How to Get rid of a BAD Neighbor

[@gaz0463]

Sounds like he’s only had to deal with half reasonable neighbours. The real problem comes when your neighbour acts like a child and can not be reasoned with.

[@legalfictionnaturalfact3969]

hostile neighbors love to make stuff up to cops and call cps. and often it's your management company.

[@blue03r6]

Like mine that lets off fireworks all night long

[@homekodad7541]

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

[@homekodad7541]

@@jessl7824 I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

[@legalfictionnaturalfact3969]

@@blue03r6 wear earplugs

[@fff131313]

0:07 in the background. All the neighbors he has gotten rid of over the years

[@trishhenley4848]

This comment has me in tears 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@niwar8yearsago31]

@@trishhenley4848 same 😂

[@KiiKiiMc]

@@trishhenley4848 me too, 🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😂😂😂💯💯

[@cyrilpeter1958]

They are dead quiet, Ha Ha Ha.

[@AYouTubeChannelwithNoName]

This was deep

[@spaceshipearth999]

never tell a neighbour that you are upset because they dont care in the first place and they will know its you if you need to take drastic action. better to fix the problem in stealth mode.. i tried to rationalize with neighbours..it doesnt work.

[@sonnydelight5737]

I hear you. The gun option is of last resort, but it's a permanent solution.

[@spaceshipearth999]

@@sonnydelight5737 don't think that will work out well for you or the other side.

[@2Ryled]

Exactly. I had property surveyed and neighbor said hes gonna cont to mow my property anyway. Then a week later all the flags and metal rod pulled out.

[@DHEAD_EYE]

rat poison works

[@beaulieuc8910]

interesting point, you are right they don't care. This is what I have learned

[@madalene7724]

This solution would only work with partially reasonable neighbours. The real nasty ones would turn your gesture into a business. They would think of other ways to annoy you, knowing that you’ll pay them to be considerate. Unfortunately, some people confuse kindness for weakness.

[@barrylafratta5720]

that would be my luck

[@natejames3299]

With respect - if you come to anyone and give them $20 for *their time* - they give you respect. Clearly you haven't dealt with people in your life.

[@larrysmith2636]

note to self: don't live where other people do.

[@MrCoontwo]

I wish you well living on mars or the other planets

[@larrysmith2636]

@@MrCoontwo Good point. There's not room enough to be anywhere. Thanks for the post. Have a nice day.

[@artmyers6368]

Just get out of there. Be more and more. Neighbors. Move on like that

[@pockythememe255]

Good idea i want to try that

[@goldienakamoto7894]

@@pockythememe255 i have 20 acres and still nosy neighbors man

[@kailesancez]

You shouldn't have to pay your neighbors to be decent people.

[@dottiec7943]

Toni Franklin might be worth it.

[@juanito714ok]

There's no shortage of things I shouldn't have to pay for. It all comes down to utility.

[@MrEskiedogs]

A box of 9mm hollow point bullets cost $20 plus $500 for a reliable handgun if you don't have one so $20 ain't bad.

[@MrEskiedogs]

$60 for two years of peace and quiet is a steal unless you are someone who thrives on drama and conflict.

[@highergroundgames]

Obviously, but it's worth it to make a point.

[@itsnotthesamething]

I once had a neighbor who would turn his dog out, when he saw me outside, working in my garden. The dog would make a bee line to me, and of course, trample around in my garden. Well, my pear trees got loaded down with fruit, so I picked a pear, and threw it for the dog. She chased after it, and brought it back to me. When the neighbor seen us playing, he called his dog in, and never set her out on me again. I felt sorry for that dog.

[@donze52]

I always keep dog treats in the house and both rigs for big dogs. if plan A does not work , then home made tear gas is plan B never needed it yet, thank GOD

[@ding0925]

donze52 next to the tear gas was 1gal of gas and a bic lighter for plan "C"

[@donze52]

DW Red I pray you never need it, though you show wisdom to plan for war

[@ScottZombie]

DW Red Tape a road flare to the side of a plastic gas can to act as a time delay fuse!

[@donze52]

Scott Brown no, no play nice, we don't need those tools till the day after hopefully not even then, but never hurts to have Plan B in your mind and your blowgun close by.

[@tooge47]

Just a reminder why I prefer to live on the BACK of 38 acres adjoining a national forest, NO neighbors, much less neighbor PROBLEMS

[@cashtaylor9804]

Ikr! I grew up in the crowded burbs of Chicago. Now, I live on and own over 50 beautiful acres in Tn. #HEAVENSENT

[@bonniemagpie1552]

I just don't want to travel an hour to get a sandwich and cup of coffee.

[@tooge47]

@@bonniemagpie1552 Neither do I, I make my own

[@johnkimball5872]

You are so lucky I lose sleep all the time thinking if I pissed my neighbors off .

[@bonniemagpie1552]

@@johnkimball5872 , These days it doesn't take much to have cops at ones door.

[@texaspipeliner9432]

But you shouldn't have to pay for that.

[@donze52]

USING TREATS YOU TRAIN A PUPPY TO BE A GREAT DOG, WORKS ON PEOPLE AS WELL

[@donze52]

SPEND LITTTLE NOW, OR LOT LATER WITH LAWYERS -- BEST TO KEEP THINGS CALM-- @@Jacob-ir6zi

[@donze52]

YOU EITHER CONFRONT WITH GIFTS, CASH OR TRADE GOODS NOW OR BUCKET OF MONEY AND POSSIBLE JAIL TIME LATER- @@Jacob-ir6zi

[@usa5439]

You shouldnt have to but its super easy

[@spacelyman9482]

@@donze52 I see your point. But there are some people who are straight vicious.

[@MrEastern021]

Nope! I understand your logic, but I disagree with paying someone to do what is right.

[@alisharosey7948]

Agreed. These are not nicd people. They'd end up doing more things you hate so that they can blackmail you into paying them to stop.

[@filthyfilter2798]

Disagree as much as u like... where is your solution...

[@trishhenley4848]

@@filthyfilter2798 cameras and if that don't work beat their ass

[@beaulieuc8910]

@@alisharosey7948 yes, that could happen the humans will take advantage of you

[@rodneyleon3645]

You pay people to do what's right all the time. If they do something you like, like cook a good meal or produce a good car or an entertaining movie, you pay them.

[@Detman101]

You're a good man. I'm consumed with revenge. These idiots must pay.

[@DHEAD_EYE]

Lol

[@brkngkyl]

😂

[@lenidubelinc000]

Right!

[@hahaha9133]

Shit........... I trapped my neighbors cat and relocated that MF. Domolished my old front yard/garden , then built a new garden and their cat started to make it it’s new toilet . I didn’t hurt the damn cat just hurt my neighbor where it hurts and dropped it off 8 miles away🤣

[@homekodad7541]

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

[@exoticlady3scanines]

This works as long as the violators are sensible. If they genuinely don't care, they'll take the money or whatever offered and continue to do it or in the situation that I'm dealing with - they'll continue to have a high amount of traffic coming and going - that blast loud music from their cars at all hours of the night and early morning.

[@donze52]

living next to a trailer court for 44 years with my wife we have found drug pusher, hoods and illegals know if they keep the neighbors happy they can go about their business with much less cops at the door-- also works for most others who need wee bit of training just as you train a dog or horse to do what you want--

[@exoticlady3scanines]

Good luck with that, you've found something that works for you. Me being female and trying that with males, they will be looking for some thing sexual. I tried being cordial and that does not work. What I've found that works for me, is being stern, showing them cut and dry that I'm serious and I don't tolerate any bs, period. Three examples: 1st, a neighbor used to rent the house across the street with his "gf/baby mother" and their daughters. There was a constant stream of noise from the yelling, music from the cars, fighting, glass breaking, etc. I tried being cordial, in turn he took it as an invitation to try to openly flirt with me. 🙄 They became backyard breeders and their dogs would constantly be out roaming the neighborhood. He'd try to intentionally agitate the pit by raking a shovel over concrete in front of it and kept it wearing weights. Him and his homies would constantly try to make open passes at me. 2nd, another crappy neighbor that rented the house next door. He seemed to be friends with the wonderful neighbor that lived across and he'd partake in trying to openly make advances at me too. 🙄 At one point, he got a dog that he kept in the backyard and at some point he moved out and left the dog chained in the backyard - with no food or water. I ended up rescuing the damn dog being that animal control didn't come in the 3 days that I called. Such wonderful examples of mankind, those neighbors are - with all of their noise pollution and contributing to the other behavior along with his fellow homie across the street. The dog had been wallowing in his own fecal matter as the heavy chain had gotten tangled. Yes, great people. You cannot reason with everyone, because not everyone are civilized, some people are absolute trash and anyone that mistreats animals or kids are the most disgusting individuals. As I've observed these same low life type mistreat their kids as well, but "hey" maybe your way works for you. I choose to get them TF out of my neighborhood. 3rd, another renter, him and his ever changing "gfs" they'd sometimes argue and fight. They'd have a constant stream of guests that would come and go at all hours blasting such wonderful music from their cars. Their house sits next to the bedrooms on my home. They were shooting guns one evening. 4th, another one - a renter, as with most renters (not all), they have a temporary mindset and do not think about whomever lives around them, so most (not all) lack respect. It is supposed to be an older mother (60+) and her (30+) daughter renting that home, with the daughters kids, but they keep a steady stream of traffic at all hours that blast music from their cars, yell, hangout in the front yard. And don't get me started on the uncouth, lazy, disrespectful, trifling heathens teenage boys that hang out there. Those parents don't care about their disgusting kids as long as they can text them. So your way works for you, but it really is based on who you're dealing with and if they'll want something more from you. You being a male will have a different outcome as if you were a woman, you may not have the same outcome in dealing with idiotic, disrespectful males. And, I'd rather not coddle anyone to try to pacify bad behavior. In many instances it only begets more bad behavior.

[@donze52]

I normally do not read long comments, yours I did, and must say I give you much respect and would not want you to be my enemy with that said, I think kindness and talking should be plan (A) even if you must say at the same time--- this is what I want-- "nothing more or less from you"

[@exoticlady3scanines]

I tried talking and it has only led to constant frustration. It comes down to some people's mentality, some people are just rude and were not raised with civility. Again, your way may work for you, but that does not work for every situation. Plus I can't pretend to be cordial with anyone that lacks common respect for others. Take care.

[@guyazbell7437]

HelloMarie cops can't enforce the law either because that would mean the cops are waysist

[@courtneymacpherson5417]

This is a brilliant idea and I would love to have a neighbour like you. But unfortunately, some neighbours are just selfish, pathetic lowlife losers who believe they have the RIGHT to act the way they do (verbal abuse, dumping etc) and no amount of bargaining will make them see sense. Some people are just in a class of they're own... a very low one.

[@donze52]

at least try plan (A) before considering plan (B)

[@bonchidude]

I hear you sister!

[@19.sciencetechnology30]

Courtney Macpherson Really, youd love to have a neighbor like this fucking stupid old man? How much would you like to have this idiot as a neighbor, if you ended up with the noisy dog next to you because he bribed someone? Exactly

[@denisemezynski8014]

@@19.sciencetechnology30 Oh.....you poor lil Snowflake 😜Go cry to someone who gives a 😤 😆

[@JUDGEME5150]

I have one of those

[@dwightStones1]

When I was in my 20's I lived in an apartment with a hispanic couple who had 6 kids. Every freaking morning at 6am when the dad went to work all the kids would pound on the hood or side of the car as he drove off. Told them, told the manager, after 6 months I was out of there.

[@Crisperdad]

I love how this guy is keeping his calm for every situation. Very nice man. The kind of neighbord everyone loves! :-)

[@eltorocal]

marpa Yep, a RACIST at heart!

[@interfectus99]

Yup, the kind that you know you can get money out of as long as you keep coming up with new unwanted behavior

[@homekodad7541]

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

[@spencerfrankclayton4348]

Here from your latest video where you say you're 68 years old; I can't believe it's been ten years now!

[@bazinga0236]

Here I thought this video would have plenty of bad, nasty ideas to get at your neighbour but instead you used wisdom and love to resolve the issue. I am impressed and humbled by you. Thank you for showing me another way.

[@donze52]

BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR'S--- YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE MY FILM ( BATTLES WITHOUT VIOLENCE)

[@howabouthetruth2157]

I'll be the first to say always use DIPLOMACY at first, when dealing with bad people.......But BRIBING a bad person is WRONG. What kind of message do ya think that sends to ALL jerks?

[@rogermcm1]

It was commerce in action plain and simple

[@theelectricman2820]

Bazinga02 this is how Christians live..... 👍✌

[@chromechromosome956]

Bazinga02 You shouldn't have to pay people to treat you right and with respect. If we had stricter laws about making loud noises so close to other's homes this would not be an issue. No one should be able to make very loud noises near anyone's property. If you want to be loud savages go make the money for a large amount of land and get lost. Good laws will force people to keep it down. Freedom is not stepping on the toes of others. Civilized people do not get loud outside. Push for laws. We need more.

[@retrodog63]

Self inflicted extortion. BRILLIANT!!!

[@homekodad7541]

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

[@AngryHybridApe]

Tall fences make better neighbors. I found the best sollution to maintaining a happy neighbor relationship...SPACE BETWEEN THE HOUSES. And there cant be too much. So love thy nieghbor by making yourself remote.

[@donze52]

if it works for you fine, but the more remote neighbor feel the more likely they are to not care about what their neighbors want or need--

[@bluecollarlit]

Familiarity breeds contempt. Keep distant.

[@donze52]

thanks for comment, but we agree to disagree---

[@AngryHybridApe]

donze52 Fair enough

[@tommcdaniel2208]

You got it, 100%. But, us apartment dwellers have to be craftier.

[@narcissenot]

Bribing people to be respectful and neighborly.

[@beaulieuc8910]

It may work for a short time, and then after a while when it doesn't work, full guns blazing!

[@gratefulgal6416]

Shouldn't have to pay people to be courteous... But I digress...

[@pokerman9108]

The idea with the kids is great. He also gets to know whats going on. those kids know everything. They also don't fuck with his shit.

[@resomony]

I think most neighbours would ask for more of a payoff than what he's offerin.

[@beaulieuc8910]

true

[@thenerdydooshbags2543]

I don't think this will work for my noisy neighbors!

[@pokerman9108]

this might work. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGKZgWuko9mpp7M

[@harleyme3163]

mine will... Phantom of the Opera through my 4 19" subs.. if they dont bounce off the cieling at 140 db turn it up to 1/2... lol merantz 2000 watt amplifier (got sound sys from a banquet hall that sat over 1000 ppl lol)

[@gabhandebrun1871]

Harley Me What about your other neighbours though if you do that yr making it worse on them,

[@trevorchapman1809]

Love it! I gave my neighbor hunting rights on my land 20 years ago .he mows and plows and we are both happy with the arrangement. Get more flies with honey. Good job!

[@ReaiityCk]

Thats good advice until you get a psychopath neighbor like the one I had for 10 years. She was a miserable old retired woman who set up video cameras around her property to monitor her neighbors 24/7 and then sat at home all day and night thinking of ways to harass everyone in the neighborhood in any way she could by making false complaints to the police, fire dept. post office and local gov't and by filing frivolous lawsuits in which she would often hire homeless people and clean them up enough to appear in court and act as witnesses lying on her behalf. At one point a frustrated police officer investigating a dispute even hinted that a hit man might be the solution to everyones problem. But she finally sold her home and moved away there was a big party on the street!

[@povnw8985]

OP; I got a pair of neighbors just like that.

[@sixpackbinky]

@@povnw8985 me too and one minute they take your side on an issue , the next they cause trouble.

[@beaulieuc8910]

my narc mother is like that, lots of frivilous lawsuits

[@charleslammers9575]

donze 52 that may be fine for people who can afford to give away $20 or $40 to people who don't deserve it. But some of us are simply not in that position. You shouldn't have to pay anyone just to be decent human beings.

[@bonchidude]

He is not a bad man. He moved his dog to the other side when the first neighbor complained. He obviously cares about his dog. He is a sensible neighbor. There are not too many around. He was not paying for him to be a decent human being but rather an small incentive. It worked. This is better than getting things to degrade into chaos.

[@bonchidude]

DB Cooper, you are 1000% right!

[@OnTheAir]

We "shouldn't have to" do a lot of things we do. But if it solves the problem for you, why not?

[@truthbydesign5146]

Lol, I remembered watching this years ago when I was thinking of a solution to a problem neighbor this week. I’m living in an otherwise quiet and peaceful neighborhood for the last year, and all of a sudden the next door neighbors kids recently got an ATV/Dune Buggy - doing short circuits down my street, subjecting my house to loud engine revs every single minute for hours a day. Your solution worked wonders! The only problem, you didn’t give a tutorial on how to dispose of the bodies, so I’m flustered on what to do next!? Just kidding ;) ... I printed out my state laws re: ATV’s on public streets and tossed in a 5 dollar bill as a sign of goodwill, mailed it anonymously. No more obnoxious noise. Thanks for the tips!

[@kmott5335]

Most of us don't have money to throw away like that. We need every penny on which to survive. Decent people should not need bribing to be decent to others.

[@joecaruana5036]

Bill, you're a very smart man.

[@katedunno1230]

Smart fella

[@donze52]

thanks for watching, you might also enjoy my film ( boy that stopped a general )

[@infotube6335]

Yeah that sounds good but my neighbors purposely insult me through my walls and I feel like I can't do anything about it

[@shadowmink888]

THIS GUY IS A WISE MAN. HE SHOULD BE RUNNING THE COUNTRY.

[@donze52]

thanks for watching and kind words, for sure we would be giving tax dollars over seas and it would be legal to buy prescription drugs from Canada along so many common sense mind sets. keep safe

[@animadvesion8297]

Hmmmm, interesting idea. Bribe the enemy. Spend a few million giving them something they want instead of billions waging war.

[@wanderingtravels2488]

As my father use to say “Catch more flies with honey Than you do vinegar” I’ve learnt this lesson and you would be interesting to learn from good sir. I use to own a trailer park and you are 100% correct. It’s amazing what a $5 pizza can accomplish also. Thank you for sharing

[@donze52]

thank for comment and wisdom you wrote, I am an old ranch hand/ wife and I lived next to this trailer court for 44 years, raised our family here-- have yet to run into folks that wee bit of cash or treats got them to see it my way--

[@joeninety4740]

I had a crazy female neighbour. We lived in flats. She would slam the main doors loudly and terrorise the block. Nobody challenged her. It was left to me. I OUT CRAZIED her. Laughing maniacally and goading her, till she lost it and attacked my home with a hammer. Luckily a neighbour had witnessed her and I saw through the keyhole as she smashed my door glass. I told the council, if it's my SKULL next, i'll sue. They moved her.

[@stevetorres76]

God bless Mr Bill ... the world would be a much better place with more men like him in it.

[@AngryHybridApe]

steve torres But ...wasnt Mr. Bill always getting beat up by ringmaster Sluggo?

[@inspectorsteve2287]

the ppl I have a problem with don't care about money. they just don't care about anything. they just want to do anything they want they even break the law a lot.

[@pcking2008]

Wow, not sure were you all live but here in the Bay Area, CA USA if you have a barking dog all we have to do is call the 1 800 number and they will get a warning. If the dog does not stop. They will be fined. If it persists then the dog will be removed. All anonymously done here, no hard feelings, costs no money.

[@whatadollslife]

I had my older bicycle stolen and then two night later I saw a 20 year old guy riding my pink girls bike downtown ...I went up to him and said ..that's my bike ,I'll give you $20 dollars for it back …..but if you don't take that offer and I see that bike downtown again I will make sure you cannot ride it ...He didn't give my bike back for the $20 ...so the next time,a couple of days later, I saw that bike locked to a pole downtown I superglued EVERY single screw and nut on that bike ,seat,wheels gears ect..and HIS lock …..nobody could move that bike or steal any part of it for over 3 years and the city finally cut the pole down when they did road work redesigning that block , and threw the bike away …..yea I still didn't get my bike ,but every day I walked past that bike I knew I had given that guy a chance to do the right thing and he had to look at that bike every day too ..sometimes ,the situation is a balance ,not a clear win, so I think I know what you are talking about

[@RiffRaffMama.]

Superglue? Superglue is removable with acetone - easily purchased from any supermarket. If someone wanted to, they could quite easily have removed your bike, no worries, including yourself - because it's not like you couldn't have cut that lock off. Three years? Superglue doesn't weather well. 6 months and it would have dried and cracked and become useless, again making your bike perfectly movable. I don't know what you're trying to achieve here with your story, but I call bullshit.

[@marsflee3815]

Let the thief find some acetone and start putting it on the pink bike he loves so much. (It's not going to happen)

[@JR-lk8fe]

keep serial numbers on all equipment, etc. Put it in the stolen property report to the police. Give the guy a choice. either give the bike back or go to jail. You could also make the guy an offer he can't refuse. I would rather get the bike back instead of spending $20 on Super Glue.

[@thiery572]

@@JR-lk8fe But how can she find the bike or the thief?

[@yolandarivera6872]

Not bad at all for a girl. So it proves that the thief was not that smart after all.

[@davisironworks]

"If you ever once pay the danegeld, you never are rid of the Dane" Bribing people to be left alone is a stupid idea.

[@donze52]

do not know what that word means, but been training bulls for decades to be calm with treats, find treats with folks as well---

[@myozbubble]

Your point is proven wrong by this very video.

[@foggyozarkgal348]

thank you! "g" has a problem with God and America too it seems huh

[@emmettanderson6680]

emmett|

[@dylanhenderson7992]

My god i feel sorry for that wee man. the ones accepting his money need a good kick up their arse

[@pj081505]

It sounds smart to have peace but if you continue paying people to be civil some may see it as a weakness and may exploit you by inflating the price.

[@donze52]

been a ranch hand now for 43 years with my wife-- training bulls to be calm by using treats-- works for people as well --

[@bonchidude]

Peter, they can do that and get nothing further. Because if they even think of doing that, then they get nothing. Or very little. simple yes

[@shawndonald78]

There's a peaceful disconcerting way about you, I believe you just freaked him out.

[@donze52]

see my film ( 101 shooting for non shooters ) on donze52 channel

[@shawndonald78]

donze52 Some confusion as to your recommendations intent and any implication, if existing.

[@shawndonald78]

donze52 My comment was ment to be complimentary. My meaning being, a person should more wary of a man with a calm demeanor rather than a loud mouth tough guy.

[@helenhighwater5313]

"Walk softly and carry a big stick", I think Confucius may have said that. The good book says "a soft answer turneth away wrath". The down side of giving money is the next thing is the person may demand regular payments for ongoing dog control.

[@donze52]

Never in 43 years has anyone demanded more, not saying it wont happen-- but used as a training tool just like on the ranch training 1,500 pound bulls to stay calms means they and I area safer--

[@garulusglandarius6126]

I like this guy, maybe not all of his ideas work but he’s really trying to avoid a neighbour war. Fair play and good luck to him 👍🇬🇧🇺🇸

[@donze52]

your very kind- now married 49 years and still there with few troubles- you stay safe and healthy

[@pasa186]

He makes it seem so easy. This was brilliant

[@donze52]

I am just an old ranch 62 years old. been on ranch for 41 years. see my film ( how to handle cattle and people ) on donze52 channel

[@homekodad7541]

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

[@lekkki1]

This is so funny, and awesome. Thanks donze.

[@donze52]

you might also enjoy my film ( battles without violence ) on of course donze52 channel-- keep safe

[@rwiiiw7335]

A fool and his money, are soon parted. Bribing people not to be jerks? - What a stupid idea.

[@donze52]

ranch hand does not make much money after 44 years on the job, still I use treats to train 1,500 pound bulls to be calmer and it works on people, maybe even you sir

[@beaulieuc8910]

It is worth trying out new tacticsd and seeing what happens

[@vegavega5344]

It's just a shame that you have to pay people to act like decent human beings, anyone with more than two brain cells will know that your neighbour probably won't like your dog barking outside their bedroom window in the morning. It's just lack of common curtesy tbh.

[@davidklein1667]

You can also do what the new manager of a Unimart did that had a 'teenagers ' problem. Nothing seemed to work til he arrived...and played Barry Manilow on their outdoor speakers!

[@TheMentalRelapse]

He handled the situation with the neighbor brilliantly!

[@donze52]

thanks for watching, and yep worked for my wife and I for 41 years next to this trailer court of course there was Plan B and Even C but they were never needed hard for people to be mean when you give gifts but the price of war is so much more in dollars and for your soul see my short film ( battles without violence ) on donze52

[@TheMentalRelapse]

You handled that situation perfectly, and with your method you difuse all the tension and anger. I think you would make a damn good hostage negotiator!

[@donze52]

TheMentalRelapse it is said by Law Enforcement that Mr. Bill has stopped more fights in McCook than any cop nope not a cop, nor teacher nor preacher but on the streets for 32 year as Mr. Bill puts me in the right place at the right time. you might like my short film ( 101 shooting for non shooters ) on donze52

[@TheMentalRelapse]

Ill definately check the film out.Thanks for posting!

[@BitsOfThisNThat]

I like how you handled it. Worked and there were no problems. Good thinking.

[@sjames9005]

Always keep in mind that reasoning can only go so far, as you cannot reason with an idiot.

[@isabellamorgan7026]

Exactly like my sister once said you can't reason with the Devil

[@TomahawkTom]

ANSWER: Move to trailer park that's next to a grave yard. Nailed it.

[@donze52]

not as bad as it sounds, when first married we bought a home on the outskirts of town, yep next to a trailer court on one side and Cemetery on the other, neither side bothered us and life was so good at $2 a hour wage we could save money every month. no more with the dollar dying and our elected acting like Dictators.

[@TomahawkTom]

donze52 There you go.

[@coburnlowman]

We had a kid that drove past our kids walking up the rd too close and too fast. He didn't wanna listen but after he couldn't keep his car running for more than a mile or two at a time he had more time to listen on foot. It's amazing what knowledge of basic auto mechanics are worth.

[@1980bwc]

Phil Lowman I like your style sir! lol. I can think of alot of things to do to put a stop to a bad neighbor without giving them money.

[@Customwinder1]

Phil Lowman Well played.

[@jmallett6081]

I am not a fan of rewarding bad behavior. Maybe it depends on the situation.

[@donze52]

wisdom you write, still if a puppy is bad, a training is faster with treats, a bad neighbor is little more than a puppy mindset. untrained to care about others you can help them that may last for the rest of their lives. if it fails there is always plan B

[@jmallett6081]

So if I hear you correctly, give a pit bull a treat for being in a dog fight, treat him and he'll learn faster. What is the treat for really? Behavior doesn't reward wrong behavior continuously, don't treat, then the dog will think, oh, behave bad, no treat,, do I really want the treat, let's rethink why I receive. If humans don't think, monster dog.

[@donze52]

J Mallett you speak wisdom, a dog or a man can be trained to be bad or good. Training with treats only makes it a game and puppies and people enjoy games. good behavior can be trained. see my short film ( battles without violence )

[@rickclines2909]

He didn't reward bad behavior. He rewarded good behavior.

[@jmallett6081]

Rick Clines Maybe it depends on perspective, of course.

[@markwatson9349]

I would love to have you as my neighbor. Peaceful solutions to problems are possible and most of the time lead to mutual respect between the parties involved. To many times though the first instinct is to be the bull in the china shop which only makes matters worse and harder to resolve. Thank you for taking the time to post this. You are a true role model and I hope all those that see this video will stop and think if and when they find themselves in such a situation.

[@tildyvena5682]

Not every neighbor dog issue is this cut n dried, very few actually. Some people only respond if you show you won't be bullied and are willing to go to similar lengths in order to make them as uncomfortable as they have made you.

[@timberkrev7978]

Tildy Vena 100% agree and would love to here your story.

[@ohwell2790]

It has always amazed me that the owner of a dog will listen to their dog bark all day and it does not seem to bother them. They will defend the mutt not matter what. And, when you complain, you are the problem. Then when they need some help who's door do they knock on, YOURS.

[@A2Z1Two3]

I have several 'bad neighbours' all with dogs, every morning they let their dogs out into their gardens before they go to work. As soon as one dog goes out, it barks to call to see what other dogs are out in their gardens, before long they are all barking at each other. It settles down after a while, but by then I am already disturbed. I am retired and I looked forward to not be having to wake up at 6 am, but that dream has been ruined. Should I go round 5 or 6 neighbours and ask them all to get up earlier to take their dogs out for a proper walk, and then offer them money to do it, I think not. I might get one or two to do it, but I would not be able to afford to pay them all, even if they were all in agreement. This plan therefore has limitations, so I am happy to listen to affordable solutions? ( I have moved my bedroom to the back of the house and use earplugs, but when they all join in it's really noisy, and I still get disturbed) I don't have a dog ( although I like them) as I measured the negatives of dog ownership as outweighing the positives, but why should I,and others , suffer the negatives of others' dogs?

[@patrickguitar8676]

Tildy Vena I like that notion

[@henryjones4812]

I recently retired and moved in to a somewhat rural area with a small cluster of homes (5 or 6). I have a bully neighbor who tells me what to do with my property, has been disrespectful on numerous occasions, and apparently views my kindness as a weakness. I don’t feel a need to be nasty and I really wish the best for the guy, however, being disrespected (and in my opinion abused) is not acceptable. I got him to stop his unacceptable behavior in a passive way....I found out that he put his fence illegally on our property line before we bought the property. I told another neighbor (she is the neighborhood gossiper) about this , his disrespectfulness, and my solution of putting up my own fence that he definitely wouldn’t have liked. As weeks came and went with out our usual impromptu ‘neighborly’ talks, we finally made eye contact as we were cutting our grass. I looked at him--he stared at me--I stared back without hesitation or change of expression. This exchange happened several more times in which it was obvious that I was creating and welcoming these situations. Now...he’s like a little puppy dog with his tail between his legs. Basically it was like punching a bully in his mouth but in a passive way.

[@melaniexoxo]

People with dogs should be keeping them in the house. Well-trained dogs should be just fine. I agree completely. Its better to be friendly and work things out as much as you possibly can than try to bully people

[@lawrencegoralski3029]

bigger dogs have to be outside for exercise and personal space

[@jdsparks100]

+Steev Don then spend time with the dog. Walks, fetch ect a

[@lawrencegoralski3029]

jdsparks100 oh, of course

[@lawrencegoralski3029]

***** 6 pm is a little early to stop

[@lawrencegoralski3029]

***** I see

[@uchibauki2515]

My neighbor is a police and he has no respect to the neighborhood, play music super loud and hanging out with annoying friends in the garage also park his cars everywhere!

[@donze52]

bully with a badge is very dangerous -- do not want him an enemy-- he could easily plant drug on your place and you go away for 20 years-- with that said, off him small things-- garden produce? or perhaps odd tools for his shop? things to get on his good graces, might just come out and say, ( you owe me nothing, but I got your back) if someone does something to your place when your gone, I will tell you-- that may go a long way

[@uchibauki2515]

donze52 thanks for the advice :-)

[@gigiw.7650]

+donze52 Home baking works really well, I've found. Even boxed brownies!

[@donze52]

brownies are a great tool of learning for sure including a plan A in troubled neighborhoods

[@vulgardisplayoftruth2060]

Did it work?

[@jakecurrie0]

lol you are such a genuine kind man. I was looking for answers more along the lines of silent terror. Like in your situation feeding the dog antifreeze would be my go to. Thanks for the video

[@degrelleholt6314]

Someone write the Vatican. This fellow deserves sainthood.

[@donze52]

+Degrelle Holt No thank you, just an old ranch hand with my wife for 43 years that use treats and wee bit of cash to train neighbors what their parents forgot to teach them.

[@degrelleholt6314]

+donze52 I understand. But I must say, the world needs more old ranch hands.

[@lesterpace5625]

Degrelle Holt and alot of young ones too

[@me5768]

I had a neighbor that played loud music and had lots of parties I eventually went over and just joined the party After being there a while I told my neighbor that I had to go home and get some sleep he turned the music down and has never been unreasonable about Since we get along just fine

[@marsthecat6771]

Blessed are the peacemakers.

[@homekodad7541]

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

[@trevorschmitt2006]

I don't trust our neighbor. I broke his window one time and I was told to do a little work for him to pay for the window. "Little work" he made me mow his lawn, trim his bushes, rake leaves, clean his gutters, dig a ditch for a new water line, wash all 4 of his cars daily, and walk his dogs everyday for weeks. I got hurt a couple of times and all he did was stand over me and say things won't get done if I lay there crying all day.

[@MegaJohnhammond]

where's a good tornado when you need one?

[@johnjohn-k4l]

Yes tornado is good.

[@MaximusX67]

Man I'm at that weird place on KZbin again .......

[@donze52]

thanks for watching, I have many short films to enjoy like ( 101 shooting for non shooters)

[@MaximusX67]

Ha - no, you're video was actually good! It's just that I started off watching a couple of short documentaries about war, which led me to some science experiment video for some reason, which led me to a video from a guy who has built a small greenhouse in his front yard (again, not sure why/how), which then led me to an ABC News piece on 'Bad Neighbors', which finally led me to your video ..... nowhere close to where I started off at. I do this often ..... fall down the 'KZbin Rabbit Hole' and binge watch hours of videos that, by t he end, have nothing to do with where I began.

[@donze52]

would warn you to be careful as there are many traps that look ok, till you get into them, just saying keep safe, watch your back

[@kentuckywomen8305]

You put a smile on this face Maximus!Like your sense of humor too.

[@jasonhritz8757]

You're definitely a great problem solver.

[@donze52]

thanks for kind words you might like my short film ( Battles without Violence )

[@kimu4885]

donze5

[@lorineilson7529]

You shouldn’t have to pay for peace and quiet. That’s why we pay taxes so animal control can handle it.

[@prissynonee1999]

get a clue, I understand where you are coming from...but most nasty neighbors wont be bought off bc they just don't give a damn

[@stevebutler812]

I'm not sure you understand his approach. He handed him the $20 in order to get the guy to listen to him, and also made it very clear he did not have to do anything. To get a person to listen to you with an open mind is not easy, and I'm a professional in mental health. His approach is very elegant. There is a form of therapy known as Cognitive-Behavioral, but it's all about change. This approach changed the dog-owner's behavior, but his initial offer of the $20 just to listen got the neighbor to listen from a perspective of willingness to actually hear what he was saying. It was risky, in that the neighbor could have treated him even worse, assuming he was an idiot who is throwing money away. But, it was worth the risk, and it's hard for most normal people to treat someone badly if they have a good feeling towards that person. Hence, when some person walks up to you and hands you $20 for just listening to them, it's going to be more difficult for the dog owner to just ignore the guy. It wasn't about buying him off as much as getting the person to listen / hear his problem, and change his attitude towards his neighbor.

[@prissynonee1999]

what you are calling cognitive behavior, or more importantly bribery for good behavior will only work for those who are willing to have their behavior modified...where I am coming from, forced to deal with the savages of the denizen 24/7...proof can be seen on my channel. I fully understand his approach, but good neighbor policy can't be bought w/ savages, they only return with more negative behavior expecting, or demanding payment...aka welfare system is based on this ideology but gone haywire, rife w/ corruption. Btw, never cared for Skinner and his outmoded sadistic theories of conditioning and has been proven wrong w/ the advances evolutionary biology, nuerobiology & nueropsychology.

[@-_-Code-_-]

judging by your videos you need to find a hobby.

[@donze52]

I have 150,000 views a month on my donze52 channel, think most would call that a hobby-- might check out my 600 short films--

[@ricks.1318]

Wise man ....... But it is like PAYING A RANSOM to the instigators

[@noevilea8370]

+Rick S. Yeah but as he says it could have been way more expensive if other options had been tried including the police.

[@sundevilification]

+Rick S. 25 dollar people can always afford 1 dollar types. Wisdom is priceless.

[@123ertr]

+Rick S. you made me laugh. if you pay ransom to terrorists they win .

[@sundevilification]

"God's justice doesn't sleep forever." Thomas Jefferson.

[@donze52]

+sundevilification -- old tom was a very wise man-- unlike the bunch running the nation today--

[@Cindy-su9vz]

Like your thinking... But... some neighbors are "impossible" to deal with!

[@donze52]

never know until you try, many ways to skin a cat is an old saying-- so getting along with bad neighbors may be a challenge but am sure your up to it-- good luck

[@mewyattt]

I think I'll move next to this guy with a laundry list of bad habits and quit my job. ;)

[@BrookNBones]

Wonderful advice that everyone should listen to. Then when that doesn't work, set them out on a bed of fire ants slathered in honey! lol

[@michaelbeauman9766]

in other words you're telling us to kiss their asses bill?

[@milliondollaroptions]

You said the neighbor's trailer was a rental. Better idea is to buy the trailer, then you can pick your neighbors...AND... charge them rent.

[@thiery572]

That's another good idea.

[@filthyfilter2798]

aaaaahahahahahahahaha good one :D

[@davinatest8467]

Good move ...really good negotiation skills ...I’m going to try it...❤️thank you

[@bignitalian2]

dude, if you ever run for any kind of office, you have my vote.

[@hazenloy3608]

You're sweet Mr Bill! As long as you could afford it and we're happy doing this and it worked out for you that's cool! You probably had a bunch of happy nieghbors that became good friends.☺

[@joemilton1231]

you are a smart man ... more people should be like you

[@johndoe9450]

More people should reward bad behavior?

[@broken4303]

they should.

[@ironmanmachine]

He's actually rewarding good behavior.

[@johndoe9450]

No he's actually not. His other neighbours who has been behaving good at all times does not get rewarded.

[@donze52]

everyone in my neighbor hood gets free food from my garden, grow normally 1,000 pounds of tomatoes and many other crops sir and more than enough to give away

[@RiotSmurf]

Guy: *holds gun with finger on the trigger* me: *waiting for it to accidentally go off*

[@marktwainwood2363]

I bought my neighbors a gallon if wiskey waited till they got drunk. Call the cops on drunks raising hell. Cut there music up max and watched. Problems solved.

[@cutiepie2353]

Genius!

[@terrimiller908]

You shouldn't have to pay people to do the right thing very sad

[@donze52]

you train cattle to be calm-- once trained, they and you are safer for the effort-- works for people as well--

[@BlondeExplorer1]

MOST people can not be trained and they are already set in their hateful ways.......like my Mom's neighbors!

[@keywestcatlady]

No, but its better than living with a feud going on.

[@kirstamlew]

The moral of the story... reward bad behaviour... SO WRONG!

[@donze52]

if a puppy is doing something wrong and you use treats to reward them it that wrong?-- if your child proves a good deed giving them then a treat is that wrong? Even God offers gifts if we do right down here on EARTH

[@79sartu]

Alexander: You are definitely RIGHT! Peace and Quietness is my Right! When I'm home , I want peace and quiet. Your home is your castle, regardless of where you live. I had some neighbors shoot fireworks all through the night, past 12 am as well as after 2:am. The neighbor across the street was someone that I knew; so I got up because I couldn't sleep, went to my door and hollered to them that they needed to go inside. They didn't. I got up after time passed, got dressed and went there, woman in her thirties, her male friend, her 11 year old son, and OMG her 3 year old daughter still shooting fireworks. She stated to me we are going in in a little while. I didn't get any sleep that night and had to be at work the following morning at 8:am. I had developed a tension headache that lasted all day! When I got home that evening which was the next day; I worked in my yard tying up and removing small branches, weeds, vines and other cuttings., I was constantly jumping every time that a firecracker that was shot. When I finished ; I went to the house across the street that was shooting them. Two teenaged girls were the culprits. I told them that they needed to go inside. I informed them that I wasn't going to listen to that noise tonight, which was after 9pm. They continued and I called the P.O. P.,O. finally came after I called a Sergeant. P.O. , too kindly informed them that they really weren't supposed to be shooting fireworks . Culprits mammy and her lover came out, got nasty, talked nasty to me because I wanted them to know that I was SICK and TIRED of their continued noise. P.O. left and they went back to shooting them. I called P. O. again and the officer gave them an example affidavit of DISTURBING the PEACE and informed them that I would file charges if their noise continued. SO FAR, IT HAS BEEN PEACEFUL!!!!!! I intend to do some more things with GOOD NEIGHBORS to make this the norm as well as other issues being addressed, heard, executed and resolved !!!!!

[@muskietime]

I listened to you….it Worked! Good Neighbor across the street installed a Wind Chime that was crazy noisy! It drove me crazy. I went over to her house, rang the doorbell and she came to the door. I said these Girl Scout Cookies are for you but I would like to ask a favor from you? She declined the cookies with a gracious attitude and I explained that the Wind Chimes are really bothering me. She apologized and immediately took the Wind Chimes down and thanked me for coming over to ask her about the problem. THANK YOU MR. BILL. I have since used your tip a number of times and shared your knowledge with Family Members and Friends. It is amazing what $20 or something simple can get a positive outcome from others. I apologize that it took me 12 years to let you know of your success in teaching me. God Bless you and your Family. Be well. You Sir, have made a positive difference to many. Bravo.

[@AllSeeingAnus]

Does the Bible teach people to pay money to avoid trouble?

[@courtneyhall7140]

sounds like you should have kept your money , and moved to a nicer neighborhood.

[@maddumass]

Plus one could have bad neighbors anywhere. Think he dealt with the ones he faced pretty good.

[@JohnDoe-mp1zk]

because more are to follow for sure. remember he had those Mexican kids.

[@Tony-hx2fj]

there are assholes everywhere

[@rogermcm1]

what would have been politically correct for him to say? Hispanic,Latino?????

[@gordonmcconnell4527]

we visited downtown Memphis, Tn. the year dallas mavericks won championship. There seemed to be beggars everywhere. one followed us cellphone in hand to beg money frim us.My mother in laws birthday, my wife and son with me. I rarely give money to beggars, I told him no, leave us alone. He was a black dude. Most all of the cops I had seen our 2 days were also black. He wouldnt leave us alone. we had to walk 1 half mile to the parking garage.I wanted to whip his ass but I knew the black cops would throw me in jail if I did. So we just kept walking. Finally He stopped following us. I shared this story with a friend back home and he said when beggars approach him he gives them $1 and then asks if he can take their picture. He said it always works. The man who paid his neighbor a deposit of $20 and another $40 later had 1 and half years of good sleep with no barkink dog. Congrats, if you r reading. Money well spent. and you didnt have pay any dines or spend 1 day in jail😀

[@Kris_Stiletto]

Very cool... Awesome thoughts... :)

[@Kris_Stiletto]

Mr. Bill has some cool ways of handling things... :)

[@SA-ud9nf]

You're hilarious. I laughed so hard but you also make sense. Thanks for the tips.

[@donze52]

have many short films ( some 14 million views ) so enjoy and keep safe & healthy

[@homekodad7541]

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

[@RepentB4TooLate]

My Mexican neighbors feed me great tasty food and cold cervezas!.. I'm happy in Tennessee 🤓✌

[@orthodox1173]

Sell out

[@eerice704]

Fuck out of here with those cringe emojis

[@lascartasdegabriel29]

Wise man! Wish I had a Job so I can give to my inconsiderate neighbor's.

[@homekodad7541]

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

[@JesseLockeHere2Do]

Wise Mr Bill.

[@donze52]

bless you for watching and giving a kind word perhaps you'd like my short film ( William Tell then and now )

[@almaspencer3397]

donze52 thats good thinking Mr Bill . But in my case how to deal with neighbors that dont want to talk they are avoiding me and they are trying to do everything to pest me .They are destroying my property everything outside my house clear to my roof .What is your suggestions for me to do .Thanks

[@donze52]

karen Smith first cameras show what they are doing around your property, once confronted by your lawyer, with leave me alone or cops will put you in jail. is one option, clearly though if there is danger, weigh your options you have many

[@almaspencer3397]

donze52 What is the options ?move?I love my house.But i hate them

[@donze52]

karen Smith moving is last of the last options there are many books on the subject, I do not deal on the darker side. first try peaceful attempts, if that fails. start with find the books.

[@justinhopper5941]

This guy is smart. You get more bees with honey so you speak.. On the flip side there certain types of neighbours that can’t be talked down. They thrive on drama and live for starting it with people because they hate their own lives. Telling them you are annoyed about what they are doing can be the worse thing you can do sometimes. From my experience this type of person will usually “shoot them-self in the foot” somehow if you ignore them long enough.

[@isabellamorgan7026]

True

[@thejohnlocke]

Great idea but doesn't always work. A neighbor of ours took the $50 and kept being nasty.

[@johnborowski4985]

John Locke Claim that on your Taxes! MYBE you'll get it back ! It's worth a try !

[@kentuckywomen8305]

Oh my God! You have some ill-breed neighbors Mr.Locke! Time to get nasty yourself. Its on.

[@thiery572]

If I were you, I'd come back and offered him 1,000. But I lied. If he took the bait, then I'd ignore him.

[@officialclownbusiness7788]

Try it again, but with fake money. Once they accept the money, report them for counterfeiting. They can't bother you from federal prison.

[@fredonions2523]

This man is being very clever, I have done a similar thing in the past, it can work and doesn't cost that much really to get peace of mind, it's well worth it.

[@mrssmurf55]

Your a very smart gentleman well done genius!!

[@donze52]

better to spend little now rather than a lot later with lawyers or another way we train a puppy so he will be a good dog, it also works to train nieghbors

[@mrssmurf55]

The world needs more people like you!!

[@donze52]

Ann marie White thanks for kind words, bet you also fight the dark side keep safe, and healthy

[@crenee2007]

I ❤️ your great advice. Thanks Mr. Bill May God richly bless your family

[@eliaschevette]

The back of my yard ends on a home and a cul-de-sac. The people living on that house used to dump beer cans onto my yard when they had parties. I was getting tired of it but I'm to busy to do something about it. About two months ago one of their rabbits escape and my dog started to chase it on my yard. I grab my dog and gave them permission to catch the rabbit. In the past two months they had at least 5 big parties and I haven't found another beer can. Sometimes they just need to put a friendly face on that big fence to stop the bad behavior.

[@donze52]

well done, well said, better to be at peace, than at war that never ends you might like my film Battles without Violence

[@eliaschevette]

I'll check it out. Where can I find it?

[@donze52]

David Quintana my channel ( donze52 ) Battles without Violence or you might like my short film ( If I was the first Black President )

[@itzgangstabob]

i wished people would throw beer cans into my yard i would appreciate that since i would crush them put them into a bag & make a little money

[@donze52]

itzgangstabob I made a short film on making money called ( hard cash for Kids ) or another one is ( How to make $12,800 from a pepper plant ) both on donze52

[@LetsTalk649]

Your a good neighbor buddy. Wish you were my neighbor.

[@donze52]

+Bret Hines you'd never go hungry sir--

[@OneAngryLittleFucer]

You are a smart man. We need more people like you.

[@joydove1892]

Lived in Raleigh, NC next door to a renter. She had two BiG yapping dogs. Could not use my back deck because of their constant barking. Asked that she move them to other side of yard or take them inside for awhile. Her response....”they are dogs, they are supposed to bark”. TAPE RECORDED them. Next grill on our deck.. with yapping dogs....set tape recorder next to fence... full volume...so friggin dogs were barking at themselves. Three minutes... her damned dogs were inside. Mission accomplished. . Try it.... it works....

[@davidspin581]

Man, those are some good ideas. Problem is I aint paying people to act respectful.

[@donze52]

David Spennachio for 42 years wife and I don't pay for respect but rather use it as a training tool forpeople who's parents forgot to teach that. not a forever thing, just for training and it works so far for us.

[@davidspin581]

I'm with you on the parents not educating, but to me, I'd have a hard time with your style.

[@donze52]

David Spennachio my plus 500 short films I have made are only giving options to live by.see my film ( Nobody wants him ) on donze52

[@davidspin581]

I watched "Nobody Wanted Him" not sure why you directed me your story. But you have an interesting channel, so I subscribed.

[@donze52]

David Spennachio was just showing you a wee bit of why I lived my life the way I doyou might like my short film ( Under ground banking)

[@Gatos-hy]

You are abiding to a common sense rule: avoid antagonism. No matter how mean the other part is.

[@paranoid1944]

Alfredo Harvey Mac Kissack .

[@MrMemyselfandi415]

Mr. Bill seems like a cool guy who knows how to deal with all kinds of people, and he makes a VERY good point. Sadly this just goes to show everyone has an angle. It also shows that if you want to be successful in life you have to give people a reason to value you. If you have something someone wants they're a slave to you...and the level of that slavery is based on HOW MUCH they need it. Just ask the guy dying of thirst on an island next to another guy with the last glass of water. The more you an leverage things in your direction the better you'll be because the easiest way for someone to get what they need is what they'll do. If they have no need of you or what you can provide they'll do what THEY Want..and most of the time it's not what you want. That's humans for ya. Now that I've done all the mental psychology on this vid, what's really interesting about this video is how normal it seems to have this many problems, and more specifically, these KINDS of problems. Shouldn't a normal life be without them for the majority of time? Or is that just my perspective from living a somewhat charmed life? I certainly don't deal with any of them, but then again I live in a nice area with cool people for the most part. But whatever.

[@donze52]

+MrMemyselfandi415 thanks for comment, I have found though I have less trouble with neighbors than some of my well to do friends living on the rich side of McCook with rich bad neighbor. Trick is to give them a reason to do what you want without making them feel forced or used. -- see my film ( battles without violence ) on donze52

[@MrMemyselfandi415]

+donze52 That was a good video, but all of your videos are interesting to watch. But you're exactly right. "The trick is to give them a reason to do what you want them to do without making them feel forced or used". Motivators...money...power....sex....ego. It's a lot of manipulation and I have a hard time looking at the world through that lens all the time, but it is smart. The thing is..you do that long enough you start to get jaded. But....it is the way things are. As for your other video...you said something to that young man about him having sex with his father in return for what he said to you .....but the thing is...that could have led to a nasty violent scene if it had been with the wrong person. So although I appreciate you using your words to try and work the situation out, I still don't see how that wouldn't simply escalate the situation into more trouble. I guess it depends on the person and the situation....the people around etc. You seem like a happy guy though, and that's not a very common thing to see these days. God bless.

[@donze52]

+MrMemyselfandi415 -- the youth blasted my mother so I returned it, with his friend there, they made fun of him and the battle was lost for him hoping I would show anger or curse him. words can be a deadly weapon, and can destroy or they can save you but I never forget I will have to answer for everyone, and might even be sent to HELL. I remember the passage ( many will say Lord, Lord-- he will say I never knew you

[@MrMemyselfandi415]

+donze52 That's the hard part. How do you live as Jesus commanded..by being gentle as doves and wise as serpents? It's not easy. Glad it worked out for you. I have a feeling it will continue to..because you mean well and you're disarming which goes a LONG ways in this world. Diffusing a situation is a real talent lots of people would do well to learn. I'd do well to perfect it as well.

[@donze52]

+MrMemyselfandi415 --- on the street for 32 years -- year round sunshine, rain or snow I have seen much and lost some battles to the Demons but always learning what works and what does not, always tomorrow is a new day and gift from GOD

[@rustymack100]

I love this!!! I had some TERRIBLE neighbors years ago who just might have gone for a deal like this. I tried many times to talk to them about the loud music at 2 to 3:00 in the morning, to no avail. It was in a trailer park and their power meter was on the same pole with mine. One night at about 3:30, the music had been booming extra loud for over an hour. I went out and shut off their power and went back into my house with no response to their angry screaming. After a few minutes their power came back on but no music. From that point on there was never a problem with their music again. Also they were very friendly to me when they would see me outside, and there was never a mention of that night.