How I Can Assume What My Deaf Boyfriend is Saying

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@Raabje98
@Raabje98 4 жыл бұрын
I surely am not gonna forget how to sign “communicating” after this video haha!
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
R4BI4 😂
@UltimateGaming200
@UltimateGaming200 4 жыл бұрын
they went: < > < >
@ajaykiran6
@ajaykiran6 4 жыл бұрын
Rambunctious Gaming Nono ( ) ( )
@darkvision7537
@darkvision7537 4 жыл бұрын
Ajay kiran / \ / \
@karenperkins3016
@karenperkins3016 4 жыл бұрын
No it was C ) C )
@honeyysweet6805
@honeyysweet6805 4 жыл бұрын
i met a boy who’s deaf at my school and i’ve seen him around a lot with his interpreter and today i actually signed with him and had a conversation! i used to watch you guys a lot and learned a lot from you both and i’m happy that after like over two years of watching signduo and four years of learning i was finally able to hold a conversation and actually sign with someone!! it was so exciting and i just wanted to share with you guys :)
@DarkAurora2002
@DarkAurora2002 4 жыл бұрын
It's called an interpreter not translator
@banyvillarreal8143
@banyvillarreal8143 4 жыл бұрын
Robert Nicholson Is there a huge difference? Similar enough, especially for casual use lol
@casseopiah
@casseopiah 4 жыл бұрын
@@banyvillarreal8143 maybe there is a slight difference bc ASL 'translator' feels like someone who is giving direct translation from one language to the other word for word, but I find that it's very hard to directly translate ASL to English & vice versa because of different sentence structures and the underlying meanings (honestly for most language interpreting). Which is why ASL 'interpreter' feels more accurate since they have to interpret both ASL and English and convey in the other language without losing the core message that person is trying to convey. That being said, I don't think a lot of people mind it being used interchangeably anyways haha
@DaysWithTaee
@DaysWithTaee 4 жыл бұрын
I’m ur 1000 like person
@lynnjohnson9727
@lynnjohnson9727 4 жыл бұрын
That's really cool!! Who knows you two may end up dating for 8 years and starting your own hearing and deaf couple videos. Just hopefully you won't make everyone wait for so long. 😐 I'm looking at you Ryan! Get with it!! Where is the ring at?!?!
@state924
@state924 4 жыл бұрын
I’m trying to do three things at once. 1. Watch your facial expression and look for any mouthed words. 2. Watch your signs so I can learn. 3. Read the captions, quickly, and look at your expression and signs.
@jeng6786
@jeng6786 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@jewelianngeering9081
@jewelianngeering9081 4 жыл бұрын
I’m trying to multi task as well hahah
@brittanykatie
@brittanykatie 4 жыл бұрын
^this exactly!
@FarahNuit
@FarahNuit 4 жыл бұрын
me too! It is so hard to follow, I'm like "you need to be a super hero to speak deaf!". 😲😂
@shannonp9497
@shannonp9497 4 жыл бұрын
I lowered the speed a little to 0.75x
@giannamartin8608
@giannamartin8608 4 жыл бұрын
The way Java is just sleeping/leaning her head on Ryan’s chest 🥺 she’s such a daddy’s girl hehe
@1daughter1son
@1daughter1son 3 жыл бұрын
Such a sweet pup
@charlottekerr4312
@charlottekerr4312 3 жыл бұрын
And I loved Ryan’s little laugh. Sorry, I’m a bit late to this video 😅
@Charlie96204
@Charlie96204 Ай бұрын
@gabriellesimone3668
@gabriellesimone3668 4 жыл бұрын
"Sign for me" because you're holding java and can't show run and run is the cutest moment :)
@aaronpc7554
@aaronpc7554 4 жыл бұрын
The love in their eyes for each other is really soothing to watch 😭❤️
@valeriadelgado62
@valeriadelgado62 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve gotten to the point in my learning where I don’t need captions anymore ! Love you guys 🤘🏼
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
valeria delgado congrats! Great job
@blueishh
@blueishh 4 жыл бұрын
how long did it take you to get to that point? i would like to start learning but am a little intimidated :)
@valeriadelgado62
@valeriadelgado62 4 жыл бұрын
caitlyn I took one class this semester of asl 1 ! That’s were I learned most of my rules and vocabulary . But I aslo look at videos on KZbin . Next semester I’ll be moving to asl 2, kind of nervous but don’t be scared girl ! If you have the chance learn it ! It’s so much fun ☺️
@lorrainehackett4786
@lorrainehackett4786 4 жыл бұрын
@@valeriadelgado62 wow, im going into my second semester of asl 3 and still struggle with enough of the signing that i need the captions
@lockheart619
@lockheart619 4 жыл бұрын
Hopefully I can get to that point as well!
@brandon1331
@brandon1331 4 жыл бұрын
Recently found your guy’s channel and honestly I’m SUPER hooked, I could binge watch your vlogs all day 😂
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
brandon glad our videos are binge worthy 😁😂
@kaceface3277
@kaceface3277 4 жыл бұрын
One thing I learned quickly when I met my boyfriend, was that he can’t tell when I’m being sarcastic. So I would say things and he would think I’m being serious at first. Now he’s used to my sarcasm and can tell most of the time. And it’s also crazy because sometimes we don’t even have to communicate, he will know what I’m trying to say just by my eyes/facial expressions.
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Kace face 😂😂😂
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Kace face laughing hard because I know exactly what you and your BF are going thru. Same thing happened with me and Ellen
@kaceface3277
@kaceface3277 4 жыл бұрын
Sign Duo haha! It’s funny because I’m so sarcastic and he takes conversations so seriously. So we had to work on that. But for awhile i always had to remind him that I was just being sarcastic and that everything’s fine 😅
@jeng6786
@jeng6786 4 жыл бұрын
Lol is there a way to add a sign on the end or beginning of the conversation to indicate sarcasm (kind of like a deaf name, something personal to you to indicate it)?
@katehammond5539
@katehammond5539 4 жыл бұрын
I am hard of hearing. I can hear a little with out my hearing aids. My boyfriend is hearing. We know each other very well. When we go to bed and i can't see him. I can feel him. If i say somthing funny. I can feel him laughing. If he say somthing it take a while to know what he says or I just repeat what he says. It more feeling him knowing if he awake or talking or what ever going on. During the day. If we are out and about. I can't all ways hear him. Just looking body language and reading lips. We know each other really well. That we don't even have to talk. And knowing what each thinking or what we want to do. If you blindfold yourself just be with you your boyfriend or girlfriend. You know there touch. ( sad,mad,love,happy or they just need more love or hugs). If you plug your ears. You can see there body language and face expression. I can look at my boyfriend and we don't say one word. I know if he is tires, what go go, just not happy or if he is happy. If he comfortable or not. I can see it. If you know your boyfriend or girlfriend really well you don't have to say a word. It like having a baby you know what they want or needs. They can't talk or can't like that good. Or you know someone that can't talk at all. You been with them long enough to know what they wants or needs. Or how they feel.
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Kate Hammond to funny haha
@faithalexandria9173
@faithalexandria9173 4 жыл бұрын
Java’s getting so big!
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Faith Alexandria she is growing way too fast 😅
@SmiieRaiNBow
@SmiieRaiNBow 4 жыл бұрын
That bit about facial expressions being tone of voice of deaf people is soooo interesting. I’ve noticed that deaf people are usually very expressive with their faces but I never thought of it that way before.
@sydneyschapel5863
@sydneyschapel5863 4 жыл бұрын
Java is so adorable, I love how she just doesn’t care that she’s taking up Ryan’s arm and chest 😂
@AbenaAnima
@AbenaAnima 4 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up for ELLEN to make the video about the HUMBLING EXPERIENCE!
@kaitlyngilchrist8852
@kaitlyngilchrist8852 4 жыл бұрын
I want to know the experience! I just aced my first sign language class and I feel confident understanding the teacher and my peers and you two but there is a deaf family that comes into my store and I can never understand them. Luckily they’re very patient and kind to me.
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Kaitlyn Gilchrist sometimes just have to get used to certain signing styles. Sign language is my primary language and sometimes I don’t understand deaf haha
@alexakate
@alexakate 4 жыл бұрын
they're. so. cute. 🥺🥺🥺
@Clove814
@Clove814 3 жыл бұрын
I might be alone in this, but I would LOVE a video on how Ryan learned to mouth words when he was younger! I can't even imagine how a speech therapist would approach that when the student can't hear the sounds that the letters make... Was it very difficult to memorize the mouth positions for different sounds without having that context? ❤️
@fightingfox8341
@fightingfox8341 4 жыл бұрын
Watching this channel gives me so much joy and makes me smile so so much!
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Fightingfox 83 glad it brings positive vibes to you!
@itsonthetab
@itsonthetab 4 жыл бұрын
I have a question. When Ryan reads, does he “hear” the words in his head like a hearing person does? Not all the time, of course.. we look at words all day and don’t “hear” them, but for example when you’re reading a fiction novel and the narration is in your head.
@xcele
@xcele 4 жыл бұрын
tiffo this is a good question!!
@cobiebentley9277
@cobiebentley9277 4 жыл бұрын
I watched a BuzzFeed video with 2 deaf people and they said their "inner voice" was sign language.
@jillsains1917
@jillsains1917 4 жыл бұрын
Sign language written out when you’re learning it in a class setting is so much different than English, that’s why it’s considered its own language and there are different variations of it
@morley364
@morley364 4 жыл бұрын
I've heard a little about this- basically, your 'internal voice' is used for a lot of things- remembering things you've read earlier in a paragraph/book, formulating your thoughts, processing emotions, etc. It's actually a vital part for many parts of your internal processing. Deaf people's internal voice tends to be in sign if it's their first language or the language they feel is their voice. Obviously this varies if they grew up hearing and became deaf, or if they are partially able to hear, etc. If they never learn sign, and can't hear enough for their speaking voice to feel like 'their' voice (if that makes sense), they may not have an internal voice and can suffer in some of the areas the voice is used for, most notably reading long texts and remembering as they go. Hope that helps!
@alexmcevity4511
@alexmcevity4511 4 жыл бұрын
I’m profoundly Deaf from birth and I can confirm that we can ‘hear’ the word in our head whilst reading (It varies with Profoundly Deaf people). When people speak whether we hear them (in my case with my hearing aids) or only lip read (or both) we associate the word we read to what we have perceived it as either via hearing speech and/ or seeing sign language! It all depends on factors such as; our learning opportunities (speech therapy & school), how hard we’ve worked to be able to understand, hear and use the English language & literature to a reasonable/ good level, family background (beliefs & culture) etc so it really does varies. Hope this helps! 👍
@burgundyblue4130
@burgundyblue4130 4 жыл бұрын
Just noticed that I can understand what Ryan saying just looking at his lips movement (like lipreading) and even(sometimes) hear his voice (even if he's not speaking, just the way he using his lips, air noises???), so when I'm reading subtitles and looking at his lips at the same time and it just complete his speech perfectly. I'm not the only one? (I hope you understand) Love you guys, and so proud of you two. Keep going!
@lauracolby6038
@lauracolby6038 4 жыл бұрын
I love how Java has her head on Ryan’s chest most of the video, undoubtedly, listening and feeling his heartbeat. Very good points on communication, love your explanation of your experiences. If Ellen wants to share her story, we will listen with open minds and hearts. 🍃💞🍃
@nancypaul7892
@nancypaul7892 4 жыл бұрын
Java is deaf tho...cant hear the heartbeats
@rosehovis3212
@rosehovis3212 4 жыл бұрын
I love that you guys are Sign Trio now 👍🏻😁
@msoneofakind26
@msoneofakind26 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are the most in love couple I've ever seen. It's amazing how you two vibe.
@enderwiggins8248
@enderwiggins8248 4 жыл бұрын
I wonder how challenging it must be for deaf people with autism, because my family has a history of autism and they struggle with understanding a lot of non explicit context
@jojokukahiko
@jojokukahiko 4 жыл бұрын
This just made my whole day!!
@mlou4444
@mlou4444 3 жыл бұрын
I'm mostly impressed that you can spell and reading spelling that fast! If someone tells me the spelling of a word verbally, I really have to think about what the word is and literally pretend to write it down. It would take me forever. Very cool!
@gokai976
@gokai976 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know any sign language (yet) but watching your videos just shows the love between you two, and it’s amazing how comfortably you two communicate! You really inspire me to educate myself on the deaf community, and to learn sign language, whether that’s Dutch Sign Language (where I live), Finnish sign language (where my family’s from), ASL (for international communication), or Japanese Sign Language (I’m a Japan Studies major). Please keep on going, you guys are so fun to watch!
@yolkgurtt
@yolkgurtt 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are so amazing! I love your videos, and I'm so happy to see Java healthy and growing!
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Aileen Christine thanks for the support!!
@BleedingHeartLove219
@BleedingHeartLove219 4 жыл бұрын
I think this is a great video not only because it’s so eye opening to the complexities of signing and communicating with people with different languages but also just about communication in relationships. Absolutely beautiful
@euiwit
@euiwit 4 жыл бұрын
you guys are the only reason why i am learning sign language. i want to understand wat u guys are saying in the vids without captions 😊
@marrieverburg
@marrieverburg 4 жыл бұрын
I noticed that Ryan drives most of the time. I'm just wondering, do you feel confident driving alone? Since you cant hear other cars honking or can't hear ambulance or police sirens? Btw, love your videos, very informative! A fan from the Netherlands :)
@HelenavV_
@HelenavV_ 4 жыл бұрын
Je hebt geen gehoor nodig om te kunnen rijden. Als de politie aankomt of de ambulance hebben ze naast de sirene ook het licht aan. Mensen die doof zijn, zijn vaak heel erg visueel ingesteld dus als er bijvoorbeeld politie aankomt zien ze al van ver van te voren het licht al voor dat de 'gewone' mens het geluid heeft gehoord. Vaak rijden mensen die doof zijn veiliger dan mensen die horend zijn aangezien ze geen afleidingen hebben zoals de telefoon en de radio die keihard staat. Zij hebben aandacht voor het verkeer en wat er om zich heen gebeurd.
@gloriaguo229
@gloriaguo229 3 жыл бұрын
They made a video on this. Idk if the video was out when you asked this question. Edit: the video was not out when you asked the question. Edit: Here is a link to the video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Zl7QkqCHerKrsMU
@yangzhang5870
@yangzhang5870 4 жыл бұрын
It's amazing the level of understanding and communication you guys have with each other. I know so many hearing couples who don't communicate nearly as well with one another. You guys are relationship goals!
@EkaantMeinSaantvana
@EkaantMeinSaantvana 4 жыл бұрын
The way he looks at you when you're talking is so beautiful omg
@jnt01
@jnt01 4 жыл бұрын
you guys are the cutest and give such a comfortable vibe to the video as if im sitting with u guys
@megan6195
@megan6195 4 жыл бұрын
Hi!! I’m a kindergarten teacher and my kids are learning how to sign the songs Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer and Silent Night to perform at our Christmas program along with our other songs. They are loving it and having so much fun learning the signs! Love your channel!!
@megdalenagonzalez-mounce1776
@megdalenagonzalez-mounce1776 4 жыл бұрын
When Ryan said "I run this" I put my tail between my legs. 😂 He's so low key dominant. 😂
@missbeaussie
@missbeaussie 4 жыл бұрын
Right?
@phunkybarbie
@phunkybarbie 4 жыл бұрын
I know that this is HIGHKEY un-relatable to all my deaf and hard of hearing peeps but y’all’s videos are straight up ASMR. (Sounds that are nice and pleasing, kinda like the sound equivalent of feeling a soft blanket or popping bubble wrap!)
@kalapants1
@kalapants1 4 жыл бұрын
Please make that video! Also I LOOOOVE Java being so cuddly!!!!
@lucymankonko4860
@lucymankonko4860 4 жыл бұрын
Why did I just find this channel randomly? Why didn’t I find it sooner? In the few hours I’ve been catching up on their lives, the dog has grown. I’ve learned ways that could end fights for any relationship I have, and I am happy they have been together for so long. So many questions and thoughts with this channel ❤️
@rickschweitzer9845
@rickschweitzer9845 4 жыл бұрын
You guys have such an incredible bond. It's so completely obvious. I envy your relationship.
@christalcavanaugh
@christalcavanaugh 4 жыл бұрын
Ooo yes I want the humbling story if it’s not up already!
@kaitlinjenner7639
@kaitlinjenner7639 4 жыл бұрын
i’ve been watching your videos for about 2 years and everytime i watch i always try to learn at least one word. its helped me so much. i’m of course not fluent but i’m able to communicate with the deaf. Ryan And Ellen thank you both so much please do not stop what you’re doing. love you both.
@annikaw3506
@annikaw3506 4 жыл бұрын
Dying to know the story that humbled you! Please and thank you! :D
@cassandrarodriguez5115
@cassandrarodriguez5115 4 жыл бұрын
Ryan sounds so wise! Great video guys
@twowingsstudio
@twowingsstudio 2 жыл бұрын
Your dog is adorable. She really loves her Daddy!
@jojokukahiko
@jojokukahiko 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know aslfluently for when I'm watching deaf people sign I understand them completely because it's almost like you have to have common sense or an imagination to imagine what they would be saying if they were using word with a voice! I get really frustrated when I'm trying to communicate back because I don't know all the signs but I'd make them up as I go and most of the time they can understand me because we're on the same topic!!
@samanthawickey7208
@samanthawickey7208 4 жыл бұрын
I 💜your videos. I am deaf in one ear and partially deaf in the other. You guys are so inspiring and I have convinced others to watch your videos so they can start knowing and understanding sign language. Thank you for helping me and my friends. 💜💜💜
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Samantha Wickey of course, thank you for the support!
@sophiexo1685
@sophiexo1685 4 жыл бұрын
The way the dog rests on Ryan's chest. So cute
@heather_bee
@heather_bee 4 жыл бұрын
Whoa! That is so fascinating! When you mentioned you learned your partner's facial expressions and body language first and then the sign language helped with a more complex or deeper communication, I never realized how little I paid attention to those things.
@rogerdunn5491
@rogerdunn5491 4 жыл бұрын
I got use to doing that when I went to a foreign country where I didn't speak the language very well, You really do rely on gestures, body language, facial expressions a lot, even after 20 years living in a different country, I still find that it helps me and is second nature to pay attention to those, even though now I understand the language.
@jacquimg2469
@jacquimg2469 2 жыл бұрын
This is fascinating. Communication is interesting to me because I’m a writer. There are so many nuances in communication even when speaking - the often used comparison: “communication is 20% what is said and 80% what is inferred by non-verbal signs.”
@nicoletejera6654
@nicoletejera6654 4 жыл бұрын
I just love how authentic your videos are♥️
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Nicole Tejera 😁❤️
@O2BAmachine
@O2BAmachine 3 жыл бұрын
Java napping on her pa's chest is the cutest!
@laveniacleaver9530
@laveniacleaver9530 4 жыл бұрын
In most cases, it's really very frustrating for me to communicate with hearing people because often times they talk to fast and I say to them, "Whoa! Slow down please. I can't understand what you're saying," and try to let them know that I'm hard-of-hearing. And sometimes they get rude about it and say something like, "I don't have time for your silly games," and left me thinking, "What? What did I do wrong? Why is he or she treating me like that?"
@tictachikes6156
@tictachikes6156 4 жыл бұрын
That makes so much sense. I find myself looking at your body language and face more in thr videos because I've already read the captions and I'm looking to see how you're expressing those words 😊
@caroltu87
@caroltu87 4 жыл бұрын
You both are an inspiration. I would love to pursue someone who is deaf but I’m afraid. Watching this video gives me hope.
@Just_no_
@Just_no_ 4 жыл бұрын
What was that humbling experience!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Explain!!! 😫😫😫😫😫🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😂😂😂😂😂
@chasiamolina9476
@chasiamolina9476 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I mute the audio to try and experience Ryan’s perspective when he’s interacting with Ellen
@vivianleenet
@vivianleenet 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE you guys! I will be honest, when I first stumbled upon your channel I had a lot of assumptions - some not very respectful - about your relationship. But I basically just binge watched ALL your videos and have learned so much about the Deaf community and gained such an appreciation for your relationship outside of the hearing/deaf aspect. You guys are SUCH goals. Don't ever quit making videos, I need to live my love life vicariously through y'all
@-Me_
@-Me_ 4 жыл бұрын
I can't even read the subtitles and pay attention at the same time
@lpsash8563
@lpsash8563 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are the cutest couple! I love you guys! I love that you spread awareness about deaf culture and using sign language. Sometimes I use these videos to learn ASL. You guys have inspired me to try and learn ASL so that I can be an interpreter or just to communicate with someone who is deaf/mute.
@heididay9099
@heididay9099 4 жыл бұрын
Awwww the dog loves daddy !!!!! Intresting video 👌
@miafireheart2467
@miafireheart2467 4 жыл бұрын
Such an informative video! Thank you for sharing! My brother and his girlfriend are learning sign language and they’re learning so fast! They love it! It’s great that we can communicate through sign language now! I introduced your channel to them and they really like watching videos where you teach signs. They really enjoyed where Ryan taught how to sign Numbers 😁
@starringmeag4487
@starringmeag4487 3 жыл бұрын
I’m learning ASL 1 right now and sometimes it gets confusing, but somehow it actually really helps seeing it used in conversation. So, thanks guys!
@mallory1304
@mallory1304 4 жыл бұрын
Okay-I’m Autistic, and REALLY want to learn sign (partially because of my autism, I have mute periods), but all the talk about the importance of eye contact and facial expressions and everything makes me so nervous because that’s exactly what I’m terrible at in communication, due to being Autistic. So the part about interpreters showing up early and how normal it is that signers have to take a moment to get used to a stranger’s signing style is SO relieving to me. I can’t even say how much that calmed me down!
@nouzmb
@nouzmb 4 жыл бұрын
He nods so proudly that she knows him very well 😆
@katiebryan1171
@katiebryan1171 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t mean this to be rude or anything but I get major ASMR when Ryan is signing and mouthing words
@ashleyk3045
@ashleyk3045 4 жыл бұрын
I dm'd you guys a very similar question about this on Instagram a few months ago, so I'm really happy that you guys made a video about this. :) Thank you for your content! Not only are your videos educational in the language aspect, but super helpful with learning cultures and daily lifestyle customs.
@Lisa-vi3to
@Lisa-vi3to 4 жыл бұрын
I love that your beautiful relationship is at the foreground of all your videos and sign language is just integrated into it. More than just sign language, you’re showing us that communication is more than speaking and furthermore, how vital it is that as human beings we find ways to understand one another. You’re relationship is a great example of how WE CAN reach the point of understanding one another even if you don’t know the language or culture, it’s the genuine interest in someone that makes for a safe place for us to educate ourselves and become better human beings. Best to you both! 💕
@samevans1289
@samevans1289 4 жыл бұрын
The more I learn about sign language, about the eye contact necessary and the interpretation of facial expressions, the more I begin to think it must be hell to be deaf/hoh and on the autism spectrum.
@samevans1289
@samevans1289 4 жыл бұрын
@@galacticastrologist Actually, since writing that comment I've heard that there are parents who apparently actually use sign language to communicate with their kids that have autism. Seems like it couldn't possibly work, right? I didn't look it up yet, but if it's true, then I'm assuming that in this particular case, sign language isn't really used for back and forth communication, but maybe for the kid to communicate with the parent when he/she becomes overwhelmed and can't quickly explain with words what he/she needs or is bothered by. That would kinda make sense. But yeah, probably still hell for deaf people who have autism, because since that would have to be a back and forth communication, they would have to have the receptive skills necessary for sign language, like eye contact and reading facial expressions. If you don't mind me asking, why do you avoid looking people in the eyes/at people's eyes? I heard someone say once that "it hurts", but I still don't understand. If you have the time and don't mind explaining, could you please elaborate? Is it unconscious or do you actively avoid eye contact? How does it feel to have eye contact and why is it unpleasant/difficult/hard to do? Thanks for taking the time to read this! :)
@samevans1289
@samevans1289 4 жыл бұрын
@@galacticastrologist First of all, thank you for answering! :) I think I actually saw a movie about that condition where you can't recognize people's faces but I didn't know it was a real thing. So if I understand correctly, until you were a teenager you didn't use eye contact because there was basically no useful information for you there, and now when you do use eye contact it's because social interaction requires it, and it gets tiresome to do it in a way that's according to social norms (regular eye contact, not too much, not too little, not too intense eye contact-it does sound exhausting!), especially since you also have to pay attention to what they're actually saying, body language and environmental distractions etc, so that's why you only do it when necessary and as little as possible. Did I understand correctly? I've always wanted to educate myself on as many relevant things as possible, and on the things I don't understand and I don't know about, especially since I will work with the public in the future. Recently, I took a class and there was a girl I'm pretty sure was on the spectrum. I never asked since I thought it wasn't my business, and I didn't think she was rude because I knew about how she'd have trouble with social cues if she really was on the spectrum, but I was so mad at myself for not knowing how to interact with her in a way that would facilitate communication and would make it more comfortable and easier for her, and also easier for me to understand if she enjoys our interactions or if I'm bothering or boring her. 😅 If you want to and have time, please feel free to tell me more stuff that you'd wish other people would understand about autism and that would make life easier if people would know/do those things.
@ieatlitter
@ieatlitter 4 жыл бұрын
Spill the beans on that humbling experience.
@Thelittlebluesander
@Thelittlebluesander 4 жыл бұрын
I just started watching you guys and have felt so motivated to get back into ASL. Also, The way Java is leaning is adorable. Haha. You guys are such an inspiration and an amazing couple and I wish all the best for you.
@ellaanniina2567
@ellaanniina2567 4 жыл бұрын
Question for Ryan: are you ever scared because of your deafness? Or have you before? For example, while driving a car you can’t hear what is happening around you. And I’m in love with your videos😍 It’s very interesting to hear how you communicate with each other. You are such a cute couple😍😍
@graceofspades48
@graceofspades48 4 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else get surprised when Ryan sneezed? I guess it’s because I’ve never really heard him make any noise 😄
@__sea.mar3
@__sea.mar3 4 жыл бұрын
learning ASL for the first time, and I knew I wanted to be intentional about the language as well as the culture. Your channel's added context related to deaf culture really helps! THANK YOU.
@Persephone0110
@Persephone0110 3 жыл бұрын
I love that explanation that facial expressions replace tone of voice. That just clicked for me having watched many people sign over the years. I'm pretty sure my sister could still hear tone of voice when she was growing up, so it wasn't as important to change facial expressions with her.
@emilyhoang
@emilyhoang 4 жыл бұрын
I've been married for 12 years and I can attest to being able to read each other's minds and already knowing what we will say about something. 💞
@Stranger_Strange_Land
@Stranger_Strange_Land 4 жыл бұрын
Question: I am a server. Is it annoying or appreciated if I try to do some signing to communicate- knowing only very basic signs? What are your suggestions, both in your own experience, for approaching and trying to be social when communication is very minimal??
@gloriaguo229
@gloriaguo229 3 жыл бұрын
Not related to your question but related to you being a server. In one video, they mentioned how servers always hand the check back to Ellie, even though Ryan was the one who gave his credit card to them. So just hand it back to the deaf/HOH person if they were the one paying.
@Stranger_Strange_Land
@Stranger_Strange_Land 3 жыл бұрын
@@gloriaguo229 oh, yea. That would be rude on 2 accounts. I was taught to read the name on the card and hand it back to the appropriate person. Tho.... One time a man was named Kim and I didn't know who to give the card back to.... Lol (A decade ago, I was taught to hand the check to the male- always.... But times have changed in that aspect)
@gloriaguo229
@gloriaguo229 3 жыл бұрын
@@Stranger_Strange_Land I by no means know anyone who is deaf/HOH, but I think they would probably appreciate it if you used some basic signs to communicate. Or, you could (as they mentioned in another video) ask the hearing person/interpreter (if there is one) to interpret what you’re saying to the deaf/HOH person, but maintain eye contact with that person, not the interpreter.
@jdmitch82
@jdmitch82 4 жыл бұрын
I am happy you made this video. Even though this was to answer a question someone else asked, but you also answered the question I asked from your last video. Thank you and your dog is so cute.
@patiencekillz
@patiencekillz 4 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed today & I’m thrilled to have a new video to watch already! I’m a freshman in hs & learning ASL. This is the first year my school’s offered ASL as a foreign language, and I’m in love with signing! My teacher is deaf, so for an hour and five minutes every week, I’m completely immersed in deaf culture as my teacher doesn’t let us talk, only sign. I plan to learn as much ASL as I can & I might even want to become an interpreter! Your channel is amazing, & I’m learning a lot from you two! ❤️❤️❤️
@Chikorita2Chante
@Chikorita2Chante 4 жыл бұрын
I can't get over the way Ryan looks at her when she explains. He looks so stupidly proud. It makes my heart swell.
@marshmallowpuff4899
@marshmallowpuff4899 4 жыл бұрын
You indirectly explain why chatting online and communication through the internet is never as good as a face to face chat.
@populargrrrl
@populargrrrl 4 жыл бұрын
I am hearing, I picked up some sign from an interpreter friend a few years back. I now have a deaf coworker and just watching your videos have helped me remember more signs and practice! This has helped our communication at work and I’ve seen her open up so much🤟🤟🏼
@lilstiizy6090
@lilstiizy6090 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Please make that video that you mention at 10:20. You both are so motivating and inspiring for others who also want to learn ASL. I’ve been debating on whether or not I want to take ASL classes at my local university, but watching your videos make me feel like I really need to! My partner and I are both hearing and we want to learn ASL together so that we can communicate with those who may need someone to communicate to in times of an emergency, etc. thank you for creating this channel, and keep up the awesome content!!
@pixxie102
@pixxie102 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are such a great example of what a great resource youtube is!! These videos are so enriching beyond just learning signs! And again there is miss java being the most adorable 🐶
@Chloe-of2xy
@Chloe-of2xy 4 жыл бұрын
can you explain your guys’s name signs for eachother?? I think name-signs are an amazing aspect of deaf culture.
@TheSurferchick3006
@TheSurferchick3006 4 жыл бұрын
That’s the Tustin market place! That’s so cool that you guys are so close to me. I took ASL for 3 years in highschool and have started to forget it since I have nobody to practice with. When I use to work retail I’d use it to speak to customers who were deaf and I lovedd being able to lend a helping hand to them. I wish I had somebody to sign with !
@kirby1ist
@kirby1ist 3 жыл бұрын
Way back in the early 1990's I took a course in ASL. I have been able to see the odd sign I still know. I appreciated the story about " was Ellen Mad or just waking up " My closest thing to equate that to is , trying to communicate when the person is in the other room? I love all the videos so far. and I will be looking every Tuesday/ Weds for new ones. As always Be well and stay safe
@marcelaortiz9230
@marcelaortiz9230 4 жыл бұрын
Not only that you can read his energy so good and he can read yours too
@andrew4635
@andrew4635 4 жыл бұрын
I watch the videos without captions, and can maybe only pick up 30% of what Ryan is saying? Once in a while I get this moment of clarity when I can pick up a WHOLE SENTENCE :D but most of the time I pick up fragments of sentences, or I will recognize a string of signs, get excited, and then miss the rest of the message because I got distracted. Little by little, I'll get there :) Keep up the great videos, you two! A
@rosebud7105
@rosebud7105 4 жыл бұрын
Facial expressions were the most important part of ASL classes when I took a few many years ago. As a hard of hearing person myself (who didn’t grow up signing) reading lips, body language and facial expressions are much more important than the actual words one speaks. As a side note, if I watch your videos just before bed, like I am tonight, I end up signing in all my dreams! Love that! Lol G’night all!
@acelyne
@acelyne 4 жыл бұрын
Cool how he was signing with 1 hand when Java preoccupied his other. Hahah. I knew what he meant when he said "means/meaning"
@hopelich
@hopelich 4 жыл бұрын
Im a hearing person and ive been taking asl classes for almost a year (as a hobby, not in school or anything - just for fun and out of pure interest). Im pretty comfortable with the amount of vocabulary i know and recalling it when I'M signing but now im working on my recieving skills. I just found ur channel today and ur videos seem to be really helpful and are well produced. SUBSCRIBED! (Also im a hopeless romantic and am in love with you two #couplegoals)
@maigxiong
@maigxiong 4 жыл бұрын
Not only am I learning so much about you two, but I am also learning sign language! You two really inspire so many. ♥️🤟🏼
@galgreen3749
@galgreen3749 4 жыл бұрын
Omgosh absolutely love you guys 🤗 ❤️ your videos are very informative thanks a lot for educating us 👍🏻 👏
@piggysleft
@piggysleft 4 жыл бұрын
Can’t believe I missed this channel! Subscribed!
@tmww8868
@tmww8868 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I understand better now. The examples you both gave were so informative. Thanks again.
@SignDuoChannel
@SignDuoChannel 4 жыл бұрын
TMW W glad it was helpful!
@mariawren771
@mariawren771 4 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋🏻 from 🇬🇧 I totally agree about not able to understand other Deaf person signing as we, in 🇬🇧 there’s lots of regional accents so therefore we have regional signs. (I’m Deaf btw) Java’s gorgeous🌸
@erinzazueta204
@erinzazueta204 4 жыл бұрын
You were in my suggestions, and I’ve been binge watching y’all. Such a cute couple & so educational for people like me who knows nothing about anyone who is deaf. ✨ subscribed!
@kaylaplant3153
@kaylaplant3153 4 жыл бұрын
hearing that not even you as a deaf person understand other deaf peoples signs makes me feel a lot better when i use a different sign or mess one up i guess i just never thought about that, i knew there were different meanings for the sign but i just always thought everybody understood them
@taryn_elizabeth
@taryn_elizabeth 4 жыл бұрын
This was awesome! Is it exhausting trying to learn other people language when you have interactions with other deaf people for the first time or so? just because you have to focus on body, sign etc all at the same time? Love how authentic and genuine you all are! My new favorite channel
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