HOW TO IDENTIFY DARK EMPATH FAMILY TRAITS? |Psychotherapy Crash Course

Dark Empath family members who are manipulating, premeditating, and triangulating are hard to live with because everything they do ends up hurting you.
In most families, the thought that a family member could be evil or downright sabatoging of you and of themselves is ery hard to consider.
Some families think they have manipulative and uncaring family members who they may believe are not always aware of what they do. And still some family members may believe the individual is "traumatized" or "smart" because of how they engage in family relationships.
But the reality is that dark empath family members exploit based on the wrong concept of who they are.
Their only intent is to stay on top of other family members and control the dynamic as much as they can with emotions, awareness of other's emotions, and calculating maneuvers.
In this video, I discuss the reality of the dark empath family member.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 intro
01:13 the family predator's traits
02:32 the 3 important personality traits
03:06 cognitive and affective empathy
04:55 therapists may miss this...
05:55 behaviors you will see in them the most
06:50 confusing behaviors of the dark empath
07:41 an 11 year old dark empath
08:50 their moral disengagement
09:35 their dominance & entitlement
10:00 the deficits in social-emotional connections
10:49 their fantasy of relationships
11:24 their calculating behaviors
12:07 their unrealistic self-evaluations
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[@TherapistTamaraHill]

The harm and pain these dark empath family memebers case is unbelieveable. It's an interesting video but let me remind you, it's VERY VERY real. I've seen the damage it causes. I'm still shocked.

[@Satoru_gojo_sixeyes]

What kind of damage are we talking about

[@kathyadair8552]

Me, too. I'm out my entire inheritance, which all 3, ²Red and ¹Blue sucked it All, all their Live's. Then, 2 lawyers, for 7 Year's, in Probate. Because he was caught stealing $$$$$ from the Estate. Not too smart! Death threats against me. They killed Mom and my sister! Injured me on All planes - and assaulted Mom, & Lost her Home! The lies to LE, may've given me a 2nd Stroke. Upon getting the 1st. FOIA Back. Some kind of aphasia took out my Speech. Then, my Writing ability 5 Month's later, after the worst of AMNESIA was over. Then, it was writing. Dysgraphia. My 💔 surprisingly was not permanently damaged. At the 6 month Mark, once my 62 YEARS of "known Hx," 💥 very slowly came back. - 3-3.5 Years in, it was so shattered. My speech is still messed up, under Duress. But, it took out my writing ability, too. Along with some dyscalculia. Numbers are scrambled. The educational Troll, with 5 Year's worth of research in. This is Writing REHAB. I'll say at least several $Million. For the 2 illegal imprisonments, $16 to $25M. Too bad they don't have anything to go after. A Sleep Clinic is next.

[@LADYDIVAful]

I know a few people like this; I’ve learned they’re NOT GOOD PEOPLE. I tried to understand them and work around their sickness, but I only experienced disappointments. I CUT THEM OFF COMPLETELY! Thanks for sharing!

[@nowiknowanarcor2197]

Sadly this is what I dealt with from 2013 until today with a Sister in law . She denied all her evil and flipped it on me. She is still trying to torment me and I don’t even live in her state anymore. I’m getting stronger and healing. This is what made me begin studying this. She’s the Covert. They become obsessed with their target and they want to torment and play games forever. The games never end and they will never admit what they said or did. Never.

[@sirrantsalott]

Hahahah hahaha my mother - I knew it - so glad I cut contact. The laughter isn’t jovial, it’s a laughter of recognition…sad recognition.

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

I'm sorry. That's a tough reality.

[@Scene68]

Everything you have mentioned; I can identify in my own life with a few family members. Why anyone would waste their energy trying to make you miserable is extremely bizarre, and personally, they need to be institutionalized to get that necessary help they refuse to seek for themselves.

[@AdamantlyAdams]

The good news is today that game doesn't work here anymore. I know exactly what I was dealing with in my family. My mother is a predator. ❤

[@alethiasingleton3109]

Thank you for explaining what a dark empath is I thought it was a person that got hurt from another person and would go to end's of the earth to get the one that hurt them back

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

You're welcome!!

[@halimomoremoney1292]

I think I just realised my sister has been my bully my whole life and as the older sister I was told to treat her better because she the younger one and I need to show better but after last week I realised I can't do it anymore and she is beyond evil and is spoiled 31 year old who refuse to grow up! But my parents allowed this and I carried on with it even after having kids and she being mean to them and me! NO one ever talks about sisters doing this

[@citizenkang2524]

My drawbridge stays up for dark empaths. It takes dire strategy to break through my earthworks of no contact, no narcissist supply.

[@Germinalx]

Absolutely brilliant. Imagine being this learned, this competent with your words and on such insanely difficult ideas? I am very impressed.

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Thank you! 😊

[@truth4utoda]

Yep! Yep! Me too for several years. 😅

[@truth4utoda]

This was so good. Thank you for your consistent good work without bias. L9ve the music too.😅

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Thank you so much!! 🤭 Glad this was helpful.

[@AveriesMiranda]

I always wonder why and how people develop these traits.

[@shanayafreesoul-official9879]

So true there is no ethics at all but they change as soon as you realise it or call it out

[@makaylahollywood3677]

Yes, they cause trouble for everyone.

[@ztg73]

Thanks for this it's really helpful! 🙏

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Glad it was helpful to you! You're welcome and thank you.

[@LeelaLemonhead]

Thank you for talking about this ❤

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

yes, you're welcome! And thanks for watching!

[@sh6460]

The lying sounds like my ex. Dark empath sounds like my parent.

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Lying is a very damaging trait these individuals have.

[@Cathain78]

Generally, we don’t want to cause you any trouble or pain. Sure manipulation is probably going to occur on a regular basis but it’s usually benign. If someone is relentlessly attacking you for no good reason then chances are it’s a Narcissist or some other Cluster B type PD.

[@marcie3022]

My whole family (4 sisters) including their children hated one another never and after my grandparents died they turned against eachother and took the inheritance.. my mom wants me to forgive some of the family members that threatened us .. there so opposite of who i am there so much of resent and hatred towards eachother ..i refused not to my boundaries are there to protect me now .. new to your channel

[@Cathain78]

As a DE I would say we are capable of affective empathy. It’s probably developed more over time but I definitely can relate and feel other peoples emotions. Not all the time but it’s there. It can sometimes be switched off though if I feel it’s necessary to do so.

[@fairygurl9269]

🕯

[@knucklesOne]

I've had such a journey in my life, I've come to realize that some people with these symptoms are real hard to deal with and difficult to communicate with. I also know not to label humans right off the back because i of no expertise should never diagnose anybody of any disorder although i can see the telling signs, i note to self and i keep away from triggering anybody rather they're right or wrong. I have a question: what if these people of close relations don't even know they're of such kind? They may know what they think of and how they perform their actions, but they don't necessarily know they've lived in a mental capsule of their own malicious perceptions: how do we communicate or work with them without making them feel accused or making it worse for us?

[@shanayafreesoul-official9879]

Yes so true i feel i was just a pawn for their chess boards it was multiple chess boards

[@queenoftemplar]

❤

[@shirleyvasquez6553]

Can someone who was physically abused by a drug addict narcissist become this?

[@betanialacoste7945]

Bingo

[@cherolpoole7286]

Donald Trum!

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

🙈🙉🙊

[@derindasmith7449]

They sound like a narcissist......my dad .