How to Change the Way You See Yourself | Rock Thomas | Goalcast

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[@hakunamatata1352]

I wonder how he did as father to his own child/children.

[@DrSHAMINEABENSON]

Great

[@followthegamerftg8361]

If he was almost a millionaire how did he go back to living in his mums has after couple weeks

[@josieschwerdtfeger1200]

Proud of you sharing your heart felt truth. Did you know your Heavenly Father, who created you loves you unconditionally, He is so proud of you and has been with you your whole life. Watch ‘ The Fathers love letter’ in you tube. Bless you 😊

[@cosmicdoggo9296]

I m complitly opposite i was borned seekly so i was rase well like a flower i newer had to work i was newer toth to work hard all those things that kid needs to lern in order to ne able to funltion normaly as a grown up i newer had that i have spend a long time with a simple and most normal of thing ewen to this day but im awer of this and im trying to reprogram my self to get rid of my old habits and replace tham with new im glad that i got to her your story and i hope you are doing bether

[@ilos9883]

It broke my heart so much when in the end he almost cried. You can still see how much pain his dad caused him. Sometimes all you need is a ‘good job’

[@lachiew4465]

Ilayda Bayram he needs a hug

[@ilos9883]

@@lachiew4465 That as well

[@akamatsuken]

There are no two words in the English language more harmful than ‘good job'

[@georgei5235]

Kevin Henderson i am in the same position like him.i came from a poor family with very low income but i was raised with high moral standards a good work ethic. Dad was working a lot every day to provide for the family and i understand his decision. I am 29 years old dentist implanthologist and i guess that i am happy because i had a difficult life...now i can face all the problems in life and i can behave like a real alpha male. A man should be a man and to provide

[@tagunprice9762]

@@akamatsuken What? why?

[@nadiamuzola4437]

Any man can become a father but it takes a real man to be a dad

[@dempeanuttrees]

Switch dad and father

[@dempeanuttrees]

That what I’m saying

[@LvAnImAlZ]

That's from the start of Daddy's Home

[@joshuadixon7860]

it's not the other way around...to be a father requires sperm, to be a dad requires effort/love/time, etc.

[@dempeanuttrees]

Wrong

[@billymurdock6788]

I don't care what the hell you have gone through in your life. If you're on your deathbed and you can't tell your son that you're proud of him, you have failed as a father. Plain and simple.

[@antoniojelinic7754]

Not just as a father. As a decent human also.

[@bagginn]

Ahmed Hussain IM WEAK

[@rmvannuchi]

You know, I was actually thinking about his story for months... Then one day I thought : What if his father objective was to make him the toughest person he could be. Like... He wanted say to him "Look, son, no matter how hard you work, there will always be people who will treat you like shit". I mean, chances are slim, his father was probably a jerk. But if his objective was to raise a resilient kid, he succeeded. As Thomas said, all he knew was work

[@topdawg611]

Hello this story is fake

[@th3gov3rnm3nt]

If you are teased with the end goal but never reach it you will create half the foundation for the perfect human

[@sayhitosteve2785]

My father once told me that if all I could ever be is a trash collector then be the best trash collector that I could be, and he would be proud. I never needed words of encouragement in life again.

[@marie-heleneallesiardi4989]

Your father was right

[@wolfpackflt670]

Trash collectors get paid well.

[@francorodriguez8252]

The best trash collector In the world is probably cleaning oceans beaches etc. successful for sure

[@hummingbird9221]

I told all of my Kids the same thing. Also, do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life. I never had any support in anything when I was growing up and I swore my Kids would never face that.

[@marie-heleneallesiardi4989]

@@hummingbird9221 I understand what you mean. My sons'father never used to support them, always underating what they did and I did all I could to help them find their way and they are grateful now. I'm a teacher and always tell parents "trust your children"

[@johncbeer]

I appreciate good and kind people. But those who were abused by their caretakers, and yet chose to break the cycle instead of passing it on...man I don't know how to describe the amount of respect I have for them.

[@vipermadman]

John C this guy described my grandfather and my dads relationship. My dad in many ways was psychologically stuck at a 12 year old level of maturity due to that abusive relationship where love was always withheld. Till the day he died, he was broken in many ways. Sad for sure but he swore he’d never be like his father. I am forever grateful my dad broke that cycle with me. I’m plenty tough, work very hard, had many hard jobs, saved many lives, and I feel like I’m happier then most without all the machismo bullshit.

[@valenciasantos8236]

My parents are like that! They came from a poor country and got hit a lot. I have so much love and respect for my parents, and will feel forever indebted to their kindness.

[@abfab9516]

❤️

[@zacharyshortridge1645]

This comment should be the 1 with 5k likes

[@Redsky5436]

My father was terribly abused by his father and he chose to not abuse us.. he was an awesome father.

[@littlewhisper1045]

It takes more than DNA to be a parent.

[@karim03Gt]

@@RedRaaz you dont Have heart

[@karim03Gt]

@@RedRaaz good:)))

[@mysteretsym]

SkoglundTV Eminem beat mgks ass

[@mysteretsym]

Big time

[@KyrstOak]

@@nexusclarum8000 No, dude. Just no.

[@yuxhx2903]

Dude..I can see it in his eyes.

[@GymCritical]

Fact. This man has been through a lot. Good for him.

[@commiedoggo2439]

But I can't see it in his eyebrows oh wait

[@SikanderAli007]

same

[@spaceduniverse]

@@commiedoggo2439 oml😂😂😂

[@midoalfaki2860]

@@commiedoggo2439 not funny

[@mattmoves5920]

I feel like I want to hug this guy. Childhood neglect is such a horrible thing.

[@rockthomas6937]

Thanks Matt … my dad had a tough childhood and did his best !

[@Usedtobepg]

@@rockthomas6937is that really you?

[@arandompanda1349]

The dad did exactly something jordan peterson perfectly put into words : "if you want to hurt someone you don t punish them for doing something wrong, you punish them for doing something right."

[@kubistonek]

@Dr Phil thats not really what it means

[@rafaelramos2730]

Thats deep

[@shiksol8394]

@@kubistonek shhhhh. Dr Phil knows what hes talking about

[@arandompanda1349]

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[@40kq]

@@kubistonek yes it does

[@Alwleed106]

When he said "nothing that I can think of" my heart just shattered 💔

[@nicbrusca8452]

ALDBY* same

[@sleyaraze8916]

Same

[@craedenbearden8043]

What an asshole

[@toffeethecat3159]

Same... :-(

[@kimberwolf3090]

I almost cried

[@r.a.28]

4:04, he's got tears in his eyes. That hurt. Really. Imagine getting no appreciation from the person you've done everything for. The person whose acceptance mattered the most, didn't care enough.

[@alanair7019]

Omfg what a looser

[@r.a.28]

@@alanair7019 Depends on how you define "loser". Also, Loose and Lose are completely different words. Just saying.

[@am2scg269]

Don't even know the spelling of loser read the dictionary or read more books

[@spartacus4688]

@@alanair7019fuck you little bitch

[@phoenixup1293]

Alan Air, everyone knows you are but don't compare others to yourself

[@patriot1236]

I love that quote, "If you do what is easy, life will be difficult. If you do what is difficult, life will be easy."

[@mon0light]

it's kinda counterintuitive, because doing difficult things is difficult, not easy, therefore how can it make your life easy and sometimes it's so hard to see farther and wider, above those difficult things

[@firstqueen6839]

I agree

[@spugbgobparewants]

When his father was dying and he said, “Dad, has there ever been a time that you have been proud of me?” and he said no, that broke my heart

[@apollo-4202]

Akidawesomeness I feel u man

[@juliam.426]

Pull the plug!

[@mustashride]

@@juliam.426 with the quickness of a whip!

[@melody-ec9ex]

Shino excuse me?! ;-; stop. Cutting. Onions. Or turn down the heat, my eyes are sweating!

[@noluv7676]

hes an actual sociopath

[@truthfactors9958]

God please continue to watch over this man.

[@shahrzadketabollahi5496]

Truth Factors Amen🙏🤲

[@RobertMichaelTodd]

there is no god, life is only with yourself.

[@slobbymonk]

@Tiaan22 _ Lol

[@atomicwinter530]

Don’t discredit his achievements like that

[@BRONX.98]

@@RobertMichaelTodd i think like you are your own god

[@shinnyii]

“The most important relationship, is with yourself” -My 6th grade teacher

[@firewalkwithme4331]

Masturbation

[@relax-cg4gv]

Your teacher was 100% single when he or she said it haha

[@mahayounis9324]

IPlay Games i have three friends me myself and I

[@vasutachangthong9595]

@Danny Danko no its not I think it is vet good, because when you are told to put others before yourself so much you feel that you don't matter as much

[@user-eg6bd4dt6b]

IPlay Games No, it's with Allah.

[@florinmarc5510]

I play with my son almost every day and when I get home from work he jumps into my arms with joy. I am the happiest father in the world.

[@marie-heleneallesiardi4989]

When my sons were little boys they did the same and one evening their father said to me: "no need to wait for me behind the door it gets on my nerves. When I get back home I want to have time to undress lay down my things and blow my nose." I'm about to leave him.

[@florinmarc5510]

@@marie-heleneallesiardi4989 Godless people have no love for anyone, they only love themselves.

[@marie-heleneallesiardi4989]

@@florinmarc5510 I will always blame myself for not realizing he took some kind of pleasure putting down those who were not like him. Fortunately I never forget to tell my sons they are the best thing that happened to me and I love them and I am so proud of them. They made me less selfish. When you have children you should live for them first.

[@sam_rod76]

My brother in law works two jobs so that my sister can stay home to raise their children.. yet he always makes time to play with his kids. I truly admire that about him.

[@marie-heleneallesiardi4989]

@@sam_rod76 your sister is a lucky girl my husband hardly took time to play with his sons.

[@americanlunitic3834]

This just broke my heart

[@piercedixon9087]

AmericanLunitic 383 this made me think about how fortunate I am

[@Raven-Marie25]

AmericanLunitic 383 same

[@karastoumas1291]

same

[@2sikwepthu921]

Thousandth like

[@bryanwoods3373]

I'm just happy most of the commenters realize how abusive and horrible his childhood was. When I saw this on Facebook a while back, most of the comments were about how he should feel lucky his father taught him such a great work ethic. No consideration to the fact that his work ethic was solely a cry for his father's love. The man had time to sit in the car but couldn't watch the hockey games. That tells you everything you need to know about how his dad saw his son.

[@dimpleza]

Had a stepfather like your dad. His favorite thing to say was that I was too stupid to tip over a bucket. I too moved out when I was 17. Now I have children of my own and I vowed to try my best in giving them confidence and to make sure they love and believe in themselves. The other day my eight year old came in the kitchen and just told me what a lucky and happy child he is and how much he loves me... I got so teary, bless him... I think I'm on the right track... Much love and happiness to you!

[@themonrovian8441]

That's the best!

[@amirjalilifard8743]

Much love and happiness to you and your family

[@williamhernandez2531]

Idk why but I feel like this is a r/thathappened moment

[@myrabbitryandbackyardhomes512]

My step father sounds like yours. He belittles me, cusses me out, anf calls me names. He also physically abused me, and assaulted me just a WEEK AGO. I want to press chargers but I'm afraid to because I'm afraid he'd hurt me.

[@myrabbitryandbackyardhomes512]

@ayan lol?

[@Victor-kt6qn]

Father's like these are more common than people think.

[@mundanemonday7091]

true

[@waituntil]

Every 4th father deadass

[@edwardbarraza4848]

So normal lol this guy is just victim

[@moroccanfootballchannel9015]

My dad left us a few years ago I had to take care of my family while also caring about my grades it was hard especially that I am an immigrant in Croatia I tried my best to get good grades that some day I can give money to my mum coz we get like 2000 kunas a month which is very little

[@vitustillebeck4965]

My grandpa was kind of like the man's dad. When I look at the way he tells the story and the way he behaved as a child to get his dad's attention. I saw my dad in him. My dad always worked hard. And therefore he gave me a great work ethic. Edit: currently I am 12 years old and I'm washing windows. It's not much but it's a start.

[@MPG-ub5ke]

That father envied his son's success. He died poor, bitter & in debt, so he couldn't bring himself to admit that his son had done better.

[@justseekingtruth3998]

No the father resented him from birth, that he had to provide for him. No doubt his own father was that way to him. You can't teach what you don't know and you can't give what you don't have. His father was, sadly an empty shell, hard and mean. His son finally found someone to teach him otherwise, and ran with it. The father never did, sadly.

[@elongatedmusk2537]

I had a grandfather like this who envied my father's success and was incapable of showing him the love and respect he deserved from his father. Now my dad is bitter and depressed but he is determined to never treat me and my siblings the way he was treated by my grandfather.

[@HayderAli5786]

It could be many reasons, we will never know.

[@andres.e.]

Do not overprotect your child and do not crush your child's spirit.

[@gamer39985]

Andrés E. It's good to have a balance.

[@andres.e.]

Yes! It's hard at times, though.

[@Zombrii91]

I had the opposite of overprotective parents...they didn't care for my or shown it. I left my home when i was 16 and moved in with my GF. I'm 26 and never heard from them again.

[@jyoung6255]

I'm 11 and I have to deal with what he was talking about and my mom passed my dad isn't with us and I live with my grandma.

[@jyoung6255]

It's really hard

[@superbro2058]

God bless this man, he earned his life the hard way

[@colinjohnson4799]

"If you do what is easy, life will be difficult. But if you do what is difficult, then life will be easy." I love that quote

[@pluutoop]

Life is not easy for him No way

[@lisatillett4960]

His father was crazy !!! plain and simple. It just goes to show you that everyone should not have children and I wouldn't marry his son because he wasn't raised in the house of love so imagine what kind of husband he will be?

[@colinjohnson4799]

@@lisatillett4960 that man is amazing. He has changed lives of hundreds. I don't think it matters what home you grew up in. It matters what your mindset is and if you're willing to change it.

[@blessed250]

Beautiful message and words

[@colinjohnson4799]

@Persis you dont want to force things, that's not the way to go about it, well depending on what it is. But that quote means that the harder you work for something the easier it will get, remember there's always two sides to a hill, the uphill part, that is hard to get up and the downhill part that you can just glide down

[@licksnkicks1166]

That was my father! I was absolutely afraid for my life when my dad was around. He never came to one of my dance recitals. He never really interacted with us as a father. My father used to beat us. My brother sexually abused me. I left at 16. What a very sad beginning to my life. Now I am my best friend, I love me for me! Finally I am almost at peace with what has gone on in my life.

[@XSCAPE-eg2dl]

licks n kicks , so sorry that you also had such a childhood . Sending love even as a stranger 😊❤ . You matter ! May all that is good , wonderful and right find you in this life ❤.

[@licksnkicks1166]

@@XSCAPE-eg2dl thx so much. Support from anyone including strangers is always good! 🇨🇦❤️

[@licksnkicks1166]

@@dunkbanga6749 thankyiu for your kind words! 🇨🇦❤️

[@marie-heleneallesiardi4989]

We are stronger than we think we are

[@marie-heleneallesiardi4989]

@@licksnkicks1166 true. When you can't find love with your parents you find it in other people.I love my sons unconditionally and so do they.

[@jimin4life797]

When a stranger gives u more love than ur own blood parent.

[@derianschmidt7252]

That wasn't the point of the story.

[@kiluvoileib7756]

@@derianschmidt7252 So what??

[@kazutokirito2988]

@@derianschmidt7252 he/she never said it was

[@succmybanana8182]

Ik so sad but,amazing

[@Alejandro1313sixx]

I felt that

[@eris4216]

When his father said “Nothing that I could think of” I cried

[@duke2]

Nice

[@cindysu9185]

me too smh what a dick

[@PiLOTbby]

When I saw you and realized your cute I cried

[@BlueHavana81]

This was days even after paying that scumbag narcissists debts off! The sad thing is the father would have had a father like this also going back some generations and he is repeating the pattern. Thankfully, Rock has broken that cycle and that will hopefully not poison his future family tree!

[@GMoney-B]

Shafe Jawad I was just going to say that too. Piece of shit only thinking about himself and the lack of what he has. If you are going to be a destructive hurricane. Do it over away from others till you figure yourself out so you don’t drag down other people too.

[@evaalordiahmusic]

*Many Parents are bad at Parenting because thats how they themselves were parented. Some others are just going through Life projecting their problems on their children and not even seeing them there. It is really such a thing, our childhood years are the most formative and we carry along a lot of things from the past. This story just helped prepare me for so much including parenting which I am super excited for. Thank you so much Rock Thomas for sharing so much of you in such a selfless way!*

[@shishidoseijuro7770]

True .

[@nocakepeople6506]

@@shishidoseijuro7770, your mom's true.

[@shishidoseijuro7770]

I can see your age clearly by commenting that joke bud .

[@Fran_Fuentes]

My grandparents had 13 children and if one misbehaved they would beat all of them on their legs with a stick until they bleed. When my mom is nervous she touches the scars behind her knees, she told me that she promised to God she would never make her kids experience that pain. I'm 24 and none of my parents have ever hit me (except once when she threw a Chancla at me because I was being a hurtful brat), so yes a lot of those neglectful parents had abusive ones but you always can be better than them but that requires work and not a lot of them want to do that.

[@nocakepeople6506]

@@shishidoseijuro7770, I could see your mom's age.

[@LeeLeeOuiOui]

This is my narcissistic mother, but today, I say, I Am Worthy.

[@rred8674]

Say it again.

[@LeeLeeOuiOui]

@Ashley C thank you. We are strong 💚

[@LeeLeeOuiOui]

@John Adams sounds like projection, but thanks for the music ✌️

[@Tquila.Bottles]

@John Adams sounds like you might be a sociopath lol

[@icreatemyoutcome3087]

This is a very amazing story...you turned all that disappointment into something positive

[@declaytor]

I create my outcome pretty sure is successful today because of a strong work ethic

[@carsonwhitfield309]

It’s sad knowing that not everyone has it well to love in a great atmosphere. Some live in areas with abusive people, lack of necessities, etc.

[@Abdullah-qk9li]

i mean not to be a asshole but, he probably got paid for this and faking the cries and shit any anyone who got triggered im kidding

[@OhHGeesy]

I create my out come

[@Mokaigo]

But, how can we teach the children around us to do so?

[@sub7se7en]

This is the opposite kind of video I was expecting. I thought the thumbnail meant this dude owned horses and he endeavored not to eat until he fed the horses under his care. Lol total 180 from what I got.

[@creeplife2802]

Lmao, I forgot about them bitch ass horses. Good video, true shit.

[@narnzipan]

😂

[@lelaa807]

subseven n

[@SuperSaiyan32]

Lmao same dude

[@frost_reaper3625]

I thought it was a video about illegal slavery and hiw he was one lol

[@ehsanalmassi453]

He needs a ted talk

[@choochietrixie9352]

So weird my parents were raised with 8 siblings and 11 siblings and they were told children were to be seen and not heard. It was the only thing anyone knew

[@sashank506]

@Ehsan agreed

[@vincentskat-rrdam4857]

He need a dad

[@eternity-308]

.. not funny.

[@prisonmike6886]

@@eternity-308 he wasn't joking lol

[@user-hx7mi7ml8u]

So sorry!! Your dad was suffering from so many insecurities that he took it out on you. You deserved so much praise and love. ❤️

[@mikeywilson1198]

You may not believe me when I say that I’ve watched this video everyday from the time I found it. It’s changed my life by turning me from a lazy bastard who can’t stop procrastinating to a hard working person who can’t work hard enough. I’m very appreciative for this mans story and I really don’t think I would’ve changed my ways unless I saw this video last year.

[@uhohava379]

Michael WTP this vid was made in February of this year. It could've been a year. No hate. Just telling you.

[@mikeywilson1198]

Ava Lps yea I know but since last year I’ve picked myself up

[@dextro4863]

This Man is amazing , I agree.

[@poison2285]

I’m dead af High key I hope you fuck up Maybe it would make me feel like I’m not the only one

[@justayoutubecommentator3059]

@@zarmadyl5038 hey me too

[@Rose-pz8es]

Many parents killing child confident and don’t realize it breaks child life as he/she grow...i been in same what you been in.....

[@purplelovesyou8667]

obviously you don't understand the fucking point of the story.

[@pineapplesbringpain5243]

Rose Rose learn some grammar

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

Rose Rose my mom would do it intentionally. Said I deserve a life of pain, but then again she is a narcissist, psychopath

[@schoaibhodjat4924]

u probably grew up without parents

[@shshshshshsh6037]

if his father did not that , he wouldnt be here today

[@enlightenedboy]

Off topic.... He's the only guy I've seen who looks good without eyebrows

[@CutTheCrapAndKissMe]

Jesse B yup. I agree. He look ruggedly handsome.

[@user-ie6tw6ps5h]

How about Mr. Clean

[@anthonyjackson2987]

@@user-ie6tw6ps5h LMAO

[@user-qd4mb5wi5m]

Jesse B haven’t seen Jeffrey star then

[@mahayounis9324]

Jesse B he has but he’s so blond!! That u will not gonna be able to see them

[@lillianroux2747]

Nurturing your children will make them a better person. Don’t let them go thru life alone.

[@jillianjacques4190]

People make fun of this extremely positive frame of mind. Honest to god if you just let yourself take it seriously EVERYTHING falls into place.

[@kiwasamuels463]

Aggreed, all my friends douted this positve fame of mind but here i am makeing more money and cool opatunitys!

[@tonymorales428]

Jillian Jacques God*

[@jillianjacques4190]

@@tonymorales428 thanks so much.

[@jillianjacques4190]

@The Awesome Pie126 isn't all of this a joke?

[@thejackandtomshow2776]

Bad grammar

[@valizeth4073]

You don't become a father by having a child, you have to earn the title of father. Edit: This got more likes than expected, glad people agreed :).

[@keitheowest8578]

Brexit Monger Couldn't agree more, friend.

[@erikdvm8029]

Couldn't have been said better.

[@ballisticbadger9955]

Except that you actually *DO* become a father by having a child.... The definition of father is "a man in relation to his child or children". The only case in which the word father is a title is if the man having it is a priest.... I know what you meant by your comment but It's still wrong....

[@valizeth4073]

@@ballisticbadger9955 I think you're missing the point

[@ethenfl]

Ballistic Badger You get the name of father when u have a kid. You have to earn the name of dad.

[@mlpman246]

"A little bird told me about real estate". *Whispers* "It's free real estate"

[@pulse2k780]

@Spuzva Rahil its a meme

[@kazutokirito2988]

@Spuzva Rahil it's a meme bud

[@JuliuSeizure]

r/wooosh

[@desu38]

𝙸𝚝'𝚜 𝚊 𝚖𝚎𝚖𝚎 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚍𝚒𝚙!

[@martinalbeattie1383]

Eric Iverso I DID THAF

[@gerafinali4384]

I wish they didn't put this tacky music. His words are powerful enough, no need to convince us.

[@melaar9496]

Agreed. It was distracting.

[@joshmoran2987]

Yeah hey, makes it feel “cheap” some how

[@kaydykes9916]

Yeah… The music was kind of distracting

[@worldpeace0266]

Lol... thank you!.. yes!

[@DelasVC]

Would have actually been more powerful to let them stand on their own - at least at some point in the video! This background music always seems to let the processing of a video like that appear cheap since somebody thought it was necessary where it‘s not..

[@underthestarsoverthemoon4259]

*nothing that I can think of* Really dad????? REALLY??????????? This man did it all. And his father couldn’t see it.

[@johnhardin4358]

Your father's approval is like the Little Rascals goat cart. Hang a carrot on a string in front of the goat and he pulls your cart trying to get it. He will never get a bite of that carrot, but the cart is always pulled. Sort of like the hamster wheel of a job.

[@qoaeramv]

Maybe he was blind

[@michaelcera9104]

@@qoaeramv wow hahahaha

[@justine8387]

I can't think of a sadder thing for a child to hear.

[@thefunkydunks2717]

I feel for this guy on too many levels. I have no memory of my dad playing with me or caring either. Still don't and I'm now 26 and Father to a beautiful 3 year old girl. At least she will always have me there.

[@acroracing]

People like you make me happy. 👍🏻

[@gazatkinson5288]

Same brother except I've got a beautiful boy who fills me with sheer joy.

[@antonio030562]

Same...taught me the best life lesson how not to be like him. I love my 2 daughter's to death

[@Alphacentauri819]

Check out the Personal Development School...it addresses the core wounds and helps with reprogramming. It helps so you can reset your subconscious and parent your child in a conscious way, so they have a secure attachment. It’s so powerful. I wish you all the best!

[@funky-landscaper]

Sounds like he was talking about my dad’s relationship with me up until I was about 25. I stopped paying so much attention to his abusive behavior about then. I told him in the kindest way that I just wouldn’t stick around and listen to it. No one should have to. Also he started respecting my personal space once I asked him to. I used to say, “give me an arms length please “. He was always a close talker and in my face. Funny how 6 feet back seems to be just what the doctor ordered these days. I’m 49 now and have what I call a pretty good relationship with him.

[@CanadianTaken]

Probably the best 8 minutes I have ever spent on the internet

[@ryan2-518]

I saw an 8 minute meme compilation that was pretty good

[@onlinegamerz2451]

thank you

[@snipplez8657]

This. Fucking this.

[@sw-nk6sf]

"You can change your programming" Amen

[@latoyiab79]

Hurt people hurt people. Sounds like his dad had demons he didn't deal with. No matter your age, the foundation (childhood), plays a huge role throughout your life. It's a fight loving yourself if your upbringing was anything but loving.

[@blessed250]

Agree 100% if you dont learn then no one else will I had to teach myself that and if you dont love yourself no one can love you because you don't respect the love they try to offer. In order to love you have to have and be loved. Thanks for what you wrote I liked it.

[@elias6113]

Amen

[@michaelegharevba2231]

Facts! Childhood is literally what builds most of a person’s character

[@elias6113]

NOHOPEFORHUMANITY tell us

[@rogervoke5179]

Loving yourself is all important

[@mikemaceda3222]

The first 7 years is what defines a human child.

[@Mike-hw5jp]

But what about alien children? We are defined in the incubator

[@erenjager1155]

Wrong.

[@upstate5101]

It does not defines you, it programs you because of what u learnt/know during that time. All of that can change tho if you know how to achieve the warrior mindset; you'll know how to handle every emotional stress.

[@suhailshuaib8092]

@@upstate5101 exactly. He just said you can change the programming.

[@Bussyhandler]

Shrek Norbert omg r u ok?? Stay strong❤️ things will get better

[@Hyperions92]

Developing strong self esteem is a tough process but its an important one.

[@multimillionaire2744]

Brian Tobias you’re everywhere lol

[@Hyperions92]

MULTIMILLIONAIRE Haha I know :P

[@danielnoneya9111]

Ah not gonna try to offend you here, but you're using the wrong word. Its not self-esteem but confidence. Self-esteem is admiring ones self and it is completely overused in our society. The problem with millenials was the fact that they were raised with having a high self-esteem from participation trophies and etc. So now they don't know whats it's like to fail and are completely narsisitic. So again not trying to offend you here, but try to use self confidence from now on because your kinda apart of the problem in our future generation's success.

[@jamesmurray5345]

I think your confused about this video, his dad clearly blured the line between being a good dad and a someone who didn't have any idea of how to bond with a child. (100% you don't have kids do you?) Self esteem come from support and encouragement, not being smashed at such a young age, he wouldn't understand why his dad was being like that.

[@itsomar855]

If you don’t have the right mind set become rich is ten time harder

[@shaunaleessnackidies]

It’s so hard not to desire human approval. I choose to believe who God says I am and what I’m capable of instead. And yes speaking positive words out loud and even scriptures really help.

[@RAJsWork]

*Goosebumps overload tear jerker*

[@TECHNOxSPARTAN]

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[@DeidresStuff]

Why do people have kids if they don't want to interact with them?

[@brikenakay3142]

People like that don’t really have children. They have sux. Children are simply consequences that they most likely resent. It is really sad for their children, their partners and even themselves because they throw away the chance to experience true joy and pure love.

[@cringeman4199]

To be slaves.

[@denisedspain7991]

It’s not always a choice. Many people have mental issues and many of these people were raised by people that didn’t teach them empathy and care! His father had issues.

[@globalsaturation7333]

To get money from the government for the kids

[@begformeowcy]

I don’t every remember ever having a conversation with my parents or being comforted by them or anything. When my mother wasn’t yelling the house was dead quiet. No dinner time conversations or anything with my parents. So I’ve often wondered why they even had me if they never wanted me.

[@abomohammad41]

My father is my best friend He gave me everything love , attention , and we had alot of fun , he never beat me or being a salty with me He helped me to work hard in my medical college, and now i’m a doctor

[@owsap]

didnt know arabs do that

[@raniarouis6783]

Your father is an exception

[@ryuki122]

I was abandoned by my father........I only had a step father who verbally abused me....he was insensitive just like the father in the video.......... I have never played ball with him or hugged him only called him father once........NOT ALL OF US HAVE THE IDEAL CHILDHOOD. :-(

[@iamwottwott4897]

Abo Mohammad your Lucky.... i havnt even met my father... and my poor excuse for a foster father just abused me...and told me to do jobs..... my mother is dead so yeah! Your lucky.

[@sundusibrahim8798]

Your lucky to have a dad. My dad abandoned my family, married 3 other women and had more than 4 kids with them. He never gave us money to support ourselves so my mom had to work. He never came to any thing, was never there for the hard times and didn't help me when I was going thru depression. He didn't save me from suicidal thoughts. He's a piece of shit and I feel sorry for my mum. She's still married to him but she won't divorce him since she doesn't want to put pressure on us if we had to choose between living with my mom or dad. Don't take parents for granted cuz one day they'll be gone.

[@intrepid5566]

I can't believe this guy described my early life with an alternate ending... I found my mentor when my son was born, my son. I raised him by myself and tried to instill all the values I needed and he became incredible! I watch him and try to emulate him. However, I still see myself as a failure no matter how much I tell myself differently. Im 50 and I want better for me. This guy is awesome!

[@rockthomas6937]

Hey intrepid thought I would say hi and encourage you to continue the journey of transformation it’s never to late to change the programming

[@michaelphongmitchell6113]

I never had a mentor. My father always told me to do something else after failing once. He never ever encouraged me to try again. He basically told me to give up and not try when I failed. I still feel that way.

[@remuvs]

I was really hoping his father said "I have always been proud of you."

[@pixelfire6121]

Life isnt like the movies

[@nccivilian]

Me too

[@nh-uu3cs]

lol at least he was being honest though

[@ludivineblais8066]

@@nh-uu3cs honest is overall good but there's a way to still be honest and not be an unmitigated asshole while stating your opinion. What a shitty father......

[@GameChanger597]

His real father, God, his creator, his true supporter, has always been proud of him. This guy he calls "dad" was just a sperm donor and didn't deserve to have a son as good as him. But God is proud of him. God is his true Father.

[@CantEscapeFlorida]

Cut my family out of my life permanently 5 years ago. Best decision of my life. I dont stick around and keep getting abused.

[@dragutintheslav-veliki790]

Your whole family or?

[@JB-wn4wb]

Alyssa, I did the same thing. It hurt at first. I still cry at night sometimes. But I realized I wasn’t doing it out of spite, I realized I just didn’t have the emotional capacity to deal with their judgment and them interfering with my life in all areas. I decide who comes into my life nowadays, I decide how much I disclose about my life now to anyone. I choose who gets to walk along side me in life now. And if one day I decide to let my family back into my life, they will know my boundaries and they will respect them and I will demand respect from them. Or they will just get cut off, and not just them, anyone who passes my boundaries on purpose is not family/friend nor someone who has your best Interest. Keep sticking up for yourself. I had to do major counseling because of my family. They almost ruined my marriage and my career.

[@50shekels]

Alyssa Stevens It depends. I did the same thing, and then I came back because I didn’t want the rest of my time on this earth, that I could spend with my family, to be without them. You only have so much time, and there is definitely NO time for pride

[@dragutintheslav-veliki790]

@@50shekels Everything you've just said has reminded me of what my grandma has once said to me (when I started to cut off my family and parents out of my life) "Never let your pride to impoverish you" Those words made me rethink my life for a long time, I still do sometimes when life is being hard on me

[@TheMJT515]

I totally understand. And agree.

[@leonorlopezlacanina1319]

I cried while watching this. I've been always told I can be better, I have to change, I'm a bad influence, I am fat. My parents were never home and when they were they never said they were proud of me. I learnt to do everything on my own, I never asked for help, because i didn't feel like i deserved it...now that I'm older they try to be nice to me, but all their comments and their judgements are still inside my head. So when they say something nice I just don't believe it....

[@lucyrat]

You're doing great, You don't need to change, I'm don't really know you..,, I don't know what you look like but you're perfect the way you are, I'm so sorry you had to do things alone, You deserve help. Sorry this wasn't much though.

[@leonorlopezlacanina1319]

@@lucyrat trust me it does help, more than you think. Thank you for taking the time to reply. Have a nice day ❤❤

[@lucyrat]

Leonor López lacañina you welcome I hope u have a great day too.

[@alwinjoy9007]

I had also cried... By watching it... Let's ressurect Leonor.... I don't know what you want... Believe.. Nvr like me... ..you can... Best Wishes....

[@adilmuhammad1653]

It's OK

[@DustGamezX]

It is important for a father to teach his son to be disciplined, but it is also important to show love and that you're there to support your son.

[@komsanims]

This guy right here deserves all the happiness and fortune in the world :)

[@tetranide9629]

Wow, this appeared in my suggested videos and I clicked on it thinking “why not I’m bored”. I have worn labels such as introvert, untalented, unworthy, unimportant, shy, not good enough, and many more. I’ve used these for so long and also used them to perceive myself. I’ve never tried to think of “good” labels. One thing I’ve learned from this video is that we should always focus on our strengths and talents rather than our weaknesses and false identity. This video touched my heart and definitively changed the way I think about myself. Thank you for this wonderful, inspiring, motivational speech. 💛

[@galaxyoldacc483]

iEatPastaSometimes I have too worn labels like untalented, unimportant, and not good enough

[@jyoung6255]

I go through the same thing but I mainly chose your comment to say I like you name

[@vladimirputin9414]

U awesome

[@excalibur4856]

You literally just described my own experience word for word

[@sanderlooij1213]

can you tell me how it going whit being positief i hope its going wel now after a week

[@Divineshot]

Always stay positive. 👊🏽

[@llliiillliii3545]

Except this is a fantasy for the large majority of people. "I had absolutely nothing, until one day I thought I'll get into real estate... then this guy steps into my office". If you have your own office and the money to just "get into real estate" on a whim, you're nowhere near struggling.

[@max-marketing9384]

If someone can overcome this. They can overcome everything!

[@br1an_235]

I try to stay positive but everything or mostly everything turn negative so i gave up on being positive. So now i just always think that nothing good will happen and i cant do anything significant. Its a bad way of thinking but it makes me feel better than hoping for something that wont happen.

[@Divineshot]

@@br1an_235 Keep your head up, Brian.

[@wendijoe2793]

@@br1an_235 why?

[@ratty5]

I can relate to parents not coming to school events. My dad didn’t even know how old I was when I asked him to come to my graduation dinner. He told me, “I’ll go to the next one.”

[@user-un2qr4uu3t]

Sometimes the mentors are the ones who give you that final push to establish your persona

[@holo6883]

Or Igor

[@obiwankenobi6655]

People like this make me realise how lazy I really am sometimes

[@pride_mitochondria3921]

Ikr. I though my dad having me lay concrete and carry up shingles was rough. Yeeesh.

[@aguspuig6615]

Yeah try fighting from the lowground sometimes

[@Ernie_Skywalker123]

But like where were u when the rebels were there

[@charlottebingham4103]

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[@ohmygosh4761]

Dude I was thinking the same thing about me not you. There's just no excuse

[@DrippyPiece]

My heart smashed when he said his father wasn’t proud of him even on his deathbed. I couldn’t be happier for this guy that he was able to find happiness and success in his life despite his own fathers lack of help and support, and downright abuse. And it makes me feel for his father in a way, I can imagine the type of life he must’ve had as well.

[@susancraig4637]

"The words that follow 'I am' follow you." Thank you.

[@ΑλέξανδροςΧριστόπουλος-ψ1χ]

I don`t know you, but I love you man.

[@joshmilam4441]

Αλέξανδρος Χριστόπουλος I don’t know you, but I love you

[@NikkiSchumacherOfficial]

Love you too Alex.

[@msgbbx1860]

Και εγω τον αγαπω

[@emmanuelsebua1445]

Well said. Sometimes the stones thrown our way, become the building blocks we need. Inspirational

[@AnabolicArchives]

" *_IM RUGGEDLY HANDSOM AND I'M PROUD_* " "LOUDER SPONGEBOB!"

[@19SantaMariaValley13]

🤣🤣🤣

[@WalterWhite-hv7mk]

this comment is great lmao

[@miahj3851]

Why is peace so hard to get i actualy want his dad and his peace

[@thomasjefferson6975]

Never would have I imagined Mr. Clean had such a sad backstory

[@micah7296]

Never knew Thomas Jefferson knew who Mr. Clean was

[@emileverhagen2252]

I CANT BREATHE

[@tacoking5472]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@kenaijennings108]

Kinda fucked up but funny😂

[@DialthebarSoap]

Thomas Jefferson looks like mr.Clean ain’t clean

[@catherinele1580]

Watching this hit me so hard! so much emotion ..the mentor was godsend im so glad they crossed paths!! So powerful

[@goldybays8654]

Never fully judge somebody without hearing their story.. you can hate them, you can praise them, you can forget them, but you can't understand them. The only person you'll ever fully understand within time is yourself.

[@corbinfobbs6409]

True true that's the real Norm know yourself before and better than trying to know others.

[@goldybays8654]

@Mia Meow I didn't say we'd ever fully understand ourselves. I said were the only ones to have the ability to.

[@corbinfobbs6409]

@Mia Meow your intellect will be your down fall. There's more to this life than a big brain add some heart 💓 and honest understanding.

[@mohammedferozkhan2533]

insane comment bro thumps up

[@corbinfobbs6409]

@Mia Meow if it helped cool but I've found myself coming and going over things multiple times before really understanding. Lead with heart not brain make your reality what ever you want it to be

[@fhou6732]

He may be your father, but he ain’t your daddy

[@tijnhoozemans]

F Hou THANK YOU

[@brookewalters2998]

*This is from Guardians of the Galaxy*

[@hasanibullard2035]

Brooke Walters we know

[@mrpoopybutthole3077]

Nice

[@encryptedaqua]

F Hou nice

[@camdengraves1442]

I don’t even remember clicking on this video but I’m glad I did.

[@81klong]

This story really resonates with me. I often look at my young daughter and it makes me want to cry for the little girl I was at her age. The things I had to deal with at such a young age make me want to hug my daughter so tight. I love that both my kids have spirit and have the confidence to just be themselves. At their age I was frightened of my own shadow and still haven't found my peace but seeing this has inspired me to keep going. Making sure my children grow up knowing they're loved, wanted and supported is a start.

[@AndrewEwing1995]

His dad taught him the value of hard work. But never once he had said I love you or I'm proud of you, etc. That's kinda hurtful

[@johannessvendsen9284]

Dad: Omae wa mou shindeiru Son: Nani

[@hyperelite296]

But that's not true why so much you already have to say about what you say happened and there won't be nobody to tell anybody different and you've had that privilege from the beginning and you still walk the floor with the same privileges can you just at least this one thing just this one these please you don't have to lie about it's not even a very big one in all reality so please

[@equintrinity8678]

Thank you for stating the obvious

[@xXEliteXx-kf3nm]

That’s the kind of father you don’t ever wanna be

[@dogwaterl]

I really can’t tell what his dad wanted out of him.

[@someone-eo1zf]

He wanted him to be successful man thats every parents dream

[@sullysullivan3962]

@@someone-eo1zf yeah but also every parent wants their kid to know they love them......

[@travis6694]

some one are you stupid?? Or just ignorant?? Nothing his dad did set him up for success, yes he learned to work hard. But his whole life he never felt loved or was good enough to his dad. Fuck his dad.

[@strangelyjamesly4078]

You'd need to know his dads story, why his mom wasn't there? His dad probably hated his life, yet couldn't end it because of "responsibilities" (his son). I know a bit about what that feel like. I'm just not as shitty as this dudes father was.

[@thatmannarbash7638]

Atleast hope he remembers his dad as a symbol of hard work and motivation and not a complete dick and a horrible father

[@ausgamecollector]

This is a good eye opener. Often times even as ‘good’ parents in middle-upper class environments in the first world, don’t praise our kids enough for what they learn or achieve. Food for thought and thought for action.

[@pathologist7543]

So true. I'm from the upper middle class. My parents have helped me financially, but I never got emotional support. The way they raised me made me incredible insecure and fearful. As a matter of fact, they were the cause of a year long depression and a few suicide attempts, as well as 5 years of daily anxiety. I moved to another country and my anxiety disappeared over night.

[@ausgamecollector]

@@pathologist7543 That sucks. I hope you continue to live your best life. Sometimes starting from scratch is best.

[@miabay4692]

this guy is a good storyteller... Respect

[@charlesg7926]

mia bay you mean telling real events*

[@moanguspickard249]

story is a story. He tells them, they dont have to be fake

[@jakestreeandturf5053]

No one deserves how the father acted.

[@stormlykkem1268]

Osama bin laden?

[@vukarako]

Why not?

[@BenSohlberg]

Cant really blame the father (in a sense) imagine how he was treated by his dad as a kid. Its a broken cycle.

[@CesarRodriguez-lz9fv]

Jake's Tree and Turf he cared for him though he must’ve been stressed

[@crimson7151]

Mine did

[@marawilliams2740]

I’m very sorry that you experienced what you did. It is very painful to never be good enough. The best gift we give each other is love and acknowledgement.

[@flowerpower4065]

Yes, I too am so sorry you had to grow up in that type of way, no child should ever have to go through life without ever feeling loved by their parents.

[@jeffreymeeks4051]

I think one of the biggest lessons any father hopes to teach his son is the importance and reward of hard work and how far it can take you. But do so in an uplifting manner. Sometimes there is a need for being stern, but it shouldn't overshadow encouragement. Belitting, degrading insults do absolutely nothing to "toughen up" kids from a young age, if anything it breeds resentment and anger which is counterproductive. Give discipline where it is needed, but always remind your son that he is loved.

[@sjs928]

You were cursed to have a father like that , he died a bitter, lonely , broken man. You did the best you could

[@feralingo]

He was blessed to have these challenges in life

[@jessicareutercastrogiovann5796]

@@feralingo Abuse is never a blessing.

[@MoodyVlogs]

How about if he was pampered by his father, would he be this successful? Just a thought

[@madharambe3264]

He might. Just change the way you see the it

[@abrinkley7]

@@madharambe3264 my father instilled a strong work ethic while still showing love. it’s possible lol.

[@mjgdance5245]

That was the best motivational video I ever seen

[@attex495]

His dad taught him how to work hard to earn money and stamina but didn’t give him high self esteem his mentor got him to reach the end Edit:OMG thank you for the likes

[@attex495]

Jamar the black married man 😂😂😂

[@AeonsOfBlight]

Likes mean nothing.

[@brow276]

His mentor may have fine tuned him, but his father built the engine.

[@Ron-yz4uk]

Hearing him talk and express himself makes me think he’d be a good actor

[@paladinsrage4646]

*I grew up without a dad, and a mother who was always gone... but this makes me feel blessed man.* _This is heart breaking!_ _Edit: omg when he said the “Dad is there anything you are proud of that I did” (I’m bad at quotes but this honestly hits me.)_

[@Mikiyam]

So you are black

[@paladinsrage4646]

Lil Walnut *No, but it’s racist to automatically assume so.*

[@Mikiyam]

Paladins Rage racist? Do you know what racism actually is?

[@paladinsrage4646]

Lil Walnut *Yes, and this does apply.*

[@Mikiyam]

Paladins Rage am I discriminating you in a certain way? Am I physically hurting you based on your race, no

[@Tr1Hard777]

His dad pushed him so hard and yet when he succeeded and did the work he was never told good job. What a worthless human being

[@Tr1Hard777]

@Dr Phil this guy was given Lemons and made lemonade.

[@stillirise9705]

@@Tr1Hard777 yes but it doesn't mean alot if your parents Cant say I love u, good job etc.

[@brookepeery7368]

Steph Starrett I’m glad it doesn’t to you.

[@brookepeery7368]

Akira A McLaren my father is like what this man and you describe in your comment, and it runs much deeper than a simple continuing to push your child. It is letting your child know that they are a continual disappointment because nothing ever was good enough. So yes, they are a worthless human being.

[@Messoro]

@@brookepeery7368 while he was a terrible father and what he did is disgusting, maybe it did pay off because of how far he pushed himself and now he is really successful.

[@averynmitchell]

I’ve always felt stupid when I go “I am beautiful” etc.... but now I feel encouraged 💜

[@kbs1212]

@Persis This is some solid advice. Best I’ve read on here. Being mindful, grounded and present is the way.

[@Sol_Badguy_GG]

This man is so wholesome and honest. I wish him happiness, truly.

[@sruthis541]

Nothing I can think off . . . Him saying that to the millionaire son, made me feel like I haven't done anything with my life, cuz, whoa! He did so much! Like, you are about to die and the last thing you do, is deflate your son's confidence? I'm so glad he's doing well now and from what I can see has a great personality... This video is really inspiring and motivating!! Thank you for sharing your story!!

[@masons4425]

Who knows. Maybe in some messed up way the father thought being ruthless would push his son. His accomplishments were too obvious. Maybe his cruel love was a burden to the father in order to- But, also he could of just been an asshole as we heard.

[@TonyVega123]

The greatest gift his father ever gave him was to give him tough love. I applaud his father for saying this to him. Look where he is now.

[@arkani7904]

3:54 Shattered my heart into billions of pieces....💔😭

[@thewachtels9296]

ShadowShark225 Yeah, that’s when I noticed that someone was cutting onions in my room No, I was crying

[@dismant101]

My father once said “I want you to be strong in the world and be resentful of me... rather than you being eaten up by the world and for you to love me.”

[@kji794]

Paul Oh honestly while you or some people may think this is a dick move, it really isn't. My step dad grew up with everything being given to him, and lived with his dad until he was 30 something. After his father's death, he can't do anything by himself. He'd be living in the streets by now tbh.

[@dismant101]

Theunkowable123 no I don’t think that it was a dick move. I am quite grateful of my father for doing so. It helped me through out my life. At first I hated it. But when I went into the real world, I realized that he was preparing me.

[@SerbAtheist]

This wasn't the standard ''toughen up your kid'', this was borderline psychological abuse and certainly psychological neglect.

[@enriquecabrera2137]

SerbAtheist everybody is a pro in the internet

[@Claymore1977]

+SerbAtheist It certainly is not any of those things. Life is tough. His dad did the right thing. If we had more dads like this, we wouldn't have a nation FULL of worthless, self entitled fucks who don't know how to do a damn for themselves and can't figure out which bathroom to use.

[@sleeplessonterra9845]

Your true Father awaits you, and his approval of you will shine in His eyes. His promises never falter nor change. Bless you Brother.

[@arthurmorgan4993]

I hate it when ppl say "being a parent is really hard" as an excuse for fathers/mothers acting like this. This guy's spirit is amazing in his ability to come back from the worst. God bless him!

[@alexparikh7866]

"The most powerful force in the human psyche is how we describe ourselves to ourselves. Whose giving you labels?" One of the greatest quotes you will ever hear.

[@Fixingtodraw]

For all your hardwork your reward isn’t what you receive from it, but what you become by it. That’s the gold you take to the grave and beyond.

[@Marifet124]

You cant always preserve yourself. Life is a sea with everlasting winds of fate,

[@Marifet124]

How much are you willing to sacrifice for your pride? Sometimes it costs everything.

[@nathanwood1027]

Mr King you said it really well. Thanks

[@lass-inangeles7564]

So heartbreaking to think his dad was such a dried up human being he could not express love to his own son. What a failure as a parent. The only gift he gave his son was a bucket of hurt and shame. This was inspirational. I will never again let other label me. THANK YOU!!! Your pain turned to gold.

[@mykal2803]

Surreal. 3 year's ago I was in treatment, I read a book called "blink" about the subconscious human mind, at one point it talked about mirroring your own belief's. I knew I didn't think much of myself at that point, but had before.. So I sat down, and wrote.. I am.. Smart. I am capable, etc. An entire page of positive I am's. I would read it out loud before bed, and when I woke up.. I still have that tattered piece of I am's.. somewhere, still 3 year's clean and moving forward everyday.. this was an amazing reminder of where I've come from myself, and the need to continue thing's like this. Anyone struggling badly with self image should do this, it actually work's.

[@Lowebotz]

All this video did was make me feel angry at this guys dad.

[@dzk6714]

he wouldn't be successful if it weren't for his dad , why are you angry?

[@mexiguero646]

The Star the example of success is measured by this mans commitment to excellence which was instilled by his father. However, the fact that his father never showed any kind of emotional support crippled him mentally. You can tell by his mannerisms. He completely tore his confidence. Yea he’s successful now at 40 something, but could have been at least 10-15 years early if his father instilled something else...courage and support.

[@dzk6714]

@@mexiguero646 nah his father showed him tough love , and that works really well .We all should take a page from his book

[@wyattgarwick8977]

Lol same

[@maryamgh6160]

May not angry for me , but definetly disappointed and sad 😞

[@simplysimple7628]

There should be balance in everything you do. Show your kids you love them and always let them know what is wrong from right. Give them boundaries but also let them explore beyond those boundaries. Discipline and praise when it matters.

[@marybrown7222]

Beautiful. Full of wisdom. Thank you