How INFJ and INFP can improve each other in Marriage | CS Joseph Responds

[@jessicaazcue4581]

Do y’all think Chase got tired of yelling at infps and that’s why he won’t cover infp questions anymore 😭

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

🤣

[@aladdout9454]

😂😂

[@moodymcsorley7691]

I believe that CSJ is hardest on INTJs just because they tend to grab his attention, but I believe CSJ is truly neutral and simply gives everyone the criticisms they need to hear.

[@TheGuyWhoCantPickAName]

Yes

[@Thilosophocl3s]

Step 1. INFP needs to talk.

[@kacake]

Yeah

[@V12hemmi]

Thanks for not driving this time the audio is much better

[@JungINFJ]

Great video. Thanks Mr. Raka. I can tell I drain INXPs a little when I go into Ni convos and yeah an INFP can be draining to listen to when they tell you about their plants for 30 minutes straight in detail 😆 It's a whole experience for them lol Makes perfect sense now.

[@patrykj547]

I appreciate Raka's presence on this channel it's always good to hear different points of view. I watch you too frequently so I already knew what are you going to say Chase :D

[@moodymcsorley7691]

Raka! Thanks again for providing another terrific response to one of my acolyte questions. My INFJ wife and I have been together for ten years and married five. This video both communicated truths about ourselves that we found out through experience and also gave us good "nuggets" to have a conscious attitude about, giving us clearer expectations to give one another. I found the comments about how we can help each other with our cognitive origins especially helpful. I absolutely can go into the background a bit too much, so it's nice that you articulated that idea. It's definitely a hard thing to balance with the need for a relationship to have some tension and mystery. Both you and Chase have our thanks. Yes, with golden quadras a lot of problems can kind of resolve themselves naturally, but videos like these definitely give us the right ideas to have in mind to make the whole thing a smoother experience so that we can face other, bigger challenges in our lives. Cheers!

[@Kubis.goreng]

Me infp & my husband infj >w< the best relationship ever. Before this I date entj & enfj but both just saddening x,D

[@aura7153]

Can you tell me a little bit more about your relationship, I'm interested in an INFJ guy

[@ninjapandathethird6241]

I hadn't thought about putting up posters/using totems to stay focused. Thank you.

[@AegisAmaranth]

Thank you very much for the insight, Chris. I deeply appreciate the way in which you communicate this knowledge with us as well. The rational approach with understanding, makes a world of difference. It leaves a much better and long lasting impression on me. You give me the feeling of being allowed some breathing space. Of being understood. it's great to see you in these videos. Thank you for that Chris, it means so much to me. ❤

[@couragecoachsam]

I’m INFJ and my wife is ISFJ. The bit about Si/Se users and their physical environment was very helpful. Thank you!

[@aladdout9454]

do you feel like there's a lack of intellectual stimulation or creativity or deep conversations? how do you deal with that?

[@Thilosophocl3s]

I had an ISFJ wife…. Still one of my closest friends

[@Pheonix1111]

I love how you broke this relationship down via cognitive functions and origins and stating the built in weakness dynamics and how to overcome or get past them in order to have a successful relationship. Excellent video.

[@ashleyching5786]

Silver pairs

[@jyc313]

Damn the part that hit the hardest (in a good way) is towards the end. My infp woman is trying to set up her own business and she values that I bring my experience to her life, and I gently help guide her towards success. Gently, as in never hard advice unless she asks directly, more so validating her thoughts or presenting options for her to think on. And I haven’t told her this yet but I just really want her to shoot for the stars and achieve as high as possible, because I see the happiness it brings her when she wins small battles in her professional setting. Additionally I can see her dreams are much higher than her current comfort zone if that makes sense. Conversely I (infj) does value when she shares her inner thoughts and visions with me. Whether it be a concern, a rant, something she’s proud of, etc I feel most connected and valued in her life during these moments. Having said that she isn’t as open as I am overall so these moments are still rare. We’re still feeling each other out (slow) but it’s rewarding and amazing. Oh and communicate communicate communicate… Cheers.

[@rjh7700]

Hi Rokka✌️yes INFJ's extrapolate off of what information is given to them, by a source that is deemed trustworthy, if you prove your sources not to be trusted, we gonna have some discussions that won't ever get settled

[@brokenchad]

I like chris. Good job man! (INFJ)

[@mehdihassankhanloo5297]

Nice useful explanations. Thank you so much. I see it's so easy for me to annoy INFP's Te Inferior, even with my close friends whom I really care about. Our discussions tend to get personal for them in just seconds. I need help to find out a way to keep a balance between not listening to invalid information and not putting too much pressure for extracting proof. It would be really dope if they could be a little more comfortable explaining their logic of conclusion rather than just stating the outcome of their idea or just saying it's good or right.

[@ScaryMango6755]

Things automatically get personal for me, I really dislike that trait of mine, if I was more objective, and realistic, I would be a happier person..

[@aparnadas359]

Wow U really understand infjs

[@typetraft7566]

I love this guy he's so clear with his knowledge

[@lanalvr2413]

Yay another infp video!! 🥰

[@aladdout9454]

basically both of them gotta be SD focused to some degree?

[@Brickwilliams]

Thank god we are compatible with infp women

[@Brickwilliams]

@@otonashishiroushuuya4241 the 50% that aren’t obese are very cute

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

@@Brickwilliams gym is where them infps at 😩

[@SS-bu8ez]

That's strange, I've yet to meet an obese Infp guy or girl. They are usually more on the thin side. I find ESFJs tend to be overweight.

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

@@SS-bu8ez esfjs and intps

[@Brickwilliams]

@@SS-bu8ez that is strange, my infp brother is pretty obese. They’re typically either too skinny or too fat, but yeah esfjs and intps tend to be the fattest. But id say infp third

[@cacorn982]

I feel pretty hopeless, what if all there is between the two of you is space because it's basically a long distance relationship? ( It ignites my avoidance because there's no "listening".)

[@aladdout9454]

I know an infp and infj pair like that, I think they're one of the few pairs who are likely to make it. Ig you just have to occupy yourself with more activities to not think about that.

[@Violet_Odorata]

Do some online activities such as play games or exchange thought out letters

[@cacorn982]

@@Violet_Odorata to some extent I've grown tired of games. But it also has to do with not being able to play games together. And just waiting on the other person to get themselves "together". But it's just my fault and me yapping.

[@dookhynabeelah4897]

Thanks very much for the useful information 👍🏼 👍🏼👍🏼

[@isabelledinneweth]

Great video 🙏

[@arexru]

Actually great video (infp m, infj w ex)

[@piecesofu9054]

Im curious what u think the outcome would be if an intp and infj have a relationship.

[@DoriterEater]

Spot on

[@abdallahls7673]

Very nice , thank you

[@happysky7964]

Huh?

[@naamnei]

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