How To Dress Well In Your 40s and Beyond | Men's Style Over 40

[@mandk6089]

I'm a 57 yearold grandfather. I find joggers to be comfortable and a reasonable price. With the proper fitting clothes and the right colors and footwear even an older guy like me can look good. My wife says I look hot too.... so really who cares what other people think. Joggers and a tee shirt are good for me and comfortable too. Great video.

[@txdang2009]

seriously, i wanna be comfortable. who the heck wants to look like everybody else

[@michaelwhite2600]

I hit 51 this week. I think I’m pretty lucky to have my own sense of style. When I hit 40, there was a shift that automatically told me what I couldn’t wear . It just came naturally to me , but one thing I knew is that I didn’t want to become an old stale piece of toast. You can look awesome at any age , but you have to wear something age appropriate. Nothing is worse than seeing someone my age wearing something geared towards college aged kids. You end up looking older ironically by trying to wear something younger. I like designer shoes. I buy one or two pairs a year. I go for basic black or gray sneakers . I just bought a blue pair of Blue suede Prada sneakers . You don’t have to spend a lot on shoes, but those are what adds a punch to my basic classic American wardrobe. Just throw in European shoes ! I love Camper too depending on what they have each season. Those are affordable and comfortable and not boring. I enjoyed this video! Thank you! My imperative too is a sport coat like a navy or black one. I like to travel in those because planes can be cold and it serves as an extra pillow. Ha ha! It looks better than a regular jacket and flight attendants respect me more for putting in the effort. I know they do.

[@GMack224]

Good advice. I’m 67 and I’m trying to find everyday wear. I’m retired yet when I go out I must be GQ. I’ve started getting high end haircuts, manicures and pedicures just to look fresh. I’m also looking into the minimalist approach for everyday clothing: chinos, tees, and casual walking shoes. Gotten rid of all my old suits. Now I have 3 classic suites for Sunday wear and special occasions. I’m trying to look like the “Man of Leisure” without looking like a pimp...lol

[@franklinsantillan17]

G. M. Wear what makes you happy and you’re comfortable with. Don’t worry

[@alienhatz3265]

hell yeah, put that work in!

[@jonjones8029]

Good for you mate. Remember to moisturize and take NMN. Much love.

[@willisix2554]

@G.m. can you explain what a" high-end haircut" is?

[@justingriffin2546]

Just cause ur getting 'high', You should not 'end' getting haircuts and manicures...

[@MirandaEspinosa]

Easy for you to say, I live in Key west. Locals wear t-shirts, shorts and sandals. If your wearing anything else, you get treated like a tourist. Trust me, you follow those tips here, you stand out, and not in a good way 😂

[@jayhpaq]

Don’t tourists usually wear T shirts, shorts and sandals when visiting Florida?

[@theproject568]

As a lifelong introvert, I dress for myself and nobody else. I like to look nice so that I feel confident and good about myself. I know a lot of guys whose fashion sense changes like the weather based on what they think will attract women. Another poster said it already, but who the hell cares what a woman thinks about your clothes? Your style and personal appearance should be a very selfish aspect in that you wear whatever you want because YOU want to wear it. If your clothes are what is specifically attracting a certain woman, then you can best believe her materialistic nature will soon come out and you will wish to God you never met her. There are a lot of nice, simple women out there who don’t have the tastes of some trashy Kardashian. My rambling overall point is to dress however it is that does it for you. Maybe it’s just my introversion coming out, but who the hell cares what someone else thinks of you? People are flawed all over the place and are in position to judge you for anything. Don’t overthink your clothing, gents. There’s much more to worry about in life besides that.

[@morganolfursson2560]

I think what matters is not to give a damn what people think and how they perceive you. Wear whatever you like and if you like how you look, then screw everybody else ! It is all about confidence, not clothes. Confidence doesn't come from what you put on your back, but from what you put in your brain. When you have that confidence, you could be a man and dress like Marie Antoinette and still be the most charismatic male in the room or on the street. NOTHING is sexier and more attractive than confidence, ask any woman or any gay man. Whether you are dressed in tailored clothes, shoes and accessories from head to toe, or dressed in GAP, the only thing that people around you will notice and that will matter to them, is your confidence or lack of it. Now all this being said, if you naturally look like a supermodel, you can wear a sack of potato and people will still find you attractive. And vice versa, if you are the doppelganger of Joseph Merrick, you can wear a Bespoke from Kiton or Desmond Merrion, and that won't change a thing. And that's the glitch in the machine. So work on your self confidence using your brain not your wallet !

[@DavidJJJ]

I disagree that you shouldn't worry about what other people think. There is a healthy amount I believe that is required to be able to dress appropriately. In my teens I didn't care what people thought of what I wore, and that extended to my personal hygiene. Almost everyone judges other people on what they look and smell like and you should too. In my teens my clothing choices were horrific and make me cringe now. At one point I decided to put my sweat pants away and start wearing jeans because my sister had a wedding coming up and I needed something 'nice' (but to be fair it was what a lot of people were wearing normally). This clothing change extended to normal situations and not just the wedding and I looked nice and it immediately make me more confident because I looked better, I then focused on my personal hygiene etc and it all helped, but it started with my new clothing choices.

[@pensebete4114]

I just purchased a high waist pair of training users. It changed my life. I no longer have to choose between directing it left, right, up, down 🤣 Everything is in place and the package is well kept

[@russellgranruth5949]

Great advice ; dressing age appropriate and stylish actually makes you feel younger because it demonstrates you pay attention to detail and people notice. Something I didn't pay attention to until my fifties. Always feels good when someone compliments your style. Keep up the great videos. Subscribed.

[@montazownianr1]

Great advice: dress as you like and feel most comfortable. Don't give a shit about people opinion.

[@gatorcellman]

Great advice and I'd like to add that choosing less items that are of higher quality is better than many items that are subpar. Example, cashmere and silk sweater, high quality wools, etc. While more expensive, if you go toward more classic, they look great, last longer, and will keep you in style. Also, put the time into a fitness routine. Not only will it make you look better, but it will keep you healthier and feel better.

[@retineshilares2497]

With climate changes, there is also changes in fashion. No one wearing animal based clothes are in fashion. We shouldn't keep being ignorant. There is some fair trade dess shirts availible that also support seamstress, and second hand clothes that can reduce the garment production pollution.

[@captjosemanuel5680]

Been there, done that...at the end of the day, it all comes down to personal preference ie. what makes YOU feel good, comfortable, and confident.

[@hespokestyle]

The REAL Capt Joe preach

[@txdang2009]

yeah, why do i have to look like everybody else to be attractive?

[@dwbush777]

Great video. I can wear a suit very well, yet at 62 I could never give up my polos, tshirts, jeans and khakis, and Sperry topsiders. They’re who I am! 😂. No one has ever said to me that I should dress like I’m older, or 62. And, I’m not so sure what that is or if I’d even want to either.

[@raulbeltran03]

My moto is wear what you want if you have a good head on your shoulder meaning fun outgoing humble, etc. She’s gonna like you no matter what you wear and if she’s judging you by what you are wearing, you probably don’t want her.

[@michaelblazin4093]

If she does not know you , clothes are about all that she has to guess what you are. If she knows and loves you, then clothes are large effort that you make so that she looks good for picking you.

[@waltski4375]

Kudos! It was tough, but I had to come to grips with my age/body a while ago (am now 54). Dress shirts, polos, chinos, and sport coats are now my uniform. T-shirts/sweats for a weekend Home Depot run are okay but not for weekday wear.

[@hespokestyle]

Waltski Many Thanks! A uniform is a good thing!

[@jasons8756]

I'm 46, 5" 9" tall and weight 185 lbs. I just spent from March 2019 - July 2019 dropping from 30% to 20% body fat. My goal is to get down to 8-10% and then from there never go above 12-13%. As I'm doing this, I can't help but to want to update my clothing style. The last 10 years I dressed for comfort and became more of a homebody. I can dress nice for a date, but I don't have enough stylish clothing options to wear if the date becomes many dates (a.k.a. relationship), so I'm seeking help. This is the first video I watch and I think it's a good start. But if there are any other videos that can give me more specific clothing ideas, I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks in advance!

[@JLUCKY6]

I'm 52 and in great shape eat healthy drink water and wear whatever you feel like wearing..

[@hespokestyle]

Water is super important.

[@MacTechG4]

I was forced to wear a blazer and tie in high school (bloody stupid dress code!), it made me utterly loathe ties and blazers/suits/tuxes, all that crap. I promised myself I’d never voluntarily wear a hangman’s noose...err tie ever again, I bagged up them all, put them in my outdoor fireplace, liberally hosed them down with lighter fluid and set them ablaze! I’m 50 now and I’ve never worn another hangman’s noose since, and I never will, formal/business wear can die in a fire for all I care If I could “Thanos-Snap” 100% of ties I’d do it in a heartbeat Simple casual for me, thanks :)

[@jvillalaz44]

Good information. 2 years ago when I turned 40. I decided to upgrade my look and clothes was the first investment I made in myself. I decided to head to Nordstrom and find the best of what's out there. Fitted clothing. Wow what a difference it made.

[@kevins4254]

I’m a high school teacher and I’m amazed at how many patents dress like their kids. My biggest pet peeve: the backwards baseball cap.

[@grahamb5930]

In fairness they look stupid on teenagers as well

[@GetUpTheMountains]

Maybe they'll file for new patents soon! One can only hope.

[@edwardgenet164]

I have an inner still, small voice telling me to " ..put on a suit and tie, get a good fedora. "

[@cliffcaverley2377]

However, plenty of adults including myself still want to wear decent jeans, t-shirts (in warm weather), hoodies and other comfortable clothes based on our personal tastes regardless of age in places where plenty of others including women are dressed the same which I believe we are entitled to in a free society. I understand the need to dress more modestly in finer places but I am mainly talking about general places

[@c.w.9615]

Tee-shirts, shorts and flip flops are worn by a good majority of men of all ages in Portland, OR for most of the year, even in cold weather. I want to say "please! too much information!" and "why are you content to look like a 16 year old." Dressing is all about comfort, and not caring too much about style. My opinions are frowned upon and I wonder if I should move somewhere else. I started dressing better at 39 and I'm 41 now. I'm new to all of this. I sometimes get the feeling I'm hurting my social standing because I want to dress better. Anyway, I love your content - one of my favorite dudes on the youtube!

[@hespokestyle]

Really appreciate the comment and support. Thanks for chiming in.

[@treblesix8730]

I live in a hot climate and will wear t shirts shorts and slip on sandals all year round. It would be nonsense to wear longs, socks and shoes. I dont possess a casual jacket. I have one tailored suit that i have worn once for a wedding. My idea of evening wear is a polo shirt and dress shorts or maybe a pair of chinos. I long for the days when i lived in the UK and had a comprehensive wardrobe of suits, overcoats and scarves. No, forget my last comment, pass me another t shirt........😆

[@alvinalcantara2009]

Thank you for your tips and suggestions although I believe what is more important are the following: comfort, practicality and happiness.

[@steampunkvampyre]

Brian as usual great advice, it may shock you to know I am 74, have always dressed well and everything I own fits !! its not easy xx

[@hespokestyle]

Well done, sir!

[@jeromelombardo6053]

I am 45 years old. My style has been and always will be my own.

[@hespokestyle]

That's awesome, man!

[@MichaelWVagg]

Thanks for acknowledging we don't all where suits everyday. It's one of the things that had me give up on seeking styling advice.

[@THAILANDCANUCK]

I'm 68 and have worn Levi 501 jeans since high school and will wear them til I die. But I do agee with NO socks with sandals!

[@andrew1212w]

I agree with most of your comments especially the one about “fit” because your body changes with age also your ears and nose become more hairy so I have bought a trimmer. Keep up the good work you have a nice way of explaining and presenting stuff 👍

[@hespokestyle]

I'm glad you like it. Appreciate that very much.

[@69thetrota]

There are also kids in their 20s who follow you brian.... You are a great inspiration!!! ;)

[@hespokestyle]

Thanks so much, Max. Appreciate the comment and the support.

[@69thetrota]

@daAnder71sorry man it is not my first language... I try to do my best.. Would you prefer to check my italian ? ....

[@mrsmith8224]

Max Ant good to see not eveyone in their 20s wear Yeezys

[@69thetrota]

@@mrsmith8224 yeah mr smith.. You know ... Good taste is not a matter of age.. ;)

[@stevenridley8293]

I am 46 and wear track pants and polo or jumpers everyday I am not at work...I always wear scrubs for work...I look fantastic because I really don’t care what others think...but thank you for your thoughts

[@cassierabe2491]

I'm a woman, but I can't stop watching your videos! I love menswear and actually into learning how to sew now and I would want to sew a siut. Great content Mr! From The Philippines.

[@todroyas692]

I’m 16 so I’m probably not the target audience for this but nevertheless there is some really good advice here.

[@hespokestyle]

Definitely advice that can be applied across all ages. Though you younguns can get away with a lot more than us old guys!

[@jammin6816]

todroyas - did you know that everyone over 16 was, at one time, 16? 😆 I’m 62 but I remember 16 “like it was yesterday”.

[@lucky37irish62]

He Spoke Style please let the old guy’s be the old guys, if I could get back to 41 I would in a New York minute. Not knocking you, but I realize now that I’m almost 60, saying I was old at 40 was ridiculous unless I was hanging out with twenty somethings. Valuable content nonetheless! Cheers!

[@longtalljay]

@@lucky37irish62 Right on. At 42, I was mistaken for 28, and 21 year old gals used to take me back to their place.

[@longtalljay]

Not dressing age-appropriately according to others' notions is essential, to say the least.

[@rst290]

I am 51 and I wear what I am comfortable in.

[@alienhatz3265]

@patrick m crocs and cargo shorts r comfy lol

[@carlingas666]

1968rjs new balance sneakers with Costco jeans

[@jonjones8029]

@patrick m in 40 i wear what I like also and I bet i look significantly better than you

[@jonjones8029]

@patrick m I've just checked your pic and I'm more right than I even thought I was.

[@mattdawg83686]

patrick m you’re talking out of your ass. You have no idea what you’re talking about. You have no self confidence or balls, which is why you go around throwing shade at people who do what they want because they’ve earned it and your ass hasn’t.

[@dcjimr1]

I think most men dress for comfort but it's SO much easier these days to dress comfortably and look nice. You can get nice-looking jeans, pants and shirts with spandex now. I have some pants I wear to work that have spandex that I'd rather wear than sweatpants on the weekend because they're like a second skin. You're also spot on that the details and grooming make all the difference. A darker wash on your jeans...comfy sneakers that aren't running shoes...no hair sticking out of your nose...instead of wearing a sweatshirt put on a really comfy sweater over a basic t-shirt. These are all little things that together can greatly improve your appearance. Great video, Brian!

[@Ebonygem1]

Thank you for this video! I just hit 50 and I own nothing except tees and polos for work...I've got some shopping to do! My only pain point is size 18 feet...I'm usually forced to go with whatever will work in terms of shoes...selection of casual and affordable shoes is minimal.

[@ManoloVintage]

I'm on the wrong side of 40 too. I've changed my style a lot and now it's more classic minimalist. I prefer a V neck t-shirt over a crew neck. I wear a nice watch in an appropriate mm size. I get all my pants and jeans tailored, and I wear my shorts above the knee now. I dont wear sneakers unless the day or activity calls for it. For me it's all about how it fits and achieving a timeless classic style for my middle aged butt. I will probably experiment with trying to pull off some type of street wear, because I love it so much:D

[@hespokestyle]

Awesome! Appreciate you chiming in.

[@petergrantlloyd6754]

I've been with my wife for 26 years (49 now) and I just wear what she tells me. Keeps the roof over my head and food in my stomach. NUFF SAID 😂😂

[@ieltsguy]

Ha ha. Right on, Man. Couldn't agree more.

[@petergrantlloyd6754]

J Donovan Yep and happy as a pig in shit with life 🖕🏿

[@HKashaf]

WTF!?!?!?!

[@nutritionislife3054]

Hilarious and works for you lol

[@luyolomify]

@@HKashaf how can anyone be proud to say that?

[@billyfukkint2523]

Jordans and Hoodies for life!

[@SydneyGreenstreet1227]

I’m 67 and I own over 100 hoodies. LOL

[@cgb25]

Great advice! I am 40 now but going back, I remember I've always wanted to wear a suit. I've worn it in the clubs before in my 20's. I also like the dress vest over a dress shirt look with a tie. There was a time in the 2000's (Justin Timberlake, TI, Neyo, Jay-Z) to name a few, rocked suit and tie, even had a song named one too! Lol In my 40's though, I appreciate more time to myself, being alone in the movies, I just started doing that and I've been liking it. Back in my teens, 20's and 30's, that was a hard no-no! I also appreciate healthier alternatives to junk foods now, working out, and spending my money and the finer things in life.

[@Benjorunner]

I'm 53 and can wear whatever I like, as long as it fits the occasion :-)

[@hespokestyle]

Great!

[@nicholasgoldsworthy4719]

Its ok to recapture the glory days- but try to look good with age appropriate stuff. Get rid of nose and ear hair sticking out:)))

[@mrsmith8224]

Ben Bakker I agree Just be honest to yourself

[@jyankowsky]

Anyone can wear whatever they like, doesn’t mean you don’t look like a twat

[@SJCB27]

jyankowsky HaHa! Quite agree... And you made me laugh!

[@estuchedepeluche2212]

After graduating from college, I stopped wearing shorts, athletic shoes and t-shirts, those are for the gym, inside the house or the beach. In my 40, I own fewer jeans than casual or dressy pants.

[@hespokestyle]

Thanks for chiming in, Cristobal!

[@robb1865]

Glad I live in Florida. I just wear a t-shirt and shorts all the time. Pretty simple.

[@EggShen905]

I have the same style I did in college because I have the same clothes I had in college and they still fit well. Yes, I'm wearing the same shirts and pants as I did in 1995. Styles come back around, baby! OH YEAH.

[@hespokestyle]

Thanks for chiming in!

[@schonkable]

Brian, what an excellent video and yes, as many viewers have said you’re an amazing looking almost 42 year old man! (I’m about to turn 43.) I respectfully have to disagree with you on one point. I think that men of almost any age can pull off untucked shirts, but the shirts need to be designed to be worn untucked. This is why I love UNTUCKIT shirts. They aren’t too long at the bottom and they’re available in many fits for many kinds of bodies.

[@guybeauregard]

I agree. The cut of the hem really matters. Guy

[@t.oda.nishioka3684]

I agree with you about silhouette and where to invest. How about colours? I started to think that subdued colours such as navy blue and charcoal grey are safer and better than vivid colours like red, gold and green. A little bit boring but

[@joeynova9896]

A simple white tshirt and blue jeans looks good on anyone at any age.

[@brahsumatra]

I’m almost 40 and still rocking Vans.

[@donkeydong678]

Me too!

[@q-storm767]

I'm just a couple years older than you, Brian. With that being declared, I wear jeans and either a sweater, a polo or a button down collared shirt opened. In the summer I wear either plain or cargo shorts with a polo shirt. People to this day think I'm 43 going on 22. Lol 😁

[@hespokestyle]

Hahaha. For sure.

[@mikemuscles21]

This was super depressing. So you're telling me I can't wear my LV shades because its a brand and I'm an older male. I don't mind looking "Bannana Republic" some days, but other days I feel like being more flashy than that. I'll listen to all this advice with a tiny grain of salt, my LV shades on, and my David Yurman gold bling, maybe Hemmerle if I'm feeling it. You do you.

[@roryhenderson6236]

Just be yourself everyone! everyone is different with different styles

[@TeddyBaldassarre]

What the hell, you’re 41? You hold it together well Brian! Btw - great tips and congrats on 60k!

[@hespokestyle]

Teddy Baldassarre that’s right, whippersnapper! Thanks for the comment and looking forward to the collab video.

[@porvoonosho]

I'm 40, and he looks like he could be my dad. Honestly. I get asked for my ID when I buy beer.

[@juny1982]

Seriously 😳 I'm 40 he looks like 47

[@beefbroth6539]

He looks great no doubt, but I honestly thought he was 45+ 😅

[@landrymark6427]

Instablaster...

[@jeonlyxoxo]

It’s all great and that. I’m very Lucky to dress pretty much the way I like. Fashion, hipsters, smart, whenever I want. I don’t dress to project an image. I dress to feel comfortable. Btw I’m my own boss. Makes a big difference.

[@hespokestyle]

Well said!

[@waltersickinger1499]

When I was in university in the 60s I dressed like Michael Caine in Alfie and The Italian Job. Now in my 70s I dress like Sean Connery in his Bond movies.

[@thenexuscowboy9491]

I haven't gone through many videos of this topic on this channel here however price is the heaviest concern, not even necessarily the know-how. Just a few items that get recommended get me into the thousands very quickly. A more amateur and affordable guide navigating what these brands or stores that offer the better "cuts" are would give us amateurs a more immediate resonance on the topic. I'm glad to be humbled by anyone's info on this which I'm sure I probably missed. Thanks guys.

[@davidmcnicol5322]

Our personal grooming is crucial to looking good, whatever you’re wearing. Ear/nose hair, stained teeth, bad breath, dry/scaly skin, bad haircut will still detract from a $5,000 bespoke suit!!!

[@hespokestyle]

Yes, indeed! Oddly, though, some people can get away with the wild eyebrows thing...

[@edoardogiordano531]

I'm 26 and every single advice of this video is appropriate to my age as well. Thanks Brian, keep up the good work!

[@hespokestyle]

Totally agree. Thanks so much for the kind words and support, Edoardo.

[@georger64]

Too many people think there‘s no middle ground between the college look and grandpa look, but there is.

[@hespokestyle]

Agreed.

[@HelenandLolly]

I am probably the only woman in your comment section. Watching this to get some styling ideas for my husband. He likes to dress like an overgrown toddler and likes wearing T shirts with the big logo’s!

[@ronnievanderlinden]

We need the basic wardrobe video!!! ASAP :P And also make note of the seasons with that... Looking for a khaki chino now but live in a 4 season country and don't know what to buy!

[@hespokestyle]

It's going to be quite an undertaking to create. Definitely want it to be a solid reference video. But it is most certainly in the queue.

[@montecraig7032]

I’m 57 and literally wear the same clothes that I did when I was 25. I still have them.

[@LordADNsVlog]

And you are single... Right?

[@montecraig7032]

ThePsychopompos1 Blue jeans and pocket T-Shirts never go out of style in the trucking industry or oil field.

[@plusbonus1165]

So long as your still chasing the same gals .

[@hisnamewasSam]

Lmfao..... Awesome! Screw everyone else's opinion... They're not paying your bills.

[@GreenTeaViewer]

Bet the 22yo ladies are all over you with your 1994 clothes

[@Tupsx57]

I dress appropriately for the occasion. Im 52 but Im going to wear a Tshirt, shorts and flipflops if im doing a grocery run.

[@Alithia451]

I am 49 and wear suits, business shirts, blazers .... AAAAND streetwear, hypebeast brands (Supreme, Bape, Off-White, Palace, Pleasures, Fear of Gid, sneakers (AJ1 x Off-white are my favourite), metal band shirts, Overwatch jerseys, printed shirts with half-naked anime girls, distressed jeans and cargo pants, and now building up my techwear wardrobe!

[@deannoble673]

Super interesting topic this one. Definitely would like to hear more thoughts and suggestions from you regarding casual wear as this is the area it’s easy for the more mature guy to come unstuck. Excellent video as ever Brian. Keep up the good work.

[@hespokestyle]

Good topic for an outfit video. How to dress casually as an adult?

[@kiranpersad5709]

Great content as usual Brian. Im early 30's and i esp like the emphasis you placed on grooming. Simple tips that make a huge difference. Thx man

[@hespokestyle]

Kiran Persad Yessir. Thanks for chiming in.

[@tristandoan1169]

I think a back t shirt Some dark jeans and chelsia boots or white sneakers all well fitted is hard to go wrong with at really any age

[@Archer335]

Most American males do not tuck in their shirt theses days. I used to be one of them, but not any more. If I wear a t-shirt, I won’t tuck it in, but my button-down shirts get tucked - period. Also, lots of men (of all ages) who have been done with college for a long, long time, still wear a backpack. It makes these guys look like school kids. Dump the backpack once you finish high school. It’s more dignified. And women notice these points about you; that’s how a lot of them are. Good job, Brian. You’ve given some excellent advice here.

[@shaunleonard3878]

Dressing young while in your 50s, yet feeling like you’re still in your 30s, is definitely trying and sometimes difficult! Thanks for the video!

[@hespokestyle]

You're very welcome, Shaun.

[@pauljames5845]

Just wear what you want and live your life. This video should be renamed ‘How to conform to society’s expectations of you and be just like everyone else’

[@mtleung3673]

Those who want to dress well can take use the advice and be like everyone else who wants to dress well; those who are not interested can ignore this and dress like everyone else who is not interested.

[@matmiami7947]

I'm Italian born and raised and I live in Miami, the funny thing that I noticed it's that in past used to be cool dress like Italian/European and everybody overseas tried to copy us, now in italy and Europe everybody are brainwashed with movies and music videos and they try to look like those clows. By the way you have to dress how you feel comfortable are confident but in general classic style definitely win, other styles change all the times become are just nothing.

[@gsmarkham]

Agree! Even if you stay trim it may not be a good idea to wear something. Just because you can wear it doesn't mean you should.

[@hespokestyle]

Good advice, Steve. Thanks, as always, for the comment.

[@mrboombastic4664]

I’m 39 and slim fit jeans with simple plain tee’s or polo shirts with some salt-n-pepper hair seems to work well.

[@hespokestyle]

Nice!

[@dwbush777]

Mr. Boombastic I totally agree. I can wear a suit very well, yet at 62 I could never give up my polos, jeans and khakis, and Apery topsides. They’re who I am! 😂. No one has ever said to me that I should dress like I’m older, or 62. And, I’m not so sure what that is or if I’d even want to.

[@mrboombastic4664]

Douglas W. Bush, M.A. Lol... For sure, Brotha’! I believe we can be dapper (as a state-of-mind/like a feeling of perspective), as well as look it. 💯 🤛

[@shanewright2772]

I'm (well) into my 50's and I aspire to become what Leonard Cohen describes himself as becoming - a lazy bastard living in a suit.

[@hespokestyle]

Isn't that the dream?!

[@groovciti]

What Shane said!!!! I’m a writer and the types with internet channels always interest me. And the style mavericks are the best

[@larryhagman2387]

A good concise video’ I’m 64 6ft and slim I cycle an ebike and walk my Border Collie dog every day ‘ Personally I tend not to pass judgement on anybody’s dress style as we have all taken different Paths to get the where we are now If you are smart feller then that is you 🤵🏻‍♂️ Alternatively if you are a Grotty unkept person then that is who you are And so it doesn’t help when people feel the need to put a label on you Some people are good and some are Lowlife Scum That’s it I know guys who aren’t very tidy but they would give you the shirt off Their backs because they are genuine good people! And not phoneys playing a bit part in today’s mixed up world Pete 👍🇬🇧

[@jcs3330]

If you look at the top designers for men who themselves are 40/50+, yes they design "trendy and sometimes outrageous looks for the catwalk within there collections, but look at the Tom Fords and Dolce and Gabbana's...they all personally dress really classic and look excellent. Smaller wardrobe with timeless classic quality made items - simple.

[@WasserTipps]

Please do a basic wardrobe video! :) But not only casual, bit more business casual please :P

[@hespokestyle]

Was thinking something like a basic starter wardrobe. 20-25 essential pieces plus outfits.

[@qarhsi]

@@hespokestyle that's a great idea. Look forward to it haha

[@hespokestyle]

@@qarhsi Cheers.

[@anthonybarrow1142]

I'm 65 and wear Jean's and a tee shirt period.

[@hespokestyle]

Nice

[@007phokus]

Ditto 🤙

[@brianmaxon8460]

funny t-shirts ftw

[@anthonybarrow1142]

@KnightOfTheKing and you dress like a girl. Lol

[@mandk6089]

Anthony, I hear you brother. I'm 57 and dress pretty much the same as the time I did at the Devo concert I went to in 1980. The benefit we have now are jeans being so much more comfortable than back in the day.

[@maplehedgehog789]

I'd love to see an 'instant upgrade essentials" kind of video. Just turned 40 so, i've become very conscious of this all. Wasn't when i turned 30 but.....i just found out that 30's the new 40 now so i'm WAY WAY overdue and would love that Instant Upgrade. Top to bottom. Shoe's to watches. Chinos to Sunglasses.

[@hespokestyle]

Love that idea! Consider it done. What would you say target price would be for these upgrades?

[@maplehedgehog789]

@@hespokestyle Well a target price is tricky since everyone is in a different position financially but, for me in my situation....to do a complete instant....i'd be able to handle 3 weeks pay. No more than $3000 for something i could get by on instantly while keeping in mind, i could always upgrade in the future. Which is to say, maybe a basic Citizen at first since adding a Rolex to this list would instantly squash the budget. I don't know how to rank importance though since i'm not fashion/style conscious. Spend more on shoes and watches? I dunno. Whatta you think?

[@Lovebug06901]

"Dressing in the Dark - lessons in Men's Style from the Movies" by Marion Maneker. Is a great reference book also for looking at how to put pieces together.

[@thefonzkiss]

Fashion dates but style is eternal.

[@hespokestyle]

Well said, sir.

[@TundraDad]

Maaaaaaann!!! Are you ever right on point! You have such great content and it’s so relevant, tasteful and interesting. I’ve been following you Brian for a very long time and you NEVER disappoint.

[@hespokestyle]

J MB You are very kind. Thank you so much for the continued support.

[@sdnalyam]

Once you’ve retired and not married, unless you’ve got money or power young women won’t touch you . Fact. So accept it and no need to waste money buying suits etc. So many KZbin channels seem to be about sales and selling you more stuff not about realities of life.

[@hespokestyle]

I believe you missed the portion of the video where I say, "I'm not saying you have to go out and buy suits and dress in suits"... Also, dressing well isn't just luring in "young women"--it can greatly affect how you feel about yourself and therefore what you are able to accomplish in life.

[@vidform]

I think the big question is: why do young people look better in trendy clothes than older people? A mohawk and nose-ring works better on a 21yo, but not on a 41yo. Tight jeans and a halter top looks better on a 25yo woman than a 55yo woman. I think people under 30 have a nicer looking face that is more versatile towards different styles than a face over 30 or 40. Young adults make fashion mistakes too, but their clean, buoyant faces make their fashion faux pas more forgiving.

[@hespokestyle]

Thanks for chiming in.

[@fastleopard1]

Good tips on the age old question

[@hespokestyle]

Haha! Cheers.

[@Over40Squad]

Approaching my mid-40's this is something I *really* need to pay attention to! Thanks for the tips :)

[@hespokestyle]

You're very welcome. Thanks for taking the time to comment.

[@Sailingbill1]

"Wear clothes that fit you"......! I cannot agree more. WHY is it that American men over 50 wear suits and shirts that are 3 sizes to big? It doesn't cost that much more, at least here in Europe, to have a suit made and. 20% - 30% more than an off the rack suit. It makes all the difference.

[@edwardwilson4869]

I appreciate your input into helping us to be refined in our dressing as we age. I have always loved to dress well and get compliments from the ladies in my family. What they think is important to me. ✅💜

[@ghostygallagher]

Really enjoyed this one Brain, at 60 am at the top end, but all your points are on-point, leather jacket think I will pass, however, think is fine, don't have to wear suits but still, love them... thanks buddy great video

[@hespokestyle]

Gerry Gallagher Thanks for chiming in, Gerry.

[@05Rudey]

I was about 36 when I just decided to dress a bit more grown up, I went out to get a new pair of Sneakers but something caught my eye in the shoe section, a fantastic looking deep brown pair of Loake Wingback Brogue Boots that looked like a work of art on the shelf, so I got them instead to replace my ageing Adidas classics, then things just started to fall into place, my baggy jeans and Sporty T-Shirt didn't quite go with the boots, So I got a pair of dark blue jeans that fit perfectly as well as moving onto tucked in button down shirts and Polos rather than un-tucked t-Shirts. Then after that, it was the little things that got on my nerves, like my G-Shock that didn't quite fit my new look, so a nice Swiss made Automatic was next on the shopping list, my old 20 year old college bag was the next thing that had to go, so I invested into a classy looking Brown leather shoulder bag. Before I knew it.... I was looking quite dapper.... Just because I bought a nice pair of boots over a new pair of sneakers. I'm glad I did smarten up, people do treat you with more respect.

[@hespokestyle]

Well done!

[@VonGreen]

I can't stop looking at the photo on his wall of the guy in a black suit. It has to be one of the nicest shots I've ever seen.

[@jamesdond614]

I'm in my mid 60s , I still buy Paul Smith clothes , live in Bangkok. I'm wearing shorts, tee shirts, polo shirts, half sleeved shirts, sandals , sneakers all the time. It's too hot here to wear anything else.

[@JamieVegas]

So, basically dress exactly like a 20 year old on his way to the family Christmas party in your sweater, collared shirt and khakis.

[@Bochanable]

B.S. be yourself short of trying to look like the oldest teenager. Self confidence is the best style tip.

[@Lortz2610]

328 dislikers who do not accept that college logos are for actual college students or those who recently graduated. I'm 36 now and came to the point at which I realized that wearing hoodies and t-shirts with reference to rockbands or whatever are for the weekend only. At least if you work in the office (IT department). The colleagues in my team are about the same age and when I started wearing my button-downs two weeks ago, they immediately assumed I was applying at another company. I will keep on frightening them. Also "dress for the job you want to have, not for the job you have" and I am doing professional development with quite some effort and it will certainly raise my chances for climbing in the company. Of course it is mainly the skill set which helps getting promoted, but being able to dress properly is certainly a bonus. Very helpful videos on your channel, you just won a new subscriber :)

[@sebs30v]

I'm in my 40s, thank you for the reminder, I need to work on my style!!!

[@loganmarquiz9346]

Nice and useful thoughts, however I don't think the sentence: "Leave the fashion to younger" is appropriate. Everyone can dress in style and in fashion as long as you keep within the boarders. I am 49 and I've kept my style forever, adjusting a little (just a little) to new waves, materials and colours. I dress mainly sport-casual. I feel many times as an outcast wearing proper clothes for different occasions. I see t-shirts and sandals in the theater, mix of styles and colours that I could have never imagined, I go to the restaurant and see flip-flops and gym attire, bare feet and pijamas at hotel breakfast room....and so on so on. I think all people below 30 just did't have the correct education about clothing. So they keep to sweaters, tees and sports shorts at all times. Dressing properly, you show respect towards yourself and others.

[@hespokestyle]

Thanks so much for the thoughtful comment, Logan.

[@guybeauregard]

I think HeSpoke is distinguishing between "fashion" (something to chase after) and "style" (which is more personal and closer to what you are describing). Cheers, Guy

[@thomash.9930]

You should dress based on your job requirements, the weather and what you do at the weekend. If you need to wear a full suit every day you should have about 3-4 and you can wear separates. Navy worsted, mid-grey and a charcoal. Perhaps a flannel too. Look at Suit Supply, Spier MacKay, Boggi, Ring Jacket. You should get a couple of sports coat: brown tweed plain, navy wool/cashmere plain too. Shoes: black cap calf oxford, brown adelaide in calf too, dark brown suede chukkas and maybe a calf derby too. Skoaktiebolaget, Pediwear for instance offer a good selection of quality shoes. I would keep the shirts simple at first: plain white poplin or twill, a blue one too, and perhaps a striped blue. Charles Tyrwhitt and TM Lewin have good offers if you don't want to spend a fortune. Try Kamakura Shirts too, Proper Cloth or Shirtonomy. Ties: black grenadine grossa, silk navy plain, burgundy polka dot or purple in twill silk and perhaps a paisley madder. Try Poszetka, Granqvist Store, Berg & Berg, Marinella or Charvet. A good pair of selvedge jeans would work too, and it would look great with either a white t-shirt or a white oxford shirt. Also get some chinos. The wardrobe should be built over time and again, it needs to be based around your own requirements.

[@hespokestyle]

Awesome comment, Thomas! Appreciate you leaving it for the benefit of all!

[@Tanglangfa]

Thank you for not yelling like a lot of fashion guys do. It gets to be 115 in Texas, but everything I see in fashion vids and mags for guys 40+ is sweaters and jackets. It’s cold for about 3 months. What can we do in HOT weather to avoid the schlub look?

[@cornstar1253]

I would recommend alot of linen. It's breathable and light. Get rid of the shorts and sandals. On hot days I'm in white jeans or linen pants.

[@tedwilliams765]

I'm hat person since I was a kid Never give them up,baseball cap,fedoras, straw hats,love hat's, style is what you make it!! Be confident is key to how one dresses!!

[@cranialtyrant]

Over 40 and I wear superhero tshirts and a hat every day and I look fabulous.

[@Babygirlly555]

That's right just because the body is old doesn't mean we have to be old mentally.

[@vernonmines6747]

Brain this is good advice for the youngsters as well! This is the era that younger guys want to look older Times has changed

[@hespokestyle]

Thanks so much, Vernon. Appreciate the comment.

[@proximeoscolassianopolis8114]

I feel so overwhelmed by his knowledge of fashion.

[@darthphaser2991]

I'm 47. I can dress just like you with clothes from Walmart or Goodwill. People say Wow you look nice today!. Whatever dude I have an Autographed Mudvayne tee-shirt that cost $30. Peoples lame perceptions don't affect me brother. I dress how I want. Period.

[@markrichards6863]

I could not disagree more. Have some confidence. The most important thing to wear is a smile. It's not about what you wear,mits about how you feel about your presentation. I'm 60, I spent the first 45 years of my life conforming to acceptable standards. Now I'm truly comfortable with myself and will wear whatever pleases me. I don't need to be concerned with your style rules any more.

[@xdemmons]

I agree! Some things he says, I see the wisdom in, but I am not going to dress like Mr. Rodgers because someone tells me that is what I am supposed to look like. LOL!

[@doublet630]

Awesome comment.