Why Men Live Harder Lives Than Women

[@ilikepancakes2368]

If you’re a depressed woman who is working at a McDonald’s, there’s always a guarantee there’ll be a man who wants to be with you but if you’re a man in the same position, no woman wants you. As a man, you just got to learn how to suffer alone and take in all the punches. It sucks but it is what it is. Most average men live hard lives of quite desperation.

[@nicholaslawrence6926]

Fully agree. Men marry downwards; women marry upwards. That's why a poor woman can get hitched easily, but a poor man cannot.

[@2legitkong536]

Like Bill Burr said: every woman/girl have a free scholarship for life

[@ChandlerBinh]

One understands what you're saying. But take heed: only in America do men have the luxury to be depressed (or anyone for that matter). If you're too broke to find a partner, it's time to learn a skill/trade, get some certificates and advance yourself, so atleast you can be a man who can do better for himself and be a resource provider (if you're not attractive and want a partner, at least she can use you for your money, sad but true). There's too much opportunity than sit, feel sorry for yourself and mope while mopping at micky d's. And if you don't want a partner, you should still aspire to be someone with a better purpose, especially if you're an able bodied person with some motivation. I understand mental health is important, but stay away from social media, dating apps ( hell, even KZbin) and find your niche in life. And to all the young lads out there... grind until your 40's/50's and feel blessed that you had the chance to be a part of this world. Every day above ground is a blessing and if you find a woman who adores you, faithful, stressfree and has a good head on her shoulder pads (even if she's far from a ten), keep her. By all means necessary because the grass is burnt on the other side. Good luck and may the farce be with us.

[@AsadDelRey]

I used to work at Arbys and there is a clear difference in how male and female employees are treated. I used to work with women who barely did anything. Yet they got $10-$20 tips from simp men. What did I get? Coins thrown at my face, accused of stealing, racial slurs, etc.

[@rollingdudes8859]

If you are a YOUNG WOMAN working at McDonalds!!! If you are a OLD WOMAN at McDonalds that is a WHOLE DIFFERENT STORY!!!

[@herekitty791]

Imagine having a 6 years longer life expectancy due to less work related stress, making up only 7% of workplace fatalities, 4% deaths due to war, 24% of suicides and homicides, 20% of the homeless, having people assume you are the victim when you initiated DV in the majority of cases, having laws that cannot identify you as a perpetrator of r ape, having a 40% higher adoption rate... and thinking men are privileged

[@valdyserant2391]

😂

[@Hatchumosc1]

But they can't even define woman anymore. Is why so many men want to become women now.

[@fightsportspace7327]

@@Hatchumosc1 lmao facts

[@bloodsportfilms]

😂🔥👌

[@elladesigns9609]

Men are the causes of most of these issues!

[@thehungrysage]

Men need to work 5x more than their grandfathers did for women 20x worse than their grandmother. Don’t get your sh*t together for women, do it for yourself. These women don’t deserve it. Get this idea of love and marriage out of your head and move forward to live for yourself.

[@jzen1455]

My therapist told me to basically stop dumpster diving. She said I was like a million dollar home who keeps selling myself to people who give me low-ball offers. When I was younger, I'd go for whomever showed some interest in me while I went out of my way to keep their interest in me even if it meant basically having very few boundaries and bending over backwards to accomodate her will.

[@masterkc]

Yep. You couldn't have said it any better 🍻

[@Blazee2897]

Preach, king.

[@BrianCheng24]

Amen

[@Blazee2897]

@Bryan-vb1gb You're an immigrant, not expat.

[@damionstr1ke]

Well, I learned really quickly in my 20s not to rely on my online dating profiles to get me any success as I am not necessarily a great looking guy. However, I've always had success meeting and dating women in person since speaking to women and displaying my personality was much easier and effective when having actually human interactions. So to the men out there who's confidence is perhaps damaged due to the unfairness of the online dating market I have to say one thing: "Get out of your damn house and start talking to people in the real world."

[@CamKnoppMusic]

Same. But I think its still a good idea to have a dating profile simultaneously, otherwise youre missing out on a whole sea of potential options. You may get rejected 200+ times on a dating app, but all you need is one person to swipe right and that time investment is relatively minimal, even for that number of swipes. Hinge is actually pretty decent, but I use that while simultaneously meeting a lot of girls in real life through sports, volunteering, social circle, etc..

[@damionstr1ke]

@@CamKnoppMusic I had both. But I'd compare online dating to fishing and in-person interaction with hunting. I'd rather pursue the one I want than relying on getting one to bite.

[@CamKnoppMusic]

@@damionstr1ke yeah true. I definitely find that my results in online dating are far worse than in-person because in person I can show my charisma and confidence and whatnot, but with online dating its mostly just looks, which I’m generally not gonna win in lol.

[@gary9933]

Met my wife the old fashioned way, by chance at a store. Definitely a higher success rate in person than online with some fake profile.

[@kklh7918]

Problem is that the REAL world is fractured now too. Women congregate in groups with their friends which require more confidence to approach. Although, women if asked they would like to be approached, they don't understand the situations in which guys want to approach them. The gym is typically a decent place to converse but guys often feel like a creep for doing so. IN the club its fine but honestly, you aren't finding your wife in the club.

[@axiosw0774]

Speaking from men's perspective (27 here) Most women from age of 12 to 28 chose to have fun and party with bums, some even up to 40 do it - they ignore more mature guys who are trying to become/build something, then 30's come and all of a sudden their shield gets down to the guy she ignored in her 20's, and if that guy has a good job/decent look (because most guys look better with age let's be honest here) all of a sudden they are interested - not in him of course, but in what he can provide for them - safety/resources My advice to all the guys my age and younger, even older - understand your position in life and market value, your value will increase naturally with age and if you do all the right things it will increase more on top of that, women's value decreases as she ages, because men prefer younger women with "no/limited experience" Also - know that a women you are talking to mostly likely have x10 more experience in dating than you will ever have, so you are playing a game where you are a newbie against a pro player - understand her background/experience and just don't play, because you will loose simple as that At the end of the day if you are a guy living in the "WEST" remember - as soon as you fly to any of the other 99% of countries - women will be chasing you like there is no tomorrow, the amount of options you will have because of your resources/stature is endless in other countries, women in the west are picky as hell and offer nothing besides baggage and drama To give you a simple example about myself - I get 10/10 looking women in most countries on tinder when traveling - some of them look like models, and in the west I get matched usually with 0-5's ocassionally 6-7's and rarely with 8's-9's - for the match rates, I get 8-15 a day, in the west 0-2 a day Remember - at the end of the day you win, just don't play a rigged game, use your left hand/build/make money/save money then go elsewhere, no point to buy expensive western houses/cars/women - simple as that

[@mihailivanov9392]

Great advice!

[@JoyRideJay11]

Well said my G! 😤🤙🏽

[@persian-k4i]

this is true asf im 17 came from iran to america when i was 8 and you wont believe what women would do for a chance of marrying you and getting green card to come to us with you

[@UltraGamma25]

Thank you for this bro "Newbie vs. Pro" That's facts

[@twinturbotim1660]

1110%. Excellent advice.

[@MusikLover3000]

I'm a woman and I completely agree with everything. I feel for men today. Even though I'm in a relationship I still feel for the lonely single men that have to work 10x harder than a woman to get a partner.

[@marvinbienaime2012]

Based off of your comment, I can tell your mind as far beyond many women here on this planet, your man is blessed

[@jerzeys2finest89]

Its because of looks I think as he said, the looks factor is alot higher in short term

[@mottthehoople684]

I checked out of the dating scene in America long time ago my parents were married 62 years the brain is a fascinating the more options we have the more potential for buyer's remorse regardless of what you're looking for between technology marketing and social norms that are breaking by the day is difficult for people like me in America my father said 40 years ago I'd want to leave the states the only time I would have status with American woman is if there was some type of catastrophe and physical strength was a priority that's no longer the case and men are no longer needed

[@dragorn3212]

1000 times harder. Men find reasons to like women by default, women find reasons to reject men. Technically men have it infinitely harder. For women it's hard just to not have a relationship

[@fearless6947]

Not many women are that truthful. Thank you!!!

[@criticalcriminal]

Thumbs up if you came from “Do Alpha Women Destroy Marriages?” video 👍

[@jaysala2760]

Did you notice that women are way more smiley, laugh a lot and just seem overall happier than men? It's not that we don't want to be happy, women just live on easy mode.

[@Monzino_15-c8e]

Just because someone is smiling does not mean they are suffering with depression. Some people can hide it. It is not ur right to tell someone because they are smiling they are not depressed. This just shows ur ignorance if I’m honest with you.

[@javierjaime9386]

All my married friends have alot of problems from losing the house to not being able to pick up the phone when shes there....its crazy

[@ibiro868]

LOL I can tell within the first 10 seconds if the wife is within an earshot.

[@petittall557]

Isn't that a effed up a life Javier?

[@zacatkinson3926]

can you elaborate on this?

[@y.a.3903]

To be honest I think in our western world nowadays only stupid men get married and unfortunately I am one of them.

[@javierjaime9386]

@@zacatkinson3926 nothing to elaborate they just have shitty wives

[@VincentNoot]

I got rejected by so many women in my 20s and some of those were definitely because of an entitled attitude some women had, them saying they wanted to travel the world, more money, career, and not needing a man. I finished college, found jobs, and finally found my sweetheart, not one of those bossy bitches I tried to date earlier. It was worth the wait. She saw my potential. Don’t sel yourself short.

[@elizarnalsurov4024]

Good job,mate! I'm really good about your experience.

[@ericjiang7986]

I got chased by many women but I’m studying aboard so I have to travel too often and I don’t even got time dating them I only flirted with them lol😂 so you should feel better

[@ericjiang7986]

In high school many women chased me but then my dad took me back to China and then I in college I got depressed even three are women I chose to stay at home and then covid hit I had to go back to my hometown again but then I got fat cuz lockdown gained 50 lbs and then no women wanted me at the point and I spent two years losing them lol😂 some women loved me when I was preparing my academics but I was afraid of falling behind in academics so I didn’t go out for dating at all so 😂lol. I’m the opposite man.

[@ericjiang7986]

Now my family is lacking capable members to lead the family I feel I’m the only one to take on the spot. So I feel even less time vacant for me to date with women. I feel enormous pressure to take responsibility for my family. Well I’m Asian so family culture very strong lol 😂

[@busterhoodstar6598]

When a man's decisions aren't ruled by his penis, he generally comes out a winner.

[@lovepeacebliss]

Its testosterone that gives a man drive. Desicions are still being ruled by balls

[@busterhoodstar6598]

@lovepeacebliss Would it be testosterone and balls that can cause one to spell the word "decisions" incorrectly? Additionally, what causes other people to "like" a comment that spells the word "decisions" incorrectly. Asking for a friend.......

[@deadales]

@@busterhoodstar6598 it must be hard being that far out on the spectrum. hope there's some medical help for you in the future

[@busterhoodstar6598]

@@deadales Speaking of hard. You were able to type this out and be face down in a pillow, taking it like a champ at the same time. Impressive .

[@TueNielsen-r4f]

women over 30 years...start a sports training life or start a life alone ervery morning.

[@andrelima5124]

THIS MAN DIDN'T SOLD HIS SOUL JUST FOR FOLLOWERS LIKE MOST BIG TIME " CONTENT CREATORS ". RESPECT.

[@mashal7965]

This man is an adult content creator. For proof, search up hot oily men on google.

[@user-dl4rr5qs8y]

With markets tumbling, inflation soaring, the Fed imposing large interest-rate hike, while treasury yields are rising rapidly-which means more red ink for portfolios this quarter. How can I profit from the current volatile market, I'm still at a crossroads deciding if to liquidate my $125k bond/stock portfolio

[@olgageorgsen9654]

Infact, ever since Coronavirus, I've been in regular communication with financial examiners. Nowadays, buying moving stocks is quite easy; the trick is knowing when to buy and when to sell. The section and leave orders for my portfolio are made by my counsel. accumulated more than $550,000 from a $150,000 savings that was initially stale.

[@mildred8313]

Would you mind recommending a specialist with a variety of investment options? This is extremely rare, and I eagerly await your response.

[@olgageorgsen9654]

As Yuval Eric Brokman is a highly sought-after counsel, he is actually the one who directs me. Nonetheless, you can try your luck. Just leaving his phone number would not be appropriate. he may be lying about, but if you Google his name, you can view his website.

[@olgageorgsen9654]

google his name..

[@olgageorgsen9654]

Yuval Eric Brokman.

[@ruckin3]

Money doesn't solve as much in the dating world as men seem to always say. I am 6 ft 3, a multi-millionaire, above average good looking but Im in a wheelchair from an accident . It's a MASSIVE thing to overcome because they immediately assume you don't work or live off the state or have a life . Men: Be Tall (#1 trait ). Be good Looking. And make at least 100k .....and you are automatically in the top 10% Women: Show up. Dont be fat. Be feminine .....it's that easy.

[@d53101]

Men: make more than 6 figures, be more than 6 feet tall, and have more than 6 inches.

[@LTElvis]

100%

[@taghazoutmoon5031]

Good looking usually is good enough. A handsome face. Doesn't even need to be tall. I've been with broke handsome men that weren't tall.

[@brianmeen2158]

Simply being a man that becomes successful and then has women suddenly interested in him would be more of a mind fuck than anything else.. most guys probably wouldn’t care as long as they can get laid but I would.

[@Canadian_Eh_I]

While I agree with some of the sentiment from the last line, I think it doesnt tell the full story. Women get their hard times on the back half...once they hit the wall and nobody wants to date them and they dont get special treatment. The power shift happens when men turn 40, then life is in our favour :)

[@1ObsoleteMan]

“Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.” - G. Michael Hopf

[@ilikepancakes2368]

Nah, weak men either just kill themselves or live alone knowing they will die with no witnesses.

[@theDavidChannel1]

I remember using a dating site ten years ago and I told people about this example. If i messaged 75 women I would be LUCKY if 4 responded back, and of those 4 that responded back, I would be lucky if 1 responded back a second time. Haven't used those sites/apps since, but looks like things haven't changed much

[@TravisBickle58]

These are exactly the same with me. And I was thinking this only happens with me. But, looking at the comment section, it feels like a worldwide phenomena.

[@apreviousseagle836]

I don't know either but it seems things have gotten worse.

[@charlesnwofor3480]

Become superman for an average women 😂

[@ActAccordinglyNow]

Straight up lol

[@therearenoshortcuts9868]

*below average LOL

[@Mr.Edwards233]

And it still won't be enough because you weren't Thor or the Hulk yesterday

[@Saberdud]

gotta become rich nowadays for a broke b1tch

[@shin-ishikiri-no]

@@Mr.Edwards233 "Yesterday" 🤣

[@OfficialDanielSilvas]

Best factual video you have made on Men & Women dating 🙌🏼

[@thatguy-dr3zc]

You mean dual mating strategy

[@Gh0s7R1pp3R]

Love to hear that I have to be 4 times the man my father was at his age to get a woman not even 1/3rd as valueable as my mother.

[@baw-mq4bt]

Exactly it's called hoeflation

[@reginaldknowles3890]

​@@baw-mq4bt Lmfao😂😂😂

[@baw-mq4bt]

@@reginaldknowles3890 lmao

[@luckygirl3707]

I am sure making sweeping generalizations about females helps a lot 😅

[@mscottster444]

He ain’t wrong tbh lol

[@jamesphee5184]

It’s really simple regardless of one’s choices in life literally be responsible, mentally physically and spiritually for one’s choices and you’ll start to realize freedom. In America we still are free enough to achieve what one wants to achieve. It’s hard, but it’s worth it if you care enough.

[@josephstclair5937]

Free enough as long as you grow up in a stable household with money.

[@JohnDoe-id5ih]

Bruh most American boys get mutilated at birth. You never had any freedom to begin with.

[@jacksquat4140]

You either have a lot to learn or you're willfully blind.

[@Sahrokh]

@@josephstclair5937 it's still better than 90% of the rest of the world. I was born and lived in dead-broke-a$$ countries where you are born a sucker and *SHALL* die a sucker. There's no American Dream outside of America. Just look how literally millions of people are inmigrating to the USA with the hope to change their life. They are not inmigrating to any other random country.

[@mikeynoels7210]

I love when PBD shares his based takes

[@blitzy3244]

Damn I wish my name was Mickey. Solid Irish gangster name, especially if your last name is Thompson or something like that.

[@Armed-Forever]

yet you men continue to marry these hoes lol

[@Raverraver9999]

Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..

[@marilynaderson6568]

Sweet, responsibility for ones choices - I have only myself to hold accountable for my choices - I never want to sell myself short again! I love my life and my Family, life is good. I enjoy hearing your point of view.

[@Tyler_W]

Also worth pointing our is that dating apps aren't very good to find much of anything for most guys because the vast and overwhelming majority of people on dating apps are other men. Only worth pursuing if you're the tippy-top percentage of men. Better to just work on yourself, become the the person that kind of person you want would be looking for, then go to the places where such people would be.

[@TheIrishBosnian]

Im a good looking man, a good man, in good physical health, and i still get nothing. The app is broken. 6s think theyre 10s avoiding other 6s. Its crazy. The problem is that men have too little options and women have too much. How do you fix this? give men a very limited supply of swipes whichll balance out the odds of the overwhelming force women receive leaving them more curious and pursue more men by their lesser options. Will this happen? no. Why? money. At the end of the day, im not bitter. it is what it is. Women are gonna try go with what seems to be the best option. Im just gonna work on myself in the meantime anyway. Thats where i relate to you.

[@djdvanf]

Bro, This is EXACTLY what I went through when I read "the game" and followed the community heavily. All short-term relationships, and very little outcome in the long-term. Also, this is heavily put into my degree in I/O Psychology. I love this video! Great work!

[@SayySooFlyy]

5% is wild lol

[@Xxbeast30xX]

Glad this information is out for men to hear.

[@yourfavoriteentertainment]

"Women only swipe right 5% of the time." This is why I had to look at my coworker crazy when he said to make a Tinder account. It's a waste.

[@scotthixson5917]

FACTS. Preach it Pat. Young men desperately need to hear this!

[@amodernpoet]

As a regular guy who is still struggling and working to make it, it's true

[@opufy]

I don’t know who doesn’t understand this by now. Women decide the next generation. They want taller guys with money and money is a summation of (intelligence; social and applied, ambition, drive, values and other components that contribute). It’s gotten way harder. It’s ironic how dating apps with the ease of swipes makes it even more difficult. And then trying to talk to girls irl there’s always that thought in the back of my mind like “oh she’s probably thinking the same as the norm”

[@josephbrandenburg4373]

Meh. Luck is a major part of both height and money.

[@Caribbean.Galaxy]

They don’t decide shit for me and for you. We gettin us some good attractive kitty Kat poom poom. Rise up soldier, no time for pity parties.

[@apreviousseagle836]

@Josh Barber "I'm 6'3 and make 70k a year, but don't assume right off the bat I get women flocking to me based on that." You know that for most of these crazies, $300k is entry level, right?

[@pa5730]

"Women decide the next generation" It's a misconception and an oversimplification of a complex process, they do not. The one with standards decides, it can be either a man or a woman. If you're a guy who has no standards and accept any women who comes to your life without setting any standard for them you deserve the L.

[@juanf4739]

Awesome content thank you David!

[@mrjjthor]

Norah Vincent was a perfect example of why men live harder lives. RIP to her.

[@The_channel_of_channels]

Men live harder lives because they take more risks.

[@wingknight7132]

​@@The_channel_of_channels men live harder lives because masculinity is harder to achieve than femininity

[@thecgr]

1. Looks 2. Money 3. Game 4. Personality 5. Status 6. Age

[@raavanshivaa5243]

Hey, this guy is really bringing the right stuff to the TABLE!!!

[@plamenyankov2182]

As a Data Scientist and active on Tinder I would say that good photos can easily boost your attractiveness 20-40%.

[@catcoffee7958]

Not a shirtless oe in bed photo

[@apreviousseagle836]

It's mostly about getting your best angle and lighting on the face

[@gumbydar]

Looks are way more important than women say they are

[@LeadLeftLeon]

Males have been brainwashed. Most do nothing about their looks. Get in shape, buy clothes

[@TheSiphelo]

True if it's not your looks then it's how deep your pockets are

[@Luffa187]

You're wrong. As men we need to perform in many categories. Looks is just one of them. You will be disqualified from most women if you have a weak point. I'm tall, I look good and I'm doing very well financially. Unfortunately that's not good enough for most women. My social skills are terrible and that alone is enough for most women to walk away. It's not fair, but that's just the way the world works. Complaining makes no difference. All we can do is to work on ourselves to become better.

[@lilyanna3009]

Of course looks matter, a beautiful woman can get whatever she wants from men. So dont blame women , men are worse in chasing appearance.

[@Luffa187]

@@lilyanna3009 We're talking about men here. Looks takes women further than it does for men. Plenty of good looking men get no action from women. The same can't be said for women though. As a woman you get access to men simply by existing. Men have to perform to get access to women.

[@Blaiyan]

I'm choosing the chips, cheesecake and video games 😂

[@shadrachemmanuel1720]

The music wasn't loud enough. I almost heard what you were saying.

[@Comeonemane1]

ITS ALWAYS been that way. person for person... even during wartime.

[@aaronaustrie]

Choose yourself first!!

[@thegameshowguy1]

Semen retention helps make this point more clear than ever.

[@thegodofyoutube266]

Not just harder…. much much much much harder …. unlike them we just dont complain

[@banditrants8905]

Perhaps it would be more beneficial to strive for financial success for personal fulfillment, rather than using it as a means to impress women. It's important to prioritize your own aspirations and those of your loved ones, rather than seeking validation from someone who is only attracted to your wealth and material possessions. Instead of settling for someone who only shows interest in your success after the fact, it's better to find a partner who is willing to support you throughout your journey to success. A loyal companion who is there for you through thick and thin is far more valuable than someone who simply hopped on the bandwagon once you achieved financial stability. If you have achieved success on your own and without a partner, it's important to be discerning when it comes to choosing a romantic partner. Rather than settling for just anyone, it's important to find someone who is worthy of your time and attention. And if you were fortunate enough to have a loyal partner by your side before achieving success, it's important to cherish that relationship and never take it for granted.

[@Icarus6783]

Agreed. The provision that gives in terms of winning over women should be a secondary consequence.

[@mysteriousman4966]

some poeple are build different though. not everyone is happy with financial success, more happy with successful relationships

[@henrytep8884]

@@mysteriousman4966not even some, almost anyone would exchange financial success for relationship success.

[@yourfavoriteentertainment]

Women see men as success objects, though. Women view men the same way men view jobs. And that goes for all women. Just like ugly women are invisible to guys, broke men are invisible to women. Want a woman to start disrespecting you and not care about you? Tell her you are struggling financially. Women are resource extractors.

[@PeterM8987]

Hence why people probably should marry much earlier.

[@ADaviiis]

Everyone says that other people love to play the victim, until it’s their turn to play the victim

[@ivannevarez9174]

Men built and maintain the world at large. Our lives will always be harder. Good.

[@noshadb.e3111]

It was really a Motivational Video! thanks !

[@ramziiiii]

Men and Women both live hard lives in different ways, from culture to society and religion, but what matters is they both need each other for peace and fulfillment.

[@raphfelimax2713]

I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year... Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.

[@dorathystephanie7702]

I agree with you and believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don't know who agrees with me but either way I recommend real estate or crypto and stocks.

[@arktom7335]

I am interested to know more and invest in Crypto please

[@nissan38p69]

trading is easier with proper guidance, especially from a professional, Newbies who are not aware of how crypto truly works and wish to make profits from it, I would advise to invest with a professional like Fergus waylen, It helps secure and minimize the possibilities of losses.

[@x0cat711]

I'm honestly surprised that this name is being mentioned here, I stumbled upon one of his clients testimony last week in CNBC world news

[@domenez]

Well, you are saying the fact. I invested $4,000 with fergus Waylen. and earned $12,000 in 7 working days.

[@maxavail]

2:40 incorrect, the chart shows if you're in the top 20% of men you have 80% of women available.

[@subindsuresh4897]

Thank you for making video on this topic. It's very useful to me. I have heard of the book "The Game" multiple times, but i didn't think it would be anything of significance. But since you are saying Mr.Patrick I know it will be worth it. Again sir, thanks a lot for all the valuable content.

[@xagonent4942]

Well as a proud immigrant turn proud American the right way, I can honestly say I give up. I will fight and defend my nation if needed despite political differences I may have, but I live my country. As a 6 foot 2 black man with a small manhood, masters degree, not fitting the stereotype women expect, and a proud small business owner it's a wrap for me. Dont understand women and I dont get how that world works from experiences I had. Mostly negative. I am 33 now and having that immigrant mindset of working hard and contributing back to the nation that gave me freedom, dating has never been a focus. Being old and below average in size and looks I see how women prioritize certain things over others. I can sell myself all day on my qualities but when it comes down to brass tax I dont fit the mold. I live volunteering, helping my community, fitness and so on, but what women want I dont posses. I'm at a point where I am looking to adopt a child in the future to have an offspring, so I'll see where the future goes. Did all the hard work to establish myself as a graphic designer and a man of faith or a man overall, but some things in life even though you desire it may not be on the cards. Life goes on and if you can date do it. It seems fun and maybe in a mother life I could give it a go. Anyway great video and message!

[@meds888ful]

There is a violin playing for you somewhere in the world. Other guys are able to figure women out, there's no reason why you can't. Go watch the F&F podcast.

[@xagonent4942]

@@meds888ful I was simply offering my opinion and view. Unlike yourself who saw my comment as a means to insult me, I assume the spongebob meme or the meme of that guy playing the violin. Anyway, I dont watch fresh and fit. If I need guidance I'll read the bible. Before you decide to insult someone really see if the person was coming off as needing compassion or just saying crap as it is and moving on with their life. Nothing really to prove to you beyond that. Dont watch the chick who is run through by black dudes Pear, fresh and fit is not for me, and whatever is just a show highlighting ranthrough chicks. I'm good boss. Have a blessed day!

[@nomadic8000]

I don't accept you giving up you are a 6'2 black men which is way above average in height which women love I am a 5'7 black man and I pull way above average young women in every race partly because I keep myself in shape. Oh and I am 41 years old and I pull women in there early 20s.

[@xagonent4942]

@@nomadic8000 Well how you feel is frankly irrelevant to me, it's my life and I have experienced the negatives of trying so I dont seethe point anymore past a certain point. Tall sure, but I dont fit the black stereotype of the big D, ghetto or hood, and having street cred as they say. Just a man who came to America and became a proud member of the nation the right way. Good for you for running through white and other race women. They all seem to only go for black dudes anyway and hate their own races. Overall do you. You are living life and most likely have a better one compared to me since you run through white women all the time. So congrats man. After buying my house and just a few days ago buying one of my dream cars, I am planning on adopting a kid in a few years. Dont want to wait too long to start a family and I am getting old. So once again congrats on running through white women, seems you are living the black Americans dream buddy. Anyway, god bless!

[@yzma6142]

if you are truly a man of faith you will find a woman of faith who doesn't care about size at all. many of us exist. but if you despise women we can sense it from a mile away

[@fatcatontario]

I think most folks need to have a very hard and honest conversation with WHY they want a relationship. Very few people are looking for genuine love and most are opportunists and users. It is not a suprise that we have such a mess of marriages and dating these days - the value system is completely backwards. Many people of quality are chosing to be alone and not date at all and I am on board with that.

[@adrianazollo2688]

I don’t believe in marriage and would never to an american man

[@sankkham]

Most men actually want sex. And it's not for men. It's apply to all males in animal kingdom. Maybe sea otter, penguin, swan etc some animals are there who have only one partner for life. following are the main reasons why relationships don't happen. when men love or like any women they most times get rejections. And hence they lose hope on love. Meanwhile women have higher expectations hence they date 20% top men. These top men mostly are playboys and by dating bad men women also start hating men.

[@cristobal.palmero4919]

you don't want a partner in life?

[@cristobal.palmero4919]

no kids?

[@fick55]

I’d have to agree with that somewhat that traditional values have gone way down. Too much drama nowadays with women. From a guy that’s still never been laid by a woman, I feel very frustrated because with the way women use their body to get what they want from a man. It’s so unfair when you wear sexuallly revealing outfits and not expect a guy not to give you that kind of sexual attention your looking for is just Bush!! I don’t think women like sex as much as men do because they don’t need it as often or it has to mean something more to them instead of a 1 night stand of sexual fun!! Guys are very aggressive when they see a attractive woman because guys love sex and not only that us guys need to have that sense of power and the joy a sexuallly attractive woman can give a man. I guess I will never understand when the guy wants to have sex with his partner and she says how come its always about me but then she ends up getting pregnant. If the sex was that bad to begin with you wouldn’t have had sex a 2nd or 3rd or 4th time to get pregnant !! That is my huge opinion!!

[@luckymanx2978]

How come the sources are in your description? Come guys, you can't just say "here's the data," flash a part of a screen for 2 seconds and then not include in the description. Rookie mistake for non rookie.

[@ravipeiris4388]

The argument made in this video has a cultural component. I used to do the online thing and most of the women on those sites are not emotionally and spiritually healthy. If a woman has personality and has respect for men, then those women organically (& naturally) draw men towards them and thus, there is no need for them to be on any dating apps. I purchased beachfront property in Tahiti in 2022 and were amazed at the quality of Polynesian and French women, even those in their 20s-30s. Here in the States, men my age (i.e. I'm 53) are generally relegated to either of the following: A) Women in their 20s who have been ploughed through with partners in the double digits; B) Women in their 30s who are desperate to have a family and thus transactional in nature; C) Middle aged women in the 40s/50s category who are bitter and entitled, including the rampant prevalence of single mothers. Dating women in the States is like looking for a new vehicle at a used parking car lot. I currently reside in the States and am waiting a few years before I retire in my late 50s in Tahiti where I will date an abundant pool of 20 somethings and take them to my beachfront house, on occasions with my Maybach, parked in my garage. It's worth for me to be solitary than the settle for the shit that is called "modern women" here in the States. Men in the States deserve so much better, Ravi

[@owarida6241]

Remember brother hardships create stronger men.

[@chandler4749]

U each need to live your own lives and never make the other person your life! U can live your own lives together sort of like how train tracks are parallel. As soon as those parallel lines moves away from parallel it's doomed. No one wants to be responsible for constantly affirming the other person's life and expectations

[@mwadjumamukamfizi2216]

Thanks!I am A women and i always come here for daily inspiration videos.I learned so much from your videos

[@rippedreaper7279]

I feel sorry for any average guy trying to date in the year 2023.

[@MasterFlopy]

Im surprised i have been on few dates from tinder lol... but i quit those apps, as it only ruins your self image.

[@tamaduni]

How did we go from men's lives are harder to listening to you talk about your struggle...like other people don't

[@omarmaldonado9994]

Personalities all of of sudden become great when you got the resources so that puts you at 40%

[@apreviousseagle836]

They did a study that women believe the more handsome a guy is, and the more wealth/status, that his personality is better. "Personality" seems to go up with those other characteristics.

[@lizcaporicci8483]

Always value your content, Patrick.

[@toongamer2810]

You spoke about how this video isn't very motivating or inspiring. I don't think a lot of people in general realize that this topic is not usually lighthearted or hopeful for men. It's actually quite discouraging to hear the truth for modern men. But the truth isn't always nice. Sometimes there isn't a silver lining. Sometimes you really do just have to be lucky.

[@michaelmaultsby895]

Mental health is probably the greatest issue in the U.S. Here is a quote to think about, “We download our perceptions and beliefs about life years before we acquire the capacity for critical thinking.”- Dr. Bruce Lipton

[@michaelinzo]

I got a lot matches in dating sites but only matches no dates 😅

[@jaspajones7045]

Go Mgtow. Buy nice things for yourself. I just bought my dream car bmw m340i. No kids living the dream.

[@seanlovi8798]

Keep winning

[@Flash.It-App]

Lol congrats on your mediocre car and no bitches

[@butterflybe2230]

cope

[@lovepeacebliss]

U sound like chesley handler. 😂

[@williamschlass6371]

Youre a grown child with little to no responsibilities bragging that you paid out the ass for not just a toy but a depreciating asset that could best be described as a toy. This is an L take. If everyone did what you do, humanity would be over in 50 years or less.

[@BRBallin1]

I’m a male who has the 3 6s. 6 figures, 6 feet (almost), 6 inches. I struggle to find women that I find attractive to be attracted to me as well. It gets so challenging because the women I go after look past those 3 6s and get even pickier because they can choose between 50 different men

[@gabakusa]

Go overseas You wont see all the craziness that you see here and you wont lose half of your stuff

[@mecaomega4968]

@@gabakusa Bullshit! Women are the same anywhere. Give them everything and they’ll be like modern American women. Women overseas remain feminine because their society, poverty, the country is more patriarcal, less access to the top 10-20% of men.

[@True38]

Your power and purpose is much MUCH more important than women hands down. That is what is going to fulfill you in life, not women. Women can't do that at all but they sure as hell can drain all your time, energy, and money. When you find your true purpose, you won't even be thinking about women because most of them are a waste of time.

[@baskeplaye009]

@@walkerpublications4418 What exactly differs from each?

[@-JIGSAW-]

@@baskeplaye009 LMAO

[@eg-cv3bz]

I saw a Reddit post that said “men live life on easy mode” and every comment that even slightly disagreed was downvoted into infinity, I hate the world, common sense is lost

[@demokrative]

Great vid. One of your best. I have made choices I have regretted to but I choose to focus on the ones I am most proud of. Thats how I preserve my confidence. All the best to all of you. It is your life. Don't let anybody else run it for you.

[@Hanna5859]

Swipe right 5% of the time! That means women reject 19 men out of 20 thinking these men are not "good enough" for them. Good luck ladies: here comes the wall...

[@hornetguy9063]

And this is just on dating apps. Where they’re ostensibly looking for short term guys and “see what happens”. So take that 5% of men that qualify based on looks, and now stack on the other qualities for a husband. Then they still leave at an absurd rate.

[@dixonyaarmouf4630]

Lol true! They mostly haven’t figured it out yet and think they are a prize. Men that are aware and have something to lose - know better…. And Vet them as liabilities - as they should

[@True38]

Meh, women... Who needs them anyway?

[@butterflybe2230]

there is no "wall". thats redpill cope

[@GanJinLan]

Hard times creates Strong men

[@emskhmatemsakham3219]

Comparing relationships and business isn't fair. Relationships involve emotions, while businesses are typically seen as emotionless. It can feel insulting and undignified on a personal level to have to put in so much effort just to attract an average partner. Any person with dignity and self-respect would prefer not to date anyone rather than lowering themselves to meet the new low standards of dating from the bottom 20% you are speaking about .

[@eonryan8491]

5:29 6:42(6:54) - who do you need to become to be able to … 7:02

[@pesocheco]

The scars on my face and my energy speaks for itself

[@Swiftie13love]

They speak for yourself not every single men on earth

[@carmenhall6006]

I go for spiritual connection as well. That’s the most important connection for me❤

[@nomadic8000]

Cap! You go for looks, all women think there different. You're not going to find out a man's spiritual connection if you are not attracted to him physically.

[@elizarnalsurov4024]

@@nomadic8000 As one of my girlfriends told me, - "I like smart guys". - "So?" - "If a man is tall, then he is smart". FML 😂

[@ilikepancakes2368]

Looks and money is what’s important that you. “Spiritual connection” has f***k all to do with it. I tried to “spiritually connect” with women but I either get ignored or friendzoned.

[@ctguitarguy8510]

​@@nomadic8000 Please don't use "cap" with normal adults. We speak proper English. "Lies" works just fine for those not in the ghetto or under 21.

[@brighteststar77]

That just validates the stats in this video, shows you have so many choices that you start inventing stuff up like “vibe with” or “have a spiritual connection with” or “compatible energy” like what happen to getting married and making it work, you’re looking for magic to do the work for you.

[@reneefletcher1143]

The question seemed to ask about “lives” in general. (Do women or men live harder lives) This video seems to be focusing on dating & what women are looking for in the dating world. Quite different scenarios.

[@apreviousseagle836]

In general women live harder lives, because they are living in their own created hell. Men are able to handle loneliness far better than women. Sure men still suffer, but not at the same level.

[@jayshah9967]

No Wife. No Kids. Happy Life😎

[@apreviousseagle836]

Same here dude.

[@jayshah9967]

@BASIL!!!!! The Pumpin' Seagull Congratdms. Enjoy your Freedom! 😎

[@geoffchurchill5492]

thsnks for the advice, I'm going to watch a different video

[@parthsharma7366]

You earned a new subscriber ☺️

[@mariefrancemontpetit]

Women and men need to come into a new alliance to figure out this future together, prosper and multiply rather than focus on who's winning and losing. We're all losing if we don't got each other.

[@historysshityistdisciple9296]

What new future? This trends can change for the worse and better. By focusing on th competitive nature of dating it can help improve and set goals. Speaking from experience.

[@kanyeb29]

I agree, trashing each other doesn’t help the situation but worsens it even more.

[@paycheck2061]

men are only losing when they assume that women only are in the United States men are the prize every where women are the prize in the United States and western countries

[@foodconvos1920]

Are we ignoring the whole "give birth" part, I'd hate to have periods and you can't pay me to give birth, I'm happily fine working 14 hours a day

[@Saberdud]

what's your arguement

[@tonymendestv]

Thanks Pat 🙏🏼

[@midragga]

3:14 those are the best odds I've had in years

[@tiffanyjohnson9989]

And if women get pregnant they are also left with the kid 95% of the time. So there is a reason why women are picky. Women are usually on dating apps for a RELATIONSHIP, whereas men are usually there to just sleep with someone hence why they will swipe right on almost anything.

[@Mrcheesydancer]

Women nare on dating apps FOR ATTENTION!!! Women initiate 80% of the divorces... Women break relationships, not men!

[@alphadrone8213]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love beta comments

[@randomcommenteronyoutube1055]

"...Women are usually on dating apps for a RELATIONSHIP" 95% of human societies. By "RELATIONSHIP" - your caps, not mine - you are not referring to the foundational family unit that everyone should form before bringing a child into the world. Men, justifiably, don't want to deal with helping a woman meet whatever needs she has from these "RELATIONSHIPS." If a committed relationship is on the table, then men want that to lead to a marriage. In the mean time, women can wrap it. Use birth control. Get an IUD. Don't chase badboys who will smash and dash. If a man is going to commit to you long-term, he also wants it to happen in a marriage that one party cannot unilaterally dissolve for any reason. And this might shock you, as well: the vast majority of men are interested in having paternity certainty and being with their kids. I've got the 6s - height, income, and use your imagination. Women searching for "RELATIONSHIPS" find my physique, status, and resources attractive, yet they want me to prioritize them at all times over my demanding job. If I did that, I'd have fewer resources, less time to hit the gym, and less time to find prized clients. No, no, and no. It doesn't work that way. We don't just think with our sausages, and we run away from commitment with women who have your mentality. At the end of the day, women like you don't even care about pregnancy and raising children well. Pregnancy is just a risk and liability that you'll assume in the quest to meet a bunch of needs that men like me don't have time for. Now excuse me as I go back to work and generate resources that will go to an honorable woman and my future family unit...

[@justinwinfree7843]

That stat says women are willing to share men in the top percentage range

[@crazyprepper5400]

That just my baby mama lol

[@jzoo763]

And Men need to live a harder life, cause if ita the other way around, society fucked it up real bad.

[@peaklander1]

Andrew Tate being shy and reserved when he was younger is very encouraging to see. Sometimes you look at someone and think they've always been like this, but aren't aware of what they went through to become that good. Time to work.

[@blue4u2054]

Ok but Andrew Tate is not "good". He took advantage of shy and reserved men online. He looted money from them by promising fake visits and visa appointments, etc. He cheated on his girlfriends, asked them to become camgirls, lied to them about taxes and stole money from them. Please find better inspirations.

[@tonylozada24]

Thank you Pat!

[@BNSJF]

As a 24yo, i agree 100% with this Pat.

[@nikkisahota89]

And if he did the survey again, he'd get different results because us women keep changing our minds! 😂

[@karlstrauss2330]

Classic PBD commentary, instead of actually addressing the problems that men go through, he blames men and demands that we take responsibility.

[@meds888ful]

Jordan Peterson would be better for you. Can listen to him talk all day long about men and women and you won't have to do anything to improve. You can just listen all day long.

[@karlstrauss2330]

@@meds888ful what do you mean? Jordan Peterson does nothing except blame men lol

[@Saberdud]

@@meds888ful look up jordan peterson "they are right, you are wrong" and then come back with this nonsense you typed up.

[@emtech8112]

The way you approach your career is not the way you approach relationships lol.

[@hectorsandoval9526]

Another excellent video!

[@johnmarsh9338]

Ill be sharing this video

[@THELIONGUY1981]

Thank you Patrick. It all comes to US. Always. People are chasing things they can't get while they have chances of getting what they want if they worked hard and patient. We live in the NOW era. I want all NOW or never without putting the heart and hardship in it. Sometimes looks don"t matter, what matter is personality and what's in the head. People want someone good looking or beautiful but don't take time to question if they'll be happy with that person right after. Not everything that shine is gold. Someone who will make you happy is someone that believes in you, laugh with, work hard with you and give you peace. Not a model look alike. i prefer intelligence than looks more. Yes i'm not saying people should ignore looks of course but it's not what matters more.

[@daveyamericanpridegodbless9842]

AGREED WHOLE HEARTEDLY 250% ALL THE WAY HERE HERE I'LL DRINK TO THAT, NOSTROVIA!!

[@MarksTournaments]

Looks matter the most to women, don’t ever get that wrong

[@Raverraver9999]

Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..

[@Sean-nn2zu]

I have been following Pat for the last 6 months and I try my best to implement most things he says. I had this girl I was dating for last 1.5 years she was extremely successful in her field like the top 1%, she was good with household chores and loved me but deep down I knew that If I continue the relationship I would never succeed in my business as she had expectations from me to spend time( which is not wrong) as she had fixed working hours and I have no fixed time. Also I realised I want to make more money than my partner as I dont want my wife to boss around me just because she makes more (women do this at some point). So I choose to give up on the idea of marrying this one had to call quits but now I am happy that I can work for as long as I can without feeling guilty or afraid of afraid of argument and as Pat says becoming a High value man will later have more benefits so I am trying to become one. I am 27 and my advice to any guy would be please first get yourself to a point in life when you are making great money then only decide to chase women.

[@Phasma6969]

What if you discussed your doubts? Hmm

[@NA-vt6mz]

Very good decision plus ur young u have plenty of time to find younger women if ur over 35 as well

[@Sean-nn2zu]

@@Phasma6969 Tried definitely and it fixed the situation for a temporary basis then back to square one.

[@banagan4604]

I actually thought Tinder was pay walling me with the amount of matches I was getting, had no idea how shallow women were. I thought it was around 20%, but this data is right, only 5% swipe right!

[@jzen1455]

I think it's a combination of 4 times more men on tinder than women, the algorithms reducing matches on free accounts to get people to sign of for a subscription, and women being pickier that makes it harder for men to get matches.

[@FalsePips]

Tinder is a company and they want your money. They basically dangle females in front of you so you pay. Just like cola cola dangles amazing lives with friends and happiness if you pay them for coke. It’s kinda all fake but occasionally you might get laid, but you WILL pay. Trust

[@JosephAmodeo-u2n]

the reason why Hannah Barron become such a sensation is because men are dramatically attracted to a woman who remotely understands & appreciates the value of a hard days work & accountability (physically or mentally) in a society that bails out women no matter how unaccountable… i stop taking someone seriously the minute i give them advice & they don’t take it resulting in something bad

[@LoneRichie]

I love the Tinder analytics!!! 📝

[@DivaJefferson]

Great video! The problem with society in the US right now is the modern woman mentality. We want to have the same status as a man and expect more out of him. Men seem used to this now. I'm a single parent and almost 35, so dating is done for me, but I've learned that you have to give as good as you get. Too many men and women are willing to settle for less or not even try to be better people. I think health, knowledge, and success go hand in hand. You look better, feel better, and can choose to want someone without needing what they have. I'm also very old-fashioned and this isn't a popular way of thinking. So there is that.

[@spacecash9721]

you are def past your peak and it would be difficult however if you get it good shape you can easily find a GOOD man (probably not a GREAT one bc there aren't many...) who will love you, die for you and help raise your child. I would never advise a man to do that but I just wanted to let you know 35 is past your prime for sure but you can still live a great life and find a GOOD man as a partner. You'll have to sift through some shitheads alongs the way.... Hope you have a great life :)

[@spacecash9721]

also no offense if you already have a man or anything I was just responding to you saying "it's done for me." All respect 🙏

[@DivaJefferson]

@@spacecash9721 Yes I am single, I just don't like the drama. Thank you. Maybe one day I will be lucky enough to find someone good, but we all deserve someone who makes us feel great!

[@spacecash9721]

@@DivaJefferson You got it. Stay in shape, that will help 💪 there are so many older men who are single and decent guys. You're not going to bag a celebrity or some $10+millionaire probably but you can EASILY find a man who would love you til the day you die and work to provide and protect you. Men really just want a peaceful home to come back to after a long day at work and a wife who respects and appreciates them and doesn't cause drama. If he is a good man he will love you more than you can imagine. Trust me.

[@Raverraver9999]

Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..

[@djmeechymeech]

Am I the only one that took their US dollars to Brazil for a new life? Get jacked, get your money up and get your passports fellas.

[@samon_kurowassan]

I feel motivated, LEZ GO!!! 🔥