourfully and Si users prefer more neutral shades, for example. What is a practical application of the desire thing for Ne/Ni? Sorry, I'm one of those that doesn't get N, even if it's my inferior function :(
@zainhummamy4272
@zainhummamy4272 2 жыл бұрын
"what I focus on is the eyes" is a 100% correct structure of sentence, dear native speaker
@cherrymarriedindiscord1404
@cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 жыл бұрын
I never felt my eyes light up so fast xD, this one is gonna be interesting
@freepass850
@freepass850 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@egobridge
@egobridge 4 жыл бұрын
As a side note YES I totally agree with your irritation with body positivity. When I was growing up people would tell me I was gross because I was fat and constantly mock me, and even my own mother told me that I couldn't wear cute girly things like jewelry and skirts because I was fat. She also told me a man wouldn't love me if i was fat, and that I accepted as reality. Now I finally have all the tools I need to lose weight and eat healthy and am doing so rapidly and everyone tells me "you're getting too skinny!" Or "some men like big girls" or "men like a little more meat on their girls" and it pisses me off so much that after being treated like utter garbage, people are suddenly saying no! Don't be healthy! Fuck that shit.
@Hybe123
@Hybe123 4 жыл бұрын
Well, depends how skinny you really are. What women need is also muscle. Today's standards of beauty are really warped and all the skinny models are a travesty in my opinion. Skinny doesn't really equal healthy, that's a misconception. Trust me, incorporate strength training in your lifestyle, build some muscle, and don't worry, you won't get buffed anytime soon. Building muscle for women is a veeeeery hard thing to do since they lack testosterone. Only women who take testosterone and steroids can have too much muscle.
@egobridge
@egobridge 4 жыл бұрын
@@Hybe123 I'm not skinny btw. I'm 29 percent bodyfat and am decently muscular.
@Hybe123
@Hybe123 4 жыл бұрын
@@egobridge Alright, just ignore the people who are envious then.
@BeautifulPengu
@BeautifulPengu 4 жыл бұрын
Very cool video. Really enjoyed this
@carodame9419
@carodame9419 3 жыл бұрын
Came here to complain about how you cant put all woman in the same communication category but looks like I was too quick to judge and Joseph got me covered.
@kenrocketman897
@kenrocketman897 4 жыл бұрын
That last reply thooough. In a way you are calling her out XD for cheating.lools (The premise that you implied hahaha)
@afterschool88
@afterschool88 4 жыл бұрын
what if the woman didn't wear the makeup at all?
@nicholasedmunds5975
@nicholasedmunds5975 4 жыл бұрын
This is interesting, so about the compatibility, people with no knowledge of the cognitive functions, who are mature, unconsciously would be selecting out (eliminating) partners with the same perceiving cognitive function for intimate relationships?
@soniac2156
@soniac2156 3 жыл бұрын
This is a gooooood question, hope Chasr answers it!!! 👍👍👍
@soniac2156
@soniac2156 3 жыл бұрын
You have a point and I think you are right.
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
Also this was really helpful thanks - not just for romantic relationships but also for relationships with family and friends. If i'm asking e.g. my ISTJ family member to meet up then i know to use the 'you should' statement and the 'Do you want to' for e.g. INTJ family member. I like this 😊
@stefs1155
@stefs1155 4 жыл бұрын
I’m an ISTJ woman. I’m terrible at flirting
@neurotic_nerd3808
@neurotic_nerd3808 4 жыл бұрын
An istj who likes me try to learn how to flirt by interact with enfj whom i hv crush (she knows i like the enfj )..... The istj has really improved since then....
@cynthiapayne9906
@cynthiapayne9906 4 жыл бұрын
You're not the only Trekkie. The Trekkies are here and alive and prospering :)
@Matthew-us2ys
@Matthew-us2ys 4 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure "What I focus on in my photos is the eyes" is grammatically correct
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
Yes but I think the sentance structure is slightly unusual for native english speakers. Not exactly sure what would sound more natural. Maybe just 'I focus on the eyes in my photos'
@sametguzelgun3065
@sametguzelgun3065 4 жыл бұрын
23:36 gigachad
@saidheena
@saidheena 4 жыл бұрын
I am curious about two both Si and Ne users flirting, would they both provide attention and respond? Who would be initiating though? Thank you for your videos!
@cherrymarriedindiscord1404
@cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 жыл бұрын
this is what he calls "the dynamic between two canvas"
@desireer111
@desireer111 4 жыл бұрын
It's uh.... very awkward... I'm an INFP, and there was an INTP that flirted with me in college. (Didn't realize he was an INTP until later). He apparently crushed on me the first time we met (how? idk lmao). He was my residential advisor (RA) at the time. Most of the times when he came by the dorms to give us information, he was in a uniform. But over time, he started showing up without his uniform, getting more causal... Overtime his visits became less frequent, so I thought that because his attention was waning on me, his "desire" for me was waning. I then realized that I was unconsciously "playing hard to get". I also remembered there was another guy way back in high school (Si-Ne user, ISTJ) who flirted with me, and I did the whole "playing hard to get/avoiding him" thing, and it didn't work out and he moved on. So I was like, "I wanna change this! Let's take the risk an ask this guy out! YOLO!" So I basically did an "emergency initiate" sequence where I went to him and confessed that I wanted to be in a relationship with him (In the Si-Ne way, recalling our encounters, & giving him the choice to be my boyfriend). I didn't have a lot of prior experience flirting during grade school, so, as you can imagine, when I tried to initiate things, it was SO awkward and clumsy... I brought a fckin script with questions I wanted to ask him LOL I was so nervous. Our conversations were slowly-paced. And the awkward silences & smiles OMFG 😂
@desireer111
@desireer111 4 жыл бұрын
Eventually we chose to be in a relationship, but after a weird passive-aggressive, exhausting discussion at around 5 am in the morning, he called it off after like 4 days lmao... (We had communication issues, and I felt that I may have taken selfish risks that unintentionally rushed things and overwhelmed him). But strangely enough we still hooked up months later (For him, it was probably because of guilt, the sexual attraction was still there, and perhaps I was giving him the attention that his straight guy crush of 3 years apparently wasn't giving him 🙃 (he confessed about this other crush later during summer break, after he got rejected))(For me, it was because I didn't fully let him go at the time, and I still loved him) We decided to still be friends and keep in touch on Snapchat... He's already graduated and has moved on with life. We're still on good terms.
@SantanaBanana47
@SantanaBanana47 2 жыл бұрын
I could be a good friend with an infp, but I don't think a romantic relationship would work out. We both want to be desired but we are both critical of what we desire. I'm an intp.
@pingz2454
@pingz2454 4 жыл бұрын
So extroverted Ni users are basically the ultimate initiator in flirting?
@honor9lite1337
@honor9lite1337 4 жыл бұрын
Is that mean: ESTP, ESFP, ENTJ, ENFJ?
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
Yes and probably extroverted Ni men because it's more socially acceptable/traditional for men to initiate. I have some trouble because I am an introverted female Ni user so it's a bit of a mix
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
yes
@damayalapapaya
@damayalapapaya 4 жыл бұрын
i gasped at the shadeee
@هبةالرحمن-ع9ق
@هبةالرحمن-ع9ق 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks this has helped in the weirdest ways ever in understanding some of my ship behaviors 👁️👄👁️...
@JohanJohnJohnson
@JohanJohnJohnson 4 жыл бұрын
wow you really work hard
@outrageousmermaid9073
@outrageousmermaid9073 4 жыл бұрын
This video came into my life at the perfect time, sweet! :)
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
I do my make up similar to this woman and wear similar glasses and i'm an isfp. Interesting to see the similarities in quadras even visually. I would automatically try and get ideas from her look too (i think I do this with ENTJ women much more than INTJ or ESFP I guess because without realising I am trying to 'become' an ENTJ
@aladdout9454
@aladdout9454 4 жыл бұрын
how do infj women do their makeup?
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
My theory is it can be a bit more all or nothing for Se inferior. My INFJ friend tends to wear no make up at all, or else a but more of a brighter look than the entj woman (e.g. INFJ wears bright pink or red lipstick). Also slightly less concerned with the eyebrows and contouring etc , not sure why this would be. Not sure if it's because Se is inferior or because of Te vs Fe
@laurenneloms7953
@laurenneloms7953 4 жыл бұрын
Simple but classic look that can easily be repeated. Nothing too complicated!
@Percival2755
@Percival2755 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, does anybody know if Chase typed Rin from Naruto?
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
INFP
@Percival2755
@Percival2755 4 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph Thanks for answering, Chase. I have noticed Kishimoto has a thing for INFPSs. So, INTJ-INFP relationship, huh? Now we really need a video on beneficiary relationships. Please make it about INTJs and INFPs (yes I am THAT self obsessed.)🤣
@sabrinajahan1807
@sabrinajahan1807 2 жыл бұрын
I really want to be typed this way by anybody expert so that i can confirm that i am absolutely this type..
@oFxnal
@oFxnal 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Chase!
@knightninja8714
@knightninja8714 4 жыл бұрын
I want to get into star trek...But I don't know where to start...
@estefany6559
@estefany6559 4 жыл бұрын
Muy buen video como siempre!👍
@timhook6049
@timhook6049 4 жыл бұрын
@ 17:58 I am dating a girl who is INFJ and I have a hard time to get her to initiate. By initiate I don't mean just in bedroom but also generally like calling, texting, wanting to see me etc. Its me who is always initiating. Either she has typed herself wrong (but I doubt that) or she is not really interested in me :(
@shinoyashino7995
@shinoyashino7995 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know maybe you should really initiate for a few times and then she would do it once. Because we need reassurance too and see that it is consistent and then we feel safe in general.
@dandee6604
@dandee6604 Жыл бұрын
So she wants you to lead, just ask her to lead some of the time.
@Kagemitsu888
@Kagemitsu888 3 жыл бұрын
Hey at 11:47 I made it into my first Csj video lol. Even if it was just because of a notification 😂
@realeugene
@realeugene 3 жыл бұрын
Timestamp for later 13:18
@legendzfall
@legendzfall 4 жыл бұрын
This is great content.
@molokolulush
@molokolulush 4 жыл бұрын
Hmm, someones trying to be overly informative.
@nickkwasak
@nickkwasak 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not a trekkie myself but do you like Star Trek: Picard at all? My friend is the assistant editor on that show.
@relaxed03
@relaxed03 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@egobridge
@egobridge 4 жыл бұрын
NICE.
@ritchiewantschange
@ritchiewantschange 3 жыл бұрын
what careers are suitable for esfp? please make a video on this
@smile2024-c7s
@smile2024-c7s 4 жыл бұрын
Very helpful, Thank You
@soureh
@soureh 4 жыл бұрын
I hope you would answer the long comments! Jus my short comments get an answer, which I of course appreciate it.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
Yes quite
@MajorSpam
@MajorSpam 3 жыл бұрын
Just assume they're always flirting -Ne Trickster
@furduiluiza8174
@furduiluiza8174 4 жыл бұрын
Quick question How can you win an entp back? Or at least how can you keep him interested? Aslo great video, as always , thank you ❤️
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
Respect him and work hard on your figure
@honor9lite1337
@honor9lite1337 4 жыл бұрын
@@frodbaggins9482 explain..
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
They are but Si users like Se users to perform for them so they like their Se user to look good, especially Si inferior. Chase is aware of this but imo other Si men arent so much and will say they value personality over looks when really looks are actually very important to them. Se users might care less about looks. As long as the chemistry is right i don't care too much, though with gamma quadra Te status can make us care a bit more because being with a good looking partner can be a status symbol
@honor9lite1337
@honor9lite1337 4 жыл бұрын
@@bobbyjean1581 Wait... But Se users generally more care about the looks than Si users.
@bobbyjean1581
@bobbyjean1581 4 жыл бұрын
@@honor9lite1337 i think they care more about their own looks more than Si users do. Certainly they will also admire/respect good looks in others (all humans do, we are wired that way). But i think Chase means when it comes to choosing partners it is important for Si users to have Se users 'perform' for them looks wise. Se users may prefer a more natural look. So it's not really just about good looks, it's about the type of look. E.g. an Si user may have a more natural look than Se user who may be more inclined towards...more make up, glitter, flashy stuff, edgy looks etc (less obvious in Se parents who are responsible with it - matches up with Si parent golden paire/pedagogue). So from what I understand everyone likes a pretty face and figure (male or female) but Si users prefer to have a natural/comfortable look (can still be cute in a natural way) and prefer an Se user who is a little more flashy and puts more emphasis on their own look and vice versa
@lightheartedgardenia
@lightheartedgardenia 4 жыл бұрын
Why would you need to make a public moral judgement out of a person’s question? There are so many variables to what can have motivated her to ask that. If flirting can be spontaneous can’t it be innocent? It doesn’t imply disloyalty or dishonesty, you’re narrowing it. It got me thinking that she upset you somehow 😅 Liked the visual typing though!
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
People need to see what the differences between Si and Se are as a result of making such decisions. People do it to me all the time.
@tikosflopper5959
@tikosflopper5959 4 жыл бұрын
I was on vacation sorry but hello
@A.J.Breadman
@A.J.Breadman 4 жыл бұрын
Why is the volume so low?
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
Is it really?
@bridgebum826
@bridgebum826 4 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph Yes it is.
@lallalallalori8902
@lallalallalori8902 4 жыл бұрын
star trek discovery in general sucks, you can not even compare it to the previous ones
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
Voyager was terrible. Nothing bad ever happened to the crew. DS9 was the absolute best. But it was a copy of Babylon 5 and Voyager copied Farscape and Discovery is now copying Andromeda. I am so disappointed
@lallalallalori8902
@lallalallalori8902 4 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph What are you talking about. Voyager got me hooked on Star Trek and after that i watched complete series. They were always fucked up and alone in the middle of galaxy. I didn't see Farscape but even if they had same plot it doesn't mean it was stolen.
@shaun1293
@shaun1293 3 жыл бұрын
Se: seeks attention, produces a show, risky behaviour... yeah this is why I prefer Ne users 😜 I like providing attention, but attention seeking is so off-putting.
@fleetingfootnotes9133
@fleetingfootnotes9133 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't be surprised if Star Trek Disco 3 was a rip off; season one was a rip off from the storyline of some indie game.
@freepass850
@freepass850 4 жыл бұрын
Ooh my gods 😂😂😂
@tammyyeager2287
@tammyyeager2287 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent✌️
@meregaming1770
@meregaming1770 3 жыл бұрын
You don't!
@glassesgirl1659
@glassesgirl1659 4 жыл бұрын
I have a few things to say about this; firstly i really liked how linked this to the cognitive functions and explained it well, it all made so much sense, however i think it’s very easy to mistake attention for desire. You might be getting attention from someone and very easily believe they’re desiring you which is very confusing to me. Secondly why would you assume that she is the one doing or getting the flirting herself? What if she is asking on behalf of someone else that may be too shy to ask themselves? Isn’t Ne supposed to be all about the possibilities? Then why would you just ignore all the possibilities and accuse her like that without actually knowing for sure? And lastly you should’ve asked for her permission before talking about and accusing her infront of everyone, idk maybe you have but not mentioned but it doesn’t seem like it that’s why i had to mention that.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
If you find the specific thread, she makes it about herself
@freepass850
@freepass850 4 жыл бұрын
As an ntj woman... Wtf am I watching 😂
@ohmygahwd_imgay
@ohmygahwd_imgay 4 жыл бұрын
As a straight ENTP woman.... I HAVE NO IDEA 😂😔
@freepass850
@freepass850 4 жыл бұрын
@@ohmygahwd_imgay omg she's from my country too
@aladdout9454
@aladdout9454 4 жыл бұрын
As a NF woman... i cant tell either
@projectz25
@projectz25 2 жыл бұрын
13.15 start time 👍
@diyab1056
@diyab1056 4 жыл бұрын
Omw you're stalking someone lol that's creepy. I mean it's funny to watch but probs not for her? I don't have fb, I should be fine.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
So many jump to conclusions. Apparently looking at a FB friends profile is stalking.
@diyab1056
@diyab1056 4 жыл бұрын
​@@CSJoseph hehe looking isn't stalking if it's like a by-the-way glance at someone's profile that you happen to stumble upon... but it's stalking if you gonna look at all her profiles on different sites and analyze them and make a video on it, but I dunno... if she's cool with it then I don't see why not. But also, I doubt you got her permission first, you're the type to say "If you don't want me to stalk you don't have a fb account" or something :p No offence, I like the content, you should do a series on stalking various profiles and analyzing them (not mine but other people's profiles, I don't have profiles I just have Quora).
@Sam-by3kk
@Sam-by3kk 3 жыл бұрын
Alpha seed, beta need in my experience really only applies to women in their teens, 20's and maybe early 30's who aren't yet serious about kids. Plenty of women thereafter that settle for a man (who can provide), and also have their babies. Yes there are horror stories of women having other mens children and telling their beta provider it's theirs, but that's not a commonality. I've always found that piece of 'red pill philosophy logic' easy to tear apart.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 3 жыл бұрын
What you said follows the philosophy exactly
@Sam-by3kk
@Sam-by3kk 3 жыл бұрын
@@CSJoseph AFAIK it's a brush over all women of all ages, but red pill theories vary depending on who you ask
@WalliFrog
@WalliFrog 4 жыл бұрын
SHAAAAADDDEE 😂😂😂
@ThePlutonian
@ThePlutonian 3 жыл бұрын
fast forward: you read the blaze. -_- Are you one of those people who wanted to be famous? love, thee infj
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 3 жыл бұрын
I read all over the place. It’s not indicative of preference
@mm764
@mm764 4 жыл бұрын
🔥
@CathAlexandra
@CathAlexandra 4 жыл бұрын
You have a hair on your shoulder.
@theonejokeking3191
@theonejokeking3191 4 жыл бұрын
I think you’re super weird for going through a random Facebook friends profile in depth on your channel that garners a decent amount of views. That’s not super safe for her. As a trekkie we don’t claim you bro. Cringe level max.
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
Guess what. She ain’t my friend. She also is a married woman who appears to have flirted with me. Get over yourself
@CSJoseph
@CSJoseph 4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t criticize, I questioned.
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