How Living in the 'Comfort Zone' Ruined My Life

[@ConnieRiet]

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[@susieqsevenable]

I've had a good life in some ways and highly stressful in other ways. I'm not going to feel guilty to finally be in my comfort zone. It's time to let myself enjoy the last years of my life. However long it will be.

[@claudiabecker4673]

I think a balanced life between enjoying the comfort zone and stepping out of it from time to time to experience new things is the best:)

[@lodersracing]

Yes it's good to enjoy the comfort zone for a while, and then stepping out.

[@Beherenow-p5e]

Totally agree. Balance is the key. I love it as it comes. Comfort and adventure.

[@johnhutchison2268]

My philosophy on life is that I am “a tramp with a home”. I am a widower and I use my house as base and then travel when I can to get out of my comfort zone. This included a 1200 mile walk with wild camping to celebrate my 70th birthday

[@RC-eb5hq]

Perhaps replace the word tramp with explorer?

[@juliehilton1701]

Wow that’s an incredible feat 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@celinefederici6951]

Having a comfort zone often allows one to actually try new things.

[@et1016]

I really believe it depends on our stage in life. As I am ready to enter retirement, my deepest desire is to remain in my comfort zone. I have no interest in leaving that magical place.

[@mitziphillips9889]

Ditto!

[@jeffreydaniels7519]

Fortunately for me I learned at an early age about discipline. Like my father I wake up very early. I don’t remember who said it but it’s how I live. If you do what’s hard your life will be easy, if you do what’s easy your life will be hard. When you do this comfort takes on a whole new meaning and appreciation. That’s why I feel I’m truly blessed. All appreciation comes from a greater understanding of perspective. Discipline is freedom, your physical, spiritual and mental health is freedom and wealth. Nature and physical movement is a gift and a great therapy from the noise of World.

[@hafizshah1069]

So cool! You write so accurate.. can I fly with you.....

[@trekkie-cat]

I don't feel ruined in my comfort zone at all! I need predictable and beauty is still seen!

[@RC-eb5hq]

Ive spent most of my life out of comfort zone due to necessity of supporting myself both physically, financially and emotionally from an early age. Most jobs that bring enough money come with a lot of stress, so..after having burned out my adrenals and nervous system from stress, lack of personal safety and overwork, feeling no guilt for comfort when I can get it.

[@kennethbailey9853]

We Live and we learn. I do still prefer comfort since I spent over 40 years working at least 3 jobs and I pushed myself day and night in all weather. Now recently retired with health challenges from over doing and never allowing myself comfort. If I am able now I would love to allow comfort in. 😊

[@jonpondi1206]

Quite true, always be ready for that curveball though

[@user-px7nh7vs4b]

You have already been in the uncomfortable zone. Now, enjoy the comfort!

[@karenseale9372]

Same here. Take care of yourself.

[@carolineg3079]

Good video. Comfort is not a bad thing I itself but avoiding challenge or change means that your comfort zone shrinks over time as the things in it inevitably change and disappear due to factors beyond your control. As your comfort zone shrinks confidence decreases and anxiety and stress increase so counter intuitively seeking moderate challenge reduces stress by maintaining or increasing resilience

[@SheilaEnglish2]

You have earned a comfort phase in your life. Take care of yourself.

[@margarettownsley9500]

No one likes to be out of their comfort zone but sometimes it’s necessary for us to move forward

[@k.h.8897]

Inspiring, thank you. Shocked by the comments though. So many self proclaimed victims who don't want to take responsibility for their own actions.

[@yvonneb-t3d]

I am 63, now single after raising 3 children. I worked in the travel industry and was able to see the world. I have what I need in life and I thrive when I feel comfort. I no longer have stress or discomfort. Being able to make my own choices brings me comfort. Freedom brings me ultimate comfort and peace.

[@annevogtle5016]

Focusing on helping others who don’t have those basic needs met is another way to get out of our comfort zone. Seeing life through another persons’ less predictable perspective can be life changing. Service can be part of a slow, simple life, and cultivates gratitude.

[@panda3pinguin]

That’s such a beautiful perspective

[@oanastoiciu4950]

Love this. Thank you. Truely for me in this stage of my lifez helping others by empowering them and not doing it for them, it is for sure out of my comfort zone❤. I guess it is unique for each individual😊

[@oliviastar3812]

Well said. We are here to serve others, not just ourselves.

[@jhouse9113]

I want a sandwich with no holes in it, please

[@thatcanadiangrandma]

You're lucky to be privileged enough to have lived such a comfortable life. People in poverty like me, we don't even have to think about a life being too comfortable, because we struggle so hard just to meet our basic needs, that it's uneasy and uncomfortable at all times. I hope you're grateful for that long life of comfort you've experienced so far.

[@nechamascher7199]

Literally fighting for a roof over my head! Single Mother of 8.

[@calleachbeare5173]

@@nechamascher7199 My goodness. Eight children! And no partner to help. How did that happen??? Do you have family near to give some support?

[@nechamascher7199]

@calleachbeare5173 runaway husband, abandonment out of the blue. No support. Always was a stay at home mom. Now hustling like crazy to put basics on the table. Still have a 4 and 5 year old at home, some teens, and 2 married with kids. I'm 45. I'm starting from scratch. Don't see myself ever being comfortable enough to take life easy....

[@acer4237]

I too grew up in poverty and started off y young adulthood in such, decided to make different choices rather than being too comfortable in where I came from because I wanted true comfort. You can do it, it happens but it’s all depends on hard work and attitude!

[@janegallagher6162]

We need a youtube channel on the reality of not having a comfort zone

[@Queenie-the-genie]

Good advice for me. My earlier life was so not comfortable and I struggled for many years raising children as a single mom without any support of any kind. Now I have a good deal more comfort but this is a good reminder that I might not want to count on it to continue throughout my elder years as we are living in a frightfully dangerous world these days. UP AND AT ‘EM!

[@amandasymon4363]

I am taking baby steps following the death of my husband. Your words have so resonated with me. Thank you 🙏

[@elabuterin7150]

Keep taking those steps!

[@ConnieRiet]

Sending you thoughts of healing and peace during this difficult time my friend.

[@suzanajerkovic7296]

💪❤

[@loftonrudolph7586]

RUINED your life?? Seems a but dramatic but I realize you need phrasing that captures viewers. I have to disagree with your stance on this. I live in a NO GUILT zone and I never ever feel bad or less or lazy or fearful because I live sheltered in my comfort. My life was absolutely brutal and draining and made me physically ill. I have days I need to, no I LOVE to stay in my comfort zone. I have allowed my self to grow and discover at my own pace. It may look from the outside that I am not productive or not interesting but I am still worthy and nothing is "ruined". Telling people to get out of their comfort zone by framing it the way you have here is not a great message.

[@AudreyPatton-u9j]

I have started my life all over again at 56! This is my first time that I came across your channel and I ABSOLUTELY loved this video. I subscribed immediately. I am in the process of simplifying my life: getting rid of most of my clothes today. In hindsight I have been simplifying slowly over the years. Getting rid of stuff that Is just taking up space in my home. It is not adding peace to my life. I look forward to watching the rest of your videos. Thanks for sharing 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️

[@annabelladebeer2679]

Very nice clip. All spiritual teachings warn us that "comfort" kills. You quite right in demonstrating that growth of any kind requires one to become uncomfortable.

[@Thomas-Chin10]

Trying new things does not necessarily mean that you are reaching for something beyond your comfort zone. We all have our limitations and there is nothing wrong with that. For a young person of 20 something, it makes sense for him/her to try new things, but for an older person, having comfort can be looked upon as achievement, with the except that person inherited the family wealth. It all comes down to what brings meaning to your life.

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Beautifully said, "It all comes down to what brings meaning to your life."

[@Bronnyley]

I love my predictable comfort zone.

[@mitziphillips9889]

I’m with you. 😅

[@fredacharbel7510]

I feel your pain. And I am glad I stumbled across your video. I am in similar situation, and struggling a lot to get out of my comfort zone. And thinking in my head why should I get out of it if I am comfortable where I am, and thinking I have earned it. And don’t even use the word HAVE to anymore because of the past. And yes it’s not a good thing to be too comfortable because you do loose some of your confidence. And depression and anxiety follows. I am trying to get back into bit of reality and it’s hard, but I’ll keep trying. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and I know we all try our best. Lots of hugs 🤗

[@annaw8685]

My safe, comfortable life allows me to spread my wings and grow. The safety I feel gives me strength as I explore developing new skills and try out new situations

[@barbarajloriordan2697]

Sometimes after life has dealt us several blows, we need comfort and ease. We just need that time to heal. We start to realize when we have had more than enough and then comfort becomes uncomfortable to us. The need for growth appears, and we exert ourselves to meet it. When I hear you say that comfort “ruined your life,” I feel sad. I think that we all go “too far” in our choices and have to re-evaluate them.

[@jonpondi1206]

I needed this badly. Staying in the comfort zone is not real, change is real and adapting to change is survival, the struggle of life must be embraced with an open mind, heart and eyes in order to savor its purpose which is to evolve and not stagnate.

[@CoffeandTea1]

Thank you for sharing

[@juliehilton1701]

I’m taking myself camping alone in August, I know it’s not adventure for many people staying on a camp site but it is very challenging to my safety comfort zone. I’m really looking forward to it but expect I’ll be on high alert all night every night for 2 weeks 😂 lovey area you were walking in there ❤ (hi from England)

[@miltonkornegay4767]

Your idea reminds me of a power outage drill I did when everyone else was out of town. I learned so much about myself! I plan to do it again soon.

[@calleachbeare5173]

@@miltonkornegay4767 What a great idea. Can you share how that worked & what you did? I live somewhere where we have to be ready to bug out rather quickly so I’m prepared fo that but always like new ideas to help.

[@miltonkornegay4767]

@@calleachbeare5173 First, I let my parents know (who live nearby) that I would be out of reach. Then, I double checked my Red Cross/FEMA lists. I did those two things the night before. The next day, I unplugged everything except for the refrigerator/freezer and went through my day with the equipment I had. The goal was to use daylight and fuel found in nature, such as twigs, before switching to my propane camp stove or portable power sources (including the car battery). I assumed that stores would be closed, and with the TV off, I would only have news as long as I could keep my laptop powered by its battery or the hand-cranked radio powered. It was a very quiet day, which is not a bad thing. I had scrub boards to do laundry and a clothesline. Plenty of books and crafts. I will say that one day is not long enough for the novelty to die down and to develop a new normal, so next time, I'd like to do 3-5 days, with only one meal a day. Work maybe more on the bathroom/hygiene side of things by assuming a water crisis so filling up the bathtub and trying out those tips they give for when the toilet's not operational ... any specific questions?

[@miltonkornegay4767]

@@calleachbeare5173 Also, I tried to sleep during the day, so I could be on sentry duty at night...

[@ConnieRiet]

That's fantastic! I LOVE camping! Enjoy

[@astralromance]

Oh my goodness! You filmed this in my country 🇲🇪. Kotor bay, Montenegro 😍

[@LydiaQ17]

I thought is familiar place, not that I visit Kotor but I was good in geography. Anyway, how to get out of comfort zone in one of the most lazy country? 🤔 Not be offended.... greetings from Slovenia. 😉

[@ConnieRiet]

I have fallen in LOVE with Montenegro! Everywhere I look is like living on a postcard and the people are absolutely wonderful.

[@anniecochrane3359]

Perfect Connie. Just what I need to hear. After a bad knee injury I havent made the change from 'nursing' my knee as initially appropriate, and getting back up and out. Walking, gardening and so on. I've stayed in my 'comfort zone' although it is no longer appropriate and has made me passive in life. Up and out I go!!!!!

[@ConnieRiet]

Wishing you continued healing from your knew injury! You've got this!

[@CynthiaGalant-z9d]

Hi Connie I really like your message. Sometimes people try and fail...and then sometimes we succeed. Always try though. Love this.

[@janjentz1053]

What a wonderful video. A lot to think about. It troubles me the skills lost by not teaching children to tell time on an "old fashioned clock"; not learning cursive writing, memoriizing phone numbers. Some click of a button things; I have resisted. I do not do online shopping at all; do not have my groceries delivered; still read physical books from the library. We are in our 70's and recently packed ourselves up and moved to another state. Love to explore and travel. Getting out of our comfort zone is healthy. Thanks for sharing; hope this finds you and your husband well.

[@bridge7528]

I teach second grade. I’m in the middle of teaching time telling on an analog clock. The students keep trying to look at the digital watches on their wrists. It’s a struggle 😊

[@lauramitchell6725]

I agree with everything that you said Jan👍

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you for a lifetime of giving! As a teacher, you have inspired countless children. Nothing will get you out of your comfort zone like moving to another state. Enjoy your new adventures

[@rehngonzales]

I love the comfort zone now! I realized that the best life is the one lived fully. I now know that I don’t thrive in the discomfort and getting out of my comfort zone. I love ease, convenience abundance and safety. I used to find it boring but now I see it as a huge blessing. Life is what you make it!

[@fredhartman1325]

Here's a quote from a movie I watched - "Pushing through fear is the greatest feeling in the world".

[@KrisHughes]

HAHAHAHA!! The problems and solutions of the affluent.

[@pilotsproject]

thank you Connie! 6:12 "it is in the exploration that is that I learn the most about myself" - just what I needed to hear most ... I am ready to leave my comfort zone. You are a great inspiration

[@THFrenchteacher]

This was thought provoking. Thank you! 🙏

[@tg3609]

I appreciate your views and wisdom and that you nudge me to try new things.

[@ConnieRiet]

thank you

[@francesham8756]

Good Morning from Connecticut, USA I am grateful for you . Thank you. Baby stepping it today thank you.❤

[@tilliet00]

such a peaceful exploration and music. thanks for sharing your knowledge. 😊

[@revn9203]

Genting out of our comfort zone is an active but difficult task. Perhaps it is less difficult when we have support and company from close family and friends. For those who have neither finding the motivation and momentum to do so may make this even more difficult.

[@StarCrystal9]

There is a truth in this video. The world turned into stupid, irresponsible hot pot as the consequence of seeking and creating comfort ...

[@selfhelp4uselfhelpprogram43]

Sometimes we need our comfort zone. There are times when life is harsh, we experience pain, loss and suffering. At these times I personally need to run home to my comfort Zone, my safe and familiar place. I would not survive outside this safe place, so I think there is a time for experiencing new and exciting things and a time to seek comfort. My comfort Zone gives me time to reflect during difficult times and to be able to simply be myself and that feeds the soul..We need both and one is not more important than the other, bother necessary parts of our growing in to well balanced people

[@catharinafrederiks4509]

Thank you very much for your openness and honesty. It helps me to take loving care of myself while I'am stepping out of my comfortzone and following my heart🙏🥰🧡🐬

[@moniquek9685]

This video really touched me in a way that now I'm looking at life very differently. Thank you for reminding me to add color to my life! I have gotten a little too comfortable, a little less brave and because of it a little less happy. So thank you. Please know that you are an amazing influence in my life! ❤

[@ConnieRiet]

I'm so glad that this video touched you. Thank you for watching!

[@longyearsbehind]

Another new fashion popular saying “comfort zone “🤦🏻‍♀️🤢

[@KodeyWhiteWolf]

Thank you Connie for this reminder. It is fun doing / going in another direction exploring something different from your own " norm". Even if it makes you feel a bit off balance.....you become the balance you need/ want in your life. Enjoy your life today

[@nevafitzgerald2402]

Yes,I know the feeling you comfort yourself when you can ,may god comfort you and bless you always🐦🙏❤ through god all it possible🙏🙏

[@memedavis4228]

At the end of everyday, I realize we are always in pursuit of our comfort zone ? Think about it.

[@mitziphillips9889]

Powerful!

[@Mimulus2717]

I think it is about balance between comfort and challenge. I came to simple slow living because my life was so full of the grind and hustle of the work environment and rarely saying no to opportunities. I really needed some comfort and down time to heal my body and soul. I still recognize the need for keeping sharp thru getting out my comfort zone, just not all the time.

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. There is a delicate balance to life.

[@karinvantubbergh3418]

You can travel to South Africa and start a soup kitchen for the not so comfortable. That will torpedo you out of your comfort zone!

[@wendy-ld5ck]

Or she can help right here in the U.S.A. where there are hungry people as well.

[@hopon4186]

I was wandering who is filming you? You are not there on your own are you? thank you

[@plateaujourneys]

Amen sister! Thank you for the beautiful reminder (and lovely scenery!).

[@francinehogsett3065]

Beautiful. Where is this….so peaceful 😊❤️

[@robyn_southafrica]

😢😢 Amazing video Connie! New subscriber here! And love that Arora quote 🥺🙏🏾🤍

[@YevetteGooden]

I ❤ your style of narration. It’s calming and soothing.

[@susiemartin6497]

Outstanding message, Connie. Thank you!

[@JuliusFawcett]

boredom dissolves fear

[@conniecornsilk2955]

A decent home, decent neighborhood. I purchase almost everything second hand except for food. I do everything myself keeps me in better health for sure.

[@donnarakitzis2719]

I love being comfy in my zone

[@dianaray1470]

Same

[@robertashaffer3950]

This is beautiful Connie. Thank you ♥️ Yes. My comfort zone. I know it all too well. I'm directing my energy and time into changing this. I appreciate this video very much. 🌻 Take care of your knee! ♥️

[@CelesteThompson-k4r]

Wonderful reminder.

[@lizakroberts]

This video made me want to scream!!! Lucky for you to be so privileged. Wtf. This looks like pure insanity. I seldom write critical comments, but this really hit a nerve… it’s this video a joke? Was it created just to antagonize?

[@lshwadchuck5643]

I know! But she's making a go of this channel. There's a market for her message. No wonder there's so much anger out there. There was a time when all we knew about the uber-comfortable was the exteriors of their homes.

[@lynnetracy3826]

I love that backpack. Not sure if it belongs to you or the place you were staying at the time. Do you happen to have a link or even know the brand? The straps are unique, and I am in the market for a "back friendly" backpack for some day hiking trips coming soon. Thank you for all of your videos reminding me to relax and enjoy the moment I am currently in.

[@elisabethledoussal6979]

As usual this video was beautiful and inspiring. Thank you 😎

[@lodersracing]

Where is the lake in the first shot ? Beautiful!

[@missmayflower]

How can you show all this gorgeous scenery and not even tell us where it is?

[@martinaflower1699]

it says in description:Montenegro

[@Beyondjustjen-mw7gt]

I've heard that it's a First World problem althought I hear what you're saying. I hear you are saying It's more of a mental lethargic you need to get out of rather than a physical well being. Very good video. I love the scenery. And yes, I remember the days when I wanted to "see" the international world was by means of having pen-pals. Now I just click to "traveling" KZbin channels to fulfill that wish ❤

[@mh-ud2vq]

I just wanted to say how overwhelmed I was by what you were saying. You have such a calmness in you that is so unique. I spent 18 years of my life trying to do everything to please others ( inside a strict religion) which I am still fighting within myself to this day, but did not find the peace you speak of. Bless you ❤

[@MichelleRountree-w1x]

Beautiful video and message 🙏

[@majorbarbara1]

Doing my taxes every year gets me out of the comfort zone. As does being a caregiver to my husband with Parkinson’s which is ever changing. It is easy if you have OCD traits to get lulled into repetition rather than trying new things. My new mantra is “try something new.”

[@dannysmith2794]

Thank you, I really enjoyed this...

[@Christine-hr8in]

Swap places with those who have to Work till they Drop or Smell your feet! Jeez!

[@Gingermarie745]

Hi, 🐦🐦🦜🦜🦜May I share the most important news you will ever hear? God the Father sent His holy Son Jesus Christ(Y'shua Ha' Mashiach) from heaven to earth, to be born of a virgin. He grew up and died on the cross for our sins. He was put into a tomb for 3 days, and then Abba Father raised Jesus to life and He appeared to people and went back to Heaven. We must all sincerely receive Jesus to be a true child of God. It says in John 1:12 "But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name." Will you genuinely believe on Christ Jesus and truly receive Him today, before it is too late?

[@noeniwilliams7466]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, it was good for me to hear. I will try to get away from my own comforts more.

[@shivadasa]

Your life does not look ruined.

[@michellebilodeau3882]

Hi from N. Illinois 😊

[@kristamatheny8587]

Hi Connie, I always find your videos very relaxing at bedtime. Also, I am interested in the backpack that you have in this video. Could you possibly post the bag info?

[@mojavelight]

I have the same question. Insightful video as always.

[@kathymarton2411]

Hi Connie, I enjoyed your message today. It’s so true! Thank you, Kathy

[@OddlyAmusedByAll007]

Getting out of the comfort zone can simply mean going in to get the food instead of using grubhub or the drive thru...I've broken into a cold sweat just thinking about that lol Little things like that mixed with little joys are usually only what's needed for a productive day To be honest how many of us had parents who said yes we are making this baby and they will be...insert awesome thing....no...parents only wish for a healthy baby...be kinder to yourself, no one truly knows what the purpose of humans being on this planet is for anyways

[@longyearsbehind]

Comfort zone is good comfort zone is not only peaceful but it’s a luxury, hold on to it if you can.

[@ShivMathur]

I too have a video on my KZbin channel about understanding comfort

[@Fegga1955]

❤❤❤

[@d.b.g9216]

This is so true, to keep an open mind and be open to new possibilities is to truly learn from, appreciate and love life We should never take it for granted. It doesn’t have to be huge changes or amazing holidays as you say just be aware x

[@airstreamer]

We have definitely embraced change. We are constantly changing our location and it has been such a learning curve! I feel "out of my comfort zone" quite often now, but each day is an adventure! 🥰 -Michelle

[@scentsandgems]

Hello from Leipzig, Germany❤

[@donaw1]

I certainly need to be reminded of the rewards of getting out of my comfort zone as it’s so easy to rest and relax in the fact that I’m there after all these years.

[@penguin_mom]

Love your video! Today I discover your channel. Needed to hear this and change my everyday life 🎉🎉🎉

[@marissaclaridge7627]

This is such a lovely video Connie!!!...Thank you xxx...so encouraging!!!xxx

[@SoliGirlTV]

💗

[@lose999]

What country is this? I would 100% get out of my comfort zone if I was there...

[@viki1971]

Montenegro

[@wendy-ld5ck]

Your bored. Without your comfort zone, you would be unable to control those experiences you cherish. Try turning to God, then your life will really become exciting.

[@oliviastar3812]

Exactly this. Hope she and many others take note and turn. All the other stuff is literally 'vexation and vanity' that's why so many are bored and bewildered by first world problems. Yes, there is a season and a time for everything under the sun, though, ironically the whole of this vid feels like a new-age relaxation guide - One where "growing" is just more self-indulgent adventures and bucket-list stuff; maybe it is(?) ... 😲

[@wendy-ld5ck]

I should add that by God, I meant Jesus Christ who has been given the keys to life and death, and everything that exists by the Father. If you want the best, go to the top, and that is Jesus Christ.@@oliviastar3812

[@peggymurphy6747]

Very thought provoking, thank you Connie. And gorgeous scenery.

[@michaelsayre1273]

Well I’m still in love with you

[@agak61]

Comfort but lonely

[@divonnejackson9345]

I am a 64 year old young woman 😊 I love my life. I live in a comfy apartment that I love and I spend time with my grandchildren regularly. But I go out of my comfort zone every day except Sunday. Daily I exercise, meditate, work as a caregiver part time and here's the kicker, today makes 6 months of daily cold showers! Talk about going out of your comfort zone! 😅 But I can say its one of the most rewarding things I have ever done. It strengthens the immune system. I havent had a cold but once since I started and it was mild. It builds your mental and emotional strength and helps me deal with uncomfortable things. Plus cold therapy gives you a natural high. There are tons of KZbin videos about how to start cold showers if you dare! 😊

[@RC-eb5hq]

I've been reading about cold shower therapy, and as much as I respect the concept, it sounds like pure HELL! Does spending 8 months of every year of life either waiting for a bus or scraping snow and ice off car in freezing temps and blistering wind wearing dresses, nylons and high heels count? Then to have to drive to work in snow, and deliver and look professional for 10 hrs after all that?

[@divonnejackson9345]

Yes! All that counts and then some!!

[@Linda-fg2rz]

Good morning from Canada. It takes courage to leave your comfort zone, but I am learning that it is so rewarding and it gets a little easier each time. Love your calming videos in this hectic world.🧡

[@mims2582]

Where is this filmed?

[@jeffj318]

You are a wonderful woman and very calming in this world we live in. ❤😊