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How to get a woman to think about you non-stop! In this video, Coach Craig and Victoria will am show you how to make a woman think about you.
It's important to understand that a relationship is built on chemistry and an emotional connection. As a man, you need to know certain behaviors to both do and NOT DO to improve the chances of facilitating that connection and energy.
If you can learn to display certain behavior and cut out mistakes, a woman is going to be blown away by that connection and how you stand out from many other men. So it's very important that you know how to behave when you are with her to build attraction and facilitate romance. Focusing on having fun, building a bond a connection with a good sense of humor and without being needy and coming on strong is very important in all stages of a relationship. Even if you've been together for years!
So this video is going to be about how to get a girl to think about you and for her to continue to think about you once you are in that stage of spending time together and now you want her to think about you!
Using these tips will help you build attraction with woman and much stronger connection. It’s often that feeling or connection that separates you from other men she is interested in.
#1 Focus on how you are in the present with a woman. What is that connection like? The connection makes the moment memorable. When you can create memorable moments, that can be sweet, or sincere, or from vulnerability, those memories come up after the date or even the relationship ends
#2 Being present mindful and playful. If you can stay attuned to your partner and their experiences they will feel a stronger bond to you. Often times if you are playful surrounding what is going on in the present moment, the laughs and play will lead to a stronger bond. Don’t tease partner on things they are sensitive with. Everyone has their own insecurities.
#3 When you are present, be sure there are moments where you are able to let guard down, be vulnerable, be yourself. Taking social risks. Playful and humorous. Show her you don’t take yourself too seriously. That you can laugh at experiences and even at yourself if need be.
#4 If you’re afraid to be alone, you’ll be afraid to mess up. And not be yourself. So you have to work through your insecurities. Working on yourself and having a secure attachment style goes a LONG WAY. Very few of the men she dates will be secure and confident. Eliminating as many insecurities as you can will make a huge difference. Craig’s The Knowledge Workbooks and Creative Healing Course an excellent resource for this
#5 Make mundane things memorable. We all have day to day tasks that aren’t fun. But if you can make these times fun, it really keeps the energy in the connection alive. Especially in long term relationships. Don’t just go to the grocery store. Have a good time on a trip to grocery store
Watching how great stand up comedians look at life differently can teach you some skills on how to do that.
#6 Show social awareness. You need to be able to “read the room”. Think about how others are engaging with you and her. She’s going to pay attention to how you interact others( her family and friends) Little things matter (especially if she doesn’t know you) so don’t be rude to waiter (regardless if you are on a date or not)
#7 Don’t be too available or look eager. If you value yourself, your life and your time, you will not want to look like you are willing to give up your time (particularly with someone you don’t really know) Too much too soon feels uncomfortable! Your insecurities will make you come on too strong and overcompensate. This is why you really need to work on having a secure attachment style. Check out Craig’s The Knowledge products to help you!
#8 Give space for wonder and mystery. Trying to fuse too quickly loses magic and mystery. Whether you like it or not… people do like the mystery and chase in the initial stages of attraction. We may want to know if someone likes us right away… but often that is just a turn off that makes you feel like they weren’t a challenge. Which people are really drawn to.
#9 Slow is better. You need to take your time getting to know someone. You shouldn’t be talking about marriage and kids after knowing someonf for 3 months! You want to allow time and space. Let them slowly incorporate you into each other’s lives. It will give the relationship more stability to last a long time!
People will not forget how you make them feel. The healthier you get, the easier these things will be to do. You will come across as more secure and confident, and will set you apart from others
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