How The Wrong Woman Can Ruin A Man’s Life

[@Mitzi73]

Love is NOT enough. You need shared values.

[@Datdaniel90]

💎💎

[@drewoconnell8]

I had to cut out the girl I loved the most I ever have . Liberal values.

[@uniqueunique8350]

Problem is the men go for looks. Looks can be deceiving.

[@travisadams4470]

Love isn't logical. A man has to really think before getting into a relationship

[@karinteeples9715]

@@infiniteepoch8 Amen! However, this is why relationships are so dysfunctional today. No God in the center of their homes.

[@dhpitcher]

I married the wrong woman and she ruined my life. I didnt even see my son for a few years. However, it backfired big time. He moved in with me on his 18th birthday because he hated her so much. The same toxicity she brought to my life she brought to his. Rebuild you life men! Believe in yourself and take Gods hand

[@mig7290]

Thank God you got your boy now.

[@dhpitcher]

@@mig7290 Thank you!

[@Ghostfancoder]

My wife is extemely negative. You just feel thne negativity when she walks in the house. She's always bullying and being disrespectful towards my daughters. I know that without her i would be doing better in life.

[@clicktheick3411]

I prayed for justice and to get my son but family courts are bais. My son is 16 two more years and the gun pointed to my head by her will soon be over. I just hope my son wakes the fk up and realize mommy ain't who she think she is. She's definitely a manipulater.

[@dhpitcher]

@@clicktheick3411 Dont worry he is right about that age to put the pieces together. My son was 15 when he started to figure it out

[@petroc62]

This message really hits home for me. My first wife took a big step toward destroying me. I was a wreck, emotionally, personally, and professionally for 8 years. The only thing that kept me going was she walked away from our two kids and I had to be strong for both of them. Dating was always chaos and drama because of my ex. Finally got stationed 800 miles away, was able to take my kids, and then met my current wife. We became an unstoppable team. My professional life reflected the great things that happened in my personal life. She supported me, I supported her. Our five kids (she had three) are all grown and very successful. I've since been able to retire and she has her own very successful accounting firm. It's amazing what a couple can do when they work together and support each other.

[@gregorysagegreene]

Yer well, a pipe dream I never got.

[@petroc62]

@@gregorysagegreene I'm sorry to hear that. But truth be told, I had given up on finding my wife at one point too. I'd had enough of dating women who had an agenda, or had more baggage than even I did with no idea how to manage themselves. My wife came to the table with her issues, don't get me wrong. But what was different was that she didn't let her own shit storm destroy her and she continued to work toward her goal of a MS in Accounting and her CPA while raising her own kids. Once we started dating we pooled our resources and both got our MS degrees. That wouldn't have happened for me and would have taken her a lot longer to finish than it did. I hope you DO find the right woman my friend. Somebody who is independent and strong, but empathetic and tender all at the same time. She's out there, I promise you. But you can't stop looking... Best of luck.

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

So because she left you with the kids you were stressed?

[@onesri6108]

So, you married a sugar mama

[@philmehrart]

Don't listen to the assholes, good for you. This can happen to any man thinking things are going to work out, then you have kids together and suddenly your life starts to become overcomplicatsd. Glad to hear you're doing well

[@Limitx270]

“Behind every defeated man you’ll find a women who ruined his life” this is one of the realest things I’ve ever heard, I’m living proof of it

[@Dancing_Alone_wRentals]

Amen

[@PakAanNL]

victimhood mentality

[@karinteeples9715]

Can you detail what you mean by this? I’m being very serious as I have 2 Boys and I never realized this was happening as much as I’ve heard lately.

[@kiranthakur8793]

@@PakAanNL so a victim isn't allowed to feel like a victim?

[@hughmac13]

You're every man now?

[@itecmanager]

How can I not like this? You are telling the story of my life. My one time marriage 10 years ago ruined my life. I'm still recovering from that. Guys if your partner is sucking the energy out of you, not happy, constant nagging, etc. If your relationship is drama, Just drop it. It's not worth it .

[@LibraryOfTheOligarchs]

those 10 years... when you look back will one day be the best days of your life

[@jesusrocha3362]

In the Bible, King Solomon (who received supernatural wisdom from God and is said to be the wisest king ever) said this: "It’s better to live alone in the desert than with a quarrelsome, complaining wife." Proverbs 21:19

[@BobbyM7847]

10 years ago? Stop being a weak man. Move on victim

[@pllthetrgrrr2825]

Going through a divorce right now buddy

[@therealevandro]

@@pllthetrgrrr2825 I'm having a child with my wife now. dating her we had our difficulties and looking back now, we had certain differences and I didn't take into consideration how that could affect my life being married. she would say hurtful things at time, I was not one to do that. growing up in a very supportive household, my parents enabled me to develop my entrepreneurship life from a young age and always encouraged and supported me despite my failures and mistakes. my wife on the other hand does not, and that transition has been tough for me. I wish I could go back to that supportive environment but I think my only option to to work with her on getting her up there rather than retreating back.

[@youngafrika3128]

The older you get the wiser you become and start to realize how much this is so important for both man and woman especially in todays society!!!

[@Rad_Jaxon]

Dead on, I was with a woman for nearly 20 years who didn't understand my goals, and frankly didn't understand my thought process, she (and her mother) criticized me every step of the way, I was moderately successful in spite of it thankfully and am now with a woman who is head over heals for who I am and what I do, so far it's been the best time of my life, and I genuinely feel like I'm gaining traction and making more progress mentally and creatively than ever before. The right woman is key, it's far better to be with no woman than to be with the wrong one.

[@sunflower-oo1ff]

Great for you ..sadly too many men are waiting far too long…. You stayed for 20 years…? that’s crazy…. ! Life is too short….man need to get out, even if they haven’t found anyone…they will again… 👍happy for u👏

[@scottmichael9673]

Thank you for sharing this as this feels identical to my life story right now. My mother in law is a fake religious zealot who worships Hollyweird and material things, and never accepted me for who I am. My wife second guesses every step or decision I make in collusion with her mother and pretends that she doesn't. The worst part is I'm a fairly healthy USMC veteran and everyone in her immediate family is overweight, has diabetes and have doubted me on everything regarding basic nutrition and fitness. We spent thousands on fertility treatments only for us to lose twins twice, once due to a miscarriage and the other 1 month to early, and then a single embryo didn't take. Since then, my wife has completely given up on the gym, continues to have poor dietary habits and has actually gotten fatter. She has a spoiled princess/victim mentality and it's not going away. I truly believe in for better and for worse, but 15 years of ZERO weight/health progress along with a beyond intrusive mother in law who's now on dialysis thrice a week, losing her hair and probably months away from losing a foot is really starting to take its toll on me. It's hard to not look at divorce as a sign of failure but I feel I'm running out of time and I really see no hope insight. Suicide seems like the easiest option, but I know deep down easy isn't always best. I'm turning 45 this year and realize my window to be a father is closing. Anybody with great advice or a great divorce attorney in AZ is greatly appreciated and welcomed. Thank you for your time.

[@gord2358]

RadJaxon - Beware the mother-in-law. When you marry a woman, you're also marrying her mother in a manner of speaking.

[@gurpalsingh3498]

My situation is same as you Rad. I'm with wrong women. In India culture is very different, difficult to separate.

[@guysumpthin2974]

The amount of drama/pain/loss is directly proportional to how loose are the lower lips . A whoreish woman will separate you from your kids. “There shall be wailing(crying) and gnashing(grinding) of teeth”

[@rtsoccerplayer]

I resonate with this so much. I was in a toxic relationship with a girl who was my former best friend for over a decade. We only dated for a year and it was hell. She was constantly causing drama and arguments related to her insecurities and random stuff. She displayed so many narcissistic traits. She took me away from my work to cause stupid drama, no respect for my time at all then would call me selfish for wasting her time when she started all the arguments. She hurt my business so much, but after we broke up I bounced back and I'm stronger than ever. If it was anyone else I would have left in a heartbeat, but she was my best friend for so long before we dated so that clouded my judgement. I am so lucky that we only dated for a year and nothing more, and that I was able to learn and bounce back. I really hope anyone going through a tough time is able to keep going until they see the light. No storm lasts forever, every storm passes.

[@gz3582]

I hear you. So many women are narcissists and are emboldened by a society that does not hold them accountable for their own actions or decisions. At least very few.

[@zengergazette9738]

You should have dumped her in the beginning

[@rtsoccerplayer]

@@zengergazette9738 hindsight is always 20/20. Like I said, her being my best friend for a long time prior to dating clouded my judgement. Also it's easy to say you should have dumped her in the beginning when you didn't deal with the emotions involved. I still learned my lessons and I am a much wiser person now.

[@Genci0]

@@zengergazette9738 easy to say when not being in that situation. You are living in the lie of it will get better. It will not if she has some mental illness. Most of the ruined marriages comes from bad womans that cant respect the other but only their own.

[@zengergazette9738]

@@Genci0 Most of ruined marriages happen because of the man also. It takes 2 to make a marriage.

[@anamericanman]

In 1999 I was about to finish an MBA, had a great apartment, a new Honda Accord, worked at the university as a graduate assistant, worked freelance, bartended and waited tables in an upscale bistro, and I was in phenomenal shape. Then I met Alison. A year later the only thing I had left was the diploma, and it would take me three or four years to recover. Now we have KZbin with endless videos on Borderline Personality Disorder, but back then there was just nothing and I was very lost and really struggled.

[@zuckthebetacuck2789]

Note: Avoid Alison.

[@onesri6108]

Do you still have the Honda Accord? If you do, worth lots of money 💰 🤑

[@konstantinrebrov675]

Typical experience of an American man, probably we can find hundreds if not thousands of such stories of American men.

[@anamericanman]

@@konstantinrebrov675 hundreds of thousands

[@josewhodat4488]

I'm 47 male, I was married for 20yrs, 3 years divorced.. I can Honestly say that you are 100% right. I got married at 24. that's probably one of the worst decisions I've ever made. I don't regret at all having 2 kids, but I do regret marrying the wrong person. we had different values and morals, I'm not saying I was perfect. There was no Compatability. my advice to all the young fellas out there... DONT MARRY AMERICANIZED WOMEN!

[@andreware6492]

You gave the magic formula! not to marry american woman! very very true. American women are raised to be men and not wives.

[@tyarnold4088]

You were young my man. I made mistakes with Women when I was young too. Don't live with regret, it happened how it was supposed to happen. You have 2 kids because of her. Be the best man and father you can be.

[@StormTrysail]

That last sentence says it all. Western woman should be avoided at all cost.

[@lovepeacebliss]

Hilarious turn at the end. Logically it was leading up to "dont get married too young!"

[@nocapbussin]

@@tyarnold4088 I don't think you understand how bad it is for men now. I'm in my mid 30s and I cannot tell you how filled with rage I get when I see older men tell men my age and younger "we just haven't found the right one!". It's condescending and dismissive. Because of feminism from the 1960s and because of online dating, American women have been made into monsters. I've seen it, I've personally experienced it, and to have older men who are not living in the reality of the modern day world tell younger men nonsensical pseudo wisdom is like a civilian telling a war veteran what war is like. What you said to this guy, whether you understand it or not, was disrespectful and dismissive of his plight. In the military, we hate when civilians say to us "Thank you for your service", because it really doesn't mean anything and is dismissive of the realities of what we go through; it's the same thing with modern dating and marriage. It's not the men's fault. It's the women's fault and it's the men who allow women to get away with their modern unchecked behaviors. Older men (Boomers) who were young men in the 70s and 80s are so detached from the horrors of this world that it is infuriating because we who are now in our 30s and 40s are dealing with the mess the Boomer generation created and to add insult to injury, Boomer men molly-coddle women no matter how evil those women are and they berate men for not wanting to be forced to deal with this ingrained psychopathy in the modern western woman. And if you are a father who has daughters, odds are you are a contributing factor to why your daughters are as disgusting, classless, and evil as they are because fathers in the west raise their daughters by letting them get away with murder all because "She's my special little girl", "She's Daddys little princess". You have no idea how bad things really are.

[@ParkDari]

After 23 years of marriage, I can absolutely say that the best thing we ever did was take our time and have all of those discussions. We were totally on board about spending about where we would live about our parents about our future responsibilities for parents about children about the education and raising of the children.We had the same vision for a future.

[@bonzocleach2496]

It's cool that you don't get upset when he cheats on you.

[@Gladiator-qu7co]

Unicorn

[@moorishg]

Lol I did that too but she lied about it all so I bounced.

[@davemacgyver573]

100% accurate! I married a girl from my church, I mistakenly thought that because she was "christian" that we had the same values and belief system. 12 years of literal hell, then she divorced me, got full custody of my 2 children, alienated them from me. I suffered from depression for 20 years afterwards. Totally ruined my life. Loss of ambition, loss of purpose, emotionally destroyed. Patrick is telling the 100% truth here!

[@_shumba]

That sounds quite unfortunate, thanks for sharing. What would you have done differently if you could start over and were there any red flags you wish you hadn't ignored?

[@brandonanderson510]

Dude, 28k a year at marriage, last year 185k thx to the support of my wife. She believed in me more than i did myself. Got friends however that did not get so blessed (there is no luck Pat, only blessings and mistakes) so be careful who you choose

[@Dancing_Alone_wRentals]

Very cool. Wishing you both more happiness in the New Year and beyond!

[@karinteeples9715]

Love hearing this!! Sounds like an amazing Partner! Good for you both! Happy Marriage!

[@Administrator7]

I have never met a happily married man

[@collinhennessy6558]

You're a lucky dude. Congratulations. Have as many kids with her as she can pump out.

[@NopeNotTodaySatan]

Beautiful!! I wish you both a life of love, peace, prosperity & abundance!

[@satoriceramics6010]

I remember dating a girl who I liked and was committed to. Laying in bed one night she goes “if you ever got me pregnant, I’d leave you and take the kid. You never asked my permission to have my baby so you can’t have it.” I knew right there I was going to be gone. Pro tip to any guy wondering if he should continue with a woman: if you can look back at your life and If it is better now with her than it was without her, she’s a keeper. If it’s worse, bail while you can. Even the things like work that have nothing to do with her. If you had a better job before her but now are stuck in a dead end job with her, leave! She has something to do with that. Women can either boost or tear down your confidence subconsciously, they don’t even have to outright trying to. Do you have a chick your proud to call yours, or are you scared people will see you out with that pet iguana with lipstick on? Will she hit the gym with you or does she get out of breath going up stairs? Speaking from experience boys. It’s better to drop her and the “what could’ve been” than to sink deeper into her quicksand. Because when the ship of your life goes down the woman gets the life boat to safety while you drown. Stay safe out there.

[@Itzzmeagain28]

Preach! 👏👏👏

[@brad0805]

Better to avoid the whole situation at this point in America.

[@nakiflo]

Well. Man. I’m sailing my ship too. I will not accept a man who will not provide the similar quality of my life that I can currently provide for myself. Been with men who 1 dragged me to the grave, almost. Then with another man who wouldn’t even willing to leave his parents property. 🎉

[@serioushamster]

Do you think a woman can change? Let's say if she was fat before you guys got together. Can she get fit?

[@brad0805]

@@nakiflo sounds like you're looking for a wallet instead of a partner.

[@danielrios9569]

I agree whole heartily. After being devastated by a woman, I made my decision to focus on my son and my success. I haven't been in a relationship in over 10 years and I am very happy with my life. I am at peace and I do not want any woman coming along and disrupting my peace.

[@onesri6108]

Vanilla Ice say, word to your mother

[@nataliasacul8741]

There are lots of wonderful women Sad that u gave up on women….

[@nathanaelverduzco91]

I've been with the same woman for 10 years. And let me tell you. If you find the right woman it's the complete opposite. Pat is absolutely right! The love and support of my wife has made me much more successful and fulfilled in my life. Guys out their never take this sacred bind for granted!

[@WEANDK]

I find that hard to believe

[@briancanada4850]

Well there is a flip side to coin you tossed.. I was married for 24 years A woman let's emotions make her decisions. Most men I know use a simple but effective way to make them. Like facts , and most ladies become narcissistic as they get older and could care less about the nuclear family because the government gives them incentive to do so..

[@geovoniejohnson4853]

​@@WEANDKtruth spoken. If real good women existed, they wouldn't have lied to me, rejected me, ignored me and ghosted me everyday, every week, every month and every year. Only bad women turns me down, and that's what been happening to me when all I tried to do at the time was get to know them. Most of my family has been in relationships and marriages, except me which makes me a loser. Despite me working for over 4 and a half years, that's never enough to show them that I don't care about their money. That's why I gave up because it's always like pulling teeth.

[@angadjudge4508]

I can 100% attest to this. I married the wrong woman and it literally ruined my life. Since the day I married her I slowly lost everything one by one. Things that have never happened to me in life or the I have ever experienced I got to experience with this woman. And it wasn’t good things. I am just beginning to heal from it. I will never be making this mistake again.

[@FadiGamingRP]

Chalk it up to experience. Now you know! Keep your head up 😀

[@chickbowdrie4750]

I quit searching for a good woman 4 years ago. I isn't worth the freaking hassle. I never thought I would be bitter against women, but I really am. Yeah, I get it, that isn't fair to feel that way about every woman. But here's the thing, all of my experiences and every single woman I've ever met proves those feelings justified. So, people tell me there are good women out there? I simply conclude there is absolutely no evidence I've seen to prove that is correct. So, I realize it isn't worth it anymore. Let us fellas remain single, there's no point anymore.

[@extremepsyche3135]

@@chickbowdrie4750 people change - no one can be "good" all the time

[@angadjudge4508]

@@chickbowdrie4750 I wouldn't say I'm bitter against women, I'm bitter against marriage. Easiest way to kill love for someone if u ask me, marry them. I don't know if I will be ever able to get married again after this experience, but im definitely going to get back in the dating game.

[@chickbowdrie4750]

@@extremepsyche3135 what kind of response is that?

[@francohsu4245]

Almost got a tear in my eye when he said, "You're amazing", Damn that hit hard bro

[@5250ITW]

Values over everything. Shared purpose in life and all your goals align. 10 years married. 3 kids. Married at 30 only after I realized love is not a feeling but a decision you make.

[@mark9294]

The issue is if she fails to make that realisation as well.

[@deathtouchltd]

12 years going on 13 together. We both grew up poor. We built our life together. We support and love each other like no bodies business. Stronger now than when we first got together. Two college degrees for me, one for her. Both got our dream jobs after working so hard to get there together. We are in this for life. Marrying the right person makes the world of difference. Can’t express that enough.

[@vidalskyociosen3326]

Just wait for few more years, and better be ready with that pre-nuptial agreement.

[@sizesmall1756]

Bobby I'm sure you already know better than to listen to any detractors. I'm so glad you got your dream and a great partnership. May it continue to enrich your life. I'm sure you will be a source of hope and sound advice to many around you too. Very best wishes to you and your wife.

[@mrXx9252]

Wow could to hear a good story

[@Bd-mq8td]

That’s the best partnership and how it’s supposed to be done I wish u the best with your wife!

[@lilo4518]

Lucky you

[@alaskangypsy]

As a woman, I kind of agree but only to a point. Behind a defeated man is a man who ALLOWED a woman to ruin his life. She is responsible for HER actions, but he, alone, is responsible for his REACTION to what she's dishing out! My father always taught me that I am ultimately responsible for my own reactions to what others say/do to me, therefore I am also responsible for the results.

[@karinteeples9715]

As a mom of 2 grown men, I agree. However, we taught our boys to be gentlemen, loving, to listen, show honor, by being an example in my husband’s and mine’s marriage. Married 32 years now. They are now both married to 2 amazing women and I couldn’t be more blessed to have them join our family. Marriage is a dying to Self and giving our all. It’s a beautiful commitment between 2 people. Blessed!❤️

[@lufesaro7741]

Can you elaborate on the dying to self part? Does that mean no accountability or responsibility on the other person?

[@bob007fl]

​@@lufesaro7741 I agree, everything she said was true and I agree UP to where she said "dying to self" I am sorry but NO marriage is MUTUAL no ONE way street.

[@bob007fl]

I agree, everything you said was true and I agree and AM an example of...UP to where you said "dying to self" I am sorry but NO, marriage is MUTUAL not a ONE way street. No ONE should sacrifice, if YOU did, I am sorry for you.

[@pslovebird]

@@lufesaro7741 I think she is saying that it’s selfless. Too many people nowadays are selfish.

[@54hmmwv]

I agree, one needs to kill the selfish part for the sake of the other. Both people need to do so. It takes a lifetime to master though.

[@harveystrodejr.0351]

You hit it right on the head. I got married young when I was in the Marines and it was the worst decision I ever made. I got a beautiful daughter out of it. But it destroyed me. I was on a great career path in the military on my way to Officer Candidate School and my 1st wife destroyed my career and my life during that period. I was able to claw my life back but it made everything 10 times harder than it needed to be. I wish I saw this video 20 years ago. I would definitely be in a totally different position than I am in now. Thanks Patrick for making this video. I wish more young men see this and don't make the same mistakes that I did early in life.

[@Conker117]

Thank you for your service!

[@frankrichardson7802]

Correct

[@joshtrent7945]

I was just saying, "man wish I saw this 10 years ago.". same story just different profession.

[@jessyjess309]

😢 this is tough, but you know what ur a living testimony and I know u will help lots of young men! 🙏🏼♥️ you are here to tell his story and I heard it🙋🏻‍♀️ I have a young boy that’s going to be 17yrs old and u stood out to me 🙏🏼 I’m for sure showing my son this video. I agree 100% with this video! I always talk to my son about this. Now the rest is up to them. Blessings ♥️♥️

[@wiv2631]

This five minute video is packed with the truest and most important advice a man can get. I sincerely pray that every boy and man can comprehend that choosing a good wife determines whether or not you will live a worthwhile life.

[@sentientbeans]

As a woman, I completely agree. And a good reminder for me to become the kind of woman who can be supportive and loving of a great guy who’s constantly improving himself (cause I know I can’t make him do that, he has to want to do it). To add to what he’s saying though, in order to pick the right woman, you have to know the kind of man you want to be, even if you’re not that right now, and stand strongly by your values. You will naturally attract those on the same level as you. Without that inner work, you won’t even be able to recognize the one even if she’s plopped right in front of you. Same goes for the ladies!

[@woodworkingaspirations1720]

This is true. Men need to be self aware, then they can make better decisions. And also not be sex driven. Lust can be a super blinder.

[@Mr.Edwards233]

@@woodworkingaspirations1720 Yes, I know 2 men who got married because of lust, their lives are completely living hell.

[@LuxuryArchived]

You must also be careful to marry the right man too, some of us man also destroy women

[@mat_leo]

@@LuxuryArchived very true. Some men are animals. Some are Peter Pans.

[@cannacare777]

@@mat_leo stop asking a female what to do.

[@jeepgurl1379]

He’s right. I watched some men’s lives get “ruined” by their toxic wives. It was sad to witness.

[@dmvamg]

100% agree! This needs to be talked about more!

[@bronsonz-1500]

Wow this hit me hard when I thought of my cousin being a homeless drug addict when he used to be a salesman making decent money and taking care of his wife and son. One afternoon day he was running behind a bus. That bus had his son and wife. The wife was headed towards another city to a new man. Everything went down hill for my cousin after that. This all happened in Mexico. He’s slowly deteriorating from a drug they call “foco”. I also have an uncle that from what I’ve heard cries when he drinks on holidays because he doesn’t see any of his family. His wife controls the relationship but she has started problems with everyone they come in contact with including all his family. Haven’t seen him in a while. Last I heard my cousins told me they got in a fight with their mother and now she drove them away as well. Pick your woman carefully my fellow men.

[@Entheogeneticz]

This definitely needed to be said !!

[@mattrivera8587]

Could not agree more. My wife is the best cornerman always telling me how she believes in me and knows "I can do it" after a day of feeling beat up and overwhelmed.

[@selfiekroos1777]

Im in opposite hell

[@mattrivera8587]

@@selfiekroos1777 She puts you down and degrades you? Constantly nags? Kicks you when you are down?

[@zengergazette9738]

Hope you do the same for your wife.

[@thehotsixer1]

@@selfiekroos1777 I feel for you brother, maybe show her this video and tell her you can both be more prosperous and happier by working together and swallowing pride.

[@selfiekroos1777]

@Matt Rivera Ya, it's not all the time, but it's constant. When I do it back to her she acts all offended and stops her crap, but just when I feel like it's changing up, she pokes and prods again here and there. Not enough for it to be extreme, but enough for it to be unhelpful. It's more the lack of feminine style and support and masculine vibes that emanate from her character.

[@citizenplanetearth6450]

100% correct! Gonna forward this to my son…he turned 26 last week. On a personal note, thank God I met the right woman…36 yrs ago and counting!

[@MonroeCarla]

As a woman, I wholeheartedly agree with every word. In every friendship and relationship, we must take time to discern who is for us and who is knowingly or unknowingly against us. Wisdom, patience, and hearing their words... reveals much.

[@jamesrapp9778]

So true Pat! I married at 36 no rush, 2 kids and 24 years in... HAPPY LIFE 😎👌

[@cgatito3528]

Married at 33, after 5 years of dating. No ultimatum from her - a good sign to proceed. Finally got around to proposing after figuring out over 5 years she was a keeper. No kids, 16 years in. Ain't no stopping us now.

[@Mr.Edwards233]

CHeers to 24 more man

[@Mr.Edwards233]

@@cgatito3528 Cheers to 5x5 and more

[@thefirsttrillionaire2925]

Same my parents were in at 34 and 35 and had me a year later. I still live with both of them at 21 😁 Great role models!

[@seymourlove4788]

@@thefirsttrillionaire2925 😊

[@mickv2tshaw187]

It’s happened twice in my life, it has absolutely ruined me! But I have learned how far I can be mentally pushed and a greater appreciation for the smaller things In life now, even if it nearly killed me multiple times 🤜🏽

[@edheldude]

Stay strong bro. Been there.

[@maverickg1740]

Fool me twice, more fool me

[@Ok-551]

Totally. I go to the gym everyday now. Then i go enjoy nature somehow.

[@SZ0H6]

I've dated over 14 women I'm 19, and every one of them are broken to bits, and I don't like seeing that, so I try my best to help and end up just being a crutch, it breaks me m, it's so stressful, I find peace when I'm single, I don't care about anything when I'm single, I'm happy when I'm single

[@_edem19]

Every time I watch PDB, I get the feeling that everything is possible and that the greatest obstacle is myself!

[@samsonmaluki2940]

for sure for sure

[@CJacobson]

Nailed it! Nothing makes you feel better than having the right woman by your side & knowing you've got each other's backs! That's priceless! My wife is a true Queen!

[@zengergazette9738]

And the right man. If he’s not home and helps with the kids and the house, he’s useless

[@mr.makedonija2627]

@@zengergazette9738 🙄

[@johnadams1281]

@@zengergazette9738 men gotta be out there making that cash, he needs to provide for his family to be useful. If he doesn't, and stays around the house all day, only then is he useless

[@zengergazette9738]

@@johnadams1281, the Woman staying in the house all day is also useless. Men aren’t the only ones who work. Nor are they the breadwinners anymore. Welcome to 2023

[@johnadams1281]

@@zengergazette9738 obviously in this day and age both spouses need to work, it's expensive otherwise. But men are born to be wired as breadwinners evolutionary speaking. That's why men are bigger, stronger and can withstand little social interaction (hunters and gatherers). Men have a purpose and it's to provide for their family, there's no shame in that. In today's world, both spouses must work to survive sadly

[@ListenMySon]

Facts. Keep speaking truth.

[@bleulung]

I did have a manual in a way. I grew up watching a successful marriage. My parents have been married 45 years. So when I met my wife at 24 I pretty much treated her very much like my dad treated my mom. In the very RARE chance my wifes parents are still married as well. 42 years. So we both grew up watching successful marriages and how to work through things in life. We have been together 18 years, married for 14.

[@woodworkingaspirations1720]

Lovely and uplifitng to see this. Parents play a big role in their kids life. Many times we try to teach them when they are too old and stuck in their ways. I dont mean parents should indoctrinate the kids, but we should pay attention from an early age. I think most of the good foundation or damage happens before 12 years. Just my Opinion.

[@tdontv448]

Great points PBD! I just turned 30 and I haven’t gotten married yet. I sometimes get the feeling that I am behind the 8 ball and feel the pressure from family and friends that I should be married with kids by now. This video gives me reassurance that I am doing the right thing by being patient getting into marriage and thinking about it strategically rather than rushing into it.

[@zengergazette9738]

What backward hick town do you live in? People nowadays get married later in life.

[@didafm]

Lol. If someone gets married at 25 and divorced at 35, they will probabbly be starting at zero. Meanwhile u at 35 and single r laughing

[@RobertMcGuckin-ws6pe]

I felt the same way when I was 30 and trust me, it is the wrong way to think!! Unless you really want children and I mean, it is and has always been a # 1 priority, do NOT marry!!! It is the #1 single biggest mistake a guy could make especially if you live in the United States, Canada or the UK!

[@thefirsttrillionaire2925]

Dude you only get more valuable as time passes as a man! Don’t worry about it lol, keep moving up in the world and you can marry any suitable woman you want

[@oliverholmes-gunning5372]

Personally I have never, ever felt the desire to settle down, get married, or even have a long-term relationship, and I can't see that changing any time soon. I prefer to vent my physical desires by having casual sex and my emotional ones by surrounding myself with close, loyal friends. And honestly I'm just so glad I'm like that; I've lost count of the times I've seen my friends emotionally crippled by toxic women (there was actually a running joke in my friend group at university that we were the toxicity magnets, because like 5 of us ended up falling in love with women with diagnosed personality disorders- fortunately I wasn't one of them) or women who simply didn't care about them anything like how they cared about her, or sometimes simply by the frustration of desiring a long-term relationship and not being able to find one. I'm so glad that, for all my issues, that's one I'll simply never have to deal with. And if I ever were to change that and find a woman that I could actually envision spending the rest of my life with (I can't see it happening, but you never know), I'm gonna make damn sure that before we marry A. we date for long enough that any red flags will become more than visible (minimum 2 years, ideally longer), B. I get the absolute honest opinion of her from all my closest friends and family and C. we sign a fucking prenup, lol

[@Celestethebestinthewest]

This is so true! As a divorced woman, I agree with everything you said.

[@clementtroaming5435]

This is how the world operates now.

[@dmenace2003]

The wife is the greatest key to a man’s success, and can also be the greatest lock to a man’s potential.

[@funkydiscogod]

@@MarkDavis007 I mean, sure' it's not the woman's fault, it's the law's fault.

[@AJ-xv7oh]

Very true.

[@Bulldog420]

Wish I heard this 20 years ago. Hits home here.

[@chisanainoris5364]

Yes absolutely agree and nothing frustrates me more than when an outsider messes with family vision and dynamic.

[@KidCity1985]

We need to teach our children what to look for in a mate. It totally goes both ways, I believe I've taught my son's well.

[@tonkajahari3010]

All women would say that. That’s part of the problem with you. Women telling boys how to be men but not telling girls how to be women. What did you teach him? What are the red flags?

[@karinteeples9715]

@@BlinksyCosmic The Feminist Movement really hurt the marriage and family unit. The truth is it’s extremely difficult to have it all~a good marriage, a great involved parent, and great in our career. Something will lack, and if it’s the job, you could lose it. Sometimes we have to make the hard, selfless decision to choose what might be best for our family in the moment. Being married and a parent is no joke.

[@sunmoonstars0369]

@@tonkajahari3010 people need to make their own mistakes and learn from them. You can talk until your blue in the face but its first hand experience that counts. There are many men who marry great women because they are a vibrational match, less to do with what they are taught and more to do with how they are a natural fit.

[@zengergazette9738]

@@tonkajahari3010, yo, misogynist, A mom telling her son how to be a man is no different than a man telling his daughter how to be a woman. Guess what? It’s not about gender but how you raise them as decent human beings.

[@zengergazette9738]

@@BlinksyCosmic So, you back illiteracy? Do you teach your kids? Hope not

[@emmittbishop4783]

Certainly happened to me. Complete destruction. 5 yrs later still digging myself out.

[@crazyworld3018]

I am a business owner and have definitely married the wrong woman! I can relate to what you are saying 💯 percent! We have 2 young kids and it’s them holding me to her as they are too young to go through separation and divorce issues and as a man I feel I must be strong for them and not show them the toxic nature of their mother, but at the same time as they grow they will definitely see it, so it’s quite a predicament. How I wish I considered all this before marrying young!

[@illadeligut]

Impossible to argue here HOWEVER in my personal experience the opposite can ALSO be true. My toxic ex-wife was exactly what I needed to wake me up and get me on a path towards success. I was your average non-critical thinker, just going along with what life was giving me when I was woken up by about a big a slap in the face as one could handle due to her actions. It took years but I began to rebuild myself so much better than before. I began working out, starting side hustles, reading and educating myself, and deepening my spiritual practices all because of what an incredibly toxic woman put me through. For a guy who already has their s#it together I can see how the wrong choice in a partner could be debilitating, but for a guy with his head in the sand such as my former self, it can be a godsend.

[@anamericanman]

A great point. Godsend and Godspeed, always capitalized or else you are talking about the other one.

[@rayzamarripajr.7571]

Heck yeah brother you got up and got better 💯📈

[@illadeligut]

@@rayzamarripajr.7571 Thanks man 👊

[@illadeligut]

@@ibossmb Hey brother, I obviously don't know you personally but I know for a fact that you can make it alone. I'll go as far as saying that if you truly want to grow, you HAVE to. As for your girl, something I've learned is that people don't just change, they either have to REALLY want to, or something terrible has to happen that makes them fear staying the same so badly to keep it from happening again.

[@MrDigimik]

Good for you dude! Keep the faith!

[@emreduygun]

this is so very true, a supportive, considerate , respectful and loving wife is priceless and will motivate the man for the better, men are naturally inclined to make things happen and provide for their families

[@twf4481]

I love your boldness and your approach to matters such as this. I've been focused on teaching my sons about this as it's extremely important to understand who you're potentially marrying. Patience practiced within a relationship will also tell each other about the other person. Patience is not just for the person practicing it, but also for the other person as well. Thank you!!

[@googlekonto2851]

This guy scammed my senile parents. They spent 7 grand on his MLM scheme.

[@lokistiglic1399]

The scary part of "behind every defeated man..." is that woman could even being their own mother... Breaking them before they even become a man. As a father I try to build my boys up to be the man I wish I was. Strong, independent, and make the right choices finding a person to share their life with.

[@hottestmanever777]

I wish I had father like you so I didn't have go through hustle in my life

[@dadthemanthemyththelegend3348]

The most important decision you will ever make, is choosing the person you marry. This decision will dictate 90% of your happiness and peace. You're building a team, choose wisely. You nailed it. looks are fleeting, values are forever

[@jeandonis5606]

1000% Approved!👍

[@HBossOnline]

I've grown to really really like and appreciate this man's words. Thank you sir 🙏🏿

[@drbijubkp]

Spot on from a guy who has burnt his fingers many times. Very Good advise. The last one is the most important. You need that behind closed doors your pillar of support and encouragement...if thats not there..just believe in yourself and love yourself..noone else can do that better ..

[@yougottachillbruh]

I can't fathom how a man can spend 20+ years of his life working extremely hard to build something only for his wife to take it all away during divorce..I honestly can't.

[@Aj-tu4gv]

Prenup

[@hughmac13]

By law she can't take it all.

[@zengergazette9738]

Can you fathom how a man controls a woman in most countries (Africa, India, Mid East), can control and abuse her. Then, if they get divorced, she gets nothing and wasn’t educated to fend for herself. He gets everything. We are where we are because men were A holes. Stop playing victim

[@eugeneabreut960]

@@hughmac13 50% is a big cut

[@hughmac13]

@@eugeneabreut960 Is it? Is it not for the most part equitable?

[@maylynbayani]

The motto of my marriage: Love is not looking at each other, it's looking at the same direction. I love my husband but I married him not just because I love him but because we have a shared vision of the trajectory of our lives.

[@niallireland2940]

This a 100% , I married a great hearted girl ! But totally wrong for me ! I was flying before the marriage but soon after a weight came around my neck , she doesn’t do it intentionally, but I noticed myself turn into her instead of my old confident and driven self . I’m just so unmotivated now in every aspect of life I’ve literary turned into her! I’ve tried calling it a day many of times . But the guilt keeps me there but more importantly kids! My life’s just empty now , I don’t feel suicidal or anything but just so empty can’t see anyway back, so guys don’t rush in and pick wisely it’s the biggest decision you will ever make

[@MrSultaan99]

Marriage is a business for a lot of women.🙂

[@zengergazette9738]

Marriage still is a business for men in most of the world. Africa, Mid East, India. Women are treated like 💩 there, are not respected and not seen as equals. Your point?

[@rareosts5752]

You mean lawyers, the women are being enticed.

[@Krumpus.Clausson]

Absolutely true about both sexes. A bad partner can ruin everything you’ve worked hard to build. A friend of mine was in a bad situation because of his wife, and he died on Monday. Be careful everyone.

[@nakitojimo2001]

Been there done that. From marrying a wrong woman to finally marrying the right one n I'm happy now!

[@MichelangeloParker]

Mr. Bet-David, I don’t know how much this will mean.. but I really hope you could go deeper into this topic. I’m a 23 year old and I’ve been the most dedicated, successful, business-minded man I know for years now. I wasted a lot of last year with a toxic woman I fell head over heels for. Its had me so depressed lately. I feel like so much of the energy I used to put into myself and my business has been being used stressing about her. I really hope you could talk about relationships and business a little more because this kind of gave me a little more hope.

[@watchesandgold]

Forget about serious relationships for now and take that previous toxic relationship as a W

[@MichelangeloParker]

@@watchesandgold thanks for the advice bro

[@watchesandgold]

@@MichelangeloParker no worries my guy 🙏

[@unaffiliated_x9279]

Build your career first. It is nearly impossible to build a family and a career at the same time. One or the other will fall behind. Eventually they both will fall behind. You have time. Life is a marathon, not a sprint.

[@danielvelkovski3156]

Only 1 year you wasted? Consider yourself lucky!

[@src5769]

Both my husband and I have been married to 3 other spouses. I told him we learned how to treat each other from how we were treated in our other marriages. I build him up, and tell him what great work he does when fixing things and he always kisses me goodbye and compliments my cooking. We don't hit below the belt, during a disagreement and plan on a long marriage. I wrote my short list of what I wanted in a man, and got it.

[@jasontaylor404]

Jesus Christ. Don't get me wrong I'm happy for you and understand the message. That's a lot of time and energy.

[@superdavetn]

I can totally Vouch for everything you are saying. there are so many women who are toxic, sabotage me at every turn so she can play the victim. turns out she was a covert Narcissist. something I didn't even know existed. she destroyed my health so much, its taken 15 years and I still don't have my health back. it is improving still. I am hopeful. I cant wait to show her how successful I can be when I have my health back and free of her. that will be the best revenge. and no one prepares you for this. the church is absolutely incompetent when it comes to serious issues like this. They can't even properly address feminism and step outside of a gynocentric point of view. "Believe all women"? Never!! I start from the perspective that they are toxic until proven otherwise. and the best thing you can do for your life is develop very strong hard boundaries expecting ppl to cross them. Have a Zero Tolerance on Boundaries and watch for the ppl who go crazy over it.

[@maymadison3620]

As a woman I agree with this and I know from experience the opposite is also true. That woman can be his mother, wife, gf...etc. Just like a woman's life can shatter down with the wrong man and how many of those exist. ( I understand this video focuses on the financial aspect which is very important) but getting your life dismantled does not always center on losing money. You can lose your mental, physical health and that shit is self-sustainable.

[@beckykrick6108]

I AGREE..HAPPENED TO ME...

[@karinteeples9715]

I agree 💯 with you! But I’ve seen so many of these videos of men really concerned of losing their assets financially. They resent the No Fault law where the wife gets 1/2 of everything if they divorce. Right or wrong, it seems men are embittered by this and more and more are turned off to the marriage commitment and say it’s not worth it. This concerns me that marriage may dwindle out and the Family Unit goes with it.

[@jdawg3629]

These videos are directed at men even tho women can learn from them. Men are providers by nature. When wiped out, it can crush a man more than a woman. Women come out on top more often. The cut is deeper in this aspect. That's the point

[@julius5550]

@@karinteeples9715 Well thanks those in charge for that. If the rules were applied more equally across the board guys probably would not be that hesitant to tie the knot.

[@zengergazette9738]

@@jdawg3629 Hate to break it to you but women get screwed over by marrying the wrong man too. Men were providers at a time when women had no rights. Now, some women are providers or, both work. Men also are more involved with their kids. The problem is that people like Pat still live in the past. They haven’t evolved and still have the “women will follow” mentality. That’s good if you live in Sayid Arabia and India, Africa where women aren’t valued, respected and are controlled. The problem is not the men are equal but that they were told they didn’t need each other. Big difference. Neither gender is the enemy

[@pmstff700]

No one can “ruin” your life we have choices. I’m on the opposite side a man who took me for every penny cheated and lied. So I know the feeling. Beaten down older and having to start over with nothing. But I didn’t let him “ruin” my life. Yes I was kicked in the teeth was down for a while but put my big girl pants on and got back up.

[@loveloveandhatehate]

You done F'd up! But until you've been a serious relationship with a woman, you don't know what evil is!

[@curiousladyinla]

Thank you for your post. Truth. As woman also thrive in the world, this will become more common of being used by males. Role reversal. It is true that our lives are up to us. I see too many male responses sounding more like using the woman up instead of stories of how they built their woman up for success. Then again, this YT video will attract a certain male population segment and not 100% of experiences.

[@joelfritz3834]

Agreed, I’m 52 and dated the wrong woman for 10 years, I’m so f’d up in the head I forgot who I am, but I also keep picking the wrong dates as well. Women don’t know how to deal with a good man

[@dragonofdolittle1332]

I married the right woman. She is my biggest cheerleader. I am absolutely certain I would not be where I am career wise and otherwise without her. Attractive, positive, loyal, and kind.

[@travisadams4470]

Until she divorces you.

[@UnrighteousMadeRight]

I'm a living testament of this conversation.

[@joeanonymous1834]

Great advice. I'm in my late 50s and widowed. My late wife was a beautiful angel. Before we met, we both kissed a lot of frogs. She was married twice. I spent a total of 12-years in three live-in relationships that, thank God, never resulted in marriage. In the case of many other people, in many other cultures, and in different epochs, these relationships would have certainly have led to marriage. Again, thank God they did not. In different ways, I was betrayed by each of these three women. The criteria Pat enumerates in this video are all correct. But there is more. The cliche that "you will know" when you meet the right person is true. If you don't feel a depth of love for the woman that you have felt for no other--don't marry her. In order to know this, you have to have some experience. You don't have to wait until forty. But don't rush in. Don't mistake lust for love. And don't marry unless you "know."

[@zelinaworden111]

Don't ever kid yourself. There are men that can destroy your whole life too. I got one that was pulling me down. I knew it but was afraid to leave because he was so violent. When I finally left him after 26yrs of marriage, I realized how much more I could have had in life with out him.

[@davidgutierrez6023]

If you are an Entrepreneur or plan to become one, and PLAN to marry It is vitally important that you find the right partner. Wise words from PBD.

[@extremepsyche3135]

What if your "right" partner changes to wrong?

[@johnadams1281]

@@extremepsyche3135 thats why you don't marry young, most young women will change a lot before the age of 25. Marry in your 30's, get a girl a few years young and have kids by mid or late 30's

[@adnanhajdarpasic5019]

Truth Hurts.

[@nighthawksim6675]

This has encouraged me because I have lived life and feel like there is no one out there. But I need to wait and be chill about it. That spoke volumes to me to bot rush Into marriage.

[@mark9294]

Yes, exactly. You have nothing to prove

[@oldcars46]

You're 100% right and it's good message to get out there for the younger men and women

[@t_rxley]

100%; my wife would literally hit me behind my head if I ever talked down on myself. She believes in me so much it's scary. I think young men NEED to wait it out. You don't wanna marry too young, at least wait till you're at least 30; where you have a very clear prospect of exactly what you want and where you wanna go.

[@mark9294]

Yes, this. I married at 28 and it was exactly two years too early. We broke off at 30, divorce now through at 32. But those four years are gone. And yes, we do have a kid

[@marieval1034]

I am a women ..,,I agree 100% It goes both ways !

[@sakethief9365]

No it doesn’t. There’s dozens of government and society safety nets that prevent western women from failing gtfoh

[@marieval1034]

@Chris Cuomo many men destroy women’s lives ….. just like many toxic women can destroy a man’s life . What did you not understand superstar ?

[@LeonHawkeye]

Vastly more risk to marry as a good man than a good woman. A good woman can still take a bad man to court and recoup some of cost of the failed marriage. A good man can't do anything to a bad woman in America, he'll get destroyed.

[@miketracy9256]

Great advice Patrick. We have seen this quite often and it sometimes takes many years before the marriage ends, but people do change and some become better while others become worse. As Brian Tracy tells us, "90% of your happiness or unhappiness will come from whom you marry."

[@woodworkingaspirations1720]

Who you marry may also be a reflection of yourself. So men need to have the right self image so they can have that complemented by the wife. We mostly go in blind and figure things out along the way, which may not be optimal.

[@MichaelAngztek]

Never again...I'd rather be alone and learn to love and respect myself first.

[@ritagallardo4426]

Excellent message. I am sharing this with as many young people I know both men and women, boys and girls.

[@chrisgmusic4God]

My wife is my rock (well, after Christ). She is one of a kind and without her I’d be lost. I hear these horror stories about these crazy females and I’m just like wow. A good woman is a unicorn these days. Young men are DOOMED!!!

[@DavidBaronStevens]

I lived this. Still do to this day. Even trying to escape this type of woman won't leave you scarred or still under her control.

[@deantait8326]

My wife helped me incredibly for the first 10 years. Everything was go, she believed in me and her confidence in my abilities opened doors I never thought possible. She then destroyed my life and our family when she started drinking and listening to her man hating grandmother and I’m a shell of what I once was.

[@kevinbuda7087]

dean! you cant reason with alcohol. and her mother?... dont waste your life. they have done this to you slowly,slowly. until the burden is very great. redefine yourself...and without them. morph into what you want,what will make you happy. dont be defeated!

[@pamelaaverill1608]

I got lucky with my 3 older children. They all married their best friends and are thriving. One more child left in home. Youngest, very needy, and controlling. Lots of prayers that she's looking at all her examples, including her own parents who are still married!! God Bless her.

[@Dancing_Alone_wRentals]

(that is great to hear. Well done Pamela and Mr. Pamela)

[@MrSheymie]

Western men are also not taught to live without a woman. It can absolutely be done, but you may find that it leads to different forms of success, such as contentment, peace, freedom and meaning.

[@Desertduleler_88]

Great advice, pre planning for marriage and family is absolutely necessary for a system that destroys families.

[@MrLettuceguy]

100%!! Way too many people settle. I've seen so many friends and family settle for the the wrong woman and totally change for the worse. Marriage is already hard as it is, wait for the right one!

[@thehotsixer1]

I agree with Pat with one major exception, there actually is a clock ticking down, set by biology, the sooner you have kids, the better, waiting until your old is not a good idea

[@MrLettuceguy]

@@thehotsixer1 Agreed. But I would say it is better to be alone and not have kids than be in a shitty toxic marriage with them. Just my opinion though

[@daviddicara991]

Pat, you are 100% correct in this video brother. I married too young and didn't trust my instincts and I'm living proof of all the negatives that can come from a poor decision....I could be a whole episode for you brother...you wouldn't even believe what I've been thru...

[@mama-cita]

Spot on with everything accept I disagree with waiting until your 30s or 40s to get married. I got married young. My husband and I were both 19. We are 35 today. We have grown together so much! We have the same values. I think it's hard to find someone with the exact same values when you don't grow together. At 30 or 40 you've already spent a couple decades growing by yourself, becoming set in your ways, getting used to thinking selfishly. It's really hard to make the transition at 30 or 40. Every marriage is a big adjustment. If you get married young you get all the hard work out of the way. If you get married at 30 or 40 you have all that hard work ahead of you when you should be focusing on success in your life. My husband is a very successful business man. He's doing a fine job of growing his business. I like to think that it has something to do with me supporting him through the hard times. He grew up with a narcissistic father. He thought he wasn't good enough. But I've been able to encourage him for all these years. It was all possible from getting married young.

[@polmattpressurewashing4444]

I being married 4 times and the 4th was the charm, now I considered myself and expert on the subject. I tell young guys, that your biggest decision is not what to study or where I am going to live, but who's going to be my partner. I believe every word you said and I can add lot more to the subject. 👍

[@MaricelaHuitron]

Thanks!

[@BA-et2pm]

Man you’re killing it on KZbin pat, good job these past few years keep it going

[@MrSilverAsset]

This hits home pretty hard. Nothing but support and love for a woman who lied to have me locked in a psychiatric faculty, moved into my house then moved out with all my property and then filed a stalking order when I asked for my property back... Business gone. Kids/Family gone. Reputation gone. 32 months to the day, today, I am still locked away for complete lies from a woman I trusted and loved. The truth is stranger than fiction. 😵

[@joannwent655]

Damn I pray for you bruh bruh. Women can be so evil . Nobody warned us. I went through something he’ll similar. Lost my home and everything she claimed I didn’t pay rent for and or got evicted from my last place when I paid 6months of our place upfront so she didn’t have to stress while being pregnant. Worst decision of my life I was called an abuser , both physically and mentally. All kind of bs that tarnished my reputation.. I should get a restraining order and press charges for defamation. And her next boyfriend knocked her out she needed stitches in front of my son with a bottle of alcohol. Women are trifling as I have ptsd forever ever

[@MrSilverAsset]

@@joannwent655 It is an evil I can not understand. So cruel and cold. But maybe we are thinking about this all wrong, it is probably just our "toxic" masculinity that is blinding us... :/ I have many friends that have been CLEANED out after divorce... Seriously unbelievable.

[@zuckthebetacuck2789]

@@MrSilverAsset It's the toxic simps rather. Never thirst for a wimmin to the extent of being blinded by her cruelty and evil spirit.

[@MastLuc]

I’m 40 years old, never married and have less and less of a desire everyday to get married

[@dotursdottir]

"Behind every defeated man is a woman who ruined his life"... Prince Harry is a poster child for this.

[@NLChristadelphians]

Excellent video! every man needs to hear this. Sobering, and inspiring. Definitely worth asking yourself if the woman you want will help you or hinder you in life. Especially true if you have great plans for your life. Marry a broken woman, and you'll have a broken life

[@clementtroaming5435]

It will be sensible for men to not marry given the mad environment some of us have to endure.

[@djgrant8761]

If being a great man is determined by a great woman then I will never be a great man. Single I came out of the womb single till the day I die.

[@ninal.743]

Wow I understand it now much better and appreciate it more, when my partner compliments me, that I'm always there for him, support him being his biggest cheerleader and let him do, whatever he needs to do in business. Feels good knowing that I play a part in it, that he makes the currently the biggest deals... my heart is melting. I'd do anything for him to succeed in life, not only businesswise

[@789100casey]

Values, Values, Values this is so true. I'm 61 years young and back in the day spanking some butt and demanding respect of elders was the norm. Because of those values, I never got into major trouble.

[@thepaxtribe6942]

Brother. I gave you thumbs up before I heard the message. I married the wrong woman. So on point.

[@stevecoscia]

I married at 33. Perfect age for me to get married. We're married 37 years and still going. It's not perfect. We make things work. One of the things we love doing together is long-term planning.