how to connect with your future self ⏱

Sharing the power of connecting to your future self + a few actionable exercises! Go from who you are now to who you want to be. If you’re struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor BetterHelp. Click BetterHelp.com/aileen for a 10% discount on your first month of therapy with a licensed professional specific to your needs.
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[@ayushi_507]

My 38 yo self would love for my 18 yo self to not stress out too much because it's all gonna be fine later. So relax, value all relationships, take it all in and enjoy the process.

[@fireflythinking1290]

Yes 🎉

[@shelllombardi9124]

Approximately 12 years ago, I wrote an article about myself 20 years from then. As if I was interviewing my future self. It was a fun thing to do and it seems my life is on track based on that interview. I really like the idea of acting today like your future self. It gives us pause, goals, and gentle reminders of the life we want to lead to propel us forward.

[@pink9252]

Im 18 and I was crying last night because I'm not able too study harder like for eight too ten hours and I was sad about it . Today hearing this video I realize after twenty years my future self will say ' uru clam down you're going too be successful anyway but don't wrecker your health for anything in this world ' and about second thing if I get chance too life again I'll not waste my 18 19 20 because if I do that in future I'll be regretful that in hustling I lost my beautiful teen years . No one gets too live again and that's why we should realize that we shouldn't be too hard on ourself . I'm grateful for this video it taught me a great life lesson ❤ which I was meant too learn ❤

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

Stay strong, be positive. We all struggle sometimes.

[@AdaraFukuchi]

Delulu is the solulu ✨

[@Nourann7]

(I just turned 23) one thing I learned about myself as I grew older is that you can rest but you shouldn’t settle! You have to always look for whatever is best for you, you can take a break and relax while having too much on your plate because while you’re young you have so much potential. You basically have everything but it’s all a matter of mindset. I learned that yes we get tired and we need to just lie down for a moment but we have so many chances to take and can try and do everything we wish for because when we get older and look back, we will become able to say “I actually did my best to get what I want and tried my best”

[@lavendaire]

wow! your words are truly inspiring ♡

[@Lifewithnance]

You should be so proud to have that type of mindset. I am 32 and I wish I thought this way then. My biggest advice to you as most people say don’t ever let your fear hold you back. I wish I didn’t. I worried so much about what people say and how they would judge me instead of focusing on my goals.

[@deena863]

My 43 years old self would love to see me happy, unstressed, studying more and more, not worrying about the future because it’s in god’s hands I want to be healthy and shine with joy, Deena you are fine you are okay you are on the right path

[@seagurll]

This came at the *perfect* time, thank you so so much for all you do and the positivity you spread. To anyone scrolling through the comments, it's never too late. While there will be obstacles in certain situations and many of us have deep-rooted or unalterable struggles mentally or physically, I promise you it's still possible for your life to be filled with love, happiness and peace. Take it easy when you need to, believe in yourself first, and never EVER give up. 💞

[@didiermcginnis]

Thanks for that

[@seagurll]

You're welcome @@didiermcginnis 🙂💖🥰

[@vallennfc227]

Thanks, i feel better

[@seagurll]

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[@edeletwin]

..spend half of my time being creative, and the other half outside, meeting and connecting with peoole 💖 Love that! Sounds so right for you✨🌼🍀

[@minmochi5117]

This was so much needed at the moment😭🤧

[@imeanirid]

another vid! i've decided to embrace my soft vibe and increase my gentle presence. you're right! discover your true self and embrace the best side of you. you are loved. to all people who read this, you're amazingggg!

[@ashwinkumarpv1]

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[@junkyupedia7348]

One thing that I regret so much right now that I am closer to my adult age, is that I let my fears conquer me, I didn't join that dance club because I thought I was too fat, I didn't fully showed my interest and followed my desire which makes me think right now that it's not that bad. I lately realized If I joined those club I would be more happier and had greater memories. I overthink a lot about my grades that made me sick and had the worst mental health. I was thinking a lot about the future that I forgot to enjoy the present moment and I didn't even think that I would be okay in the future. I feel like I wasn't able to enjoy my teenage years. I am 16 and I still have those overthinking and fear habits, at this age I am deciding big decisions right now, what college, what course should I choose? I tell you, we cannot determine the future, but we can still choose to enjoy, follow our hearts, and stop overthinking what may happen in the future because no matter where life gets you it will be okay, it will be better, life will give you a good day. So right now, with all the experience I had, I am trying my best to be in present moment and do my best. I am trying myself to stop overthinking even though I have a big anxiety if I'm gonna pass my desired CETS school. I don't want to waste my teenage years, life has taught me a lot 😢 and 16 & 17 is my time to make this teenage year flourish and happy. That doesn't mean that I can't be happy anymore after 18, but I just know that I already have responsibilities after an adult age but I want to atleast tell my future self that I did my best to give her a great teenage years.

[@oamahana]

🤍ᴛɪᴍᴇʟᴀᴘs : ✿︎ 0:40 Future Self Exercise ✿︎2:53 Don't be shy, just be bold ✿︎5:45 Bridging the Gap ( between your current self & futur self) ✿︎ 8:35 Becoming the Identity of the Ideal Future Self ( law of attraction, vizualisation, FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT !! )

[@BrittReneesWayTiktoks]

My 31 year old self would be happy, living in the house of my dreams. Working as a life coach, influencing millions. Loving my family, and living with intention 💜

[@emranao]

i felt so proud when you read that envision. You just described your current-self and you wrote those when u were out of college. If i speak for myself, i found some notes on my phone (almost 1 year ago) and they were about what i wanna achive this year and seeing those big things becoming reality makes me so proud of myself.

[@mellooobruhhh9281]

You, your channel and your voice are my comfort zone. Your videos are so inspiring and make me feel clam in my tiring days. I have started listening to your positive affirmations every morning right I after I wake up since the beginning of this year and it makes days and my life a lot better so far this year :) Thank you so much Aileen 💘

[@aliynarouise]

It is so humbling to hear how your intentions came into fruition by simple writing it out and choosing it for yourself. I'm definitely going to journal more and have learned that we do truly have the agency to shape our futures! Thank you for this video ❤

[@NancyRuthMusic]

You're so good at what you do, Aileen! Congrats on living your vision and inspiring others.

[@sunnysequoia]

This video came at the perfect time. I'm in a pretty nebulous place in my life and have a future self I dream of becoming, but I'm struggling with figuring out how to actually manifest it. Hoping to start taking steps to bridge the gap in my life!

[@xkz92]

I like it, sometimes when you struggle taking care of yourself but are somehow still willing to care more for others … well it feels easier to go full delulu and act as a more caring future self that has more compassion about your current issues, has a more detached approach to your problems but is also more willing to do something about it even if you really don’t feel like it.

[@ishi6291]

How does your videos always connect with what I'm trying to do aileen?? You're so magical ilysm🥺❤️✨

[@itsshayene]

I just decided to go back to therapy so that I can work towards becoming my best self and I was going to find KZbin vids on it and your video popped up on my home page! Amazing! Thank you love!

[@queenofpents3442]

Just when I was thinking about getting back into scripting this video drops! Love the synchronization and thanks for the confirmation! I make vision boards every year and its wild when I see what has actually manifested! That was pretty amazing to hear how your goals came to fruition ☺

[@Dil.Careem]

Connecting with your future self is like having a conversation with your own wisdom. This video offers great insights and techniques to bridge the gap between who you are today and who you aspire to be in the future. It's a powerful reminder that our actions today shape our tomorrow, and building a strong connection with our future self can be a transformative journey.

[@jaimiejin7992]

It's amazing that you're who you manifested. It's important to set goals and act as if you're already your future self.

[@candelavin]

You are such an inspiration and a positive force, thank you for showing us what is possible ❤

[@Rockawaysiren]

this 54 year old needs to be a fulfilled 74 year old. It’s not too late. Thank you for this!

[@honeysugar1]

This video made me cry because i feel like I've lost my zest in life lately - feeling unmotivated in my late 30s. I've lost most of my friends, doing a lot of things solo now. On one hand appreciating peaceful moments over drama but at the same time feeling lonely. I remember my 20s and early 30s being fun and chaotic - even though it was stressful, i had a support network. Now i don't have the bandwidth or energy to be involved in any drama and choosing a slower pace of life but at the same time feel lonely and unmotivated at times.

[@meghandley7020]

There is something really magical and positive about your energy you make me want to appreciate life more and do things for myself

[@erickalinares908]

I've followed you for a few year and your videos have changed my life✨💖 thanks

[@user-xy6hs4tw9p]

Insightful, inspiring, practical, and compassionate advice. You’re beautiful inside & out 🌞🦋

[@LuckyMeCandy]

So excited for the newest Artist of Life Workbook. It is my favorite journal to use every year.

[@kionaholmes6808]

This came right on time for me, I'am 26 years old right now and as I get older, I would like to start approaching my life more calmly everyday as much as possible because what I need to do is let things be so that when it comes my way I will understand completely why it make sense for my future. as for my present life at the moment, I'd love to see everything flourish for me as it comes together.

[@Dara-Favour]

Girl, you're a Godsent, cause I literally journaled today asking my heavenly Father, how can I become the person I want to be, and here i am ❤😅

[@NehaSharma-se8vr]

I really needed this today so thank you so much Aileen your content has helped me in so many powerful ways.❤

[@ssimplybeautiful]

Amazing video. Beautiful. Calming. Connecting with yourself is really magical and it holds all the real magic and will do wonders. It's starting of selflove and changes lower vibes into higher vibes. ❤

[@taynaragodoy9053]

Omg, I've just met u today! What a beautiful soul u are! I'm loving your content, so inspiring. Thank u so much for sharing your healing journey. 💗

[@livewithmattie]

I absolutely love you hair! You killed this style and it’s so young and bright. This was such a beautiful video

[@anni1113]

Thank you so much for making such a thoughtful video! This was soo inspirational!

[@whitneylaurenjones]

I need this video so much today, I adore your channel. You are so incredible 🫶🏻

[@emilychingy]

Omg! I'm so excited to feel the Artist of Life Workbook 2024 in my hands 🎉🎉🎉

[@nurqaisara977]

I love you 🥺♥️. Thank you for reminding me again to this method 😭

[@darrelllasane5593]

That journal entry is super inspiring. I love that

[@ThuTa-jr3tm]

Thanks millions for this video and you are the only you tuber who gives me so much motivation and knowledge about life!!!!❤

[@user-yw5tr9hr4y]

Your bows are beautiful. Thanks for this valuable context.

[@etheraldee111]

I love this, I would just do it and be myself more and not be afraid of what others think. This video really changed my perspective, thanks so much!!

[@rosegoldmermaid]

Thanks Aileen! I love your calming videos. I get more inspiration to chase the life I want for myself. Which is.. definitely being aligned with my purpose and not working in marketing as I do now. It drains my life Energy I feel... It's also why I decided to start recording for youtube again. As it feels way more purposeful for me. Thank you for inspiring words

[@jessierae8079]

Thank you for all the videos you made. I always feel better after watching your videos.

[@Cat-purr08_]

This video is a perfect timing I love the possiblity that's going to change my life ahead

[@ravaiiiii]

Omg I loved this exercise, thank you so much for everything! 💕

[@shanikpakeer]

Love the idea of visiting the now as my future self

[@Tlapakids5]

What a fantastic exercise! Thank you! 💕

[@chaymabenhamed1776]

Thank you for this video. This future me concept is really helpful❤. I am so so sooooo grateful to find your channel.

[@maria_cosmas]

Congrats on living your vision, you’re so inspiring 💕

[@dotpenji]

I have to say, your video on connecting with our future selves is truly insightful and inspiring. Could you share a personal success story related to your "current me vs. future me" exercise?

[@abigailcayetano487]

Connecting with our future selves is such a powerful concept. It's a reminder that the choices we make today can shape who we become tomorrow. Thanks to this video for sharing this exercise for personal growth and development!

[@CyrineTuazon]

I'm loving this video! Connecting with our future selves is amazing. It reminds us of our goals and motivates us.

[@melaniecerez8938]

This was such a great watch. Keep up the amazing work!

[@lavendaire]

Watch my video sharing the 10 years of my current me vs future me exercises ☺️ I share the journey

[@JeromeC-wp2vr]

@@lavendaire That sounds fascinating! I'd love to watch your video and see the progress you've made over the years. It's always inspiring to see how people work towards their future selves and achieve personal growth.

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[@user-qj9hn7oe3v]

Thank you so much 😊 ❤

[@weirdo2260]

As for me, i am a student and all i think about is studying. How am i going to get grades, how am going to live in the future if i don't have grades. Comparison is a huge problem i keep comparing myself. Due to stress amd anxiety i don't have good health. My hair keeps falling like water. I don't fear bad grades i fear the process i fear the regret but i just can't work for it. I'm always to anxious and scared but i just don't wanna study. I want to learn a skill i wanna know what i really like. I don't wanna work hard but Im also anxious. I keep degrading myself. If i were 20 years in the now I'd tell myself to enjoy to the fullest, don't care about grades just enjoy life. I am so young for what i go through I'd tell myself to just not care to just be carefree. Honestly when you're carefree you can be good at anything. I hope i can learn that rn.

[@isisatu]

love this so much

[@Greatfulforlife_VaikunthVaasi]

Thank you so much❤❤❤❤

[@artistic_soul.96]

Thank u so much ❤

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✨ Your hairstyle is so cute! ☺️

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Lavendaire, I have been following you with great interest since I discovered you and have watched almost all of your videos. I'm watching your new videos late because there are no Turkish subtitles. I hope Turkish subtitles will come soon, I can't wait to watch it. I love you Lavendaire, I wish you continued success 🤍🤍

[@muskan_choudhary1717]

Very useful video. I must say this, that you r very pretty soul. I feel so light and calm while seeing your youtube video. I 'll definitely gonna apply these methods. Now my trust become more strong after listening about your journalling story now and then. It's gives me a hope. Thank you so much 💜✨😊🥺

[@MorsiBolm-zu8lr]

Thank you very much 💐💞

[@krystiolsen7420]

Love this too, can you keep doing your fav excerpts of the book? I’m a mum of 2 under 4, this is rly helpful! Tysm! 🙌🏽💓💫🦋

[@afreenali7013]

Thank you for such amazing videos! ❤

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You are right person on the right time . Love you 💕

[@richgirlera]

Thank you is not enough!❤

[@JustLivingLifeandMindingMyOwnB]

This video really helped! 😢 if I could live my life a second time, I wouldn't change a thing.

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It's really helpful ❤ Thank you 😊

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Omg I love her voice

[@RS-yq1ty]

Thank you for this content. ❤u hv really helped me become happier better calmer. I love u. Do what u do❤

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Always awesome. Thanks for this .sending love from Iraq🇮🇶

[@Ave77788]

Queen of wands energy lol same here, this is what I aspire to be! Thank you for sharing! Super helpful

[@KarenJamesdance]

Thank you so very much for everything! I want you to know that each day when I do my meditation, your presence in my life via the giided meditations and videos are among the things that I'm grateful for! I send you love as part of the meditation. I hope that it reaches and helps you. Wishing you a wonderful, blessed day, peace, happiness on your journey and in all that you do. Lots of love!

[@lavendaire]

sending love & light 🩷 thank you so much for listening love

[@KarenJamesdance]

You're very welcome. Thank you once again for your wonderful work. Wishing you a joyous day filled with light, happiness, and love.

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I think i got what i needed 🎉

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loved this, needed this,

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Love ur vibe❤❤❤

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Thank you so much for reading and sharing about the book! Truly love that it resonated with you. Amazing video.

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much!

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Thank u 🙏 as always u r amazing love from India ❤

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Thank u soo much ❤❤❤

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You are so inspiring❤

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Always excited for new videos ❤

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I would be grateful for what I had accomplished so far 🎉🎉❤❤

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Loved it!

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really love this content and love you too 💖💖💖

[@MaryJoy0414]

very inspiring to someone who is in their early 20's like me. ☺️

[@zero81888]

as others have said... great timing :)

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Amazing!!

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Obsessed with this video ❤️✨

[@user-dh8dk2fc7z]

Thank You

[@carlar1820]

This is a hard one. I need more time to process but right off the top of my head I would tell myself stick to the decisions you have made do not be afraid to move on and try something different and new it will pay off in the near future.

[@flyfly11111]

Thank you very much

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I really enjoyed

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