How to Get Girls to Like You

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15 жыл бұрын

In which John discusses how guys might more effectively woo girls (particularly nerd girls, who demand to be imagined complexly). Also why he does not sing.
Check out wheezywaiter: / wheezywaiter
And Ransriggs: / ransriggs
HERE ARE A LOT OF LINKS TO NERDFIGHTASTIC THINGS:
Shirts and Stuff: dftba.com/artist/30/Vlogbrothers
Hank's Music: dftba.com/artist/15/Hank-Green
John's Books: amzn.to/j3LYqo
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Hank's Twitter: / hankgreen
Hank's Facebook: / hankimon
Hank's tumblr: / edwardspoonhands
John's Twitter: / realjohngreen
John's Facebook: / johngreenfans
John's tumblr: / fishingboatproceeds
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Other Channels
Crash Course: / crashcourse
SciShow: / scishow
Gaming: / hankgames
VidCon: / vidcon
Hank's Channel: / hankschannel
Truth or Fail: / truthorfail
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Nerdfighteria
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effyeahnerdfighters.com/nftumblrs
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nerdfighteria.info/
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@eshajain2397
@eshajain2397 10 жыл бұрын
'Girls except Bella' Oh John Green humor. That deserves an applause
@theoo.2019
@theoo.2019 7 ай бұрын
Funny how I have a crush on a girl named Bella..
@thg_2728
@thg_2728 7 жыл бұрын
"Become a puppy" Best advice ever haha
@rebeccastrizver8856
@rebeccastrizver8856 7 жыл бұрын
In the event that you are unable to become a puppy, it is acceptable to purchase one and take it everywhere you go.
@thg_2728
@thg_2728 7 жыл бұрын
yes
@candyapple790
@candyapple790 9 жыл бұрын
Nerd guys- Please don't stalk girls that you like or are dating. Believe me, it creeps them out and they are 100000% less likely to go out with you. This has been a PSA.
@therealr0bert
@therealr0bert 9 жыл бұрын
Anna P I think both "nerd guys" and "girls" could be exchanged with literally all mentally healthy human beings on Earth.
@will-ev2143
@will-ev2143 9 жыл бұрын
enginesnblades true
@candyapple790
@candyapple790 9 жыл бұрын
enginesnblades well, yeah. But everyone was giving their two cents to nerd guys so
@therealr0bert
@therealr0bert 9 жыл бұрын
Anna P Fair enough, just throwing it out there that nobody likes a stalker. Well unless in a drunken moment of weakness you find out they're actually good in bed. Don't judge me, we've all made mistakes.
@jamesphelps3409
@jamesphelps3409 6 жыл бұрын
Anna P I did that in fourth grade... it didn't go well
@hipnhappenin
@hipnhappenin 10 жыл бұрын
John Green: "Girls love you, Willie. How do you do it?" Willie: Oh. Well. Let me show you. *goes straight for the ear*
@ubiveritasetamor
@ubiveritasetamor 10 жыл бұрын
The puff is strong.
@aminavance2031
@aminavance2031 10 жыл бұрын
So strong.
@Nvshvil
@Nvshvil 9 жыл бұрын
so so strong
@kristenhamblin2325
@kristenhamblin2325 9 жыл бұрын
Duebers All Night very strong.
@Nvshvil
@Nvshvil 9 жыл бұрын
Magic Muffin much strong
@kristenhamblin2325
@kristenhamblin2325 9 жыл бұрын
many puff lots strong very hair wow
@Marmonery
@Marmonery 10 жыл бұрын
Several years later, still giving relevant sound advice to boys everywhere.
@dblim6
@dblim6 10 жыл бұрын
This needs an expanded version though! ~2 minutes on advice how not to creep girls out isn't enough...
@Marmonery
@Marmonery 10 жыл бұрын
Yes, I would like an expansion too, but that's all up to John Green.
@maliaparker1903
@maliaparker1903 10 жыл бұрын
Marmonery i'm a girl and here's my version of an expansion. You have to be cute. You have to be nice. You have to be fair to other people. You have to be strong. You have to be funny. But of course you will seem cuter to the girl if you are these things and aren't even really cute. Also smile when you talk to them or just as you walk by just play it cool and give them some like cute smile like they do in the movies. haha:) oh and don't be gross. reply back for questions.
@Marmonery
@Marmonery 10 жыл бұрын
Malia Parker I say that that is a lot of 'have to be's.' Call me a romantic, but I don't think that boys should 'have to be' anything other then who they want to be. They are people too and there shouldn't be a divide on how they act vs how the female population acts. Chivalry is nice, but, if that is not who they are, they could only keep up appearances for so long. Of course, I never really subscribed to the 'Just be you' talk that always circulates around this topic, because, at that age, there really isn't an idea of self. I think it's better to strive for the 'better you.' As my friend puts it, "if you want the prince charming in your life, strive to become that prince charming." Fanciful words and life isn't always fair or ends happily ever after, but my advice to boys would be that 'everyone values different things and just chase what you value. There are people who can understand you and people who don't.' Oh and of course, 'treat women and girls like diverse people who have desires and dreams which may or may not clash with your own. They are not trophies, dolls, or prizes. They are people with their own ideologies. Respect that.' Oh, and watch this video.
@shafiau4146
@shafiau4146 7 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@natalia-rd2ow
@natalia-rd2ow 10 жыл бұрын
I'm not a guy, buy i watch this to know my enemies tactics
@robertofontiglia4148
@robertofontiglia4148 5 жыл бұрын
wait... what ?
@benjaminkirbytennyson386
@benjaminkirbytennyson386 3 жыл бұрын
Natalia, you gay?
@quarter-lifecrisis5127
@quarter-lifecrisis5127 2 жыл бұрын
im gay but i watch this for...fun(i guess)
@Davidn1
@Davidn1 9 жыл бұрын
I would like to think I am watching this purely for entertainment. Let me repeat, I would *"Like to."*
@clare5223
@clare5223 7 жыл бұрын
+
@emmaharvey3332
@emmaharvey3332 10 жыл бұрын
I am a professional nerd girl and i approve this message
@brennasterling594
@brennasterling594 10 жыл бұрын
How to make girls like you???? Emma is there something you haven't told me???? :)
@astronics
@astronics 2 жыл бұрын
7 years later...... Hi
@MrJamhamm
@MrJamhamm 8 жыл бұрын
"new KZbinrs....Wheezywaiter" whoah
@ClimbaRock5
@ClimbaRock5 5 жыл бұрын
+
@bigboy8187
@bigboy8187 4 жыл бұрын
+
@maiameow8769
@maiameow8769 9 жыл бұрын
BECOME A PUPPY. Wish I could, truly I do....
@patrickaaroncraig9239
@patrickaaroncraig9239 9 жыл бұрын
Dear Other Nerds, How To : Pick Up Nerd Girls 1) go to the bookstore 2) bring money and a pen or sharpie 3) find a cute girl who is looking at a book 4) buy her the book she is looking at 5) write your number in the inside of the book Good luck!
@phoebeturner2760
@phoebeturner2760 8 жыл бұрын
I would honestly just throw the paper away, or just not call. Maybe it's just me
@ye3s146
@ye3s146 8 жыл бұрын
"At least girls not named bella" - hilarious
@appleslover
@appleslover 4 жыл бұрын
What did he mean by that? Is that a character of one of his books or something?
@vojtechspinler6363
@vojtechspinler6363 4 жыл бұрын
@@appleslover Bella from Twilight lol
@applesauce_anonymous
@applesauce_anonymous 10 жыл бұрын
if you want a nerd girl, go to a library or bookstore wearing fandom apparel. they will come
@globypants6057
@globypants6057 10 жыл бұрын
YES. This is the truest statement I've ever seen on KZbin.
@sandhiyaann2533
@sandhiyaann2533 6 жыл бұрын
Heck id strike up a convo with a guy if he was clearly a fanboy, unfortunately I have yet to meet someone of the sort.
@ed-xq5jd
@ed-xq5jd 5 жыл бұрын
*we will come and throw in a few fandom references too
@JohnSmith-cg3cv
@JohnSmith-cg3cv Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, nine years late but, what is this magical "fandom apparel" you speak of and how may I go about acquiring it?
@b_delta9725
@b_delta9725 Жыл бұрын
@@JohnSmith-cg3cv same man i wear the same three shirts all the time, i need advice from fandom apparel experts
@sl1pg8r
@sl1pg8r 12 жыл бұрын
I kept expecting to hear, "1.21 GIGAWATTS!" with that hair dude. ;)
@danielbody6051
@danielbody6051 8 жыл бұрын
He says its Tuesday March 11th and yet this video was released on March 10th! John Green is a time traveler confirmed! Or I live in New Zealand... that is also a viable option.
@sophiaruizuvalle2523
@sophiaruizuvalle2523 8 жыл бұрын
neh, john green travels time, iluminatti confirmed
@ZoeG2099
@ZoeG2099 10 жыл бұрын
did anyone else notice that his hair was kind of styled at the beginning and then formed into his trademark puff later in the video
@BlueMidnightWolf24
@BlueMidnightWolf24 9 жыл бұрын
I realize this is an old vid, but here are my tips on girls: Be yourself Go after a girl with common interests Avoid girls with nothing in common with you (aka most preps/"hot girls") Talk to girls about common interests Don't be super clingy Try not to get too self-conscious, a lot of "flaws" guys see (insert gender roles here) girls either like, don't mind, or want Sex is not the goal Sex is not the goal Actually, this whole list can be reversed and work for any person towards any person. The most important thing is to look for common elements. I.e. My girlfriend of 5 years and I got together after 2-3 years of talking about anime, manga and video games. I mean we became friends after talking about manga.
@estherlarisa
@estherlarisa 8 жыл бұрын
Girls named Bella.
@GenJotsu
@GenJotsu 7 жыл бұрын
Why do girls like cute things? Because they worry less about getting killed by said cute thing.
@GenJotsu
@GenJotsu 7 жыл бұрын
Safety, #1 priority.
@lordofudead
@lordofudead 10 жыл бұрын
your hair is amazing.....I want it.
@3DMGamingukf
@3DMGamingukf 9 жыл бұрын
Me to
@jasmeenmalhotra2225
@jasmeenmalhotra2225 3 жыл бұрын
Oh man there's nothing like vintage vlogbrothers. I love this stuff. Youthful excitable sincere warm witty youthful did I mention YOUTHFUL John.
@Kirit3
@Kirit3 11 жыл бұрын
Agree so much for the obsessed thing warning system. It's actually pretty scary when a person you think is a friend calls you at 4 in the morning and is outside your door because they want to see you. Can't look at him in the eye anymore.
@the1exnay
@the1exnay 10 жыл бұрын
oh when he said hot youtubers i thought he meant physically attractive...
@robertofontiglia4148
@robertofontiglia4148 5 жыл бұрын
Still WheezyWaiter... :p
@oreverlayer8974
@oreverlayer8974 8 жыл бұрын
I'm sure a lot of it has to do with fininding someone who you're compatable with. It's hard to make someone like you're just not what they're looking for. One of the first things you should do includes finding out what you have in common, what they they're looking for, and what they're like. If you find that you're not what they're looking for, don't push a romantic relationship that includes you pretending to be something you're not (that's a horrible way to start a relationship). You shouldn't be showering them in complements or start buying a lot of stuff for them. A complement every now and then that you actually mean (and aren't just saying to get that person to like you more) is fine. But, if you keep compliemting them, that doesn't make someone more interested in you, it just makes them know you're interested in them. Also, when people give shit to you, it makes you feel like you owe them something, which is also an awkward and unhealthy way to starty a relationship. Just be nice, try to have fun together, and talk to them a lot.
@Mvs1010
@Mvs1010 10 жыл бұрын
The Sidebar LOL Oh past KZbin...
@robertofontiglia4148
@robertofontiglia4148 5 жыл бұрын
Other old classics include "Click the subscribe button **points to the top right corner of the frame** ", and my personnal favourite, "Give this video five stars!".
@ihateunicorns867
@ihateunicorns867 8 жыл бұрын
Do these 5 things and people will like you: 1. Be confident 2. Be funny 3. Be respectful 4. Listen to people 5. Be kind
@henrybannerstark5841
@henrybannerstark5841 8 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but most people are assholes and refuse to give anybody a chance if they don't meet narrow visual and physical standards. If you don't look like someone, they'll never accept you no matter what you do.
@ihateunicorns867
@ihateunicorns867 8 жыл бұрын
Henry Banner Stark I don't think that is _most_ people. You can't make everyone like you, but continue being confident and kind etc. Some people need to deal with their own issues before they will accept others.
@Phoenix.Sparkles
@Phoenix.Sparkles 7 жыл бұрын
I totally agree, sadly respect isn't something you get often.
@babyzorilla
@babyzorilla 7 жыл бұрын
Be confident about what? Some people are comedic some people are serious If you deserve respect Listen but don't try to fix them Be compassionate
@ihateunicorns867
@ihateunicorns867 7 жыл бұрын
nationofmillions Confident in your decisions, views and actions. Eg. If someone changes your mind on something, be confident in the fact that you were wrong before and accept the new viewpoint knowing you are now more informed and have nothing to be ashamed of. Equally, if you disagree with someone (or everyone else there), be confident in what you think, accept that people disagree and don't feel the need to have everyone agree with you to validate your opinion.
@GranChiDude
@GranChiDude 5 жыл бұрын
"You lick their ears? I don't think that's the--at least not at first..." XD
@ysabellak9644
@ysabellak9644 10 жыл бұрын
Best way to get a girl to like you: Be yourself and don't be afraid to tell her you like her. Unless she is a popular chick then don't say. But if it is a nerdy chick then go on straight away.
@illiiilli24601
@illiiilli24601 10 жыл бұрын
scare
@TurnItOutLoudkawaii
@TurnItOutLoudkawaii 10 жыл бұрын
you barely blinked
@littlemissvampire253
@littlemissvampire253 10 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: he blinked at the exact same time you did
@lindsaymargaret1508
@lindsaymargaret1508 10 жыл бұрын
Were all those girls named Katherine, John? XD
@robertofontiglia4148
@robertofontiglia4148 5 жыл бұрын
... one of them sleeps with Hank. "Who the eff is Hank ?", you ask? Good question...
@robertofontiglia4148
@robertofontiglia4148 5 жыл бұрын
"The sidebar" -- ah... the memories... WheezyWaiter was a "new favourite".
@chewbobington
@chewbobington 15 жыл бұрын
I absolutely adore all the Twilight ambivalence flowing around your videos recently, you and Hank, together. KEEP IT UP. It makes my heart so happy it's ridiculous.
@izziebelle9744
@izziebelle9744 10 жыл бұрын
Good grammar. Use 'you're' and 'your' and things like that in the proper places, then that's definitely awesome. Also, if you're Frank Zhang, you break Chinese finger cuffs by turning into an iguana... But I guess that would tie in with the puppy or kitten thing.
@nicholass5621
@nicholass5621 6 жыл бұрын
Izzie Belle yes!!!!! I read that book!
@augustine_05
@augustine_05 3 жыл бұрын
Yess!! So glad at least someone was reminded of Frank after hearing Chinese cuffs!
@emeek63
@emeek63 8 жыл бұрын
yes but how can girls get girls to like them?
@sophiaruizuvalle2523
@sophiaruizuvalle2523 8 жыл бұрын
i dont know and im a girl with a girlfriend, no idea how i got here
@sophiaruizuvalle2523
@sophiaruizuvalle2523 7 жыл бұрын
+NotTotallyHopeless or how perfect her ex is
@Phoenix.Sparkles
@Phoenix.Sparkles 7 жыл бұрын
I want an answer on that too, I guess it's all about luck, maybe..
@mathildechristensen7981
@mathildechristensen7981 7 жыл бұрын
Become a puppy!
@emeek63
@emeek63 7 жыл бұрын
Mathilde Christensen That's a great idea!
@jessicawashington3987
@jessicawashington3987 10 жыл бұрын
You know that thing at bars where you buy her a drink do that at book stores.
@OmarZing
@OmarZing 10 жыл бұрын
but all i am is fart jokes!!!! HOW WILL GIRLS LIKE ME?!?!?!
@Codeknight3000
@Codeknight3000 10 жыл бұрын
Well, if your pic is anything to go by just start sneezing!
@jonnygadfly
@jonnygadfly 10 жыл бұрын
Women like fart jokes. They are (or used to be) pressured by society to pretend not to like fart jokes.
@OmarZing
@OmarZing 10 жыл бұрын
jonnygadfly So, there's hope for me? ;_;
@ewancartwright
@ewancartwright 10 жыл бұрын
jonnygadfly And since they were raised that way they learnt not to like fart jokes, so women don't not like fart jokes for any evolutionary reason, but because society *made* them not like fart jokes. Ah, sexism.
@OmarZing
@OmarZing 10 жыл бұрын
***** This is the internet so I need to know.... Are you a chick?
@nathanmclaughlin2777
@nathanmclaughlin2777 4 жыл бұрын
>Video Blogging Jeez, this video truly was released in 2009.
@Aveilas11
@Aveilas11 6 жыл бұрын
the "warning bells" part is so true. Guys, if you like a girl, don't like, stalk her or confess your immediate love to her if you're not close friends yet. Chances are, that love part is a bit exaggerated and she doesn't know shit about you so of course those warning bells will chime. Instead, ask her out? Friend-like? And talk about stuff you both like, etc. And don't just hunt for small talk, look like you actually want to get to know her.
@AnotherEmi
@AnotherEmi 10 жыл бұрын
Girls will like you if you're funny. If you're funny the girl will start to like you more and think you look better and better for every time she sees you. Oh, and guys that smiles every time they talk to you are just so cute! (;
@jordanhorne8600
@jordanhorne8600 9 жыл бұрын
John has it all wrong... A joke about a fart is the way to my heart. Can be used with credit to me, Jordan Horne. Feel free to put it in a book maybe, that will be turned into a movie, in which I can play a protagonist or supporting character, just a suggestion. Goodbye John I'll see you on the set.
@Volrad97
@Volrad97 8 жыл бұрын
You notice how old this video is when he mentions the sidebar
@ellajando-saul2493
@ellajando-saul2493 10 жыл бұрын
"at least girls not like Bella" Hilarious.
@maybenow9180
@maybenow9180 10 жыл бұрын
I cracked up at that part. Haha, gotta love 'em. :P
@TheShilohturtle
@TheShilohturtle 10 жыл бұрын
Will people fill the holes inside of me If I need organ donations?
@ariyellsalot8961
@ariyellsalot8961 9 жыл бұрын
As a nerd girl watching this I can say that girls definitely don't like it when guys get too clingy. Like I remember there was this boy who liked me, he tried to kiss me and I may or may not have broken his nose... One thing I find appealing in a guy is common interest. For example if girl really loves Pokemon then maybe you can learn a little about Pokemon so that you can have a conversation with her about it and not just have uncomfortable situations. Another pro tip. I know that me and a few other girls find it adorable when a guy's voice cracks for a moment, it might seem embarrassing to you, but to other nerd girls I know it is cute. Last thing. Most nerd girls do not want a guy who is only interested because of her looks.
@hithere-tn5pf
@hithere-tn5pf 9 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jamesconnolly5164
@jamesconnolly5164 9 жыл бұрын
You physically assaulted him because he misread you? Well for his sake I hope he realized you weren't worth his time. Something tells me that him punching *you* in the nose over an attempted kiss on your part would not receive eight likes.
@BinaryArmorOnline
@BinaryArmorOnline 10 жыл бұрын
A) Can't become an animal B) Haven't tried stalking C) Do see girls as people D)
@pepperjeanne1566
@pepperjeanne1566 6 жыл бұрын
Huntsman LeBaron, but still in the friendzone :/ Yup, I feel you there man xD (even if I'm a girl .-.)
@alyssabernhardt2309
@alyssabernhardt2309 5 жыл бұрын
Now you must purchase a book
@MANJYOMETHUNDER111
@MANJYOMETHUNDER111 7 жыл бұрын
THIS VIDEO IS SEVEN YEARS OLD.
@boarman55
@boarman55 3 жыл бұрын
11 years
@brendon1611
@brendon1611 10 жыл бұрын
You're becoming one of my favorite people on KZbin. Great videos dude :)
@sheepphic
@sheepphic 7 жыл бұрын
How to make nerd girls like you: Be a genuine person, and do indeed treat them like people, and don't do stupid things to try and get them to like you. This has been a thought from a male with no experience whatsoever in the field of wooing girls, and is in fact aromantic.
@rubydunn2008
@rubydunn2008 9 жыл бұрын
Ah, the days of the sidebar!
@danielledorchester9739
@danielledorchester9739 7 жыл бұрын
Wow, watching this years later after dating experience so much of this resonates. I personally have experienced that "alarm system" a lot, and seen the way many guys repress their emotions/needs until they get a significant other. So real.
@michellealvarez96
@michellealvarez96 11 жыл бұрын
Ohhhh I so do love going back and watching older videos that reference a "sidebar" for links. Reminiscing, so nice.
@kehcowan
@kehcowan 9 жыл бұрын
FALSE. I make fart jokes all the time. And ball jokes. AND I'm a girl.
@TanmayChhatbar
@TanmayChhatbar 9 жыл бұрын
Kate Co There are always exceptions.
@phoebeturner2760
@phoebeturner2760 8 жыл бұрын
Same~!
@TanmayChhatbar
@TanmayChhatbar 8 жыл бұрын
Phoebe Turner Yeah, but you're Phoebe. You're weird.
@catlover-fp5ig
@catlover-fp5ig 6 жыл бұрын
Are you a mongol? Because it seems like you're the exception!
@TheJoHeWe
@TheJoHeWe 10 жыл бұрын
'In and around Amsterdam': so like, the whole country? :)
@reereelove1998
@reereelove1998 10 жыл бұрын
Amsterdam is not a country, it is the capital city of the Netherlands. So it's like, the whole city and nearby towns
@TheJoHeWe
@TheJoHeWe 10 жыл бұрын
I know, I'm Dutch too, but Americans ideas of 'in and around' is a bigger area than we think of 'in and around'. So even in Maastricht you're 'around' Amsterdam.
@n0etic_f0x
@n0etic_f0x 11 жыл бұрын
I have to agree with the whole needy thing. Once a girl said "you have beautiful eyes" and then I said "thanks, do you wan to go get coffee" and she was all "No" so I smiled and said "okay then" and just walked away to hear "on second thought...yeah" Now I found this odd and ask what changed in those 3 seconds an her reply was. "that was a really fast response that made you come of as needy and walking away made that not so" and i said "Well your comment implied mutual attraction,so I asked"
@AlliCrumley
@AlliCrumley 10 жыл бұрын
Interesting preroll for something I have never heard of: Hey Needle! I'm going to check that out. Also, their ad was not 2 minutes long. I'm really glad you found The Yeti. But you have great advice for boys. I hope they follow it.
@shadowcat1606
@shadowcat1606 10 жыл бұрын
Question: How do i get girls to like me ? Answer: Not at all.
@NatalieAliciaNorment
@NatalieAliciaNorment Жыл бұрын
Being a nerd myself, I would rather a guy just be kind to me and cut me some slack even if I don't fit into his criteria of any ideal type, which is less than imperfect. How anyone can fit into anyone's ideal expectations is beyond my understanding. But I guess that's life and I know I'm capable of loving anyone regardless of who they are and what clique that person or more is in. As much as I admit to looking into dating alternative guys, I honestly thought it wouldn't be enough when I had a gut feeling I would date someone who wasn't really an alternative person. Also I came to a conclusion that I would end up in both a polyamorous and polygamous relationship with many people someday. So I'm gonna be okay.
@bakke601
@bakke601 10 жыл бұрын
Looking great! nice hair style John!
@ChimeraGamingUSA
@ChimeraGamingUSA 11 жыл бұрын
A preroll on a vlogbrothers video?! This is new.
@almagduenas
@almagduenas 10 жыл бұрын
YAY!! Love WheezyWaiter!!! :D
@habbo45554
@habbo45554 10 жыл бұрын
Awwwww, thats was a cute dog! :)
@hweiii
@hweiii 7 жыл бұрын
came here since I used to watch the vlogbros pre 2014 in hs and was just here for fun. realized this was posted wayyy back since he referenced the sidebar which havent existed since before a long time back. nostalgia wave hits on a side note this is quite entertaining as a vid.
@literaturegirl14
@literaturegirl14 11 жыл бұрын
John is in the ad for this video!!! So glad I watched it. Every Day sounds awesome =]
@LeBadman
@LeBadman 9 жыл бұрын
He is right about the alarm bell. "Pathways to kissing and/or salvation", hahaha that is true.
@pepperjeanne1566
@pepperjeanne1566 6 жыл бұрын
LeBadman haha! Sometimes I treat guys that way too.
@amyk6869
@amyk6869 10 жыл бұрын
I find this "advice" totally amusing.
@olivierbeaubien6578
@olivierbeaubien6578 9 жыл бұрын
Why the quotations marks ?
@amyk6869
@amyk6869 9 жыл бұрын
they imply that I don't mean advice literally (equivalent of air quotes)
@olivierbeaubien6578
@olivierbeaubien6578 9 жыл бұрын
Should have been more clear: why isn't it an advice?
@davidzbarcea2303
@davidzbarcea2303 9 жыл бұрын
Timothy Flood parler-vous*, unless you were making a joke in which case I say bravo, great joke :)
@davidzbarcea2303
@davidzbarcea2303 9 жыл бұрын
Timothy Flood No worries, sir. Have a nice day/evening.
@Z00keeper54
@Z00keeper54 11 жыл бұрын
Cool, thanks for your advice. I guess I'll find out in a few days. I knew I could go on a vlogbrothers video to get good advice.
@ClimbaRock5
@ClimbaRock5 5 жыл бұрын
Oh +1 for WheezyWaiter! I started following hos stuff after he subbed for John once and he's excellent and I love his stuff and now his wife Chyna has a channel and she just seems like 100% the coolest person on this planet and I would like to be like her when I grow up.
@HBCrigs
@HBCrigs 3 жыл бұрын
When wheezy waiter was a hot new youtuber Woah
@GeorgiaLollipop
@GeorgiaLollipop 10 жыл бұрын
I made my best friend Bella watch this.
@brennathompson3854
@brennathompson3854 6 жыл бұрын
I know this is an old video (lazy archive bingeing currently), but I can confirm that the needy warning system exists. And it is immensely helpful.
@CrayolaJr
@CrayolaJr 12 жыл бұрын
This was back before they changed the format, now it's the description box.
@PhrygianBlack
@PhrygianBlack 9 жыл бұрын
Getting a girl to like you is easy, just be yourself... as long as your not awkward or needy. Be confident... Also you should be rich. Just be smart and funny. Be charming. Oh and you gotta be fashionable, but not too clean cut. Be a bit edgy. Also don't be afraid to be a little bit of a rebel. Be talented at something like music or poetry, preferably both. Also have a good sense of hygiene. You should probably have well kept hair. No! have BEAUTIFUL hair. Learn about dieting nutrition and make sure you spend a lot of time at the gym cause ya gotta be muscular, but not too muscular. Also have really pretty eyes. Girls like blue or green eyes. Try being taller. Girls like tall guys. Your also gonna need a perfect bone structure. Am I missing anything... Oh yeah! What ever you do, don't be yourself. I've tried it... it doesn't work.
@Davidn1
@Davidn1 9 жыл бұрын
Gee, visit the moon while you're at it.
@olluman123
@olluman123 9 жыл бұрын
My face looks like horse shit......but i have blue eyes so i have that going for me :D
@KittyJellyBeanYT
@KittyJellyBeanYT 9 жыл бұрын
PhrygianBlack I wouldn't be interested in dating the guy you just described.
@fry6344
@fry6344 9 жыл бұрын
Funniest thing I've read this week. Also let me point out that you are extremely correct. Not only are we superficial creatures, but we also want the best of the best. Gotta have muscle, gotta have a chiseled face, gotta have money, oh and of course be a comedian and a saint. If I could find a guy like that I'd go gay, fuck being straight he sounds too perfect lol.
@Littlecrowfriend
@Littlecrowfriend 9 жыл бұрын
Pffff I love a man with brown eyes. That are just so deep and dark.
@tobyflint960
@tobyflint960 10 жыл бұрын
Sibebar... *Cries*
@chinnywhiskaz
@chinnywhiskaz 10 жыл бұрын
lolololololol
@KathyTrithardt
@KathyTrithardt 10 жыл бұрын
Thanks for pointing out the sexism of the question :)
@PrismaChromatic
@PrismaChromatic 10 жыл бұрын
Isn't it odd that at the 2:56 mark when you cut to a close-up shot where the puff was framed at what up until that point had been eye level that I naturally maintained "eye-contact" with the puff instead of searching the frame for your new eye location. Doesn't happen very often when you're watching someone speak but there you have it.
@Morgcorr
@Morgcorr 10 жыл бұрын
Puff levels were high.
@TheSuperCanucks
@TheSuperCanucks 7 жыл бұрын
You should blink sometimes.
@jorienvanerum1020
@jorienvanerum1020 7 жыл бұрын
okay i'm that type of person who never comments on youtube videos but i have to comment on this one. Everything this guy said in this video is so relatable!
@WolfSeril107
@WolfSeril107 8 жыл бұрын
Woah... he stops being 2009 John and becomes 2016 John for 6 seconds at 2:15. It's so weird.
@rowan3424
@rowan3424 7 жыл бұрын
"people who like fart jokes less than the rest of your friends" OH MAN oh man that's a good one that's a real funny joke XD
@TheGamingMandalorian
@TheGamingMandalorian 10 жыл бұрын
That alarm thing may explain why a girl I was awkwardly silent (almost creepy) around told my friend she was scared of me....... Now I don't have to wrack (or is it rack...) my brain to find out what I did to scare her off.
@simmang47
@simmang47 11 жыл бұрын
Well theres Crash Course. Its a series on sciences, history, and partially about literature. Both of the Vlogbrothers do it. I actually used the Chemistry and US history episodes to help study for two of my AP test.
@harlequingurls879
@harlequingurls879 9 жыл бұрын
im a girl and i can confirm this
@patlapton5805
@patlapton5805 7 жыл бұрын
While there's a lot of factors that help a relationships, there is no exact formula. It helps to be able to pay the bills, because that's less stress. It's helps to communicate, because that helps relieve stress. It helps to share interests, because that increases anti-stress. It helps to be with a partner who just works well off of your personality. However, these factors are variable, and there are many more which all add up to the lifetime of a relationship and the general happiness of it. However, a great way to create a terrible relationship is to be in one while being a train wreck of a human being. It doesn't make you a bad person, it just means you need to sort some stuff out, and while other people can help, that responsibility will usually fall mostly on you, and you can't expect a person to hang around if your not at least trying very hard to fix yourself, especially if it's still an early relationship. That person shouldn't sacrifice their happiness for yours, and vice versa. Everyone has needs. Basically, a relationship is not a cure to your ills, nor anyone else's, it's the reward you get for being complete on your own. That's a quote from somewhere, I believe.
@fingerboardNirvana7
@fingerboardNirvana7 8 жыл бұрын
John, you told us a better advice than all those Pick up artists! :)
@Sohrleas
@Sohrleas 11 жыл бұрын
That is actually very valid and good advice for all you guys out there...
@TheDarthBartus
@TheDarthBartus 11 жыл бұрын
John, your hair looks fabulous.
@theonlyzdog
@theonlyzdog 11 жыл бұрын
YES! Damn straight! Thank you, you have made my day. Someone who made the right decision, and as soon as they could. I feel some hope now.
@Anonymouscommenter8
@Anonymouscommenter8 11 жыл бұрын
There are many things that many people may never realize, it seems. Still, I'm glad that my understanding made your day better!
@StripeyFruit
@StripeyFruit 11 жыл бұрын
YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH THIS RELATES TO MY LIFE
@Scynn
@Scynn 11 жыл бұрын
it's March 11th and it was uploaded on the 10th.... John is a time lord.
@WarLarkGamer
@WarLarkGamer 10 жыл бұрын
What I got from this video was that it's a good idea to show neediness to the same extent all the time.
@An19941
@An19941 10 жыл бұрын
You guys were in the Netherlands?! Omd, I wish I found your channel before..
@Jadexfriendsforever
@Jadexfriendsforever 12 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, John. You just described my relationships in about a minute,from about 1:37 to 2:21 . AND additionally I now understand the guys' perspective. Who knew your videos could be so helpful and informative?
@jamesdonnellan93
@jamesdonnellan93 10 жыл бұрын
That dog is fantastic!
@puddyt
@puddyt 11 жыл бұрын
omg. we totally do have that warning system!
@Sarahisaherz
@Sarahisaherz 11 жыл бұрын
Love the username!
@EditsByLyra
@EditsByLyra 11 жыл бұрын
Yep, couldn't agree more.
@imdf98
@imdf98 11 жыл бұрын
Loving his hair.
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