How To Be a More Social Person

[@Batman-hb9dh]

The thing Is, I dont even go outside

[@zombiescumbag4061]

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[@aryakhadye8180]

Right,exactly what i do!

[@aeternus_.]

Then go outside what is the point of this comment

[@Nike_707]

Right? I heard there's even this green thing growing from the ground... Grass? I think?

[@lucasferrary3941]

im desperate to go outside but i have nowhere to socialize and i cant even go to school

[@manoknatinola]

if you see a girl you are attracted to, Look at them and smile. yea no i tried that once and god the face she made after I did that I think i threatened her.

[@SubTodRxGON]

LOL

[@MadBeaver.]

Yeah these days you can make most people terrified or angry just by looking at them, that's sad

[@King_Ghost777]

Same bro

[@user-oc7ox2pl1w]

as a girl I suggest build your socialization skills, when your social and better kind you seem easy going rather than quiet and cold, u gon look creepy if u quiet and attempt that 😂 so build confidence and be more friendly and kind to others not "nice", Kind I suggest you research more videos before you pursue ur crush 😏 God bless 🙏

[@yaboiperson9512]

Practice in the mirror to make your smile lighthearted, it’s all in the EYES, try squinting a little aswell

[@nathangood24578]

Thank you so much for this

[@NHSSHINOBI]

Yeah see that's the thing, when the longer conversation is started I have no idea what to say. My mind just goes blank.

[@theblackchair9304]

This is what lofe does

[@airplane_vroom]

bro i came here cause i wanna be like lofe

[@theblackchair9304]

@@airplane_vroom because of his rizz? 🎯

[@airplane_vroom]

@theblackchair9304 no just cause he goes up and talks to random people im fine talking to people but i dont know how to keep conversations going very long

[@jacobj3491]

Nice tips. Simple, actionable tasks

[@joys_style]

I agree!

[@jozzevv]

Thank you. This is good information

[@Blight225]

Does that actually work? Staring and smiling at girls… won’t they you know… get creeped out?

[@GirlsChase]

It does work. If you see them get uncomfortable then break eye contact. Pay attention to reactions! but also use common sense. you stare for a few seconds at most!

[@BALMAESTRO]

Okay now googling how to smile

[@cserenity_]

Needed this

[@Mvxansfrq]

I dont go outside because i have no where to go 😭

[@sunshinequeen3824]

I kinda rather stay inside the house in my room.

[@johnathonpetersen5885]

What advice would you give someone who has aspergers that wants to be sociable?

[@MmesomaChukwu-gw9mp]

easier said than done

[@DAMN__________]

Ion want more friends i wanna keep the ones i current have 😂

[@JaneKo-bo5dt]

men should watch this video and learn cause i would smile immediately if some random guy smiled at me

[@caloFi]

the problem is i have no one to go out with

[@GirlsChase]

approach more

[@COMEMELAVERGA]

Never ever stare and smile at girls💀💀 u going to prison for that

[@GirlsChase]

lolwut

[@Anonymous-m3y]

ong

[@jgmoney]

Only if youre unattractive

[@ninja1676]

Never in a million years, I don't even call my old classmates who i know and still are in my contacts, If i haven't spoken or seen you in forever that relationship is dead forever.

[@cuponnery5914]

Awesome tips ima female so I guess I'll give it a shot /.\

[@zedusfurkan169]

can you explain "the game"

[@GirlsChase]

Sure. The "game" refers to the play between men and women to find if the other is a good mate. I will explain this with terms of utility rather than emotion, but it's explainable through both lenses (e.g., you could see it as a game of each party getting what they want - the utility definition - or a romance where two people seek what is pleasurable and healthy for themselves through the other person - the emotive definition - and neither are more correct than the other. They're related but ultimately unique descriptions of the same phenomenon). In other words, if my language seems too mechanical, that's the point. I'll give emotive synonyms at various points. The man, for the most part, makes his decision in the beginning as his attraction is mostly physical (at first, ofc personality matters if she comes a long term option, and also personalities can seduce us, but it's largely looks). In other words, he wants to smash and WILL smash. Woman of course like hot/good-looking men, and have unique tastes of looks, height, ethnicity, style, features, etc., especially for one night stands/hookups, but overall, personalities are more attractive to women, particularly traits that demonstrate social acuity, social status, strength, wealth, etc. (the traits themselves are either signaled through behavior, like a sense of humor or sexual energy, or through actual standings the man has, like popularity, a successful business, etc.). And since it takes time (usually) to probe a personality, a courtship is required. In other words, women WANT to smash and form that desire quickly but take time to decide they will ACTUALLY smash. They have much more control than we do, because the consequences of copulation are much greater for women (yes, I just used "copulation" lol). The man, determined to get his willy in the woman, demonstrates his qualities through conversation with the woman. Whether they talk about shallow or deep topics matters, as she can sense/understand his personality (e.g., the amalgamation of principles/behaviors that shape our thoughts, words, and actions) to different degrees depending on the topic. All the while they're talking about things, she's reading his body language, listening to his vocal tonality, and watching his eyes to see if he's really about that life or if he's full of shit. In other words, the man he presents himself as should meet her desires (i.e., "be attractive"), but also be congruent with his behavior (i.e., be who he is, not a front he puts on to get pussy). Women are particularly good at this (which is why most men don't get much pussy). The dance between the man and the woman is a cooperative dance. The man leads, but the woman has to let him proceed past certain milestones, like letting him be more physical or broach certain topics, and she does so by giving him signals, either verbal or non-verbal. Good seducers know how to switch positions and make the woman also work and him play the role of evaluator (i.e., get the woman to chase him and seek his approval). Good seducers also make it a fun, cooperative act rather than an adversarial one. This dance continues until the man leads her through various "stages" until they're alone and she accepts and welcomes sex. Various idealogues will balk at this description because my diction implies various ethical flaws in the "system," but it doesn't make my description any less accurate. That's the dance. Been that way since forever and will always be that way. For the most part, his goal is to get sex first, with a relationship being a later decision. Her goal is to get a relationship first then sex after (sex is both procreative and pleasurable, but there's always the risk of impregnation, so women have to always be consciously aware of the risks, much more so than women). But if his game is good or he's just so ridiculously hot (but these are largely the same thing, as previously explained), she'll give sex quickly without the guarantee of a relationship, usually because of a mix of uncontrollable desire and also the determination that even if he isn't a long term option, his seed will suffice. In other words, she's too horny to give a fuck. Ideally, she gets a relationship afterwards, but sometimes, especially in our current age, women purposefully seek out casual relationships. Men are a bit more prone to casual sex, cuz they can spread their seed much more effectively than women (a woman can, excluding twins or more, only have one baby every 9 months, but I can impregnate a hundred women in that time). So that being the biological situation, and strongly affecting the emotive situation, men tend to seek sex more strongly while women seek relationships, for the most part. Outliers exist, but are exceptions, not the rule. But I think both men and women gloss over the consequences of making sex too casual - there are consequences to hedonism. I can promise you this, as a professional hedonist. Hopefully both parties find someone they can be with in the long term and be happy sexually and romantically. But at its heart, that's the game. But there's one more note that cannot be left out: the moral aspect. "Leave her better than you found her." That's our motto. We can't give a lifetime of love to every girl but if we can give her an overall positive experience, be it good sex, a pleasant conversation, or even just a smile from a compliment and a moment of thankfulness and good feeling in the sea of shit that we often wade through in life, then we've done our job and are not only are good at "the game," but lovers of women.

[@tudorolariu8117]

​@@GirlsChase woah that's such a detailed response

[@juanp4168]

Force to say hi❤

[@obizzlesportsandfitness]

But then it means you’re ugly if they’re mean to me

[@pascalbohm2456]

how do I live life? Wtf is that even supposed to mean?

[@deezee1541]

Heterosexist

[@GirlsChase]

sure