How God Told Us to Get Married: 3 Ways God Might Tell You Who to Marry

How will God tell you who to marry? What signs will God give you about your future spouse? How will God reveal the one to you? In this video, my wife and I share 3 ways God told us that we should get married.
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[@pluffshangazi8487]

Key: each time you were with him, you felt closer to him and felt closer to God!!!! That's the kind of guy my heart yearns for!!

[@pluffshangazi8487]

@ree Amen!

[@motivation4926]

Me too!!

[@jillwylie6767]

Me Too. That is the only reason why I need someone like that.

[@mariahconklin4150]

Yep that’s exactly how I’m feeling with someone it’s an awesome feeling.

[@pluffshangazi8487]

@@mariahconklin4150 awww God bless the two of you.

[@johnsong9429]

A prudent wife comes from God Prov 19:14, God will always give you someone who draws you close to Him and not away from Him

[@jdfodio]

👍

[@EBUNNY2012]

True.

[@GodGirlP]

Johnson G You Better speak the Truth!!!!🙌🙏🙌

[@323azteca]

Absolutely true, but I understand that now, after getting married.

[@chimakalu41]

Amen

[@mosesdabah]

Three things 1. If the person helps you or makes you get closer to God. 2. If you're both willing to go in similar directions. 3. Personality - If you're YOU with that person. I love these

[@natural3362]

Yes my husband and i are equal and one

[@mosesdabah]

@@natural3362 nice

[@mongeyaz]

I am really interested in what Bethany said about praying to God about your relationship and naturally drawing closer to each other. That was God confirming that Mark was the one. I had an experience where the more I prayed to God about a relationship, the more I noticed little things about the guy that I didn't like. Some things like skipping a Sunday service or lack of motivation to read the Bible with me confirmed to me that he was not the one. God will open your eyes if you ask, but you also must be willing to see the truth.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Great points Yazmin M.! And I agree, I thought that was a great point by Bethany :)

[@s.m.8654]

Yazmin M. I got the exact same signs!!

[@chelciedaniel6963]

So true. Happened to me recently and let’s just say, I started to drift away from him slowly. God knows what he is doing. Whoever he wants you to be with, he will bring you and that individual together no matter the circumstances.

[@evonx7373]

I too was enlightened by Bethany's comment.

[@hectorcastro347]

and I will be a good day please let the best way is

[@pinoy122793]

I have a saying, “Never force yourself upon others.” God is already lining up for what’s in store. Focus on taking action for yourself first and your personal life will improve.

[@031forexmastagurus5]

You speak about self but God leads those who are dead to self,and fully devoted to doing his will even if it means loving and marrying someone that doesn't love you so he can act out that dimension of Love to that person

[@user-nz1rl4gz7v]

Marry someone who draws you closer to God❤

[@missjosavlog4403]

32 years already. Still Waiting for the right one that comes from God.

[@missjosavlog4403]

Youre right thank you David

[@davidisrael9412]

@@missjosavlog4403 ty and in the mean time let us serve Jesus...He knows best, & the Mellenium will come for us for 1000 years, We can not lose...then heaven forever.

[@missjosavlog4403]

Yes David, I am serving Him now. I know He has good plans for me.

[@gunjanchhetri1618]

Matthew7:7

[@tracyhoskinson7284]

keep the faith❤️

[@ngreat4390]

I love holy spirit love stories

[@unashamedforevermore6177]

Helen Enang yes me too!

[@kwamemargano6626]

Haha amazing

[@ghatimuhiri5493]

Me too

[@Defined4hispurpose]

Beautiful way to put it Amen

[@aurareid5652]

Me too

[@love_reka_777]

Spending time with God made you feel closer to your spouse ❤ wow

[@evonx7373]

I see you both put God First, then you both came together with his peace, that he only can give. You remind me of the scripture ....Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness then all else will be added to you....tfs

[@catherinetlau1699]

Only God knows the right time.we can't treat Him like our helper.He is God

[@seangill898]

Huh?

[@valentina3romano]

What? He is our helper..

[@rosem.3533]

To be equally yoked, as I see it, is not only 2 people to have the same religious belief (as Christians = both Christ followers). I think there has to be common goals, perspective and thought. Like Bethany said, you have to "fit" together. You both were wise to first consult with God regarding each other-most will consult their emotions instead and end up miserable in the long run. May God continue to bless your marriage/ministry! Great video! God bless.

[@guesswhomartin9249]

Rose Morales... I agree, even as Christians, we can be un-equally yoked. one might believe water baptism is dunking somebody in water, the other might believe water baptism is pouring water over their head. That is un-equally yoke.

[@essi.z8583]

I think it's very interesting that I am in a relationship with a boy who is basically the opposite of me. Our interests are very different. Still what remains the same is where we came from. We both have three siblings and grew up in families that weren't rich. Our childhood has many paralleles and that is what formed us to fit together. Same interests aren't always good signs. It's the whole thing, the things you experienced and the things you wish for your future. Because of our childhood we are sure that we want to safe a lot of the money we earn to give it to our children later on. For example for musical education or for hobbies. God prepares you for marriage your whole life. Every situation makes you smarter and more thoughtful. I want to encourag you to have a triangle relationship with you and your partner as basement and God as the top. God can help you solving every single problem. Much love!

[@guesswhomartin9249]

@@essi.z8583 ... Reading your comment. I find nothing wrong with your relationship. I think having differences is healthy. If 2 people agree on everything, they're gonna be bored. If you agree on everything, you have nothing to talk about. But if you disagree on everything you will always be fighting. If you never fight, that's NOT healthy, if you're always fighting, that's not healthy either. There are only 3 things God tells you to look out for in choosing your mate. 1)The person must be Born Again. 2) The person must be of the opposite sex. 3)The persona must be single, divorced, or a widow. If the person you choose meets all these requirements, now it's your choice. For example: You can find someone who meets all these requirements, but he/she has a very bad temper, when they get upset, they throw things across the room. That would be a bad choice. A very tall woman can meet a guy who meets all these requirements, only problem is, the guy is short. Well most women will turn that down. Sex: You better get on the topic of sex sometime in the early stage of the relationship. You might NOT be compatible sexually. You partner might want to do things you find to be an abomination. Or the woman might have a very high sex drive and the man has a problem, he can't get it up. Money: Talk about money and it's use. I've seen the 3 major fights have been on: Sex, Money, In-laws. Anyway, hope this helps you and somebody out there. Have a great day.

[@essi.z8583]

@@guesswhomartin9249 Thank you for the three points! Yeah we actually have talked about all of these and are very communicative in general. There is nothing one would keep from the other. I love how God is working in this relationship!

[@guesswhomartin9249]

@@essi.z8583 ... You're very welcome. Glad my comment was able to help you. Enjoy, have a great weekend.

[@thankfulblessed8496]

I really liked what Bethany said about how they didn’t need the other person to add what one lacked. Some people get in relationships just to have the other person help them become a new person, but that doesn’t make any sense. Seek God

[@Stall-FedCalves]

I’ve taken a survey over the years. Adam always recognizes his Eve pretty immediately: 2 weeks or less. So to summarize: For Eve: Confirmation equals feeling closer to Adam by drawing closer to God. For Adam: Confirmation equals relationship with God enhanced/deepens by drawing close to Eve. I believe that’s God’s ordained order.

[@branch621]

April Denise Stefko interesting 🤔

[@mightyobserver12]

Really

[@Stall-FedCalves]

Rosh Lepz Ya, I asked around years ago to both Christian & non-Christian.

[@davidisrael9412]

YES ...but when Adam asked God is it Eve...He answered 'who else?" relax in Jesus and be a witness Acts 1:8 in the power of His love to the lost...in your gift...of helping people, or as He leads...as an evangelist i am a Messianic Jew...and .. feelings can lead us instead of His guidance. Let us let.the good shepherd lead. david777aqua4Jesus gmail.com. ty April

[@godandsarah1306]

Your observation is fascinating.

[@l.patrick3155]

'Comfortable being ourselves...' Great words of wisdom.

[@mubangamulenga3404]

Lois at the end stole my heart 🥺❤️ PS: you two are so cute. Thank you for sharing your story to inspire others of what it looks like to wait on God and marry in a way that not only glorifies Him but blessed you too! God bless!

[@dominiqueblagojevic9447]

That's how I feel. I am very independent and rely on God for everything but would like a companion. Not to complete me but to share time with ❤

[@danilaroche1156]

Did you meet someone? Unfortunately alot of Christian men are so wounded, fearful or hooked on porn. They get passive.

[@bradleychampagne9103]

You're an introvert and y'all tied the knot and are happy? Well that certainly gives me hope.

[@Anonymiss28]

When you find the right person, you will find that they don't deplete your energy and you are happy to spend time with them. Always pray and ask God for direction.

[@samuelitooooo]

Anonymiss (!) 👆🏼This. Can confirm

[@jessicamerced9116]

Bethany and Mark, you two are so wonderful together! 💕I watch this in hopes that I have a wonderful connection like this to my future spouse 😊 Thank you for the great content!

[@quemoyo5536]

Please pray for me I want a Godly husband.

[@dominiqueblagojevic9447]

Me too ❤

[@edwardwhiteside8658]

Well dont want it. Then God will add him to you.

[@savitact7960]

Me too

[@gulfreenhanif8370]

Me too

[@doradeboard1101]

Am praying for you God bless you and give you your heart's desire remember to thank God for the answers Lord Jesus Loves you

[@anirudh658]

The answer is simple." Do you see Christ in him/her . If not that's a clear sign to back off . Main objective is to know whether what you do glorifies God's name . Amen🙏

[@yeswing10]

I LOVE the story of how you met. I love also how you both put God first. And you both promote God in your lives, which is so refreshing and honorable! The most important thing is having God in common. God Bless you both and your children.

[@jessicaborgogni9595]

But I really like how Pastor Mark softens and is more vulnerable around her! That’s so loving!! 💕

[@Isaacquintanilla]

Amen …Patience is a virtue I pray for my future wife every day even though I’m still single 😂 God‘s time is perfect 🙏

[@atziriwendolynmontesarreol2181]

I asked God for a sign . And he gave me this video. I feel this. I’m goin to continue to ask God . ❣️

[@kingcap9928]

Practical yet spiritual. Gotta love it 😁

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Amen, that's the goal!

[@UKVATO]

I want a girlfriend or a wife can you please pray for me.

[@UKVATO]

Ruthology Fitness how old are you ? What’s your name ?

[@catherinetlau1699]

Pray it for yourself. God will give you all ear

[@UKVATO]

Catherine Tlau I always pray it doesn’t work.

[@kierrarichardson80]

UKVATO prayer does work...you have to have faith...if you aren't having faith then it won't happen...you have to believe it will happen at the right time when you guys are both ready. I know because I'm waiting as well. And if this is God's will for your life to get married....seek and ask God if he wants you to be married or single...he will help you where you struggle...but if marriage is in your future then you must prepare for it. And pray your future wife that God keeps her and pray for your marriage and possibly a family. Pray that you are prepared to be a husband because you don't want to be in a premature marriage. Things that should not have been hard will be hard. So let God lead you and let him show you his will...seek him daily not for just a wife but to spend time with him...you have to be able to spiritually lead your family as a man or young man.

[@janetsumampong3392]

UKVATO I’m 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@GinMatt]

Not because you find someone that is Christian as you are, (Jesus follower), means you're equally yoked. Don't choose a man or a woman cause am a Christian, he/she's a Christian, am going to marry him/her. Always, ask God for confirmation, in prayer like they did!

[@hadassarkarimi3133]

I have watched so many videos but i haven't seen him laugh like that,they're happy,God bless this couple.

[@savedYESHUAalone]

Sooooo, now that we have met the wife too, You two are a blessing and a beautiful expression of our God and saviour, Blessings abound to you both,.....in Yesua's name!!!!!

[@davidisrael9412]

yes...and sounds like you are a messianic too relax in Jesus and be a witness Acts 1:8 in the power of His love to the lost...in your gift...of helping people, or as He leads...as an evangelist i am a Messianic Jew...and .. feelings can lead us instead of His guidance. Let us let.the good shepherd lead. david777aqua4Jesus gmail.com. tySteven

[@livingunashamed4869]

You two are great together, more more more lol. God bless.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Kevin B 👍God bless you too!

[@talawoods25]

You all made some REALLY good points. I TOTALLY get the not having to fulfill a "needy" person.

[@ThatRogersFamily]

Great to see Bethany in another video and to hear more about following God's leading and finding His will for your marriage.

[@sarzlaw10]

Loved this! May God continue to bless your marriage. I was blessed by this video as it was so wise and helped affirm my decision to end my last relationship. Thank you :) Enjoyed your playful side at the end haha, and finally seeing Bethany xxx

[@Giveintolove94]

This was really helpful! Especially that Bethany felt closer to you seeking God!

[@fruitofthevine6929]

Thank you for sharing your story Mark and Bethany. Bless you both.

[@riyamitraministries]

Love the tips. May you guys both keep glorifying God

[@ginag7844]

Oh so lovely to meet your wife.

[@annabelle1471]

I like your advice about spending time with God and Him bringing you closer to Mark!!!

[@chadj.w.anderson5473]

Thank you both, God bless your marriage!

[@JordanNHoule]

Congrats you two! This was very motivating and encouraging.

[@malubasic2267]

Wow thank you Mark and Bethany for sharing your experience. 😊

[@seatedwithchrist8268]

What would you say to people who say God wont pick your spouse because there isn’t just one person for everyone? I do believe that God definitely has the ability to pick our spouses for us. I mean, He’s God. He’s not limited by our circumstances or finite minds lol. Great video btw! Loved it! 🙌🏾

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Great question Seated With Christ, this video may help kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJKYpqSHmdh_bLM

[@ngreat4390]

I'd say, when you're not ready God won't give you anything....

[@missweenieboys2630]

Helen Enang Thank you! I needed to hear that today.

[@SomethingBeautifulHandcrafts]

Great question SWC. I do not believe there is one person for everyone. I've seen too many good people live and die without ever finding the one. Not picky people who dismissed potential mates over small discrepancies, but people truly searching and willing but never having any opportunities. And I've seen people whose spouses have died, and they remarried. So there can't be just one.

[@daniellediaz2516]

@@SomethingBeautifulHandcrafts Exactly!! I agree with you 100% 👍

[@_einodmilvado]

Such a blessing. God is so good!

[@meganpurcell8781]

Great video. Thanks so much for sharing your testimony with us. God bless you both and your family ❤️

[@ericsmith2269]

Thank you, Mark and Bethany.

[@chimakalu41]

Good to see your wife. God bless you two.keep going man . Thanks for your videos .

[@rebeccakirabo425]

I like the part that u mentioned about having time with God in your relationship....thx

[@marilenat.5255]

:)Great tips guys, you look beautiful together. Looking forward to seeing Bethany again!

[@jicjicmers631]

Blessed 🙏 hearing your words, thanks much Sir and Ma'am ❤️

[@waynewright8404]

VERY NICE MARK AND BETHANY !!!!! GOD BLESS

[@rolaine733]

Came across this video....and this was so very good. Started at 3 so guess I need to backtrack. Awesome hearing you both talk and definitely got a lot from it. Thanks. 😊

[@skaterman8180]

Every time I am trying to take things farther with someone, I feel God is holding me back and not allowing my conscience to be at peace with it. I guess when its the one, I will have that peace within my conscience allowing me to move forward. I am just discouraged because it happens every time. Hoping one day it wont happen that way

[@tonyd1149]

God[Bible] Bless you folks and your family. Mark, I am thankful for your videos. Thank you for making and posting them.

[@christianlather3122]

May GOD bless your marriage and increase it in through HIS love. I love you guys relationship!❤

[@Clementine202]

Great advice! Even greater dog!😂 Seriously though, this was great for me to hear. I really appreciate these Christian dating/marriage videos very much. It’s a good perspective.

[@deniseyoung4494]

Thank you guys soooooo much for this video. It really has helped me a lot. Blessings!!!!!

[@jbreezy5959]

You are both an adorable couple, love it 😘❤. Love how you are both whole but can share your journey with God 😘

[@jonathanchinappen9100]

Thanks Mark for sharing and for answering my question in your last video :)

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Our pleasure! So glad it was helpful :)

[@Joybutterfly1977]

Love the ending with your dog!!! 😍 Thank you for sharing your story again! Love your videos!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad you enjoyed this!

[@323azteca]

I wish I had your videos and guidance before I got married.

[@dsiga1025]

Love love ... happy seeing you both... May lord Jesus bless you both in everything you pray..Amen

[@soniauk4284]

This is so helpful. Bless you both 😊

[@youarebeautiful2085]

You both look awesome together❤️

[@gct1913]

Thank you for this!

[@joycenjeri1225]

The more she got closer to God the more she wanted to get closer to him..( I kind off relate but Lord & praying for God fo work on both of us)

[@cmchandelier]

*Loved* the ending scene 😋 Great video too!

[@mariahconklin4150]

Wow this really enlightened me.

[@loressavargas2020]

AMAZING! How beautiful ....GOD BLESS U BOTH IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS!! HALLELUJAH..! BLESS YOUR HEARTS ALWAYS.

[@ijt4494]

Love your cute doggy at the end!!! :D God bless your family! Happy New Year!

[@rtr4342]

you guys are couple goals!!!!!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Hahaha, thanks R Tr!!

[@beowolf19751]

Very powerful!!

[@closer47]

You 2 are adorable.... and you laugh together.. very comfortable with each other.... you2 are made for each other

[@MP-in6hm]

WOW , May God bless you always and all the marry couples and future couples to get marry for God's will and Holy providence.

[@Christimony222]

Beautiful! And her shirt says “77” that is the number God always uses to talk to me about my Divine Partner and Our Kingdom Marriage. Thank you!

[@21dahlgaardcarrie]

that part with the dog at the end... 😂😂😂✌❤

[@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314]

Well I am going to enjoy my time alone for the first time ever. I understand what you mean about codependency. I definitely want to build my relationship with God first. So I'll just be waiting untill that day hits me out of nowhere!

[@sa-vb7zi]

Neat!! You guys make a sweet couple, praise God 😊🕊⚘❣!!

[@General_reader]

This video helps remind me that you guys are human Thank you love your Channel!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad you enjoyed it!

[@rolaine733]

Okay....the dog got me 💓💓💓

[@angenealhamilton2942]

Rolaine lol me too.

[@patriciakuzmicz4456]

Hi! Thank you for sharing..it would be nice to have some sharing from followers and sharing on different topics :) stay blessed 💕

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless you too :)

[@adarshkaur]

I loe hearing from both of you, would love to see more of you together!

[@yculmer]

Thank you both for sharing! Beautiful Couple☺️☺️☺️

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Our pleasure!

[@guesswhomartin9249]

The important thing is, you're being blessed.

[@jessicazimmerman1314]

Love this! #LoveLois lol P. S. Please continue making more sessions like this.. they are really helpful and insightful! And I love you guys' personalities, esp when you're interacting together! God bless you and your family! ❤✝🌎

[@patriciaowens3479]

Thanks guys!

[@FatBellyChemist1234]

Krugs to you all, I am gonna share this to my friend. the 1st one is exactly what I am feeling and experiencing with my current bf.

[@shellbellplayz1711]

Aw the dog at the end 🥰

[@LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv]

Beautiful couple God bless u both.

[@christellen3077]

Your wife is so beautiful!! Be blessed!!

[@jessicaborgogni9595]

Oooohhhh i like the outro music!!!

[@elenam9435]

Thx for sharing!!!!!

[@SireMario444]

Good bless you both! Very lovely couple! ❤️

[@christinaalameda6206]

Thank You Mark and Bethany ⚘Glory to GOD." Awsome Testamonie Loved it. LOVE and GOD BLESS You ALOHA Always Sister Chrissy Honolulu Hawai'i United States 💙⚘🕊💖⚘🔥🕊💙⚘🔥🕊💖⚘🔥🕊💙

[@yzma6142]

Every point has shown me he is NOT the one for me lol. Thank you for being so open!

[@godsoriginal4540]

Thanks! Great video! I'm a new subscriber! And I love your videos! Never stop letting God speak through you.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Welcome to the channel God's Original! So glad you found it and are enjoying it!

[@godsoriginal4540]

Thank you!

[@jenniferbrown4137]

Nice to meet you Bethany

[@WHITELACEWON]

I love this so much, bless bless bless, gorgeous lady

[@malliganathan4175]

Aww Lois seems sweet and gentle!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

lol! She is! She's getting old though, so sad!

[@timserarangsa6741]

Thank you so much both of you for sharing this video.. It's awesome...

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad you enjoyed it!

[@user-cp1hp5zi6k]

Am 50 single still waiting patiently upon the lord for my future huband by 2023

[@WHITELACEWON]

absolutely beautiful couple