10 reminders for when you’re feeling low, stuck, lost 🫠

[@lavendaire]

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[@rishikakorukonda1891]

i recently read this - our comfort zone is actually our own personal hell that we have outgrown. But we can't seem to leave it because a familiar hell feels better than an unfamiliar heaven💗💗 the first point in the video just reminded me of that💞💞

[@lavendaire]

wow I love that!

[@KoiAcademy]

Thats beautiful and a really great read, btw! 👏🏼

[@RomolorJoaquin]

Your funny ❤.

[@annoar9776]

that's crazy, but also true! :)

[@aenaanfatimaa]

This is so RELATABLE ‼️

[@emranao]

everything will be okay in the end. if it's not okay, it is not the end...

[@ANAMIKA_619]

🎉

[@rina_loves_ts]

oh thank you for this

[@MarlasYoutubeChannel]

I hope it’s not the end!

[@sanjibnath5146]

It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!

[@Darima2]

I've been feeling stuck for a long time but this year it's caused me so much depression and anxiety which only makes you more stuck. The worst is feeling like you let yourself down, disappointed yourself. I am stuck in a comfort zone because I live a good life and am blessed yet don't feel like I'm aligned with my purpose and also feel lonely. It's not easy but I'm trying.

[@jan854]

I can resonate with this. I have a good life, I'm blessed, but I'm not motivated like I was before . I have a great job where I make good money, but it doesn't fulfill me. I do work remotely so I know the lack of social connection is adding to this.

[@Darima2]

@@jan854 I've been working remotely too since 2014. I love it but that aspect is what's kept me in the same job because I'd say if I'm gonna be unfulfilled by this type of corporate job , I'd rather it be in the comfort of my home rather than going back to that depressing, mundane, boring office atmosphere where you have to always be in office mode. Then commuting back and forth where I can literally feel and see other people's misery going to their unfulfilling jobs. The social aspect wore off after the first 3 years tbh. I'm considering a total career change which would require going back to school but I really should have made that decision a good decade ago so I've been beating myself up about that too, not making the right decision. Focused more on enjoying life in the short term than thinking long term😢. Lots of regrets and anger. Trying to pull myself out of it but it's a struggle, like a tug of war.

[@kail.ahhl.]

honestly i feel a similar way but once you go out a bit of your comfort zone you get this feeling of freedom you feel a little lighter atleast it was for me still going through this period of uncertainty and confusion but getting through but it hard when we feel so comfortable with people or in a certain situation

[@peachystudio3491]

i hope it gets better for all of us

[@whimsicalsky48]

I know this is an older comment, but I deeply resonate with how you feel. Years have passed and I'm still . . . lost, I don't know who I am or where I'm meant to be going

[@emranao]

the remedy for my healing process is the ''patience.'' we all have ups and downs, we go through hard phases in life, being judged from toxic people... but i'm very well aware that once i stand firm and face the challanges in my way better days are awaiting me there. ALL I NEED IS PATIENCE!!!

[@nayanaparmesh5343]

Growth happens outside comfort zone Sometimes you have to fight for what you want A sign of realignment Change your strategy Life is not linear Do the thing try your best Character development Expand and explore yourself

[@tatianavelasco1335]

I think my favorite part of this video will be a sign for realignment

[@oamahana]

" *Gratitude* is simply a shift in your *perspective* to see the good in your life the more you focus on what you have to be grateful for the better you feel about your life" a simple but powerful reminder, this chapter really talked to me thank you for this video Aileen❤

[@Anna-us2yw]

Do it for the plot. Remind yourself that everything happens for your growth. That will be my favorite quote for today. I feel blue these days, but after watching this, I feel up now. Thanks a million.

[@thatgirl_Devi]

Looking at life and challenges as a "plot" and "character development" is a genius mindset. This is now changing my perspective of my life. Right now I'm stuck/burnt out at my job and I'm being challenged to be more assertive and now I'm starting to see this as a sign of my character development.

[@brittreneeswaymain]

“Everything will be ok in the end. If it’s not ok, it’s not the end!” I absolutely love this quote. I’ve been going through a rough patch for the past few years, and this is for sure something I needed! Thank you for this! Sending you love and light! 💜

[@brookeflood5683]

Do it for the plot! 💗 Character development regardless of how things go, doing hard things builds character

[@LifeByPatricia]

“Sometimes you have to fight for what you want” - I love that because it gives me so much motivation to keep going and not give up on my dreams! ❤ Very powerful! 🙏

[@jocelynlovera9944]

Thank you for this beautiful message. I needed this and it lifted me up! Not feeling myself lately, because I’m not where I want to be. I have been in a comfort zone too long and it’s time for me to move. Husband has a business, my kids became adults and working and now my days of feeding, cleaning the house and making sure everybody is okay, IS OVER 😮 everyone else found their path and now it’s time to find mine. No one is around but me lift in this house. But that’s my fault and I will be make the change today! Will be putting my focus back to being a nail tech and doing facials. Letting this fear go 😊 time to find myself and letting this beautiful gift I have (creating nail art) out to te world!

[@anettas.1751]

sounds great! My mum had to face that situation 16 years ago. She got a drivers licence (failed 8 times), joined a 3 year school and worked in a kindergardem for years.Kids loved her, she loved the job and still likes to drive the car. 🥰 If you are into nail art and facials, you probably never had time to experiment with art and beauty classes in the last years. Maybe you ll turn into an beauty specialist or tatoo artist for micro tatoos or so. Try new classes, find out what you love to do and i hope you ll love uour new path!

[@privsnowy8923]

If it's not okay, it is not the end

[@KoiAcademy]

Absolutely loving these reminders, Aileen! Especially the ones about growth: 'Growth happens outside your comfort zone,' 'Fighting for what you want,' and 'Expanding and investing in ourselves' (I see a connection between the last two, in my opinion and I resonated with them the most) Thanks for the positivity and the chill vibes! 👏🏼 (P.S: Apple picking looks really peaceful and satisfying, haha)

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much for your kindness 🥰

[@majidaparveenshaik6924]

I have been feeling low for a month. I never know what is the reason. I try to do the things that used to make me happy. But I always felt something was missing. When I don't know what is happening I cant express myself to others. All combined I started feeling alone. I felt like there was no one to talk to, there was no one to listen to me. I don't know why I searched about this on KZbin today and ended up on your video randomly. I have to thank you for many reasons for uploading such videos and bringing the core energy back. I really feel much better and relaxed after listening to you. Thank you so much. Am a great admirer and fan of your words from today💓

[@AbbyPeek]

You always know exactly what to say, exactly when I need to hear it ❤

[@herlandforlove]

I was just about to break down cause of stress. The timing is unreal

[@ADionisio]

I seek your videos like this when I'm stuck, feeling down and behind in life, feeling inadequate, feeling like I'm losing grip with myself and trying not to dwell on my own mistakes and just move. I'm the type to easily get overwhelmed, but I often forget how much effort and energy I have spent my entire 20s to navigate my emotions more than trying to stop them (if that makes any sense to anyone reading this) and it honestly surprises me how much I've improved in a lot of areas where I used to normally freak out and lose sight of myself. I appreciate you continuing to make videos! I have always watched them since my early college days, and they have been extremely helpful! For that, I'm grateful to have wonderful people, like you, to help navigate life a little more easily ❤

[@hope_ful574]

My favourite reminders were realigning and expanding myself I think I need to push myself more to reach my goal since I not satisfied by my efforts but there are lot of fears and self doubts that are holding me back and I promise myself I will conquer all of them Thank you lavendaire for your great reminders ❤

[@sydneybriannataaffe1026]

This video is such a blessing. I don't know how the algorithm knew I needed this

[@ANAMIKA_619]

Your videos have been immensely beneficial to me, serving as a reliable source of support during moments of emotional low. Your content consistently uplifts my spirits and provides a fresh perspective on various aspects. Thank you for creating such impactful videos

[@lavendaire]

thank you! i appreciate you ♡

[@essmaxwell]

Aileen, you have been SUCH a lifesaver to me who just started experiencing anxiety 6 months ago. Your affirmations, meditations, advice, and even your lifestyle content where I see you living a happy and fulfilled life despite your misgivings have all inspired me to get to a point where I am no longer struggling half as much as I was in the beginning. (I'm a bit late to comment on this video, but if you end up seeing this, thank you so much

[@lavendaire]

thank you! i appreciate you ♡

[@jaihernandez5589]

Mine would be Allignment used this word so much today I also appreciate Gratitude and taking time to craft new ideas for new skills and the keys toward the adventure. thank each of you who read this always remember your loved ❤and appreciated.

[@xenavo6495]

This video came to me at the perfect time when I needed to hear it. These are amazing tips, with #1 "growth happens outside your comfort zone" is my favorite. I feel I have been feeling stuck/low and everyday felt very mundane/uninteresting. I am starting to realize it is really because of me doing the same things and not challenging myself as much as I used to. I will definitely keep this in mind moving forward because recently I have switched up little things in my routine and gotten out of my comfort zone and it has had a positive impact on my mood overall. Thank you Aileen.

[@Vanshikaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa]

6:07 time is gonna pass no matter what, it's me who will make the right use of it chasing my dreams and giving a chance for me and my family living our best lives ❤

[@euonymph]

Number 2 almost made me cry. I needed to hear that so much, because I felt like giving up. Thank you Aileen ❤

[@lavendaire]

sending you love & light 💖

[@Mar-ME-s3h]

You are such an amazing teacher/mentor. It is a gift you were born to share. Thanks from all of us to you 🥰

[@sophiaisabelle027]

We appreciate how well you've articulated your own insights on this matter. Keep working hard.

[@mommylovable]

I found myself thinking of having other people experience everything that you said, instead of taking the advice for myself. I was thinking of My soon to be ex-husband and telling him these steps and things. I need to look at myself instead of trying to fix everybody else and help everybody else. Thank you for always always giving yourself to us and teaching us. I ordered the artist journal and cannot wait for it to come in. I love that I also got a digital version of it.

[@annoar9776]

change the strategy and character development and comfort zone were my favorite reminders. thank you.

[@HeatherMascara]

„Do it for the plot.“ is an interesting thought! ⭐️⭐️⭐️😊

[@angelagrimes8237]

This was awesome! Thanks Aileen! I loved the qu’Adeline about life is not linear. I have had to rewire my thinking on this notion because I am of that generation that was drilled in the ‘life’s trajectory’ and expectations is/was linear. Though I discovered, not too late, when I survived cancer at 36, that life was scribble of paths that eventually take you on the journey your open yourself to. I am so glad you brought this up as I want younger people to realize this now and not later. Cheers!

[@Alyssa-nt7zt]

Aileen you believe it or not you have really helped me a lot in my journey .2021 was the time when I was so depressed and hated myself but you were the one who motivated me to try again and again and not give up. I explored many self-help KZbinrs and listened but no one gave me what I wanted except you. It was like you were my comfort. Thank you so much, Aileen.A lot of love and blessings from my side.💗💗💗💗

[@lavendaire]

thank you for sharing 💖 so proud of you!

[@lindsayhone5862]

‘Do it for the plot’ I really like that concept. It’s a great way to view things:)

[@annahuynh083]

This video came just in time for me. I currently feel lost and stuck because things seem to be getting old and stale for me. I need something fresh to rejuvenate my energy. My favorite reminder is the first one: 'Growth happens outside the comfort zone.' Thank you for this video, Aileen!

[@whitneylaurenjones]

My favourite reminder was about remembering how far you’ve come and expressing gratitude for life and what you’ve already achieved. Near the end of 2021, I was the heaviest I’ve ever been and I was worried that my health was at risk. I discovered calorie deficit and over the past 3 years I’ve changed my life and lost 7 stone 5lb. Some days I still feel so self conscious but this a reminder for me to remember how far I’ve come and how much I’ve achieved and to express gratitude for it ❤

[@fancyflamingo]

thank you for this, aileen. my favorite part is "find gratitude for how far you've come" this makes me remember my decision months ago to change my daily phone reminder from "you're getting there" to "you've come this far" - made such a huge difference! ✨

[@Potterhead819]

Wow Aileen!! I have watched only a few vedios of yours but they all have literally changed my life so much for good!! Thank you so much for saying the words that I needed to hear because I am also currently going through a low point in my life , You are really the most awesome person I ever know!!

[@lavendaire]

🙏🏼💖 thank you for your kind words!

[@lauraramirez1001]

All are great reminders! And its all i need right now. Ive been going through a rough stage with anxiety ❤ thank you for the reminders!

[@ANAMIKA_619]

Just be busy don't sit alone it will help u to deal with the anxiety you've

[@arestaquilla]

I rewatch this whenever I feel low, stuck, and unmotivated and this time I like the fifth point, change your strategy. I'm just realize that I've been doing the same thing for a long time, it didn't help me to show a lot of progress and I need to change something, this video reminds me to work harder. thank u for helping me survive another day aileen, love you tons!

[@lavendaire]

sending you love & light 💙

[@bigdreamwithliz]

I’ve been hearing reminders about character development lately! It’s all part of the story! Such a great reminder that keeps things lighter & takes a lot of pressure off. 🤩🙌

[@irmgardkuchernig1156]

Great mind set and actions to shift. These are all good reminders to help yourself and come back to your own inner nourishment, feed yourself from the inside. This is not only smart but also really wise! Thank you.

[@caffein1110]

Extend to bigger self and gratitude. Explore things in the world. Thank you lavandaire!

[@lavendaire]

Which reminder was your favorite? ❤ BTW pls check out our new Artist of Life Workbook if you haven’t yet! It’s a tool to help you become the person you want to be 🫶 lavendaire.com/workbook

[@CarrotMuncher]

Hey Lavendaire, I was wondering if you know how much of your audience are men? I'm a guy and while this your content isn't typically what I watch, it's pretty uplifting and very helpful

[@lavendaire]

​@@CarrotMuncher it's about 15-20%!

[@daybunnyart8637]

Do the thing, try your best

[@journeytolearn354]

Grateful for this channel ❤, I'm following you from June 2023 , You helped me a lot in my healing journey , I'm doing your guided meditation everymorning❤❤ Lots of love from India 🇮🇳

[@linzhao2235]

@@lavendaire What do you think life is about? Our time is limited on this earth. It's either go all in or stop trying. I'm 22 and I still don't have it figured out. Time just seems like its running out. I never felt this way when I was 17/18 I thought I had all the time in the world to do things.

[@juliebeegabawan5982]

This has been very timely, a change of season in life can be overwhelming and terrifying, do it for the plot. Everything was on point.

[@irenevastola9447]

The thing I hate the most is when we are healing and developing, the worst of yourself affects the people close to you. I am experiencing something like that right now, and even if I have told these people that I am improving and apologising for the harsh words and behaviour that I have sometimes, it just hurts... and the negative talk and improvement goes backwords.

[@maarlzipan]

Thank you for this

[@IntuitiveFlow1114]

I just love your content style everything just flows and the gems 💎 are so motivational. Thank you 🤍✨

[@lavendaire]

thank you!!

[@Lenora_17]

Thanks so much for sharing. At the moment, I feel blue, low and lose. I found you're vd. You makes me guide. Now I know that what should I do and what should I need to change. I really really thank to you.

[@DianaNarbaeva-o3x]

Thanks Aileen❤ Before my bed time my heart feels safe coz of your soft voice 🫠💕✨🫂

[@MsAlison]

i can always count on your videos to help me when i’m feeling down

[@lavendaire]

i appreciate you! 💜

[@storylists]

Thank you so much for this! You released this on the day I was feeling the exact words on the title of this video. Thank you for encouraging me on my own journey for the past 4 years!

[@cariwalker7549]

I used to watch your videos a lot and I miss them! I’m going to start watching them again because I love your videos on so many things that help me with my daily life! Love you!!

[@gloriaa.passaponti8830]

Hi 💫 i have been subscribed to your channel for years, i first discovered your content when I was 16 and now i'm 23 sooo yes, i feel like you do always have to remember us something fresh and important. Your videos are like a breath of fresh air. You always speak with care and each time i watch one of your videos it's marvellous to see not only our personal growth and what we've making in these years, but also your incredible growth 💕

[@lavendaire]

thank you for sharing love! i appreciate you so much 🥰

[@bedazzledboo]

Hi Aileen. I love your videos so much they have helped me a lot. Whenever I am feeling low I can always count on your videos to make me feel better and just change my perspective about things. 💜💜

[@bestboy897]

Your videos are so inspiring and beautiful. I love your positivity

[@hebahesham6502]

"invest in yourself" ❤❤❤

[@minerva_einar]

Hi i'm Midhat, 16Y. People with really deep hurts come on your channel and you really helping them🤍. But i also want you to please always be honest like whatever you told to us we really took serious. And we want your real, honest reaminders of your POV of life . BTW thank you 🥺.

[@Moonlight-at]

I just LOVEED your voice and the way you talk with a little smile so you can make me feel like i'm talking to my older sister

[@lavendaire]

💝💝💝

[@Kimaya-er8ix]

this was exactly the video I needed

[@blainethemono19]

Thank you for being such a ray of light. I needed this today and truly appreciate you.

[@reettas2556]

Not all the parts of the video hit home 100% - like I have definitely been out of my comfort zone lately. But it made me appreciate myself and feel thankful, even though I feel overwhelmed lately. Anyway so inspiring video that lifted my moods.

[@chanaLMAO]

I really appreciate this message today. Thank you so much. Keep up the great work. I found all of them to be great reminders for myself.

[@c.k.1958]

Thank you so so much Aileen for this video, i appreciate your wisdom and kindness its filled my heart with gratitude for beautiful souls like yourself who share such wonderful and valuable reminders to us all 🤍💖

[@mountain-mornings]

I sometimes get stuck between listening to what feels most aligned and pushing myself out of my comfort zone. 😵‍💫

[@NaomiTrang]

I'm just so happy i found your channel, while there are plenty of *bling bling* people on social media, you are very original and have those unsure times in your life that i find my self very tuning into

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much for these words ♡

[@Lilymaee222]

I had a hard 2023 so I had the assumption that immediately I'd get everything back or better in 2024 for things to be done at lightspeed! But I still feel stuck and stagnant. These reminders are what I needed to hear today because I was beating myself up and feeling very low.

[@fearthe_doublebunny]

I've never commented.. I want to say a thing but I know it'll be an understatement in what way I say it. I am not the person I was 2 years ago.. I've changed so much to a point not a single person can believe what happened to me lol.. not even myself.. I'm still proudly rambling about this crazy change in my journal almost all the time..and it was a journey. Which was nawt in my comfort zone.. and boi I was amazed with myself.. to this day I am. Well that said, lavendiare was a part of that journey.. and I wanted to thank you. 💜

[@fearthe_doublebunny]

If explained I've ALOT to say but can't.. so lol I'm just so happy

[@lavendaire]

thank you for sharing love 💘 i appreciate you!

[@Shaunashares]

Fight for what you want ❤

[@elizabethwohlford9615]

Hey Aileen, I’m the girl who met you in the elevator of that Seattle hotel a few months back. I really needed to hear this today, so thank you for making this video :) love, liz

[@lavendaire]

Omg hi!! It was such a coincidence meeting you then! 🤗

[@pallavipandavula6724]

You need to fight for what you want ❤that's lovely. Many times we might think if it's the right thing for us,it will happen or else not .But this idea gave me a new perspective by saying fight for what you want .

[@lavendaire]

so happy to read that it gave you a new perspective love 🤗

[@deborahostmo]

Love how you always evolve and develop - You have been on this platform and contributing so much in the personal development space for so many years- I admire your work ethic and dedication to your channel and community ! - Im also Looking to make a video on this topic Its such an important topic.

[@marcelamota5380]

This is too positive for the moment I’m in right now, maybe I’ll come back another day and it will make more sense to me than

[@AngelicaB930]

I feel low, lost but I will do my best everyday to get better. Thank u for this

[@kanaplayss]

Uncanny how your videos always come at the right time, thanks a lot

[@urfee_ayub]

Hey Aileen! Thank you so much for this amazing video, can't tell you how much I needed this. So grateful you posted this. Thank you again for making my day better. Have a nice day.

[@rinjinhok9902]

"Life is not linear" is my favorite reminder from you

[@alicet7269]

Thank you for this video. Stepping outside of the comfort zone and self care.

[@ryleighjj]

i’m so grateful you uploaded this when you did and i got the notification. i’ve been feeling really low lately but man… this helps so much. thank you!!

[@thefierydew]

This is what i really need to hear right now :") Thank you Lavendaire, might enjoy the low energy phase in my life and hope it will too shall pass......

[@lavendaire]

everything's temporary... you got this love 💖

[@Nada01111]

Posted in time I was lost and overthinking.thank you always 💜

[@Ajantaa]

Because of people like you i continue to hope.. ❤

[@lavendaire]

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[@terry63lee]

🦄🦄🦄🦄 thank you for your beautiful insights.

[@fujidenzo_kid4147]

You are always perfect timing for me.

[@forPJM-zv4tr]

I would like to request you to make a video for those who lost careers and what way they should go

[@nafenalhajyousef8007]

Oh my God, yesterday I was watching two of your videos about feeling lost, Thank you & good luck Aileen🤍

[@MannyWalks]

Phenomenal tips! 🔥🔥 Thanks so much Aileen for this boost of positivity🙏

[@yelenaelle278]

Always make space for gratitude is my favorite 😍 Thank you for this video so inspirational!

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much! i appreciate your words 🥰

[@zDhappy]

Thank you Ailleen, I really needed this video. I recently quit my nursing job because I feel like it just wasnt the right one for me. Ive been applying to jobs. And Ive been anxious because I am not hearing any response back. I would think over and over again, is it because I am lacking in my skills or is it because I switch jobs often? So my self esteem was low and I felt stuck in life where I dont know what to do? I know everything happens for a reason and in the end, everything will work out. But after watching this video, I slowly gain some confident. So thank you Aileen for this wonderful video I needed in this point of my life. I think my fav reminder is to do you thing, and do your best. If I know I did my best then thats all it matters.

[@lavendaire]

exactly! sending you a big hug💜

[@Ethreally_Pretty]

How do you always know exactly what I need luv?? You're truly amazing ❤❤ thank you so much 💕

[@lavendaire]

wow! that's amazing 💜 thank YOU!

[@Ethreally_Pretty]

@@lavendaire 💜💜💜!!!

[@MarianaGonzalez-vo3qi]

Thank you beautiful! you seem to have the answer every time I'm going through weird times in life ❤

[@valentinabelladonna6159]

While watching this perfect fabrication I cannot help thinking about how people are divided into rich ones who have more than they need and feel lost in life anyway and the ones who have barely enough to get by and they have less time to think about all the things this woman Lavendel thinks about. Never the less thank you for your effort. Your video reminds me of the real important things in life and they are not what you try to picture here.

[@ivanas442]

My favorite was "Change your strategy". Thank you!

[@fallinlovewithnoor.4165]

Perfect timing, I’m studying for final exams 🫠

[@Polyglot97]

My fav is, "Growth happens outside of your comfort zone"

[@christinastoudemire4100]

❤❤❤❤Do the thing and try your best. Thank you. I have hope.

[@gaablove8054]

When I tell you I needed this video... thank you SO much.