How to get closer (when they pull away)

Your partner was into you but now they’re pulling away. ‘Pushing’ for reconnection won’t work. Here’s how to engage the internal shift that allows your partner to shift in correspondence, and without resistance.
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[@casey9920]

You seriously need your own TV show

[@rsbroshan7783]

My sentiments exactly

[@mehula_p2022]

She would lose her real life clients. She can do her tv show much later in life when she’s had much more myriad of real client experiences.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

I concur wholeheartedly on that one.

[@theemperor2017]

Welcome to Susan KZbin television 📺. Lol

[@bluebellbeatnik4945]

@@mehula_p2022 wtf is this comment?

[@NarnianLady]

Nagging hardly works, ever.. but never expressing your own needs and hopes won't help either. If the man is not interested (enough), then.. all the attention in the world will not change his mind. It has to be a mutual strong desire to be connected..

[@dellchica2373]

You can't leave this empty awww....

[@SR77736]

Damned if you do and don't.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Yeah, he's gotta desire to change just like she does. It's always a two-way street.

[@Xlife018]

I've realized that if you give your partner reasons that make them want to do what you are looking for, only then they actually do it. So for example, if you want to see them often then asking wont work. But if the time you 2 spent together is really enjoyable, then they will automatically want to have more of it.

[@BlackNella]

I'm so grateful for these videos because a session is waaaaay out of my price range.

[@theemperor2017]

And so are you darlin'. Your're PRICELESS💜💮

[@acd1168]

😂😂😂

[@igatti9923]

I disappeared. I felt so dejected that I thought “I go my way” ( I didn’t even pushed too hard because I was constantly afraid to bother them and be discarded) only to find out, months later, that they wanted to stay with me in a committed way but they pulled the card of the difficult task only to feel less insecure. The result of this brilliant strategy of theirs was that I let go and stopped being interested in them. It happened with 2 people. They would have liked to give an other try to the relationship but I felt too humiliated so I just said “no”.

[@louisemc3680]

You did the right thing- they didn't respect you so they lost you. The loss is theirs- NEXT! ;)

[@truthteller4442]

It's a common thing, nowadays. Most people aren't pulling away because of seeing someone else. They're pulling away because they feel insecure as hell, they are too soft and were raised to not be able to tolerate uncomfortable things, and as a result, they take the easy way out and road less travelled.

[@lalixlili]

Same here. I let go and blocked him, then 15 days later I cussed him out. I am done. I was hospitalized and sick then him coming back at me agressively and very mean.... I am done and interested in other men.

[@anjcruz8774]

Shifting the energy to yourself is so powerful ;) Be the person you wanted to attract. Thank you Susan, this comes really on time. Ive been practicing the laws of the universe, and it amazingly bring abundance and gratitude in my life. I already feel I have what I wanted in my life. The universe will always bring it, and I know its already part of me, by thoughts, my actions, my words, and my feelings ❤️

[@SusanWinter]

I'm so pleased to read this, Anj.

[@dellchica2373]

Anj Cruz hi how do you reach shift to that stage??

[@anjcruz8774]

@@dellchica2373 hi, you can watch The Secret Movie, they can explain it well better than I do. :)

[@rsbroshan7783]

Well said

[@theemperor2017]

@@SusanWinter the allegory about ya best friend, friend has such beaut and rare💮🕊

[@illinoisvideoatlarge8039]

Notes: Your energy and dating. What do I want to happen in this relationship? Have you been applying pressure? Are you needing assistance? Humans do not respond well to being pushed. Watch what does work. Do not nag. Express yourself. Find another door. humor, letting go, make fun of it, appreciation on other things, stand back and see what else you could do ..try another angle, break your pattern... your shift will create a partner shift. Use a different angle.

[@shanitawalker2103]

This is great information for those who still want the other person after numerous attempts have failed. Me, myself? If someone seems uninterested or doesn't want to give effort, I go mute, lose interest and move on. That's when the guy tries to come back, but it's too little too late and then I'm labeled as "cold" or "stubborn" when the issue is that I don't want to beg for something that the other person doesn't want to give.

[@Phaedrus-th7bi]

Towards the end of this a thought shot through my head: My wife has never understood the more she nags me to fix this or that around the house, the less I am actually likely to do it. When she finally shuts up, I usually have it fixed within two days. To the ladies out there watching this, tell your hubby do do something no more than twice and never say it twice in the same day. He is not lazy and he is not stupid, he just doesn't want to feel like he is giving into the nagging. It is a matter of self-respect. "Pushing builds resistance." That is good advice.

[@RHammer1983]

This works like a charm. We always use resentment to point fingers when really it’s the energy we’re giving off and the reactions we’re having that makes that person not trust you to come back. Then they do when you change your approach.

[@redsonja1395]

This is really good advice, because not only does it apply to dating, but to your life in general as well. When you are unhappy with a situation, whether it is work or with a friend or anything really, it's all about YOU being the change you want to see. Getting a new perspective, taking a new approach, trying something different is often the key to problem solving!

[@caroh2809]

This is so true. If you keep doing the same thing expect the same result. I had the exact same experience as your friend. I was pushing for his attention and he was overwhelmed and deploying limitations left, right and centre. In the end I backed off through simply giving up more than anything. All of a sudden he was keeping dates in his diary free for me whether I could make them or not, he became much more emotionally invested in the time we did spend together, tried to please me in every which way. Everything I’d wanted. It was simply a matter of letting him make the choice for himself. He’s not easy to get the attention of - even now I still have issues but I have definitely learnt that putting pressure on definitely, as you say, created resistance. In the end every step forward in our relationship began with me wanting it first, him showing a ‘no’, me giving up, him doing it all by himself. So I 100% agree. I knew this would be a great video 😉 xx

[@OlderWomenRock]

Caro H so glad this worked for you . When I tried everything possible to affect change with my ex partner well nothing changed . Then I tried to accept what I didn’t like , things that hurt me but I wasn’t able to accept what went against the grain of what I needed . He assumed I had resolved my displeasure of his behaviour and kept doing it . Well I hadn’t , I tried to come to terms with it . I could not . I knew even more I was with the wrong man . My needs were unmet and would remain so.

[@caroh2809]

Older Women Rock I agree that there felt like there was an element of compromising my needs at first but I was lucky in that he responded favourably. That’s not to say we don’t have issues still but I think it does give credence to Susan’s theory of ‘if you aren’t getting results change what you’re doing’. In some instances it’s not going to make the difference. When I changed things up I was all but giving up and looking for a way to let go with the least amount of pain for myself. So I guess what transpired felt miraculous. In so many situations it’s true to say that we need to look at what we’re doing rather than expecting the situation to change and sometimes that is walking away. And that takes a lot of strength so well done you! 😘

[@OlderWomenRock]

Caro H Thanks so much actually he left me first , he beat me to it lol I’m hopeless at ending relationships . I was aiming to leave this ex though . The situation was he only had one foot in and I was wanting all the things you expect from a man who is all in , in love . Crazy thing is I only had one foot in too and wasn’t in love yet I still needed a certain amount of attention and consideration . Anyway glad it worked out for you .

[@caroh2809]

Older Women Rock 😆 Lol. Heh I’m with you on the not being able to leave a relationship thing. I’m not out of the woods yet but at least heading in the right direction. Susan has been instrumental in me surviving so far. Good luck on your journey honey! 😘

[@dellchica2373]

Thats lovely!!! Glad for you....so let the man lead??

[@jannieschluter9670]

Thank you for everything, Susan. I admire your strong and powerful character, feminine energy, and attitude so much, this is so attractive. You have been so important to me and to my personal development. My prayers for you.

[@SusanWinter]

awww. thank you Jannie!!

[@HappyNatallie]

I dont have fluent english and strong skills in relationships but i feel with my heart that susan is sensior and kind.)

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks

[@OlderWomenRock]

Susan , I think your information and advice is top notch . I love the way you explain in a straight forward easy to grasp manner. You consistently help remind us to not settle and stop making excuses for another and more so to ourselves . ❤️

[@OlderWomenRock]

You can't leave this empty so agree 😊

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you Older Women Rock!!

[@SusanWinter]

@You can't leave this empty I appreciate this. Thank you.

[@KristinAlayna]

I've tried everything. I'm done. It would take a divine miracle to change my mind.

[@jessicapamel4527]

Wooow! I love how you deliver your message. Very precise and on point. You have this commanding presence that really made me listen to you. Thank God I found you.

[@adasanti7312]

Altering perspective is so powerful! Thank you, Susan.

[@SusanWinter]

It really is!

[@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314]

Thank you again. I just discovered you last night! I'm so enlightened. You do t know how much I thank you.

[@rubaa.3297]

There's someone in my life whom I've been getting to know, and to whom I've been wanting to get closer. We both are mindful of this. He once said he's much more likely to open up to children than adults. When asked why, he explained that "children don't try". That was an "aha!" moment for me. He didn't seem to like all my **efforts** to get to know him, which explains why he had been resistant for quite sometime. He doesn't like Q&As. He prefers an organic, natural connection where the person doesn't "try"...at all. Mind you, it does take much effort to not "try", especially when you're a person who is used to doing, and especially when you're aching to get closer to someone, and don't want to have to wait long for that to happen.

[@mehula_p2022]

I love you Susan. You’re the best! As much as I want you to have your own show targeting a huge audience, I’d like you to be here as well with few handful of us viewers. It feels cozy. Don’t get me wrong. But you’re my internet-Mom. Keep being awesome and keep touching lives.

[@renataathanasiou2826]

Thank you for all your videos Susan. All very helpful.

[@johnrambo2876]

I really appreciate that you don't make it men versus women with your videos. I'm glad to have found your channel and subscribed😎

[@Fallen_Venus]

This will only work if the partner is not ultimately opposed to actually being with you and ultimately working on a future with you...even if they're not fully aware they are yet! They need to be progressing in the relationship and having enough level of commitment to be open to a change of tactic or laying off of pressure.

[@Jess_sensation]

Thank you so much Susan, this video arrives just on time. I needed this. I've been pursuing and pushing for a relationship, and it hasn't worked out, yet. I guess maybe it's time for me to stop pushing and give space. Thanks for your advice!

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Great Wisdom and Council on this one. It reminds me of what my Parents and various pastors have said over the years.

[@Zarghami]

Love this. Thank you. Someone needs to talk about this

[@SusanWinter]

I appreciate that, Your Favorite Lifecoach

[@savelikeaprowithleah5157]

Super informative! Thanks for sharing! Have a great day!

[@pkk2122]

Thank you Susan for this video, I needed to hear this 💜

[@denniscaressa1151]

she's right!! and confirms AGAIN my thoughts & inner gut feeling!!

[@nikkobowen3052]

Susan, you are the best!

[@hellomynameis688]

So beneficial!!! Thank you!

[@edgarscirulis1129]

You’re gold!! You are so incredible!!

[@rajesha9842]

Thank you. This helps.. Your videos are simple & effective.

[@stormfalcon72]

Aaagh! I needed this video six weeks ago. Thank you for the insightful perspective.

[@shitherdadsays9296]

Very helpful video! Thank you!😊

[@zzz-cb3xe]

You are the best Susan Winter

[@INCA_]

Q sensata y logica tu charla. Muy buena!!!

[@AyakoHattori2010]

Thanks Susan...great video as usual, Love from Jordan

[@SorrentoShore]

Really loving your advice. Just got back in the flow, starting a new relationship...need your advice after being single for many years! I am jumping in and not letting presuppositions take over in my busy mind. THANK YOU!! for your advice

[@minidocstv3339]

I love her so much she helps my nerves

[@Kenzie1387]

Thanks for your advice I’m about to try what you recommend. I’ll keep you posted.

[@rsbroshan7783]

I too plan the same

[@gdubbz78]

Great video as always! thank u😘

[@byrdgriffin7786]

Mrs Susan you are great

[@foxyroxy123]

Great advice!

[@MDBrnRaisdRDotFlynn]

Thanks!

[@carolinaflaxman6740]

This video really spoke with me exactly what I need to hear now about my situation thank you 😊!! Wish I could talk to you for a consultation section

[@katybrooke0724]

needed this! thank you! pull back some... need to shift.

[@blackwidow8302]

You are my guardian angel. ❤️

[@rsbroshan7783]

I agree

[@amjadbashir4969]

Great video, thank you so much! 😊💚🌸🌸

[@alexandramaria7754]

Hello Susan, I think it's very important to find out how are they attachment style and even our. When we do know our attachment style we can provide the an immeasurable benefit and contribute to have more successful relationships. :) Great video :)

[@bongkoymil6199]

This is a good advice!

[@jimstevens1726]

Well said.

[@aliciav63]

God i needed to hear this today

[@rickki6]

Ditto

[@infinitywarrior1017]

Susan Winter!!!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@northernlight4614]

Makes good sense.

[@muhdshahmee]

I tried it...it so effective

[@gunes154]

we need to work and maintain our own core beliefs .. thoughts .. feelings .. needy feelings .. as within so with-out

[@caroh2809]

I love this video and I haven’t even watched it yet 😍

[@SusanWinter]

hahah. you're awesome

[@daniellitton9288]

Good advice

[@sukoon1155]

You are too good ! ❤ Thanks

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you!

[@nicoletobey2356]

Hi , thank you for your video! My ex & I were together for 1 1/2 yrs & he started detaching in the last 6 months. We have been in no contact since last November so almost 6 months. I had told him I would support him & be his friend until we were able to rebuild our relationship because he was telling me he couldn’t give me what I needed or deserved.I got needy & clingy. There was a woman who had a crush on him & he told me they went on a date before he met me but it ended up being a play date with their kids. Last July when we were still together he was caught at the playground by a mutual friend of ours having takeout dinner with her at the picnic tables. They had different takeout dinners & he claimed that they met there by coincidence-she took her 7 year old son there to play & he took his 16 year old son there to do Pokémoning. When I found call logs to & from her on his phone, he told me he didn’t even like her or respect her & wanted nothing to do with her. He told this to mutual friends as well. Just saw your other video on how that is a sign that they are on the opposite end of the pendulum & that they are indeed interested but they’re not sure what to do with it. He is now with her, I believe they are boyfriend & girlfriend & I see them around town often. In November, a friend of mine saw them kissing in the parking lot where she works. We were established as only friends at that point. I texted him that he was seen kissing her & he texted back “ok, I was there”. I then texted him, “do you love me yes or no “he responded “farewell no”. Six months out & I am in so much pain still. I know this is a quick glimpse of my situation & there’s so much more-like how when I told him in the summer you’re not prioritizing me & I broke up with him in a push pull dynamic, we came back together then I broke up with him again & we came back together again then he did the breaking up & coming back. After my initial break up in August there were emotionally intense, not sexual, messages to another female friend of his. Things that said I’m tired from work I wish I could snuggle with you I would sleep for days &” we have a friendship and love to never be forgotten.” I also found messages to other women on Instagram & Facebook messenger that said the same phrases that he said to me such as “good morning beautiful, thinking of you, you’re amazing”. He needs validation because of his attachment traumas & his low self-esteem, I understand this. He was sincerely apologetic & said he I had given him a lot to think about and work on within himself but then he just jumped into this relationship with the one he’s with now. Am I crazy? Am I stupid? I’m still pulling for a miracle here. Thank you for any feedback you’re able to give 🙏🏻~Nicole

[@rsbroshan7783]

Superb

[@gaylekemper3616]

Good abvice

[@yvelinacollazo9319]

Oh my! Wish I would have seen this a week ago! 🙄🥴😭

[@richiecola9484]

When I was single I was envious to my friends who got relationship problems now im in their shoes i wanna be single again..sometimes😝

[@imenbahrini5931]

Merci !!

[@kellystorm6760]

Thank you love .

[@wilsonwilliams5655]

He is a great powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯

[@dellchica2373]

1. What do i want this person to do? 2. What have i done? 3. Am i meeting resistence?

[@ralsgradi2054]

If nothing changes...nothing changes!

[@catherinedike6446]

I love you Susan❤

[@evaderxo2481]

Susan winter is the GOAT

[@daveneedle9889]

I love this channel. Great advice always. And your gorgeous 😉

[@michaelmiller8455]

YOU'RE gorgeous.

[@daveneedle9889]

@@michaelmiller8455 aw that's lovely x

[@Sonia-3603]

❤ this video

[@alexanderstevens145]

Do you know much aboit personality types and dating? I like these ideas very different.

[@lilliankillian7366]

Hi ty that was helpful change my pattern .I should change my pattern and stop calling .ty I will try that ty Susan.Lil

[@kubrakhan111]

Your incredible 🌹

[@bluebellbeatnik4945]

Oh I actually think I was quite pushy with the ghoster. I really think I gave him a list of what I was not happy with.

[@MsRipley76]

Do you believe this also could work for people who have FWB? He´s hard to read, it seems he tries to control his feelings and sometimes he just can´t and then my gut tells me he actually likes me a bit more than he admits or show me. But could he shift to wanting a relationship? I just don´t know what to do. Maybe I should just end it..

[@dellchica2373]

I do want a serious committed relationship, but where????

[@Jemgirly]

If you can't find a good guy then it just means you're too dam picky 😘

[@owenbutcher1954]

PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE CHEERS SUSAN 🌹🌹🌹💎💎💎🥂

[@james7307]

This question is somewhat in the same arena. Felt one of those fabulous connectionns that only happens once , maybe twice in a lifetime with a lady. Over the next several months our conversations would go on endlessly when I saw her at the gym. We had so much in common it was amazing. The other day we started talking about a program I am a contractor in for an agency of the govt. It involves a little known and under publicized principle of remote viewing. In essence it allows one to project into the future or find answers to things that the tasker may inquire about; some might liken it to having ESP but it is a scientific process. In short she kept badgering me for an answer to a question she had. I already knew the question as I was unfortunately born with the psychic gift as well. I made the mistake of answering her question without her directly asking and it must have literally "obliterated" her world as the next day she informed me she was being transferred to a neighboring city by her employer and this would be her last day at this city. From this point on our conversations were pointed and lost its magic. The look in her eyes seemed to disappear .

[@michaelmiller8455]

I was born with the gift too. I didn't ask for these powers. A little about me: I can always guess how many jelly beans are in a jar; even if I'm wrong. I'm 14 years-old. I type 75 words per minute with only 300 errors.

[@brsugarbabe]

What about when you are in a long term relationship of two years? This is the first time he has pulled away.

[@SusanWinter]

Same answer. Shift.

[@mctrollz9628]

...your weight

[@ParisianStreets]

nice nail color

[@user-yv1fh3fc8y]

Plant the seed and give it time to grow. Don’t question whether you planted it. Don’t dig it up to see how it’s growing. Wait

[@wilsonwilliams5655]

He is a great powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯

[@amyyorke2731]

What about if someone is giving you mixed signals (could potentially be biased because I like this person) being told that he hopes I find someone, but also that he misses me, calling and messaging me daily, messaging me "sweet dreams" (only if I message it first). So confused :( Anyone's opinion on this would be great.

[@johnrambo2876]

I would only do that if I was interested. I would suggest letting him know you do like him if there's any doubt. He may be playing safe, saying he hopes you find someone to avoid embarrassing himself.

[@cillia.o8633]

Thank you for all you do,your advice has been so helpful..... But my question is why to I have to pull forward when it's obvious he is pulling away????

[@wilsonwilliams5655]

He is a great and powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯

[@wilsonwilliams5655]

He is a great and powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯

[@pinkbutterfly1888]

What if we stop pushing and they just walk away thinking we are over them?

[@BlackpilledBuddha6476]

What do you do if your crush likes someone else and has little interest in you? Has anyone gone through this before? All thoughts are appreciated.

[@dontbelieveeverythingyouhe5599]

You really have no choice but to step back and let that play out while you occupy your mind with other things.

[@silvershadow7655]

You move on - she's just not that into you.

[@intuitiveself-love9513]

Go where you are celebrated. If attention shifts leave it alone lol

[@dontbelieveeverythingyouhe5599]

@@intuitiveself-love9513 - right?! that is the bottom line. I am there as well. I feel the pain. ; )

[@dontbelieveeverythingyouhe5599]

I learned that from Susan ; )

[@dollyblevins2903]

I’ve done the work I am a different person and I am grateful and I am deserving I will here from her again I have faith god fault my battles and I say that by faith and I believe what will be will be our love is unconditional love will win in the end patience is what I gotta do and I love who I am today

[@oscarwilliamson1128]

Dolly Blevins,You are beautiful 😍,Hope you are with a good man 👨….

[@Kung_Fu_Jonney]

Franky ladies. Be straight forward. It's that simple.

[@SurlyMontanan]

What if nothing works?

[@monsun3365]

Yes, and then you have a highly selfish person who wants you fron time to time, when she wants it, and she wants a human dog thats gonna chase after her. She says well its the way it is... Take it or leave it... I know i should leave... I know i just need to give up, i know its not worth it... The issue is if i give up she is gone for good. She wants to be in control and thats it. The problem is i dont want to let her go... But i have to, I've been pushing that relationship forward and then it blew up in my face when she said well this is not what i want... Your advice is good when you have a mature, stable person who thinks whit a straight head. But for me, that's not the case. Cuz the second i stopped pushing i saw her pull away and away until she broke up the engagement

[@nathanarnold550]

What If you have tried a lot of things, but you still get no response after a month? I keep hearing 'no contact' so they miss you, but that seems counter-intuitive. I also realize writing this that I probably know the answer already, but i feel she is worth fighting for.

[@NarnianLady]

As a woman I would say that show her that you care, and are there for her if she wants to connect, but do not get over her boundaries.. if she is not interested, then that needs to be respected.

[@nathanarnold550]

@@NarnianLady Thank you for the response. I have tried the apology text for losing my cool which lead to the silence. I greeted her on Valentine's day. I wrote a romantic letter that was loving, Lastly, I sent flowers yesterday, and no responses at all in a month's time. Do these things show care and that I am there from a woman's view?

[@NarnianLady]

@@nathanarnold550 It's hard to say as it depends on the woman. You know her, I don't.. but in your place, I would back off and just let her be. Allow her to have enough space to breathe. Let her contact you, if she so chooses. More often than not, very grandiose gestures can come across as smothering and that is the last thing you want..

[@nathanarnold550]

@@NarnianLady I appreciate your insights, I will keep them in mind. I am currently on day 4 of backing off, and I am working on myself in the meantime.

[@eatermckinnon4644]

Man....writing love letters and sending flowers doesn't work. It looks cool in the movies but in real life, they don't like it unless you have been in a long term SERIOUS relationship then maybe. But never write love letters or send a person flowers again. You lose a lot of points from it. You be better off giving them a half eaten Reece's and say here's a gift for you

[@SteveDestiny74]

having this issue right now and I know I do it but I just don't seem to help my self, how do you change your brain

[@diane2413]

Don’t know if you are still following this, but pick one thing to change and focus on changing that and once that is mastered you choose a second thing

[@SteveDestiny74]

@@diane2413 thanks moved on from them now but thank you for the advice

[@barnes74]

I love my wife much, she is 9 years older what can I do

[@pudibalaji4820]

Hi, my girlfriend pulled me away by giving fearful and threating activities how can i get back my girlfriend back i dont know why she behaved like but she is telling that she had a boy friend i know that it is completely false. I used to call her regularly and messages also continuously she felt that it as harassment. She finally send a person and he grab my mobile and kept himself for 10 days and finally i went her with my uncle and i got my mobile....so, i am unable to forget her what should I do she will again come into my life. What should I do

[@eatermckinnon4644]

She doesnt want to be with you anymore. Move on man

[@pudibalaji4820]

@@eatermckinnon4644 how can i move on..... I not able to forget her even though i am trying... I can't do it i am completely depressed

[@eatermckinnon4644]

Go pick up a hobby. Learn to play guitar and stay busy. Then you can attract other girls. Time to change your focus and energy on other things and the universe will open up other doors for another relationship.

[@pudibalaji4820]

@@eatermckinnon4644 thank you so much for your advise.....

[@cathrinekatsigianni8823]

Susan? I have done the very opposite. I usually give too much but need to expels my own needs too but still not doing it!!

[@elenabelacastre7789]

🦋 🐞THAT WAS VERY REALISTIC & SMART THINKING! TRKS TRY...; IF IT DOESNT WORK OUT, IT WASNT MEANT TO BE!! Tada ..... AS SIMPLE AS THAT! ahaha

[@marciamellow1211]

Why all the work? Move on to someone who really wants you... Period.

[@mack_titan]

easier said than done....if you are watching this you know that and you have failed to "Move on".

[@Jemgirly]

Finally someone who makes sense!

[@leeanncarriere399]

How do I stop thinking and obsessing over someone

[@kaylasheppard7746]

She has a great video on that