@@BenchedViews Be patient and don’t think about it just do it
@chimaegwu51782 жыл бұрын
Do you still feel the withdrawal symptoms and urges??
@chimaegwu51782 жыл бұрын
I'll like to connect with you personally on Facebook or WhatsApp.Whats your name on Facebook
@blainetrahan88832 жыл бұрын
@@chimaegwu5178 no, I was to busy on my purpose. When you are super busy, you are to tired for that stuff. My wife and I own 2 businesses so we are extremely busy
@chimaegwu51782 жыл бұрын
@@blainetrahan8883 I'm almost seven months now on the recovery journey but I still urges and symptoms too, irrigation,fears of all kinds headaches and all,not like I'm idle,I own a business too.please what do you think I do
@srinath624710 ай бұрын
You're always motivating people who struggle from porn addiction and victims who are exploited by the porn industry. You're teaching us to be active rather than living a sedentary lifestyle. You rock, Dr.🤘!
@bobhuisbaas12 жыл бұрын
Started jogging hitting the gym massages cycling meditation walking in the forest reading books songwriting learn playing guitar drawing art drinking more water eating healthy foods in the kitchen also trying new things 💪
@DrTrishLeigh2 жыл бұрын
Wow awesome! I love to hear it
@bobhuisbaas12 жыл бұрын
@@DrTrishLeigh thanks for your support and your videos it's very hard to overcome this addiction due to the extreme dopamine shots in the reward centre of the brain but i'm working on it everyday i have a new job doing something good for society and i also follow therapy sessions now never stop fighting porn it used to be my dirty little secret my save place nobody knew or came close to because of the fear getting caught i had a wound underneath from past trauma until it nearly destroyed me... life is finally getting better after 15 very dark years...🙏
@emmanuelpeter68942 жыл бұрын
130 days. Going strong 💪
@s.h.a.u.n.h2 ай бұрын
🤩
@JoeDaddy1110 ай бұрын
Definitely glad I found this information it is invaluable. I needed to learn this for myself, and so I can teach my son when he is older.
@jaypolarbear8 ай бұрын
this video is so good at explaining this dopamine depletion. it makes perfect sense. thank you dr.
@ericdrake9042 жыл бұрын
Going well. I notice a definite improvement with dopamine. Feel enthusiasm after a hard day's work. No rush to the screen 😂 no PMO
@Phoenix_cataclysm_in_2040 Жыл бұрын
And no "superpowers". 🤔
@ericdrake904 Жыл бұрын
@@Phoenix_cataclysm_in_2040 no.not yet.. maybe one day.😁
@Phoenix_cataclysm_in_2040 Жыл бұрын
@@ericdrake904 I guess feeling like a decent human being who can relate to others and enjoy normal life without staring at nude chicks on screen can be called superpowers as majority up to their ears in that stuff. And people and especially girls notice inner calm and not being a creep. They like it, they feel safe - something that all normal girls want. So here you have it, a superpower already. 🤔
@alexandrutrandafir7892 жыл бұрын
Hi doctor from Romania. I am that guy who was on the roof when we talked. I am Mocanu. I managed to stay put more than 90 days. It did change my life. I didn't collapse. Thank you so much. I keep you in my prayers. I cannot say more about my identity. I never want to return back to my old habits. I don't know what to do to repay you. Thank you. I also renounced the internet. Now I write from a friend to let you know about what I did. Thank you. I cry with joy.
@RhommelPardilanan Жыл бұрын
Very good information thank! That’s make sense
@jemarhall8082 жыл бұрын
Love you Dr.Trish Thank you so much
@arjen4717 Жыл бұрын
Excellent explanation 👍
@mikesecret27312 жыл бұрын
Day 7, one week 🥳! I know that it’s not much but it’s worth celebrating for me. I feel like a lot of my addictive tendencies were built on top of my porn habit. I’ve tackled most of those, but I think once I adjust to my new normal dopamine levels I’ll have a much easier time quiting my last vice. coke beaten ✅ nicotine beaten ✅ porn beaten (for now)✅ MJ ❌
@cupboardofcheese1529 Жыл бұрын
Hows it going?
@Phoenix_cataclysm_in_2040 Жыл бұрын
Didn't realise being addicted to Michael Jackson songs is a problem for someone - yet here you have it. 🤔
@elijahschnake3863 Жыл бұрын
@@Phoenix_cataclysm_in_2040blame it on the Boogie
@Wiseamphibian872 ай бұрын
Dude ; that’s a lot of addictions 😧😧!!! I hope you were able to get rid of them all since it’s been two years ; esp Nicotine & coke ; those send you to an early grave 🤨🤨!!!
@marceloamaral1468 Жыл бұрын
Contless huges in your feets dear Drª.!Thanks for everething !
@redflava78712 жыл бұрын
Dear doctor, Firstly thank you very very much for these video. I am 37 now. I started porn when I was in college. I am not married. My addiction to porn was due to backstabbing love trauma. With lot of difficulty I picked myself up and started walking again. A girl came into my life one day and it seemed like everything was gonna be fine. She was in difficulty. I helped her in tough situations in her life financially and mentally , jeopardising my own career. After she came back to normal ,share started picking fights with me and one day backstabbed and left, leaving me mentally and financially broke. After this the intensity of the porn increased it has lot of anger, hate and anguish in my heart. I understand how porn is damaging my mind. I understand everything you said. But my future looks very bleak with respect to healthy life and happiness. I probably won’t marry ever. I won’t watch porn , for myself (thanks to you), I won’t masturbate (you said it is porn related). So what options do I have ? How does a human being live normally ? Is it possible to live like this ?
@alanefzi6289 Жыл бұрын
This video is very enlightening ❤
@paulnorton36072 жыл бұрын
Everything she is saying is so true it's scary that as a woman she is aware of what is happening in a man's brain. She has never experienced the way a man feels or his desires but she knows everything that is causing us problems, and why?
@orandachildren10512 жыл бұрын
Went to college n that.
@hdjdbfbfdybrjtig42142 жыл бұрын
I’m 15, I can’t feel sad anymore bc of lack of dopamine, I can’t feel happy and I haven’t felt exited or mad. Prn has taken my emotions from me, I never knew people experienced no happiness or emotion, wow this is a relif that’s so much.
@Leandre22_022 жыл бұрын
I’m surprised at the age of 15 you realized you were addicted look bro get the headband and get the 90 day program or save some money to buy the program your young you got a whole life ahead of you stay heathly go to the gym at your school life some weights, bro you have a whole life ahead of you bro your at a clean slate hang in there kid
@Brother_Nazarite Жыл бұрын
As a man in his 30's, who's struggled for over 20 years (it wasn't even until I was in my late 20's that I put 2 and 2 together.), you're lucky to have caught it so fast. It will only get harder, if you let it continue any longer. You don't want to deal with 20+ years of addiction. That is a hard dragon to slay. Good luck to you, young man. And when you're free, don't go back. Only one wrong look can take you right back to the start. Wishing you the best.
@Illopportunity248 Жыл бұрын
@@Brother_Nazarite Me too lol I'm in my late 20s and I was a grown ass 25 yo dude when I started realized something was wrong. I'm such a dumbass. When you are so deep down in this shit you don't even notice girls interest in you, you're just completely blind to it, this nasty stuff will turn you into a zombie unable to find pleasure and interest in anything, not even in porn at one point.
@NeedSomeNuance2 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr. Trish! Thanks so much for your work. Please keep it up as your videos have been the best for me
@ottomanpapyrus93652 жыл бұрын
Wonderful person
@FarrisMathenyАй бұрын
Thank u doctor trish, u have educated me and many others on how to flee the porn nightmare, God bless u for ur life saving work , please continue the instruction 🤯🧰💪🙏🙏🙏
@DrTrishLeighАй бұрын
Thank you for the kind words!
@Viralnews-kj2ti Жыл бұрын
Love ya, best channel!
@TCAPRecipes3 ай бұрын
Thank you for all you do.
@sunnyonthebeach8 ай бұрын
Everything you said is 💯 true 😭
@salto19949 ай бұрын
1 month clean
@ayahprince96342 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Dr Trish for exposing the devil that has been eating up my joy and happiness. The Truth shall set you free...i am free indeed. Thank you Jesus.
@flybeep16612 жыл бұрын
THese are the kind of comment that will have other people run away from this in a big hurry. Religious extremism....yes that's what you are. "exposing devil", "truth set you free..." scary talk, extremists. And then going on to attribute to "jesus" and not the doctor who helped. Idiocy.
@skeetamus19842 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna lie, the struggle is real. when sleep deprived it's not as bad anymore whereas before it was really difficult not to watch porn. but now even in my dreams, it's like they're trying to convince me to watch. i may not be addicted like before, but old habits die hard. though i might slip up, at least i have this which subscribed too to help me with this porn struggle. thank you, truly. it won't be easy but i believe i can overcome this.
@10382282 Жыл бұрын
How? 🥹🥹🥹
@ToddBedusek Жыл бұрын
Trust me not just a young person issue ,turning 51 in may,could care less ,went to bar last yr.talked about terry crews manhood .What does muse do?
@Auggies19562 ай бұрын
Well, I'm safe on that issue. I have a brain disease and two weeks ago I was involved in testing and I passed that one.
@tienmou682 жыл бұрын
Great video - as always! Love your insights, Doc. Thank you.
@ToddBedusek Жыл бұрын
For some reason my brain wont heal its 2023 still in a dreaed flatline,im tired no motavation forb anything ,good o'ld death grip ,tried mutiple supplemnts,tried tms therpy etc.dark chocalte,im on disabily bc of this crap,lower back pain,frequent urination
@robbiegibson4112 Жыл бұрын
Every time I make a comment my phone takes a photo of it? I don't understand why ? It flashes like it's taking a photo.
@mrScififan22 жыл бұрын
Yay! Dr.Trish! More actionable wisdom!
@emmahammond741Ай бұрын
How long does it take to see a reduction in these thoughts? 😩
@baxcel2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much this video was right on time because I'm having all kinds of urges fighting non-stops, thank you so much.
@hisodesu1 Жыл бұрын
Good points. Good one yet. So true. It’s a man’s kryptonite.
@shawnh2651 Жыл бұрын
Best clip
@darkangel907072 жыл бұрын
You are the best doctor.
@DrTrishLeigh2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for those kind words my friend
@srinath624710 ай бұрын
Are endorphins and dopamine interchangeable terms? And what's the role of oxytocin?
@MamaMielke2 жыл бұрын
Hey doc! I had a question maybe you could answer in part of a video: So, many people know about the Coolidge effect which is where you need novelty to keep dopamine and arousal high. How does this translate to real life? Does this mean my brain will be unsatisfied with just one partner forever? Or, is this desensitization a symptom that goes away gradually when one quits porn. Thank you
@NeedSomeNuance2 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing. Ultimately I think the desires don’t actually escalate for me, but I still have other reasons that I want to quit
@Thechroniclespodcast Жыл бұрын
Let’s talk about this. Not hide in the shadows
@taiwohassan71139 ай бұрын
I have been having too much sexual thoughts lately doctor which is making me lose focus in a way though but I’m in control !!!
@techstudio62932 жыл бұрын
2 months so far
@brandonpinto52902 жыл бұрын
Here's a congratulatory comment to boost your natural dopamine production!👍2 months deserves a celebration .🎉
@timetravel69132 жыл бұрын
There is only so much excersie I can do. My happiness seem link to it . If I feel pain like pulled muscle or joint problems or can't move or excersie as well for what ever reason I get so depress. See escorts too for touching and hugs and also same theory as excersie for me, movement to feel good. And music again even better if I can move to it . And finally eating healthy I love that too, it just feels better, body feels balance not dehydration like when you eat unhealthy . I also take dog to park. I do most of it what you say yet I still have a screen problem . Social isolation and social anxiety
@chimaegwu51782 жыл бұрын
Hello Dr,I've been on the recovery journey for almost 7months now but I still feel the withdrawal symptoms and urges too,I leave in Nigeria and it's hard to connect with you on your website, please I'll like to speak with you on Zoom and do the necessary thing to get help, thanks Dr
@Illopportunity248 Жыл бұрын
I have a question: should i stop using videogames too?
@craftedwithart7 ай бұрын
Yes
@jesseshaver22622 жыл бұрын
You should do a collab/podcast with Andrew Huberman!!
@doubledribble13004 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@mind-cy5xe2 жыл бұрын
Very well info... Love and blessings from India to u and ur beautiful family...
@avidrationalist72815 ай бұрын
How very high dopamine levels are called supernatural, very high dopamine levels should be unnatural.?? I think you have to reword this to avoid confusion.
@davidortega21022 жыл бұрын
Good video as always
@fredferd26492 жыл бұрын
Bad video as always
@charlesgray1076 ай бұрын
Porn since I was 12 now 34 years old. Did 40 days this year free of pron and semen retention. Had a little relapse for a couple of weeks but knew it wasn't for me. So now 14 days semen and PMO free. Only have lustful thoughts but it's so much easier now.
@FoZeusMaximus2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.
@muchasgracias85802 жыл бұрын
3 days clean. Thank you doc
@vidmantaskvidmantask71342 жыл бұрын
Also i recommend to sometimes lay down in bed and close your eyes ank keep saying my eyes relax my eyes relax my eyes relax and get into relaxation state, rest eyes and enjoy this state. Or take a bath or shower. Also watch into the window with a cat. Listen to rain. Draw your dreams that you had during sleep. Watch animation to get you into good mood. Go for a walk. Do cold shower it gets you good mood. Avoid tender blankets because it can do harm by making you too excited. Go for a walk if you can. Watch birds. Photograph the neighborhood you are living in: clouds, trees, streets. Do a video. Show it to others. You can do sunlight meditation. You need to relax and imagine that there is golden light around you. Imagine falling into this light. Feel relaxed. At first nothing special will happen, but if you continue this, you will start to feel like that golden light, your mood will become better. People who had meditation in life understand what it is. It works well when you do 16 hour fasting. Because you start getting energy from your positive imagination with golden light and not screen. Its different feeling. And you might feel light feelings. Meditation helps.
@stevenmay30422 жыл бұрын
Doctor Trish Leigh could you answer my question? Over the length of 10 years with a quessitment of 7-8000 times of masterbation at age 32.. will the dopamine ever go to a fraction of what you should have?
@charlesgray1076 ай бұрын
Yes. But in time. How do you think drug users go back to normal after a long period of dopamine surge. Hopefully you've healed up!
@iaingraham49112 жыл бұрын
Excellent it's all making sense now thanks 👍😊🤗😁
@acadevtv2 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful
@Cristianjulianchigbolu2 жыл бұрын
Do you think smoking marijuana increases the likelihood of relapsing? Thanks 🌞
@petey6112 жыл бұрын
Yes, it can.
@PappaMustafa2 жыл бұрын
thank you
@matthewmcgill97612 жыл бұрын
You’re so amazing
@Nubako4632 жыл бұрын
7 days clean
@Ryan-kw7gj2 жыл бұрын
10 months. No porn, no masturbating. I haven’t exactly had a rejuvenated interest in my hobbies. Sometimes I wish I never learned how to play the guitar.
@petey6112 жыл бұрын
I'm confused, Why would you wish that?
@amarshrivastava275310 ай бұрын
❤100%
@hardikkhatri87222 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of first edition of easypeasy way by first hack author.
@realzfor2 жыл бұрын
The first week was willpower. The last 7 weeks have been the flatline.
@West10103 ай бұрын
1 year clean this month. Why does your brain release unnatural levels of dopamine from porn? Why isn't about he same amount as from a normal sexual encounter?
@edwarddunphy30992 жыл бұрын
From you're experience on average how long does it take to re wire you're brain?
@differentvoices62412 жыл бұрын
6 months
@kanadian94182 жыл бұрын
I just have a question. now I am trying hard to quit porn. I get that quitting porn helps our brain restructure in the right way, but I am curious what if my body just physically wants sexual activity? Then can I just masturbate without watching porn? isn't it gotta affect my brain bad? so complicating.
@therichbuddha32772 жыл бұрын
It's not complicated. Keep researching, Dr. Trish addresses this. This is your journey. Are you on PMO, No Fap, SR, TM??
@Kikklarios6 ай бұрын
Śaw this little bit late thanks anyway.
@emmanuelpeter68942 жыл бұрын
PLEASE!!! Dr Trish can you touch on weed as an addiction just like you do with Porn. Alot of us need a comprehensive breakdown just like this.
@exelmans88552 жыл бұрын
Stop it and that’s it.
@Cristianjulianchigbolu2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@emmanuelpeter68942 жыл бұрын
@@exelmans8855 If stopping addictions was that easy you wouldn't be here fam
@Bayo1062 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuelpeter6894 addiction is more about the pain that you have in your life. remove the pain
@exelmans88552 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuelpeter6894 Im only here for the dopamine advice. If you are watching P, an industry who rapes girls and women, I consider you as a luciferian, the lowest kind of animal, stay away from me.
@Wealthy_Mystic2 жыл бұрын
Exercise make me depressed though, most of my relapses happened after exercise
@Ocean_Man_2 жыл бұрын
Yeah but constantly thinking that masturbation is ruining your life can actually trigger a placebo effect that can actually make it dangerous. Also trying to suppress sexual thoughts too much can actually do the opposite since you experience anxiety every time you try to suppress it making it a compulsion much like what is seen in people with OCD. And if you can't quit the habit just find something or someone in your life that you love and stop overfixating on the sexual thoughts. If you really can't get rid of them you should consult a proffesional maybe its linked to a mental health condition.
@BlackAM2 жыл бұрын
3rd month no porn 👍🏽
@bryantcofty2709 Жыл бұрын
I know that you want everyone to do the work that they love but that's a fantasy for 99% of people. Most people don't even know what that would be. Most people just want a good paying job that they don't hate. In addition, someone had to do all the menial tasks and that's 99% of jobs. You may be unintentionally sabotaging people by making them feel that if they can't make a living "doing what they love" them they're a failure.
@icephoenix10242 жыл бұрын
Porn is not normal. Still, about 60-70 % of the sum total content on the internet its said to be some kind of porn or nudes. Crazy.
@tariqleighton-lawrence74702 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to restore getting normal dopamine after a porn addiction?
@winny-razzy2 жыл бұрын
Doc....why do I get more anxious on long time of staying away from p**n.?
@Janadu2 жыл бұрын
Withdrawal
@Janadu2 жыл бұрын
Withdrawal
@jameselliott77293 ай бұрын
I love who you ar3
@josephpriester45242 жыл бұрын
Like
@unclegator2 жыл бұрын
I don’t like porn. My wife calls me a prude. I’m not a prude it does nothing for me that is all. I like romance movie that take the high rd.
@Janadu2 жыл бұрын
Women become addicted to porn too. Just sayin'. And it's not healthy for them either.
@fredferd26492 жыл бұрын
Maybe it needs to be depleted.
@cheng50782 жыл бұрын
will playing video game affect my reboot?
@Mklpfn2 жыл бұрын
from the creators of "why you should select the most virgin partner in the world" and "less is more and when your partner knows less about the world outside, the more attractive you would become to her " the perfect excuses for jealous people with toxic relationships
@Nubako4632 жыл бұрын
I come back when I am on day 17
@theguynextdoor49782 жыл бұрын
So what you're basically saying is: Replace problematic dopamine, with healthy dopamine to keep the urges in check?
@vidmantaskvidmantask71342 жыл бұрын
Advice: avoid garlic and onion. Those two can make you too excited.
@ToddBedusek Жыл бұрын
Ed meds all over adult sights
@Brownnproud912 жыл бұрын
Can you talk about how masterbation only adds to the damage and how it also depletes dopamine and acetylcholine levels and HOW TO RECOVER from it
@chimaegwu51782 жыл бұрын
It's same thing, you can't masturbate without porn or some image on your head
@ezzzbattery75252 жыл бұрын
Am 30 years.. I promise to stop it... but I just did it
@ashog14262 жыл бұрын
Its not all crimsons and clover but when I dont uhmmm I notice my mood is a lot more stable not that im always happy but not such high ups n downs a little more medium mood more often if that makes sense.. lol
@dannymorales21392 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙌🏾💔 🥺
@mikefun74822 жыл бұрын
Would love an accountability partner
@Nubako4632 жыл бұрын
12 days clean
@ishansharma53522 жыл бұрын
Beautiful women going to this industry
@Janadu2 жыл бұрын
With the help of make up, plastic surgery, augmentations, botox, etc. Beauty is only skin deep. Look for beauty within and not the phony surface crap.
@ishansharma53522 жыл бұрын
@@Janadu some are very beautiful without much make up....also they good at heart ....sunny leone
@fredferd26492 жыл бұрын
would you prefer ugly ones?
@aveong20542 жыл бұрын
Is it okay to have sex even tho you have porn induced erectile dysfunction?
@lisaMay19662 жыл бұрын
I think this is why everything is boaring to him..all he does is complain about everything then run to his phone
@lisaMay19662 жыл бұрын
He denies it or gaslights me with something totally off topic
@fredferd26492 жыл бұрын
boaring?
@tomdixon12132 жыл бұрын
Lets get porn out of our libraries. A college girl can’t be safe in a library anymore because the American Library Association considers it free speech and won’t filter it.
@fredferd26492 жыл бұрын
Free speech!
@Marcel-hl5yz2 жыл бұрын
S
@ELChapo7.622 жыл бұрын
Super Beautiful lady, i think you might be the reason i relapse 😍😍🥰🥰🥰