How to "De-Sexualize" Your Brain As a Christian

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Demani Age

Demani Age

Күн бұрын

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@elijahfish9635
@elijahfish9635 3 ай бұрын
I’ve found that the secret to overcoming lust is to understand what lust truly is. It is a desire in a man’s (or woman) heart, that will not go away unless the man believes that it can go away (which it can through Jesus). I think the other key is understanding the immense beauty that is man and woman made in the image of God (which God called very good). Let us not consume that image in a perverted way, but let us acknowledge that it is very good. Let us in no way, take what God said is very good and call it a temptation. “….each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his OWN lust…” (James 1:14) Gods creation in the form of a woman (or man) made in the image of God is not an image of temptation, nor should it be seen as such by people who profess the name of Christ. There is TRUE freedom to be found from sin. Through Christ, we are no longer slaves to sin. This is a truth that we MUST believe. Amen!
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@elijahfish9635 AMEN
@AsiaaMoniquee
@AsiaaMoniquee 3 ай бұрын
This is beautiful thank you for this perspective!! Amen.
@TBreeze-n1q
@TBreeze-n1q 3 ай бұрын
Amen❤️💯
@donttouchmymilk4966
@donttouchmymilk4966 3 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@Latoyia_Collins
@Latoyia_Collins 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@jman4430
@jman4430 3 ай бұрын
Awesome video man, i have recently fallen back into my porn addiction, leading to viewing women lustfully instead of a daughter of God. I pray for strength to walk out hand in hand with God out of this addiction again💪
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@jman4430 amen brother, remember Proverbs 24:16 For a righteous man may fall seven times and rise again,
@tiffanyfowler7785
@tiffanyfowler7785 3 ай бұрын
Your not alone, thanks for sharing
@chrismaxie2864
@chrismaxie2864 3 ай бұрын
Same here man and Amen
@rapha_kol
@rapha_kol 3 ай бұрын
several weeks clean here, it gets better my brother. we the body are here for you, keeping you in my prayers
@michaelbosley6303
@michaelbosley6303 3 ай бұрын
Don’t claim it. It does not belong to you, it is not something you were created to operate in. It is you and the Living God against that sin. So next time you think about it refrain from saying “my porn addiction”. Don’t give it any power or legal right to you.
@rylandt6531
@rylandt6531 3 ай бұрын
I forget who said it, but I heard that "fighting" lust is not the way to go. 99% of battles with lust will result in failure and sin. The best way to get rid of sexualization in our brain is to run from it. Guard our hearts, eyes, and brain. The further we get from these sins, the least likely we are to commit them. Don't even let the word come to your mind. "I'm gonna read my Bible and praise Jesus today" is a lot better than saying "I'm not gonna masturbate and fall into lust" because you're planting seeds in your mind. Good video Demani. Amen
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@rylandt6531 amen I agree 🙏🏾
@Rebecca-asdf
@Rebecca-asdf 3 ай бұрын
Yes, first and foremost the Bible says that. Like in 1 Corinthians 6:18 it says to flee sexual immorality. I’ve heard it preached before too that sexual immorality/lust is such a powerful enemy that even God Himself tells us to RUN from it instead of sticking around to fight it. Think about how Joseph ran from Potiphar’s wife. Like when it comes to the devil, God will say things like “resist the devil and he will flee from you” but if it comes to us in a battle with sex/ lust He is like ‘just leave!’. It’s almost funny if it weren’t alarming to see how weak we truly are. But at least where we are weak, He is strong 💛🙏
@eM7_thefirstborn
@eM7_thefirstborn 2 ай бұрын
yes, always run. But remember you're running TOWARDS God, whilst running away. If you're just running, you might find yourself back where you started.
@jesuslovezu
@jesuslovezu 2 ай бұрын
Makes sense why falling into it was so inevitable. I literally would keep streaks of how long I would hold off from the sin. That set me up for failure. That sin has been with me for five years… and it started to feel normal. I’ve never told anyone accept my parents at the very beginning and I didn’t even give them the full story. Just the sin and the struggle. Thank you for being so vulnerable. Because I’m finally figuring out how to battle this as I know God has already won ❤
@jujuoof174
@jujuoof174 2 ай бұрын
Yes, amen!!
@user-qb8wv5et8i
@user-qb8wv5et8i 3 ай бұрын
One thing that helped me with lust is imagining the thoughts as clouds passing by. Unfortunately we can’t control everything that pops into our heads while we are in the process of overcoming lust, but we CAN control how long we think about it and how far it goes. I’d have an inappropriate thought, and instead of beating myself up over it, I just let the thought pass by and not go any further as I watch it drift away. After that I’d ask Jesus for help to overcome those thoughts and to help me cast them away. I am not perfect but I am much better than where I was
@jujuoof174
@jujuoof174 2 ай бұрын
THANK YOU!!
@z3lena734
@z3lena734 15 күн бұрын
THATS WHAT HIS BLOOD DOES❤❤❤ NOT 100% THERE YET, BUT BETTER THAN WE WERE! Hallelujah!!!
@jasminedelisa
@jasminedelisa 3 ай бұрын
1:18 without him nothing is possible but through him all things are possible AMEN
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@jasminedelisa amen 🙏🏾
@wonderkid265
@wonderkid265 14 күн бұрын
That is truth
@TheTradingHelm
@TheTradingHelm 3 ай бұрын
Praying for all my brothers and sisters out there to stay strong. I’m 50 days free and feeling amazing. Last time I was this far in was in March and it’s been a struggle since up until this point. I am tempted by the devil, but knowing that the battle is already won with Christ alone, I am feeling free. Stay blessed
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@TheTradingHelm amen 🙏🏾
@myyuh99
@myyuh99 3 ай бұрын
Lust is more serious than ppl think man and thank u for talking about the courting phrase bc I’m recently learning about that it’s so crazy how we changed it into “dating” 🤦🏽‍♀️
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@myyuh99 right, this generation has changed what true dating is. They now look at it as hook ups or casual dating,
@myyuh99
@myyuh99 3 ай бұрын
@@demaniage frrr☹️☹️☹️☹️
@myyuh99
@myyuh99 3 ай бұрын
@@demaniage also i’m confused on that part when u said “don’t take your phone to the bathroom “???
@Brxxtxs41
@Brxxtxs41 3 ай бұрын
@@myyuh99I think that’s usually where people succumb to lust (I’m assuming )
@myyuh99
@myyuh99 2 ай бұрын
@@Brxxtxs41 oh wow! thx for lmk love❤️
@mxxntunes
@mxxntunes 3 ай бұрын
I was such a lustful child due to all the satanic content I was exposed to as a child, even doing sinful things frequently. I wanted to change completely from my ways, but Satan keeps attacking me. I want to change and grow from my actions of the past, long, distant past.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Yeah when you are exposed to that as a child is ruins the mindset you have of everything sexual before even knowing what sex was made for. I dealt with the same thing
@NgceboNdlovu-no6uq
@NgceboNdlovu-no6uq 3 ай бұрын
@@demaniage Me three, I feel like I'm trapped under a heavy blanket. I didn't know my curiosity as a child would come to this. I just want to be free from this sin I'm so sick of it😟. Why is it so hard just TO LET IT GO. I'm so tired of this. I'm am SICK AND TIRED of sexualizing people. I want to see them for who they are, not an object. LORD HEAR ME PLS. Turn you face towards me, Have mercy on me Father. Indeed I have done wrong against you Father. PLS FREE ME FROM THESE HEAVY chains....
@mxxntunes
@mxxntunes 2 ай бұрын
Didn't know I wasn't the only one going through this and it pains me. Being exposed to evil things at a young age really messes your growing mind and I thought it was normal but I felt so ashamed and disgusted everyday, I couldn't look into the eyes of people normally. It was horrible. Ruined my behaviour, physical health, confidence and mental health, but I thought it was okay because I felt a bit 'good', yeah, only for a few seconds or whatever. Didn't help that my parents also endulged in it sometimes and they didn't monitor what I was doing in general. Fell into depression, but I was saved. Sucks you all went through it too but be rest assured that God was watching over in those moments, when Satan was relishing in your suffering and he's watching you now, and always. He will redeem those lost years to pain, regret and loss and bring years with abundance and prosperity, not of the world's standards, but you will be able to say you've grown and that you are safe in God. If you still feel tempted ask him to enter your life, give your desires, pain, worries, struggles and everything to him and you will be given peace. Remember you're not alone in your pains and Jesus Christ is forever with you, humbly confess to him all you have ans he will save you. Be in love and faith, friends. God bless you all. ❤️
@mxxntunes
@mxxntunes 2 ай бұрын
Lust is definitely in the list of the most impactful sins, it's so hard to let go and not only do you sin in Spirit you also sin with the Temple of the Holy Spirit, your body. Jesus Christ loves us regardless and we should all repent of our evil 🙏 Lust is definitely Satan's secret weapon, unfortunately. God helps us and saves us, bringing love and peace. Glory to God 🙏❤️
@joaryyyy
@joaryyyy Ай бұрын
@@NgceboNdlovu-no6uqhow u doing now?
@KenUbeleveit1
@KenUbeleveit1 3 ай бұрын
Even TV ads, Instagram (the algorithms there are tempting too) is full of snares. How people dress... modesty is now losing its meaning. We gotta stay prayed up and disciplined.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@KenUbeleveit1 amen, it’s to the point to where I only watch sports and I always pay close attention to what my kids take in as well
@KenUbeleveit1
@KenUbeleveit1 3 ай бұрын
@@demaniage Yes. The stuff kids take in especially. Their minds are impressionable and these cartoons are subtly pushing rubbish to our children.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Exactly
@I_like_Rubies
@I_like_Rubies 3 ай бұрын
Y'all please pray for me. I feel like everyday I keep getting astray from God and I'm scared to not go to heaven. God bless y'all stay safe ❤
@shadowbladebruh1
@shadowbladebruh1 3 ай бұрын
Praying for you 🙏🏾
@LauraNolet-mt1go
@LauraNolet-mt1go 3 ай бұрын
That's the thing, He won't leave you. It's not about us, but about Him. Trust Him ❤
@tina11763
@tina11763 3 ай бұрын
“Trust me you’ll make it”
@NataliaSapphira
@NataliaSapphira 2 ай бұрын
I’ve got your back in prayer! Friend, let me encourage you with this: we cannot work our way into heaven. Being saved is by faith alone, not our good deeds! (Ephesians 2:8-9). Yes, God calls us to be holy as He is holy (1 Peter 1:16), but we can never do it on our own! It is the Holy Spirit that leads us in living a godly life. One verse that has really encouraged me is Galatians 5:16: “So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves.” Trust me, I know it’s hard to resist temptation at times, but that I why we have to be deep in the Word! It is our weapon! Satan is constantly attacking us with lies, and how can we fight back if we don’t know the truth? As you continue to seek God and His will, He will increase your understanding. Things will start to make more sense. It’s okay to doubt, but don’t drown in your worries. Go to God and surrender them to Him. He’s got you. “I know the Lord is always with me. I will not be shaken, for He is right beside me.” Psalms 16:8
@unimnaanselm1811
@unimnaanselm1811 Ай бұрын
If God has started the work of life in you he will surely finish it he doesn’t just go half way he’s the beginning of your salvation and the end of
@PerplexPrays
@PerplexPrays 3 ай бұрын
Thank you. I've been struggling with such addiction for around 4 years, and just this year i've been strengthening my relationship with God, and have reduced it a lot more. I relapse every 2-3 days, and I feel so guilty. I pray to the Lord that he can save me from this mental rotting. More people need to see this. Thank you again, and God bless.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@PerplexPrays amen, God bless you 🙏🏾
@PolterBlast
@PolterBlast 3 ай бұрын
@@PerplexPrays praying for you brother
@Official.alex_
@Official.alex_ 2 ай бұрын
Go on a fast my brother ✝️
@agapefor-the-trouble-heart5060
@agapefor-the-trouble-heart5060 3 ай бұрын
The entire armor of God is the only way. Being ‘an ambassador in chains’ for God is freedom. Living in sin enslaves into a bondage that is a downward spiral into guilt, shame, and spiritual death. Really appreciate the analogy of the dull sword etc. Need to renew Strength in God daily.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@agapefor-the-trouble-heart5060 amen 🙏🏾
@voiidlovesediting
@voiidlovesediting 3 ай бұрын
I needed this. I can go a week without sexualizing things, but then that feeling just comes back and I fall again. God bless brother. Amen. Stay strong friend.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen, remember that you can do all things through Christ, that he overcame it all for us and through him is where our strength comes from
@PolterBlast
@PolterBlast 3 ай бұрын
Lord help me and all my brothers and sisters in Christ who struggle with lust, let them know they are set free from their old chains by the blood of Jesus, let them know they are forgiven, a righteous man falls 7 times and rises again. Help us Lord do away with our lust and lead us into Your love. In Jesus name amen.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@PolterBlast amen 🙏🏾
@nea1568
@nea1568 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@minecraftbros5272
@minecraftbros5272 3 ай бұрын
I love this brother. God bless you.
@minecraftbros5272
@minecraftbros5272 3 ай бұрын
We can do this together.
@PolterBlast
@PolterBlast 3 ай бұрын
@@minecraftbros5272 amen
@aa.yannah
@aa.yannah 3 ай бұрын
This video was so transformative for me. Not only pertaining to sexualization, but also further emphasizing WHY it is important to be in His word. I appreciate your obedience to Him. All glory be to God. Have a blessed one! 🙏🏽
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@aa.yannah amen, God bless you 🙏🏾
@thethrowbackguy4319
@thethrowbackguy4319 2 ай бұрын
Even if you fall back, don’t stop stopping!
@bioncablue5482
@bioncablue5482 3 ай бұрын
I think it’s so important that you brought up adult and kids shows being sexualized because I think people underestimate how rampant it is. Even in circles where a lot of people don’t even realize how bad it they’ve involved themselves. I came from those spaces where I was constantly going “at least I’m not as deep as those other people” while I was actively sinking till God snatched me up by my scruff and I’m so thankful he loves me so much.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen, exactly what I initially thought as well.
@willelkins8225
@willelkins8225 3 ай бұрын
+ Romans 10:9-10 "That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@jowahnuh
@jowahnuh 3 ай бұрын
Wow. I’m 16 but I feel like I’ve been perverted but this hit. I need to get back to my word. God bless u man
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@jowahnuh praise God 🙏🏾
@potato_chip_4714
@potato_chip_4714 Ай бұрын
Two amazing things i took away from this was: 1. Boundaries - After you spoke about not taking your phone jnto the bathroom with you, the word boundaries hit me hard. I've heard so many times people talking about setting boundaries with OTHER people but not about the boundaries you set for yourself and how important it is to actually set them! 2. Jesus used scripture to fight off Satan when he was being tempted! If Jesus had to use scripture to fight off temptation, I dont see how im supposed to fight it off without it! Thank you so much for this video, God spoke to me through this, and I'm starting my journey of purification of my mind and body💖
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@potato_chip_4714 and it’s a blessing that the Lord was able o just use me for his message. Boundaries with self is vital, especially if we struggle with fighting lustful desire
@sebastien1966
@sebastien1966 3 ай бұрын
I pray everyone can get through their struggles with and through Christ Amen
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
🙏🏾
@BlitzeZenon
@BlitzeZenon 3 ай бұрын
I truly needed this, as I've been avoiding lust and sinful pleasures as much as possible these past couple of weeks. Lord truly blessed me by putting this in my recommendations. May God Bless you and protect you from all evil desires. ✝️🙏❤️
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@BlitzeZenon amen, God bless you and keeping resisting the devil and cling to the Lord 🙏🏾
@ChristSoldier95
@ChristSoldier95 3 ай бұрын
This is so deep! I eventually cut off social media completely been off it for a while it’s so cleansing and refreshing. God has set me free! If you can break a habit for 30 days, you can completely cut it off.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@ChristSoldier95 when I first got saved I delete all my social media. I later realized I didn’t need it at all.
@TrojanLlama
@TrojanLlama 3 ай бұрын
Thanks, every video I see of these is say “don’t think about it” but it’s not that cutthroat. I’ve completely removed falling into the temptation of lust from my life, but unfortunately I still have intrusive thoughts. Thanks for your help
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@TrojanLlama amén 🙏🏾
@audrey0707
@audrey0707 3 ай бұрын
I’ve been blasting worship and watching sermons and keep my bible open every night by my bed side. It’s tough being single out here. God bless your channel and content
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@audrey0707 🙏🏾
@sher-sasha9817
@sher-sasha9817 Ай бұрын
I was at church. The lady next to me says, 'the spirit told her to ask me what I needed prayer for'. I hesitated, spoke to God, and asked if I could confide in her. I believe that it wasn't about confiding in her, but it was time that I had called out the thing that I was struggling with. Lust. I told her and she prayed right there is service. I gave in to temptation afterward... but confession was what I needed. We have to call it by it's name. Confess it. Our freedom awaits. No need to hide or be embarrassed. We are not the only ones experiencing this. I thank God for deliverance. And the strategies of fleeing temptation. I don't want to tally the number of times I've fallen or the number of days I've been faithful. I know that only God can keep me, and I'm relying on him. Not myself. God bless you.
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@sher-sasha9817 amen that’s beautiful
@sher-sasha9817
@sher-sasha9817 Ай бұрын
Thank you
@agapefor-the-trouble-heart5060
@agapefor-the-trouble-heart5060 3 ай бұрын
Super helpful. Especially the verses I found after you spoke about about calling good evil and evil good.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@agapefor-the-trouble-heart5060 🙏🏾
@wham9361
@wham9361 3 ай бұрын
This felt like a conversation with a friend. Thanks for the message man, I learned a lot. God bless you man
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen, I’m super glad you said it was more of a conversation . Praise God, I try to push the word of God with truth but without condemnation
@Veritas0371
@Veritas0371 Ай бұрын
Today at work I decided to listen to the book of Job and 1 Corinthians. It’s is now the end of my day. It all makes sense now.
@makosajones2372
@makosajones2372 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video man, this video made me woke and I feel like I got closer to god just watching this video.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@makosajones2372 amen 🙏🏾
@MightyBryanGaming
@MightyBryanGaming 3 ай бұрын
I love this vid, only thing I gotta say is that I believe no man when they say last days are coming soon, these “signs” sure are probable but if the word of God himself ,Jesus Christ, says he does not know then no man can possibly know. I just love everyday as if it can be my last and leave everything else to God🙏🏽
@ianjferrer5268
@ianjferrer5268 3 ай бұрын
Honestly bro this is a lifesaver, you came out of nowhere on my page and this honestly is something i struggle with, having fallen back into recently im praying for strength and wisdom to flee from these thoughts man
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@ianjferrer5268 amen I pray that you submit to God and that the enemy flees 🙏🏾
@bigbrotherzeke
@bigbrotherzeke 2 ай бұрын
🙏🏿 God’s timing is perfect lord guard my eyes
@jujuoof174
@jujuoof174 2 ай бұрын
I’m not struggling with this specific things but I know people who need this and I’ll be sure to send it to them. This is wonderful advice, thank you and God bless YOU for bettering many’s lives❤ To be honest, even if they are less common, I’ve been suffering of sexual thoughts due to unwanted stumbling upon inappropriate fan art, for example. That, or general communites😞 But thanks to The Lord He freed me from these by teaching me to stay away from these harmful communities and temptations and how they were wrong but also go into better communities with a safe way to find fan art❤ Best of lucks, ya’ll! I’ll pray for you
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
@@jujuoof174 amen, praise God. The awareness of the Holy Spirit speaking to you and bringing it to you is how we grow closer to God and realize that through that we continue to grow in him. I pray you cast out those thoughts in the name of Jesus 🙏🏾
@MatheusSilva-zl2jp
@MatheusSilva-zl2jp 2 ай бұрын
Thank you i suffered with this sin but not anymore Thanks to the Grace of God i quited end never came back.
@ohkay1976
@ohkay1976 3 ай бұрын
Amen brother ty!!!!!! God is good!! If our right hand causes us to sin CUT IT OFF AKA GO TO EXTREME MEASURES TO NOT SIN!! I’ve even thought about getting a flip phone!!!
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@ohkay1976 oh yeah you get that flip phone. It won’t be no late night lust 😂
@ohkay1976
@ohkay1976 Ай бұрын
Exactly and no constant online addiction either
@barryallen5127
@barryallen5127 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message, Lord. If someone here struggles with temptations/battles with the mind I encourage to you spend more time with God through prayer. Jesus said "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation" and spend more time with the word of God. May God bless every one of you and your families.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@lay6285
@lay6285 20 күн бұрын
I had been putting off watching this video but I finally decided to watch it. This video helped me a lot with my mind that you brother
@demaniage
@demaniage 19 күн бұрын
Maaan, praise God. It’s such a blessing to see comments like this 🙏🏾
@caseyzimba9935
@caseyzimba9935 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! This is so true. I had been 5 months clean from masturbation and recently fell into sin again. God began to show me that my mind still needs healing to continue the process. That healing and transformation can only come from the regenerative transformation of the Word. Filling our minds with the Word is so important. God has asked me to give up so many things that I had no idea played a role. It started with my choice books (now I read Christian fiction and clean fiction mostly), then the songs I listen to, the way I play my video games, and KZbin content 😅 I want to remind everybody to surround yourselves with Godly things EVERYWHERE. It will change your life. And always continue in the Word. I also want to express how much I love your thumbnails and titles. They are very to the point and simple. God bless! ❤
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
@@caseyzimba9935 amen, thank you so much 🙏🏾. Your testimony is very encouraging.
@Skrilla._0
@Skrilla._0 2 ай бұрын
this is so encouraging, as a girl who struggles with hyper sexuality i struggle with perversion and lustful thoughts so this video really helped me
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
@@Skrilla._0 hallelujah
@timu-san
@timu-san 25 күн бұрын
I thank God for strength, maybe silly and a bit cringe but I threw away sex toy today, I put it in a brown paper amazon bag I had laying around took it out with the trash. I still have my hands obviously and temptation will no doubt surface again this is an on going issue I've had for 20+ years. But that's a step for me. Been thinking about it for a few days now your video helped push me to get it done “What fruit had ye then in those things whereof ye are now ashamed? for the end of those things is death. ” Romans 6:21 KJV
@maggiemyers8111
@maggiemyers8111 10 күн бұрын
This was really really helpful!! Today’s society definitely alters our way of seeing what was supposed to be set apart and holy. 🙌🏻
@demaniage
@demaniage 10 күн бұрын
@@maggiemyers8111 amen, Gods plan and will for our lives sexually has been totally tainted and perverted
@RamRo457
@RamRo457 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking about this I'm so glad you appeared in my recommended because I struggle with this a lot and it's been getting better but this has been my biggest issue and I thank God for how much he has helped me. And to anyone seeing this comment and struggling remember 2 Timothy 1:7 For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self control. Trust in Jesus. God bless you all my brothers and sisters amen.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@RamRo457 praise God, I pray that you continue to realize that Jesus has overcame this battle for us, and if we abide in him we can be set free. 🙏🏾
@campusevangelism1859
@campusevangelism1859 3 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much. Nothing will compromise my relationship with God.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@Ghouxl
@Ghouxl 23 күн бұрын
2:52 man facts like me I try my best to not take my phone with me when I’m going to take a shower, sometimes I forget but definitely don’t take it with me no more. Amazing video brother. Praise Jesus
@demaniage
@demaniage 22 күн бұрын
@@Ghouxl amen, God bless you 🙏🏾
@Ghouxl
@Ghouxl 22 күн бұрын
@ God bless you aswell brother 🙏🏽
@pd96_824
@pd96_824 19 күн бұрын
Bless you brother for sharing this! I've had this saved in my Watch Later for awhile, but finally watched it today. Much needed and much appreciated 👏🏾
@demaniage
@demaniage 19 күн бұрын
@@pd96_824 Praise God. God bless you 🙏🏾
@minecraftbros5272
@minecraftbros5272 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your message and encouragement. This is an amazing ministry. Keep it up
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@minecraftbros5272 🙏🏾
@TheMemeCoach2
@TheMemeCoach2 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I have had trouble with sin and it has effected my body since then. But when i learned more about God last year, it finally made me starting changing my ways of sin. I really Thank the Lord for what he has done for us. Thanks again, and God Bless You.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@TheMemeCoach2 amen brother, God bless you 🙏🏾
@cdatmoney
@cdatmoney 3 ай бұрын
i keep falling to the sin of lust, i feel the holy spirit telling me to stop and convicting me, but i ignore it even tho i know it’s wrong, i just repent later and the cycle repeats itself. im scared ill die tonight and i won’t go to heaven because of this disgraceful repetitive sin 😢
@Eduardo-j2d
@Eduardo-j2d 3 ай бұрын
Repentance is NOT saying "sorry." That is only part of repentance but that isn't the whole thing. When you come to repent you MUST truly reflect on your actions and think about what did you feel when you were tempted? Was your heart beating faster then normal? What kind of thoughts did you have during temptation? What did you do when you were tempted? Did you try to reason with those thoughts? Did you choose to run to God and flee from sexual/immoral sin? Or did you choose you to give you heart to the devil? You see a lot of "Christians" only say sorry but they don't mean it. I used to do the same thing until I realized that part of having faith in Christ is by following his example and to truly repent I must CHNAGE MY BEHAVIOR!! learn = change of behavior not processing info. You see I recommend that you read "Purity is Power", Atomic Habits, and the Bible. To overcome sexual perversion, sexual sin, lust, and even adultery... You must #1 FLEE FROM LUST, FLEE/RUN AWAY FROM TEMPATION DON'T REASON WITH IT. did Jesus reason with the devil? HECK NO, Jesus didn't dwell on it he used scripture. But I highly advise that you not only flee from lust, but you also CUT OFF anyway or any means that can lead you to sin... What leads you to sin? What gets you access to P? Phone? Tablet? Mac? Computer? When you are tempted, run away from it, cut off all sources that lead to sin, and RUN TO GOD, and pray to him speak to him about what your feeling. That's how you will beat it. You must give your heart to God instead of Satan which is something that Purty of power speaks of. You must also adopt a change of lifestyle and keep yourself busy throughout the day by working on your goals. That can be business, job, hobbies, reading, socializing, but I do say don't stay too much on screens.
@KingD-light
@KingD-light 3 ай бұрын
Do you have any or let him hear what the spirit is saying unto the church. Preach young brother preach 🙏🏾
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@rosadele9715
@rosadele9715 3 ай бұрын
Praise the lord , this is what i have prayed for this morning , God is so good , hallelujah, God bless you sir .
@Anna28942
@Anna28942 2 ай бұрын
This is the first video I've seen from you, and it was very good. You explained everything wonderfully, used the bible well to support yourself, and gave good solutions that were open to all situations people may be in. You did amazing, I can't wait to see what you do next! God bless! ❤
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
@@Anna28942 amen. I just try to stay close to and continue to grow in Christ. I’m learning everyday and I have to give Jesus the glory 🙏🏾
@jesuslovezu
@jesuslovezu 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so vulnerable. Makes sense why falling into it was so inevitable. I literally would keep streaks of how long I would hold off from the sin. That set me up for failure. That sin has been with me for five years… and it started to feel normal. I’ve never told anyone accept my parents at the very beginning and I didn’t even give them the full story. Just the sin and the struggle. Thank you for being so vulnerable, truly. Because I’m finally figuring out how to battle this as I know God has already won ❤
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
Amen, God bless you and I pray that you continue to stay strong and lean on Jesus when the temptation comes
@candlestickk
@candlestickk Ай бұрын
Dude God chose you to be a voice for him because the way you got the points across is amazing. I am a 17 year old male trying to end my lustful path and this video has definitely helped. Thank you.
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@candlestickk praise God brotha. 🙏🏾
@rafaelacristina8026
@rafaelacristina8026 23 күн бұрын
Uau, que video impactante! Acho que nao foi o algoritmo que me trouxe até aqui.. . Deus com sua sabedoria revelou ao seu servo algo, e ele nem fala a mesma língua que eu, mas me trouxe aqui. A mensagem que Deus te deu foi incrível, glória Deus. ( são tres e trinta e dois da madrugada aqui no Brasil, ja estava indo dormir decidi apenas dar uma última olhada no KZbin... Deus sabe o que faz.) A sexualização e carência pode ser uma pedra no caminha, uma dica boa é ser sincero com Deus, e na hora que quiser pecar dizer para o Criador, pedir ajuda e sabedoria para lidar com isso.
@demaniage
@demaniage 23 күн бұрын
@@rafaelacristina8026 tenho dificuldade em encontrar programas que sejam muito sexuais. às vezes, mesmo que seja um pouco sexual, ou pulo a cena ou confio que o espírito santo está me dizendo para não me entregar a nenhuma forma de luxúria. lembre-se que a Bíblia diz para resistir ao diabo e ele fugirá. Também para não dar lugar ao diabo em sua vida. Deus te abençoe irmão, é realmente uma bênção para você ver este vídeo e ter o Senhor falando com você
@WijanWilhelmtheSteelbearded
@WijanWilhelmtheSteelbearded Ай бұрын
Wow Demani, thank you so much for this video, it was an encouragement to me when I really needed it. When we go through this stuff, so many times it feels like God is ashamed of us, like he's gone away or given up, but he cares and can't stop, because nothing can separate us from his love, not even our sin, and when you talked about how we can be cleansed by the blood of Jesus Christ, it just reminded me how the power of the Gospel is unstoppable, and we can run to it any time, because "if we do sin, we have an advocate with the Father" (1 John 2:1). Thank you for this encouraging video, you're an absolute legend, God is using you, keep up the good work!
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@WijanWilhelmtheSteelbearded amen, praise God. I am beyond grateful to hear that the Lord was able to just use me to encouragement his child 🙏🏾
@heyppl.7
@heyppl.7 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! This really encouraged me to be careful in what I watch.
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@heyppl.7 praise God 🙌🏾
@evonnamarie346
@evonnamarie346 3 ай бұрын
Thank you God for this video! ❤
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
🙏🏾
@spraycheese5
@spraycheese5 3 ай бұрын
Word of God has power. Thank you Jesus, my Saviour for leading me to this.
@takemoretrysome6990
@takemoretrysome6990 29 күн бұрын
I HAVE ALSO GOTTEN INTO MY ADDICTION,BUT I SHALL S5AY TRUE TO MYSELF AND THE THE LORD AND START PREVENTING MYSELF FROM THE THINGS OF THIS WORLD ❤
@KC_Tower
@KC_Tower 3 ай бұрын
Brilliant video bro. Keep the good fight up. It is everywhere these days. It is an ongoing battle, I will use prayer everyday to help maintain mindfulness and do what is right.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen, God bless you and stay strong 🙏🏾
@phatazzniggaah
@phatazzniggaah 3 ай бұрын
I've been over a week strong ever since I came to God and prayed over it. Haven't had a lustful thought at all! This video is not a coincidence! God bless you 🙏🙏🙏
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Praise God
@hossanaomare.
@hossanaomare. 2 ай бұрын
FINALLY!! SOMEONE MADE THIS VIDEO. I WAS HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT ABOUT THIS FEW DAYS AGO. GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER!❤
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
@@hossanaomare. amen 🙏🏾
@k83yn
@k83yn 3 ай бұрын
timing is crazy
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@k83yn praise God
@AmbarMoreta-kh2tm
@AmbarMoreta-kh2tm 3 ай бұрын
Powerful message! AMEN!💯🙏🏽🙌🏽❤🥰
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
🙏🏾
@mimou9036
@mimou9036 Ай бұрын
This was really good. Thanks for mostly pointing us back to the Word of God. The question "is your sword dull because you haven't spent time in the Word?" reaaaally spoke to me. That's so good!! Now, does anyone have verses that speak the truth about the beauty and holiness of bodies that we can remember in times of temptation?
@mangolover-lg4ho
@mangolover-lg4ho Ай бұрын
Thank you Demani, I really needed that 😢❤
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@mangolover-lg4ho God bless you
@zanesutherland406
@zanesutherland406 Ай бұрын
I have been taking social media breaks, going on for maybe 15 min or so every few days or more instead of daily and doom scrolling, which tends to lead down a bad rabbit hole. Regardless of how much you block it seems to be filled with a never ending supply of perverse videos of people. I put porn blockers on my phone just so that I’m not going down those rabbit holes. I try to rebuke lustful thoughts and listen to mostly Christian music. I struggle with the idea that masturbating is wrong, as I have been single my whole life, and I do feel it helps relieve stress, is like massage, self care, an acknowledgment of being a sexual being, and helps with being abstinent. I do think it can be done without lusting, I believe that’s the main problem is if you are doing it to someone in particular. It’s hard being a sexual being, and yet I feel like I can’t acknowledge that. Religious people, growing up in a Christian household, Christian church and school, sex wasn’t talked about openly, and if anything in many contexts was shamed. It led to sexual suppression and shame, never dating when I was younger because I didn’t want to be made fun of or have attention on me. It took a long time for me to have a good relationship with sex and embracing being a sexual being in a healthy way. I have recently tried to stop masturbation, but again it feels like my experiences are being disregarded and I’m just some robot. Is it not weird to basically act like it’s not a thing and then all of a sudden be married and now everything is normal?
@etradioactive7606
@etradioactive7606 2 ай бұрын
Thankyou for your words and encouragement and may GOD continue lead and bless you as well amen
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
Amen, God bless you 🙏🏾
@Langedechuu
@Langedechuu Ай бұрын
Motivating and hopeful thank you for the video brother.
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@Langedechuu amen, God bless you brother 🙏🏾
@nerdbamarich2063
@nerdbamarich2063 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message 🙏🏾
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@nerdbamarich2063 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@claudiamasasa3484
@claudiamasasa3484 2 ай бұрын
Thank you God. I needed this. ❤️
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
@@claudiamasasa3484 amen 🙏🏾
@PeaceAndQuiet._.
@PeaceAndQuiet._. 3 ай бұрын
thank you friend i needed this talk
@catofvalor7987
@catofvalor7987 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this message!
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@catofvalor7987 amen 🙏🏾. God bless you
@Masofties
@Masofties 18 күн бұрын
I pray to overcome this because I have been struggling with it - even when I'm reading my bible or praying .I ASK THAT YOU PRAY FOR ME AS I PRAY FOR MYSELF. I'm a child of GOD and I live by grace not by the law of sin .
@Abbylovesrunning
@Abbylovesrunning 21 күн бұрын
Thank you I needed this
@demaniage
@demaniage 21 күн бұрын
@@Abbylovesrunning God bless you 🙏🏾
@Abbylovesrunning
@Abbylovesrunning 20 күн бұрын
@demaniage God bless you too 🙏🏽
@WordsWithHector
@WordsWithHector 3 ай бұрын
Hallelujah praise God
@Aliciaaaaaa
@Aliciaaaaaa 3 ай бұрын
This was from God literally! Thank you for listenig and God Bless you
@belindaasante7123
@belindaasante7123 3 ай бұрын
Wow amazing video God bless you Sir very important topic 🙏🏾
@ClarisaMann09
@ClarisaMann09 2 ай бұрын
God bless you and thank you for sharing the word. ❤
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
@@ClarisaMann09 God bless you 🙏🏾
@denalixo
@denalixo 3 ай бұрын
Love this! God Bless you brother
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
God bless you 🙏🏾
@sweepingbricksfilms
@sweepingbricksfilms 3 ай бұрын
I have been struggling with sexual thoughts. This was helpful, God bless you brother. Jesus saves sinners like you and me
@wajoo2358
@wajoo2358 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message. May God keep on blessing you brother.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@wajoo2358 thank you , may God bless you 🙏🏾
@81stdelii
@81stdelii 2 ай бұрын
God bless you fr
@demaniage
@demaniage 2 ай бұрын
@@81stdelii God bless you 🙏🏾
@yellow.artist
@yellow.artist 2 ай бұрын
watching this cause I came from "Out-of-pocket daydreaming fantasy thoughts"
@ChampKeysorMinistries
@ChampKeysorMinistries 2 ай бұрын
This video blessed me
@HeyThatMeee.
@HeyThatMeee. 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Amen.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@HeyThatMeee. 🙏🏾
@anandjoshua7904
@anandjoshua7904 3 ай бұрын
AMEN Thank You JESUS
@Secretbee12
@Secretbee12 3 ай бұрын
This was absolutely wonderful!🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@adriennesimpkins2275
@adriennesimpkins2275 3 ай бұрын
I am in battling with lust for a while and I have been trying to fight it one minute I don't do it for a long long time and next minute I slip up into pornography and then to masturbation and I'm trying to stop for good because I care about the return of Jesus Christ and I care about his judgement
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@adriennesimpkins2275 amen, I know it is something we have struggled with or we are battling currently. But know that Jesus is the strength that we have and that he overcame ever form of temptation so that we can be free. He over came the world for us.
@adriennesimpkins2275
@adriennesimpkins2275 3 ай бұрын
@@demaniage I don't wanna be rejected by him I know what he does to Christians who keeps sinning I'm trying to stop plus I wanna get married and I wanna be in the 3rd Heaven with him I see my dad and my love ones again I miss my dad
@Eduardo-j2d
@Eduardo-j2d 3 ай бұрын
Bro do this #1 when you are tempted run away from Lust. #2 CUT OFF ANYWAY THAT LEADS YOU TO SIN. What sources lead you to sin, how do you access P? Phone? Tablet? Computer? #3 when tempted DON'T DWELL on it don't just sit and contemplate. #4 Run to God, pray to God, and tell him everything your feeling, and pray and give your HEART to God. Tell him "Lord I give you everything that doesn't come from you. Please free me from this passion of lust I feel in my heart, liberate my mind from all the kinds of images and videos I used to watch." #5 if you fall into temptation don't just go to God and say "I'm sorry." Sorry ain't gonna cut it man, you MUST REFLECT on what led you to make that decision. Jesus spoke about prayer and meditating on prayer. You must think about what you feel when your tempted, what your thoughts are when your tempted, and what is it that you do when your tempted? Do you contemplate on those thoughts? #6 read Purity is Power, atomic Habits, and the Bible. AND APPLY WHAT IT TEACHES. I will say that in summary of Purity is Power, it speaks about "giving your heart to God" when your tempted. Because if you give your heart to Satan when you are tempted then at that point you would be serving Satan rather than Christ. You would be choosing to hug sin instead of letting it go and running away from it. YOU CANNOT WIN, ONLY GOD CAN THAT'S WHY YOU RUN. IT IS Written TO FLEE FROM Youthful LUST AND PURSUE RIGHTEOUSNESS
@chimamakaadeniyiofficial
@chimamakaadeniyiofficial 19 күн бұрын
@@adriennesimpkins2275Do it because you love God, and you know it’s beneficial for you, not just because you’re afraid of his judgement. See, this video is sufficient. Give it to Jesus, he restores. Go on a retreat, place boundaries over yourself, stay in your word, pray, fast, if your spirit is not strengthened you will not be able to fight the flesh. When you spend more time with God, sin will fall away gradually.
@Fw_lizzie.444
@Fw_lizzie.444 2 ай бұрын
Thank you🤍🤍
@marseb2z
@marseb2z 3 ай бұрын
amen. thank u for this. God bless you.
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@marseb2z God bless you 🙏🏾
@MichaelIsChosenByGod
@MichaelIsChosenByGod 3 ай бұрын
Watching this video has me realizing I need to do everything in Christ and watching Christian motivation videos
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@MichaelIsChosenByGod 🙏🏾
@bofoem
@bofoem 3 ай бұрын
God bless you too my brother
@isaiahluther1470
@isaiahluther1470 3 ай бұрын
Bless you To God be the glory
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾. God bless you
@isaiahluther1470
@isaiahluther1470 Ай бұрын
@@demaniage 🙏
@Lifeworks_d.i.a
@Lifeworks_d.i.a Ай бұрын
I've been praying for the Lord to reveal himself to me through everything around me and his word,and he keeps on verifying all the scriptures I've been reading and i thank him
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@Lifeworks_d.i.a amen 🙏🏾
@giselleraffles760
@giselleraffles760 3 ай бұрын
Amén, His love made us new, si whenever we get lies in our spirit. We gotta remember what Jesus did for us, nothing else matters, outter voices they don't matter. JESUS MADE US NEWW ❤❤, that's why we gotta know the word. HIM
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@jayima1997
@jayima1997 3 ай бұрын
this video is an answered prayer
@demaniage
@demaniage 3 ай бұрын
@@jayima1997 amen 🙏🏾
@skatingwooper1234
@skatingwooper1234 Ай бұрын
perfect timing bro i was about to sin out of lust until i saw your video thank you
@demaniage
@demaniage Ай бұрын
@@skatingwooper1234 such a Blessing
@Hashemloves
@Hashemloves 22 күн бұрын
I saw this video more then 3 times, I said if I see this video for 4th time I will take this as a sign to listen to and this appeared a week later…
@demaniage
@demaniage 22 күн бұрын
@@Hashemloves wow, that’s such a blessing that you were lead back to this video
@Hashemloves
@Hashemloves 22 күн бұрын
@demaniage Thank you, I was seeing this video many times because this is a sin I struggle with, and always thought I knew better, and I saw this video and said if I see this video one more time I'll take this as a sign, because I didn't think I needed it but I saw it today and watched it, it was more than I needed I thank you for making this video ☺️
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