How to deal with painful memories... | Buddhism In English

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New born person We made mistakes This doesn’t mean who you are now. Now I become a good person. It takes time to heal Can’t forget past don’t force yourself. Don’t pay attention to the past memories. Do not dream about the future. Focus on the present moment what can I do to make myself better right now Do good thing

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Sinhala

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පින්වත් කළ්‍යාණ මිත්‍රයන් වහන්සේට පළමුවද දෙවනුවද තෙවනුවද මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා නිදුක් වෙත්වා නිරෝගී වෙත්වා සුවපත් වෙත්වා දුකින් මිදෙත්වා 🙏🙏🙏

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Me to.it helps to get rid of guilt, religion wants us to hurt us not heal the world. Jesus did not want to hurt us either. Man made religion is there unhealthy work.

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Not brother. Sir, he is a venerable monk 🙏🏻

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I needed to hear this. Being empath, sensitive, it has been so hard to keep moving ahead, and life can be so so difficult. Buddha's teachings thru you has always helped me immensely. Your teaching today has opened my mind furthermore. Thank you somuch for the good teachings you spread around humanity. I always feel encouraged watching your channel. Thank you once again 🙏🙏🙏 Brother.

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Yesterday is history Tomorrow is a mystery But today is the gift That is why it is called the present.

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This is exactly what I wanted to listen. I'm merit-full at this moment to see this. Always listen to Buddhism and going to change my life for good. Namoo Buddhaya. 🙏😊

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आप का बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद भंते.....to told right way to overcome past ❤

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You are talking to everybody heart reverend sir, i wonder how the supreme buddha would have made it in that time and no doubt almost everybody ensured nibbana.🙏🙏🙏

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පින්වත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්සේට මාගේ ගෞරවයණීය ප්‍රණාමය හා නමස්කාරය වේවා! ඔබ වහන්සේ මේ සිදුකරනා සත්කාරය නිවන් අවබෝධය පිණිසම හේතු වේවා! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 ඔබ වහන්සේගේ පහදා දීම් ඇසීමෙන් සිතට දැනෙනා සැනසුම අපමණයි. සියලු දෙනාගේම සිත් නිවී සැනසේවා.... සාදු! සාදු! සාදු!

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I have learned many things from this video's. I did try to do good things and now living happy life.I forgot past and moved forward.Doing meditation

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How did you do it?

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Your kind words touch the heart deeply. It always gives me my inner peace. I listen to you when I am stressed. I feel all the bad feelings go away from me. Thank you thero❤

[@marimarlotus7413]

Hola from Greece! Love today's message. Sometimes when I feel weak tend to think about the past and all the hurtful memories come and make me feel overwhelmed but when I am calm and in good mood past tend to be far away from me. It's so true what you say that not thinking about the past and focus on the present moment is the best way to deal with the painful memories. I think only time can make past fade away.. Thank you brother monk for your kind and compassionate heart. Namo Buddhaya ❤️❤️❤️🙏

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You are right. Focus on your present time , ook how you are and do what is necessary for you.

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[@jeevitham2821]

4.18 These lines made me better . My teacher hurt me more personally about my studies by comparing with others .But I did good only but she make me irritate by comparing my Mark with my friends and i started to get more jealous with my own friends. Then i started realizing that she is making me as bad evil who can hate her own friends for getting good marks.She is still doing that job . So when ever i study i think of that lady it giving me a negative vibes. My board exams are going to come. So I want my mind to be fresh . I saw this video it give better feeling and healing . I will remember what you said lifelong thank you buddha 🌺

[@AKSHITHo]

Indian teachers are the worst for real. I study in USA and the teachers are always supportive and not compare with anyone. Not all Indian teachers maybe same but most of them are.

[@trevordamien1550]

I am struggling very badly of loosing my dearest loving mom , one year ago dear sir, and I looked after her and cared for her for 14 years as the youngest son. I am so devastated and emotionally so broken dear Rev sir. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@JaySoul711]

How do you deal with it? By accepting impermanence? Not fighting it?

[@jeikevanvelthoven6726]

You are beautiful loving son for looking after your mother l wish you for your future a wonderful Life be proud of yourself for being such caring person in time in joy life l know your mother would want this for you she would not want you to be sad your mother is never gone she is in your heart forever good luck

[@johngallagher72]

Hope you are doing ok. I am kind of in a similar situation. I took care of my mom from the time i was 25 to 40. She passed away in 2013. Ten years later my dad passed away in 2023. I miss both terribly but try to find strenght in the fact that i know they are enjoying watching my journey

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Great!!! Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍💐💐💐❤️❤️❤️

[@julesjazzie]

I have been brought up as a Buddhist. The greatest thing about Buddhism it teaches you how to let go of the past or anything negative that happen in the past. One have to let it go in order to move on and be in peace. It is about acceptance. The past is gone and it is now and today. Take care all and stay safe.

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Sir, u r giving treatment for wounded heart..... Your explanation is too good... I m a fan of budha... Thank you so much...

[@janakiviswanathan159]

Thank you so much for the valuable information Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Govind98998]

Exactly ..due to narcissistic and toxic people i faced the below par child hood and bad teenage i wasted lots of time in my life now iam 30+ but still iam behave like nothing was happened i bornt in 2007 ofcourse morally that is justifying also...before 2007 iam extremely innocent my life started only from 2007 so i behave like iam 16 years person

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I hope you will get the strength to face any obstacle and be happy🙏Namo Buddhaya 🙏

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Thank you. In a way i needed to hear this.

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Thankyou ❤ ... Your every word calms me down. How much sorrow there is that cannot be told to anyone. Your videos are the way to go..

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I wish you could read my comment 🙂I want to tell you the pain I am suffering I want to tell you everything and want to tell how much your advice is helpful for millions . Life is not easy and same as it was .

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You can share if you like

[@akcreation7193]

I can't remove her memories from my life,she leaved me alone,her promises,make me cry.she is happy with new one but I can't focus in my life. please help me😔

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Try to learn the secret of sound divine to be free from attachments. 😊

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बहुत सुकून मिलता है आपको सुनकर..सारी चीज़ें समझती हूं,सब मोह माया लगता है..इन्हें छोड़ भी नहीं सकते..भविष्य में तथागत बुद्ध के शरण में आने की इच्छा है सब कुछ छोड़ कर..नमो बुद्धाय🙏🙏

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Too many likes from me I'm giving you millions of billion. It touched me so much when you said we should not forget and we will not forget but we should learn from our past. I practice to do to be a good person.

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I am feeling good to listen your speech...😊😊

[@chaitanyareyansh6538]

Yes stuck in the past which was very painful, not able to forget as had many betrayals from all known people, yes my mistake is I believed the people around me. Correct the more I try to forget the more it comes up, I don't even get sleep in the night as its been several yrs now

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Ven Sir. I am very happy to listen to your sermons. I learn a lot. May you be well and happy for doing this meritorious deed!

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Namo Buddhaya brother, Thank you so much for all these videos.I get answers to every questions in my mind😊 I practice vipassana that's the reason I came across your videos since then my day is incomplete without lesson.Im grateful to you for giving us hope and new life, Thank you ❤

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Wise video! A lesson to to help relive us from suffering

[@mmorrison3836]

Thank you, i am grateful for this as i am doing this healing work now.

[@M.Ojha9435]

Thank you Namo Buddhaya

[@indianpatriot7478]

Love and Respect from India 🇮🇳

[@sleeplessnightss]

I am so ashamed of my past... I don't know what was I thinking... I can't move forward ...

[@Magicbird29]

Don’t worry dear…I feel the same…I feel I am the biggest sinner on this earth. I regret so much for not knowing what I know now…it’s okay..time will heal everything.

[@francisharold8134]

I am from srilAnka. Miss a lot of my family. I was born there. And ❤️ you all for how you live.i believe the present.Thank you.

[@sagebay2803]

Thank you very much. This was so helpful.

[@jeandescamps1542]

Thank you very much again. I have learned many lessons from your teaching of Buddhism...Precious......

[@xvandana66]

Finally decided to walk away 8 years relationship where i was not happy since day 1

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Can you tell about how you deal with this

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​@@sreeparvathitj1523 u think she will reply after 2 years 😂

[@DojaKhadoj-og2hu]

Right desicon❤

[@tammyy_111]

It’s very healing when you speak

[@zelinan1364]

Thank you so much .

[@limbenglee]

Many present events that I chose to do, have keep me busy. Now all the past sad memories have become a history. Thanks Bhante

[@Manellamusic]

Namo Buddhaya !!! Please continue with what you're preaching. I think it is turning a whole lot of people into proper 'human beings' helping them to continue with their lives in the normal possible way.

[@lavnyasingh5330]

Kya bat hai....aj sb meri feelings pr video dal re ...God is listening my wishes very fastly ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Namo Buddhaya.Thanks guruji appreciate a lot.

[@theillusionist0482]

I'm not regret of what I did. Yesterday I fought with buillies. Now everyone thinks I'm not he bad guy Nobody didn't see how much buillies hurt me 😔😔

[@mirafelava8850]

From now on. I'm your new great listener

[@LabradoodleTofuBoy]

Thank you. Nam mo a Di da phat in Viet. I’m a Buddhist. This is Buddhist teaching 101, but being humans we are swallowed by pain & sufferings. For this, we tend to forget the most basic teaching. I’m going through a heartbreak rn (based on betrayal). I will remember this to forgive myself for what I thought I have done to deserve this. The presence is all we have, and I will try to remember that & liar on. One day at a time

[@RD-rz1ou]

Namo buddhaya! For the first time I saw this monk and I felt that he has come from the heaven. The way he smilies and the way he talks…. Everyone cannot do like that. Namo buddhaya!

[@lifeisshortmeditation5922]

Thank you for shearing venerable💗🙏

[@trevordamien1550]

Beautiful and mindfulness words Rev Sir. You are so inspirational and you take us through a river of wisdom and motivation.

[@michaeldebbarma5003]

i m a born christian but after i studied about prophet Gautam Buddha in my school life i started researching about his life and teachings and know he is a king son and in his life always meditate and do yoga with his disciples followers 🙏

[@rajithabesinghe506]

He is not a prophet. Just a human like you and me

[@storiestalkwithvenzilferna6184]

Thank You, Master. It has helped me a lot during this last few weeks to move on and lead a good life. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@deepdivergonzales421]

I'm not a Buddhist but Buddhism help my mind to free from so called religion. Peace and blessings be upon to each of us.

[@rahule73]

Buddhism is a way of Life. Will make you supremely happy 😊

[@anniecheurekjian9955]

I will do exactly what you said....we should always be good hearted people and wish good things to everyone..❤❤❤