How To Call Bullshit On DENIAL - Teal Swan

[@LisaFrancesJudd]

Teal is no 'Pollyanna' style spiritual teacher. She looks at all shades of human life which is so refreshingly honest. I know so many so called 'enlightened' people who won't look at their own pain and darkness. They would rather live in a denial of anything other than positivity. Sometimes life absolutely sucks and hurts and disappoints. Pretending it doesn't won't make things better.

[@MrZZsharka]

I tend to trigger those you mentioned for some reason lol (not intentionally)

[@clarawithak5921]

Yess, thank you, I agree with that statement. We have to acknowledge our pain for what it is if we actually want to create healing 🌞.

[@denasedaghat1122]

So true

[@johnmiller4895]

my ex was just like this. She had abusive parents and thats how she coped. All ill say is i regret not leaving her in the past.

[@randomdreams1741]

This made me feel understood. My mother denies ever abusing me and when I was younger I had self harm issues. Thank you ❤️ No one has ever validated me like the before. Thank you !

[@zion367]

We need validation to what is done for us. To be understood gor once in our lives. I want to let you know that i understand the pain of having a mum with toxic behaviour. Much love!

[@Virvepaulina]

That's beautiful.

[@sunbeam9222]

Well I hope we don't need for them to realise it on order to heal cos my mum absolutely never will and I believe that's ok. I am not expecting anything from her in that aspect. We have a good relationship now, I forgave and understood where she was coming from. Only took me 30 years lol. I have empathy for me and for her. Hopefully I'm not in too much denial 😂

[@nick8841]

I like how the views are relatively lower on this video than the others. Everybody's like "I'm not in denial" 😂.

[@noran2096]

Nicholas Kerr she speaking the truth, i had to admit im in denial 😂

[@melissaoconnell5648]

Appreciating that observation Nikolas Kerr...and/or the many, who are a bit unclear for separating: 👏helpful video 👏if they themselves are actually in denial 👏whether or Not you 'Like'(accept) the truth 😔😌 and can hopefully integrate the steps to get clear 💗

[@melissaoconnell5648]

Thank you for your willingness to see your truth Manifestation Goddess...and with humor ☺️ You gave me a giggle in the midst of my own weighty denial.

[@flybabyskybaby]

😂😂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@denasedaghat1122]

Exactly

[@parikshanamathur9940]

Denial has caused more harm to me than the trauma itself.

[@SuspiriaX]

Same My trauma I could somewhat deal with But a combination of denial and judgement really made me go into a nightmare Like, a whole new level of PTSD, my nervous system was done for

[@warrenday6357]

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Denial has made you stronger

[@barbsaenz8882]

Thank you for saying that!

[@ohara8845]

@@warrenday6357 nooooo

[@warrenday6357]

@@ohara8845 yesssss ❤️

[@Alexmatthew7]

I've lived my whole life in denial. I'm working to change that now. It's so difficult. Thanks for this video, it's a gem!

[@ida1462]

❤ I feel you 🕊🌈❤

[@MikkoMurmeli]

You are brave. I've some real denial too... maybe in this life I'll find some peace, with all that...

[@alex-ander-13]

@@MikkoMurmeli Not maybe, you will.

[@Nicole_Zyon]

You are the absolute truth miss Swan. Your work should be made into books for children; in a language for children/ teenagers to innerstand. Because aswell as your work being needed for adults, it would benefit younger generations. Because as we know, and as you mention in your videos. Most, if not all traumas stem from childhood, and are developed upon (reinforced) or corrected back to natural state through implementing the necessary healing work as you suggest in all videos. I am 25 years old and wish that when I was in my teens/ early 20s that I had someone like yourself to help me within my growing up. But yet, I am glad to that I still found you at such an early age. You are amazing. Love to you sister. Xx

[@NataliaFerrariNataliaGFerrari]

This woman is saving me. Thank you forever, Teal!

[@OGTREYD3]

this is one of the best videos ever made

[@thoomm]

I was denying i might be in denial until i heard you go through all the signs of denial... now i am like "heck i cant deny these"

[@Beatrice_bb]

Every single human being should listen to you and understand you and act by and be a better human. Thank you Teal

[@ErinKubinek]

I have to say, discovering your chanel in the last 2 months has been really really helping me make sense of a lot of stuff. And especially understanding a recent painful dissolving of a friendship. Thank you for what you do.

[@Stavroupoliable89]

Teal. Sometimes I hate you so much. You are so right and you bring me so face to face with my issues and that hurts so much. I love you, but I hate you sometimes. Keep going. You are brilliant.

[@rob.dark7]

Stavroupoliable89 yeah seriously, she puts it your face and its like.. "oh shit! I do that! .. and that! wow I'm a piece of shit!"

[@basilbaby7678]

No one is sh*t for coping the best way they know how... Teal is just handing out opportunity to move on. :-)

[@franklinmarichal]

@@rob.dark7 The pain there is your feeling like you are not good enough as a result of not being "spiritual" or "positive" enough. Accept your darkness and don't make positivity a needed trait to be lovable and then you wont have to put yourself in that position where you police yourself into being positive when it doesn't serve you especially when it is coming from a place of you "SHOULD" be like this instead of naturally being like that as that is not being authentic.

[@MarsellaFyngold]

It's like chicken soup for the soul.....fresh out the pot. So nourishing. So scalding hot. Much ouch. Such burn.

[@johncox2912]

I know exactly how you feel! Truly facing ourselves and taking full responsibility for our lives is one of THE hardest things anyone can ever do. I love how she gives us these life changing videos then smiles, gives a little bow and says "Have a good week." Meanwhile, I'm like "AAAAIIIEEE!!!! Do you know what this means for my life!!!??!!!"

[@wouterdesmedt1736]

The message is getting clearer, the voice is getting stronger and the pictures are getting sillier! Mooaaar!!

[@Alison58539]

man whenever I go through something ugly(yesterday) I always get messages like this that find its way towards me that try help solve the situation. man aren't I blessed today, thank you so much.

[@DezMarivette]

I think what stood out to me the most was noticing body tension - that’s the signal that we are going into denial. Completely blew my mind with that one, and I will absolutely pay attention!!

[@sailyx3jupy]

I frickin love this. Just binge watching your videos tonight. They really resonate.

[@alaskawolves]

Amazing video! Even as one that regards emotions with a lot of presence, I notice that the old programming (socialization) still surfaces at times with denial and shame....the core of it being shame. Once I notice this is the case, I immediately state it out loud and it helps a lot to be in the presence of whatever trauma I experienced so it can be expressed. After expression, I feel relief and increased self love and I gravitate to an organic change of what I desire in essence from what the shame was serving me with. Just gotta be present with it and express it...that's all it wants and part of being human. Ever grateful!! Wishing joy and peace to all. 🙂

[@sarahkay8436]

Teal is so amazing at putting thing's into the perspective of the Seeker and leaving bread crumbs to back to the revealing and awareness of what is. Much Love Teal, Don't Give Up!! We are here, We are love, and love is all that is real.

[@emilyh6926]

wow, you've described the dynamic that I've been struggling with pretty much all my life between myself and some people very close to me! You can never actually escape from reality through denial. Whether directly or indirectly, you'll feel the affects of it's all the same. It's just even more painful and drawn out if you don't choose to face it head on.

[@DezMarivette]

I've watched this video in the past for entertainment and philosophy, but today I watched it to take notes. Thank you for the tools to grow stronger and connect with myself.

[@MadnomadM]

Denial is a coping mechanism and is sometimes needed for survival, but it will catch up with you. When the appropriate time arrives, it can be dealt with in a healthy way.

[@tiffanygordon3171]

Thank you for being so gentle

[@MrCdiaz71]

Teal Swan, I want to thank you for making this video. Listening to it caused me pain and even though I don't like it it's necessary to feel it and delve into it for my healing. A part of me is in resistance to what I heard however the other part sees this as spiritual surgery. It's necessary that I step out of denial and face what I'm denying no matter how painful it is for my healing and integration of all of me. 🙏

[@imogen.magenta]

Teal - You really are so good at this - hit the nail on the head every time.

[@thatsinpossible4967]

Superb video. Reminds me of this quote of yours, actually: *"Oneness is helping others out of darkness and denial and into connections with the light stuff."* -- ©2017(?) Love that one! :)

[@ShimmeringOneness]

Perfect timing! This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank-you, Teal!

[@anvisawant5042]

Teal right on time! I live with people who bombard the whole denial thing on me.

[@denisepoisson2907]

So informative and as usual amazingly articulate.

[@carlosgarza1701]

Damn. I'm in denial. Thank you. I found your channel yesterday and subscribed immediately. I got to work asking questions and doing the exercises in the other video. I can't wait to this one. Courage. I can't wait to take on the rest of the work in all the other videos. Thank you.

[@s.d774]

I think teal swan is really great and I wish more people understood her message. it's actually hard for me when people see her videos and scoff at them because she stands for a lot of what I believe in. I just don't understand how they can't hear what she is saying and know she is just trying to help people manage their emotions and live a better life! at least that is what I percieve.

[@kchannel9464]

Everyone is on their own path their own timing

[@lasmaausekle8123]

This video came at the perfect time for me to see, a true blessing. Thank you!!

[@JazzyShnazzy]

Thank you for this. Very deep and practical, well thought through and inspiring!

[@boomingbubblebus1470]

The sad thing is people in real denial will be in denial of this video. lol

[@Sood123456]

Peaches Macgyver hahahaha. Good point!! 😂

[@tiffanieboehler1568]

Peaches Macgyver EXACTLY! LOL. ✌💞🌞💫

[@boomingbubblebus1470]

You have a right to feel however you want too.

[@sizzling_rozes]

Peaches Macgyver haha yup that's the kick, even if you are the courier of a message on denial

[@skiyman]

not true, when you're ready you get the message

[@bmarcin2]

Teal PLEASE make a video about Willpower, Flowing and Compassion towards ourselves, specially in our spiritual path and breaking patterns PLEASEEEE. I love youuuu thank you for BEING

[@born993]

Teal, You are such a beautiful human being thankyou for coming here

[@ELMKTF]

God bless you Teal. I've been binge watching your videos. Thank you so much for helping others. I see I'm not the only one binge watching 😉

[@sundance8623]

Learn to feel, observe, introspective, listen to trusted people, ask questions, set boundaries, meet your needs, observe, have deep talk with trustworthy people, discover the shame, feel your own sensations, be willing to observe and let go the control ( coping mechanism)

[@invisioner8472]

This just hit RIGHT in the feels

[@PaigeSquared]

Teal, I would love for you to do a video on safe people and denial; how denial makes us an unsafe person to others. I am trying to learn how to recognize it. At the very least, I can pick up on when someone is avoiding truth vs pursuing truth, but it takes longer than I like.

[@analicewws1583]

Thank you so much for this video, Teal. Really valuable.

[@rachiefitz2919]

realised iv been in denial Teal you lil gorgeous light worker....our shadow angel from above!!! Thankyou. love n light to you. 💖💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

[@shaulinmehmeti4755]

Thank you teal, for all of your videos they always help me.

[@jamesthegrey2036]

Teal, thank you for sharing your insight. I've been watching your videos here and there, and I'm deeply humbled by the knowledge you share. Thank you.

[@jacoblemon2721]

Such a great video. Arrived at the most perfect time. Thank you Teal

[@aliveandblessed284]

I saw you on Ralph's channel and watched few of your videos.You're so wise and different.You're highly evolved

[@sabaessam8004]

Elevation even I was introduced to teal via Ralph they are real amazing

[@aliveandblessed284]

saba essam yesss 😃

[@TheHumanSoundSystem]

Yeah i love them both hahahah, I found ralph through teal!!! Hes more entertaining and she is more bad ass!!!!

[@sabaessam8004]

lol yes she is 😂😂

[@madalinaandrei2811]

ha ha ! Good luck! Now that you found Teal, your life has opened to a new chapter. Welcome in the group and congrats!

[@NatsPages]

“You are lying to yourself” that was a key for me ! Yaaasss big sis !!!!

[@NatsPages]

Shame is the heart of denial OMG TEAL WTF girl. Thank you for that. Everytime I would think of the sexual abuse I went through when I was younger with my family member. Anytime I think of it all these thoughts pop up so that I don’t “get upset with them” and instead upset with myself and I feel shame and fear and it legit burns. Uhg!

[@cm-yu6gu]

Oh teal, you've done it again Never fail to hit the nail on the head

[@fredlaval93]

Even though I’ve been doing Shadow Work for quite some time and felt like I was getting closer to my emotions I discovered during the night how resistant and in denial I am to shame in perticular and how it’s weakening me and even affecting the way I sleep. Your videos are so useful and precious thank you Teal ❤

[@blair2993]

This just explained my father, and me a little. Damn, Teal. Did it again.

[@MasterofPlay7]

big part of my self denial is shame and the consequences of how other people see me and the image I had will be shattered forever and no one would accept me anymore cuz I'm no good, impotent and useless

[@simplyspice7916]

I feel so guilty now because years ago my husband was trying to get me to listen to Teal's teachings and I legitimately thought he was looking at her in a sexual way and got super jealous and wouldn't let myself be open to her words... now 15 years later our marriage isn't great and i'm listening to this like i should have been back then. I'm sure he has some animosity at me for just now trying to get it together...

[@sunbeam9222]

I remember my 3x husband telling me about duality and black and white thinking and I was get out of here 😂 we're best friends now.

[@tissah4444]

We start healing when were ready. Dont add this to your already long list of shame. Also its been 2 years, so now youre far down your path of awakening :) 🫂

[@simplyspice7916]

@@tissah4444 Well said and very accurate 😊 Thank heaven!!🙌

[@rob.dark7]

Teal, thank you, I've been in denial about quite a few things and I woke up and this is the video that grabbed my attention. it's like the universe spoke through you to me in such a synchronous way, I can't deny it!😉

[@Emmlish]

Very good timing for this video. My issue of the day. Thank you :)

[@bettyboo8132]

Meet my mother. Down to the letter, she has described my mother. lol, it's really sad and detrimental. I barely survived. It's a sick environment to have grown up in.

[@Ann-ct9ek]

You are a life saver!!! Really you have a special unique transformative view. You you a true teacher.

[@nvinios1]

Rock on Teal!

[@angelsrosena]

"changing the meaning of behind an experience can be used to fuel denial..." this phrase matches perfectly to your video "Meaning, The Self Destruct Button". Also, we cannot let go of copy mechanism, we are creatures of habits and copy/paste, in other words, to let go one we have to start a new one to move on with our lives.

[@nobutterinhell]

Teal, this is an excellent video message, thank you.

[@spiritofecstasy8525]

This is so precious! I am so sorry that some individuals come on your videos and make such groundless and vicious derogatory remarks! It saddens me to no end, knowing the price you have paid for your knowledge! But these people are everywhere - seemingly the more valuable the video, the more of them there are. I am sure that there is no need for me to apologize to you for them, since you understand people and their reasoning so well. I am just sorry that I have not appreciated your videos and your efforts more than I have - until now. I knew you were on here, but had never really listened! I tried to shortcut things and move on quickly, like some of these negative people are doing!

[@kchannel9464]

Haters gon hate

[@kimberleydiann771]

Thank you again for your work. ✨

[@nomanchezsanchez2971]

thank you teal.

[@Flexwithsarah]

I loved this. Thank you, Teal x

[@stevejones7140]

thank you for showing me this

[@ThePhilosophyOfNature]

Thank You Teal.

[@Aidhab2222]

Teal!! thank you!!! for everything !!!

[@breanna8204]

I love the way you explain things Teal! The way you word your information really resonates with me and I'm able to absorb it very well. So glad I found you and I subscribed to you! Keep up the amazing content🦋

[@natclo9229]

Pretty much ticked everything off in this list about potential signs of being in denial Writing out lists and i still dont want to believe it

[@thiresia]

i cannot believe how much on time this video came up. i was trying to explain to my boyfriend that he is a state of denial and of course i met his denial. i couldn't make it like Teal so i just sent him the video.

[@zgwylie]

Hi Teal! You should open a donation box for yourself. I am going to buy all 3 of your books from amazon but they are on sale so you won't get as much profit from my purchase.... I just want to thank you in a way that will actually support you. Thank you so much for being so brave enough to express yourself on youtube, and thank you for being who you are ♡

[@jaceyneubauer4359]

sweet toxicity not everyone it's in it for the money

[@outofthedazeproductions8510]

I honestly would love to make new friends and simply talk to more people who are into this kind of stuff. Id love to learn & connect from different peopple! Friend applications are open. Love & Light to all!

[@Dana-zw7nw]

Edstin Auward same here. Not many in South Louisiana are on this path. Difficult to find like minded friends. [e-mail]

[@Sood123456]

Edstin Auward mostly all who are commenting here

[@madalinaandrei2811]

search Teal Tribe on Fb and you'll find a whole group of new friends.

[@EllyLugosi]

Edstin Auward OMG ME TOO!!! Lol 😂 I'm so lonely all the way in Australia. Anyone from Oz in this comment section??

[@outofthedazeproductions8510]

Thank you my friend! I appreciate it so much! I'm putting as much positivity, light as i possibly can. My life has changed the last few months.

[@Virvepaulina]

Thank you. It's just that.. To tell someone else they're in denial, I don't know how to break it to them in a gentle way where they might be able receive it 😬 if they're not receptive. We all have our blind spots but going through some of mine makes it possible for me to see some of other people's pitfalls more clearly

[@thedeadeye1111]

thank you... thank you.

[@raiderlove5923]

I know a few people who are in denial regarding things in their lives. They believe that they don't have issues to work on.

[@instinctivelychelsea2905]

I think this is why I had a lot of trouble with the secret ,I think its Ok for entry level stuff but I think it fuels denial ,I know if fueled mine for awhile.. teal brought me back to the actual reasons why Loa wasn't working for me ,at least not in the ways I was looking for it to help.

[@vivekg126]

Awesome.... you're a real spiritual mentor :)

[@michellebarrett8604]

could Teal please talk about the first stages of menopause. I love this video on denial I totally get this.

[@metalman5682]

I can help- First stage you put "men" "on" "pause" , then nature takes its course- Your in denial if you don't understand your body and how it functions.........Read a book !!!!!!

[@jothamhansen145]

JJ Hansen says thank you for the advice, well knowledgeable and fun

[@jothamhansen145]

Great

[@500iq6foot8]

Such an amazing toolkit

[@sidetracked2007]

So much shame. I avoided this for as long as I could. Thank you, Teal!!!

[@SoniaProteau-cj6tk]

We zone out their music while doing our daily tasks, we cope through music , it s a coping strategies

[@ShaunDobbie]

Life is soup and I'm a fork.

[@Yasumi_Hoshikawa]

bruhhh. well you seem to be stabbing at some hearty, chunky bits. -chopstick

[@zgwylie]

eat the bowl bro

[@ga3816]

@@Yasumi_Hoshikawa had me laughing 🤣

[@juris9546]

Suck it up

[@lucygregg7699]

I've been this denial person my entire life. And you can you really loose grip of reality like this.

[@MattAngiono]

I feel like most people around me are in denial about the scope of the environmental crisis we are facing. And i live in boulder, which acts like it is so aware! anyone else experiencing this? how do you cope with it?

[@lemurianchick]

What is this "crisis" that you are referring to? Please do not mention global warming.

[@corsicanlulu]

climate denier? lemurian chick?

[@1vengefulheart744]

Matt Angiono ....I'm sorry to say Matt, we might b goners anyway ...the nuclear accident in Japan was way worse than they're telling us...they just won't report it here.

[@MattAngiono]

It is more than global warming, which is definitely happening... There are many physical limits of the Earth that we are already crossing and the problem is far worse than being reported on the corporate media, which believes in infinite growth. Mostly, the crisis is within us for not finding new ways to join humanity in common goals that work in symbiosis with the rest of the biosphere

[@IzumrudaLight]

The global warming is BS, but there is no doubt that we did a lot of damage to our planet. Still, things are not as helpless as they seem. It really depends on your own choice. There are multiple timelines. The main two are: one leads to higher consciousness and higher dimension, and another one is Nostradamus's predictions. Destructive choices will lead one to experience the end of world, and the part of the world who in that vibe will help you with it and go with you. Animals that been hunted by humans already moving to higher dimensional Earth, that's why they seem to disappear from here. Once higher consciousness is established on Earth, healing of the planet will happen with its collective help.

[@padmaraman2796]

That's some high quality content, this channel have the potential to grow. Keep it up. Intro is a bit long though

[@hollywhole]

You're awesome!! Hello from an understanding human!!

[@mystorylife374]

Thank you for this awesome video! I really love your honest wisdom! I wish everyone a great day! :)

[@JohnGalt2028]

When in denial, I listen to Esteble -Feathers,what if music could cure everything?! But,my solar plexus is a mess...

[@tamelashafer8852]

This is profoundly true….

[@phionixrising7365]

Thankyou teal i really appreciate your information

[@MarsellaFyngold]

I loooove that she references her own videos and which ones exactly and not just "oh i talked about this in another video on my channel" like BITCH WHICH ONE THO?!?!?! I hate when youtubers do that. Bitch your channel's huge. I ain't got time to wade through them all. Thank you Teal for being SPECIFIC!!!!

[@missnoname8916]

My mother is in denial about a bunch of things and it really does hurt me, because I can see she is hurting herself. 😠😢

[@logicalthought4343]

I finished the Anatomy of Loneliness and I think you are brilliant. I will be getting the shadows before dawn soon!!! You are uplifting and have helped my understanding of my imperfections. Thank you and I appreciate you!!! :)

[@morficity]

Thank you for this. I was in a relationship with a person who was constantly in denial.

[@matthewaustin4946]

Can you put links into the text of the videos Teal mentions so we have a link path Awesome video thank you for sharing

[@alex-ander-13]

Wow. Thank you.

[@jjcooter]

I love you teal

[@alexanderwollgarten8157]

Thank You!

[@joyfaithlove7948]

Bless those who curse you. I love you.

[@srivasudhahemadribhotla1513]

I like how rationalization here is the photo of the person doing the math rationalization.

[@bessyhsn4218]

Thank you 🥰