How to be smart and confident

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Eléonora Oxa

Eléonora Oxa

Күн бұрын

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@galinamyagkova3610
@galinamyagkova3610 Жыл бұрын
Im 43 , and im still learning how to love myself and to be confident 😅
@Hajer._216
@Hajer._216 Жыл бұрын
Why not ? It‘s better then living the rest of your life insecure it’s never to Kate to love your self and appreciate your self ❤️
@ella4175
@ella4175 Жыл бұрын
You’re inspiring and confident 💖💖
@Onwaytou
@Onwaytou Жыл бұрын
The age doesn't matter at all ,any person deserves to be happy and confident at any age . You are an amazing person for trying and still willing to learn. Keep going!💞
@malakbenslimane9723
@malakbenslimane9723 Жыл бұрын
@@stupidheadbandomg me tooo💋🔥
@TaraMae212
@TaraMae212 Жыл бұрын
Same..
@qianwu2089
@qianwu2089 Жыл бұрын
1 watch your mouth 2 let people be 3 do not let anybody take credit for you 4 hold your own [do not show your insecurities] 5 show grace in your behavior 6 earn your respect 7 focus on inside [self-worth]
@karengalvan8699
@karengalvan8699 11 ай бұрын
also to be strong is to let it go '' amen ''
@denismelvin222
@denismelvin222 6 ай бұрын
Stand on your own two feet! 🐾 Keep away from the riff-raff!
@akifaiqbal
@akifaiqbal 2 ай бұрын
You're a queen 👑
@theshih-tzudad4068
@theshih-tzudad4068 7 ай бұрын
I am 54 and still learning how to be a better person. this video makes a lot of sense.
@enzogalante5986
@enzogalante5986 Жыл бұрын
Wow, what a majestic lady; beauty, femininity, elegance, style, class, confidence, charisma, intelegence, knowledge, wisdom.
@oxaleonora
@oxaleonora Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🙏
@steveyantis
@steveyantis Жыл бұрын
I approve this message 😊 What a role model for our young people. Listen up and level up.
@elizajules3797
@elizajules3797 Жыл бұрын
100%
@karengalvan8699
@karengalvan8699 11 ай бұрын
elevate of course !
@manyatasambyal6073
@manyatasambyal6073 Жыл бұрын
i usually don't comment but everything that you said is pure gold.sometimes its hard to realise what's actually going wrong and i feel blessed to have come across a person like you.lots of love and support from my side.
@TheDragonforces
@TheDragonforces Жыл бұрын
Can you please share your perspective on dealing with arguments? How to react when someone says something to hurt you or belittle you? How not to get angry and defend yourself? How to contain anger? I know it all comes to self worth but hearing your perspective helps a lot. Love your channel ❤
@user-ku5ro6zp2b
@user-ku5ro6zp2b Жыл бұрын
You can never lose your temper. You never let it get to you or affect you. You have to be really calm in these situations and keep your voice down and talk slowly. When you do that it makes you look powerful because they failed in triggering you, and that’s when they realise they have zero power over you.
@iamfree3260
@iamfree3260 Жыл бұрын
They cnt hurt U if U kno who Ru
@rainxstormm
@rainxstormm Жыл бұрын
Remind yourself to take deep breaths. You can first tell them how your feel and that what they said hurt you. let them explain their side and explain yours but Tell them that you deserve to be respected. You can then walk away and give them and yourself time to think. Then come back calm and continue the conversation. If they still don’t respect you then they aren’t the person for you
@maryambukhari7635
@maryambukhari7635 Жыл бұрын
I want one on this too
@dunianns2716
@dunianns2716 Жыл бұрын
There are very good books on psychology about it
@ellechan4378
@ellechan4378 Жыл бұрын
self worth = confidence & respect
@ab-jc8nv
@ab-jc8nv Жыл бұрын
How r u
@aesstheticfate2893
@aesstheticfate2893 9 ай бұрын
I'm 18 years old and I really resonate with everything you say because I also want to grow into a fine lady and grow emotionally mature. People also tell me that I think too much and stuffs like that. However, what you said are just pure gold and I feel reassured to be in this journey. Its also amazing that a lot of like-minded women are in this community. Thank you for your message. You're a blessing and please continue blessing others!
@Nat_nat512
@Nat_nat512 11 ай бұрын
I' ve notice that many women who talk so mature and now they are so successful had experienced bullying and abuse behaviors. I'm so happy that from something so bad came out strong and powerful women! Go girl you can conquer the world!
@lailaniCleary
@lailaniCleary 11 ай бұрын
I needed to watch this because I get so angry at peoples actions and will use very foul inappropriate language . Recently I found out a friend was speaking bad on me, and I decided to remain silent and distance myself instead of cussing her out like my old self would’ve done, thank you for this video !❤
@louis.sela04
@louis.sela04 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!! Work on myself everyday is the best thing i could do! So happy to not try to fit in. Pride yourself on your willingness to improve
@momotaro0410
@momotaro0410 7 ай бұрын
Very true. That is why I am always look like a loser. I let people walk over me and disrespect me.
@Mikay944
@Mikay944 Жыл бұрын
"Trying to go to level 3 when you haven't completed step 1", that hit hard.
@yamaha_x.o
@yamaha_x.o Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@matthewcormier8744
@matthewcormier8744 Жыл бұрын
Confidence is my trademark
@honey_xoxo_
@honey_xoxo_ 11 ай бұрын
Okey but I'm an introvert with lots of mental disorders and trauma caused by my own parents , they treat me like animals and don't leave a chance to insult in front of relatives and are very toxic . Now I'm always helpless in front of others cuz I'm always scared and anxious of every little thing and nobody(friends) stays after they had their therapy time with me as I have a humorous and funny personality (not a people pleaser, I love delivering jokes) in front of who don't know my truth but I can't fake it for long , it's very energy sucking. I don't tell people what I'm going through cus that makes me uncomfortable and anxious.
@user-mj2hu1rm8g
@user-mj2hu1rm8g Жыл бұрын
This video just showed up on the recommended list just at the right moment and says everything I didn't understand and have been wondering about. Thank you so much for the advices and the experience you share, keep on helping people, keep on the good job❤
@lyrify7841
@lyrify7841 6 ай бұрын
I realized how a person I know changed on me after opening up too much to her. She changed her work and joined the people I know. These people has told me their secrets and everything. When I saw her worried about the new environment, I started telling her everything she need to know including the secrets of my people. Not long after staying with them, I saw her change her perception on me. She stopped talking much even started not to show interest when I talk. This was the point when I realized I made a mistake and I was getting soo emotional being around her that I talked other peoples things. I am too late to change what happened but I learnt. Don't be emotional around the people you like to be with. I swear to you that I was never a person like this and I am little depressed when realizing what I have done. WATCH YOUR MOUTH IS THE REAL GOLD HERE!!!
@sadiasaeed3772
@sadiasaeed3772 8 ай бұрын
She needs more reach fr !! There are other good motivator queens also exist ik but after wizard Liz I got the vibe from u !! ✨☀️
@kflecha1
@kflecha1 Жыл бұрын
This girl is an inspiration ❤ good vibes to everybody here 🫶🏽✨💕
@ab-jc8nv
@ab-jc8nv Жыл бұрын
Hi u do yoga?
@kflecha1
@kflecha1 Жыл бұрын
@@ab-jc8nv no but I would like to learn
@user-tk9gg1im6h
@user-tk9gg1im6h 9 ай бұрын
Thank u girl😭😭 you made my day you remind me to focus and commit to healing again may god bless you
@MaryumAziz-tc2oc
@MaryumAziz-tc2oc Жыл бұрын
Its feel like this is the whole summary and the key point which we should learn in our life for ourselves
@loveethan3000
@loveethan3000 Жыл бұрын
Always always speaking the truth that needs to be heard by all women. Thank you, Eleonora.
@oxaleonora
@oxaleonora Жыл бұрын
Thank you My Dear 🙏
@Moses-tz9fv
@Moses-tz9fv 10 ай бұрын
@@oxaleonorahi 😊
@UdayYadav-vj8ri
@UdayYadav-vj8ri 7 ай бұрын
​@@oxaleonora will you marry me please I like you😊
@mariana_z
@mariana_z Жыл бұрын
About confidence. I always want to have it. But,I haven't. And now I understand why. Thank you for this video. You're the best. I love youuuu❤❤😘😘
@GioHimonPro
@GioHimonPro 11 ай бұрын
Very good advice! Realized this only a month ago. Confidence only holds any merit when you can back it up with self worth!
@Sunny47171
@Sunny47171 5 ай бұрын
I rarely like videos on KZbin and your video is one of them. The way you showed how to be confident as well as caring at the same time is just amazing. I just would say ' Thank You ' ✅
@zhiyipeng-dz8vu
@zhiyipeng-dz8vu 9 ай бұрын
Video Summary: The video discusses the importance of being mindful of what we say and how we talk about ourselves and others, as it can have a significant impact on our relationships and self-worth. It emphasizes the need to develop a strong sense of self and set boundaries in order to demand respect from others. The speaker also highlights the importance of focusing on inner healing and self-fulfillment in order to build true confidence. - 00:00 The power of your words reflects who you are and smart people judge others based on how they talk about themselves and others. - 02:32 Surround yourself with people who uplift you and take no credit for your success, while being aware of those who may use your insecurities against you. - 05:06 Small actions that we may not be aware of can have a deep impact on someone else's life, as illustrated by a story of a man who lost respect due to a woman humiliating him in front of others. - 07:42 Communicate your preferences, desires, needs, and deal breakers in a relationship to establish boundaries and demand respect. - 10:14 To be smart and confident, focus on your inner self and work on healing and self-worth. - 12:48 Building a strong relationship with oneself through self-reflection and personal growth leads to confidence and self-respect. Generated by Monica AI. Get yours now! 👉 monica.im?r=543194
@eramaebarrios5340
@eramaebarrios5340 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I am in my silver era with a new stage happening in my career that I finally achieved. Been praying for this for the last 4 years but now I am still doubting myself. Thanks to algorithms I stumbled upon this video and subscribed. Hope to have more of this.
@Dil.Careem
@Dil.Careem Жыл бұрын
The transcript emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, respectful communication, and self-worth. It advises on maintaining dignity, setting boundaries, and prioritizing inner growth for genuine confidence and fulfillment.
@KK-tv5kh
@KK-tv5kh Жыл бұрын
I am currently job hunting. And I always fail at my interview. Whenever they ask me about my past, I feel negative. I am afraid of being confident on myself. Watching your video, I learned to watch over my mouth so that others will embrace me to their team. I find it hard but I will definetly step over my burden.
@Muslim_5709
@Muslim_5709 Жыл бұрын
you should study about islam these will change your life. And you will be successful in your life
@Neyaa_1
@Neyaa_1 8 ай бұрын
Wow…this was very much well said. This help me realize exactly what my problem is. I’ve always knew that I have to fix myself internally and externally. BUT, this whole time I’ve been just so focused on the outside of myself. What others thinks, how do I look etc.. Always trying to come off as confident on the outside. Not evening realizing that when I’m alone I often feel like I’m not doing enough etc. So to completely ignore my internal feelings. I just stay busy . That’s my problem not addressing my internal feelings.
@aureliacairo4424
@aureliacairo4424 Жыл бұрын
Love that I came across this vid the first day of my senior year of college! We have got to stay sharp and authentic to ourselves as we work towards our goals 💛
@hafsasalman2489
@hafsasalman2489 Жыл бұрын
I switched to online school as a tenth grader. Honestly I did this so I have time to prioritize my mental health and do the things I want to do to love myself. At school i cared so much about how confident I looked. Now I start my journey to feel it.
@freyaakotharri1292
@freyaakotharri1292 10 ай бұрын
i am still 16 and i would say i have not experienced much in life but till now whatever i have its been soo intense always and being an empath made me really question about alot of things in life and those little incidents that i experienced have made me a much better person in life . I started or rather i would i was guided by spirits arround me to focus on myself internally and since then every aspect of my life has changed for better good 🧿and since then whenever this topic comes up and i realise that what i did for myself was the best for me i feel soo proud and soo happy for myself and its the best feeling in this world I BET YOU , and i would love to see every human experience this feeling.Sending love and blessings to everyone 💖🧿
@karengalvan8699
@karengalvan8699 11 ай бұрын
yes ! we need to work ourselves , and be wise with money , relationship with any one
@sabasayyed9855
@sabasayyed9855 6 ай бұрын
I needed you the most to deal with people surrounding me 🥺
@gabrielcarvajal5666
@gabrielcarvajal5666 Жыл бұрын
I've been working on my goals for a while but how you said, I felt empty when I was on my own because I was trying to fill the expectations of other who don't really care of me
@shawntelchinn84
@shawntelchinn84 Жыл бұрын
Best video on the whole KZbin!!!❤❤❤Thank you! This is literally the message I’ve been needing to hear for my entire adult life!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽I really appreciate you for this message!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@jaywessy
@jaywessy Жыл бұрын
Liz The Wizard is also not bad at all...😉😏 kzbin.info/www/bejne/emStgn1jipZlj5Isi=FfWynVwGGyeIJxuz
@oxaleonora
@oxaleonora Жыл бұрын
Thank you!🤍
@lilianaszo
@lilianaszo Жыл бұрын
Everything you said is so valuable
@antonija2974
@antonija2974 Жыл бұрын
I have been loving your videos, every single word that has come out of your mouth has been the pure truth. Keep up with the good work ;)
@user-hh9wf6le7s
@user-hh9wf6le7s 7 ай бұрын
yes, I absolutely agree with you. if you watch a mouth of any body and hear what he/she tacks , you will create your opinion about her/his self.... thanks for this video.
@carmencatalina9086
@carmencatalina9086 Жыл бұрын
This is such a beautiful message ❤
@ange1ove
@ange1ove Жыл бұрын
Ahhhh my goodness! Always so wonderful to hear these beautiful words. I truly love and appreciate you. I’m sending loving energy your way.
@oxaleonora
@oxaleonora Жыл бұрын
Thank you my Dear 🙏I appreciate your kind words
@diannoorhayati
@diannoorhayati Жыл бұрын
This entire video is so eye opening omg thank you Sis
@iamfree3260
@iamfree3260 Жыл бұрын
I guess we just gotta love ourselves for when we r nice and not nice and with makeup or not makeup or filters lol?! I think we tend to be the ppl we admire the most. I admired the ppl who loved me and didn't judge me though. IV been that person before But I'm in a phase where ppl who look distorted or are arrogant repels me and I can't seem to help it but I also feel mean because it feels like not unconditional love. But maybe it is a good thing to get away from those frequencies. But overall I wanna be stronger than anyone's frequencies
@whoisholloway
@whoisholloway 6 ай бұрын
Great perspective!
@zaijw
@zaijw 9 ай бұрын
Literally, the video helped me in a way. The words are sweet, logical, and understandable. I loved your channel very much
@11DarkAcademia
@11DarkAcademia 10 ай бұрын
Authentic content. Great personality. I love the vibes and the teachings. Much gratitude and love 🤍
@obakeng_k
@obakeng_k 9 ай бұрын
You - you are just a fantastic, wise and centred woman. May you be blessed by the Most High
@flores2629
@flores2629 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Eleonora🌹 We are together in this process.
@user-yg4ys3po8n
@user-yg4ys3po8n 6 ай бұрын
I'm a 17 years old girl, and I always tried to fit in but now I just don't care,I just want to be calm
@DionysusAlexanderChrist
@DionysusAlexanderChrist Жыл бұрын
Eleonora is extremely attractive and her voice is honey never the less she has great advice.
@dikshakatake467
@dikshakatake467 Жыл бұрын
I am loving your videos girl! Never before I would wait for someone to post videos, just so good, pure and definitely has the potential to change the world for good! I am on the journey of discovering my self worth, would love to hear some more of your thoughts on how can I do it better.
@ab-jc8nv
@ab-jc8nv Жыл бұрын
Hi u do meditation?
@rigzinangmo6460
@rigzinangmo6460 4 ай бұрын
So satisfying thank you 💕🫶
@glamourdreamgirl634
@glamourdreamgirl634 11 ай бұрын
I am currently job hurting but you can giving confidence then helpful in my future growth they are all the tips which share ❤
@diyorasoyibjonova7108
@diyorasoyibjonova7108 Жыл бұрын
Awww thank you💗 love this video so much🌻❤️
@JuveriyaRockzz
@JuveriyaRockzz 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, lots of love from India
@gabriellasuarez3287
@gabriellasuarez3287 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Good luck 🤞 ❤
@user-pb5jt6xk2m
@user-pb5jt6xk2m 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video, I randomly came across it. I now know the difference between self-worth and confidence. I've realised that I dont have the inner confidence i thought I did, so my question is how do you increase your inner self-worth? When you said that you should be glad to be with yourself when nobody is watching it really dawned on me that this is a problem with me, and I wondered if other saw it too. But, I don't know how to fix it either, so anyone that can help, let me know.
@Abdurrahman02Sarip
@Abdurrahman02Sarip 4 ай бұрын
So happy to stumbled on this channel.
@aminuumar2522
@aminuumar2522 Жыл бұрын
Quite educative and inspiring. I fall in love with your channel and your videos are really amazing!
@karlaperez6376
@karlaperez6376 Жыл бұрын
You are such a blessing for sharing this perspective , thank you
@samab7891
@samab7891 11 ай бұрын
Easy to say when you just basically look good and have a good body and have a hustband buying everything for u
@sharonqui74
@sharonqui74 8 ай бұрын
I’m so happy that I found your channel 💕
@emmamicheletti6013
@emmamicheletti6013 Жыл бұрын
thank you so much for your words, you've really helped me
@nazhazidani862
@nazhazidani862 7 ай бұрын
I like the way how you treat this subject, you are amaizing
@ariannabradley6742
@ariannabradley6742 Жыл бұрын
Wow, this has me fanning tears…thank you🙏
@madisonfox_
@madisonfox_ Жыл бұрын
you’re amazing. thank you for all the amazing information and mindsets you have and share. hope you’re doing good 🤍
@user-cy8cy5qt3f
@user-cy8cy5qt3f 7 ай бұрын
Well said how u realistically represent.
@Arjuna266
@Arjuna266 7 ай бұрын
I can only fully agree with what is being said here 👌💪
@wiseriverhealing
@wiseriverhealing Жыл бұрын
Your content and delivery are much appreciated. Thanks so much for sharing.
@happymeta4822
@happymeta4822 8 ай бұрын
you are just amazing because I'm not a good English speaker but your English into easy to understand just amazing the way you speak English thanks for those
@amandeepsandhu6368
@amandeepsandhu6368 8 ай бұрын
This is such a beautiful message ❤
@SleepyGrassyMountain-fe1mz
@SleepyGrassyMountain-fe1mz 7 ай бұрын
Ur video is very beneficial I see ur video I am 18 I am confident still I see ur video bcoz I love to see ur video ❤
@999sk09
@999sk09 5 ай бұрын
I agree 👍👍leadership thinkinG👌👌👌A CLASS VIDEO 👏👏Marvellous video 👍👍
@yoonari9840
@yoonari9840 8 ай бұрын
Focus on your inner self and know your self-worth.
@dododo2710
@dododo2710 Жыл бұрын
Goddd I love your videos girl, everything here was soooo true and beautiful. Literally tysm, it just opened my eyes.
@prettygirlwhispers
@prettygirlwhispers 6 ай бұрын
Yes, I totally agree with you. Love your content.
@Fruzsi888
@Fruzsi888 Жыл бұрын
Eleonora I never saw a chanel like yours in youtube you're miracle❤
@givannijuwita
@givannijuwita 11 ай бұрын
thankyou, this so inspiring me and make me more want to upgrade my self 💗
@vanshipatel4832
@vanshipatel4832 11 ай бұрын
The video was really helpful moreover you really seem like a very good hearted person 😃
@deshirax621
@deshirax621 Жыл бұрын
First Albanian queen i See talking about stuff like this on this platform 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️
@asq2719
@asq2719 Жыл бұрын
found liz's sister lol
@vintxge_taetae
@vintxge_taetae Жыл бұрын
Fr😭 but they are both amazing on their own ways
@houdamrabet603
@houdamrabet603 Жыл бұрын
I love people who talk and give advices like liz and this woman
@elovery5974
@elovery5974 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos so much! You are a real role model! I wish that young girls that are lost see you’re videos! They are so inspiring and they really help!!!
@user-gw4rw7lo7d
@user-gw4rw7lo7d 11 ай бұрын
Better than 100 Psychologists
@user-ji3ux2by8k
@user-ji3ux2by8k 9 ай бұрын
Untuk dapat di kenang orang kita dapat memberi kasih dan harapan yg positif dan di rindukan orng banyak❤❤❤
@dearayuna
@dearayuna Жыл бұрын
Insightful speaks I think. Thank you
@bianbde1683
@bianbde1683 8 ай бұрын
Sister I love your videos! I have anxiety that affects me in all parts of my life. Maybe some life experiences when I was a kid made me like that.
@toobarehman8416
@toobarehman8416 Жыл бұрын
Omg this is by far the best video on confidence I've ever watched❤❤❤
@rachelrosendo
@rachelrosendo Жыл бұрын
I love this so much! Well said sister. ❤
@karimkaryab7332
@karimkaryab7332 11 ай бұрын
You are really out standing , keep it up.
@alsnafiehmohammed1622
@alsnafiehmohammed1622 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Eleonora 💕✨
@oye2240
@oye2240 10 ай бұрын
A smart person is free of his mind and thoughts and thinks anything he wants.
@MyEnglishChannel
@MyEnglishChannel 8 ай бұрын
Nice video 👍thanks for your wonderful video on how to start loving ourselves, to always guard our mouth when socializing with people, and to act gracefully.. 👏💪♥️
@isv3ellv
@isv3ellv Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, it helped me further! ♡
@youtubedannie
@youtubedannie Жыл бұрын
Hard truth. Thanks 💖
@parrotmithii
@parrotmithii 8 ай бұрын
I am loving your videos girl!
@dala3564
@dala3564 7 ай бұрын
you made great points. I appreciate it)
@morozovamusic
@morozovamusic Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! That was very helpful ❤️❤️❤️
@annesawadogo5543
@annesawadogo5543 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
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