How to Deal with Feelings of Jealousy as a Man

[@huntermogs]

1) Let it motivate you 2) Acceptance(difficult) 3) Just dont dwell on it, doesn’t matter in the long run

[@ascended266]

You're the man Hunter!

[@TheLukester_Navy]

Coping with is important for mental health, but can be destructive when it becomes delusional

[@ascended266]

Right, there is definitely a fine line between coping and being delusional.

[@benscampers1818]

Jealousy is natural and rooted in your mate competition programming. Accept it and let the feeling flow without faulting yourself for it.

[@LaxDux]

The ONLY way to beat jealousy and envy is acceptance. Accept that others are just better than you in things that you and they had no control over

[@ascended266]

Right, some guys just have you beat in certain areas.

[@gen_z_alien29]

@@ascended266 not just certain areas…sometimes ALL AREAS. Its called getting life mogged 🤣 PS. Still waiting for ur video on class disparity between ur family and ur rich cousins 😁

[@ascended266]

@@gen_z_alien29 I will definitely have to make that video. That would be a good one lol

[@andikrause399]

I have never cared if someone has a better job, more money or a better car than me, it doesn't mean anything to me. The only thing that really makes me a bit jealous is when I am surrouned by a real Chad. You can see how women act infron of him, they treat him like a king. That's why whenever I see an average guy in a Mercedes or Ferrari with a trophy girlfriend I never get jealous, in fact I smile knowing that he is delusional into thinking she is really with him for him. You know the typical full bearded wannabe alpha who thinks he has it all but he simply doesn't get it until she leaves.

[@dancooper4443]

You speak from my heart bro. You can always "cheat" yourself into money, status, oofy doofy and betabuxx but you can never "cheat" genuine physical attraction. Especially a Mr. Steal your girl type.

[@andikrause399]

@@dancooper4443 Facts!

[@user-fi2zs2ww1r]

i was hoping you’d talk about jealously among family and friends. my little brother looks infinitely better than me and doesn’t suffer from autism like i do, so you can imagine we live on different planets lol. he knows im BP so he’ll do patronizing stuff to remind me of the mog, like bringing up me being single and saying “just be attractive bro just looksmax bro it’s your personality” and he’s not dumb, he’s a little BP himself and loves when he sees a reaction out of me. during a heated argument or fight he’ll say something about me being ugly which is obviously straight from the heart. probably the worst of it is the difference in treatment from our parents. they are always playful and joking with him and something that gets me in trouble can fly with him. there’s been group chats i’ve been excluded from even within my own fkn family bro. i confronted my mom about this and was met with the expected gaslighting (you’re hard to talk to, you never make jokes, you should’ve just asked, etc.) and i was just done LOL. you’d expect this kind of thing from aunts uncles and cousins, not your own fkn family tho my friends are far nicer and it’s a more indirect mog, but they all have separate friend groups they prioritize over me and are all very social and happy people. they treat me well enough but it’s clear they’d rather be somewhere else.

[@tristan4545]

I'm sorry you have to go through that. That sounds awful

[@AD-cc7bj]

Tbh, it was my family's behaviour and treatment that blackpilled me. You'll notice the lengths that they would go for for certain members. Nepotism being the main one.

[@FellTreeZ]

My younger brother just had his gf over for the night while I've never even had one, so this video is a godsend rn homie 🙌

[@ascended266]

No problem man! Don't sweat it.

[@qwertasdf5044]

Brutal bro, I feel for you.

[@benscampers1818]

Birth order determines a lot in that regard, my younger brother does much better with the ladies than me. I do much better financially. We all have highs and lows

[@qwertasdf5044]

@benscampers1818 glad you're not taking it badly.

[@Satanic-Dan]

Me to. I always smashed escorts cuz I have no other alternatives.

[@bedadays1763]

Ascended I have Aspergers and for a long time had the mask up but developed an anxiety after a disappointment in a relationship and now in my 30's have noticed considerably less respect from women.

[@crawler561]

I don't think that guys get jealous of a good looking guy in a super sports car with a top notch girl. Where guys get often jealous is after a rejection from their crush and they have to endure a scenario where their oneitis decides for the better looking guy and disappears with him in a bedroom. In my opinion this is the main cause of extreme jealousy and resentment. 98% of guys wish they would have only one average girl who desires and lusts after them and consequently they would be satisfied and motivated to improve more of their life. And an additional pro tip how you want to deal with jealousy: Avoid places where they can trigger jealousy for example- even if you had money: vacation on beaches: too much girls in bikinis and couples flirting around social circles: triggers bluepill mindset where you delusionally think you will have a chance with that plain jane girl because she KNOWS you jfl 😂 Last words for this topic. Jealousy is an extreme dangerous biochemical reaction due to lack of satisfactional resources especially in the reproductive field.

[@sgs8747]

Spot on. This is where you need to have a balance of both setting realistic expectations while still working to improve what you can. If you are poor, odds are you’ll never be rich, but if you try different things you may break out of poverty and live a better life. If you are unattractive, you may never be Chad dating all the models, but you can looksmax (say 4 > 5.5) and improve your game where you get a girlfriend (likely someone also 4-6)who loves you.

[@Satanic-Dan]

I struggle accepting that for me it’s escorts or getting very ugly women if I try hard enough. I don’t know how to accept this. I’m also lost in life as a whole and it’s makin me depressed.

[@ashleyoasis7948]

also a fellow escortcel

[@OccidentalAryan]

@@ashleyoasis7948 You in Australia?

[@Jaxol]

shaming ugly people is so normilized for some reason no matter who you are if you are ugly people will hate sometimes i wonder why we are so evil

[@Pearlywhiskers123]

Please can we get more videos of how people treated you now you've ascended. The jealousy and the happiness.

[@1Vettefan]

Try managing payroll where you know even what the top executives make since you process their pay lol. It used to bother me since when you see these numbers compared to your salary you're like WOW. It doesn't bother me anymore though since these employees often come and go and they have to deal with a lot more stress than I do. It would be nice to be able to buy my dream house though. Oh well. Maybe one day. The other times I used to feel a little jealous is when you are around a girl you like and you hear her gushing over some other guy. You don't even show up on her radar haha. People can't help what they are attracted to though.

[@ascended266]

That's brutal seeing how much they get paid lol glad you have a healthy perspective on it.

[@1Vettefan]

@@ascended266 I really enjoy my job and like the people I work with so I can't complain.

[@igesio]

I used to be jealous of popular/goodlooking guys who had sex when i was still a virgin. I'm in my mid 20s now and after a few years I got better looking and also my social/dating skills improved. I get attention from girls nos somewhat frequently. I started a new job recently and we went for a staff night out yesterday. The girl that I liked was all over somebody else. This time it only hurt a little bit for 5 minutes but then I was happy for him because he's my friend. This is only because I know that on the next night out my turn will come and I will be chosen over somebody else. I no longer have to wonder how sex happens.

[@ascended266]

Nice man! Glad you were able to ascend.

[@jcng7819]

That's the thing, only way to "heal" is to know there's always going to be other woman eventually. This doesn't happen when you're unattractive

[@braveheartproduction2323]

How to with jealousy as a man. 1. Repeat this to yourself whenever you notice yourself starting to feel jealous. “Don’t hate the player, hate the game.” 2. Know that all of us will parish someday. From the ugliest of men to the most handsome. From the richest to the poorest. To the tallest and the shortest, death conquers all. None of this shit really matters at the end of the day.

[@gub7872]

Big fan of your videos! Lots of great insight and told in an accessible and optimistic way.

[@bloodmoon6983]

Great video my man

[@murderman8578]

One word Elimination of the other party

[@superbikeaborad]

great video get lean stay lean and even the odds

[@Keith0384]

Sir, no offense intended but frankly this video is frankly I unrelatable to most guys who are dateless to begin with. It’s like “I was bald so I got a hair transplant” or “I was poor so I got a corporate job”. If it were that easy, there’d be no need for a black pill. Just saying.

[@ascended266]

I can understand where you're coming from. I just figured I would share my experiences with feeling jealousy as I think it's a brutal emotion and needs to be covered.

[@Arejen03]

This with the hair is accurate, im 33 and i started receding at temples like at 28.. i still have good hair but definitely noticing hairline recession hit me like a truck. Especially that i was always short ( im 5'7 ) preetyboy type guy i dont have the attractive masculine features i cant grow beard bc its patchy af and im short as mentioned. Hair was and is still big thing for me without it i will be coooked into oblivion.

[@ascended266]

Yeah man, hair loss is brutal especially if you had a pretty boy type look like you had.

[@TwistedLullabies]

Finasteride

[@Pearlywhiskers123]

​@@TwistedLullabies monoxidil. Hair transplant. Castor oil. Wigs. Hair plugs. Biotin. Most important is a crisp maooof peace ✌🏻.

[@TwistedLullabies]

@@Pearlywhiskers123 Finasteride is the most effective since prevents hairloss, stops it, and regrows hair. Minoxil is a close second though

[@Pearlywhiskers123]

@@TwistedLullabies WRONG. The most effective is a MAOF PICE crisper than KFC.

[@user-vw5jk9cs8r]

Only thing I’ve ever been jealous of was height, because there’s not really anything I can do to improve it (leg lengthening I would never do at 5’9, way too risky and lifts are done when you take your shoes off). I’ve never been really jealous of money, hair (I was also able to get an excellent transplant and you do always have options for hair, even if you have to resort to a good hair system) or face since I did at least get a good masculine face. But yeah height is just one of those things I can’t do anything about, but I’ve accepted it. If a girl really rejects me for being the average height of a male in our country, I’m good, plenty of others who will accept it. Hair, money, success, knowledge (maybe not intelligence but you can always improve your brain power) can all be improved so I’ve never really struggled with these so much.

[@HyperXcube]

Being jealous is ok, wishing bad thing upon those whom you're jealous of is bad

[@att2075]

it’s an understandable sentiment in some cases but I try to break away from, focus on my own grind it all i can do.

[@terrore63]

omg the city in the background is so good, what city is that?

[@ascended266]

It's Helsinski Finland.

[@jrd3675]

Yeah, we tend to fixate on what we lack.

[@ascended266]

Very true man!

[@mariobaratti2985]

I think you got jealousy mixed up with envy. In fact I'm at the same time the least envious person and the most jealous person I know. Meaning I give zero F about other people successes or women but I'm very possessive if I have a girlfriend

[@oscarperez5539]

Hey man just saw your voice halo effect video. Ive had girls imitate my deep voice in person.. like ill say whatsup (her name) or hows your day going (her name) and theycrespond back imitating my deep voice lol.. are those signs of girls flirting or taking an interest

[@IshvaraGodCazimi]

What treatments do you recommend to fix hair line and middle of head hair

[@superbikeaborad]

is there a actual picture of you? you say you're above average but can we see?

[@miesvaillanykyisyytta3252]

You were in Finland?

[@ascended266]

I was not actually. I would like to go there. Do you live in Finland?

[@Mau365PP]

Cope

[@IshvaraGodCazimi]

U still here?

[@timbaflax2422]

So many fakes and larpers in the blackpill community and manosphere but this guys definitely a real one 🫡

[@ascended266]

Thanks brotha! I appreciate you.

[@Satanic-Dan]

Idk who to believe sometimes