How To Appear Hotter As A Guy (From A Woman's Perspective)

[@Dydreth]

That girl just _screams_ red flags.

[@theadmiral4625]

Good I like screamers 💪🤣💪

[@robertcalkjr.8325]

Yeah, if she was the only woman on earth, I would kill myself.

[@emilschneider9974]

@@theadmiral4625 🤣😆😅

[@LARULES100]

I can save her.

[@alexfafoutakis]

😂

[@chrishaugh1655]

The girl in the TikTok video is the exact reason I don't have TikTok. The sheer amount of stupidity circulating on that platform is mind-numbing.

[@Chyronn]

It's dragging humanity down

[@robertcalkjr.8325]

I'm so glad that I'm not young in this time. But I'll bet that if the guy was reading The Holy Bible, they would all run like a vampire from the sun.

[@jethrojacinto2798]

All social media is filled with brain rot now.

[@JJsProductionx]

Never going on that app

[@AlexGomez-ur5eb]

300%

[@iamjacquesbarjon]

She's basically describing a drug dealer.

[@robertcalkjr.8325]

Yeah, or a gangbanger.

[@emilschneider9974]

@@robertcalkjr.8325 🤣😂😅

[@b-zoneonroku2020]

that's all modern women want.

[@karami8844]

My thoughts exactly. 😬

[@karami8844]

@@b-zoneonroku2020 No.

[@trueconspiracies7945]

As someone in their 60s, if I did this, people would think I should be placed in a mental institution.

[@socas_nic]

As someone in their early 20s if i did these things I would appear like a complete douchebag

[@raymondsmith2154]

late 60s and my thoughts exactly.

[@ABCDE710]

😂

[@anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470]

@@trueconspiracies7945late 30s and the same

[@thossi09]

As someone in my 40s, I don't wear hats unless it's very cold outside, and then it's the typical "tea cozy" hat that doesn't have "front" and "back". Or a knitted wool hood, sometimes. Those are nice. On the other hand! The one in the video is probably in her early 20s. I don't think guys 30+ aren't the target demographic, here.

[@ben_spiller]

Got my backwards cap, got my chain, my hoodie. I feel like I'm going to a Limp Bizkit concert.

[@andresgraziano7475]

rollin rollin rollin!!!

[@ben_spiller]

@@andresgraziano7475 I still listen to them. Fuck the haters.

[@DDD11239]

​@@andresgraziano7475 Undertaker!!!!

[@i.q.1979]

😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@popurm]

It's just one of those days!!!

[@frenchfan3368]

As pointed out, the advice given by the girl is pretty much for boys still in high school or university. Courtney's advice is so much better than this high school girl.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

Not even high school or university -- maybe guys who hang out at skate parks and girls who like those guys.

[@emilschneider9974]

That's exactly what I was thinking!

[@spike5499]

@@Billy-bc8pk W pfp

[@Meldrick-jv7sy]

Not even that.

[@jaynunya5136]

waste of time reacting to an air head.

[@richardpoole1949]

Ya... except for reading books, the younger chick is loaded with temporary... irresponsibility. 20m tktk fans is bc of her Bbs.

[@deepg7084]

​@richardpoole1949 i dont have or use tiktok, but every time I see a clip of a girl like this, they have that gross vocal fry. I swear it's like nails to a chalkboard for me. They all try to talk the same on that platform as if they all share the same mental illness. I can't listen to it.

[@anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470]

@@jaynunya5136 yeah clowns don't deserve attention

[@grondhero]

When mentioned guys wearing a chain and her response was "please literally marry me," I was done. She doesn't sound like she has any wisdom I could use. I do appreciate Courtney's opinions _much_ more.

[@popurm]

She's describing Fred Durst. But Fred Durst is pretty successful lol. Also this girls seems toxic

[@nicholaschacon7785]

​@@popurm Yes it does sound like she's describing Fred Durst but he is definitely the exception.lol

[@hadeseye2297]

@@popurm She's in heat. And she will stay like that for at least next 2 decades. That's all.

[@robertpaul50n]

I'm 41, if I tried this stuff, I'd be like Steve Buschemi saying "hello fellow kids!"

[@rossmccann9508]

Music/Band

[@panos7256]

I am also 40 and wear backwards hat sometimes. I also dress sharp with a suit when it is appropriate. Everything looks good because it suits my personality. I don't give an F and own it.

[@LanceMeaux]

You can pull that off at 41, I'm 35 and pull it off all the time

[@arnmazing3156]

I find the stark contrast between a grown woman's taste and an adolescent girl's taste hillarious.

[@AnthonyKellett]

I can't get the image of James Bond, wearing a "backwards baseball cap" and a 'hoodie', out of my mind! 😂

[@donaldbiden9492]

So a bunch of infantile adults that want us to dress like we're still in high school. Got it

[@CoachSteveJandS]

Right?!??!

[@biernut8408]

I told AI to draw me a douchebag, it brought back a guy in a hoodie with a chain and a backwards baseball hat...

[@1Know1tHurts]

@@biernut8408

[@Man_of_Renaissance]

😂😂😂

[@drbjr8223]

well they are mostly just young ppl pushing out this mind rot so it makes sense.

[@Sara-jd4gi]

The most attractive men , I've seen, are those who play to their own aesthetic strengths. So maybe he wears a tailored jacket that highlights his great posture and shoulders (this one always gets me). Or maybe he styles his hair in a way to draw attention to his beautiful eyes. Play to your strengths and style yourself in a way that makes you feel great. In this way you radiate a unique essence that draws just about anyone in. I remember seeing a man who wore this pretty average looking blue shirt but when you looked at him, but you saw his brilliant blue eyes 👀 💙 . Very smart approach, the shirt highlighted his eyes. PS: Can we please not go down that tired old rabbit hole about "double standards", this is a video specifically about some womens thoughts. People are allowed to like what they like. If it's not for you, that's absolutely fine, just keep it moving. Just like shopping, take what you want and leave what you don't.

[@banquo60615]

Just remember, that whole reading thing only works for guys who are already attractive.

[@thelastdisplay]

Courtney's facial responses to this rando Tik Tok scene kid are hilarious.

[@southeastswell]

tiktok girl neglects to mention this is relevant for guys she's already attracted to

[@xray606]

I remember watching an interview with Chris Cornell, where he said he wasn't very popular with girls as a kid. But one day he was standing next to his locker holding drum sticks, and suddenly these girls wanted to talk to him. He said his opinion of women was massively lowered by that, because of how stupid he thought it was. That's pretty much what I thought watching TikTok girl.

[@PrinceOfTheCity1]

It’s not stupid though it shows he has a skill and is a musician… makes him more interesting it’s human nature. Yeah you can fake it but how long will that last.

[@chrishaugh1655]

0:58 the moment Courtney's soul left her body.

[@integralyogin]

thanks for pointing that out. I missed the defeated eye close

[@ppsh43]

When I was in my 30s, my wife pointed out that guys who are wearing baseball hats are probably going bald. If you have a good head of hair, and are at an age where guys might be losing their hair, do not wear a hat if it is not necessary.

[@no.no.4680]

This, so much. I know I’m going to go bald at some point and I wanna show off my hair for as long as I have left 😂

[@zeku3531]

I like wearing a hat to make them think I'm bald and then I take it off and show my full head of hair lol

[@Novaximus]

My first job required you to wear a hat as part of the uniform... So now having the "privillage" of not being forced to wear a hat I see it as a luxury. Sort of like how back in the 1700's if you had a tan it made people think you were a laborer vs a more pale person that would be more well to do. So hat's to me are like dirty farmer jeans. No thanks. I'll only wear one if I have really bad bed head and I'm going to step out real quick. Another thing I don't like about them is there are a ton of guys who are weird about always having to wear one. When I was house shopping and looking through some homes some had like a wall of caps just hung by the door like they were important must have car keys before you left the house. It's very rednecky, insecure, stubborn to change,... odd. If you're butt naked but still have to have a hat on...there's something going on with that. lol Like...why. It's weird. Like wearing socks to go swimming kind of weird.

[@byanymeansnecessary398]

I wear a hat as it makes me feel comfortable, somewhat. Oh, and it protects me from the sun.

[@salihbbas]

Not necessarily. That's pointless. I shave my head to zero, but need hat to protect it in the sun. I dont wear in winter etc. Regardless, you need hat to protect from yourself from sun

[@peterwilliams6361]

Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.

[@peterwilliams6361]

I'm keen on meeting the counselor you're talking about. What steps should I take?

[@peterwilliams6361]

Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive

[@Beyond_The_Beard]

Lean on Jesus Christ brother. Not trying to give you a cliche but it’s true.🙏🏻

[@deepg7084]

​@Beyond_The_Beard its a bot.

[@solarjudgement4575]

​@Beyond_The_Beard not cliche but much needed advice. Jesus is King, creator,and provider for all things.

[@mmcgreg5044]

I’m 29 and still do not understand the backwards hat. The function of a hat is to have the bill provide shade. If I wear a hat (which is not often) I feel better wearing it properly. I guess I’m in the minority.

[@AtreidesT660]

Stop making sense reeeee

[@dsqueezy]

what if the sun is behind you?

[@redlight3932]

its to hold your hair if its longer than 3 inches, feels better on head because the bill often just sticks to your forehead and backwards theres no structure so its more comfortable, and some people just look good with it on backwards its a style if you need sun protection just flip it around or wear glasses that are better for that anyway.

[@steen275]

Logical conclusions isn't a strong side of modern women

[@haroldfarquad6886]

Guys who wear backwards hats are NOT reading books. There's a high chance he's borderline illiterate.

[@salihbbas]

I wear backwards hat. I'm a doctor and I've read books that you wouldn't even recognise the language of it. I rent a BMW, go vacations, wear yellow shirt with backwards hat. All the time.

[@dick-vn3yv]

Backwards hat: "What-up dog, just goin down to the corner spot.

[@hotpockets69]

I've worn my hats backwards and I read scholarly literature.

[@LokiTricksterG]

@@salihbbas Are you a doctor in the same way Dr. Dre is a doctor?

[@richardlaszcz762]

Man, why am I even watching these videos? None of these tips will help unless they already find you attractive. "Wow, at first I just thought he was nothing special, but then I noticed he tied the strings on his hoodie, and now I can't take my eyes off him!" Be so for real. Eat well, exercise, keep a positive attitude. Clearly I'm doing a poor job at the latter. Everything else is just window dressing. Anyone else have it drilled into their head that men are the ones focused on visual details? Most of Courtney's videos seem to counteract that. If minor accessories are what ends up drawing a woman to you, what substance could she possibly have?

[@matthewzumbo9868]

Took the words right out of my mouth

[@Swearengen1980]

Because most of her videos and takes are just pandering to the 5's because she makes money off of this. It's basic grifting and doesn't apply to the real world.

[@davidfryer4353]

Yeah, also I think it's telling that she said "from a 6 to a 10" instead of something like "from a 3 to a 7" because women pretty routinely rate ~80% of men as below average attractiveness. She isn't talking about guys who are in the 60th percentile, she's talking about guys in the 85th percentile.

[@richardlaszcz762]

@@Swearengen1980 I get what you're saying. Obviously it's the job of anyone on this platform to get views. That being said, I think ultimately she has good intentions. She does give a lot of practical advice that, however elementary it may seem, (keep up hygiene, put in effort, etc) a lot of men and women could benefit from. There's clearly a growing disconnect between her bitter audience and the relatively surface level tips she continues to give. Personally I think it'd be nice to feature more of a dialogue with other people as frankly, a married woman doesn't have the perspective of a single man struggling to date.

[@theadmiral4625]

No cap 💪🤣💪

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*It’s fascinating how small changes like a well-fitted outfit or a fresh haircut can drastically enhance attractiveness. Confidence also plays a huge role - when you feel good about yourself, it shows.*

[@NexWalkthrough]

Courtney, how about a video tailored to men who already have their life and goals figured out, on how to actually approach and get the women they want. It seems that you have made multiple videos a year, every year, on what women want, how to dress and style, etc.. but you havent made an approach video in a while. Again, this video would be for the men that are already physically fit, financially stable, and ready to put it altogether.

[@koolandblue]

The more I see of these reaction videos the more I'm inclined to just say disregard *anything* from a woman if she's on tiktok. Seriously, that platform is total trash.

[@alexanderg5386]

Disregard anything any woman says regarding dating advice, including Courtney. You don't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask the fisherman.

[@BryJovi17]

1. Be attractive. 2. Don't be unattractive. 3. In conjunction with 1 and 2, wear baseball caps backwards, wear chains, wear hoodies with strings tied up, read books in public, have a dog and wear a watch. Follow these steps and you'll be able to bag any woman on planet earth... 🙄 Basically - it's still all about looks. None of these things matter if the girl initially doesn't like you physically either by your face or your physique.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

Yup, it's like that old Tomb Brady skit on SNL.

[@youtubsuck]

And a iphone😂

[@davidmajor1508]

No, it’s NOT “all about looks”. Some average looking guys are MUCH more successful with women than good-looking men, because they are more normal, outgoing, have more interesting traits, and know how to interact with women better than the “good-looking guy”.

[@niccolopaganini1782]

Definitely not any woman

[@davidmajor1508]

@@niccolopaganini1782 Not even “most” women, heck, not even a significant minority of women.

[@johngonzalez4298]

Happy hump day 🐪 Courtney! I'm 37 and I barely wear jewelry nowadays because I don't go out as much so the most I wear for jewelry is my watch, which I have 2 watches with one being a black Emporio Armani watch and a stainless stell Fossil Blue watch. A humble woman like you is what alot of men want to have for a relationship and I hope all will go well with your marriage to your husband. I don't really wear hats nowadays but I did because I used to play baseball when I was a kid. I am someone who is calm and mature even when I'm in complex situations so I have that advantage in me. I don't care for status in women, and I like to see women who are humble and good people

[@AntonVeliTajan]

I thin she is trolling and/or doing satire. The things she said were ridiculous.

[@defnotteek]

She's definitely still under 25. No way women in my age range like that young F-boy stuff. The book reading is valid though for bookworm girls.

[@mikeknowles8017]

As a recently single older guy I can confirm the whole reading thing. I'll go to a bookstore because I'm always reading least 2 books and much younger women come up and start conversations with me. The other suggestions in the TikTok sound like nonsense to me. Good luck with all that.

[@KP99]

What kind of books? I like books about finance but I'm not sure that's a woman magnet. Also, are you very attractive for your age in general, which may be what's causing younger women to approach you??

[@tann_man]

I mostly read books like "Central Banking & The Enslavement of Mankind" "Mein Kampf", "Democracy The God That Failed", etc... Pretty sure my interest in reading would scare the hoes

[@justins4274]

How to appear hotter. 1. Money 2. More money 3. Even more money.

[@LatimusChadimus]

Tell me you don't get women which is why you don't understand women without telling me these things

[@jasonbored8319]

Shup nerd ​@@LatimusChadimus

[@annamarihiljanen5221]

I've met plenty very well off men who I don't find attractive AT ALLL

[@TheSaiyanKing]

You're just sabotaging yourself with that mentality.

[@grill_1702]

1. cope 2. more cope 3. even more cope you'll just end up being his betabux for money while she cheats on you for attractive guys , face frame and height is everything

[@anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470]

No one in their late thirties and beyond should ever wear a backwards hat

[@nektulosnewbie]

What are you talking about? You're too old for it when you reach your late teens.

[@anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470]

@@nektulosnewbie I get that but I'm in my late thirties so I related it to my age

[@haroldfarquad6886]

If I saw anyone over the age of 18 wearing a backwards hat, I assume they're permanently stunted as a teenager.

[@christopherevans2801]

If I'm riding my ATV I turn my hat backwards to keep it from blowing off.

[@christopherevans2801]

If I'm riding my ATV I turn my hat backwards to keep it from blowing off.

[@WilliamSwartzendruber]

"Wear a backwards hat." - NO. I'm dying single before I do that.

[@kennygee8600]

Quiet mysterious wins every time, power of not responding

[@michaelmaleta4512]

I love the cringe face you gave when she said "Wear a backwards baseball cap." lol

[@ghostsofwargow2511]

Im 26, in good shape, women are too much effort these days. Not worth it anymore. Tired of being ghosted, left on read, or rejected. Let them rot.

[@DDD11239]

Eh. If a very attractive women were to approach you, you would talk to her.

[@ghostsofwargow2511]

@@DDD11239 Nah, you’re just a moron.

[@karami8844]

The same with guys. Unless you’re a female that ‘gives it up’ easily, you’re dumped and called boring. The dating culture is just toxic.

[@Cooliam950]

All women are so lost and rotted in this age. They have no possibility of improving not even being born again.

[@manher4335]

I see what you mean dude. Been there. So this airhead finds you attractive, terrific (shrugs). Thing is, now you still have to entertain this thing if you want to take it further. That's the drag. The hell with attractiveness (never made a difference to me, weather they liked how I look or not) Get one that's smart enough and willing to engage in and carry conversations, and yeah, let the ones that just want an entertainer at their disposal rot. Those are dead-ends.

[@zeku3531]

"backwards hat" laughed my ass off 😂

[@flipyapd2321]

Just wear a backwards hat bro

[@jesusprofessor314]

Thanks for the video. The book thing worked well for me after about 20 years old. The teen years were tough, no one wanted to date the "book worm." But once those nesting impulses began to kick in, there's something about a physics major with a book in his hands ...

[@DDD11239]

Read books older than the 20th Century.

[@jesusprofessor314]

@@DDD11239 Does the Bible count? Other than the assigned readings from courses, most of the reading I did was the Bible. But that was usually at home. While sitting somewhere on campus or nearby or riding the bus, I was usually reading from a class assignment. In English, that was the usual selection from British and Americal lit from Shakespeare to the present. In Philosophy, it included Plato's dialogs as well as Descarte and Heidegger.

[@mariomiguel2502]

I enjoy watching your genuine reaction more than what she's talking about.

[@socrattt]

Attitude is the most important thing. I wear sandals because I'm not in a rush, and I like the feeling of nature. I'll walk on the grass. Let's say a bunch of guys are wearing baseball caps backward. I show up, and I'm confident and polite to the women and men. I don't wear a baseball cap. The women find me sophisticated. I go to an event in sandals, and the guys are wearing dress shoes and socks. The women find me casual and confident. Let's say a woman says, "You must really love sandals." I say, "I do." I look at her calmly, smiling. She says, "Aren't your feet cold?" I go, "A little." She looks at me like I'm stupid. I say, "Life has many challenges." She'll probably laugh. If you have a good reason for doing what you are doing, then you can make it attractive. Women love confidence, and they will test you.

[@nlytend1]

I stopped listening to what women say they like in a guy a few years ago and I’m just myself, they can vibe or dip, don’t matter. I’m not changing for anyone

[@x-man5056]

Backwards hat only if you are under 25. It is kid stuff. I got to the "tie the hoodie strings up"WHAT? Is she serious? I think this must be a prank video. Guys; make sure if you are "reading in public view" for this intended effect, hold the book right side up.

[@arkamis77]

Hello Courtney, first off I would like to say that I absolutely love your content. Very positive and insightful. I looked at when you joined KZbin and it was on my birthday back in 2018!!! Go figure❤ And I grew up Cleveland. I stay in Euclid now though. I love your good advice because I can be naive with women at times. I'm gaining more confidence learning from you! Thanks again❤

[@robsmith2347]

I always wear my hat backwards and I know how to read! Yes!

[@Chyronn]

You'll be swatting them off in no time

[@darks1der07]

Best advice was at 4:20 , they're going to change their likes in their twenties...they're going to do that from 20 to 35 easily. Watch out for 30th bday too...that mid life sets in and they either become strong warriors in marriage or run for FOMO on the party and chase life.

[@michaniewiadomski7911]

Will a backward MAGA hat work, too? 😅

[@JohnPaul-jn1fo]

conservative women are hot

[@NeilHaskins]

Depends on what type of women you're looking to attract.

[@TrekBeatTK]

Of course because then she can’t see the slogan

[@ollii5771]

I can't lie, trying new haircuts is something that I found to get girls looking my way. Whether you letting your hair grow out or buzzing it all off, playing around with your hair is fun and gets you compliments

[@daveblackman816]

She basically wants a guy who dresses like it’s 2001 and in the band Sum 41…

[@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou]

Sum 41...now, that's a name I haven't heard in a long time...a _long_ time.

[@huhhuhhuh4069]

She’s in too deep

[@TheSirlock]

Backwards baseball hat the first that comes to mind is Fred Durst when he was younger lol.

[@AakashKumar-tn6yh]

Unrealistic standards...... I'm tired.......

[@sullybully]

We all are

[@kyle_sibley]

Waring a hat backwards and reading a book are unrealistic standards to you ? 😂

[@jackmorris1068]

Stop crying

[@SPM-tv]

Fam get off the internet unless you want to date an idiot that talks to herself with her phone in front of her face.

[@anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470]

Everything she brings up is so superficial

[@junaidshaikh7365]

Courtney has pure class advices to share

[@williamturner1441]

If that girl was standing near Courtney. Courtney wins every time.

[@jethrojacinto2798]

How To Appear Hotter As A Guy: Be Hot.

[@wadecarroll3572]

She has 6 million followers? We're cooked

[@kc270352]

why are people still listening to idiots on TikTok for advice? 🙄

[@matthewhermon2677]

I don't agree on points 1 to 3, but point 4 (reading) is a yes from me. I read for enjoyment on my side, not to make myself more interesting/attractive. 😅 Women reading in public definitely catch my eye. It's also a great conversation starter. ☺️

[@devondanklin1808]

Guys who wear baseball caps: 1. Teenagers 2. Fucc bois 3. Men who are balding

[@kurtisroberts9744]

4. Guys out of the military 5. Guys with to much hair and use it to keep it out of his face.

[@dontletyourdreamsbememes]

3 was the only reason I used baseball caps for a time. Then I accepted I was going bald but a few years later had a hair transplant.

[@SkuzzelB8]

Keep the sun out of your eyes? 🤷‍♂️

[@thatguy6054]

3. Men who are balding - We don't wear them backwards. That just makes you look like an idiot. And yeah, I look like an old bald guy in a baseball cap. It's better than looking like an old bald guy with heat stroke and a horrible sunburn.

[@tienkami]

That is not even true. Most guys wear their hats backwards, no matter their age.

[@whiteburr]

im glad i got a lil bit of confirmation bias from this video on a Thursday! Thanks Courtney!

[@scottkenyon3194]

This tiktoc girl is describing an 18yo cartoon character. If you want to be respected and admired by work choligues, women, friends, whatever, learn how to dress your age, exercise, work hard at your job, read a book, be kind, and be confident in who you are. Tada.

[@jeffrogers210]

I'm 68, and the advice about backwards cap, chain, and hoodie would make a great Halloween costume.

[@markemerson98]

Oh lord why are you reacting to a girl that looks like she’s still in school. You can do better Cortney than try to justify someone else’s subjective opinions…

[@armandodelacruz3794]

Exactly!

[@DDD11239]

True. The women she interviewed were young. She didn't think far ahead.

[@Richard_AKL]

The chain is similar to the leather jacket. It takes a certain level of confidence to wear that, and gives off a vibe that you have options.

[@TCR2025]

She wants Fred Durst l lol

[@Outlander-wm9cd]

I've noticed the older he gets, the more he looks like Will Sasso from mad TV.

[@DaemonDrummer33]

Fred durst....with a book 😆

[@ronaldonogueira74]

The best and most useful part was definitely Courtney's own point of view by the end of the video

[@alwaysemployed656]

Well, let me ask this then: what do women think of a guy who looks like a real-life male anime character? The ones who are the studs driving the female anime characters wild.

[@richardlaszcz762]

Don't base your real life off of cartoons. Obviously.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

@@richardlaszcz762 I get what he's asking, though. Because the real-life equivalent would be a K-Pop star. But I'm curious what women actually think of guys like that who are not celebrities? Do they actually think they are handsome/cool? I don't encircle myself within the channels that cover whether women find those guys attractive or not, so I am actually curious about that myself.

[@alwaysemployed656]

@@Billy-bc8pk Thanks for getting the question. Well, I'm Caucasian, but I still resemble a male anime character. Google image "Young Eric Roberts," and that’s exactly what I look like; he also resembles an anime character in his younger days. Women THINK I’m good-looking but never tell me because they think I’m a little arrogant and feel I don’t deserve to hear it. So, I never get to know what they think. I once caught one of my exes dancing by herself while holding up a picture of my face; she didn’t realize I was behind her watching. As soon as she saw me, she immediately tossed the picture on the ground, got into mean mode, and said, "YOU ARE NOT THAT GREAT! I DON'T REALLY LOVE YOU!" I replied, "Okay! Get in bed. It’s getting late."

[@alwaysemployed656]

@@Billy-bc8pk Thanks for getting the question. Well, I'm Caucasian, but I still resemble a male anime character. Google "Young Eric Roberts," and that’s exactly what I look like; he also resembles an anime character in his younger days. Women THINK I’m good-looking but never tell me because they think I’m a little arrogant and feel I don’t deserve to hear it. So, I never get to know what they think. I once caught one of my exes dancing by herself while holding up a picture of my face; she didn’t realize I was behind her watching. As soon as she saw me, she immediately tossed the picture on the ground, got into mean mode, and said, "YOU ARE NOT THAT GREAT! I DON'T REALLY LOVE YOU!" I replied, "Okay! Get in bed. It’s getting late."

[@TheSaneHatter]

I heartily agree that, most often, when people say that they find something attractive, they mean that they want to see someone they already like wearing or doing this thing. I figured that out sometime ago, and it’s one of the most important insights that I’ve ever achieved. Voracious, public reading, I can’t guarantee that they have ever landed me girls, especially this young. On the contrary, I find that it’s usually someone who already likes you that takes notice.

[@gabriellaskey6798]

She forgot to say three felonies and two baby mamas.

[@blurrcs15]

I’ve noticed that a large portion of videos on KZbin talking about this subject tend to give mixed and controversial advice. Some claim you have to stop being a “nice guy” without saying why. Some say you need to be an “alpha male” which basically means being dominant and controlling. Neither of these are who I want to be. Thankfully, Courtney doesn’t give that type of advice, and rather focuses on positive behaviors. It might not be easy, but it’s best to just be the best version of yourself, and naturally, women will start to gravitate towards you. Stop putting women on a pedestal, and start treating them like people, and you will eventually find someone special.

[@Hartwell10]

i think its weird how many dudes come to this comment section just to scream out "THIS ONLY WORKS IF YOU ARE ALREADY GOOD LOOKING OR 6FT TALL! OTHERWISE NONE OF THESE THINGS WORK!!" Like chill bros... This pity party behavior is so embarrassing, and annoying lol

[@Sara-jd4gi]

Yeah it honestly baffles me. If a piece of information shared does not apply to someone, they are not forced to adopt it. So I don't understand it.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

@@Sara-jd4gi Because they are looking for advice to help them, not advice that only helps guys who don't need the help.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

It's not a pity party if the advice does not work. If a guy is a sub-5, wearing a backwards cap and a gold chain would just make him look like that Steve Buscemi meme that says, "How do you do, fellow kids?"

[@Sara-jd4gi]

@@Billy-bc8pk That is why it's good to have a comment section under the video, so that there can be added information given by the community, that might be more helpful. I see many comments here about cologne and basically the power of scent. That comment, I feel, applies more generally. Even just a good laundry fabric softner scent is intoxicating. As a woman myself, I know that scent for me is more important than appearance. But maybe that's just me.

[@DDD11239]

"Like"

[@punishedpinecone4772]

If someone is wearing a low-cut top and leaning forward into the camera, you should not listen to them.

[@manher4335]

Lol seriously. Don't know how accomplished I'd feel if I'm just baiting in dingbats.

[@dragonsnackproductions]

"make you look more attractive..", "make you look smarter..." ;) + @Courtney Ryan you have Emily Blunt characteristics :D Great channel, good advices.

[@Outlander-wm9cd]

I'm 6'2" make a third of a million a year, eight inches, Great sense of humor, Above average looks and great build, well traveled etc, the only problem is The women are not making>> ANY

[@cedric3973]

Exactly, I moved to germany and people ask me why I am not married. I explain and they say well all women are like that. No they are not and most are not like that here.

[@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou]

Sounds like you're just not attracted to women.

[@Man_of_Renaissance]

Well from the way you described yourself, maybe you’re a douche and women see thru that.🤣🤣🤣

[@DDD11239]

You did not need to identify yourself.

[@Outlander-wm9cd]

@@DDD11239 Fun fact: I didn't.

[@MusicMike747]

Thank you for this public service announcement. If a woman is on TikTok, run.

[@edwinpadilla856]

Jersey shore vibes

[@Stefita83]

Yes Courtney, I agree with you about points you mentioned regarding what makes guys more attractive! I would also add that a guy wearing a nice fragrance… hmm…. chef’s kiss! 👌🏻

[@patrickspellman5397]

Sit up straight in your gamer chair and have good posture while ignoring said woman all day while you continue playing your video games. We already knew this.

[@jackmorris1068]

Sounds like a sad life

[@glenbateman5960]

Appear taken. Wear a wedding ring, even though you aren't married. It may seem counterintuitive, but it really works.

[@EricMoore790]

He wears a backwards hat and a chain but he is emotionally abusive. Women: Marry me!

[@maik_be]

This has got to be rage bait from the tiktok haha

[@fredkuykendall9390]

Being well mannered and courteous to everyone you meet

[@asdax8311]

"Wear a backwards baseball hat" *suddenly remembers Scumbag Steve

[@ubercow21]

😂💯

[@valberlin9239]

Aww, poor little cute thing is just going through a phase. It will pass, sweetie! In a few years, she'll be listing things such as: 1) Does he have an investment account 2) How is his relationship with his parents 3) Does he take care of his health. You know, long-term, relevant adult shit!

[@All_the_arcs]

never do this again 😭 I want tips from a more mature perspective

[@theadmiral4625]

Then go date grandmas lolols meanwhile I’m take the young 20’s no problem 💪🤣💪

[@All_the_arcs]

@@theadmiral4625 what's your grandma's @

[@Gumblethebear]

As a rule that never fails, NEVER listen to what any woman says. Woman lie like they breath. Only believe their actions. Actions never lie. Watch what they do, that is your answer, always. Any man OR woman taking advice from a woman is doomed to failure.

[@chibbyylol]

Most of these things will more or less only make you appear more attractive if you're...already attractive So to get there see her other vids on improving yourself to the best of your ability: physical fitness, optimize your skin and hair, expand your interests etc

[@emilschneider9974]

A very interesting video. Thank you. Another thing I have heard women find attractive in men is one who is excited about something or hobby or business venture he is perusing - a man with purpose! I find it very attractive when a woman is able to cook and bake and has grown a beautiful garden. One of my music students complimented me on my garden. She said .."A mans character can be defined by his habits." True words those and absolutely apply to women also.

[@AwesomeRando]

Some things I would add to this list: 1) Athletic and lean 2) Knows more than one language 3) Remembers your birthday 4) Likes to read books, specifically fiction (very little non fiction) 5) Knows muay thai and jiu jitsu 6) Can sing and write music 7) The way he places his hand behind the passenger car seat when he is reversing.

[@Jumpyman_thegamerYT]

But if a man tried to tell that to a woman, he would get crucified....

[@pace1195]

299) 6'5" 300) Blue eyes 301) Trust fund 302) Works in finance 303) Shoots like John Wick 304) Takes me on motorcycle rides 305) Played D-1 football as a linebacker 306) Has long hair like Fabio 307) Wears a man bun with a suit 308) ...

[@SPM-tv]

Remembers your birthday?? Is that a major problem with men?

[@Jumpyman_thegamerYT]

@@SPM-tv No. I don't even like celebrating my own birthday sometimes, it just reminds me how old I feel.

[@InKwetrust99]

Basically be perfect guys . U can’t have flaws .

[@theonetheycallfear8237]

Something I’ve been finding is a great combination of jeans and cowboy boots will make the ladies go crazy. It does help to have a nice cologne on too.

[@Sara-jd4gi]

Yeah, even just a nice smelling fabric softener used for laundry, is intoxicating. Well, that's my experience.

[@theonetheycallfear8237]

@@Sara-jd4gi yup, my ex said she loved the way I smelled even if I was just wearing a clean shirt.

[@DDD11239]

​@@theonetheycallfear8237 She's your ex for a reason.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

@@Sara-jd4gi I think everybody loves clean smelling laundry -- especially clean smelling sheets that still radiate a bit of heat after coming out of the dryer. Makes it easy to snuggle up and fall fast asleep that way. It's a universally accepted sense of coziness (I should think).

[@danjoredd]

I like wearing Stetson. Its pretty cheap and not a ton of people wear it because it is an older fragrance

[@kbeezyk]

Courtney's reaction to the tips are hilarious. I'm sure we all were making the same face lmao

[@jerrypomroy2375]

I basically follow to shoot your vids to my oldest son, who is now 22 but still doesn’t have a clue. He struggles with self-confidence, his image & persona he broadcasts, style, etc. My hope is that eventually, something will start to sink in. He’s on the shorter side, but a good looking kid.

[@jejo63660]

As a reader myself, the advice to read to be attractive is pretty funny and bizarre, especially when it’s listed next to things like “backwards hat” and “chain”. Reading, despite how it’s considered nowadays, isn’t an accessory that you can just put on one day and become a reader. The funny thing with this “advice” is that no one will read if they don’t enjoy it, and many, many people don’t enjoy it. It takes a large amount of time and effort, and so despite it being one of the most “attractive” hobbies, most men and women won’t do it because it is such a difficult activity. Better advice imo is to pursue and develop hobbies that you personally find enjoyable and meaningful.

[@Cucumberflavoredmustard]

Stick with the standards: Stand up straight, while still walking a little loosely. Throw your shoulders back. Be in shape regardless of your height. When meeting a girl you might be interested in, do the previous plus: don't crush her hand when you shake it, but be sorta firm. There is a difference between a guy shake and a girl shake. Keep holding it for a second or two while you make eye contact, but not too much longer. Ask her a question including her name right away.

[@Parwizqalandar]

Charming is the key 🔑

[@sebastianquilt]

30 seconds into her video and the girl contradicted herself -- a baseball hat is a physical item, which you must adorn. She said her suggestions won't involve changing one's appearance..

[@batmansbigcity]

There’s quite a functional reason for the hoodie tie,I always do this. It shows that I’m active even at 59. She should get into how it is tied as the devil is in the details.

[@michaelb.8953]

I'm almost 55 and never been a big hat wearer myself, but I do find an attractive woman that wears a ball cap (not backwards) either with a ponytail or hair worn straight down very alluring.

[@donaldleider7382]

Guys, just be true to yourself, if she doesn’t like you that’s HER problem!

[@daniellehotsky1776]

If no woman likes you, it's kind of your problem too (if you want somebody, of course)

[@donaldleider7382]

@@daniellehotsky1776 Maybe but I’m sure they’ll be a woman who likes you just the way you are.

[@cymbergan]

Filming a KZbin video for bus riding with a long brimmed hat and COVID mask, got a great reaction from a woman. She jumped out of her car and rescued my water bottle from the street as I was walking to the bus stop on my way to the gym.

[@mahatmaghandi4288]

I've been called a pushover due to my calm and collected personality.