self love | how to truly love yourself 💓

What you need to know about self love & how to truly love yourself. If you’re struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor BetterHelp. Click betterhelp.com/aileen for a 10% discount on your first month of therapy with a licensed professional specific to your needs.
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→ Positive Affirmations for Self Love, Self Esteem, Confidence | bit.ly/3B2zxZU
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// more self love videos
→ 11 Ways Self Love Will Change Your Life | bit.ly/2XBwLXo
→ How to Raise Your Self Esteem & Confidence 😍 (HOT GIRL ERA) | bit.ly/3S3ZRdx
→ Guided Meditation for Self Love | bit.ly/3sGs2mn
→ How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others | bit.ly/2ImPkry
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[@lavendaire]

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[@undyne7455]

I have already set my ratings, please look at it in your own time☺️ You are very pretty by the way🌸🌼🌸

[@shristysingh7336]

Love yourself 1. Positive Self talk 2. Shadow work (uncover insecurity and fear) realease it 3. Forgiveness and compassion 4. Step into a new identity (make a vision) 5. Integrate self love habits and practices 6. Focus on progress not perfection

[@rihem-iz5pv]

U r amazing ♡

[@jessicacoloma6732]

A woman like you is rare, teaching and supporting us to be our best self and love all the richness in life. Thank you ❤

[@eshaestheticc]

why depending on others to love you when you can love yourself the most?

[@gogahzee]

RuPaul might have said something like this lol

[@AmberPatoc]

Exactly.The moon never begs to be loved and will always shine no matter what others think of her or him

[@user-wh5pl4ly9p]

Powerful comment❤❤❤❤

[@moyetri2235]

You know you're falling for yourself when .. you have a outer view of yourself, you can completely see yourself as you're .. you are falling for your skintone just as it is. I call myself moana 😘🥰 .. you like to sit alone, spend time alone with your thoughts ( for me i go to my terrace, watch my plants, clouds , moon and the wind💓) i write everything in my journal .. in this journey you get to know many things about yourself (hobbies, interests, values, fun) i know & exploring .. you're more likely smile when you watch yourself dressing, clicking photos 😍😍😍 & the list goes on .. We're all in this journey, there's no one who has completely figured out everything explore baby girl love you 🐥 God loves you

[@arunshajiabraham]

I feel like I am a 2 out of 10. I was a 1 for the past few months, but I am slowly learning to let go of the self hate, negative self-talk and I am slowly learning to love myself and accept myself for who I am.

[@ColorOfCozy]

There's a great truth behind forgiveness. It does not mean to forget, but to move past. It's hard when we are taught to forgive and "forget"because we don't forget the feelings. We can't forget the emotions. Forgiveness is being at peace with the person/situation and moving past it.

[@MamaSwole]

Starting my day off watching this vid has given me such good energy for the day❤

[@lavendaire]

😻😻😻

[@sonicsymphony1212]

I feel like I'm in 4 to 5 out if 10..as I started my selflove journey a year ago..when I first found your channel! Thank you so much❤

[@annoar9776]

that's beautiful!

[@daisygrlisme]

What a perfect message for today. Love yourself and the journey will be that much sweeter. 💕

[@kionaholmes6808]

Thank you for putting this message out here.

[@bernadettemclean5238]

Over the past year I have been really anxious and now im slowly coming out of it

[@pujiantopuji769]

Your voice is so clear,what a great self motivation

[@mariemcleod46]

Thank you for such beautiful reminders❤❤❤❤

[@shruthyg]

Thank you so for this video. Got it when I needed the most ❤❤

[@towarahman]

Thank you so much Dear. so informative!

[@Dil.Careem]

Just finished watching this incredible video on self-love! The insights shared here are pure gold, and the tips on how to truly love yourself resonate so deeply. Time to prioritize self-care, embrace imperfections, and radiate that self-love glow. Thanks for the positive vibes and a reminder that we all deserve our love.

[@MaryJoy0414]

Thanks for this video, Aileen! Right now I was at 2 and I am hoping that it gets better as times goes by.

[@user-js3kn5tq5b]

Your positive thoughts and vibe really helping me alot love your work alieen thank you, please do more content like this i have gone through alot in 2023 your videos are the guiding light to me ... please dont ever stop this...

[@asimahmeraj]

Even you seem to have angelic beauty & you do own the heart of an angel.🌼🌼

[@juliamalcolm-roberts4142]

I have found you at a time in my life, where I need as much help as possible. I'm loving all your vibes and vids, you are truly amazing and the way you engage thankyou 😊😊encourage

[@FIELDNAPHAT]

Thank you so much ❤

[@annspirit24]

Thank you for this message, God love all of us❤

[@klaireburrows7969]

Thank you for this… I’d say I’m about a 7 for self love, overall very good with a few negative thoughts but luckily I’m starting to see those for what they are. So onwards and upwards! Xx

[@c.k.1958]

Thank you ❤

[@siyasiya8517]

You have such a beautiful comforting energy keep shining ❤❤

[@iristsh]

I used to be at 6, but ever since i started watching your videos early this year, I do think it has progressed to 7 or 8 now. Thank you for making this video, it's a good reminder to myself for some self-love habits and as always it's inspiring =) Thank you & all the best to everyone who's on this journey as well❤

[@sunshineysideoflife]

So helpful ❤

[@mariemcleod46]

I think i am at a 6, definitely doing so much more to give myself love and put myself in situations which make me feel whole, perhaps even a 7. Forgiving myself for mistakes or hurt that I may have caused others, I find hard, but recognising is a good step. Thank you❤❤❤❤

[@sugarrush101]

watching your videos always brings me peace of mind and calms me down... Thank you so much!!!

[@avaniyadav2999]

Was waiting for your these types of video from so long! Please keep uploading more contents like this. Also thank you so much for this video. Now I'm gonna sleep with a relaxed mind coz your voice just makes me calm. Lots of love!

[@vaibhaviasolkar]

Thank you 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@chamodiwijesinghe9956]

Thank You❤

[@JuhiNaz-jq6cr]

Lavandaire changed my life ❤

[@BijoyaSarmah001]

I am on 4 …slowly learning to love myself more and more❤

[@RitaMarieHartford]

I feel my number is a 5. I do positive affirmations on my morning playlist. I would love to journal more. I'm working on myself, my human design, and restarting my KZbin channel and lay the foundation for my future business. ❤

[@ChrisZemdegs]

Thank you 🙏

[@maicasira2104]

I'm currently at 4-5. Still slowly learning to love myself more. Thanks for this video!

[@nicolekrie2716]

Thank you so much for this video I have learned a lot 🥰🥰

[@akankshaawachar]

Thankyou so so much beautiful soul.. Lots of love.. ✨❤❤❤🙏🌸🌸🌸😇🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️

[@bernadettemclean5238]

Yes I’m on this journey

[@halflazy1441]

after a long time investing in myself since last year, I could say I pretty much love myself so I'd rate it as 7.5 at this point, but this year I'm gonna progress more to be finally able to love myself fully, thank you aileen ♥︎

[@conkodo]

Hi Lavendaire, thank you for being a light in this world! You’re a beautiful soul, love ya!

[@lavendaire]

i appreciate your words so much🥰

[@eiydaahmad2631]

thank you.

[@akeemprice9036]

i do struggle with my negative thoughts in my head and self talk but distract my self with journaling and taking walks through nature

[@SHRADDHAM22443]

Thank You So Much... ❤❤ Self Love Practice had really made my life so beautiful... 😊 Thanks a bunch!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@anni1113]

I think I'm at a 6 on my self-love journey, which is a huge improvement from where I've been before so I am grateful for that.

[@lavendaire]

keep trusting 🥰

[@jennilynannojeda3343]

I feel like I'm at 7 to 7.5. I journal every night for a week of consistency, which I am proud of; I write my daily gratitude, something that makes me happy, something of which I am proud. I take care of myself by simply taking a bath, eating properly, and sleeping for 7-8 hours a day. I do say good and positive things about myself in my mind. I buy things for myself without even feeling guilty, which really makes me happy. I say no to people; I've been vocal about what I feel towards someone's actions and words towards me; I really protect myself more. Your message really inspires me to continue this journey because it's really nice to love yourself and be with yourself no matter what. It's really not linear; there are days that you will feel sh*t, but there is always something in that day that will make you feel good about yourself.

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much for sharing love 💖 i'm so proud of you!

[@archanarout24]

Just yesterday only I created my future me vs curret me for this year, watched all your video on this topic, I cannot tell you how grateful I am for all that ypu do to teach us & inspire us.

[@lavendaire]

and i cannot tell you how grateful I am for you! 💟

[@Nada01111]

Thank you ❤for another video I have the best times when you post ! It keeps me in check and guides me more than u could Imagine . I don’t have much guidance in life so this been a life saver for 3 years now.I would Love it if you ever have a weekly podcast even if it’s 10 min ,you are motivating !

[@lavendaire]

I have a podcast, it’s called The Lavendaire Lifestyle ☺️

[@Nada01111]

I know I loved it ,that’s why I was asking if possible you could ever consider a weekly post like starting your week with lavendaire .it’s just a suggestion .nonetheless l love your work thanks for lavandaire .you are amazing 💜

[@swathivaggu8039]

Sending you so much love too ❤😘

[@a.dassanayake3277]

thank you

[@harrisray1400]

I feel I'm in 1! After watching this video. I have to start loving myself. Thank you for this amazing self-love video.

[@lavendaire]

you got this 😻 i fully trust you!

[@moyetri2235]

I think I'm 7 out of 10 in my self love journey still loving, taking myself up & crawl ❤ For me u know u re falling in love with yourself when you can see yourself as a outer view for me I'm a beautiful brown skin with curly hair girl , who is always full of life , joyful yet assertive.😊❤

[@JMK719]

Your voice is so beautiful and attractive!

[@iluvbears4861]

5.5 to 6 here. Definitely have some improving to do but this video gave me so much insight and new found motivation to continue before it slips lower ❤❤

[@monya5291]

Thanks a lot

[@Hot2Trotsky]

You seem like such a cool person and your voice is beautiful and soothing. You're a whole dang pretty pretty lighthouse of love and I'm livin for it.

[@cute_girl495]

I love watching your videos very much❤

[@justamusicfan-uh4ti]

I love your videos and I watch your channel everyday❤❤ thank you so much for being so awesome and making these awesome videos

[@mandomatsane8216]

7 I am truly learning that it's a journey not to be rushed but to embrace

[@user-ug3yz7ri5b]

Thanks for this video, year 2023 was a terrible year for me personal ever since the pandemic and self love is one of my main goal in my life for 2024. For me it's a 4.5 out of 10, I have started all in your awesome list but the truth is the mind and body takes time to heal, my healing time is going to take over a year or two, alot of work. One, thing I have learned is that to make way for the new you that is healed and better you, you first need to clear out all of the bad you and its going to make you doubt, fail and cry (even in the inside), but their is great power in love, faith and hope when trying to make the new you. So, I am so glad that i am seeing more people taking your advice Lavendaire. Year 2024 will be a excellent one to remember.

[@bernadettemclean5238]

I’m going to rewatch this video and grab my journal out and journal

[@shivaniaswal5468]

Please please please make a meditation on self concept or how to increase it ❤️

[@kartarsinghdhankhar5051]

I felt good after so many days after watching your vid thanku ❤ I agree u on everything u mentioned.. Surely it will be a slow process For a person as me who have negative rigid beliefs about oneself will take time to u know to love myself But it will be qorth it !! ❤

[@arestaquilla]

I really enjoy and get a lot of insight from this content but I also mesmerized by how beautifull u are in this video, like your hair, your dress, it's sooo cutee

[@HEYYISHIIII]

THANK YOU SO MUCH LAVENDAIRE FOR THIS VIDEO , I LEARNED NEW THINGS ABOUT SELF LOVE 💜🌸

[@rupachemudupathi9569]

I always think about what people think about me and what I wear ! I really really want to get over it

[@arzumardalieva3874]

7 points!

[@theartesana]

Love is the answer ❣️✨

[@user-yz2ll6zl1v]

❤❤

[@amybrown4311]

I want to like your video again and again and again ❤

[@darylladriannesubido8945]

luv it

[@neutralzsdesigns488]

Lovely , i would really appreciate if you could do video about joy and play with your perspective thnk you ☺🌺

[@nene-st8jg]

ive just found you by accidentaly.but i believe that i need your life tip to my life. and your English is pretty easier to listen to me japanese speaker.

[@sacharymateo1710]

6.5 i THINK THIS is the closer to 10 I've ever been and it feels nice :)

[@chrissy5291]

All your musical choices are so reminiscent of Steven Universe to me, and your voice is soothing. You are becoming my positive self talk. I started with your affirmation videos and finally subscribed last week. Thank you for your content. 💜

[@lavendaire]

thank you for your beautiful words 💟

[@johngomes4278]

Love is the power supreme 💞

[@tejaswanisingh4028]

i am at 3 in the journey because i do doubt myself what can i achieve in academics but i embark on this journey to completely love myself

[@_moondaisie_17]

Can you share some self love journal prompts with us please😊.

[@Soulofindianmythology]

"Failure is not the opposite of success. It's a part of it"❤

[@jeravwen]

I'm around 6/10.. It is great this video pop up ☺️

[@icuzman]

I would say I’m at a 7 since I feel there is still a lot to uncover about myself with this self love Journey but I am eager to expand my confidence and self love by discovering more about myself and not being so hard on myself

[@lavendaire]

keep going love 😻

[@rachaelharper3778]

All that matters you know your goals ❤

[@magdalena2115]

Honestly feel like I’m at a 2. Thank you so much for these tips.

[@lavendaire]

sernding you love & light ❣️

[@dreamlife33103]

I am probably at 6 at this time. I have so kuch going on personally but I am finding ways to incorporate self love in my morning routines

[@_moondaisie_17]

I really love your videos. I watch you everyday. I give me lots of inspiration and motivation. My everyday begins with your videos😊

[@bananabread888]

OOf, when you said “no matter what you say, they can’t hear you or understand because they are operating from their beliefs about themselves” (something like that) I felt seen 😮 I’ve been working on not judging myself, coming out of fear based beliefs or feelings and receiving wholesome feedback about who I am. I’m not going to let my unhealthy mental habits deter me from loving myself fully ❤ Every single day ❤ I love you also dear reader Thank you:) On the scale I feel like a 7

[@rachaelharper3778]

The problem is when I am happy for a long time my anxiety and anxious thoughts hit me all over again which I ask myself where did I go wrong like I was doing so good 🥺

[@tannisha7855]

I am very insecure about my height...even my best friend has started to bully me because of my height....but I am truly greatful that I have found Lavendaire .....love you 😊

[@lavendaire]

It's important to remember that everyone is unique, and our value extends beyond physical attributes. Embracing self-love and confidence in who you are is a powerful journey 💟 Sending you love & light!

[@sydneyeberhardt]

Feeling about a 5/10… recently lost a job but Gods blessed me with a new career wayyy better than before and very unexpected!! 🥰❤️ I think with this new job I’ll start feeling better about myself.

[@johngomes4278]

Wishing you a happy thanksgiving 🦃🍽️

[@johngomes4278]

It's ok if you have already forgotten about big Leon ,have a blessed holiday !

[@johnnabright]

I definitely feel like I am 1 out of 10 far along my self love journey.

[@lavendaire]

Sending you love for this journey ❤️❤️

[@johnnabright]

@@lavendaire Thank you! And you too!

[@mounikavarma1176]

Your videos helped me alot to love myself ❤️

[@its_chouchou_]

I love my self and going to love my self forever regardless what happen and going to take care of my self improve my self and healing from everything that hurts me GOD Willing

[@AleenaBux]

I would give myself a 6.5 , hope the rating increases in this fresh year and i would be able to truly love myself.

[@elizabethdehaye639]

Definitely 1. I've hated myself since I was 9 or 10 (and I'm 44 now). It actually seemed so bizarre to me that people loved themselves

[@BilalDemiroglu]

Super enerji bravo my love

[@trixjoyce]

I'm like a 6,5 to a 7 when it comes to loving myself. It feels like it gets better the older I get :)

[@AnilKumar-jn9hv]

I'm from India 🇮🇳 thank you so much💜

[@raznikov]

A great concise description of self-love and healing!