How People Develop a Critical Inner Voice

[@1RPJacob]

The way we talk to our children become their inner voice.

[@sentry007]

This isn't true. My parents never devalued me in their speech. If anything, they were especially uplifting. For me, it was the chronic trauma of alcoholism.

[@mbogucki1]

@@sentry007 Same here. My parents were fairly supportive, understanding, and loving. Yet today, at 39, my inner critic is screaming inside my head and making the days very difficult.

[@eulabarredo5186]

True in my case

[@FengdaThe]

I have this inner voice inside my head that it’s almost constantly judging every-move I try to make; even when I do something small in the house… and I developed the ability to contradict it like: Yeah I do what I want. When I am at home I say it to myself : Yeah ok that’s how I do it. It really wants to hold me back and make me feel less or guilty . That was my mother all of my childhood, always not happy with anything and projecting her bad feelings onto me criticizing constantly every move. I am doing better and better at healing this inner voice and I am sure soon enough will just vanish!

[@morethanamess1980]

Thank you for this, I have been treating myself the same way and seeing your comment perfectly articulated the dynamic with my own mom.

[@jayitsme5306]

This is so clear, why on earth is there no other comments? Thank you Tamsen

[@sophiafake-virus2456]

Because her interpretation is not necessarily correct.

[@hamishroberts-lewis1252]

This makes an incredible amount of sense wow

[@FreeJulianAssange23]

Constant guilt trips, shaming, and blame haunting my every action.

[@theschoolofbodylanguage]

Excellent

[@sirgamer3795]

Great video so interesting, I learned a lot here thank you

[@Animie222]

I need help here I also have critical internal monologue in which I thinks it's a different person who is controlling me and judging my every move like if I am walking I get inner voice go back to this place and walk again like this or if I am taking anything I have to do this move 3 to 4 times I get voices if I don't do this bad thing happens which I am afraid of and I do this than it don't happen it's soo frustrating can anyone help me here please

[@nicolette845]

It would be great if you could attach who the theorists are behind this. This was so clearly explained. Thank you

[@nicolette845]

(Freud’s harsh superego)

[@joshuatharp491]

Wow

[@ferlucimybrother6284]

dare to love... this seems like a beautiful life and full of love. but whats life and whats love?? know this... and it is warning, not punishment. our creator warned us. upon becoming in the flesh, a fresh vessel, you will experience life and love. But dare to love, to live life you must enter the fleshy vessel and to come back....you must leave the vessel. They will call it "die" and scare you from the exit/the only way back..... so as saying "to go there, and live, when done you will have to come " is also said "to live, you will have to die." LIKE WISE.... is the same for everything. Even this emotion,.. love. A warning before daring to love. and as just mentioned, to go in, and live, you shall too have to experience the ending...and comeing out of. So for everything you dare to love, you will have to experience the loss of. the pain the distraught hurt that will echo throughout your being. nothing is ours to keep, its all for borrow, even our vessels. NO ONE IS GETTING OUT ALIVE, and We arent taking anything with us when we leave. therefore the greatest warning, to live you must too die, and to love you must too let go. for if you make it til old age and still hold the hand of that whom you love, unless by the blessing of passing at the same time, you will have to experience their death or they will experience your death. and the longer you love, the deeper it gets, the greater the hurt. it is inevitable, and a guarantee, that you must experience and end to everything in your life. and a letting go or leaving it behind as you cross over. That hurt from the loss of what you love will be the same amount you loved them. you will love in and through death and even beyond death, but the earth and every "thing" or persons you dared to love within the life there of..... cannot be kept or brought with you when you come back. each at their own time and each with their own hurt. You will be lucky to never fall in love, but very blessed to even experience a taste of - MichÅel Joseph keÅrney

[@annamendoza1949]

So how many times during the borrowing of the flesh this vessel must we give and recieve love to find that One Ultimate, blissful, resiliante love, a love that will defy the laws of nature so to speak. Hiw many family members must love us and die for is to experience the love hurt and gratefulness of their life for us to choose a worthy person to walk beside us for the a long time. And how selfish yet it is of us to choose one person to make us happy till we die. To limit their experiences, pains, and happiness. To tie their Joy's and sorrows to our walks of life and demand respect and love despite the outcome? To live longer in this borrowed vessel and happier we must let out energy be felt thru space and time as a whole. Not as couple here and there or as a single happy person on their own. But As a group maybe Either large group or multiple small ones who dont mind grouping to make a larger one if the universe asks it of them. But happiness found experienced and loved as an entire cognitive group of peoples of their own free will which was given to us will grant us access to recieve longer borrowed time. Simply becuase we are handling it so well and the universe senses it.

[@sophiafake-virus2456]

I do not agree with this explanation.

[@marilynmotto-ros5139]

If you ask me that is a demonic spirit 🔥