THANK YOU FOR THIS! I'M AN INTROVERT AND THIS IS PURE GOLD FOR ME!!
@JoseFerreira-de7oe2 жыл бұрын
BRO WTF I WAS COMPLETELY BLOWN AWAY BY THE SIMPLICITY OF IT
@mubtasim278 Жыл бұрын
I think you are not introvert you are shy
@781rcac Жыл бұрын
How you doing now?
@zyrok5779 Жыл бұрын
@@mubtasim278 same thing
@macioz1760 Жыл бұрын
@@781rcacwow man we are LATE
@an63504 жыл бұрын
I'm fine with coming up with questions, it's just difficult when I'm supposed to say something interesting without turning it back on them.
@JohnDoe-qq8et2 жыл бұрын
I heard to be interesting, talk about something they are interested in or talk about something they don't know about with enthusiasm and excitement.
@kriskquinn.687 ай бұрын
If its a woman, you really don't need to focus on being that witty, but more being attentive and making them feel heard. You might find it easier to keep asking them questions about a topic you sense that they enjoy doing or talking about.
@villainarc96683 ай бұрын
Collect some stories of your daily life and relate to those stories.
@user-he2ou2ex2f13 күн бұрын
@@JohnDoe-qq8etnah you just need to be Intresting 😂. To be j treating get out do things and you’ll have things to talk about without it being forced.
@samislam27463 жыл бұрын
The best thing I like in this video is you're giving real-world examples
@deleted71642 жыл бұрын
Yea you dont get those too much anymore.
@dbsven70176 жыл бұрын
Good points here. One thing that also makes conversation difficult is "interest" by the people in the conversation. If one person is less interested in having the conversation, it's not going to go well. If your taking to someone that isn't really "into" taking to you, you are going to get a lot of one word answers and no questions back. If it turns into a straight up bad job interview kind of conversation, then the other person losses interest also. Maybe a video on how to spark "interest" amongst the 2 people would be helpful.
@hafsamanagrio20283 ай бұрын
Agreed❤💯
@Ghøst_Twenty0ñe3 ай бұрын
I think if there other person is not interested then u should leave it like that and find someone else. It could something they going through at the moment so we shouldn't force a conversation.
@Ghøst_Twenty0ñe3 ай бұрын
I think if there other person is not interested then u should leave it like that and find someone else. It could something they going through at the moment so we shouldn't force a conversation.
@simongeorge78448 жыл бұрын
That makes so much sense, I often find it talking one on one, yet when I'm with friends, we stop and look at where a conversation started and where it ended up and you can see the spread from the jump off points.
@Last_SerenadeАй бұрын
did you find how to solve this problem?
@theneedforspeeder95754 ай бұрын
All people are different, some will just give a cold off answer, not because they don’t care but because they’re like that. Nothing wrong with silence. Had to drive and just asked a couple of questions. Have some friends that just talk a lot and make my life easier since I can listen for hours
@MirzaBorogovac8 жыл бұрын
My philosophy is the opposite: don't talk unless you have something to say. I am fine with silence. Also, a very important skill to learn is listening skill. In order to be a good listener, last thing you want to do, is think of what you are going to say next while the other person is taking. Instead, try and understand what someone is trying to communicate and why. If someone tells you that Seattle is too crowded because of tech workers, why are they saying that? Maybe, for example, they are under a lot of stress, they ran into heavy traffic on their commute, and they blame it on overcrowding. Or maybe they can't afford the rent. As a listener, you are trying to get to this underlying reason of why someone is telling you something. And people really appreciate good listeners. Everybody wants an audience. Finally, when you listen, you receive information, and when you talk you give away information. Think about that for a second.
@Doc_Rom8 жыл бұрын
Asking questions and 'getting curious' are excellent examples of effective listening
@slickcatricky76944 жыл бұрын
Tim Romley yeah so basically the tips in the video here are just guidelines and something you can use for practicing. But after that keep it in your back pocket and when you're already talking to someone, just listen and let your gut/emotions do the responding, the talking. Conversations are just vibing. Contributing to the vibe and expressing you're good vibration. And this naturally happens when you let your gut (our 2nd brain) do the talking. Now if you find yourself in a scenario where the other person said something that you cannot relate to that much, you don't have anything to say about it, that's the time you follow this tips. But actually unconsciously when you let your gut do the talking, you're actually doing all these tips here in the video. So the shortcut is really just to listen 👂 and then take any avenue where you would like to direct the conversation to. You're welcome 😊
@jimin39503 жыл бұрын
literally thank you
@picklepirate2 жыл бұрын
This is great information. But, some people also don’t want to keep coming up with things to say. Some people want people to be the wheel to the spokes in a conversation. I have a CEO that guides the table through a variety of topics. Your comment is still very helpful.
@facundodamianborgesparins65922 жыл бұрын
I take what's mentioned in the video as a tool for people like me who are introverts and don't quite easily carry on a conversation. A tool for practicing elongating a conversation and then when that is mastered, being able to deliberately balance between listening and talking.
@warsilver992 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this helps a lot for an introvert like myself who is frustrated when conversations seem to just stop.
@Last_SerenadeАй бұрын
did you find how to solve this problem?
@johannacallaghan16238 жыл бұрын
love this series helps my anxiety over public events thanks clark
@annegaelle18822 жыл бұрын
That's helpful ! But I don't enjoy endless conversations either, it's tiring for an introvert. Let's talk and then let me enjoy the silence or let's hang out comfortable in silence together. Doesn't have to be a 24h talk
@annetterichards52712 жыл бұрын
I spend 99% of the time listening to other people do all of the talking and I want to actually learn how to dominate a conversation and for a change, subject people to my incessant chatter for once. Being an introvert has its disadvantages.
@pereiraplaza2222 жыл бұрын
Me 2. My conversations consist of just asking questions.
@anotparticularlynotableguy11 ай бұрын
Me, an autistic introvert, feeling like an alien because i need to research how to talk to people:
@ragequitter6 ай бұрын
Best video about ‘never running out of things to say’ I’ve seen so far. This is a quick hack to get us more confident until we can do it without thinking. Thanks!!!
@Last_SerenadeАй бұрын
So it helps U?
@baq5261 Жыл бұрын
This was one of the most helpful and underrated videos ive ever seen. I just talked to my co-worker and “practiced” on him, it went really smooth. Thank you! Im curious to see how it goes with people i dont or barely know.
@כורשמשרתו4 жыл бұрын
1- Get the three main topics and do all over again. 2- Get curious
@Prim3Pursuits8 жыл бұрын
Really interesting way to see a conversation Clark. This is a great tips I really didn't think of that, thanks for sharing!
@Haileyrodriguez2884 жыл бұрын
This is the most brightest video i have ever came across thx for showing us out of all the vdeos i watched yours made me really get it.
@spiritualawakening11118 жыл бұрын
❤ love it.
@CoDGoldenAge8 жыл бұрын
Great topic, exactly what I needed. I'll put it to use from now on.
@clarkkegley8 жыл бұрын
Great to see you as always, Marcel! Thanks for your long time support dude!
@CoDGoldenAge8 жыл бұрын
Don't mention it. I'm the one who should say thank you, I'm just here learning.
@clarkkegley8 жыл бұрын
Love you buddy! Stoked for 2017.
@5fbycdgfdr3 ай бұрын
What the videos of 2024 could not do, the 7 year old videos did, thank you *Clark* 💝💗
@Valentino0167 ай бұрын
wait wtf this was life changing. i did this technique and i was talking non stop .
@RobrotoPlays5 ай бұрын
TYSM, you can't even believe how much this video helped me, I have so much more self confidence now and talking to girls really people in general has become a lot easier. I glad you could explain this and break it down so even someone as acoustic as me can understand it.
@jell._.y2 жыл бұрын
NOW THIS IS WHAT TIPS AREE THANK YOU VERY MUCH
@gakaface6 жыл бұрын
Really, really useful perspective. Thanks.
@sajidaiqbal64343 жыл бұрын
Really helpful made me think I have been in a room with twelve strangers and no one was talking it was so awkward. I tried a few conversation but didn't get much response from anyone I wish I hadn't bothered.
@alexandrianaesthetics45357 жыл бұрын
I love you bro, thanks man.
@samfdsd21347 жыл бұрын
thanks man! really helpful!!
@Lori_g703 жыл бұрын
What an excellent video. Well done!
@timothyn46996 жыл бұрын
I like the way you break down the sentence and focus/highlight different parts that you could jump off from. Good examples !
@veronikagore34754 жыл бұрын
Omg I love Clark these tipps helped SO much!
@jamiewalkling10738 жыл бұрын
Great video, with a tash like that the convo must never run out! Lol Thanks!
@gavin34152 жыл бұрын
Bro thank you!
@Lnf4007 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro
@businessesa13944 жыл бұрын
So listen and dissect the main points they say and branch of that.
@Cannibalcorpse2810 күн бұрын
Such great examples
@GPatrick1373 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@Oyuki-Mayonesa2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful how you provided examples!!
@DavideHu3 жыл бұрын
As a guy that's didn't talk friends for 3 years this is going to help xD
@DavidJSherwin2 жыл бұрын
Great job Clark I rally liked it
@ouchtor10 күн бұрын
"It's alright." "Why don't you like it?!"
@Knightransport3 жыл бұрын
Awsome tip bro!! Ive never heard that one before I have to be honest. Great job! keep it up!
@weluvcats888 Жыл бұрын
i feel like i’m good at talking but it’s just those few moments with people i’ve known for years
@Bulususedits3 жыл бұрын
I like kids How do u like kids? kids are kids how? Uhh there childish Why are they childish? THERE KIDS why are they kids?
@__________________________bub04 ай бұрын
Bro if they are s aying that th en you shouldn't
@SportSync_official Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@nikolmi51903 жыл бұрын
okay but like i didnt expect this to be that smart lmao
@namimm33668 жыл бұрын
thank you for this! really simple yet really insightful :-)
@BillBaran8 жыл бұрын
Great, simple advice. Really helpful!
@BeamansForkSoapCompany8 жыл бұрын
Hi Clark! Just came across your channel today and I have enjoyed watching several of your videos while I work. Looking forward to seeing more! Thanks for the motivation! --K
@leo_5012 жыл бұрын
Thank you my guy, this really helps !
@jessikavieira66202 жыл бұрын
great video! thanks
@sanmaan138 жыл бұрын
great video mate! thanks a tonn! :)
@yasertinofficall16925 ай бұрын
That was simple and useful thank you for that ❤
@adityanaz133 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@samgaskell49057 жыл бұрын
what do you do if the convosation turns into an interview
@yannickngarambe22307 жыл бұрын
Two options: 1. If you suddenly feel like an interviewee: Give your answer and add a "what about you?" That way you get the control back and get new jump off points from the upcoming answer. 2. If you suddenly feel like an interviewer: Wait for them to finish their answer and then add a statement of your own like you were asked a "what about you?" If they don't pick up your answer, ask another question jumping off your statement Should give you two ways to balance out conversations if they get too one-sided while staying in control.
@davey58672 жыл бұрын
If you feel like you're interviewing someone, then use questions only rarely. Use statements more often in response Example : You ask : "what did u do, this summer." They say : "(their favourite thing to do)" You say "Well I can't help it but I just kept playing games at home" maybe you'll find someone who relates (and you can say in a playful tone "Oh, you're the same as me??" And high five them or whatever and then ask them what game they play) (If no one related) Then you can make a cold read about the thing they did in summer like "I bet it was fun" And so on and so forth
@desertrose77767 жыл бұрын
again... love you 🙏
@kaa44812 жыл бұрын
Wow! that's what I needed
@MaryamAli-vd1xv Жыл бұрын
Love the tips yes so very helpful. .
@someoneonearth72582 жыл бұрын
This is actually really nice advice
@Isa-gs9zg8 жыл бұрын
Really helpful... Thank you
@cetarbahana58436 жыл бұрын
The tips is very helpful. I am waiting your next video
@myplaylist84832 ай бұрын
“Why do you want to be healthier?” great jump off point
@jasonward1340Ай бұрын
This is a really good video I'm going to use it!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯
@toridanielle3338 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@KristianLindbjerg7 жыл бұрын
Did you know your surname means 'beautiful' in danish? ;)
@ThagavalMania8 жыл бұрын
Great tip! Curious to know how you shoot your videos, just your face is visible! Thanks
@kaimalik58292 жыл бұрын
I looked at the title of this video and thought: "There are two types of people in this world. One of those types already now how to talk forever since birth. We don't like those people. The other type are those that stay at home and go out every week or so. We stan those people."
@yuhliza23653 жыл бұрын
basically just make things up if u want it simple
@potatoxentertainment62004 жыл бұрын
I can talk a lot in person but it's hard to talk in a call can you make a video about that
@agasthya17472 жыл бұрын
I feel like trying to be human👍
@5Puff2 жыл бұрын
I'm like 39% introvert so thanks man
@naghamidi1902 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro
@kriskquinn.687 ай бұрын
Idk what i was expecting but these are for like totally socially challenged people or maybe someone with autism/aspergers. Otherwise they just sound goofy and simple. Qhat it does do for me though is to remember that there are people out there that may struggle really hard to find acceptance and are very critical of themselves, and so if I find myself in a situation where I get a vibe of this sort from a person, I find a way to disarm the person, giving them the possibility to speak without feeling judged. Hopefully we can all do this, as we never know how someone else may feel, or how we may be able to help them grow and/or feel more comfortable as themselves.
@healingwithdanae12942 жыл бұрын
This is genius
@JesusChrist50002 жыл бұрын
Asking question after question is not good either. You have to be able to make statement after statement
@raulnadal24335 жыл бұрын
Nice job brother.
@hold.on94 жыл бұрын
thanks for the tips . really open minded 🎨😱💞
@Ana-rx8zg2 жыл бұрын
I'm a better listener than a speaker, but those tips seem very usufull. I'm gonna get advantage of that, thanks bro.
@zerofriends64 ай бұрын
pretty great advice
@dinesshdepp1194 жыл бұрын
You should change the topic to "how to never run out of things to ask"
@the.energetic97784 жыл бұрын
The lesson was easy, but massively valuable. 😍👌🏻💯
@minfirezman23514 жыл бұрын
Reminder for me 1:40
@parkourandfreerunning4214 Жыл бұрын
I am your second reminder
@iislaa3 жыл бұрын
**me with selective mutism** THIS GONNA WORK?
@dogguyful2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 👌👌👍👍🙏🙏
@lukagalic77133 жыл бұрын
Just what i needed and thanks man ooh and what do you think of your KZbin Carrer? 😉
@ingacalvin5383 Жыл бұрын
I work at a local hospital Me: What do you do there?😃
@iamthatcookie Жыл бұрын
YOOO YOU ARE RONALDOOOO TWIN!!
@brandrex66186 жыл бұрын
Ok im a really bad listener that proves it thx 4 the tip.
@annattraktiv4 ай бұрын
is there a book on this topic? i'd like to read more about this
@imjuju96668 жыл бұрын
Thanks m8
@jell._.y2 жыл бұрын
oh wow
@vagous694 жыл бұрын
i fucking love you that helped a lot
@metophoricallyspeaking58665 жыл бұрын
What if they said "k"?
@cinemalover4709 Жыл бұрын
I thought this video will be about how i can talk alot not question a lot beacause all i do is questioning
@notyayanguyen17352 күн бұрын
it's not like i can't talk because i always find random things to laugh and talk about with my friends but i'm trying to notice what we talk a
@PUA-Dude4 жыл бұрын
Ask how
@m__odriscoll3 жыл бұрын
Tusm I've been struglin talking to my girl
@EpiKerCovers3 жыл бұрын
Yep, me too. We had an amazing chemistry when we started dating, talked forever. Now 5 months later it's not the same
@carmilu7 жыл бұрын
hi man, pretty new subscriber. I would love to have that same video about public speaking. please tag me on it when you do it 😊
@graemegeorgeharrison246810 ай бұрын
Any advice for brain injured people with very bad memory problems
@sun70710 ай бұрын
❤
@amelio37123 жыл бұрын
Bunch of questions
@ibrahimasow50388 жыл бұрын
Good tips, it'll sure help me improve my communication. What do you think about young entrepreneur and relationship? Because having a girlfriend takes too much time on your life and entrepreneurship = working on every free time.