How I Manage To Start A Conversation With Anyone

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We've all been there, you see someone that you want to meet, but you aren't quite sure what to say. You get nervous and overthink it, and eventually you don't say anything at all.
That scenario is awful, so in this video you're going to learn 5 easy ways to start a conversation in any situation.
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0:16 - #1: "Hey, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm..."
0:43 - #2: "Hey, I know this is totally random, but..."
1:25 - #3: The "Tourist" Technique.
2:12 - #4: The "Ben Franklin".
2:53 - #5: The spontaneous complement.
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[@Toppu]

Introverts be like: "So, uh, do you like oxygen"?

[@Sercil00]

Actually, it makes me uneasy to think I'm constantly breathing the stuff, even though it's actually toxic for humans. Air has only 21% oxygen, we couldn't take 100%. Isnt it sick that everybody thinks air is just oxygen when it's just 1/5, and we need it to survive even though it poisons us? (keeps droning on while all the introverts look around, wondering how they'll gracefully escape the conversation)

[@Raikku]

Umm no, if ur an introvert it doesn't mean that u are bad at sociality. WE just like it alone...

[@k13m13]

@Dyler Turden haha did you learn that from a tyler durden? ;)

[@edi9892]

Reminds me of: _then you remember how nice it was being able to breathe..._

[@jgv]

I would instantly like the person who approached me with that phrase! It lets me know that he or she is completely aware of the inherent trouble of conversation starting, but in a surprising and funny way.

[@abuhuraira3685]

I hate the fact that If I don't start the conversation There won't be one

[@real765rp8]

While i get where you're coming from there must have been some instances where some stranger just randomly talked to you.

[@Guitarded]

@@real765rp8 his name is abu, no they don't.

[@venkatdenduluri816]

@@Guitarded 😂

[@QuillASMR]

Why have you typed your comment like this?

[@Nikifuj908]

That was almost a haiku, but line 2 has two extra syllables and line 3 is missing one

[@samk.511]

Best conversation starter in the bathroom: "What's up? Takin a couple drips?"

[@inextrikable-]

How does it smell in there

[@Spanky1]

Second Best Bathroom Conversation Starter: "Hey, you sure do have a pretty mouth".

[@Gigusx]

"Hey. Wanna do a pissing contest? The loser(s) stays here forever."

[@IlmeeMintz]

Great tips. “I haven’t met you yet “ is my favorite and so useful.

[@mattsavage6365]

This feels very useful starting out in a new company or at business events and beats awkwardly sliding into a group of people who know each other already and awkwardly stuttering your own name.

[@eliaspianomusic]

absolutely!

[@amywilson2741]

Similarly when your in those types of events and you have been in a circle with someone a couple times but not directly spoken/been introduced yet a simple hey we haven't officially met is great too

[@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075]

@@mattsavage6365 it sure isn't anything i ever would've thought of trying on my own lol

[@Kj16V]

Me, a sociable T800: "Hi. I know this is random, but I love your clothes, your boots and your motorcycle. Give them to me. Now."

[@JimmyEagle]

Hey Bruv, "I know this is totally random, but" I'm on the spectrum and these videos are helpful. I like how it's not all PUA and dominance stuff. More content on eye contact and facial expressions would be good too!

[@n8thegreat445]

an old trick to fake eye contact if you're way too nervous is to look at people in the point between their eyes. They won't really know and you can ask someone to test it on you to. For facial expressions, if you mean how to understand them better, I honestly think being open with others and asking them what that expressions means could help you form a deeper connection with them because you allow yourself to be vulnerable to them and they also get to help you out and understand you better. Good luck out there :)

[@Gigusx]

*You walk into a coffee shop. You choose your target* - Hey, could you watch my stuff for a moment? *You look around and see many people inside. You choose 5 of them and walk up to one after another* - Hey! Could you watch that guy watching my stuff for a moment while I go and take a dump? *You walk out and see a random guy who's about to go into the shop* - Hey! Could you kindly do me a favor and stop anybody who'd try to make it out with my stuff while I do some weed there where nobody sees? *You go back to the first person* - Thanks, dude! I gotta go, bye! *You go out. None of the people you talked to notices you. They're all too busy intensely looking at the first person, focusing all their energy on doing you a favor, a favor that will never be returned*

[@singhparminderfan9807]

Is this supposed to be a Joe Goldberg monologue from the show You?

[@sujeethange8033]

ROFL, literally

[@nblack7314]

😂😂😂that's just awesome i love it so much

[@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075]

this sounds like something from an episode of a sitcom lol

[@davidyuan1402]

1) Hey I don't think I've met you yet. I'm ______ 2) Hey I know this is totally random but _____ (whatever you notice about the person or situation) 3) Tourist Technique (Allow yourself to be the lost tourist and ask locals for recommendations) "Hey I'm new to the area do you ___" 4) Ben Franklin Method (Ask for a small favor and then start the conversation; indirect method) 5) Spontaneous Compliment follows by a Cold Read "Wow you've got great style are you a fashion designer?"; Has to be genuine and avoid complimenting body Thanks for everything Charlie!!

[@tristanwalhain8601]

'ight, conversation starters, check Gimme some conversation continuers

[@TheFuturistTom]

I've been watching Charisma on Command for years. I liked their videos. That is why I decided to create my own sci-fi/futurist Channel. 👍🙂

[@kendall1522]

Dangg it seemed like only yesterday I was watching you at only 527k subscribers. Now you’re at 4 million?! Congrats & thanks for changing peoples lives!

[@jessicadickinson5478]

This is great info! I'm one of those people who can be super socially awkward sometimes, so I'm excited to practice these 🙃

[@elvillivle]

I won't be using any of these tips as people here are taking social distancing too seriously but here I am watching anyway.

[@NarangaravZorigt]

PRO TIP: *Have a friend creep someone out, and be the hero.* Me: *walks up to stranger* "That guy's been following you around" Stranger: What? Who are you?! Me: Come with me and you'll be safe. 😏

[@ladamita_exe]

What the f

[@idkname2957]

Did I just see a kidnap happen

[@heyprettykeepsmiling]

Hey, I know it's totally random but would you do me a small favor and pretend to be a creep so I can befriend that stranger over there?

[@AbeyantHero]

Would you happen to have any tips on feeling nervous upon meeting someone in person for the 1st time, despite having built up communication online only prior? It tends to weigh heavy w/ the pressure of having invested norms to overcome. Thanks for the content as usual

[@dvine3488]

I tried this but realised that u can make a best friend out of someone when u randomly start a convo over a random thing like randomly over a project or something else,rather than introducing urself first coz I tried and no one was interested to listen,they were like yes whatever

[@benjaminkjellerup5148]

Cool video! Could you guys maybe make a charisma breakdown on Jude Law and/Or Dicky Greenleaf from The talented mr. Ripley? He has some kind of nonchalant charm, and it would be so cool to learn that!

[@hiim7686]

Hey!!! Can you make a video of "who is going to win this year and why" I was very impressed by your logical arguments back in 2016. Thanks

[@karina.rimkuse]

Thank you so so so much for this, as a reserved person I have always had this big problem and you just helped it a toooon

[@felipesotomayor42096]

Hey Charlie, why don't you make a video about Charisma University? I really want to know how it really works, maybe you or Ben can make a short clip about it.

[@whereeveritgoes]

'Wow this is crazy, we're both ugly. Wanna grab some coffee?'

[@Doofwarrior88]

Make sure a compliment is genuine. A leaving a compliment just to flatter someone can be easily be seen as a thinly vale attempt at a pick up. Actually mean what you say. Don't just think of some random compliment on the spot. My friend never understood this. He always used the same laundry list of Compliments. And he never got anywhere. Meanwhile I looked for small key details and brought them up.

[@saulbadman5705]

Really like this new style of animated shorts, keep it up!

[@pseudofilosofiaantiguru3068]

this guy really helping out, cheers to you mate, love your vids

[@tayfurtado]

I think your videos are very interesting and I learn a lot with them. The only thing is that you speak too fast and sometimes it’s hard to absorb the content. I end up distracted and having to rewind to watch a part that I missed again. There were a few times that I gave up watching a video because of that. I hope you don’t get me wrong. It’s just my opinion and probably most people don’t think that way. Great video btw. Thank you!!!

[@undefeatedchampion7820]

2:20 Me:hey man can you watch my stuff I need to do something Random guy:sure *comes back and sees guy running off with my stuff* Me:🤦‍♂️...

[@Samuel-mc1on]

Please make a video about Bill Burr🙏

[@Kristian179]

the ben Franklin technique leads to the door in the foot technique

[@PhSilentMew2]

Would it be a stretch to pull off a fitness related question? Something like “hey you seem really in shape! do you work out?” It’s very common to see boys talking a lot about working out, but i’ve also seen girls talk about their fitness and am curious if this is a type conversation you only have with friends or one you could risk with strangers.

[@thebananafox4186]

Great, now I can find friends

[@prettysmile6869]

It also has to do with the surrounding your in. Country, culture or habbits.

[@kennym.4664]

I've always thought the one about walking into a bar and asking someone about "fun things to do" is an awful opener. If you're not there to have fun, then why are you there? If you're not having fun, then why are you still there? It's just always struck me as being counter-productive. The rest are some great ones. I'd never heard of the "Ben Franklin Effect", so that was pretty interesting to hear about.

[@ayhandiker9167]

Great

[@birdinacan]

If someone asked me out of nowhere to watch something for them I would feel immediately physically uncomfortable.

[@awkweird_panda]

With Charlie we all knew that tourist technique was already coming🤣🤣

[@beastlymarek]

This is great!

[@brunofailache]

As a brazilian I can't help laughing when I read "CU" in giant capital letters in your videos. And I know you know what I mean, Charlie! LOL

[@valentinpopescu98]

What if they steal your backpack if you go with the Ben Franklin approach?

[@TheRealMirCat]

#3 "Hi, please mug me."

[@nick_ncj382]

Amazing video

[@jemmac5433]

YAYYYY ITS CHARLIE THIS TIME

[@MrCheater89]

I kind of like that video, but I'm also pretty sure it won't work in my country Austria. I can't think of a single way this will not become weird. It's just something you don't do. It might work with people you know a little, like if you're getting a coffee at work. But approaching a completely random stranger in public, for example you see a good looking woman passing by at the train station, and want to get to know her. It just won't work unless, you look like Zac Efron.

[@sunnabluhm9790]

Faceblind here. Introduced myself to my own sister... who looks exactly like me. Fun times.

[@Gigusx]

Same! It usually ends up with me staring at somebody for 5-10 seconds trying to figure out if I know them or not, lol.

[@jameshumphries5059]

What thumbnail font is that?

[@Cam-ot8tl]

2:15 Ahhhh, yes. Ask random people to watch your stuff for you in hopes of not being robbed.

[@START_TALKING]

Great ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@abhinavjain785]

Music??

[@MultiLightDark]

Hey i know this is totally random but i saw that you're wearing shoes? Do you wear them every time you go out?

[@davidconrad7970]

When you arrive so fast the summary guy isn't here 😒

[@philchristensen2787]

Worst moment at church: "Hi, my name is Phil," with my hand extended. Response: "I know who you are," and maintains eye contact while refusing to lift hand. Yuck!

[@keitatsutsumi]

0:30 why her hair flowing like that indoors 🤨

[@JovazPulse]

Keita Tsutsumi there in a party tent🙃

[@SquishEESpark]

"Hey, I know this is totally random, but I saw you were wearing a t-shirt. I also happen to like wearing t-shirts, so you see we must have a lot in common. Let's grab brunch."

[@kenrickmiu9849]

Nailed it, gonna use it

[@MomoshiroTakeshi94]

@@kenrickmiu9849 dont do this dont do dis

[@BenB-yh4wy]

MomoshiroTakeshi94 lol hey

[@BenB-yh4wy]

MomoshiroTakeshi94 lol why ***

[@alicegreen8132]

It's an amazing comment are u commentator??????!??!?!?

[@zorankranicz3837]

-Hey, could you watch my stuff while I go to the bathroom? -Sure *leaves with your stuff* -Hey I know that's totally random but the guy who was sitting here just stole my stuff, lets be friends

[@billysinge8977]

Big brain time.

[@alexandracomus755]

Your comment is funny; are you a comedian?

[@benedictprove3937]

@@alexandracomus755 Hey, I'm new here. What's a comedian?

[@MadiThomasXO]

Bruh 😂

[@alexandracomus755]

nice

[@davidmustaine997]

Still learning to be human. They are getting less suspicious. Soon i will walk among them. Thank you charisma on command.

[@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075]

if you have to tell humans you're also human, you may have compromised yourself, you may need to return to the lab for more tweaks :D

[@KingofNewYorkkk]

Oh no....they're coming to us. Quick, hop in the chamber!

[@kSujalpatel1]

That's really funny

[@nameisrango]

"hey I'm new to this planet, can you please tell who's your leader??"

[@arjo_nagelhout]

* bleep bloop *

[@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075]

oh really? where are you from? i'm from imaginenationland where all dreams are a reality lol

[@nameisrango]

@@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075 I'm from Zogwarg.. good to see ya pal

[@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075]

@@nameisrango oh i've never been there, but i heard it has great Dimphlemorphs and Garksnox :D

[@nameisrango]

@@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075 ohh.. seems like you've been here, you're quite familiar with our wizards

[@Btn1136]

All of our social skills need work after this lockdown period. Trust me. You’re not alone with this. Lol

[@shakirmeherrem6672]

Glad to see I'm not alone.

[@meryemc4103]

Me too 😭😭

[@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075]

i never had any to begin with lol

[@EtioDesign]

Lol that’s so true🤦🏾‍♂️😂

[@juststar2053]

@@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075 same

[@whatnottodo2699]

"Hey, Zuko here" is my go to

[@Aj.Ryan12]

On another note; if you need to end an awkward conversation, hit them with “Thats rough, buddy”.”

[@rukysees3589]

Hey ruky here

[@rukysees3589]

@@Simon-xl1yz From my experience refrences haven't been a good conversation stater

[@TheFuschiaDragonfly]

Your username is really on point

[@ExElliexE]

Rukysees what?

[@Savin97]

I thought the "Ben Franklin" was "give the guy a hundred bucks and see where the conversation goes from there". Pity...

[@dingledan1966]

I was expecting an opening line about syphilis.

[@keithchristensen4598]

i gave you a hundredth like, so take consolation in the minuscule amount of pointless internet points you have received

[@Savin97]

​@@keithchristensen4598 Fantastic, my life is minusculely less pointless.

[@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075]

that sure would be an interesting way to get to know someone, by a fist to your face most likely lol

[@wisdom-for-all]

Be brave enough to start that conversation that matters. And do not forget that every good conversation starts with good listening 🖖

[@edi9892]

I'm an introvert, but can talk to the hottest stranger, as long as it's about something practical, like going to an Indian and ask her if she knows where to find a shop selling ghee (hard to find in Europe, but a common ingredient in Indian cuisine). I can also make joking compliments to acquaintances, but making a serious compliment or asking someone out...

[@plica06]

@@edi9892 Yes.That's why the original comment is terrible advice. It's hard enough to think of anything to say, if it has to something "that matters" then that puts even more pressure on it.

[@hristopavlov3095]

@@plica06 You missread it, my friend. What matters is starting the conversation. That was the idea behind the first sentence.

[@晏然]

and a friendly smile

[@salladss]

@@edi9892 sounds like immaturity no offense

[@troy8063]

3 principles for introverts: 1. When u realised that other ppl also focus on themselves, it becomes comically easy to feels confidents. 2.Ask question to start a conversation. 3.Simplify words. Dont pre planned. Say what on ur mind. Extras: 4.Conversation is all about making the other person feels special. Keep eye contact.

[@Calida]

Fun fact: Link from Rhett & Link used the random compliment to meet his wife. "Hey, I like your boots!" 😂

[@Wulfenburg]

Girls love it if you sneak up, sniff their hair and then tell them what shampoo they are using.

[@angelbaby.13]

Okay this is how to start a conversation, wtf do I say after I introduce myself? I need a guide for introverts please, with examples

[@jaxtheripper9663]

Charisma university! I’m currently taking the course, and it covers that.

[@angelbaby.13]

@Dyler Turden omg that's actually a good idea, if they don't get creeped out then they're probably pretty fun to be friends with 😂 Thanks for the suggestions everyone! Edit: if anyone still has a suggestion then say it please, I need all the help I can get..

[@nickbenkster]

Yesss please

[@conkeroo]

I often ask about their name ("That's a pretty name. How did you wind up with it?" "What type of culture does your name represent?" "Like [insert celebrity with same name OR make a pun using their name]?). For you I'd say "Malak... as in, my lack of knowledge is showing" Or their accent. It usually leads into their background which can give you more ideas for directing conversation. Alternatively, I ask why they are here, how long they've been here, what their plans are for later in the day. I'm an introvert and find conversation tricky. I heard that some retirement homes have been trialling robots that vaguely converse with the old folks (they just go around and ask "How are you? How are the grandkids?"), and apparently it makes the retirees feel happier and more at ease. So if a robot can perk people up by asking generic questions, we sure as hell can do it! And probably better too!

[@c4rlosBF]

@@jaxtheripper9663 hey! what do you think about the course? since when were you taking it? I'm trying to look for opinions

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

“Here random stranger watch my stuff for a minute!” You must not live in a big city guy.......

[@zucchinigreen]

Exactly lol. I usually like his advice, but I find this video is kind of hollow. I think it's better to create a conversation around a situation than singling out someone because it will sound like a pickup line. So if you are waiting in line or sitting in a coffee shop, you say something like "I always like coming here, the service is great alternatively, this line is taking forever!" Then say a joke or play off their response. If some random says, "Can you do me a favor," I'm going to say no. Similarly, if they ask for fun recommendations I'd help them but if I were less decent, they would be an easy target for robbery, by announcing, "Hey I'm an American tourist! I don't know what I'm doing." Stick to asking for directions, then jump into a conversation.

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

Ariki And for a free colonoscopy wear a hajib 😂

[@MisterPol]

Normal person: Hey! Me having social anxiety: byeeeeeeee

[@vaishalidd]

Hey!

[@luisterrust]

I also Used to be that way! But try to change your self talk when you encounter people, works!

[@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075]

same, or so it has been, trying not to be like that

[@TanvirAhmed24]

Let’s face it: starting a conversation can be intimidating. Whether you’re meeting a total stranger, trying to network, or on a first (or even tenth) date, it’s often difficult to know what to say to start a conversation and keep it flowing. Introducing yourself to a stranger or approaching an acquaintance might seem anxiety-inducing, but it shouldn’t be. It’s far riskier to get on a highway in a car than it is to walk up to somebody at a party or a networking event. Luckily, even though it might seem like good conversation skills are something some people are just born with, all it takes is a bit of practice.

[@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733]

For weak people, maybe

[@TanvirAhmed24]

@@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 What classifies someone as "weak"?

[@xianthegaian4060]

It doesn't take practice... Some people are just in the zone and know how to go with flow, others do not know how to listen to the silence so they feel awkward.

[@TanvirAhmed24]

@@xianthegaian4060 I don't understand why you're disagreeing with me and then just rephrasing the same thing I wrote.

[@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075]

yeah the worst that'll usually happen is far less bad than we assume, our imagination is what gets the better of us, in my case it sure is

[@Hedgpig]

This is a nightmare world where everyone has been dosed with the Joker's laughing gas Aside from the insane stretched perma-smiles, I particularly like the deranged way the protagonist blinks asymmetrically at 3:13

[@kingjules7604]

I think it's cos one of his pupils is on the outside of his eyelid O_O

[@EzekJohnson]

Thank you for this amazing video. I’m greatly blessed by it. I’ve learnt these brilliant conversations starters. For those who can’t watch video in full or without sound, here are the main techniques. 1. Introduce: I haven’t met you yet. 2. Acknowledge: Hey I know this is totally random but... 3. Tourism Technique. Hey. I’m new in town. Do you know... Do you have any idea ... Can you help... 4. Ben Franklin: Thank you so much for.... By the way, I’m .... 5. Spontaneous Compliment. Wow, you’ve got great style! Are you a fashion designer? Etc If you learnt something f from this video, and find my notes useful, kindly let me know.

[@Gigusx]

You should watch the video again.

[@EzekJohnson]

Adrian Thank you Adrian.

[@Jumpyfoot]

Thank you for this useful summary! I have a thought that you might consider doing this for all the charisma on command videos! ;-)

[@JordanThomasRichards]

In all honesty, I've been an avid follower for 3 or 4 years now. All the advice you've provided has, without a doubt, improved my ability to interact with people. Just wanted to take a moment to thank you for maintaining this channel all this time. Thank you so much guys, you're an absolute asset to the self help community.

[@materialgworllll1409]

I only speak when the person started the conversation first.

[@firstnamelastname489]

All this time I thought the Ben Franklin method was to smack a wad of cash against the other guy's face. So THAT'S why it's not working.

[@kelseycat7171]

It’s okay, it still works as long as you let them keep the cash ;)

[@akramdb1555]

Best line from joey : Heyyyy how u doing

[@racoon_in_ankhmorpork]

This has been somewhat helpful, that’s for sure, but it’s blatantly based on american (or at least not generally european) culture. Unless you’re at a party or _maybe_ a bar, starting to talk to someone like that genuinely makes you look like a crazy person. If not crazy, very weird. It’s just not something you do. The most I’ve gotten is “hey where’d you get those pants?” (visually very shy, awkward approach), and the most I’ve said is “omg is that Eragon? I love that book!” (said to a girl that I saw every day on the bus, and I had to build up to that for like 15 minutes). Both of these happened in my middle school, which was relatively small. This meant you’d see everyone around quite often. Those are the only two spontaneous encounters I’ve had that didn’t come off as mentally deranged/senile. A paradise for introverts, until you really need to say something to a stranger... For parties/people you don’t know that well but enough to attempt conversation this is still a useful vid, but I just wanted to say this :)

[@thejonasvanbaelenpodcast]

- "Hey, I am new to this town, any cool drinks in this place? - "Sure, blablabla, where are you from?" - "Oh, I live across the street"

[@MisterPol]

I just graduated from a bachelor's degree this year. I have yet to fully decide whether to continue a masters degree or find work by September. But I decided to work on a project of mine which is filming videos about self-development on KZbin. I've already uploaded 8 and will keep doing so over the summer. Thank you Charisma on Command for the inspiration!! 🙏

[@andrewmatthews6443]

I’ll sub

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

Ask someone for directions then start up a conversation!

[@McVincient]

Hey! That's a great video? Are you a youtuber? 🤣🤣🤣 just kidding, nice video!

[@Go0dTimes4fUnPro]

I'm a personal fan of "come here often?"

[@AhnastasiaRose]

I was JUST watching your old videos about starting conversations and never running out of things to say. Like most of your vids I've watched them like a hundred times so I appreciate the new/updated tips!

[@over_zeal0us]

Sent this to a friend who keeps asking me how I am everyday

[@shoe1126]

I love these videos and wish this stuff came more naturally to me lol

[@MrHSkywalker]

Is this slowing becoming a PUA channel?

[@sangwoohan1177]

You are going to get cancelled for that okay symbol in the thumbnail 😂😂😂

[@robertparaday9122]

What happened to this world😢

[@OmegaSounds]

Robert Paraday it died when smartphones were invented

[@Jimmertt]

I went on holiday to Spain with my ex and her family once, when the train we were on stopped at the station due to what we later suspected was an emergency. While the passengers were looking around, visibly confused, and we all fell victim to a very awkward silence, my ex didn't hesitate to point out to a random man on the train about the book he was reading, and asked if he was a psychologist. This sparked a very interesting conversation and led to the rest of the cabin opening up alot more so we could enjoy this unusual event. This man also turned into a friend which they are still in contact with to this day. She dared to start a conversation about something she noticed about someone, in a foreign country, not knowing if that person even spoke a word of english. Never in my life have i been more impressed with someone, ever.

[@MichaelDennis1234]

So concise, great work with the script and animations! Loved it🙌

[@foljs5858]

- Hey, I haven't met you yet! - Go away, creep! --- - Hey, I know this is totally random, but I notice you're wearing an Eagles jersey. Are you from Philly?

[@megantvenstrup7687]

If I guy used any of the conversations starters featured in this video on me, it would work. The only case where I might be anxiously holding the pepper spray is if it's the middle of the night and I'm alone. So basically, use these conversation starters in an area where the other person feels at ease, and it should be fine.

[@aubriegrimm3373]

Same I'm so unapproachable and shy at first

[@nblack7314]

lol maybe you have a big swastika tattoo on your face or smell like an enormous pile of garbage? because even if the least attractive person with these lines comes up to me i will smile and have a conversation with them😸😁

[@mysoncrumphaseveryinjury3853]

Can you do a charisma breakdown of Don Rickles AKA how to poke fun at people and still be liked?

[@conkeroo]

Really love this channel - very handy! Here's a request for another video... I work in a supermarket and sometimes when I chat to customers, they get flirty. I stick to really normal, scripted conversation like the weather, plans for the rest of the day, how busy the shop is, etc. But, for example yesterday, I asked a customer "would you like a receipt?" and he said "Only if it's got your number on it" 🙄 So what's the best way to shut down inappropriate behaviour while maintaining civility?

[@aisling8092]

That sounds so frustrating, my advice would be to just smile, as if they have to be joking kinda way and just hand them the receipt or find some other way to politely shut down the conversation. Just my advice tho probs best to ignore as since I’ve clicked on the vide so I’m obviously not great at social skills😂

[@CJW0056]

He flirted and asked for your number, why are you acting like he groped you? My middle aged female coworker the other day was telling me how she used to get frustrated with customers hitting on her as a young attractive woman. Now, she'd give anything to go back to being "too attractive" My advice: take the compliment, and politely decline, and grow up.

[@aisling8092]

Cwise85 mate you sound like your part of the problem. The problem is that she shouldn’t have to put up with feeling sexualized or uncomfortable while she’s working. It’s an inappropriate place to try to flirt and chat people up, if it was a bar or club sure but not while she’s working and trying to do her job 🤷‍♀️

[@origami83]

@@aisling8092 It is a part of life and life happens wherever you happen to be wether you want to or not. Politely decline or say your bf or husband wouldnt like that and if they get creepy or pushy get the manager or security.

[@aisling8092]

Mr. Orange I get that and I do agree with what your saying but what I was trying to say to the person who replied is that they shouldn’t have tried to dismiss her feelings when she said it made her uncomfortable by telling her to get over it. Although it does happen and unfortunately it’s a part of life but it shouldn’t be normalized and she has a right to be upset or feel uncomfortable when something like that happens.

[@fatemanusrat8939]

How about starting a conversation with a stranger online? Most people can just leave you on seen and then you're not even sure if you should try any further or just give up. Even with common interests, most people don't seem too eager to get to know you. I don't know if it happens because there's a lacking in me or because of that other person

[@wernhervonbraun4222]

'Hey I'm new to the area' 'where are you from?' 'I am from Antarctica.'

[@immortalgamerswapnil]

Not First

[@NinjaKuma]

2:30 - No Handshaking, social distancing 101

[@Svetashev123]

Who the hell needs these conversation starters if we already live in digital space?

[@siddharthjoshi1656]

Do a Charisma breakdown of Shahrukh Khan!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!

[@abelmoreno4836]

“Hey can you watch my ____ while I go to the bathroom?” And then when you come back use that as leverage to talk.

[@GoddessxLike]

Good to know I do all of these naturally

[@dremm9502]

Or we can just look cute like you and just say any random crap

[@peasant4886]

Can you do a charisma analysis thing on Saul Goodman from Breaking Bad/Better Call Saul

[@BCMSi]

Hey, I just saw you were wearing an... Oh, it's an Eagles jersey... nevermind bye

[@mimisart]

Love these tips. I’m not always good at starting a conversation. This will help!

[@haSHAH1]

good luck to you