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I'm sure we all would love to stand by the saying "family is everything" but the reality is that family isn't everything if they hurt and mistreat you.
Family can be a beautiful thing but when family engages in manipulation, lying, unhealthy competition, betrayal, triangulation, and many similar toxic behaviors, it's time to decide where you want and need to be in your life.
In this video, I give you insights on family and offer suggestions on moving forward in your life.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:23 communication in unstable families
3:00 why some people leave their families
4:15 roles you may play in your family dynamic
5:46 the mascot or clown
5:58 the lost child (and the first steps to detox)
6:53 the peace-maker and mediator (or rescuer)
7:00 the roles you should be aware of BEFORE you detox
7:29 the collapse of the dynamic
7:48 gossip and triangulation
8:18 ask yourself this question....
8:31 understand the adopted survival mechanisms in the family
9:32 be ready for a change in attachment style(s)
10:33 an obsessive need to control you can occur
11:16 can you manage what walking away may create?
11:24 unhealthy competition with family members continue
12:14 the process of FULLY detoxing is important to understand
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#trauma #TOXICFAMILY
#tamarahilllpc #toxicrelationship
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