How I became a Master at Storytelling (5 secrets)

[@bintehawa4751]

5 Secrects to become a good storyteller: 1- Message 2- Relatable (you have to be similar not special) 3- Pain or Problem 4- Imaginary (use dialogues, emotions, scenery) 5- Moment of realization in the story ( something amazing happened )

[@touringthecitywalking9209]

Yasir, you're a live-pumping-heart guy, full of life and energy! This video is the 19th one of yours that I’ve been continuously watching over the past two days. I’m a Muslim, originally from India, but living in Toronto since 2001. I’d love to meet and greet you over a cup of tea or coffee whenever you’re near the Scarborough area and have some extra time and mood to honor this senior person!

[@speakingwithyasirkhan]

You're amazing, thank you so much for your consistent support. I'll be traveling for the next few months but I'll be holding an event early next year in Toronto - would love to meet you then!

[@touringthecitywalking9209]

@@speakingwithyasirkhan It would be a true pleasure and honor to meet you at the event! Please do share the details and location when everything is set. I sincerely thank you once again for your amazing support and generosity, and I truly look forward to the opportunity. Safe travels and best wishes in everything you do!

[@mercurialdude]

This is such a wholesome exchange!❤

[@serendipitysf]

Most public speaking couches said to use imaginary in storytelling but I never understood until you provided vivid example of what it is and what it isn’t. Thank you 🙏 Yasir!

[@copy_queen.1]

damn this guy just turned my life up . how the hell I never meet ur channel ..... ur just wow mashallah!!!

[@misbahaleem8103]

Yasir, the way you explained just wow.

[@anastasi5946]

Brilliant delivery and great advice. 💯

[@JumanneShambi]

Wow you have enlightened my life again, much love brother, happy to have you in our lives 🎉🎉❤

[@ravanlivefromearth]

Maybe it can help you to understand well 👍 The framework of the transcript is built around effective storytelling, aiming to improve communication and public speaking skills. It uses psychology, communication techniques, and tonality to engage the audience. Here's a breakdown with added psychological insights and tonality-related factors: --- Framework: Storytelling for Impact 1. Start with a Hook Purpose: Grab the audience’s attention immediately. Psychological Principle: Leverage curiosity and the promise of transformation. Example: The speaker starts with “In the next few minutes, you’re going to walk away knowing exactly how to be the top 1% speakers.” Tonality: Use an enthusiastic, confident tone to create excitement. 2. Core Structure: "Tell a Story, Make a Point" Psychological Basis: People remember stories more than facts because stories create emotional connections. Key Elements: 1. Message (The Gift): Every story must have a clear, concise point (10 words or less). 2. Story (The Gift Wrap): Embellish with relatable, vivid details. Tonality: Use variations in tone (soft for emotional parts, strong for climax). Pause strategically to emphasize the point. --- 3. Establish Relatability Purpose: Make the audience feel connected and understood. Psychological Principle: Humans are wired to trust those who feel “similar.” Avoid sounding superior; instead, share vulnerabilities and relatable experiences. Example: The speaker admits his ego and past struggles. Tonality: Use a conversational, empathetic tone. Lower your pitch slightly during vulnerable moments to convey sincerity. --- 4. Create Emotional Tension (Conflict and Resolution) Purpose: Engage the audience by making them invest in the story. Psychological Principle: Stories with conflict trigger emotional resonance. Include Pain: Highlight challenges and struggles. Example: “I was terrified of speaking in front of people.” Follow with Gain: Resolve the tension with a transformation. Tonality: For pain: Slow pacing, softer tone. For gain/resolution: Gradual build-up to a higher energy tone. --- 5. Make the Audience Visualize (Imagery) Purpose: Immerse the audience in the story using their imagination. Psychological Principle: Visualization activates sensory memory, enhancing retention. Use descriptive language and sensory details. Example: “If you were there, you would have seen me Googling in the dark.” Tonality: Paint vivid pictures with a storytelling tone. Add pauses after evocative descriptions to let the audience imagine the scene. --- 6. Dialogue for Realism Purpose: Make the story dynamic and relatable. Psychological Principle: Dialogue feels authentic, creating a sense of immediacy. Example: The “gift wrap” story uses a back-and-forth exchange. Tonality: Differentiate character voices (e.g., softer voice for Maria, firm voice for the client). Use pitch changes and rhythm to mimic real conversations. --- 7. Aha Moments (Moments of Realization) Purpose: Leave a lasting impression with a powerful climax. Psychological Principle: The brain remembers emotional highs (the peak-end rule). Example: “I just crawl up into my shell like a turtle.” Tonality: Dramatically pause before delivering the realization. Use a slightly slower, deliberate tone to emphasize the impact. --- 8. Repeatable Takeaways Purpose: Make the story memorable and applicable. Psychological Principle: Repetition reinforces memory. Example: “Share your pain for the audience’s gain.” Tonality: Deliver the takeaway with clarity and finality. Slightly raise your pitch to emphasize key phrases. --- Other Communication Factors 1. Tonality: Confidence: Maintain a steady, strong voice to build authority. Variety: Avoid monotony by shifting tones (excited, empathetic, reflective). Pauses: Use them to emphasize points and allow the audience to absorb. 2. Body Language: Align gestures with the story (e.g., use open hands for relatability). Maintain good posture to convey confidence. 3. Pacing: Slow down during emotional or impactful parts. Speed up slightly during lighter or energetic moments. 4. Engagement Techniques: Use rhetorical questions: “Can you imagine yourself in that situation?” Involve the audience: “If you were there, what would you have done?” 5. Authenticity: Be genuine; don’t over-rehearse to the point of sounding robotic. Show emotions appropriate to the story (e.g., smile during uplifting moments). --- Summary of the Framework: 1. Start with a Hook: Engage curiosity. 2. Tell a Story, Make a Point: Structure with a message and a story. 3. Relatability: Be similar, not superior. 4. Conflict and Resolution: Highlight pain for the audience’s gain. 5. Imagery: Immerse with sensory details. 6. Dialogue: Add realism. 7. Aha Moments: Create a memorable climax. 8. Repeatable Takeaways: Make the message stick. By applying these principles with conscious tonality and communication techniques, you can create captivating and memorable storytelling experiences.

[@Charlet534]

You have gained a student

[@sujathasivaraman1968]

Awesome Yasir. I loved the techniques which you said. The turtle story was humourous

[@kruparathod5206]

A lot more to learn from you Yasir..keep sharing amazing stuff🌟

[@Onyx-v8z]

Good Explaination

[@MantraBliss24]

I am presenting something tomorrow at a company wide event, saw this video couple of times, really hoping to remember to use these tricks ❤😢😂 Ps- your work is piece of art

[@speakingwithyasirkhan]

🙏🙏

[@zeebikhan7763]

Kash me bhi apki trha bol sakti.

[@sam_az187]

Yasir, all of this makes sense,,,for few people like me its not about the content but the fear of losing train of thoughts in front of audience. English is not my first language. How do I overcome this?

[@speakingwithyasirkhan]

I have a video on how to overcome your fear on my channel, check that out

[@floriang]

Turtle!

[@rodzonic]

@yasirkhan Just looked up from my phone after watching this video and I found Michaelangelo holding his nunchaku (sitting in the showcase)

[@speakingwithyasirkhan]

... what

[@ahmedhussen1308]

Brother yasir how are you?bro can I get you WhatsApp number?