How To Feel Happy - Scientifically Proven Ways of Creating Lasting Happiness

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@samsamiii509
@samsamiii509 8 жыл бұрын
DONT MIND ME IM JUST TAKING NOTES 1)be grateful 2)optimistic 3)Stop Over Thinking 4)Stop Addictions (create a reason why u love that addiction) 5)Build Relationships 6)Enjoy Life Appreciate it dont rush 7)Meditation (20min) 8)Flow(
@UwUnium
@UwUnium 5 жыл бұрын
Goalz
@LiftOffLife
@LiftOffLife 5 жыл бұрын
...and illimitablemen.com Fantastic resourses.
@DuCKie.03.514
@DuCKie.03.514 4 жыл бұрын
Idk how not to overthink when im worried things im not even part of, and i dont know what to be gratfeful for. Like i dont care if i die, i lived and it was messed up. But i wanna feel happiness and it makes me motivated when someone talks about 'how to' cuz i experience lack of happiness all the shit time. Some people say its easy or "its just happiness duh, ucan have it too" i dont. Im not happy, and i hate to be the sad ans toxic one, i havent gotten called edgy, im glad for that. Cuz i aint tryna put my mood to my look. But not gonna like that would help a lot, to change things into what i want. Like a change would give me a breath up. It effects my eating habits, and everything. I try to be happy everyday, somedays i just come up with a shadow of happiness like a clone of it. But what is real happiness? When u dont even have to create it by thinking. I want it naturally, i hate that im sad
@cvmws
@cvmws 4 жыл бұрын
dont forget to replace the adiction with something positive bro :)
@chazzat3113
@chazzat3113 2 жыл бұрын
@@DuCKie.03.514 you will get there I promise
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
If you liked this video, be sure to watch my related videos: 1) Positive Thinking - The Key To Thinking Positive 2) Optimism - How To Become Optimisitic Right Now 3) Why Am I Depressed? - The Truth Behind Depression and How To Break Free 4) How To Feel Good - How To Re-Create Your Life So It Makes You Feel Amazing 5) What Is Happiness? - An Extremely Advanced Definition Of Happiness
@Aaafff662
@Aaafff662 10 жыл бұрын
I have been doing this for a week, and I have never been happier. I am grateful for this video, thank you!
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
Awesome, Ally :)
@stavrosgazis5824
@stavrosgazis5824 4 жыл бұрын
Tell us more! Well done...
@olav9931
@olav9931 3 жыл бұрын
@@stavrosgazis5824 You are six years late dude...
@RameshKumar-lb4dl
@RameshKumar-lb4dl 10 жыл бұрын
I suddenly became happy just in the 15 minutes of this video. This is the true joy in life and it being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one, and it being thoroughly worn out.I just discovered your video and one of the things I have great gratitude for is you. I know that your tips will help me become a lot more satisfied with my life and everything around me in the future. Thank you.
@fatmaannoune8843
@fatmaannoune8843 9 жыл бұрын
i use to be so happy in the past but i'm not in our days and also possitive funny i really don't understand what happend to me but i'm thinking a lot about my problems and how my life should be and so on and to be honest i miss my self a lot ...... that's why a wanna thank you for your efforts because your videos are very helpful for me ... GOD bless you
@reddonna8022
@reddonna8022 8 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel.. did a traumatic event or bad experiences cause that ?
@xdzz1240
@xdzz1240 8 жыл бұрын
+Red Donna same shit happend to me i feel sad for nearly 1 mounth and nothinf made me happy
@reddonna8022
@reddonna8022 8 жыл бұрын
it will take time but it gets better trust me
@xdzz1240
@xdzz1240 8 жыл бұрын
+Red Donna thanks :D im ok now 😋 im sad when im not with my best friwnds
@xdzz1240
@xdzz1240 8 жыл бұрын
Tommorow is my birthday lifes just better wit u :D i met people like you but hey were never found again thanks for the comment i felt committing suicide
@kt.ph777
@kt.ph777 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 24 and have been watching your videos for years. Leo, stumbling on your channel is one of the things I am grateful for in my life cuz you have helped guiding me thru really bad times - like depression, break-ups.... when I had no one to give me such wisdom and advice I was seeking. You literally changed my life forever. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us.
@brokestudenthelp7871
@brokestudenthelp7871 8 жыл бұрын
I think too much about the future .. That is my problem
@davidreynolds4942
@davidreynolds4942 8 жыл бұрын
you're thinking about something that doesn't exist
@mckayladorantes1113
@mckayladorantes1113 8 жыл бұрын
+David Reynolds woah deep
@Uhlirovi
@Uhlirovi 8 жыл бұрын
read the power of now
@brianlimjj800
@brianlimjj800 8 жыл бұрын
lol, to the layman it sounds like a fking insult/troll
@praveensingh85Negi
@praveensingh85Negi 7 жыл бұрын
erca waters mine too
@yakupdogan5978
@yakupdogan5978 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dad. I am raised without Father and everytime i watch your video's im visualizing you are my Dad speaking for my goodness. Even do that's just a thought i appreciate you so much for your kindness. You know the big secret and that is that live is short and we should be all kind and live in peace and acceptance. Tyvm
@Lavenderliux
@Lavenderliux 10 жыл бұрын
Leo, your videos are truly enlightening my life! I have been spending 20-30 minutes every day to watch your videos thoroughly and follow your advice afterwards. I am taking the 7 day positive thinking challenge and 30 day meditation challenge right now and I feel much happier than before. I am so blessed to find your videos out of the clutter and thank you for helping us with self development...
@nctunes
@nctunes 9 жыл бұрын
Your healing me. Thank you. Retired Special Forces with PTSD. Wishing nothing but good for you.
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 9 жыл бұрын
*salute* ;)
@nctunes
@nctunes 9 жыл бұрын
Back at you. Thanks
@shubhammishra-en2kh
@shubhammishra-en2kh Жыл бұрын
How are you now
@nctunes
@nctunes Жыл бұрын
@@shubhammishra-en2kh Thing are different and for the better. You made the difference pointing one in the right direction. Thank you.
@adriancojocariu2062
@adriancojocariu2062 9 жыл бұрын
This video deserves milions of views not hundreds
@tantegalang1122
@tantegalang1122 9 жыл бұрын
I really looove your videos. Its been helping me alot. I have been battling severe anxiety disorder for almost 3 years now.. its been really hard until I found one of your videos and i cant stop watching. Thank you for the big help, you have no idea how grateful i am I saw your video. :) my 17month old baby is thanking you for making her mommy feel better again. :)
@hiQer
@hiQer 7 жыл бұрын
This is my first visit here, I like this guy and I feel welcome! Have a nice day ya'll
@suelyons9771
@suelyons9771 9 жыл бұрын
Leo, this is my favourite video so far. It consolidates so many things that I need to remember to do every day. I am going to save this as a Favourite. Thank you so much!
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 9 жыл бұрын
Welcome :)
@mohitkashyap3360
@mohitkashyap3360 7 жыл бұрын
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@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
athena greece You certainly CAN feel good about your present and future, you just CHOOSE not to. Watch some of my other videos and start baby-stepping your way up. Starting doing the exercises I'm telling you to do.
@crackheadscientist12
@crackheadscientist12 9 жыл бұрын
Why are you always wearing the same tshirt?
@ARCAMARC
@ARCAMARC 9 жыл бұрын
+Tasnia Tabassum because its all about consistency :P hey Leo
@buckshot226
@buckshot226 8 жыл бұрын
I have been watching you for the last 3 days everyday I just want to ask you a question what's your name?
@thebeanyeah
@thebeanyeah 8 жыл бұрын
+pink orchid leo is his name ... he tells in every video 😒😒
@buckshot226
@buckshot226 8 жыл бұрын
Bean Yeah now I know his name. But before I didn't hear him saying it he talks to fast. English not my first language.
@tamaragalovic3181
@tamaragalovic3181 9 жыл бұрын
Idk why, but i cried while watching this video. It had an influence on me because i'm a very negative person and it made me feel like i have to change the way i look to things and the way i think. I really do want to feel happy, and you made me certain of that thought. Thank you Leo!
@james4wd236
@james4wd236 8 жыл бұрын
Ive been through this before. Personally my feelings of unhappiness stem from being single. While not relying solely on relationships for happiness, I due go though tough times every now and again. Me personally, I found that a lot of my negative feelings that I had all the time came from other people that I was associated with. I lived with negative people and hung out with negative people. I saw myself slowly start to turn into a negative person always blaming everything and everyone for my unhappiness. It wasn't until I started spending time with positive people that my attitude and outlook on life changed. I recently broke up with my GF and have been struggling to retain my positive outlook on life lately which lead me to this video. Unhappy feelings took over the first few months do to seclusion and depression, but I started forcing myself to go out and try new things and spend time with people building new friendships and rebuilding and strengthening old ones. Asking for people phone numbers and trying to make plans to do things as a detraction but also as a new connection. Ive started working out and eliminating some of my bad eating habits. Overspending and buying things was also an addiction of mine. Well for the most part I am doing a lot better and have continued to overcome my depression. I have my bad days from time to time, but nothing like before. I'm glad I saw your video, It gives me more ammo to defeat my negative thoughts.
@guljemalm7157
@guljemalm7157 8 жыл бұрын
So true......I am lately feeling unhappy, but I think your videa gave me what I stopped doing that made me unhappy. We all have things to be great about. Being thankful and having good plans for tomorrow/future is THE happiness. Thank you so much!!!
@conniemoatz3103
@conniemoatz3103 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Leo I am a girl and tend to get my highs and lows and the lows are when I feel unhappy and unloved but as I been watching your videos I have realized that all this time I wanted to find happiness in other people like a boyfriend, or someone to praise me pretty much and truly my last relationship when sour because of this.. I would ask him if he liked me every month and I would feel left out. He got tired of this behavior. After watching your videos I have understand that I can not be happy if I can't find it within myself first. Thank you for your videos. (After a brake up I got to find them)
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 9 жыл бұрын
Yup, it's very annoying being a guy and having your girlfriend constantly expecting you to shower her with praise.
@jakesnake253
@jakesnake253 8 жыл бұрын
I came across this video on accident. It surprises me that people watch this. I never knew how blessed I was to always look at the bright side of things. The best advice I can give to someone feeling low is to try to make someone else happy and smile. Surround your self with good people. God bless or good luck or whatever makes you happy,!
@jasonomnia9295
@jasonomnia9295 6 жыл бұрын
I have family living in what Americans refer to as 3rd world country, and even though they don't have as much materials as we do here such as computers, big screen tv, and so on, I noticed how happy they are compare to us. All because how close nit our family are, a house there is multi generations. You have grandparents, parents, and children all living under one roof. Even though it can be crowded, and noisy and hectic a lot of the time, I find myself WAY more happy whenever I come back to visit than I do living here. Not that this country is bad or anything, but again like this video said science shows that when you have a strong relation with your family you're really happy. And no amount of materials here can make me as happy when I was living there for a few weeks at a time.
@sidneycrow5645
@sidneycrow5645 8 жыл бұрын
Im in high school right now and i was a little bit sad because i failed my math and Spanish test last week. I watched your vid for 10 minutes and i already felt better...thank you
@ronniedenig9994
@ronniedenig9994 9 жыл бұрын
I'm addicted to comfort....and feeling safe.
@anhedonicanthony6743
@anhedonicanthony6743 8 жыл бұрын
+Ronald Denig I have a similar problem, and have little compulsions in my life related to my obsession of security.
@EvanT1986
@EvanT1986 10 жыл бұрын
Dude, I've been working on my happiness for a while and i wasnt feeling great today. I youtubed 'how to feel happy' and i found your video. It has really lifted my spirits and ive become refocused and reminded of what i need to do to be happy. Ive also been able to identify the things in my life that have a negative affect on my well being. good on you for putting out this good material! Thanks again
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped.
@sarjenka
@sarjenka 7 жыл бұрын
The problem with relationships, is that I tend to get irritated by a lot of people... I'm mostly most happy just being by myself...
@loriebellearboladura8642
@loriebellearboladura8642 7 жыл бұрын
Kitty van der Heul me too
@kardoyle
@kardoyle 6 жыл бұрын
me too haha .....so true
@libertasca1636
@libertasca1636 3 жыл бұрын
Same here. Is that normal?
@gamergirl7955
@gamergirl7955 5 жыл бұрын
thankyou so much your videos made me happy but didnt cure my anxiety and depression, but it makes me calm, like after wathcing this I feel happy and calm and dont think too much but after 1 hours my negative thoughts comes again, I dont know how people can live like this, its so hard to control my mind when eating, sleeping, changing clothes, looking at my stuff my negative thoughts keeps getting back but ill keep watching ur vids to stay calm
@lyzabethlopez
@lyzabethlopez 8 жыл бұрын
This video made me feel happy... 🙃
@exoticblondestripper
@exoticblondestripper 6 жыл бұрын
LYZABETH LOPEZ - Fitness & Nutrition Lyzabeth I love u, the best fitness coach ever 😘
@amyandanth110
@amyandanth110 7 жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos for 2 weeks now , my attitude to situations that arise has changed completely. We all a searching for the meaning of life , and I know you started all this for the same reason . But you have found it . Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻
@travisbarrettrudd4768
@travisbarrettrudd4768 9 жыл бұрын
Just want to thank you for your work, I know it is doing good in the world and I am sure I am not the only one you are helping. My Godhead of nothingness thanks you... : ) I quit drinking and smoking today and I already feel better, replacing that with a spiritual quest.
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 9 жыл бұрын
Welcome!
@montelo555
@montelo555 9 жыл бұрын
+Travis Barrett Rudd I feel happy. :)
@BalajiLoganathan1
@BalajiLoganathan1 10 жыл бұрын
Leo,my heart full thanks to you and your work to make us mindfully active and this selfless act create good things in all our lives thanks again for your fantastic work and keep going..
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
It's not a selfless act, this is my art. But thanks! :)
@JesusIsTheSavior7777
@JesusIsTheSavior7777 10 жыл бұрын
My mind is always spinning. How can I tell my conscious to shut up? My brain doesnt realize its there.
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
Sit silently in a quiet room for 30 minutes straight every single day and observe your mind without moving or doing anything.
@1ex1uger-prank-calls
@1ex1uger-prank-calls 4 жыл бұрын
@@ActualizedOrg and don't focus on your negative thoughts. They will come, but shift your focus onto deep breathing, which is the only active physical response you should have. And don't get angry or criticize yourself when you realize your attention has shifted; just correct it and carry on.
@edwinromilly4645
@edwinromilly4645 3 жыл бұрын
Hi i have that affliction...!! its a energy drainer- with your feelings..Stop trying to control them..Its not the thoughts its the power you give them..Is there something underlying whts triggering it,i know mine is..the power of the moment,and make most of wha you can control.A emotion will always overpower a thought so surrender To your emotions and be with them and then internalise them recognise them ,ask yourself what am I feeling? and why ?Without over analysing and then surrender to them when you start to relax and breathe then elevate your thoughts with a pleasant mantra-like -I am exactly where I need to be or I am enjoying the moments of life. Ed x
@kulsumabbaskazmi3989
@kulsumabbaskazmi3989 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Leo. The first thing, after seeing this video, I would wanna do is appreciate you for all this FREE self help videos. Thankyou and I truly appreciate you. You make a difference in my life.
@beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470
@beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470 9 жыл бұрын
I'm addicted to Marijuana and I am working through it. Do you have any videos that are solely about addiction?
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 9 жыл бұрын
See video called Bad Habits.
@beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470
@beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470 9 жыл бұрын
One can get addicted to anything. Yes, a person CAN be addicted to weed.
@beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470
@beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470 9 жыл бұрын
Actualized.org Thank you!
@Tarantulavampiress
@Tarantulavampiress 9 жыл бұрын
+Anthony danio .... people are addicted to eating dry wall...so..I am pretty sure itd be easy to get addicted to somthing that causes a high...my husband had a weed addiction
@Tarantulavampiress
@Tarantulavampiress 9 жыл бұрын
Anthony danio I think it may deprend on the person, how long, how much, how often, and if it caused any psychosis or damage. My husband struggles with alot from it now, and did go though withdrawl, but it all depends.
@sigridevamusic
@sigridevamusic 9 жыл бұрын
I haven't started doing these tips yet, but I already feel more happy buy just watching the video.
@kj-wd4tv
@kj-wd4tv 9 жыл бұрын
Sigrid Bang Good. :)
@ryanpvwplaysmc4044
@ryanpvwplaysmc4044 10 жыл бұрын
My name is Ryan. I have ADD, clinical depression, and Asperger's syndrome. Now a days I have few friends. I m quite a negative personnel. It seems that even my anti-depressants don't work. Evan increasing my dosage of anti-depressants doesn't even seem to work. I do overthink by the way. All I ever think about is programming java and c++, programming software, and increasing my businesses popularity(i'm 15 years old by the way). It seems my depression is part of my personality. Even my parents gave up on trying to bring me out of my depression. All I ever do is bring every one down. Please help Actualized.org
@ryanpvwplaysmc4044
@ryanpvwplaysmc4044 10 жыл бұрын
It seems as though I cover up the missing social gap in my life with programing software and computing. It seems as though I do the same with my depression. Do to the fact I have Asperger's, I am indifferent from my peers at school, I can't understand their actions just as they can't understand mine(thus making friends is near to impossible). My life is full of depression Actualized.org
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
ryanpvw plays Mc Read the book The Essential Difference to better understand your condition and possible solutions.
@summerfields2291
@summerfields2291 10 жыл бұрын
ryanpvw plays Mc Ryan, I'm fifty and do not have Asperger's and yet I still don't understand people and their behavior either. We all miss social ques from others at times because people are freakin' confusing. A lot! Perhaps step back and realize that everyone has bullshit that they hide and most people are masking their pain and confusion. There is very few genuinely happy and content people in this world! Perhaps your expectations are too high for yourself and others. I think it's awesome that you have taken your somewhat anti-social personality and made it work for you by becoming a computer programer and that you have goals and aspirations of business success. You're going to be fine! :)
@ameliasmith8212
@ameliasmith8212 9 жыл бұрын
Same situation😔
@summerfields2291
@summerfields2291 9 жыл бұрын
Well gosh darn it Amelia...you just must find a hobby you can throw yourself into, to feel good about who you are and what you can accomplish! Don't let the devil drag you down and destroy you! Have faith and pray :)
@beeole1633
@beeole1633 9 жыл бұрын
I am very stressed right now because of so many unnecessary irrational things. This really helps! thanks!
@Ninialiindaaa08
@Ninialiindaaa08 10 жыл бұрын
I have never felt truly happy... Ever
@judgefrankszymanski9428
@judgefrankszymanski9428 9 жыл бұрын
I would humbly suggest that you focus on doing something for someone else.... a friend or family member or even someone you may not know well.... do something for the sole purpose of making someone else feel good.... the problem for many of us is that we get so wound up with our thinking and our emotions and our problems that we have no room to be happy..... yet there's a beautiful power that comes from just doing something to make someone else feel good... it gets us out of our own skin in a way that can be very liberating.... the happiest people aren't the richest or the prettiest or the smartest.... they're the people who give the most..... if you've never been happy spend a day focusing only on the people around you and making them feel good and don't expect anything in return.... what do you have to lose? Amr is right.
@LaisCordiolli
@LaisCordiolli 6 жыл бұрын
It's never too late to change our mindsets
@MsJisuh
@MsJisuh 7 жыл бұрын
Thank u Leo for being straight and having a no nonsense simple approach to helping us live a better, more evolved, enlightened and happier lives!
@xjusttheskyx
@xjusttheskyx 10 жыл бұрын
All these techniques sound great but I can't find the motivation to leave my bed. I just feel like sleeping forever.
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
Check your bloodwork with a doctor. Be sure to get a full thyroid panel for Free T3 and Free T4. That is the cause of many sleepiness issues. Also check yourself for Sleep Apnea. There are many possible causes of sleepiness and tiredness. Of course, you could just be lazy and need a good kick in the ass ;)
@opopulista8134
@opopulista8134 5 жыл бұрын
First Sorry for my english :) The problem is that you keep feeding those bad emotions instead of get action, also you don't have a life purpose, "Oh I don't do this, this is why I'm not happy" "Oh live in the now and you'll be happy" Doesn't matter how much of philosophy you put inside your life, you need like 80% of directly experience, let happiness flow inside you, stop caring about society expectations and you don't need pursue happiness, joyfully is natural, you gotta live happy, do what makes you happy, fuck society expectations. I'm telling you this, because I have a political career and I basically depend on how people is going to see me, even though I'm happy. Now would someone not be happy? Just do what makes you happy, don't be lazy and say "Netflix and Chill" makes me happy, because nobody would feel happy after months of netflix and chill. Let the joyfully of life flowing through you, existence by itself is amazing, how can somebody not be happy ? if you don't live in a very poor country there is no reason at all, you know why people are not happy? Because they're slaves from their own ego, because they're slaves for society expectations, because you guys think happiness is a objective feeling, like a fucking goal, almost a decade ago, when I had 14 years old, I had depression, and I can tell you guys, depression was the best thing that happened in my life, I suffered bullying, alcoholic dad, super moralist religious family, 1001 emotional problems and the worst belief system possible, but then one day I decide to change and everything changed. take action and let the happiness flowing inside you, don't be judge anything, don't be moralist, how can you not love existence by itself? (I know why, I have been there) so what you have problems with relationship? so what? let it go, you don't like your job? let it go the only thing that matters in life is love NOT this bullshit egoist love, this addiction to control and sex that humans have, Why the fuck would somebody marry another person? I'm kind of a hypochrite to say this because marriage is good for my public appearance, but you guys that don't have a crazy life purpose, you guys that don't need to care about people starving to death, you guys are fucking out your mind not being happy, why do you guys would care about what people think about you? why would you guys care about marriage? such a romantic act being attached legally to somebody and then trap yourself into a stupid cage of social expectations, why would you guys care about your social status? money? power? Find a passion, keep self-actualizing pursuing enlightment. The most important thing is to let happiness flowing inside you, existence is joyfully, if you are not feeling good to be alive right now is because you care about society expectations, about moralist beliefs, about beliefs that you hold, can't you see how you are not letting happiness flow inside you? why the fuck you keep traping yourself in beliefs? stop holding things, the existence by itself is so joyfully god(the whole everything). I can understand the why of your anxiety, deeply you keep holding this need from social approval, for ego satisfaction, why are you afraid of living? why do you fear death so much? why do you even believe in death? Personally I believe in reincarnation, at this point you probably got so triggered that I can feel all your bullshit justifications, your rage, this need that you have to prove my wrong to yourself, you want my recognition of how smart that you are? why are you making such an effort and stressing yourself out just to keep holding beliefs? to keep being unsatisfied and unhappy?. Well is better trying to prove my point (which means that you at least got triggered) than just be totally blind, ignore and laugh at, a miserable and unhappy life is so satisfying to your ego right? everyone that is happy is just a fool am I right? I'm just a fool right? you an unhappy/unsatisfied person are the smarter one am I right? As in my country we say Butterflies to you ;) I wish you could think about what I'v said.
@farooqullah319
@farooqullah319 5 жыл бұрын
@@opopulista8134 everyone probably stopped reading after you apologized for your English
@vcoonrod
@vcoonrod 10 жыл бұрын
Watching Leo's videos now for two weeks, and I think I have actually accomplished more than I did over the last year. Thanks much!
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
Awesome! :)
@kellismith6787
@kellismith6787 8 жыл бұрын
Wow I can find something negative with everything you said. I have issues smh.
@faegrrrl
@faegrrrl 8 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty much the same way. I've got severe catastrophic thinking. I worry and justify my worries. I have reasons why I worry. To me it's "logical worry". How the crap do I break THAT mess?
@mohammedabod2452
@mohammedabod2452 8 жыл бұрын
I have the same problem :(
@ExoNova
@ExoNova 8 жыл бұрын
I've got the same problem, I believe we are diagnosed with the medical condition.... "overthinking". What I try and do is distract myself with hobbies that I like or enjoy or even just go outside and think about some kind of project you could work on, hope this helped, have a great day :)
@TYZA108HD
@TYZA108HD 8 жыл бұрын
ExoNova I find it hard to enjoy anything
@mscmajesticseacarrot2714
@mscmajesticseacarrot2714 7 жыл бұрын
im just lonely tbh
@01knucky
@01knucky 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is great been watching you since I was 21 bro I’m 27 now with 3 kids . I find your videos very helpful in my professional and daily life . Thank you
@ikramramli6410
@ikramramli6410 8 жыл бұрын
I think my Happiness box is broken..
@tingann1969
@tingann1969 2 жыл бұрын
1. Gratitude - (write 5 down you're grateful for) 2. Be Optimism - (what are you Excited about) 3. Stop Overthinking - (do journaling, doing therapy, meditation) 4. Eliminate addiction - (like Tv, compulsive shopping, sex, Internet, junk food, alcohol, drugs they're destroying your life) - (identify your addiction why you're happy to that. Replace that with positive habit) 5. Build relationships - develop deep high quality relationships -avoid shallow relationships 6. Savoring lifes choice - example: Enjoying a meal - enjoying or appreciate sunset, nature, don't rush to everything 7. Meditate -stop worrying the past and future 8. Flow -stop multi tasking -develop expertise 9. Goals / or Life Purpose -Have a career you are passionate about **I have to work on this. Thanks Leo! Newbee here**
@RedStingBlogs
@RedStingBlogs 9 жыл бұрын
what if you're addicted to your unhappiness...
@RedStingBlogs
@RedStingBlogs 9 жыл бұрын
That is a thought I literally play with on a regular!!!! -_- We can beat this ***** and maybe our grand ideas will be even more powerful... what d'you think???
@RedStingBlogs
@RedStingBlogs 9 жыл бұрын
OK... well no matter what you will always be unique, even if happiness creeps into you somehow...
@ter8413
@ter8413 9 жыл бұрын
u need to see yourself as worthy to be happy first off find what u like about yourself itsway hard but im good with myself now tho I got other issues making me down right now and keep saying no matter what I WILL laugh again .. might not be today but its gunnahappen
@RedStingBlogs
@RedStingBlogs 9 жыл бұрын
so they say... ter8 I guess it's just WAY harder than i want it to be! thanks mate!
@zerofann
@zerofann 9 жыл бұрын
RedStingBlogs I think I have a similar experience right now. I just think a lot on certain topics and things and these things are seen as 'bad' but I keep thinking and ponder and I also ask myself why. And I think I might be addicted to thinking 'weird shit'. But for me I think I generally like to be happy which is different . But I think I just want to explore these things. And I keep thinking like I'm gonna do these "bad" stuff. So its a bit trying for me but I'm still struggling. We both got some stuff huh?
@teresaholmes4393
@teresaholmes4393 10 жыл бұрын
I needed that!! I have been in the dumps for a long ,long time. Just existing among people,not enjoying life. The techniques you have introduced me to sounds like awaking energy. You spoke to my soul. Thanks Blessings to you
@chloeclo7
@chloeclo7 9 жыл бұрын
How do you ignore the pain of a broken heart??
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 9 жыл бұрын
Don't ignore it. Experience it fully. Savor it!
@jackchu871
@jackchu871 9 жыл бұрын
Actualized.org I agree with you.
@s.r2208
@s.r2208 9 жыл бұрын
Chloe Marriner know that the pain is only temporary, and everything happens for a reason. Maybe God has a bigger plan for you, and he is writing your new love story right now.
@xxduffhd90xx87
@xxduffhd90xx87 9 жыл бұрын
Chloe Marriner live it, its beautiful.
@Blue-op1ti
@Blue-op1ti 9 жыл бұрын
Man fuck u hit me up on fb jevygentles and i ll show u happiness
@arcenvaganyan7166
@arcenvaganyan7166 6 жыл бұрын
Hearing the way this guy speaks is pretty calming and uplifting ngl
@laylasiyan7731
@laylasiyan7731 8 жыл бұрын
I feel happy ONLY when I drank coffee..
@harrisonjordan1098
@harrisonjordan1098 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, you have instantly helped me deal with derealization/depersonalisation etc. I am so grateful, I feel so much happier and alive then before. I truly thank you.
@hossameldeeb8686
@hossameldeeb8686 8 жыл бұрын
I'm really suffering with over thinking I can't stop that what can I do ?
@Whocareskdndk
@Whocareskdndk 8 жыл бұрын
Meditate. it is the best way to overcome this. So when you start overthinking you can be conscious and realize how dumb your overthinking is. My anxiety has completely vanished after a month of meditating 2 times 30 min everyday. I recommend you try it
@hossameldeeb8686
@hossameldeeb8686 8 жыл бұрын
+Baller Jones do you suffering with certain situation ?
@Whocareskdndk
@Whocareskdndk 8 жыл бұрын
+Hossam Eldeeb yeah ever since my I had an abusive step dad I completely changed I used to be a happy person until he devoted his entire day to making me feel like shit. I was young too 10,11 or so. I was bullied too which didn't help either. Eventually I started believing all the bs these people were saying to me and I became depressed and anxiety through the roof. The anxiety I would feel at school everyday was horrible I felt like I was in hell. I wouldn't wish that pain for anybody. But then again there are people starving in Africa so I guess this is nothing.
@Name-dj9ck
@Name-dj9ck 6 жыл бұрын
Hidan thank you how you feeling now,? your comment helped me
@mckinzieadkins904
@mckinzieadkins904 9 жыл бұрын
I truly love your art, Leo. It really does help me. I used to be so angry all the time, but this made me see everything seem a little brighter, and most importantly that I am a little brighter.
@redsynister4836
@redsynister4836 7 жыл бұрын
You were talking about people who have their mind working constantly, that's all me. Just you mentioning that as a problem helped me a lot. Thank you
@mdegn1121md
@mdegn1121md 8 жыл бұрын
I listen to your videos almost everyday on my drive to and from work. I have to say it's making a difference in my negative thinking. Also with a handful of other issues that I've now started to notice. Thanks for all your advice!
@hasanabdulsamad3644
@hasanabdulsamad3644 8 жыл бұрын
All true! It really works specially when you think about the good things you're expecting.
@greekdreamer
@greekdreamer 10 жыл бұрын
Dude,you're awesome! I am 17 years old and for about 2 years now I've been really really down like depressed so I searched how to be happy and your video came up. Thank you for everything!
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
Check out my other videos on depression.
@nicolemascaro5681
@nicolemascaro5681 3 жыл бұрын
I have never learned so much about who I am this is incredible! I am getting fulfillment into how my feelings are you are amazing!
@mamunurrashid5652
@mamunurrashid5652 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you...... :) 'Love and compassion' practice makes us happy! I have been practicing 'loving kindness' meditation for last couple of weeks. And I feel so good inside(and outside)!!! I feel less anger,less irritated,less anxious,etc. I think,'loving kindness' meditation should be put at the beginning of any self development or 'how to be happy' list....
@ivonneprado1314
@ivonneprado1314 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos! Your uninhibited language and calls to challenge unhealthy mental comfort are appreciated!
@azizayad6174
@azizayad6174 9 жыл бұрын
u make me happy man..i write every words in a paper..and i read it every min,..
@vikrampatil29
@vikrampatil29 10 жыл бұрын
i've been watching a lot of your videos recently.... i was going through a break-up n lost it totally to depression.. i guess most folks must be realizing about u while looking out for ways to deal with depression ... anyway , just wanted to tell u bro... u r the most wonderful person i've seen in my life.... thanks for all ur efforts .. its a gift u have n a boon , a salvage for people like us who have lost the way to self-consciousness .... i guess most of ur fans r in love with u if they really understand what u r tryin to deliver .... so, the first line in my gratitude list starts with appreciating ''i'm fortunate to have come across Leo in my difficult times ' .. love u brother ....
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
Thanks, but there is no need to idolize me. Just take the wisdom and embody it in your life.
@MariaSnsStrela
@MariaSnsStrela 9 жыл бұрын
For me, gratitude is the foundation of my happiness. By looking upwards and downwards, I am able to put everything into perspective.
@s.r2208
@s.r2208 9 жыл бұрын
I'd like to say that I am extremely impressed with this video. I have always had these mind sets as well, though sometimes I've gotten lost. I think we all get lost sometimes. Being at one with yourself, loving yourself, and having that positive outlook on life and everything, is so important in being happy. I have been so grateful for the people in my life, and for the people who have been in my life as well. Life is beautiful when you really live in the moment, and stop worrying so much. Anyway, I just came across your videos and I really love them! Thank you for your words of wisdom! :)
@sabinghita6271
@sabinghita6271 9 жыл бұрын
I feel really grateful for all the work you have done on this matter! Thanks man!
@isabelleandworld5392
@isabelleandworld5392 8 жыл бұрын
This is the first video of yours i have seen. I just had a trail counselling session and found this so much more helpful and made me realise so many things that are making me unhappy
@myname4884
@myname4884 7 жыл бұрын
i can proudly say that almost everything you said in the video i m doing it, i m a happy man thank you leo. nice video
@electronicsbuyer1876
@electronicsbuyer1876 9 жыл бұрын
You always have something smart to say, I'm glad that you have made these videos as they are important to everyone's well being.
@electronicsbuyer1876
@electronicsbuyer1876 9 жыл бұрын
On another note, I feel that when you poke at curtain people; you're talking based on personal experience because I can see you're emotional responses. Why not admit that you had those issues too? You called people pussies in one of your videos for not having enough guts to ask women out but you look to have the same issues. Furthermore, the fact that you are a feminine person and are perposly hiding it shows a coward in you.
@anhedonicanthony6743
@anhedonicanthony6743 8 жыл бұрын
I am grateful for YOU Leo.
@rosabel3116
@rosabel3116 8 жыл бұрын
thank u for these precious advices ! this is exactly what i need to be happy. i've learned lately that happiness does not depend on what we have, but on how we think about what we have. i'm gonna watch ur video every once and a while just so that i remember how and i should be happy ☺. thank u.
@beatriceszczokin8353
@beatriceszczokin8353 7 жыл бұрын
Beatrice Hi Leo,I am becoming a better person because of you,Thanks i love your videos,I am so happy i am skipping around the house, what i have learned from you, i have turned my thinking around to positive and its working
@julieholmes5266
@julieholmes5266 6 жыл бұрын
It's so important to be present. Great reminder.
@charlotterose1557
@charlotterose1557 4 жыл бұрын
im going through pms today and you just saved me by this video, thank you
@JordanICM
@JordanICM 8 жыл бұрын
At this moment, I am grateful for the interesting sensations in my body. They keep me grounded to the present. They keep me in the now.
@Lancastrian501
@Lancastrian501 8 жыл бұрын
I wasn't addicted to the internet until I found your video series Leo. All my current unhappiness I put down to you! :)
@silverwindspirit
@silverwindspirit 10 жыл бұрын
In terms of happiness I learned this, 1: if you had rough day, be happy at the fact that you survived it (it really wasn't as bad as you think it was at the end of the day) 2: If you had a good day, be happy at the fact that you didn't have a bad day. 3: Be happy without a reason in the world.
@punxrock1490
@punxrock1490 10 жыл бұрын
I'm happy I found this. I'm very unhappy and feel out of control. I realize that I over think. I can't quiet my thoughts. I've had a terrifying anxiety about my death and the death of my mother the last year or so. Probably because I've witnessed a couple of my friend's mothers passing. I feel rushed and I can't get over feeling that I'm running out of time. I feel like my life is on a timer and I don't know when it will stop. Thoughts like that consume me to the point that I can't sleep at night. I just lay in bed crying for hours. I realize I need to connect with people more. I have very close relationships but not many. I've always naturally distanced myself from others. I should try meditation also. Hopefully that helps.
@guccidelfino7744
@guccidelfino7744 10 жыл бұрын
Hey, Thank you btw for helping me cause i have been feeling a bit sad. I enjoy your vids because they are easy to understand and you explain very well. I Just want to say Thank you, for all your time. You making the vids out of your own time and posting them is amazing! Usually people that are always online are trying to help you but sell something but you are here doing it all for free. The vibe i pick up from you is amazing! THANK YOU!!!
@damian-795
@damian-795 9 жыл бұрын
Hi , I also have PTSD ex EMS. Thanks this has helped. I have addictions which I am trying to control.
@VOLPWNN
@VOLPWNN 10 жыл бұрын
Right on man! I really like the bits about developing relationships and mastering something. It emphasizes the idea that you should always be striving to improve yourself both internal and externally, and that you can always do more for others. One thing that I've really found that helps me get through tough times is to actually help others with a problem that they are having. The appreciation that I see on a friend or strangers face when I've done something to positively affect their day instills a truly magical feeling in my mind, and helps me to remember that part of what makes us human is that we all have things we need help with.
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
Yes, now you know how I feel ;)
@randyfrench6633
@randyfrench6633 8 жыл бұрын
I ama life coach and I love what this video.Leo in this AWESOME video talks about how to feel happy. Leo gives us scientifically proven practical ways to be happy.. Leo in about eight or 10 points tells what you really need to know to get sustainable happiness in your life.Thank you Leo
@localman5738
@localman5738 7 жыл бұрын
In 2013 I got very bad anxiety and constantly felt down. In 2014 It got much worse, until I started training and working out in August 2014. I started feeling happy again, and 2015 was a great year, until school started again. Those school months were hell for me, and my anxiety came back. I missed almost half of the school year, I stopped working out, I stopped talking to my friends. it made me miserable. When this summer started, I started feeling a little bit better, and I'm still trying my best to get back to being happy.
@nonexistenty4152
@nonexistenty4152 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I have addiction to overthinking and to Internet.... helped me so much !
@deifor
@deifor 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in a midlife crisis. It's true, I'm never completely happy like I used to be when I was 20 and 30. I have my happy moments but when I realize I'm happy I immediately shift to anxiety that the happy moment is going to pass and I'll be back to unhappy. I think since my mother got sick with cancer I'm not the same, even though I'm grateful for still having her, but is always in my thoughts like a Damocles Sword. I do find that gratefulness works, I'm trying to do it every day and I somehow feel better, not a 100 percent happy and energized, but still good.
@Milliondogman
@Milliondogman 10 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for making these videos, they are helping me lead a better healthier lifestyle.
@archanamharish568
@archanamharish568 9 жыл бұрын
thank you leo.. your videos are helping me so much.please give videos on how to stop being lazy and stay motivated ..and also a video on why should we study well..
@camillesucasas
@camillesucasas 9 жыл бұрын
This is SO good! I do mostly of the things you mention on your list (running a company, eating healthy, working out etc) but I have changed I wasn't like that before. Still - I learn so much from your videos!! THEY ARE AMAZING! Keep the good work up!!!
@tommychappell6359
@tommychappell6359 8 жыл бұрын
I think what you say about overthinking is very true. your right sometimes we do need to slow down.
@notoislam116
@notoislam116 7 жыл бұрын
Your spot on thinking about things all the time
@denyveousjohnson5423
@denyveousjohnson5423 8 жыл бұрын
I just watch your video because I am in high school and getting on a bad time period in high school and it was getting in the way of my relationship and I did not know how to help myself until now
@charlotterose1557
@charlotterose1557 4 жыл бұрын
another video i watch again and again. watching this on Jan 1 2020 to set the tone of my year
@OfCourseICan
@OfCourseICan 2 жыл бұрын
I am happy because I have rediscovered your Channel Leo. Thank You.
@ashleyrego5727
@ashleyrego5727 7 жыл бұрын
Leo...Thanks bro...Listening to you makes me happy...Love from India...Namaste
@jennybee514
@jennybee514 10 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video. I found it when searching "how to be happy". I find I struggle daily with being happy and feeling accomplished or even content. I will try your suggestions. I look forward to watching more of your videos. Thanks!
@SIRDWIGHTKS
@SIRDWIGHTKS 10 жыл бұрын
Great video dude, I started doing most of these things a couple of months back and this video just reinforced them. It's not easy to completely change your mind set but after time and perseverance it's definitely possible. I'm still in the process of becoming more positive but I'm very close to the light at the end of the tunnel and all your points mentioned have changed my life for the better.
@ActualizedOrg
@ActualizedOrg 10 жыл бұрын
Good, keep going! You are nowhere close to the end of the tunnel. This tunnel is 10,000 miles long and you at mile 1 ;) The best is yet ahead!
@Mackenziegurl101
@Mackenziegurl101 9 жыл бұрын
Wrote myself a happiness journal plan, and am going to try it out tomorrow morning. Thanks for the tips!
@Almamater8888
@Almamater8888 7 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how practical you are!
@billythebass2007
@billythebass2007 8 жыл бұрын
I want to say thanks for some great videos Leo. You are definitely helping to improve life for a lot of viewers of all ages and the fact that this is all free is amazing. Great work indeed.
@reneewang5546
@reneewang5546 10 жыл бұрын
i love your videos! it's obvious how much thought and research you put into this. You deserve a lot more attention -- I haven't tried out any of your methods yet but I'm positive that they'll work -- or at least have an effect.
@jaqueshawebb3283
@jaqueshawebb3283 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing ...your helping me change my life and I finally feel like I'm on the right path
@kichz.7694
@kichz.7694 6 жыл бұрын
I feel happy watching this man make me happy
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