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[@KennieJD]

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[@luciferteaparty]

The link in your description doesn't work This one in the comments works, just not the other one

[@everythingedible8893]

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[@SamSam-esqe]

😢😢

[@jimmyneutron4632]

The GROSSEST line here is "it's not an accusation... it's an aspiration" Nah fam.

[@DinadoesitBETTER]

Sooooooo, John Travolta has FIVE movies that has a 0% rotten tomatoes score, pleeeeeeeeas make my day and view all 5. ❤

[@alyssaj8779]

The bisexual representation we didn’t need ... and didn’t deserve.

[@alyssaj8779]

@@Make_AWish should've kept the receipt

[@TupocalypseShakur]

@@alyssaj8779 it didn't come with a receipt

[@alyssaj8779]

@@TupocalypseShakur that's how they get you

[@stephaniesaslut12616]

Bisexual here and yes I agreee

[@MariSheWolf]

What makes me even more mad is that he mentions pansexuality and sexual fluidity. Like, bitch, when we finally get some representation other than 'bisexual' is in this shitshow of a movie? Fuck everyone involved.

[@ladyliana7093]

I messaged the director to find out about what the language was and what they were saying and he said "It’s a made up language that only the two of them understand (until Beau starts to figure out some of it). The audience isn’t supposed to understand, except for clues they can get from context." I was wayyyyyy to curious and had to know what they were saying. hahahahha

[@_bebeboudeur_]

so it's between the twins only in theory?

[@Keedy95]

Thank you for your service 😂 I was looking for this

[@KamiAva]

That's bad writing (⁠｡⁠•́⁠︿⁠•̀⁠｡⁠) but thank you very much for your service 🫡

[@jesslynbitters9768]

Hella lazy, especially since they didn’t make it known in the film. It also feels like a lie bc the mom seemed to understand what was said during the racist Jewish doctor bit 😂.

[@Chiggianya]

God bless you 🫡🫡🫡

[@Esmeyippie]

"She's giving final boss yaoi fan who loves a toxic mlm situation more than she loves the air she breathes." literally had me DEAD on the floor.

[@xrrgr]

💀

[@jamangel]

Lmfao

[@00s.v.n.s00]

It's such a perfect description. Just a *perfect* description. 🤣🤣

[@user-eq5vy4he7w]

i thought you meant multi-level-marketing

[@laurabalconi4267]

"OH NOW HE SPEAKS IT" "Well said" "WHAT DID HE SAY?!" Please I'm dying💀💀💀

[@CrippledChaosClown]

I'm not sure why but this movie feels like a hate crime towards a few different groups including the dying community lmao

[@kunglaoshat1250]

Not the dying community 🤣🤣🤣

[@salem-01]

Screaming crying throwing up

[@diandriasmith889]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jamstahjam]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nafeesahtynetta]

Actual tears!!! 😂

[@strawberrylime33]

I'll bet the writers think this movie is a love letter to the lgbtq+ community when it's really just a love letter to Colleen Hoover. But seeing Kennie lose her mind was the laughter I needed today. Thanks, Kennie!!😊

[@allygator2026]

Omg I can’t wait for her to rip apart the it ends with us after it comes out

[@moustik31]

I was thinking, this movie was an op by homophobes to make us queer people look bad under the guise of inclusion. 😂

[@moustik31]

​@@allygator2026 Omg. I'm so happy, that Kennie watches all these movies. I dont want to watch them but I definitely want to know about them. Do they have announced the casting already?

[@Tareltonlives]

@@allygator2026 THEY'RE MAKING MOVIES OUT OF HOOVER NOVELS?!

[@cassiehosh1677]

NOT COLLEEN HOOVER 😭😭😭

[@maenochka1833]

Honestly this would have been an amazing gothic horror about a controlling narcissist who's answer to her imminent death is to coerce her husband into transferring to an extension of herself: her twin (who it's implied she had an equally controlling, borderline incestuous toxic relationship with).

[@ladykynthos]

THISSSSSSS, OH MY GOD, I HAVE BEEN THINKING OF HOW TO FIX THIS MESS EVER SINCE THE START OF THE VIDEO AND THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN SOOOO MUCH BETTER Ok, I'll calm down. But *for real, tho,* you could make her character being like seriously controlling of her brother's life since the beginning because of some standard fucked up reason that's plausible enough because of the type of plot we're dealing with: her almost dying and being like "This is unacceptable" and then basically forcing her brother and husband to be together as a form of "His life and mine's are the same, so when I die you I'll have to treat him exactly as if it were me, cuz I'll live within him". And the whole thing seriously NEEDS to be almost completely focused on the psychological aspect of the characters; it needs to be a certain battle of wanting to have your independence as a human being but continuously being disregarded as such to the point you yourself believe you are not worth as your own being. It needs to be a transition from "I'm doing this despite I hate it, *because I have to*" to *"Why* the hell would I have to do this??" and it definitely needs to showcase the pain that the overly controlling wishes of the wife put into their lives. Like, none of them should be happy for doing it and when they start to feel they are "in love" it *needs* to be a conflict like "Am I feeling this because *I* feel it or because *she* told me to?" or something of the sorts, not like whatever the fuck this movie tried to do with the homophobia thing. And I know it's a metaphor that's been done a lot of times with way better themes and that even so the whole plot of this still summarizes as "I'll die: fuck my brother against your wishes, because I say so" no matter how you execute it. But what I'm trying to say is that the concept has a lot of potential if carried out in the right way, and this movie didn't know how to do that at all. Missed opportunity of making an at least decent plot with that.

[@ladykynthos]

Too much text, sorry 😔

[@joeq3838]

@@ladykynthos I’d watch the hell out of that movie

[@ladykynthos]

@@joeq3838 Me too!!

[@joeq3838]

@@ladykynthos And the cinematography and setting would absolutely have to match, everything in the shadows or filmed really early in the morning, when everything is grey, with either the twins belonging to some disgraced 19th century noble family, and Beau being New Money and the only solution to saving the family’s castle. OR, because of the LGBTQIA angle, it could be neo gothic, set in our century, with the twins having grown in a delapidated mid century modern house, because their dad got arrested due to some ponzi scheme and their mother, a former celebutante, became a shut-in because of the scandal. And Beau is a bright-eyed aspiring politician, that could save the family’s name. Lily, obviously, had to spend her teenage years taking care of her mother and by extension Caden (for reasons) and wanting to marry Beau of to him is just the “natural” progression of that

[@smiles05]

"I can't believe that my own father is having an affair with my boyfriend." girl when I heard that I passed away😆

[@hakiymyoung2513]

I'm gonna need to watch that movie lol

[@erinnadia0409]

I need to see this film now! 😅😂

[@spoonflaps12]

I just watched it and it is absolutely hilarious in all the worst ways!

[@tboy355]

@@spoonflaps12 where u watched the dub

[@MsReveur]

I am concerned because this is the premise of an episode of "Criminal Intent" and that didn't end well at all.

[@Viyanca]

they said homophobia is when you won't get down with your wife's brother

[@moustik31]

Homophobia is when you are straight but your wife wants you to be bisexual. /s.

[@sarahleony]

When you won’t get down with your wife’s brother immediately upon her dying of cancer

[@alimica]

many have said this

[@edithel4555]

JFKFFIFJDJF LMAOOOO

[@moonyasnow36]

Less than 48 hours after her tragic death, might I add

[@ayuders]

You know the premise could work if the main female was in a fake marriage with her gay husband and the movie is about her encouraging him to come out and be with his true love, her brother, after she passes

[@icedceilin]

But that would require actually good writers, so here we are...

[@salem-01]

That could be an actually cute movie honestly

[@raichutoyou]

Wow! your sentence is a better story than this whole movie!

[@Soulociraptr]

That is miles better than what...whatever this movie is 😂

[@Nancydrew301]

When she said what the premise was for this movie, I paused the video to pitch what she could mean by the wife dying and wanting her husband to be with her brother. This was one of the ideas I thought for how this movie could work xD That or her brother was going through surgery to turn into a girl or the husband wanted the surgery. Something that didn't point to her forcing two guys with no interest in each other to be with each other as her dying wish.

[@leahjk97]

I almost threw my phone across the room at “i’m beausexual”

[@cocovcoco]

I once read a comment that said they always thought she was saying “admiral Kennie” instead of “ad roll Kennie” and I can’t unhear that when it’s time for Admiral Kennie to get her bag 🫡

[@lokischild5170]

SAME

[@aswespeak165]

the way i had this exact same thought, damn near feels like i wrote this comment myself

[@_bebeboudeur_]

it's because of the subtitles i think cause that's how i remember it as well :')

[@JoyaLewisTheMusician]

EXACTLY!! It’s the way she says it

[@OctopusWhoSeesAll]

Same

[@spaceyfireneko]

Damn homegirl really said "My husband and twin brother have finally kissed, my work is done and I can die"

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

👀 😮

[@blueismylove3128]

"twin brother who is a completely different race than me"

[@tishellelara4280]

​@@blueismylove3128 😂😂😂😂😂

[@awesomeirlable]

“My work here is done. My people need me”

[@gromplin]

“The gay agenda is now fulfilled. God and the LGBTQunity will now party in Home Depot together.”

[@sofialarramendia7985]

yk a bad movies and a beat is gonna be funny af when kennie pulls out her enraged mickey mouse voice

[@kogumasmommy]

I closed my eyes around the porn watching scene and it was uncanny how much her voice sounded like mickey mouse

[@vickst0892]

LMAO

[@pennysteckhan7437]

dude i was just gonna come in the comments and ask if anyone else thought she sounded like mickey mouse when she gets really worked up lmaooo

[@sofialarramendia7985]

@@pennysteckhan7437 her impression is so good

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

I awear I saw her post about this comment on twitter LMAO

[@Slm99]

As a bi guy, I really hate how movies would try to tell bi stories without using the label instead let's replace it with something quirky.

[@dreamiinotdream730]

Yeah we can never be bisexuals. We’re always something else but honestly probably for the best if this is the representation we got

[@edull1928]

She's not like other girls; she's dying.

[@allie_xoxo7910]

"I guess you could say I'm... beux-sexual" Me, a bisexual: *physical gagging*

[@aishac9301]

“Thank you for your advice, but I won’t be taking it because I’m afraid of serial killers. “ I’ve never crackles so loud because I had just said the same thing I was dying laughing.

[@giab.3411]

Listen I was doing some meal preparation and the way I stopped chopping and looked at my phone 😂😂😂😂 first thing my mind said was “how you just gunna make her an easy target for the killer!

[@dday1396]

the killer typed this advice smh

[@eliz3225]

Crackles lol

[@cierraslowsdown]

First thing I thought was a man must have written it cause WHY would I leave my phone home during a walk ALONE???

[@syddn3y]

My first thought was "oh that's not safe." 😂

[@Itrashcant]

This feels more like a psychological horror film than a bittersweet romance film.

[@nuclearseahorse]

Going to gaslight myself into thinking that the brother is just called her twin because they were born the same day by different people and they're not actually related

[@rogue-taxidermy_griffin]

I was thinking that they both got adopted the same day and since they joined the family at the same time, they're "twins" Literally anything this comment section makes up makes more sense

[@_bebeboudeur_]

@@rogue-taxidermy_griffin just like the Cullen family oop!

[@_bebeboudeur_]

Sense 8 👀

[@k1a2r3n4]

As an Indian person I laughed out loud when she kept saying "Tegulu" instead of "Telugu"

[@gabiluch87]

Did you catch any actual telugu word?

[@k1a2r3n4]

​@@gabiluch87 kinda, I'm not fluent but honestly if she hadnt mentioned it I'd think it's just some vague ethnic language

[@anisha2k]

Lol that’s not anything in Telugu

[@heighbeut99]

I mean, the actor's last name is Spanish and commonly found in the Philippines, so this a whole mess, especially with his Latina Blanca Hermana

[@lauraallen5538]

As a white person I was yelling “TE-LE-GUUU” at the screen. Oh and then she butchered “Tagalog” and I questioned whether I could finish this video 😂 I kid, I love your work Kennie, I never miss a video 💖✨

[@jongkittae]

I'm convinced this woman is just trying to make her otp real before she dies 💀

[@gamejawa]

Oh good I'm not the only one

[@BhlackBishop]

She's sick, her brain must be mush

[@nbucwa6621]

she said "Fujoshi till death!"

[@mariaskabardonis8353]

Wow extreme shipping gone wrong lol

[@jamangel]

Lmao

[@JHaru777]

Its kind of comforting to know that no matter your race, religion or whatever, everyone writes terrible wattpad worthy fanfiction that can one day be turned into a movie.

[@20628]

oh you have no idea

[@heytherejay04]

27:40 “It’s not an accusation. It’s my aspiration” that line gave me the BIGGEST ick 😖😖

[@SauraElanthier]

The most disgusting thing about this movie is how quickly this man is supposed to "move on" from his wife, who he clearly loved very much (even though she was fucked up), into another long-term, sexual relationship with a man he's not even completely sure on how feelings or sexuality about. Let the man mourn!

[@blueismylove3128]

Its like the wife and brother has this sick fantasy about the husband for a long time and her cancer just gave them an excuse to go ahead and try it.

[@suitdoggy4707]

@@blueismylove3128 It should have been a disturbing film. Where at the end the wife had been lying about her death all along and you find out her and her brother do this with men before him.

[@blueismylove3128]

@@suitdoggy4707 Omg hell yeah! This would make an amazing thriller/horror movie.

[@JoyaLewisTheMusician]

@@suitdoggy4707 omg that would be so good!

[@tolkienblack6602]

Kennie: "I'm pretty sure the director has a foot fetish." Me: "Now idk ik being barefoot is very common in these more hotter climat-." Dead girl: "I feel like shoes are prisons for your feet." Me: "Director definitely got a foot fetish."

[@colors4vana293]

🤣🤣 this sent me to the moon

[@tolkienblack6602]

@Colors 4 Vana fam I was trying SO HARD to defend this but damn 😫😫😫

[@colors4vana293]

@@tolkienblack6602 I know that's what sent me 🤣 like man you can't help everybody lmao

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

💀

[@suitdoggy4707]

I can tell when the angles are always focused on the feet in some way. Like we shouldn't be getting so many stand alone feet angles lol.

[@mycookiesneedeating]

27:42 “it’s not an accusation, it’s my aspiration” is so sick, like 😭?

[@julieneff9408]

Honestly I love it when Kennie gets so mad she starts shrieking.

[@PequenoGiant]

"This is some wattpad bullshit..." as are most romance movies 😂

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

💀

[@endless_del]

a while before she said that i was already convinced this was originally a one direction or bts wattpad fanfic where the author self inserted themself as the dying girl

[@emmettvictor]

Kennie’s progression with the “language” they’re speaking has me cackling 😂

[@eggiesammich]

This is infuriating. Every person I have talked to who has lost a spouse has said the same thing -- that they simultaneously missed their spouse so much, and also felt so incredibly lonely that they understood why some people jump right into another relationship. Grieving a loss like that puts you in such a vulnerable state that could be really easy for someone to take advantage. Especially if you share an emotional bond with the person, like a connection to the loved one you lost.

[@cpkgrownup9496]

Lily lurking in the background as her husband and brother shared their first kiss had me 😂🤣🥲😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂

[@shamedgeeky]

Sometimes I wonder if the reason they cast actors of different ethnic backgrounds in these vaguely inc3sty roles is to assist audiences with the cognitive dissonance of the morality of the situation. “Well obviously they’re not actually related, so this is fine!”

[@lilithcrow6675]

Probably lol

[@Chiggianya]

So just like p*rn

[@music_YT2023]

32:36 "If you pressed on her stomach she could still blow out a candle." just had me crying. You being so incredulous and bewildered that this is a real movie is so hilarious.

[@colors4vana293]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠☠☠

[@irishalchemy]

I read this comment before I reached the line, and even then I was still deceased when she said it!

[@stellarae8257]

They both couldn’t stop thinking about Lilly while they had sex? You’re telling me her own brother was thinking of her while having sex and didn’t see that as a reason to stop?!?

[@jnn8]

This should be a twisted horror movie of two crazy siblings who get their victims to fall in love with the sister and then manipulate and gaslight their victims into sleeping with the brother and then killing him

[@saschabittner8155]

Cancer survivor here. I normally try to avoid cancer stories, but I just KNEW I had to watch this. It was even worse (The movie, not your commentary) than I thought it would be. Just to clarify when I was going through chemo, I didn't want to be physically intimate with my then-partner, due to me being sick, but there wasn't officially a prohibition. (The doctor basically told me I probably wouldn't feel that sexual, and it turned out to be the last thing on my mind.) I felt slightly guilty in the beginning, but my partner was reasonable about that. When I knew it was some kind of cancer, but not what kind (mine had a very high survivable rate), I did tell him I hoped he would find someone if he died, but never would have pimped out my sibling (or anyone , especially since I was too sick to really think about that stuff). The two main criticisms I have were I thought the husband would have been very early established as bi. They could have EASILY done a flashback where the husband says he is bi when they first meet, and the woman could be like "oh yes, my BEST FRIEND is bi, no biggie". This naturally brings me to my other critique. The brother should have been the best friend instead (He could be "like a brother" easily, especially since they look nothing alike, lol.). I mean the fact that she was trying to get them together, regardless of the family relationship was odd, but if it hadn't been her brother, it would have been maybe semi-conceivable. I have more criticisms, but those are my main ones.

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

I’m so glad r a survivor 💪🏼 ❤

[@sherrylala]

Glad you made it. God bless ❤

[@DreamingInTechnicolor]

my doctors put place me in medical-menopause. Both it and I was awful. Like from what I remember; I did not like human beings or animals or the weather. Don’t get me wrong I loved people, I love pets ( though I didn’t have them at the time,) and I love good weather... it was just I didn’t LIKE anything at that point; with the exception of walking by myself, sitting by myself, and most of all Sleeping my myself. I just slept through life, had almost no energy. Eventually I had to drop out of uni. I wasn’t doing hard-core chemo I was just taking chemo drugs in order to fight aggressive tumors that were life-threatening but not cancerous which I didn’t know that was a thing, until became I’ll. I was told I had a fake white blood cell disease...like that sounds more like a symptom than a diagnosis. I still don’t touch stories that deal with cancer or deathbed romance. It feels unrealistic and messy and I don’t know... Last thing I wanted while sick was a relationship. I didn’t want anyone to suffer the loss of me. At this point, I just refuse to spend hours watching movies glorifying and romanticizing struggles I’ve personally dealt with. But seriously her review makes me second-guess that decision. 🤣 By the way, glad you’re still here! ♥

[@donnafreeman1571]

I'm glad that you are here with us.

[@heatherduke5410]

I love that one of the ways they chose to make Lily quirky and not like other girls is by having her work in a diner barefoot. Because that's not a safety hazard at all. It feels like Kayden referred to Bo as a Ken doll just because he's white, quite honestly. lol. Also, wtf at Lily's "aspiration" being for her brother and husband to have sex.

[@eggiesammich]

I laughed so hard. With all the grease on a diner kitchen floor, you'd be on your ass in minutes

[@blueismylove3128]

​@@eggiesammich How was she not fired or at least talked to about that. Like bitch ew.

[@blueismylove3128]

When she said that with that creepy smile on her face I couldn't think anything but, "What the hel- This bitch is weird."

[@heatherduke5410]

@@eggiesammich For real, though! lol. That's what I was thinking about. Well, that and all the germs on that floor with the amount of people who visit a diner in a day.

[@andshereadstoo7809]

​@@eggiesammich we were literally walking on shattered glass at the end of the night, the floor was CRUNCHY, I cringed so hard at this lmao

[@paidendenae]

at 32:09 when Lily is standing in the background while they kiss, I get major horror movie vibes 😭 It's like the naked people in hereditary. I'm convinced this is a horror movie lmao. And the way Kennie whispers "is that Lily in the background? Oh god" 😭😭 literal comedy gold

[@potterfulofsunshine2968]

I studied Hindi, Urdu and Arabic in university and hearing them speakin gibberish was a blast cause what I detected was First 'The bullet did not hit' in Hindi Second 'Mom's wish' in Urdu Third 'Tomorrow we'll mourn you' in Arabic

[@JustWandering]

What would the accurate transcription be for those languages?

[@morley364]

Someone commented that Lily at some point calls it their twin language or something, so it seems like it's supposed to be made up. Which, like Kendall said, is WILD that 1. that wasn't clear and 2. her husband LEARNED it that fast?!

[@ssp07]

As a person who speaks Hindi. He was definitely not speaking hindi. It was just random gibberish.

[@Takamiko22]

Bo's actor wasn't acting when he was pushing away these freak ideas. He was trying to communicate with the director 🤡

[@claranadine1086]

That's exactly what I thought 😭

[@bootybuttcheeck]

didn't even watch the movie but from the clips where he gives into the Kaden, call it bad acting but he looked so uncomfortable like a child who was told to do dishes and not complain

[@ztaytay07]

WTF!! I just looked up the movie and a SEQUAL is coming out soon. Apparently she froze her eggs so her husband and brother can have a baby together.

[@talayagiles]

Nauurrrrr 🤣

[@colors4vana293]

Bruh!🤣🤣🤣

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

👀💀

[@salem-01]

NO

[@claranadine1086]

NO WAY PLEASE NOOO

[@LKHooray]

This feels like a fic that has to deal with the canon being a married het couple and doesn't wanna seem like they hate the woman by making this whole "she's 100% cool with them getting together and is gone so the gay couple can be together!" Instead of doing a number of much simpler and easier things

[@HeartlessKairi42]

"THEY'RE GOING TO TELL THE CHURCH" omfg this is why I'm here every week 🙌 Best makeup reference ever

[@olderoscendant]

Yo, as a gay man, this is INSANITY.

[@shanettequao9043]

Poor Beau , imagine being coerced into being with your brother in law 😭😭

[@sora1498]

literally gaslit into being gay

[@salem-01]

@@sora1498 is that what the conservatives thought would happen when gay marriage got approved? They’d all be magically gaslit into being gay???

[@edithel4555]

A VICTIM

[@astronomicallyfine]

@@sora1498this really took me out 😭

[@tweedlebug123]

@@astronomicallyfine gayslit if you will

[@maniapolitaki7985]

Kind of unrelated but your first rant about the "twins" not looking alike got me crying because that is my entire life. Me and my twin sister look NOTHING alike. I'm pale with black really curly hair , brown eyes and covered in freckles and my sister is naturally tanned with blond wavy hair and bright blue eyes. No-one could ever believe that we were twins.

[@maniapolitaki7985]

@sewer~rat not really she has full lips and I have very thin ones, her eyes are big and almond shaped and mine small and hooded, plus I'm covered in freckles sooo

[@truekels]

@sewer~rat my mother is the oldest of 9 and probably only 3 or 4 of them look like they COULD be siblings. The rest have so many varying features. The range is all over the place but you get that a lot with Hispanic families. 🤷🏻‍♀️ genetics really can be wild

[@celesteroberts7743]

But Caden doesnt even look like either of his parents. Is that the same for you (or your twin)?

[@asareirene]

No. The issue is that Lily tells beau that she has an identical twin. She says that.

[@emmauta99]

OMFG the language rant had me LAUGHING. ok so basically in one singular line in the movie, it is said that apparently the twins made up their own language when they were kids. i think that's what that was🤣

[@dannyb4762]

Its past Black History month and all of the rage of the ancestors were coming out of Kennies voice. I cannot stop cracking the fuck up 😂😂😂😂

[@blueismylove3128]

Girl it's Women's History Month and this is how they choose to represent us 😭😭.

[@moustik31]

Ok, I screamed when I saw the parents: the "twin" is adopted and you cant convince me otherwise. Also, I'm pretty sure, the actors are speaking in tongues.

[@BunniBooLillian]

Listened to this while in the shower, and the amount of times I had to look back at my phone in utter disbelief.

[@Anounoune]

The makeup is impeccable, flawless, goddess tier 😮

[@ambriaashley3383]

Agreed!!! 😮

[@shanettequao9043]

Kennie really stepped in to her J.Jonah Jameson with that “This movie!!!!!! A visual representation of media!!!!!”

[@SaraBanartist]

"This movie better get me PICTURES OF SPIDERMAN!"

[@plushdragonteddy]

damn. all these movies and shows where there’s so much queer chemistry between the characters and they refuse to acknowledge it, and then when we DO get gay representation, zero chemistry in sight 😭

[@_bebeboudeur_]

+1

[@jeremyud]

see: Love Simon

[@laurenswartz9553]

The scene where the mystery language is spoken at dinner and the brother smiles and says yes,cracked me up as Kennie's voice rises in hysterical frustration..killed me

[@layahlayah5951]

Literally saved this video to watch until I could break my fast 😭🫶🏽. Ramadan Mubarak ⭐️ 🌙 to anybody another Muslims in the chat ❤🎉.

[@Aprylbaby]

Watched after I broke my fast😂What is this movie?!

[@fiig5196]

So back in the olden times it was a thing when your wife died to marry her sister. And, like, even one brain cell of critical thought, can show that this arrangement was more about property and lineage than love and thank the lordt we’re in modern times where this isn’t as common. But it feels like the creator of this movie heard the idea of “marrying your wife’s sister when she dies” and thought: What if it was PrEsEnT TiMeS and we have RePrEsEnTaTiOn and it’s …. Horrible. This is horrible. This movie is all bad.

[@mikaylamcfadden7866]

Yeah she read something that was used to mistreat women and the “loophole” used to keep assets in the woman’s family as something that should be continued instead of a relic of the past.

[@thecavalieryouth]

Couldn't agree more.

[@poopoo8475]

omg u just unlocked a hidden memory i used to see this in movies all the time growing up and assumed it was like a requirement if ur spouse dies bc it never occured to me that they would actually fall in love 😭

[@mvalenzuela6739]

This is a Jewish tradition

[@MamaMudiwa]

I went to take a sip of coffee and homegirl said I can't believe my father is having an affair with my boyfriend and next thing I know my mug handle yanked out my hoop earring. This gone be good.

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

👀💀😂

[@ambriaashley3383]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@pig71395]

"If you pressed on her stomach, she could probably still blow out a candle" I DIED

[@kelleydunnigan5537]

If they're twins they might be trying for cryptophasia (when twins make up a language between themselves), but it seems weird not to address that's what it is within the movie itself.

[@FabiAraujok]

My headcanon is that the whole gaslighting of Beau thing was a long planned plot between the siblings. The plan was her finding someone gullible, marry this person and eventually push them towards her brother. The fact that she was dying just provided them with a great opportunity to move their plans forward was, which could explain why Lily uses her impending death as a convincing device to Beau, and why Caden seems so flippant of his sister's death: it was all planned from the beginning. If Lily hadn't died, the siblings would probably abuse Beau into never leaving the house and being their sex slave or something. And yes, I watch way too much Discovery ID.

[@moustik31]

This would have made a better movie.

[@PercyK1ng]

This is way better than the movie 😂

[@trianenopenottrian9108]

Why is your head cannon so dark 😢

[@chloedya1899]

I had the same conspiracy! They have been planning this/ into it for years and want to overcompensate for the fact that they are twins that don't look alike by uniting through a sexual connection with each others' partners. Maybe incest was just to gross for them and they liken each other's partners to an extension of their love (headcanon: Lily's ex gf was also Kaden's ex). They use their twin-language to discuss their plot covertly and stay on plan. They've probably taught Beau a few of their encouraging phrases so he doesn't feel left out or get suspicious and Beau does not realize every time he speaks their twin language he's only making a fool of himself.

[@micahcook2408]

I was thinking this too LMFAO like this was a whole ploy. If I was Beau I woulda been like, "Bitch... do you even have cancer? Are you even dying cause wtf is going on? and why is your brother constantly flirting with me TOO?!" bahaha

[@gabriellemeche992]

As a Kenyan who's native language is Swahili, the Cha was the only Swahili word he used in that scene. I don't know what Omaka is😂😂

[@Mindfencemd]

I knowww😂😂😂😂😂

[@VVesteria]

Over here, cha means tea

[@gabriellemeche992]

@@VVesteria oh my goodness. Where? Our word for tea is chai.

[@VVesteria]

@@gabriellemeche992 you’re probably Indian. I’m Bengali.

[@gabriellemeche992]

@@VVesteria you're Bengali? That's so cool but no I'm not Indian. There's a large Indian population here though and I won't deny that we've had a lot of Indian influence in our culture.

[@sadplatypus7503]

The acting of this movie feels like im constantly watching a bad porn intro, you know, where every single person on camera is painfully aware of the cameras, yet also trying their damnest to ignore it

[@2011snickerdoodle]

Making us Fujoshi look bad af . I feel attacked.

[@goldenboy3154]

We need to unionize

[@tarotsushima3332]

This whole movie's plot is giving two bit fujobait where the quirky girl is essentially supposed to be the 'audience stand in'. Also her walking barefoot in a restaurant? Asking to step on a nail or glass or sth

[@LangkeeLongkee]

I don't condone being barefoot in a heavy traffic public place, especially somewhere for eating, but why would there be nails on the ground in a restaurant, g? Where you eat at? 😭

[@tarotsushima3332]

@@LangkeeLongkee Wherever there's low enough sanitation to let the person serving your food walk around with their dogs out

[@IndigoPhoenix21]

"If you press on her body, she could probably still blow out a candle!" 🤣🤣🤣

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

🎂💀

[@evilmissmunchkin]

I was SCREAMING with laughter

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

@@evilmissmunchkin The way I scrumpt out loud! 😭

[@Anita-zf4xg]

That women was a sociopath and probably couldn’t stand the idea of Bo moving on with a new woman. So she rather convince him to believe he was gay and end up with her brother. (Rather than another woman I guess) so I guess she saw him a a “property” or a car..

[@lisyl4169]

LMAO “This is some Wattpad Bullshit” is going to be my new phrase for everything.

[@emme4129]

The idea of forcing someone to be an orientation that they aren’t, and calling them names because they aren’t that thing, is kind of how we got in this situation with lgbtq+ hate in THE FIRST FREAKING PLACE! Ugh this is upsetting.

[@babyface3396]

or, maybe some people are just going to hate queer people regardless?

[@chrispham6599]

We've gone full circle, ladies and gentlemen! We've gone full fucking circle

[@blueismylove3128]

What's interesting is they could have easily EASILY made the husband a closeted gay or bisexual man. One comment I saw said something like the husband could have wanted to be with the wife's brother but felt pressured into marrying a woman and she knew this and wanted him to be with someone he loved.

[@justlola417]

Is this the first actual instance of heterophobia? Did we find it??

[@seroquelz]

​@@justlola417 😂😂😂😂😂 I love this community (Kennie fans).

[@neivilde.1242]

this is hilarious, i have never seen kennie so taken aback, this movie looks insane. and the thing is, there is many a movie about finding love after a loved one dies, with someone close to them, but they took the most insane route you could apparently lmao

[@tvbitchin]

Lily and Caden having extremely different phenotypes honestly doesn't phase me as a Puerto Rican because my cousins who are fraternal twins look even more different from each other, I think that's just how it is with mixed race families sometimes

[@pbtakes2667]

showed that clip to my ilocano relatives and they can’t understand sht either 😂 if u tried spacing out some of the words either someone is guaranteed tobacco or some dude named Garantha is fat (we don’t usually have “th” or “f” sounds like that)

[@gabiluch87]

Kennie's right eye started twitching hard during the whole Telugu segment... A level of rage I have not seen since The Unmarried Woman video Edit: Telugu, not Tegulu.

[@derpyburgerjr.5634]

Again thank you for taking my recommendation To top this all off, the pants that beau wears in the hospital scene are khaki but when they get back to the house, they somehow are now shorts Also this movie is probably the first time I’ve felt bad for a successful white man

[@lucidberrypro]

🤣🤣🤣💀

[@Musiclovermo143]

Not feeling bad for a yt man 😂😂😂

[@sourhop]

this man just went through reverse conversion therapy

[@Anngrl69]

This feels like a straight woman’s weird fantasy of having her husband find love with her gay brother so that her husband never has to move on with another woman, therefore keeping her spot as the #1 woman in his world and his life after her death will still heavily revolve around her through her family. Perhaps it’s far-fetched, but I interpret the underlying themes to reek of insecurity. It reminds me of how much of yaoi is catered to straight women, partially because insecure women don’t want to read straight manga that projects high/unreachable standards back to the reader. So women who don’t feel confident enough to read that content without feeling badly about themselves will read gay romance to alleviate that pressure, but then still project feminine attributes onto the more “feminine” man. Anyway, it’s okay to be insecure but not okay to fetishize or use gay men for an agenda.

[@bougiepeaches5497]

This movie makes me not want to be in a relationship at all because if love is going to be forceful, lack of respect for my boundaries, my so treats me like an object that should always say yes when it's beneficial for him, Y'ALL CAN KEEP THAT!🚪🏃💨

[@woobiefuntime]

You need to see until September . its a very disturbing romance movie .

[@micahcook2408]

Hence why the movie being titled, "Say Yes" is just beyond fucking nasty and predatory LMFAO like wth

[@bougiepeaches5497]

@@woobiefuntime The title itself is disturbing.🤢

[@annieg202]

I feel like if it's wrong to coerce someone who is gay into being straight, it's wrong to coerce someone straight into being gay. A person's sexuality should be for that individual to figure out and experiment with if they want to

[@AddlesH]

“I get geek squad attendant at Best Buy” 😂😂😂

[@20iasberry]

🎉🎉I FIGURED OUT THE WEIRD LA😮 Language THING!!! When the woman told Beau that she had a twin brother, she also told Beau that they were so close they made up their own language!!! IT'S TWIN Gibberish😂😂😂🎉 PASS IT ON!

[@Ebiisan]

12:39 Girlllll I think they were trying to imply their “twin language” 🤣🤣🤣 twins tend to develop their own language when their young and can retain it into adulthood. That may be what they tried to do but they should have had those characters provide context🤣🤣🤣 Edit: cryptophasia may be what their hinting at. Thanks Wikipedia.

[@heighbeut99]

RIGHT?? woulda saved some fonFUSION

[@freddie6307]

as a twin, what the fuck lmao

[@valeriarossini543]

​@@freddie6307 as a twin I second your comment lmao

[@ThisBlackFreeSpeeDeemedHarmful]

😳🤯This is now officially a How Did This Get Made

[@broomhilder]

This comment needs a heart or pin ASAP to stop the confusion 😂

[@zwoodarts]

i never thought that ppl who made media cared that much about reviews from non professional critics either but i did once see a tiktok about an author who got P.I. to find the address of a woman who reviewed her book negatively and went to her house and left a copy of the book on her doorstep so the fact that the film makers watched your video is not much of a surprise

[@queencleopatra007]

That's horrifying. I hope that woman got a restraining order

[@doobedoobeedowaaa4615]

the fact that the book community actually has multiple instances of this happening

[@gigitastic90]

@@queencleopatra007 If its who i think it is she didn't the author then wrote another book and tried be like all tongue and cheek (aka an asshole) and named her next book about how shes a stalker because of it.

[@inactive120]

ew you'd think for someone who has gone through the lengthy and trying process of getting published, they would've developed a slightly thicker skin?!

[@BhlackBishop]

"and went to her house and left a copy of the book on her doorstep" Isn't that stalking?

[@JazzySaint]

This movie sounds like a horrifying, offensive mistake 😭😭 But at least it gave me some of the best laughs I've had in a while with Kennie - starting with her flabbergasted explanation that the two actors were supposed to be twins despite not looking remotely alike haha 😂😂 (starting around 6:49)

[@RatKingShriggy]

the way that if this was a psychological thriller it would have been good... i mean, if it had been good it would have been good, but ya know what i mean djgdfjg but no for real, there's something to the premise but the execution and the way it's supposed to be a cute romantic comedy--- i'm screaming

[@MojiBeau]

The way your control over your voice pitch keeps getting away from you 😂😂😂 I’ve never seen you this mad and I’m only 8 minutes in. This is gonna be good EDIT: Omigod at 37:59 her rage swells to the point her voice becomes Mickey Mouse. I’m dying 🤣

[@shaycat13]

That's how you know the rage is real. The higher the pitch the angrier

[@talayagiles]

As someone who went through a stage three cancer diagnosis I can confirm my oncologist advised against any sexy time and wanted me to focus on my treatment and recovery 💕 he had nothing to worry about cause I wasn’t and haven’t 🤣 her complaining of dying none stop sent me 😂

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

You ok now? Not trying to pry…❤

[@talayagiles]

@@TeddyLovesAxl yes I am 💗 I kicked cancers ass and I’m currently happy and enjoying the rest of my twenties😊

[@ambriaashley3383]

@@talayagiles hell yeah, Talaya!!! So happy for you ❤❤❤ beast mode 🎉

[@talayagiles]

@@ambriaashley3383 thank you love!!! 💗🫂

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

@@talayagiles ur fucking 20s?!?! Omg! More power to you! ✨🌟⭐️💪🏼💅❤️

[@maurreese]

The way I screamed when the mom overheard their conversation!😂😂😂😂 34:26

[@kady750]

every time Kennie says the brothers name it always trips me up because that's my name and I keep on being like oh damn?? my parasocial relationship with her is real now?? oh fun love that

[@lucidberrypro]

I've been staring hard at the couple trying to see if they look more alike than the actual siblings. And then I realized that Lilly looks like that girl from The Kissing Booth.

[@saschabittner8155]

In the thumbnail, I thought the husband was the brother.

[@AD-wi4fq]

“No…fuck you, movie!” - not only made my day but quite of the year 😂♥️🥰

[@jonahgladd]

lily just slender man lurking on the two them while they kiss is the funniest shit ive seen in awhile.

[@hanahayashi6374]

I thought of an alternate nuance for this movie where Lilly and Caden's ex-girlfriend were best friends back in middle and high school. They were obsessed with the *worst* parts of yaoi/BL novels; they made equally questionable fanfics together on "Whattfpad" (this movie can't afford the actual name). Caden, whose sexuality was open but in favor of guys, always wanted to experience love with a male partner. He and his ex had an open relationship, but no guy stook. All of his hopes for m/m love came from Lilly, so they were absolutely toxic. This led to him being unhappy and breaking up with his ex. By the time Lilly was married and dying, the fujoshi in her couldn't help but want to create a real-life otp before she goes. She gets Caden's ex's help because she's just as bad. So, Caden is also gaslit into thinking that his and Beau's relationship will fulfill his heart's true wishes. Now, we have two men faking their fantasy, love story instead of grieving their real circumstances.

[@kirabouwerviraltyd]

"...if you pressed on her stomach, she could probably still blow out a candle!" I CACKLED 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Kendall, you're the greatest 😂

[@TeddyLovesAxl]

💀

[@youssef55555]

this looks like its gonna be infuriating and imma enjoy every messy minute of it...

[@musaviki783]

The trigger warning had me on high alert. It's going to one heck of a ride I see

[@mewmew6158]

I just thought the same damn thing

[@langleymneely]

The way Kennies voice gets higher & higher the more frustrated she gets is hilarious!

[@oiohnyx6107]

I can't believe I'm saying this but....this would have worked in a manga. They let so much crap fly in that universe to the point I know its true. But on another note, why? Who came up this, who thought this would be a good idea.😭😭😂😂 The rollercoaster of confusion and hysterical laughter.

[@kogumasmommy]

I actually think there’s one with this exact premise that they framed as psychologically fucked up which is funny cause how are you gonna let a yaoi author be more self aware than you?

[@ladykynthos]

I WAS THINKING THIS, OMG 'Cuz I'm super sure this premise has been done in a couple of mangas I've seen when looking around. And, to be honest, I do think it *would* be a really interesting concept if they focused in the psychological aspect and, of course, the drama. I can in fact see it working if done well enough, but it needs another type of media that allows the exploration of those possiblities without ruining the execution, and an actual well thought plot with good character development 🧍‍♀️

[@PurpleQuestions]

YOU ARE SO REAL FOR THIS ITS NOT EVEN FUNNY!!

[@hakanozaslan9571]

I WAS JUST THINKING THE SAME! A lot of YAOI or Shojo animes and mangas got like no logic behind it XD

[@tegztegz]

They would have done a lot better establishing some chemistry in a manga lmfao

[@ButterflyScarlet]

Honestly if this film was just about a guy realizing that he's got more chemistry with his spouse's brother, it wouldn't be as bad. Weird for sure, but not as bad. Why did they have to throw in the cancer and the coercive bullshit?? At least have Beau express some interest in the man, make it clear that this isn't him being harassed and guilt-tripped. If my own brother was dying and he told me he wanted me to fuck his wife i would tell the doctors to change the meds they're giving him

[@godsangel1644]

"She just died! If you push on her stomach she could blow out a candle!" I'm crying and WHEEZING 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Watching this movie make Kennie spiral was hilarious. I just couldn't with Mickey mouse voice, it was the absolute best thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@morganwentworth2041]

I've rarely cared about the BMAAB movies when another creator has covered them but Kennie's ability with makeup can make me sit through any video