How our interactions with people can shape their futures | Dr. Mesmin Destin | TEDxChicago

[@lcharris1685]

Peace and light to Reggie. I know he is proud of his lil bro. I will be even more mindful of my words and support of of the youth moving forward.

[@ShekarRangarajan]

My takeaway: Stories that fortify the self-concept are the true sources of encouragement. Thank you!

[@saratonnan]

Our words can be a force for good or bad. Each encounter should leave the other feeling positive, inspired, uplifted. Fabulous TED Talk. 💗

[@vivalaleta]

I don't think most of us, like you, really take it in when someone's words are an arrow to the heart. I look back and now recognize when I voiced hope and was shot down. We need to instill confidence in our children to stand strong against it.

[@TheCommunicationCoach]

You have to rethink your position in the Comm model, the Sender of a message is not as important as the Receiver, who could completely be devastated when what you think is just casual is actually quite distressing to them. Learn empathy and practice it daily.

[@adrianrocha49]

That's why one of my favorite quotes, didn't used to be, but is now, "be kind to everyone you see, you never know who you might run into that is just barely keeping it together."

[@vivalaleta]

@@adrianrocha49 Thanks for the reminder.

[@amansingh-lj3tg]

the message is so powerful! love and peace to big brother Reggie

[@dorotheevonwerder4303]

What a wonderful speech that was ❣️The influence during childhood is something you can’t choose. You are depending on parents/family and teachers.That often has such a bad impact on a child that it’s really hard to develop a different identity for his further future. So parents/family and teachers should really be cautious with children and young adults and support them in their development.

[@TheCommunicationCoach]

Just by being around them we can do that, you CAN change people; but you can't DIRECT that change or control it much. This is just another misconception and fallacy, since our very presence changes those around us every day! Embrace that change, and think of the possible consequences of any Communication you have with others along with experiences. A harsh word or a loving one can change a person's day just like that. So, DO IT.

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This man is right. However, I represent this population that if told I can not do it and put limitations on my goals, my drive to succeed and prove them wrong helps me to achieve my goals. And yes, I have been put down in past ny people closest to me as a child but my wanting to reach my goals overruled their toxic influence. I have to admit that their poisoning did live scars, but they definitely did not stop me from succeeding. I had zero support and nobody told me how to follow my dreams. This is something I had and have in me GOD THANK you for this. Also i do believe all people that are putting limitations on others do that because they feel unsuccessful. Happy person will never mak3 another being unhappy. I wish all luck to everyone in New Year 2023 ❤🥂❤

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Thank you for TEDxtalks!And Happy New Years 2023🎄😍🎅🌐

[@PeterBeckenham]

Absolutely fascinating how the conversations and messages we share with others can make a remarkable and memorable impact. We can enrich the visions of others who otherwise would have missed these opportunities in both life and business

[@TheCommunicationCoach]

You have to rethink your position in the Comm model, the Sender of a message is not as important as the Receiver, who could completely be devastated when what you think is just casual is actually quite distressing to them. Learn empathy and practice it daily. We CAN change people; but we can't DIRECT that change or control it much. This is just another misconception and fallacy, since our very presence changes those around us every day! Embrace that change, and think of the possible consequences of any Communication you have with others along with experiences. A harsh word or a loving one can change a person's day just like that.

[@PeterBeckenham]

@@TheCommunicationCoach very well said and shared

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@@PeterBeckenham ty

[@babyg9]

AWESOME, and inspirational! Perfect presentation to start the new year, 2023. 💗☮️🙏🏻

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Absolutely awesome! Just gave me the inspiration I needed

[@danielosvaldoromero4377]

It is not a discovery that people around us influence for bad or for good, that's why we have got to chose who quality of persons are going to be our closer friends.

[@TheCommunicationCoach]

More than that, you have to rethink your position in the Comm model, the Sender of a message is not as important as the Receiver, who could completely be devastated when what you think is just casual is actually quite distressing to them. Learn empathy and practice it daily.

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Expectation is keener then enjoyment .We interact with each other we becomes more communicator or orator .Possibilities not comes from comfort zones .A creative mind have more possibilities. Identity valued is a self esteem . This lecture also touch the mental health topic well. . . clapping 👍

[@TheCommunicationCoach]

You have to rethink your position in the Comm model, the Sender of a message is not as important as the Receiver, who could completely be devastated when what you think is just casual is actually quite distressing to them. Learn empathy and practice it daily.

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@@TheCommunicationCoach i will do it and i will improve it.Thank you

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[@TheCommunicationCoach]

Just by being around them we can do that, you CAN change people; but you can't DIRECT that change or control it much. This is just another misconception and fallacy, since our very presence changes those around us every day! Embrace that change, and think of the possible consequences of any Communication you have with others along with experiences. A harsh word or a loving one can change a person's day just like that. So, DO IT.

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[@victoriam9337]

I believe this. My father (now 80, a former teacher) has always said: a person will rise to expectations. Ironic…since I was expected to do nothing, being a girl.

[@TheCommunicationCoach]

You could've still risen to your own expectations, it's what I had to do, having neither a good father or mother or siblings or anyone to count on. I'm probably the better man for it, too.

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Hi, thank you for taking the time to respond. I’m sorry your parents were unavailable. I’m certain that yes, you found strength that you would not have , had they been more helpful. It’s a sad , vicious cycle.

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I hope he is not saying that a negative reaction of a guidance counselor impedes our progress in life.

[@TheCommunicationCoach]

It sure can!! Whether he said it or not.

[@ivangohome]

@@TheCommunicationCoach I had lots of discouragement, bit that actually made me do a lot more research instead of just expecting to do well. (Maybe that's why he succeeded!)

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Am I crazy or was there an audience member wiping their eyes, crying under their shirt?

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Quirky "white" gentleman? As this presentation has been very interesting, shouldn' t pinpoint someone's colour if it 's not the case to have to.

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