how i defeated my stalker...

Ben is coming to you LIVE from VIDCON with the epic tale of how they defeated their stalker! After blowing up on TikTok during the pandemic, Ben started getting knocks at the door of his parent's house from strangers asking for "BENOFTHEWEEK". What was Ben to do? How was he to navigate these encounters?! You won't want to miss this special episode of DRAMA MAMA!!
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[@Idekwhattoput524]

I can’t imagine how terrifying having someone STALKING you is

[@ttigbybtm]

It's very terrifying, these are crazy people that are like stalking other people and it's definitely not a normal behavior of a normal human being therefore it should not be normalized.

[@demondog1097]

I can🥲

[@MyahLovesCoffees]

It happened to me before and it was not fun I had to move 3 times😢

[@Idekwhattoput524]

@@MyahLovesCoffees Omg that’s scary did you ever call the police?

[@Idekwhattoput524]

@@ttigbybtm i agree i think they are dangerous and need to be put in jail and get mental help.

[@Short_circuited.]

Years of being stalked?!? Jeez dude your brave!

[@retropallet]

FR

[@KextelOffical]

REAL

[@Restaurantchain]

FOR REAL

[@Claire13137]

He is fr so brave

[@beeateabee]

honestly can’t imagine how that must’ve been

[@maddysophie0249]

i’m genuinely so sorry this happened, you didn’t deserve this at all

[@Janecox-pg9mn]

this is gonna sound random, but ages ago i remember listening to one of bens podcasts and it was about like drugs and weed and how he did drugs kinda acidently and he was in an international country and then like missed his plane or somehting , and i found it very interesting but i cant find the episode. Do you know which one it is? please ...

[@Maddi3247]

Ben I’m sorry you went through this. You deserve fuckin the world

[@hot.tamale.x0]

HE DESERVES EVERYTHING❤

[@Maddi3247]

@@hot.tamale.x0 YES HE DOES, he is LITTERALLY the only reason why I’m still alive rn

[@hot.tamale.x0]

@@Maddi3247 SAMEEE

[@Maddi3247]

@@hot.tamale.x0 BEN IS GODDDDDD

[@cheeryslushclub]

​@@Maddi3247let's not take it that far.....

[@criimeandpunishment]

DAMN, BEN SHOWERING US WITH CONTENT. For real though, keep yourself safe, we all care for and love you ben!

[@hot.tamale.x0]

FR I LOVE GETTING CONTENT FROM HIM ❤❤❤

[@trina....]

fr fr 💯 😻‼

[@JESUSLOVESYOU033]

Jesus Christ loves us unconditionally+eternally!He cares for us so much that He sacrificed Himself on the cross for our sins!God is so good!💗✝️

[@RioSol.]

BRO I LOVE YOUR QUACKITY PFP

[@criimeandpunishment]

@@RioSol. TYY

[@joocXD]

Remember, never ever say MY stalker, it makes them feels more entitled to you.

[@miikaomocha]

Yup

[@elisedoesart1081]

What would you say instead?

[@joocXD]

@@elisedoesart1081 how I defeated a person who was stalking me

[@lemonsideddice]

@@elisedoesart1081 Its better to say THE stalker or theres someone stalking me rather than i have a stalker

[@t4yt3rt0teditsss]

@@lemonsideddicethats smart

[@cattlleyak]

Bro I'm so proud of you, Ben. I'm so sorry you went through this, you deserve the universe. Love youuuu

[@Monkeyinsecret]

I love your pfp 🥰

[@PlaytheAubreysNOW]

YOU ARE EVERYWHERE

[@fat_ferret6357]

@@Monkeyinsecret THE RYTH COPYS ARE EVERYWHERE

[@Court123_]

Hi man

[@Janecox-pg9mn]

this is gonna sound random, but ages ago i remember listening to one of bens podcasts and it was about like drugs and weed and how he did drugs kinda acidently and he was in an international country and then like missed his plane or somehting , and i found it very interesting but i cant find the episode. Do you know which one it is? please ...

[@carina.k_22]

i had a stalker for 4 years and it was a journey 🤠 i understand what you went through!

[@spooky_ghost_]

I'm glad your ok !

[@lemonmeat]

ive been stalked for 4 years and different people many times since i was 11, i wish stalking wasnt so common and normalized.. no one deserves it ever

[@spooky_ghost_]

​@@lemonmeatare you ok now ??? If so I'm glad but stay safe ❤❤❤

[@claire-dr8ie]

storytime

[@ImHisRedFlag]

@@claire-dr8ie💀

[@user-tm6um8wy6u]

Having the guts to even think about stalking someone is so weird and embarrassing 😭😭💀

[@crowbarhandler]

yeah like imagine though ☠️ even me following someone to give them something they dropped makes me feel embarrassed so idk how anyone can do that ☠️☠️☠️☠️

[@paccuks]

this is actually crazy. i honestly feel bad for you. i feel bad that u had to experience this, i would never wanna know the feeling of being stalked. im glad that the mother found that out and grounded them, honestly its disgusting how people think stalking is okay. i cant imagine how uncomfortable u probably felt.

[@melanie9035]

I’m sorry you went through this but the crowd not laughing AT ALL is crazy to me 😭

[@Your-Average-Nerd]

They did a laugh sometimes

[@jackvideos1496]

He lowered the audience noise.... are you stupid or sum?

[@shutup6759]

'LITERQALLY LIKE THQT WAS ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT WAS HOW SILENT THE CROWD WAS LIKE WHAT

[@doorframe6716]

I feel like maybe the crowd noise didn't get picked up by the camera microphone as much as his voice did?

[@user-ko7pm5ch3z]

I was there they def were😭

[@CrazyEights-bw6se]

This is absolutely horrible. Ben I am sorry you had to go through this you should never have to. I hope this stalker feels horrible and is filled with regret and shame for the rest of their life. You deserve so much more. WE LOVE YOU BEN😃

[@stay_oddinary-]

Just stay safe! People shouldnt normalize stalking its really stupid and disgusting

[@a1lysonc]

OFF TOPIC BUT SUNNO YOUR PFPP

[@stay_oddinary-]

Yea my bae 😗

[@riroriroriro_]

hearing ben's cheesy side comments "irl" is even more chaotic 😭😭

[@AR1V11X]

im so sorry you went through this ben, and I’m proud of you for staying strong through what happened. luv u ben!

[@orteney.]

sidenote: ben u did great public speaking! u were so engaging and i loved all the little acting bits you did, i honestly would love if u did this more often

[@373sAAAAA]

“You guys won’t stalk me right? “ “ WANNA BET!?”

[@Twilight_Dauntless]

😂😂😂

[@Twilight_Dauntless]

Fr😂😂😂

[@SamDaMan67]

OMG YINYANG FROM INANIMATE INSANITY (Twenty three!)

[@mr.musiciann]

man, i feel so bad for people who have live through this. people dont even deserve this. and im also kinda wondering if his hands are actually shaking due to trying to explain this horrid situation he has been through or if its the tension of just being infront of people, i am so sorry for him. stay safe ben !

[@gigibeal]

it couldve been a mix of both, cuz ik I would be shaking like that if i was i his situation too!! he's a trooper fr though

[@ENNARD444]

I love seeing bens viewers on video laughing from his jokes. Make me feel like im not the only one with dumb humor.

[@riverrr7764]

Btw Ben, don’t address them as “MY stalker” say THE stalker. Because any attention to them Is good attention. Any labeling or roll you give them that’s attached to you at all, they will take that roll

[@mariellaaa217]

ok I know this is serious but, he sounds like that one middle school teacher who shares their most devastating stories. (don’t forget them eating the salad and crying)

[@xclownieXDx]

OMG YES?!?!?! FR

[@whois_valentina]

reminder: never call them YOUR stalker, makes them feel more entitled to you

[@MeganOfWoe]

Tbh, stalker stories always scare me ‘cause I was stalked online for years, and left me filled with immense paranoia. Really ruined how I trusted anyone. But, your vids always make me smile. Your energy is the best. xo

[@herseythebun-bun348]

pretty crazy how he went to living in his mom’s basement making TikTok’s to this

[@Claire13137]

I’m so sorry that you had to go through this ben. You didn’t deserve it! I Love you so much Ben!! ❤

[@selmita]

I'm deeply sorry you experienced this. I can't imagine how it was. You deserve way better. I'm so proud of you for always sharing such things with us, many people struggle to express their traumatic experiences, and it can really damage their mental health. It's so good to speak about such things, and you always do. It has encouraged me and probably others to speak about their mental health. You've helped me and others alot. I appreciate you so much, wish you the best!

[@salaminuggies]

Sadly this is they horror of being a famous person you will get stalker creepy messages as well as people. But people don't deserve to deal and or have to witness this sort of thing. And it will mentally drain you and terrify you and you constantly have to look over your back. and I'm sorry again how you and others deal with this!

[@SmellyEf]

Im so sorry you had to go through all this!! You are amazing!!!

[@isolated_raven2821]

I'm so sorry u went thru that. ur so brave and I'm so proud of you. keep safe and take care ❤️

[@buhbyela]

Never label a stalker by saying "My stalker" it would make them feel more bound to you.

[@skulzz_0z]

my heart reaches out to you, ive had a stalker before and it was genuinely terrifying being in that situation. knowing somebody is always watching you and your every move, them going into detail and stalking to find your MOTHERS house, on top of all of your personal information. i hope your okay, its really scary. we love you ben.

[@bubblezdragons..]

Ben deserves the world, I’m so sorry this happens to you :(

[@jazzywazzywoo1]

Yes a melanie fan!

[@bellacase5756]

Is it just me or was the crowd so dead. Like babes you have BEN infront of you. LIKE BE EXCITED

[@iramahozuki]

I haven't watched the full video yet but I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. Love your blog channel ^^

[@cryystal.]

"Hey there's somebody at your front door trying to kill you to death" makes perfect sense 💀💀💀

[@Respectfully_shut_up.]

Glad ur doing okay dude! That’s crazy!

[@mlolzz]

Ben is in his Karen era🥰 also Ben that must be terrifying to have someone stalking you but I’m glad your okay

[@Almanolsoe]

DANM BEN I'm really sorry you went through that, no one deserves it especially not you. I wish you the best, we all love you sm, take care

[@itztyara4414]

I cant believe u went through that..😢. I hope ur okay, luv u ben❤

[@ilydiana4547]

youre such a great storyteller i love it

[@chillhuman8389]

“WANNA BET IS THAT WHAT YOU SAID” That was the best ending 😂😂

[@Twilight_Dauntless]

Fr

[@julietzadorozhnyy8658]

idk if ben is scared or happy on the stage cuz you can see the fear in him when hes holding that mic and shaking💀 6:32 starts there until 6:38 it ends💀💀 7:17

[@Oddvfx_]

He was prob nervous 😭 i sawl that to

[@julietzadorozhnyy8658]

@@Oddvfx_ loll

[@lilmofo4607]

I mean personally I’d be shitting my pants if I were him

[@jincyjoseph3987]

im addicted listening to your episodes/podcasts

[@ghst657]

sorry you went through that, you deserve the world stay safe

[@hot.tamale.x0]

Ben istg getting this notification that you posted litterally makes my day. Podcast timeeee… ❤

[@blueforeverrez]

Never address a stalker as "My stalker" call them "The stalker." - BOZE 😼😼

[@bubbybubbybubbyy]

YESSS HAHA

[@user-hr1fp3ty5p]

I feel so bad that Ben had to go through that. He doesn’t deserve to go through such a terrifying experience. I, personally, have never been stalked, but I might just know how terrifying this can be, and genuinely, Ben doesn’t deserve this. He deserves everything good in the world, he’s the best person ever and he has the best sense of humor imo. I feel genuinely bad…and for YEARS?! Jeez!! He’s so brave for going through this. Love u Ben, we’re all here for u

[@P0ppyS33d_]

I’m so sorry you went through that Ben :((

[@NOTLEAH66]

Ben omg I hope you are okay!! We are all here for you dont forget that ❤❤

[@user-tl9kz7nh2k]

im so sorry this happened some people r just really messed up out there. glad ur okay tho

[@ToriS61910]

I can tell that ben was SOOOOO ANXIOUS😂 i luv his personality❤

[@Not.here_1000]

Hey ben, I love all the drama in your life and I listen to your spotify podcasts

[@rowanpauly2906]

i am so sorry you went through this.

[@ScorpioRachel]

Love you, Ben. Sorry you had to go through that. 😢

[@lyla9595]

Ben I’m sorry you went through this :(

[@C4PYMATIONS]

benoftheweek is a W, keep defeating rats bro

[@corneliakjrsgaard7988]

Congratulations with 300.000 subscribers🎉🎉

[@user-yz5zy5tr9b]

Ben I’m so sorry u went threw this it must have been so hard keep going ❤

[@Adell1ne]

I LOVE UR VIDEOS SO FREAKING MUCH BEN

[@tootiiluu]

Ok it’s rlly scary being stalked by someone but a child saying Beddover of the week😭😭😭

[@Sl1nkyy]

I remember seeing this live! I hope your okay now, nobody should go through something like that.

[@charleyandre1]

Firsttt I love when Ben posts a podcast episode and I’m gonna listen/watch it tmr bc I start schoolll😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@SCARAMOUCHE_L0VER5]

Thats horrifying im srry you had to go through that

[@cartoonhyperfixated]

These people have dedication and a lot of courage

[@kimdraxla]

omg im sorry that happened, im glad you're safe now

[@user-gg5yd1md6y]

As someone who had a stalker for 8 years im so sorry

[@Sai0nRoblox]

8 years?! I'm so sorry

[@-luhvr-]

Ben I’m so sorry..I can’t believe someone would stalk you, u are the most kindest person ever who ever did that should be very sorry

[@Pjs_phone]

Ben i feel so bad about how you had SOMEONE STALKING YOU and I just want to say that you don’t deserved that you have made my bad days fade away as you make funny videos, I love your work and I hope good things happen in your life❤

[@lemonsideddice]

im so sorry this happened to you also dont refer to them as MY stalker because that makes them feel that theyre still like connected to you or whatever if that makes sense its better to refer to them as THE stalker

[@carmenm9811]

BEN why did you literally slay this outfit ❤❤❤

[@sulochanividanalage4614]

Bens a good story teller

[@Lorelei725]

Honestly,people expect that there favorite KZbinr is gonna just let them in there house and hangout and make videos When there NOT AND ITS SO UNCOMFORTABLE FOR THE PEOPLE,THEY DONT KNOW EACHOTHER AND PEOPLE NEED TO RELIZE THIS MAKES PEOPLE VERY UNCOMFORTABLE AND STUFF and i hope ben wont quit,if he decides to do it,its ok bc we want the best for him!

[@mayplays8290]

6:14 I don’t know why but I loved this so much

[@AdelieDoyle]

congrats on 300k!!!!

[@sevsaidso]

dude i am so sorry u went through this.

[@Iknoweverything-yc4wx]

Sorry you got stalked, love the fit tho

[@Artforest606]

I’m so sorry that some people are so- insane. You deserve so much better! Your always making content for us and your so brave for putting up with a stalker. Stay safe

[@olgathecupcake3473]

Hi ben!!! I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND I BELIEVE THAT THIS EPISODE IS GONNA BE AMAZING 🎸🎸🎸

[@ashlynnemcdonald5141]

I am so sorry you had. To deal with that

[@oliviasalmon9582]

Ayyy let’s goooo best podcast

[@blobby.the.fat.dinosaur]

Him coming in to talk about his trauma is so funny to me ngl

[@Sai0nRoblox]

real

[@vonztein]

being stalked is my worst nightmare 🫡

[@cora2479]

im so sorry ben that this happened to you. nobody deserves to be stalked unless youre a serial killer and the police are looking for you lmao. but for real nobody should go through this

[@cassie7042]

WOAH THERE BEN

[@emmaislas-dance]

HI BEN I LOVE UR VIDS AND CRAZY STORIES SM YOU SHOULD BRING BACK I ALMOST DIED!!!

[@riroriroriro_]

"stuck between a rock and a place that's harder" had me on the floor 😭 Ben's great

[@neptuneafifi9734]

i read the title and i freaked tf out😭😭

[@Luvmilyxxx]

Im so sorry you had to go trough this. You didn't deserve that. Stay safe❤❤❤

[@user-yl7tp7ku8n]

I’m sorry I went through that . I hope ur ok now

[@cortezwilkinson2552]

Why would she add him or why can't she just block him☠️

[@slrpsquad]

u can see ben shaking stop 😭😭

[@AaronPrebeck]

Keep up the good work

[@kyn354]

i’m so sorry ben :( no one deserves this.

[@ashleymay_]

that seems so terrifying yet the kid falling and the karen mom’s message was the comedic cherry on top haha!

[@doit9times]

so sorry u went thru that but i'm glad u got rid of em OFFTOPIC BUT UR OUTFIT ATEE

[@hadersbehading]

i love his ringgg

[@polarbear2758]

The Fact That Nobody In The Audience Laughed Yet Somehow I Am Litterary On The Floor

[@holylordfrogbean]

Stalkers need to get a life or something, you cannot watch people sleep and think what you're doing is legal. People need to find a better way to appreciate their favorite icons. I'm glad you dealt with them. You always do a good job, and you did this while putting out content for us. What a king👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!!!

[@twispringg]

i am so sorry ben, i’m so sorry you had to go through something like this.

[@sheilawebb5180]

Im so sorry this happened

[@kamryn8930]

YESSS BEN GOOD JOB OF BEATING THE STALKER