how to exit your lazy girl era ✨ be productive, motivated & disciplined

How to exit your lazy girl era and cultivate productivity, motivation, and discipline. Say goodbye to procrastination & distractions, and hello to the NEW you ✨ Thanks Dropbox for sponsoring this video! Check out Dropbox Essentials to learn more at www.dropbox.com/lavendaire
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[@lavendaire]

What was your favorite takeaway from this video? For more productivity tips, watch this: 10 Top Tips for Healthy Productivity | bit.ly/3DP2KIS

[@jeanettenielsen8427]

It's a good video to feel motivated, but I will also say that you have to be aware of whether you are actually "lazy" or if you are struggling with something mentally that needs more than just "pulling yourself together". Sometimes being stuck has a deeper meaning.

[@biegebythesea6775]

yep! can also be dietary.

[@issy0613]

Turns out all this time I was just neurodivergent with ADHD 😂 No wonder I failed at life

[@imsheep123oinkoink]

​@@issy0613 an 18 yo here who a few months back discovered I quite possibly have adhd (not diagnosed tho)

[@ayakaimpacts]

right, and one of her most viewed videos talked about what to do when you're stuck for so long and the steps she shared were really helpful bc she acknowledged the hard parts of being in your lowest point. so while i understand what aileen's trying to say, being stuck mentally is a whole different obstacle itself and the word "lazy" feels undermining the hardships of overcoming a huge mental hurdle when you've mentally crashed and burnt.

[@DH-uw3us]

Yes, it could be depression.

[@nataliefoxmartin]

Hi, your content is awesome!! I’m just here to remind everyone that “laziness” is a myth, most of the time there are underlying issues that are causing the perceived “laziness”, please don’t beat yourself up if you find yourself with no motivation. Most of the tips in this video are almost impossible for those of us who live with ADHD, depression or other mental health issues and neurodivergencies, so please don’t beat yourself up if you came here to get motivated but you find yourself being like, “if it were only so easy….”

[@shreyasibasu622]

Thank you for putting this out there :)

[@cheese-bg1xq]

Problem is though, the hardest things are the most important. For people with ADHD and depression, it's still important to keep a clean, organised room, for example, because it affects your brain even more than it does for people without such problems. The harder it is, the more you need it. I've learned that a lot. I hate that I've spent my childhood using anxiety as an excuse not to do things, when the things I avoided were the things I needed the most. I love challenging myself now. Replacing old habits with the new isn't easy for anyone. As an autistic person I am very prone to autopiloting to my old, childhood "play video games all day" routine. But you have to do things slowly and be consistent. The more you do something, the more it sticks. You constantly browse social media? That's a habit! You CAN form habits. You're just taught to believe you can't form GOOD ones.

[@sadika7567]

Agreed, the word lazy is unhelpful and can be 'triggering' for someone with ADHD, as it was for me.

[@yuliayasni17]

Sometimes i just feel low motivation in life and easy to get distraction when learning, but after watch this i'm feel so full of motivation, and i promise to myself will end my lazy girl era

[@aizennn-pv1ze]

Update

[@marvinmayo3798]

For almost one year i battled depression and anxiety because when pandemic hits all that i used to do and routines change and also fear of the next what will happen next...until 2024 came i slowly accept and realized that episode of my life is not anymore in the present i must think positively and more productive and face the day with courage and faith that God is with me and my family...❤

[@Moonlightsaphire199]

Same OMG I have social anxiety and now I'm kinda focusing on myself

[@leenazulkarnain6044]

I woke up this morning to set up a new routine which is to wake up early and make good breakfast for myself first before attending my kids' needs. As i sat down for my breakfast and look for a thing to watch, this is the first video that popped out 🎉 thank you for thisss ❤❤❤

[@smoothtruth]

❤

[@orchids4media343]

your videos always drop at the perfect time, thank you so much ❤

[@podcastsbytk]

I get positive energy whenever I watch your videos

[@jaej34]

Thank you so much for this. I love that I needed to hear this today.

[@Binoworld8]

Aileen what kind of beauty and wisdom and positive power u have to shine this way!❤✨

[@keikot.1249]

And when I need support, you are always here to give the best tips! Thank you for this video I need right now.

[@nancypenaloza974]

Aileen Loving The Video! Have A Wonderful Week And An Amazing Month Of February!! ✨✨✨✨

[@journeytolearn354]

It's gives me a lot of energy to transform myself to this to that I'm glad to found your channel. Lots of love❤

[@aprilking4058]

What a inspiration video. I have been feeling in a "lazy era" for a while . But your words of encouragement are motivating me thanks

[@SaintOrCinema]

The wisdom and clarity you radiate is like a physical breath of fresh air. THANK YOU 🙏🏻🌸

[@ya8774]

How much on time is this video for me?! Aileen, thank you deeeeeply from my heart, love you su much! I hug you💙💙💙

[@Raisagil]

Having moved a lot in different time zones, it gets challenging to set a healthy circadian rhythm. I’ve been in my night owl season far longer than I want to, so this has become one of my lifetime system goals.

[@xtinriver143]

i love the boundaries one! need to learn to say NO more so i can YES to whats important to me. ❤

[@imsheep123oinkoink]

I added this to watch later yesterday but now that you re-uploaded I see this as a sign to stop procrastinating and just watch the video

[@arestaquilla]

I haven't work on my thesis for 5 days and I'm just watching youtube these days, thank u so much for this positive vibes aileen!

[@akuaron]

Loved the clips in the set boundaries part 🤣❣ Thanks for all the inspiration all these years Aileen 💕✨

[@joyce7413]

Wow, perfect timing for this video. It really resonates with me. Thank you so much ! I am grateful for your videos they've been helping me on my journey ❤️ sm❤

[@NoraTKD]

Great tips Aileen, thank you😊Happy Lunar New Year🐉

[@annoar9776]

for the first time I have ordered your artist of life workbook for me and a friend, so we can hold each other accountable and also the weekly calender just for myself, so I can stay motivated and productive. I'm so excited for when the calender arrives, because I only ordered it last week, because my current calender doesn't really work for me even tho it's an amazing calender. but I think I need an other system to keep myself on track. so thank you, Aileen, for everything you do!

[@AoHaruRide473]

I extremely needed this!!!!! 😭😭 I have been lazy and unproductive for 2-3 days 😥. It feels like I manifested 🤧🤧. Tysm ❤️❤️.

[@Rishita_Naik]

2-3 days only. I have been lazy from past 4-5 months 😞😭

[@pareekshithasuvarna2235]

Months... I've been lazy for years..🥲😂​@@Rishita_Naik

[@user-kn4fp5jt5z]

For the last year 😂

[@aysams2]

@@user-kn4fp5jt5z Me for the last 5 years, but not anymore

[@Bremah]

same 😭😭

[@cristinapavone7233]

Thank you for this precious advices!!!❤

[@sparklinstarz8301]

This came right on time, I’ve been struggling

[@user-tv8nf2dl6g]

This video is really useful for me. Thank you very much. You inspired me and now I'm going to go for a walk to get into a positive mindset ❤

[@OFFICIALJALALEE]

this week, I will start a positive energy routine and start tracking myself.

[@cynthiaakacyndsmith6539]

All of the above.. I love it when I have a plan and work it and do it.

[@Lilac-go3zd]

I haven't been watching KZbin lately. I'm so glad this video was the first one in my recommendations. I have been having a difficult time lately. This really helps. ❤ xoxo So grateful that Aileen decided to become a KZbinr. She has been a blessing for me since I was 14 years old now

[@LoopRomania]

Really needed this . Thank you so much 🤗🤗

[@Happy_Girl_101.]

I loved the cute funny clips in the "set boundaries" part 😄💜

[@berrylife]

When ever I feel lazy I watch your videos then I feel energized and motivating to do anything This week I will: track my small daily habits and celebrate these achievements 💕 also trying to think more positively throughout my day ✨✨thank you so much keep going 🧡💛

[@user-fk8rx5wp9l]

I'm so glad that I found your channel! I love how you always provide practical and realistic tips and advice. Unlike other channels whose thumbnails are realistic tips and showcase unrealistic content. I just have to say, that your channel is UNDERATTED FR >>... And tysm for posting this video..💗

[@aizamalubag-rondera1990]

I don't know but I just love hearing your voice...very caring,natural,loving and sincere..I am sure you are an intelligent and wise woman...

[@yuliayasni17]

Thanks for the great motivation, i will try to do it in my daily routine😊

[@user-yd4yr5hr3s]

I created a goals daily journal to track my progress but haven’t started using it as of yet but the universe sending me the blessing of your video here I’m taking it as a friendly reminder to get with it already very much so 😊

[@deepanshujoshi2518]

Thank you so much Lavendaire

[@PankajSharma-mo5hy]

This video is the way to go. I genuinely needed this. And I also request a ' how to stay consistent in anything you started ' video please. Thank you

[@RiyaShah123]

this week i will make sure to keep my surroundings clean. i am a very messy person and my father keeps telling me that when you finish use of a particular thing, then immediately put that thing at its right place. i will try my best to implement. thankyou aileen xoxo.

[@luvcaitlin]

This video helped me to try to become better again. During the pandemic, I was very strict with how I planned my calendar (time-blocking), it did help however I felt so constricted. So now, I will try time-blocking and task batching again but not to do it too strictly so that I get tired. I've been recently becoming lazy and I want to change that. Another thing is I kept talking to myself so negatively that it is also one of the reasons why I'm lazy. So starting today (02/29), I will not let myself talk negatively about myself. I should talk to myself better. I should give myself credit. I will stop the negative self-talk because it is not helping anyone. I do not deserve that. My younger self does not deserve this. Thank you so much for this video!

[@AreumLee2000]

I am going to start by cleaning my room and setting things up so that they are easy for me to find when i need them and are organised I am also going to start to limit my screen time and focus on my studies and self care more Thank you aileen i love your videos❤

[@hiulamli8510]

Thanks for the wholehearted sharing ❤

[@tatesmile99]

this dropped at the perfect time omg thanks😂❤

[@draincilien9877]

I've been waiting for this kind of content!!!

[@thinnnu5612]

Thank you so much for this😍

[@ruhi_neet1864]

I'm your big fan dear been following uh from long time ur meditation guide is helping me a lot keep uploading more if possible

[@sathilawijekoon6291]

I love yr voice so much , clear and beautiful ❤ Also nice video

[@thecozyneko]

I'm going to track my habits and start speaking more positively about myself! I always tend to forget to give myself love now that I am a mom.

[@prachishahu3718]

I love following your video , thank you for always coming up with great & life changing content . Love from India❤❤❤❤

[@chi4071]

Love that you did your own b-roll in this video instead of using stock/model clips! Also love how the comment section here is always so deep and supportive!

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much love 💝

[@munazzaobaida6326]

I literally got this video recommendation when I needed it the most.... it's super helpful...keep it up girl✨❤️

[@lavendaire]

Love that ✨✨

[@pearl.moment]

I've been studying German for the past couple years, but this beginning of 2024 has been rough - so, I haven't been studying at all. Starting today I will resume my German podcasts and at the same time go out for a walk while I listen to it! I plan on doing this daily.

[@2320candy]

since the last year im doing more excercise and i can tell you that i have a better health :D , although of being a thin person isnt always mean that we are healthy, i try to be more calm about some things that i cant control , i like to do kpop dance covers (maybe im publishing if im brave hehe) , i learning to sing and others things , i want to share to the world :). Thanks for this advices

[@lavendaire]

thank YOU for being here! ♡

[@user-gb2gg3vt9x]

Iam so happy i found ur channel,from now on you are my favourite youtuber 😭🩷

[@user-yd4yr5hr3s]

Amazing video so incredibly helpful I’m a Libra by nature I’m a procrastinator first time watching you thank you ❤️you beautiful soul✨✨✨

[@raghad9147]

I listened to this while I was walking, and it helped me to get the energy that l need z

[@skalskaga]

I'm going to track progress. I'm afraid I will stop it quickly, but I hope this time it will work and I will find power and motivation to do it.

[@SomewhataMystery]

I agree everything that was said so true. Society is making energy so people feel not wanting to do anything has to be awaken don't think people are lazy but must get out of the rut and ignite the flame.

[@Anjali-ez9zq]

00:02 Stop being lazy and become more motivated, productive, and disciplined. 01:44 Building a positive mindset and eliminating distractions to maximize productivity. 03:22 Keep all tools within arms reach for quick access and productivity 04:56 Maximize productivity with organization and efficient task management 06:36 Optimize workflow with time blocking and positive self-talk. 08:17 Set better boundaries and establish healthy lifestyle habits for productivity 09:58 Invest in self-care for better productivity 11:36 Celebrate all your small wins to stay motivated and persevere.

[@foreigntay_]

I love how she gets right into it

[@NavyChannthy]

Before I used to be lazy but now that's lots of work to do so I start more diligent.

[@tanishahanamsagar5008]

Thank your Aileen didi❤

[@naswanamoon6344]

I am going to start creating a positive energy routine this week!

[@lavendaire]

You got this!

[@notoverthehill.]

So helpful.. thank you ❤

[@Carkkii]

This video was just for me right now🙏 I’m expecting our baby #4 and I’ve feeling nausea and tired weeks now But hoping when first trimester is over I get my energy back again and start work out again💪

[@khapuc691]

Amei, muito obrigada pelo conteúdo 🇧🇷

[@BrianaisGoingPlaces]

I always have a goal of tracking habits but I never stick to it! I want to focus on adding that.

[@meooodiennn210]

Thks!!! Good Life

[@yourdreamstrategist]

I love this video and while I know this was about exiting the Lazy Girl Era, I actually want to exit my workaholic era. I feel like it's 2 sides of the same coin because each is an extreme. That's why I love this! The suggestions can go both ways!

[@lavendaire]

Oo love that insight on how the suggestions can go both ways!

[@MUSKAN62122]

Love you truly ❣️

[@arcowie]

Thank you for your video. I found it so inspiring and motivating. I am a homeschool mum and I also work part time as a health professional and I feel like I'm constantly rushing from one thing to the next. I'm so happy to have found you, I'm going to take what I have learnt from your amazing video and see if I can find some calm and put some order into my life. I want to order your Artist of Life workbook but just wanted to check, you think this would be helpful for me as I plan my homeschool lessons? Or do you have another planner that would be more suitable? Also do you ship to New Zealand? Many thanks, Sarah xx

[@buddhistdivinemothergreentara]

Oh dear friend❤ you are such a beautiful soul❤ thank you so much for your inspiration❤❤ i appreciate your precious time and you are my precious soul sister❤

[@johngomes4278]

Great advice and inspiring advice

[@johngomes4278]

This is one of the greatest channels on utube TV

[@johngomes4278]

What happened the other night?

[@floorbos9544]

I'm going to eliminate distractions and practice positive self talk!:)

[@Anjalimusic029]

Whoever is reading this, never give up. God is with you. 😇

[@itim1234]

Time batching for FLOW stage ❤

[@user-mf9uk3pv4v]

I'm going to focus on self care and love even if I have much study bc I'm forgetting to take care of me and rest or celebrating small things 🎀🥰

[@TiffanyJensenIL]

Watching you dance with your sweet dog...I can so relate, our dog is a pro at boosting my mood :)

[@danielledickson9635]

Amazing inspiring video

[@nursulum3620]

Signing up for gym or start doing Pilates every day, waking up at 9 am daily, journaling

[@fhhomesolist1828]

Accessories you wear are all pretty. Can you show us your favorite accessories? You have very good taste.

[@user-xs2ng3dr3m]

Excellent video

[@biegebythesea6775]

been like this my whole life.

[@saiiorsu]

Thank You ❤ From India

[@demihau]

sadly for me it’s not just a lazy era, but a depression episode

[@AlexisBelon]

I think.a lot of the comments agree with you including me. Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine! I’d be sooo grateful if you swung by and took a peek. 🙏 Stick around if you like!

[@bilqissulthanannasira4905]

I'l start with writing down my small & big wins

[@loiseopiana645]

1. Positive energy routine 2. Eliminate distractions 3. Create a productive workspace 4. Master goal setting and prioritization 5. Task batching and time blocking 6. Positive self talk 7. Set better boundaries 8. Establish healthy lifestyle habits 9. Stay consistent by tracking 10. Celebrate small wins Will implement #8❤

[@girlandherviolin]

Create a morning routine and night routine!

[@bingshatisaha2579]

Aileen, lately I've feeling pessimistic about life. I have had kind of a bad experience with trusting people. Now i feel that everyone is selfish (I had bad experiences of trusting people in the past, but never felt pessimistic). I am feeling like what's the point of meeting or getting to know people, they are all the same. Can you help me please?

[@emma_coraline]

im sorry i was day dreaming all the video so yeah i need to rewatch it hahaha

[@bananabread888]

Me 🙋🏻‍♀️ Thank you for the advice ❤️ PS: you’re gorgeous

[@chiegomezz8]

6:00 ❤

[@unknown-tp7fn]

mam which camera do you use for your vlogging

[@user-yd4yr5hr3s]

New subscriber 😘

[@badwolf9979]

Someday you're going to hear of stinkyboy n were gonna be bffz you and me :) I love you you are awesome. You're a hero w that pretty voice of yours

[@er.aafreentabassum2997]

I will prioritize my study

[@aizamalubag-rondera1990]

Hi Aileen..I am from Philippines..how can I make an order of an artist of life workbook...how do I settle payment..we are using gcash here

[@badwolf9979]

You are so cool and awesome and powerful with your positivity. You're so awesome. -stinkyboy