How I Declutter my Wardrobe : Organizing Closet : Minimalist Wardrobe : Emily Wheatley

[@Thekateodriscoll]

I enjoyed this vide but my favorite part? When your little one asked you to keep the pink sweater (sweet baby)

[@EmilyWheatley]

Haha I know, I had to put that in. He came in the room in the middle of filming and just watched for a bit and then just all of a sudden chimed in. Loved it. :-)

[@Thekateodriscoll]

@@EmilyWheatley classic!

[@pamelawilson2553]

Mines too!! He said, it’s a good decoration 🤣 made my night!

[@WeAreBullets]

the input from your child offscreen is adorable i almost melted and died that was so cute

[@katrinalewis9386]

I love how you actually wear your clothes and use them until they’ve served you a nice amount of time!

[@theesilverghost]

I don't know why I love closet cleanout videos so much, but I do! It has taken me some time to get to the point, but everything in my small (very small) closet is a "hell yes!"

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, love that!! Haha i know, what is it right? I think it's kind of like the cake decorating videos, very satisfying :-)

[@robinhoward4204]

One of my biggest stumbling blocks when decluttering is keeping items that are similar to what other people wear (and look great in), even though they just don't look or feel right on me. Great decluttering video anyway.👏

[@mirandahein5344]

Ahh, that cute little kid voice!! Also, I was listening (with no visual) around 8:00 and thought you were going super cut throat “with tears.” 😂😂

[@losingmychic]

I think this is likely the ONLY declutter video i've watched all the way through. Its especially useful to me as a frequent declutterer because I'm moving to France from Australia next year early 22 so i've been decluttering EVERYTHING! I find a great motivator for really paring down what you need is thinking of paying for shipping costs... that's helped me get rid of lots of things I was hanging onto. Such a useful video thank you!

[@EmilyWheatley]

That is so great, love to hear that! Congrats on your move to France! That will be such an amazing experience. good luck with everything!

[@losingmychic]

@@EmilyWheatley thank you!!!

[@jascha9405]

I would like to see the Directors Cut! 😂 It's so helpful to hear your arguments while decluttering or not. Could watch this hours and hours as a warmup starting my own challenge. And as my loveliest english lesson as well. I'm 55 and from Germany, and my english habits in school were very, very bad, so it becomes hard to confront me with any english content. But it feels cosy to listen to Your voice and content and only sometimes it is necessary to use help by a translation App. This morning I stand up and the first thoughts in my head I heard myself saying were english sentences. It's so amazing! Thank you so much for this good vibrations and lessons in love! 😉❤

[@consolw]

This was an eye opener for me. Finally some explanation about how to make these choices! I’m about to tackle my wardrobe and I feel as if I can go into this with a bit of a system now. Thanks so much for sharing!👍😊

[@EmilyWheatley]

Oh good, I'm so glad if was helpful for you! Thanks for your comment!

[@michelebrotman5345]

I organize just like you do! First by category, then color light to dark. More pleasing to the eye and much more efficient when deciding what to wear. Also, I keep it active according to the season.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Love that! Thanks for sharing with us Michele!!

[@clairevinet3557]

HAHA laughing because I just realized I am looking at a older video and make a very late comment.! I still enjoyed it . Thank you.👍🏼💖🌹

[@EmilyWheatley]

Haha no worries! Happens all the time :-)

[@jamiekebart377]

I am totally with you on cotton clothes (almost exclusively). Where have you been all my life!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Glad you found my channel my fellow cotton loving friend!! Welcome!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Yay for natural fibers! We need polyester-free clothes.

[@dianedorney5147]

I got rid of everything I have put on for the tenth time and took off!!! Gone good and gone....lol love your show

[@EmilyWheatley]

That's great! Thank you Diane!

[@topclosetsacto5313]

I just found you and you're already my favorite KZbin stylist- I could watch your channel all day. Would you consider showing more looks? For example in this video it would have been so fun to see you model a few of the pieces. It's hard to know what they look like without seeing them on. Thank you for your great content!

[@EmilyWheatley]

I'm so glad you found my channel!! Welcome! I've got a lot of videos coming out with more looks, so stay tuned. Also a lot of my past videos have a lot of looks included so definitely check those out when you get a chance as well. Thanks so much for your lovely comment!

[@cindytheriault4105]

Wonderful ❤

[@lorivrchota6261]

Love the Vikings sweatshirt!!💕 Born and raised a Vikings fan too!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay! Go Vikings!!

[@clairevinet3557]

Keep the silvery blouse! So pretty and classy!

[@judithroers9655]

I like the grey gauze shirt, best. Helpful video, as always.

[@EmilyWheatley]

:-) Thank you! xx

[@ecbelle]

Loved the video! I try to do a one in, one out system when acquiring new pieces! Right now I'm purchasing second hand combat boots and selling 2 old pairs that didn't vibe with me

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes! Love that approach too. Thanks for your comment Belle!

[@devinbillingslea4329]

I love your video as someone who getting to personal style you have help me a lot

[@EmilyWheatley]

I'm so glad!

[@kimski5391]

Hi I just found this video of yours🙂 so happy ! I always organize the same way, light to dark,then sleeveless,short sleeve,long sleeve and then shorts/capris/pants. I also do it with sweaters , sounds silly but I’m glad I’m not the only one that does this as well😉😉😉😉

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay! Glad I'm not the only one either! :-)

[@diannavaughan4898]

Just discovered you and your KZbin channel today!! I am moving and downsizing, and your strategies in this video are going to make it a whole lot easier! You rock! Thank you 😊

[@EmilyWheatley]

That's awesome! Welcome to the channel Dianna!

[@karlashmeedavlasta6365]

The itchiness in the striped long sleeve could be the linen. Linen can itch till you wash it a few times.

[@joywhitley3141]

Wait. Your nails of red, then they’re green…they’re like a neon beetle. How cool! 😎

[@ebonitompkins]

My organization is by category then by time since last worn. So the front is what I haven't worn recently and once I wear something it goes to the back. It's built in rotation plus I can see if I keep passing over an item (and get rid of it). Great video!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Love that! Great idea, thank you for sharing!

[@mo_twinkle21]

Love your makeup in this vid!

[@D47JoyUnited]

First time I've subscribed to a clothing channel, I love the edgy looks and I have already watched the edgy one. Keep going.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I also hate those wide necklines on supposed “crew necklines”, they just never work right. I’m having to get rid of several sweaters that I otherwise like, because of this problem, they just look stupid on their own or with a shirt or turtleneck under them, especially with a thin neck and shoulders on the narrow side, like me. These details make the difference between loving and hating otherwise similar, or even identical, items. Pocket placement is really important, too, so many shirt pockets are so low, they give the saggy-bust look, as in sleeve length and width, where the waist is, and so many others.

[@HomemakerDaze]

Wide neck sweaters so my collarbones are cold lol made the mistake of buying one once and never again lol

[@wendybone8104]

After drastically decluttering my wardrobe I've found that some of my favorite items and the ones I wear the most are my basics from H&M! This surprised me, since we are always being told that expensive, high quality clothing is the antidote to fast fashion. But since I wear the heck out of my H&M, plus it's more affordable and holding up well, I've decided it's worth continuing to shop there. Thanks for the helpful video!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Glad the video was helpful Wendy!

[@marylhere]

I have found that early releases are usually better quality….that goes for Old Navy as well. Avoid those $10 sweaters like the plague. I bought a jersey from Old Navy some fifteen years ago second hand….still going strong. Washes like a dream. Thing I watch for are sleeves that aren’t cut out on the bias and they strangle your arms when you move.

[@anng.r.687]

Seeing your items is sobering to me. Among my closet, and extra stored bins, i have 419 clothing items (including footwear). I need to keep eliminating. It’s tough because ’I love’ everything I’ve collected through the seasons and years.

[@EmilyWheatley]

That's ok though. I think it's more about curating a wardrobe that you love and if you love all those pieces and that's what works for you, then there you go. I've gone super minimalist with my wardrobe, but don't think everyone has to go that minimal if it doesn't work for them.

[@anng.r.687]

@@EmilyWheatley Thank you. The trouble is, i want to be more minimalist. But i have costly blazers and pieces that i hesitate to let go of. I am sick of being ‘a storage unit’ or a ‘museum of favorite pieces’. I will continue to see if I can pare down. Last year was supposed to be a no buy year. But ended up being a conscientious LOW buy until Black Friday, then it all broke loose. I’m trying again for a strict LOW BUY-no new purchases, only replacements if necessary. Don’t quit quitting...right?!

[@earthmother4507]

Vested Interests said something that really resonated with me. She said that if you have an expensive piece that just collects dust in a closet it doesn't really have any value at all. Hearing that pushed me to sell some of those items

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Don’t feel bad, I probably have twice that. I do love and wear everything, though.

[@karlashmeedavlasta6365]

Go make it an even Number! Order 81 other pieces!

[@lena1122]

Just what I needed today LOL I’m “trying” to declutter but I have such a hard time... as a very moon 🌙 person I dress for my mood so there are many “me” to dress and I have quite the eclectic style. The one thing we all agree ( 😂 sounds like a multiple personality disorder ) the fabric! Yes! That’s how I can get rid of clothing. I don’t like polyester either. Love Gus advice! He is so adorable 😍 Emily in your intro you mentioned not feeling the difference of the new year. True it’s not in the outside. Begins inside everyone of us and has to do with clarity of what makes us feel good and bad and take the choice that feeds us and enrich our lives and those surrounding us. If everyone did that the inner work will soon translates to the outside. Thankfully we don’t need to single handle change the word. It’s all about inner and our surroundings. I actually did feel the change at Solstice. The sun is brighter, the birds are more animated and my dreams have been super bright/real and lucid. Avoid watching the news. It ruins our vibes 😉

[@EmilyWheatley]

Glad the video was helpful and just at the right time for you. Yes I agree that the new year is more of change within. Like I said I do love New Year because I feel like it's a fresh start. I love that it is sort of a reset as well. Thanks as always for your beautiful comment. Hope you're having a good start to the New Year Lena.

[@Mom2BoysBH]

OK, I watched this and then tackled my own closet. It was hard because I have more clothes than you but also because I have been losing weight. I previously gained weight, LOL, so there were a variety of sizes in there and I had to try a lot on. Jeans make me so angry, I kept jeans ranging in size from 10 to 16 which is just ridiculous. Anyway, now I am tired and have to go put everything back. Haha! Thanks for the inspiration!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, it is a hard process, but feels so good when finished. Thank you so much for sharing with us Tracey!

[@zenabraithwaite1934]

Great advice. Will be doing mine soon. X

[@EmilyWheatley]

Have fun Zena!

[@mybagoftheday1722]

This was very interesting to watch. No skirts or dresses, or did I miss a part? I organise my clothes in a similar way. Now I feel better as I thought my ten pairs of jeans were too much. Or eight after I decluttered. Funny how when watching you go through your clothes I was keeping my thumbs up hoping you would get rid of more items! But it is hard to do for your own wardrobe.

[@EmilyWheatley]

There was one skirt I mentioned but no dresses. I have only a couple dresses that I have stored away for occasions. But I don't wear dresses on a regular daily basis. Yes, probably could have gotten rid of more, sorry I didn't get your thumbs up :-( Thanks for your comment though Mybagoftheday!!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I’m more of a dress gal, I have lots, but they are casual and classic.

[@Poisondime16]

I love how human you are. Sometimes it's so hard to get rid of pieces. Why is that? I'm going through this now.

[@skihillsandy]

This is exactly like I do mine but only 2 times per year, I also look for repair & cleaning needs if Items and make a list of needed items, I include shoes & bags at the end too. Thanks👍🏽

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yea I'd say I only do 2 big clean outs a year and then maybe some smaller ones. I'm glad you can relate. Thank you Sandy!

[@haleygrigg9571]

gauzy grey can go, check out the discoloration under the arms

[@thechicantique4567]

Wow! I think you may have just solved my itching...I'm allergic to synthetic fibers! Now I can finally condense my crazy wardrobe. Thank you! 🧡👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay! Glad to hear it!

[@HakazeAyase]

I’ve been putting it off and making excuses but now I really will go through, reassess and cull my wardrobe.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay!! Happy de cluttering!!

[@kalliopixanthopoulos6247]

What red lipstick do you wear?

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I have only one pair of black skinnies, one pair of each color/was/style combo. I’m moving away from skinnies, even though I’m a rectangle, too, I love all the other newer, looser cuts better, and they are more comfortable and stay up on my straight figure better.

[@donnaboyle7513]

I have a tiny 2’ closet and 3 drawers, so I’m always decluttering because all of my items (coats, athletic gear, and accessories included) must fit. My wardrobe is mostly basics with some flair here and there and I don’t mind; I love it. If I don’t love it, it goes. If I buy something new, something old goes. I’m regretting an oversize sweater purchase because it requires too much storage space.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Love that! Thanks for sharing!!

[@susannehakanlind2942]

Keep the demin grey! 👌

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Susanne!!

[@denisecarter5117]

I enjoyed this and you.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Denise!

[@ElleDaily]

Totally agree on hoping 2021 would magically make all of 2020’s craziness disappear. Hah! Great video as always Emily! Lots of emotion going through a closet - keep the Denim gray and definitely the pink since Gus loves it! Too cute ;)

[@EmilyWheatley]

Haha yes will definitely keep the pink for Gus! Thank you Elle, I'm glad you enjoyed the video! :-)

[@kathyesargent9088]

Looking beautiful today Happy New Year❤️❤️❤️🥳

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Kathye!! :-)

[@susangoodrichlerner7819]

Hi Emily! What do you do with your dressy outfits, for weddings, etc.?

[@robynography7487]

Thanks for taking the time to create your content! I really enjoy your channel. I do have a question on this topic. I have been on some medication that notoriously causes weight gain. I’ve gained 30 lbs. Ugh! I am slowly weaning off the meds. I’m unwilling to accept the weight, but it may be hard and a long journey to lose. I still have to get dressed. My question is, do I just let go of the majority of things in my closet that are way to small now (because they assault me on a daily basis when I walk into my closet) and just replace them later? As you know, it’s hard to let go, especially when you still like the item and know how much it would cost to replace. 😩🥵😬help!

[@reneesmith695]

Keep the denim grey shirt! ❤️

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thanks Renee!!

[@sonialeaning2065]

Could you sew up the split in the back of the navy shirt?

[@EmilyWheatley]

Definitely a possibility, but think it'd need more altering as it would be an odd silhouette once connected. But should maybe bring to a tailor. Thanks Sonia

[@lynnetrue4103]

Lots of people tie shirts in front....wonder what that back split would look like tied?

[@sheilakosoff5806]

Yes. Fabric is everything. It is usually a reason I don’t wear an item that looks good but winds up not feeling good. You live for a stripe. I live for colorful button up silky shirts I noticed as I purge there are things that I don’t wear that I love but don’t want to ruin. Is that crazy?

[@sheilakosoff5806]

Yes Keep your blazer! They really elevate basic looks.

[@EmilyWheatley]

No, I get that, I definitely have pieces that I've had in the past that I'm scared to wear because of ruining. But COVID has helped me with that, now I have no problem wearing my cashmere or other nice pieces around the house for daily life. And realized if the clothes are quality they hold up. And most of the time if something happens it can be fixed- tears, holes, stains.

[@mai567]

I organise clothes by category and then within category by length and then by colour. So, for example, 1 category would be skirts, separated into longer and shorter, and then longer go from darker to lighther, next to it shorter skirts - darker to lighter. Tops, unless they are tunics, in which case that's a separate adjoining category, by length of sleeves, then by colour. My mom adopted this system too. Because it's easier to find what you're looking for. I know, for example that that day I want to wear a short sleeve top, and then just figure out what I'm in the mood for and what matched with the bottom.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, great suggestion. Thank you Mai!

[@TigeyKat]

I’m just now finding an interest in my wardrobe and how to make it work. I won’t lie though.... when the jeans came out to be assessed? I almost had an anxiety attack- I have that many or more pair- and I can’t part with a single one! Greetings from across the river, but I may have to move that collection to another room to be “ignored” 😂

[@EmilyWheatley]

If you're not ready to part with them, then that is fine. Jeans are difficult one for sure. Thanks for sharing with us Marie!

[@krock1011]

I always set aside pieces on my dressing rack. If I don't pull them off to wear in 6-8 mos (Michigan weather is too unpredictable to go a season) then they leave.

[@SusanBRoman-ch9bm]

LOL I had the blue Club Monaco slit back shirt. I could never back it work.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Haha oh good! I'm glad I'm not the only one. Also, it was so drafty :-)

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Could you wear a same-color silk tank under it? Won’t work tucked-in, I imagine.

[@dianariglet4257]

Terrific video! Thanks Emily! It was helpful to see what you got rid of & why. I like a lot of the designers you have in your closet: Everlane, Club Monaco. These are a couple of my fav designers too. I'm on a mission to pick up a few blazers. Besides Club Monaco, which other designers do you like? Lafayette 450 NY? Veronica Beard? (Looking for all on sale...) I love top quality & I'm okay with a blend for spring/summer. Loving your videos! Thanks girl!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Diana! I've become really obsessed with Nili Lotan lately. Another one is Bassike.

[@tl2940]

Any suggestions for tunic tops? I can’t tuck them in because they are too long. I think they might be dated. I am 60 years old and trying to avoid becoming frumpy.

[@creativecorner4715]

You looking lovely ❤️

[@donnaboyle7513]

Denim gray. :)

[@EmilyWheatley]

:-)

[@kinga3546]

Loved it :) thank you

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Kinga!

[@janetjaken1389]

Keep both grey shirts 😊

[@tiffanyguidolin1192]

Just thought of a Thirsty Thursday question. If you wear a nice outfit and no one sees it, did the nice outfit happen? Lauren Messiah brought up the idea on KZbin and I was wondering what your take was on it. Thanks and love your channel 😁

[@EmilyWheatley]

Oooooh that's a great question! Love that, than you!!

[@yolandapagan5656]

FYI: This video would not allow me to give you a thumbs up! You definitely get the thumbs up👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Yolanda!!

[@kathygann7632]

Sew up the back of the silk shirt. It is really easy to do.

[@kymmulvey]

I have been realizing that I used to wear bright and colorful patterns but over the past few years I feel overwhelmed by those things and am wearing plain clothes and lots of grey white black navy and blues and forest green . I’m not sure what is happening.. age..personality.. shift in self image?? Anyone else noticed that things have changed over the years? I live in the subtropics and the sunlight is strong.. it washes out brights.. so it’s not unusual for people to wear strong colours.

[@EmilyWheatley]

My style has changed massively over the years and keeps changing. I use to wear bold colors and prints all the time and mix them as well. But then realized I really like the neutrals. But who knows, maybe I'll come back round to the bold colors again. I think it's normal to have ebbs and flows with our style. Thanks for sharing with us Kym!!

[@losingmychic]

Unlike Emily it has taken me to nearly age 50 to work out that I don't like the 'attention' I feel brighter colours or patterns give. I feel I want to be classic like Ines de la Fressange, Emmanuelle Alt and stick to classic looks now so yes I can definitely relate! :)

[@kathyesargent9088]

Keep the gray one

[@EmilyWheatley]

:-)

[@sweetberries683]

I have lot of clothes too unbelievable

[@EmilyWheatley]

:-) It happens, that's why it's so fun to declutter. Thanks Red!

[@DisneyNever]

Save the ‘chamgrey’... nice drape and color way. Cashmere wrap... I couldn’t let that go until the moths win the battle.

[@EmilyWheatley]

I never will let go of the Cashmere wrap, and since this video I've worn it so much. Thank you Gretchen!! :-)

[@martinebirnbaum2070]

From a french fan, did you try wearing your beanies on the forehead, nearer your beautiful eyes ......

[@falsehoodbasher7240]

What are what-ifs?

[@c.antonia3133]

Where can i get a turtleneck like yours? i have been looking for a black and white striped one for months but can't find anything made of decent fabric.

[@EmilyWheatley]

This one is from Everlane but KOTN make some amazing Turtlenecks as well.

[@moniquemcgeachy1206]

All my T-shirts get holes on the front where they touch the area around the pant button. Wear them a few times and there they are. Does this ever happen to you ?

[@EmilyWheatley]

It doesn't but I tuck my shirts a lot so they don't get a chance to rub on the button

[@katyhauck2414]

Go Minnesota!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay!!

[@tammygarrett9261]

Keep all sweaters. Haha.☺

[@cavewitch]

denim grey stays.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Paulette! :-)

[@marlenegomes4008]

the music in the beginning :D

[@EmilyWheatley]

:-)

[@janetjaken1389]

Do you iron pants before you wear them?

[@EmilyWheatley]

I don't usually, unless I want the middle crease look.

[@romeoslover817]

Major life change: from working ,business casual and some business without the casual (never worn). Now I am retired, with full closet(s) of stuff I really do not need. I pretty much live in crappy tshirts with picture and sayings, and jeans. I have jeans so long, I thinkI watched 2 towers come down in them. I need to step it up some, and purge all that work wear. I have so much that it is embarrassing to take stuff to donate somewhere. But I am sick of everything.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Oooh I do love the idea of good ole graphic tees and well worn jeans. But I get it if you're over it. Nothing wrong with having a refresh in the wardrobe and someone will find good use out of your old clothes. Good luck on the style journey!

[@deanacincotta2236]

What brand was the "26% polyester" striped top?

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thakoon. Such amazing quality in the design and construction, just not a fan of the fabric.

[@jnelsimpson1190]

I would say get rid of the black gauzy *unless* you rock that in the summertime--? Also... you GO Vikings girl! I am Vikes supporter all the way!🙋‍♀️🙌🏈

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, love it! Thank you J!!

[@pamchambersconsulting3210]

I have two pairs of denim jeans and one pair of khakis. I have five T-shirts, three sweaters, three skirts, six pairs of shoes, two dresses, three black pants. I think there might be something wrong with me.

[@tammygarrett9261]

Keep both grays.

[@elizabethkoepplinger3264]

Keep the grey chambray shirt.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Will do! Thank you Elizabeth!

[@pamelacolson310]

Lose the gauzy grey button up. The denim button up has longer staying power in my opinion. 😃

[@EmilyWheatley]

Great point, I agree! Thanks Pamela

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Also, maybe the dark color doesn’t match the summer fabric? This is a mistake I used to make a lot.

[@rweckermykids]

I swear I've seen recent videos of you stylizing outfits that included pieces you did not show here. I could be wrong, maybe watching older videos. However, you have so few pieces showing in this video. I think you chose just one capsule to declutter? I think I can actually tackle my closet declutter if I do it capsule by capsule. The most difficult part for me is realizing that I do not/will not wear pieces that I do love and paid good money for!!!

[@EmilyWheatley]

This was my whole wardrobe. I think the decluttering by capsule is a great idea. Definitely try that out and let us know how it goes.

[@lizabean723]

great video! i kind of hope you got rid of both of those gray button-ups, they both have armpit discoloration. ;)

[@AndyTausK]

🤔 i missed your Everlane jumpsuit... ??!

[@EmilyWheatley]

I know, I realized I forgot my Everlane Jumpsuit and an Everlane Romper because I had them both hanging in the guest closet.

[@AndyTausK]

@@EmilyWheatley i love my Everlane jumpsuit so much, i can‘t forget!😍😂 Greetings from cologne

[@denisearonow4921]

I find "Have I worn it in the last three months?" is on hold during the pandemic.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, definitely might not be the right rule for everyone. For me it works because I've been trying to get dressed like I normally would before. Thanks Denise!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Polyester is so rough, itchy and sweaty/clammy on me that I’ve had to ban it from my wardrobe, with the one exception of skirts than I can wear with my, very old, silk slips under them. I so wish silk slips were available now, or even nylon. I tried the polyester ones, they just rode up and clung to the clothes and skin, wrinkling everything up around the hips, what’s the point? I did find wonderful silk/rayon 60/40 slips on Amazon, but the U-necklines are cut too high for V-necks, and I don’t always want a full-slip, I need half-slips/ petticoats, too, to wear with synthetic skirts. I just can’t find all the skirts and dresses I want in silk, the selection is very limited.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Forgot to say: I discovered that as little as 4%(!) poly content still causes this problem for me, I haven’t found anything with less to try on. Some people claim to not be bothered by it, so I wondered if it could be an allergy or sensitivity? But, then, no, my ultimate test is “would men put up with polyester shirts?”. A resounding NO. Men set boundaries that women will cross; they don’t shop where there are only three sizes or one length, won’t wear uncomfortable fabrics or shoes, insist on inside pockets in their blazers, etc. We women need to do the same, make your preferences known with your wallet. Once I searched a site for “genuine mulberry silk shirts”, one came up that I liked, when I got it it was polyester, I returned it, with an explanation.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, great point about poly. I think women do let their standards slide sometimes for the sake of how something looks.

[@kbsyoutube3304]

I am probably late to the party but I would say keep the denim gray button up! It is super cute!!!

[@pippypopz5126]

Wow you have a lot of clothes

[@heidishmidi]

Ahhh! I just found you and love your vibe but I was *thisclose* to actually squealing when you said you were from MN. I’m not from MN myself but I’m one of your neighbors to the west. :)

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay!! ND? SD?

[@heidishmidi]

@@EmilyWheatley Fargo area :)

[@vvip3rz779]

Me too regards you’re child what a lovely polite child .

[@EmilyWheatley]

:-)

[@luzsalas7583]

The darker one

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Luz!!

[@AndyTausK]

And by the way : please, keep the gray button up shirt.

[@sabinek.4072]

You are so beautiful!

[@marylhere]

Be very careful with that 3 to 6 month rule if you live in an area with multiple seasons. My sister and I did this method and I found long after she was gone I had no sweaters in the middle of January.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, thank you Mary!

[@MemyinCOLORADO]

Just curious, why are you waiting for covid to end to "rock" a pair of pants? I'm new here ,so maybe there's something I don't know, :)

[@lisamcculloh9584]

I’m desperate! I’m in my 60’s and have completely lost my style. Like you, I like to wear edgy stuff. But, I can’t put an outfit together anymore. Juniors clothes are too revealing , too short or the fabric looks cheap. The clothes in the ladies dept. are so drab and shapeless. I shop on Poshmark and have found a few retro dresses I love, but mostly I end up wearing jeans and a T-shirt. Where can I learn how to put an outfit together again, where can I go to shop for stuff I like and how do I figure out what my statement pieces are? Help! My self confidence is at an all time low!

[@jenniferlavender4391]

Keep denim grey

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you Jennifer!