Talk Forever: How to Never Run Out of Things to Say

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Clark Kegley

Clark Kegley

Күн бұрын

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@AllDesignOnMe
@AllDesignOnMe 8 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR THIS! I'M AN INTROVERT AND THIS IS PURE GOLD FOR ME!!
@JoseFerreira-de7oe
@JoseFerreira-de7oe 2 жыл бұрын
BRO WTF I WAS COMPLETELY BLOWN AWAY BY THE SIMPLICITY OF IT
@mubtasim278
@mubtasim278 Жыл бұрын
I think you are not introvert you are shy
@781rcac
@781rcac Жыл бұрын
How you doing now?
@zyrok5779
@zyrok5779 Жыл бұрын
@@mubtasim278 same thing
@macioz1760
@macioz1760 Жыл бұрын
​@@781rcacwow man we are LATE
@an6350
@an6350 4 жыл бұрын
I'm fine with coming up with questions, it's just difficult when I'm supposed to say something interesting without turning it back on them.
@JohnDoe-qq8et
@JohnDoe-qq8et 2 жыл бұрын
I heard to be interesting, talk about something they are interested in or talk about something they don't know about with enthusiasm and excitement.
@kriskquinn.68
@kriskquinn.68 7 ай бұрын
If its a woman, you really don't need to focus on being that witty, but more being attentive and making them feel heard. You might find it easier to keep asking them questions about a topic you sense that they enjoy doing or talking about.
@villainarc9668
@villainarc9668 3 ай бұрын
Collect some stories of your daily life and relate to those stories.
@user-he2ou2ex2f
@user-he2ou2ex2f 13 күн бұрын
@@JohnDoe-qq8etnah you just need to be Intresting 😂. To be j treating get out do things and you’ll have things to talk about without it being forced.
@samislam2746
@samislam2746 3 жыл бұрын
The best thing I like in this video is you're giving real-world examples
@deleted7164
@deleted7164 2 жыл бұрын
Yea you dont get those too much anymore.
@dbsven7017
@dbsven7017 6 жыл бұрын
Good points here. One thing that also makes conversation difficult is "interest" by the people in the conversation. If one person is less interested in having the conversation, it's not going to go well. If your taking to someone that isn't really "into" taking to you, you are going to get a lot of one word answers and no questions back. If it turns into a straight up bad job interview kind of conversation, then the other person losses interest also. Maybe a video on how to spark "interest" amongst the 2 people would be helpful.
@hafsamanagrio2028
@hafsamanagrio2028 3 ай бұрын
Agreed❤💯
@Ghøst_Twenty0ñe
@Ghøst_Twenty0ñe 3 ай бұрын
I think if there other person is not interested then u should leave it like that and find someone else. It could something they going through at the moment so we shouldn't force a conversation.
@Ghøst_Twenty0ñe
@Ghøst_Twenty0ñe 3 ай бұрын
I think if there other person is not interested then u should leave it like that and find someone else. It could something they going through at the moment so we shouldn't force a conversation.
@simongeorge7844
@simongeorge7844 8 жыл бұрын
That makes so much sense, I often find it talking one on one, yet when I'm with friends, we stop and look at where a conversation started and where it ended up and you can see the spread from the jump off points.
@Last_Serenade
@Last_Serenade Ай бұрын
did you find how to solve this problem?
@theneedforspeeder9575
@theneedforspeeder9575 4 ай бұрын
All people are different, some will just give a cold off answer, not because they don’t care but because they’re like that. Nothing wrong with silence. Had to drive and just asked a couple of questions. Have some friends that just talk a lot and make my life easier since I can listen for hours
@MirzaBorogovac
@MirzaBorogovac 8 жыл бұрын
My philosophy is the opposite: don't talk unless you have something to say. I am fine with silence. Also, a very important skill to learn is listening skill. In order to be a good listener, last thing you want to do, is think of what you are going to say next while the other person is taking. Instead, try and understand what someone is trying to communicate and why. If someone tells you that Seattle is too crowded because of tech workers, why are they saying that? Maybe, for example, they are under a lot of stress, they ran into heavy traffic on their commute, and they blame it on overcrowding. Or maybe they can't afford the rent. As a listener, you are trying to get to this underlying reason of why someone is telling you something. And people really appreciate good listeners. Everybody wants an audience. Finally, when you listen, you receive information, and when you talk you give away information. Think about that for a second.
@Doc_Rom
@Doc_Rom 8 жыл бұрын
Asking questions and 'getting curious' are excellent examples of effective listening
@slickcatricky7694
@slickcatricky7694 4 жыл бұрын
Tim Romley yeah so basically the tips in the video here are just guidelines and something you can use for practicing. But after that keep it in your back pocket and when you're already talking to someone, just listen and let your gut/emotions do the responding, the talking. Conversations are just vibing. Contributing to the vibe and expressing you're good vibration. And this naturally happens when you let your gut (our 2nd brain) do the talking. Now if you find yourself in a scenario where the other person said something that you cannot relate to that much, you don't have anything to say about it, that's the time you follow this tips. But actually unconsciously when you let your gut do the talking, you're actually doing all these tips here in the video. So the shortcut is really just to listen 👂 and then take any avenue where you would like to direct the conversation to. You're welcome 😊
@jimin3950
@jimin3950 3 жыл бұрын
literally thank you
@picklepirate
@picklepirate 2 жыл бұрын
This is great information. But, some people also don’t want to keep coming up with things to say. Some people want people to be the wheel to the spokes in a conversation. I have a CEO that guides the table through a variety of topics. Your comment is still very helpful.
@facundodamianborgesparins6592
@facundodamianborgesparins6592 2 жыл бұрын
I take what's mentioned in the video as a tool for people like me who are introverts and don't quite easily carry on a conversation. A tool for practicing elongating a conversation and then when that is mastered, being able to deliberately balance between listening and talking.
@warsilver99
@warsilver99 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this helps a lot for an introvert like myself who is frustrated when conversations seem to just stop.
@Last_Serenade
@Last_Serenade Ай бұрын
did you find how to solve this problem?
@johannacallaghan1623
@johannacallaghan1623 8 жыл бұрын
love this series helps my anxiety over public events thanks clark
@annegaelle1882
@annegaelle1882 2 жыл бұрын
That's helpful ! But I don't enjoy endless conversations either, it's tiring for an introvert. Let's talk and then let me enjoy the silence or let's hang out comfortable in silence together. Doesn't have to be a 24h talk
@annetterichards5271
@annetterichards5271 2 жыл бұрын
I spend 99% of the time listening to other people do all of the talking and I want to actually learn how to dominate a conversation and for a change, subject people to my incessant chatter for once. Being an introvert has its disadvantages.
@pereiraplaza222
@pereiraplaza222 2 жыл бұрын
Me 2. My conversations consist of just asking questions.
@anotparticularlynotableguy
@anotparticularlynotableguy 11 ай бұрын
Me, an autistic introvert, feeling like an alien because i need to research how to talk to people:
@ragequitter
@ragequitter 6 ай бұрын
Best video about ‘never running out of things to say’ I’ve seen so far. This is a quick hack to get us more confident until we can do it without thinking. Thanks!!!
@Last_Serenade
@Last_Serenade Ай бұрын
So it helps U?
@baq5261
@baq5261 Жыл бұрын
This was one of the most helpful and underrated videos ive ever seen. I just talked to my co-worker and “practiced” on him, it went really smooth. Thank you! Im curious to see how it goes with people i dont or barely know.
@כורשמשרתו
@כורשמשרתו 4 жыл бұрын
1- Get the three main topics and do all over again. 2- Get curious
@Prim3Pursuits
@Prim3Pursuits 8 жыл бұрын
Really interesting way to see a conversation Clark. This is a great tips I really didn't think of that, thanks for sharing!
@Haileyrodriguez288
@Haileyrodriguez288 4 жыл бұрын
This is the most brightest video i have ever came across thx for showing us out of all the vdeos i watched yours made me really get it.
@spiritualawakening1111
@spiritualawakening1111 8 жыл бұрын
❤ love it.
@CoDGoldenAge
@CoDGoldenAge 8 жыл бұрын
Great topic, exactly what I needed. I'll put it to use from now on.
@clarkkegley
@clarkkegley 8 жыл бұрын
Great to see you as always, Marcel! Thanks for your long time support dude!
@CoDGoldenAge
@CoDGoldenAge 8 жыл бұрын
Don't mention it. I'm the one who should say thank you, I'm just here learning.
@clarkkegley
@clarkkegley 8 жыл бұрын
Love you buddy! Stoked for 2017.
@5fbycdgfdr
@5fbycdgfdr 3 ай бұрын
What the videos of 2024 could not do, the 7 year old videos did, thank you *Clark* 💝💗
@Valentino016
@Valentino016 7 ай бұрын
wait wtf this was life changing. i did this technique and i was talking non stop .
@RobrotoPlays
@RobrotoPlays 5 ай бұрын
TYSM, you can't even believe how much this video helped me, I have so much more self confidence now and talking to girls really people in general has become a lot easier. I glad you could explain this and break it down so even someone as acoustic as me can understand it.
@jell._.y
@jell._.y 2 жыл бұрын
NOW THIS IS WHAT TIPS AREE THANK YOU VERY MUCH
@gakaface
@gakaface 6 жыл бұрын
Really, really useful perspective. Thanks.
@sajidaiqbal6434
@sajidaiqbal6434 3 жыл бұрын
Really helpful made me think I have been in a room with twelve strangers and no one was talking it was so awkward. I tried a few conversation but didn't get much response from anyone I wish I hadn't bothered.
@alexandrianaesthetics4535
@alexandrianaesthetics4535 7 жыл бұрын
I love you bro, thanks man.
@samfdsd2134
@samfdsd2134 7 жыл бұрын
thanks man! really helpful!!
@Lori_g70
@Lori_g70 3 жыл бұрын
What an excellent video. Well done!
@timothyn4699
@timothyn4699 6 жыл бұрын
I like the way you break down the sentence and focus/highlight different parts that you could jump off from. Good examples !
@veronikagore3475
@veronikagore3475 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I love Clark these tipps helped SO much!
@jamiewalkling1073
@jamiewalkling1073 8 жыл бұрын
Great video, with a tash like that the convo must never run out! Lol Thanks!
@gavin3415
@gavin3415 2 жыл бұрын
Bro thank you!
@Lnf400
@Lnf400 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro
@businessesa1394
@businessesa1394 4 жыл бұрын
So listen and dissect the main points they say and branch of that.
@Cannibalcorpse28
@Cannibalcorpse28 10 күн бұрын
Such great examples
@GPatrick137
@GPatrick137 3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@Oyuki-Mayonesa
@Oyuki-Mayonesa 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful how you provided examples!!
@DavideHu
@DavideHu 3 жыл бұрын
As a guy that's didn't talk friends for 3 years this is going to help xD
@DavidJSherwin
@DavidJSherwin 2 жыл бұрын
Great job Clark I rally liked it
@ouchtor
@ouchtor 10 күн бұрын
"It's alright." "Why don't you like it?!"
@Knightransport
@Knightransport 3 жыл бұрын
Awsome tip bro!! Ive never heard that one before I have to be honest. Great job! keep it up!
@weluvcats888
@weluvcats888 Жыл бұрын
i feel like i’m good at talking but it’s just those few moments with people i’ve known for years
@Bulususedits
@Bulususedits 3 жыл бұрын
I like kids How do u like kids? kids are kids how? Uhh there childish Why are they childish? THERE KIDS why are they kids?
@__________________________bub0
@__________________________bub0 4 ай бұрын
Bro if they are s aying that th en you shouldn't
@SportSync_official
@SportSync_official Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@nikolmi5190
@nikolmi5190 3 жыл бұрын
okay but like i didnt expect this to be that smart lmao
@namimm3366
@namimm3366 8 жыл бұрын
thank you for this! really simple yet really insightful :-)
@BillBaran
@BillBaran 8 жыл бұрын
Great, simple advice. Really helpful!
@BeamansForkSoapCompany
@BeamansForkSoapCompany 8 жыл бұрын
Hi Clark! Just came across your channel today and I have enjoyed watching several of your videos while I work. Looking forward to seeing more! Thanks for the motivation! --K
@leo_501
@leo_501 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you my guy, this really helps !
@jessikavieira6620
@jessikavieira6620 2 жыл бұрын
great video! thanks
@sanmaan13
@sanmaan13 8 жыл бұрын
great video mate! thanks a tonn! :)
@yasertinofficall1692
@yasertinofficall1692 5 ай бұрын
That was simple and useful thank you for that ❤
@adityanaz13
@adityanaz13 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@samgaskell4905
@samgaskell4905 7 жыл бұрын
what do you do if the convosation turns into an interview
@yannickngarambe2230
@yannickngarambe2230 7 жыл бұрын
Two options: 1. If you suddenly feel like an interviewee: Give your answer and add a "what about you?" That way you get the control back and get new jump off points from the upcoming answer. 2. If you suddenly feel like an interviewer: Wait for them to finish their answer and then add a statement of your own like you were asked a "what about you?" If they don't pick up your answer, ask another question jumping off your statement Should give you two ways to balance out conversations if they get too one-sided while staying in control.
@davey5867
@davey5867 2 жыл бұрын
If you feel like you're interviewing someone, then use questions only rarely. Use statements more often in response Example : You ask : "what did u do, this summer." They say : "(their favourite thing to do)" You say "Well I can't help it but I just kept playing games at home" maybe you'll find someone who relates (and you can say in a playful tone "Oh, you're the same as me??" And high five them or whatever and then ask them what game they play) (If no one related) Then you can make a cold read about the thing they did in summer like "I bet it was fun" And so on and so forth
@desertrose7776
@desertrose7776 7 жыл бұрын
again... love you 🙏
@kaa4481
@kaa4481 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! that's what I needed
@MaryamAli-vd1xv
@MaryamAli-vd1xv Жыл бұрын
Love the tips yes so very helpful. .
@someoneonearth7258
@someoneonearth7258 2 жыл бұрын
This is actually really nice advice
@Isa-gs9zg
@Isa-gs9zg 8 жыл бұрын
Really helpful... Thank you
@cetarbahana5843
@cetarbahana5843 6 жыл бұрын
The tips is very helpful. I am waiting your next video
@myplaylist8483
@myplaylist8483 2 ай бұрын
“Why do you want to be healthier?” great jump off point
@jasonward1340
@jasonward1340 Ай бұрын
This is a really good video I'm going to use it!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯
@toridanielle333
@toridanielle333 8 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@KristianLindbjerg
@KristianLindbjerg 7 жыл бұрын
Did you know your surname means 'beautiful' in danish? ;)
@ThagavalMania
@ThagavalMania 8 жыл бұрын
Great tip! Curious to know how you shoot your videos, just your face is visible! Thanks
@kaimalik5829
@kaimalik5829 2 жыл бұрын
I looked at the title of this video and thought: "There are two types of people in this world. One of those types already now how to talk forever since birth. We don't like those people. The other type are those that stay at home and go out every week or so. We stan those people."
@yuhliza2365
@yuhliza2365 3 жыл бұрын
basically just make things up if u want it simple
@potatoxentertainment6200
@potatoxentertainment6200 4 жыл бұрын
I can talk a lot in person but it's hard to talk in a call can you make a video about that
@agasthya1747
@agasthya1747 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like trying to be human👍
@5Puff
@5Puff 2 жыл бұрын
I'm like 39% introvert so thanks man
@naghamidi190
@naghamidi190 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro
@kriskquinn.68
@kriskquinn.68 7 ай бұрын
Idk what i was expecting but these are for like totally socially challenged people or maybe someone with autism/aspergers. Otherwise they just sound goofy and simple. Qhat it does do for me though is to remember that there are people out there that may struggle really hard to find acceptance and are very critical of themselves, and so if I find myself in a situation where I get a vibe of this sort from a person, I find a way to disarm the person, giving them the possibility to speak without feeling judged. Hopefully we can all do this, as we never know how someone else may feel, or how we may be able to help them grow and/or feel more comfortable as themselves.
@healingwithdanae1294
@healingwithdanae1294 2 жыл бұрын
This is genius
@JesusChrist5000
@JesusChrist5000 2 жыл бұрын
Asking question after question is not good either. You have to be able to make statement after statement
@raulnadal2433
@raulnadal2433 5 жыл бұрын
Nice job brother.
@hold.on9
@hold.on9 4 жыл бұрын
thanks for the tips . really open minded 🎨😱💞
@Ana-rx8zg
@Ana-rx8zg 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a better listener than a speaker, but those tips seem very usufull. I'm gonna get advantage of that, thanks bro.
@zerofriends6
@zerofriends6 4 ай бұрын
pretty great advice
@dinesshdepp119
@dinesshdepp119 4 жыл бұрын
You should change the topic to "how to never run out of things to ask"
@the.energetic9778
@the.energetic9778 4 жыл бұрын
The lesson was easy, but massively valuable. 😍👌🏻💯
@minfirezman2351
@minfirezman2351 4 жыл бұрын
Reminder for me 1:40
@parkourandfreerunning4214
@parkourandfreerunning4214 Жыл бұрын
I am your second reminder
@iislaa
@iislaa 3 жыл бұрын
**me with selective mutism** THIS GONNA WORK?
@dogguyful
@dogguyful 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 👌👌👍👍🙏🙏
@lukagalic7713
@lukagalic7713 3 жыл бұрын
Just what i needed and thanks man ooh and what do you think of your KZbin Carrer? 😉
@ingacalvin5383
@ingacalvin5383 Жыл бұрын
I work at a local hospital Me: What do you do there?😃
@iamthatcookie
@iamthatcookie Жыл бұрын
YOOO YOU ARE RONALDOOOO TWIN!!
@brandrex6618
@brandrex6618 6 жыл бұрын
Ok im a really bad listener that proves it thx 4 the tip.
@annattraktiv
@annattraktiv 4 ай бұрын
is there a book on this topic? i'd like to read more about this
@imjuju9666
@imjuju9666 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks m8
@jell._.y
@jell._.y 2 жыл бұрын
oh wow
@vagous69
@vagous69 4 жыл бұрын
i fucking love you that helped a lot
@metophoricallyspeaking5866
@metophoricallyspeaking5866 5 жыл бұрын
What if they said "k"?
@cinemalover4709
@cinemalover4709 Жыл бұрын
I thought this video will be about how i can talk alot not question a lot beacause all i do is questioning
@notyayanguyen1735
@notyayanguyen1735 2 күн бұрын
it's not like i can't talk because i always find random things to laugh and talk about with my friends but i'm trying to notice what we talk a
@PUA-Dude
@PUA-Dude 4 жыл бұрын
Ask how
@m__odriscoll
@m__odriscoll 3 жыл бұрын
Tusm I've been struglin talking to my girl
@EpiKerCovers
@EpiKerCovers 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, me too. We had an amazing chemistry when we started dating, talked forever. Now 5 months later it's not the same
@carmilu
@carmilu 7 жыл бұрын
hi man, pretty new subscriber. I would love to have that same video about public speaking. please tag me on it when you do it 😊
@graemegeorgeharrison2468
@graemegeorgeharrison2468 10 ай бұрын
Any advice for brain injured people with very bad memory problems
@sun707
@sun707 10 ай бұрын
@amelio3712
@amelio3712 3 жыл бұрын
Bunch of questions
@ibrahimasow5038
@ibrahimasow5038 8 жыл бұрын
Good tips, it'll sure help me improve my communication. What do you think about young entrepreneur and relationship? Because having a girlfriend takes too much time on your life and entrepreneurship = working on every free time.
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